Oh Melody - I'm so sorry you feel this way sometimes. You're an angel!
@burnttcaramel10 ай бұрын
Thanks for your kind words 😭❤
@Music4DaSol10 ай бұрын
Ah yes, seeing that Campanile. So nostalgic. Berkeley is definitely a high pressure environment. I really hated myself during my time there but I just needed a change in environment.
@burnttcaramel10 ай бұрын
Glad to hear that you're well now!
@carlwheezer27669 ай бұрын
I’m a guy but can definitely relate, I grew up overweight and a massive loser, getting bullied and having very few friends and I now I kind of struggle with feeling good enough. (Also probably doesn’t help that I work in construction and people do not hold back with criticism and constantly shit on each other jokingly). Over the past 2 years I have changed so much about myself and with every new insecurity I develop have worked as hard as possible to no longer make it true but I continue to develop more. I feel like if I’m not the most amazing, incredible, perfect person anyone and everyone has ever met then I’m not good enough.
@burnttcaramel9 ай бұрын
Omg I can totally relate to the part where you need to be perfect in every aspect or else you just don't feel good enough. I hope we can be kinder to ourselves and know that no one's perfect. And that we're loved and valued no matter what!
@random1991100410 ай бұрын
I keep getting recommended videos of cute asian ladies that are saying they are not good enough. You are ❤. I love the modest/shy lady :)
@PraiseMusicSchool11 ай бұрын
We derive a lot of our identity from the "significant other" especially if it's a person of "authority"... the words carry even more weight. There is NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU. If there is, there's something wrong WITH ALL OF US... including those of us who seems good or in authority. So glad you open up your thoughts in the KZbin channel, it will certainly benefit a lot of other young, even older people who are struggling. Stop beating yourself though, it's easier said than done. There is now NO condemnation for those _ _ _ _ _ (a scriptural verse).
@KarlAlexander9310 ай бұрын
This is a great video. I loved every second of it. I struggle with the same issues on a. Daily basis and therapy has been very helpful!!
@burnttcaramel10 ай бұрын
Thanks for your kind words! I'm glad therapy has helped you, hoping it will do the same for many others here!
@EricMoore79011 ай бұрын
Very cute!
@thonnas12311 ай бұрын
Loved this housie! You're inspiring and amazing
@alexsims239011 ай бұрын
Stop worrying about your life in comparison with others, super cutie, love yourself ❤
@MrErick116010 ай бұрын
I relate a lot to what you say. And you're really cute.
@burnttcaramel10 ай бұрын
Aww thank you!
@nekozuchi725611 ай бұрын
Might it be due to Singapore upbringing too? Cuz I see this feeling quite common in sg
@burnttcaramel11 ай бұрын
It does feel like an Asian/Singaporean thing :/ The competitive culture makes you feel like you're never good enough. Are you from Singapore?:)
@Daraponleