I Don't Do This Anymore | Lessons I learned The Hard Way | Life Over 60 | Sandra Hart

[@lynnepierson2549]

I love this advice!!! No more people pleasing, no listening to others about what to do, stop living in the past, learn from mistakes, learn to let go, stop worrying, think twice, appreciate your life!!!

[@jan-christinejohnson5256]

Lynne, thanks for taking notes :-) Have a Good Week.

[@deborahpellerito6117]

Thank you Lynne❤

[@kcloveonaleash]

Thank you for this! Timing couldn't be more perfect. 69 and suddenly almost retired ( clients pass away or move) Your Vlogs will be my blueprint for my next chapter--- so glad I found your channel 2 weeks ago🙄. I am a worrier!

[@rosiej1942]

@@kcloveonaleash Hi I am a worrier also. It's hard to stop being a worrier because we all worry about different things. None of us have the same worries.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thanks so much Lynne

[@maryannscott5567]

I am starting over alone at 66 with an income of $1000/mo since my partner of 6 years has decided to end our relationship. I'll be turning to your channel frequently for strength and wisdom. You're my big spiritual sister. 😀

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Mary Ann, Best of strength and happiness to you. You can move forward and have a great chapter ahead.

[@EC-yd9yv]

💙🙏

[@sandrawright8109]

It's better to have peace of mind and freedom to be you rather than money from someone in a broken relationship. Well done you for taking action...even though they ended it I'm sure you were living on egg shells for a while

[@juliafisher5844]

@@sandrawright8109 I don't think she needed anyone for money she says she has $1k pm income of her own

[@juliafisher5844]

I'm a similar age and just ended 5 Yr relationship so now single ! Although this was my decision any relationship needs both people 100% in or it's no good. This chanel is Amazing ! Good luck xx

[@monicamiller9345]

I’m a 33 year old single mom. My husband left us in January. I’m so thankful I can learn from you early on before my life passes me by even more! I still feel quite rejected by my husband, but I’m trying to move forward and not stay in the past, just as you mentioned. Thank you!

[@jan-christinejohnson5256]

Monica, there are plenty of good people in this world. I have been left too more times than I care to remember. But we cannot hate the person. Gravitate to good people and have a quick assessment on whether they have good character or "a bad apple".

[@juliehoot3916]

Don't feel rejected! What happened to you has happened to lots of us! The FLAW is in HIM not you! Love EVERY precious moment with your children and don't waste ONE MORE MINUTE on emotions concerning him! IMO!

[@louiseparisotto3630]

Wishing you all the best as your days, weeks, months and years progress on your own terms! I'm sorry, I don't like it when others tell you not to feel rejected because if that is your feeling, it's your feeling/emotion. I do think you've found a friend in Sandra though for her wisdom is amazing and you will gain a lot of knowledge from her. Many of us are rooting for you and others in like-minded situations.

[@martna1]

@@juliehoot3916 I've had to fight not to feel this way too. I'm 70 now and mine left me 4 years ago, after 28 years of marriage.

[@lorettas4443]

All the best, Monica, onward and upward!

[@cherylelliott2711]

I am 66 years old. I do know what to do! I have a disabled daughter living with me, & I know life goes on. Thank you so much for your words, such truth 🍁🍂🍁

[@lnix2433]

My dear Ms. Sandra, I cannot tell you how I needed to hear this today. Thank you so much for being a channel of joy and inspiration to us all; while at the same time keeping it real. Blessings to you!

[@lifewithsandrahart]

You are so kind. Thank you

[@susanalsembach6026]

Sandra, your channel is a breath of fresh air! I’m 50 with two almost adult kids, and I find that in the last few years, I’ve able to find myself again and loving every moment of it!!! Especially as I love spending time with them and my husband :)

[@peggybaggenstoss3817]

Great information. I’m 69, when I was about 35 I stopped people pleasing. I felt guilty for a while until I read “ I feel guilty when I say NO”. A great book to help overcome people pleasing, enabling and co- dependent behavior.

[@lissa2046]

I just turned 35 and I'm going through this now. I definitely need to read that book

[@littlelilone9693]

This channel is such a warm and cozy space. Thank you for the sunlight and poetry. I felt anxious before watching, not now, not at all. Watching felt like slow deep breaths of fresh air. Much love.

[@mhopi9744]

So sweet ❤️

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thanks for being here

[@wildflowerwind6941]

That is a great way to explain it.

[@DashniMorad]

Exactly warm and cozy

[@cathyandresiak1975]

Great wisdom, life is too short to obsess over everything. I love listening to older people and what they have learned over the years . Thank You so much, I needed this today!

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thanks Cathy

[@INSIDEBEAUTYwiththeoldgirl]

Hi Sandra, you are spot on with every point. Why does it take us so many years to learn these things? I know I was close to 60 or may be a little beyond when I finally saw this in my own life.I guess the closer we get to those golden years we realize what really matters in life and what doesn’t and we don’t wanna waste any precious time. Thank you for a wonderful video! Love and blessings, Sheila

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Shelia, It’s so true, isn’t it?! Life has to happen before we get smart!!😊

[@sandrawright8109]

This is so true I'm 60now and I am changing daily ...I'm always trying to make other peoples lives better but you can't so I'm concentrating on me for a change.its liberating to say no when I always said yes but meant no.....my partner looks shocked that I don't go along with everything he says anymore....I love the new me...also a Sandra!

[@mbtvalli]

Same here. I’m 65 and life experience has put many things in their proper perspective. Thanks for the wonderful video, Sandra. Great hearing you tell it like it is!👏🌺😉

[@mulaloratshidaho4073]

Thank you Sandra, im a new subscriber from South Africa, it's really refreshing to have the older generation on youtube sharing their own life experiences for us to learn. Keep it up.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Welcome! So great to have you here. I have been to your beautiful South Africa and hope I can visit again someday!

[@charmainephasoana6850]

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[@carolroberts8296]

I am 58, and I am now starting to learn all the points you have mentioned. I can not stress to those who are young, please please....do not let people tell you what to do with your life, listen to your gut instinct and think twice before making decisions (especially life changing ones) and live your own life, without envying someone else's. I am now having to learn painfully the hard way. I would also like to add is to set boundaries on what or what you will tolerate from others to never mistreat you. Things I wish I knew when I was younger.

[@dyoung2739]

Thanks for your wisdom, Sandra. I made the difficult decision to cut ties with my toxic in-laws years ago. Best decision I ever made. I never thought that I’d be 59 and moving on alone. It’s scary but my peace of mind is priceless.

[@lindaring7939]

Thank you, Sandra! My mother and I were cutting fabric yesterday, and she said, "Measure twice, cut once." That goes for thinking, too, I guess. Think twice, decide once? I just discovered your videos recently, and I was looking forward to seeing you today. My favorite part today was the advice to live your own life, not to chase someone else's life b/c that one is already taken! What you share is valuable to me. See you next week!

[@peroanderson5429]

Hello Linda How you doing today?

[@katherinejohnson8705]

Your positivity comes through all the items on your “don’t-list”. Thank you for these life skills reminders! 😊💕

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thanks Katherine

[@peroanderson5429]

Hello Katherine How you doing today?

[@karenrouth2056]

Oh my goodness dearest Sandra! For 19 months life has been not great!! You are an Angel sent to me at this time! Your wisdom, gentleness and compassion is extraordinary… I Bless you and also I send my love to both you and Arthur - with gratitude 🙏❤️🙏

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Hang in there Karen! You can do it!

[@catherinenarvaez8420]

Good morning Sandra, excellent message this Tuesday morning.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thanks so much Catherine

[@stargold3632]

Love You Sandra Hart You Are Such An Inspiration For All Ages. You Are So Beautiful Inside Out An Amazing Person. Love Whatever You Say As It Applies To All. Learnt So Much Of Wisdom From You. You Are A Pure Soul And We In Our Family Love You. You Are A Guiding Light A Beacon Of Light Whatever You Say Are Golden Words. Please Take Care Of Yourself Beautiful Sandra Hart God Bless You And Your Family Amen 🙏🏻.

[@mypinklife3415]

Great advice Sandra.I appreciate your videos. A special lady who is a mentor in my life once told me "Say less than you know and show less than you own." I pondered those words and started applying them and have found that advice to be very helpful.

[@betho.3542]

Sandra, thank you again and again for starting another day with positive thoughts, beautiful pictures and your relaxed way!

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you

[@justmaria5806]

Good morning to you Sandra! I finally taught myself a new mental exercise. I developed this exercise for use every time I look back and start the what ifs or maybe I should haves. I envision a pair of strong but gentle hands that take my head and return it ever so gently to a forward position. I even hear this voice that says "STOP; you can't move forward and make the choices you need to do when you are looking at the past." In the meantime, thank you ever so much for the topics you share. Look how much they mean to so many people.

[@kd.9631]

Golden words,so lucky to have watched this,so kind of you to share,Love you lots ,God bless.

[@iooo6549]

thank you so much! After two months I'm gonna be 14 years old I am so excited for this I want to try new things and to achieve my goals You give me a lot of the positive energy Thank you again for your advice

[@nan-ban3891]

Oh my God, Sandra, you have only the obligation to please yourself. My granddaughter is not even smart enough to tell me what to do, hell, she hasn't even lived long enough, I mean she's been an adult for only about 6 years. But, she thinks she knows it all. Thank you for this video.

[@robbins2973]

I have learnt these the hard way as well, at 27. But sometimes we just need someone to remind us of the things we know, right? 🥰 Thank you so much Sandra, your vitality and mindset are so inspiring. I wish you the best!

[@Soulflowz]

Much Love & Positivity Sandra … Always pray for Peace 🙏🏾

[@mahine1877]

Thank you Sandra, totally I agree with you , I have been there, done that. Great advices.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thanks so much

[@pavithraherath4664]

Each and every word of yours is a real eye opener. Thanks so much for your words of wisdom dearest Sandra.

[@eyerusm721]

Well noted, Just Wow all ur advice are really important u raising good ideas.... God bless 🙌more!

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thanks so much

[@dzovigounjian6372]

Beautiful!❤ Thank you Sandra.🙏🌹

[@charlimejia6368]

Learning from your mistakes help us to grow.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

It does doesn’t it!

[@perezlourdes8223]

Sandra, what great advice! I protect my peace.. everything you said is so true! At 65, I appreciate ALL in my life. You add warmth and a cozy home for my soul l Love you

[@heatherwhittaker6169]

Thank you Sandra.Your messages seem to appear just when I need them most Bless you xx

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thanks Heather.

[@DashniMorad]

I listen to you every night before bed while I take off my makeup. Thank you for your advice, warmth, friendship and love

[@claudiascott6484]

Hi Sandra. I love your hair and blouse. Thank you for the great advice. It is so self defeating to envy another person's lifestyle. I think we all can admit to being tempted to do this. Thank you for the lovely chat my Sister. 🥰

[@deborahmartin1432]

These are all so true. I stopped pleasing everyone. Yes learned from mistakes and let it go.

[@suewilson6034]

Thank you Sandra, always a pleasure to tune in to your channel. I am guilty of living in the past, because there's so much of it and although much of it was horrendous, it's familiar, and the unknown scares the he'll out of me.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

It’s natural, but we can only live for today!!

[@peroanderson5429]

Hello Sue How you doing today?

[@ayanismail624]

I am in my late 40s, I came cross and pay attention of your channel for the first time, you are an amazing being, I loved it . Thank you.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Welcome. I hope you will come back often!

[@gloriamariadealmeidasoares8830]

Love to listen to you, Sandra. Lots of love from Brazil🥰🌻

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Love back to you

[@beccaturner8834]

I'm 38 and adore this channel. Your advice is so wise and I am so thankful that I found you. Have a beautiful day 💗

[@lynnepierson2549]

Hello -I am so happy to see that you have shared another video!❤

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thanks so much

[@margarethayes9888]

You just a lovely human being. Thank you for your thoughtful videos.

[@janisfafalios7184]

It took me a long time of giving all my time and energy to try and make my family happy. I do like giving to my family but finally it dawned on me that I count too. Self care is not selfish. Thanks for the conversation Sandra.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

So true. Thanks

[@vivstyle87]

Thank you so much for the wonderful advice. Decades ago, I used to be a people pleaser and wants everybody to be happy. Even on time when I don’t have something to give, I’ll make a way just to help them, sometimes I barrow money just to give it to them when they ask me and they need it and I don’t know why I can’t say no. Until one day I woke up where in my problems were bigger than I am, maybe that is what I attracted in my life for being a people pleaser in more than decade. Now I realized I need to think and love myself first, because no matter how good you think you are to other people, it will never be enough for them.

[@barcalonga]

Super advice, Sandra! I grew up with my Silent Generation mother’s mantra: “make yourself indispensable to everyone ”, which was a recipe for so much unhappiness. Thank you🥰you are my heroine!

[@heatherwhittaker6169]

❤...so good to hear this.. You are a best friend to so many of us Sandra just by sharing..God bless.

[@j.h.431]

Found your channel today and I love it. Thank you for all your wisdom! I loved the video about healthy food as I'm trying to change my diet atm

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Welcome! So great to have you

[@barbarapipes7420]

This was my birthday present today. Thanks, Sandra.

[@gisella2104]

Hi Sandra I hope you and Arthur are well. Thank you for this video, I totally agree with everything you said. I certainly try not to do most of those things but a reminder from you is exactly what I needed. Thank you so much again and sending love 🙏💕

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thanks for watching and being here

[@annwatson2149]

Great points in this talk. I find that avoiding g too much mainstream news and media can help you stay in the moment and not get uptight about things that are totally out of our control. Choose only the positive support that you can find. Sandra you are a fine example of that positive input. Keep it up please ❤

[@maxineboxer9714]

This was a breath of fresh air, thank you. Just what I needed to hear, when I needed it. You have such a sincere way of saying things, you are an angel.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thanks Maxine

[@Valerie-gn1rr]

Yes, and I would add "keep it simple"! Thank you again for another lovely video, which has allowed me to slow down for a few minutes, while drinking my coffee. Take care.

[@antoinette8519]

My clinically diagnosed narcissistic adult son is an emotional abuser like his father was (my ex-husband). My adult son had appointed himself "my boss" after my divorce from his father and he like his father made my life an emotional misery until I decided to put a stop to his abuse. I am done with people pleasing and allowing others to run my life. Thank you for your wonderful video Sandra!

[@gabrielelivingston2442]

Sometimes we as parents want to be our children’s friends , and we try so hard to entertain them and make them happy. Your son was so used to it that he knew exactly what to say or do to put you on a guilt trip. Tell him you wish him well and let him live his own life, you have done your job. Keep your door open if he truly needs you but let him know that you are your own boss

[@yungplex9503]

Narcissistic personality disorder, NPD, has been excluded as a diagnostic category and independent personality disorder type in the Personality and Personality Disorder Work Group's recent proposal for DSM-5 Personality and Personality Disorders.

[@manuelawiederkehr9167]

❤ so true.

[@mariellegrant6248]

Thank you so much Sandra , for such wise advice! I am not young: 70 years old... but you are a perfect guide for me! And Also: you look so beautiful, and the gorgeous cuschion with the green bird is the same colour as your eyes !🌹🙏❤

[@DonnellaDelHollywood]

Love this because its like you were speaking to me with regards to "worry" and learning from past. I needed to hear it and you said it so clear. I just turned 70 last month, single now for over 27 years and I've been afraid of just about everything including romantic relationships. Living alone is has been difficult and theres the financial hardship, especially over the past few years. I was worried if I had a significant other they would take advantage of my people pleasing weakness and try to control my life so I just remain single for so long I don't know if I could do things differently now. I still attract interest from men who seem nice but I still don't know much about recognizing a good partner. You triggered a question within me, "What did I learn?"❣💞

[@lifewithsandrahart]

We often have to ask ourselves that question

[@DonnellaDelHollywood]

@@lifewithsandrahart 💞

[@arlenehutchinson9259]

🙌🏾❤ Do not fly by the seat of your pants Love this Yes I've been burnt out, burnt up and burned to a crisp 😅 because of this. THANK YOU

[@lindadainard7629]

Sandra, you are such a blessing, thankyou for sharing your advice. You are such an inspiration for this recently widowed 76 year old who struggles with coping with being alone.

[@lorettas4443]

Good luck to you, Linda

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Linda, it takes time, but you will adjust to your new life. Reach out to family and friends if they are nearby or other widowed women. It helps to share.

[@Smchoki5036]

Yes u maybe alone but Jesus is with you dear

[@vickibazter3446]

You're beautiful inside and out. Thanks for giving of yourself and your wisdom. It is of great help and support. You have a lot to offer. 🌼 🌸 🌻

[@heatherinparis]

Hi Sandra....thanks for today's video, I think these are points that we women need to hear at many points in our lives. I have been a worrier all of my adult life (I'm about to turn 74) and have no idea how to break that well worn path. I agree with your point that worry is useless because it doesn't change anything but HOW can a person get out of that rut?

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Practice!!! And faith.

[@jan-christinejohnson5256]

I learned to acknowledge my weaknesses first. This is the first step for change. Plus, I pray the Lord's Prayer and the Serenity Prayer. Yes, we can Heather and community.

[@MarthaMartinez-mh8mx]

My dear I have been a people’s pleaser all my long life . I’ll be 86 years young in August . Thanks for your words.

[@louiseparisotto3630]

So many good points in this video Sandra. I always look forward to seeing you and listening to you! Have a wonderful week; sending tight hugs :)

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you

[@trudiemooy9676]

Sandra , such wisdom, thank you❣️🙋🏼‍♀️💕🌹

[@jessicamieres2696]

Love this Sandra!! Thanks for sharing. I really enjoyed the poem you read in the opening about risks. ❤️

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thanks for letting me know and watching

[@mypassions8880]

THANK YOU Sandra, i just want to say thank you for caring enough to share all these precious advices with us, advices that I respect so much, as I know you have learned from all your experiences in your life. Thank you again, and i just want to tell you how beautiful you are🌹Beautiful inside and out. 🌹 God bless you and i enjoy your videos so much i'm learning a lot and will definitely try to apply these to my life. Much love Sandra🌹❤️❤️

[@eflvin]

One of the BEST KZbin channels ever!

[@sparkleinco2035]

So good. I will have to listen to this again

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thanks so much

[@nancybrone7985]

This is so wise and I continue to struggle with changing these habits. Thank you for words of encouragement.......

[@cathyamaral9569]

Thank you so much! I’m 65 and so depressed and you are really helping me. Great topics!

[@tamathagilbert5816]

Amazing Sandra:)🙌👍🙌. 100 percent in agreement with all those points about life you shared with us:)...my acronym for this year onward is P.R.E.S.E.N.T. Peace- embrace and maintaine it; Respect-give it and stand fully in it:); Earthiness- remain grounded, exercise for healthier mind body, and spirit:); Savor-living life presently and fully appreciating every day:); Ease-being fully comfortable with being myself-letting worries go; No- the power and kindness in saying no...eliminates people pleasing; Time-getting past thinking and focusing on doing- truly making the most of every gift of the day, brings joy:)... 🙏🌸🙏

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Yes!

[@harsithakalai]

Hi Sandra, I’ve been a silent watcher for a while! I’m 20 years old, and I struggle a lot with perfectionism and people pleasing. I’m also studying computer science (male dominated) and I find myself constantly comparing myself to others. I have learned to always see the flaws in things, especially myself. I know I need to change, but it can be so scary. It’s nice to hear your reassuring voice. Have a wonderful weekend ❤️

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Please never forget that you are so worthy and deserve the best life ever. You are unique and there’s no one else like you in the whole wide world. You have special talents to give. Don’t let anyone ever make you feel ‘less than.’ Never compare yourself to other people because their lives have already been taken. You live yours and be proud

[@ligiaalloy8333]

Thank you so much for you advice, I was people pleaser for long time, but it been 5 years I'm free from that, and I feel much better, I only have fewer friends because of that,but that's ok with me,I love all your videos, you are a nice lady,and your voice is very calming and feel relaxed and peaceful to listen to you!God blessed you and your family!and hug for your little doggie!🐾I have 3 doggies that made me happy!!

[@wandaneff5833]

Hey pretty lady! I really needed that🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 Such exordinary advice. Every statement you made was correct and struck a cord with me. It really touched my heart. Please take care, be safe and happy! Lots of love xxxxxxx Wanda

[@georgemaxwell4984]

Such wisdom Sandra. ❤ - Frances

[@ElleIsForLiving]

I have never been a people pleaser. I blaze my own trail and trust God to guide me. I do learn from my mistakes - and have lots of opportunities for that lol! I appreciate life and you! I hope you are having a fabulous week. ♥ Elle

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thanks so very much Elle. It’s always good to know we never stop growing and opening our lives to possibilities. Faith is a great teacher always.

[@sandradail982]

What a pleasure it is to listen to you. God bless you!

[@carolmartin7474]

Hi Sandra 😊. Your words are sooo nourishing to the soul. Thank you very much.

[@debgilbert3206]

I appreciate you so much Sandra. You help me think and stay grounded.

[@janetstraw191]

Thank you, Sandra - you are a gem! 🙋‍♀️👏🥰💕🙏

[@englishbymrsviolet1857]

I've just found your channel and I really love it. It gives me calm and comfort in our difficult times. I really need it now, because I feel overworked and I get sicked too often. It also gives ne hope for the future!

[@joannamccraney3148]

Sandra, you are my inspiration! I just love you.

[@StefB1]

Hi Sandra, I stumbled upon your channel by accident and just wanted to say how lovely, intelligent and inspiring you are. Your videos are very warm, clever and uplifting. You seem to be a very beautiful woman, inside and out. Thank you for creating this content. Wishing you all the best from London, UK.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you so very much for letting me know and watching tonight.

[@hispanicservices9225]

Thank you dear for your advice and your time 💓

[@lifewithsandrahart]

You are most welcome

[@najatsinclair1867]

Hi Sandra, Great video. You are a Gem. Cheers🇨🇦❤️

[@lynelafreniere8178]

Love you too and take care! Love your sage and simpler life message!

[@karolmolpus9536]

"Let Go, Let God" from a dear friend

[@lifewithsandrahart]

So true!

[@marycombs6517]

I found this video this morning. It spoke to my heart about worrying. I am going through a difficult time in my life right now and l need prayers. I will try to heed your advice about not worrying.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

I am happy you got something from this video. I will be thinking of you. You are stronger than you realize. Nothing is forever and tomorrow is another day.

[@claritywest5336]

Thank you Sandra ❤

[@LindoDios]

So happy I have found your channel. Love love listening to your calm voice. Have a wonderful rest of your week.

[@julie2872]

Oh Sandra you are beautiful. Thanku so much for your wisdom. Genuine heart to share to help others. 💗

[@thegraylatte1638]

Hi Sandra!! I jumped over from Nathalie's channel (she mentioned you!!) So glad to find a channel in my age group, I will be 68 next month, mainly started a YT to connect & not get lonely as the children are all out of the home. You shared some wise tips!! Hugs!! xx Karen

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Karen, Thanks so much for coming over! I love your KZbin name! I definitely will subscribe. Nathalie is the best. When I started out 5 years ago she was already a seasoned creator. She gave me a shoutout early on and since then we have become good friends ( although she is a year older then my oldest daughter). I only wish her all good things in her life. I do hope this new direction she is going with her channel will give her the exposure she so deserves. She has so much to share. Best of luck to you and I hope you will decide to be a part of our wonderful community of caring women here from over 64 countries. We all want to live a life of purpose. Thanks again. Sandra

[@thegraylatte1638]

@@lifewithsandrahart Sandra thank you so much for your kind words!! Yes Nathalie has been so kind to me, she is a sweetheart!! Hugs!! xx Karen

[@jaciaazizjui5761]

Love you granny for your advice ❤️❤️in june 29 um step into 21 This advice just hit the spot❤️❤️stay blessed 🦋🦋

[@qiuwbr091]

“Don’t chase after someone else’s life.” That is a very good way to express an anti-jealousy message. Jealous people really want to live your life even if you can’t understand why.

[@njohnston1224]

Thankyou for your wonderful video and advice .that's absolutely so true . It gets a little complicated as we get older will do exactly this . Thanks Sandra and take great care too.🌺🌺🌷

[@audreyannmunizlorusso]

Sandra.. thank ever so much for your advice. you are amazing .. God bless you 🙏 ❤️ 🌝

[@nereidabermudez6637]

Greetings Sandra,that really is a very interesting and informative post I really appreciate it thank you for sharing may you have a pleasant day

[@deborahburroughs8905]

And we Love you! Your very helpful and have confirmed alot of things I have thought about but felt guilty to do! I'm feeling free again. Thank you.

[@susysann]

You are a treasure of a person. Thank you for your wisdom.

[@deekay7149]

Thank you for your much needed advice. I’m 51 my parents health is declining and my siblings are as well. I’m trying to care for them all plus my own household. I simply can’t please everyone and it’s breaking my heart.

[@lorenalorena7078]

It was heavan sent that I found your channel. I'm truly blessed to have stumbled Here..I will forever be a follower. You have incredible wisdom, and your life experiences can guide so many on an easier path.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thanks so very much

[@jenniferwooliscroft3299]

I love your channel, Sandra! Thank you for your excellent advice and wisdom. XO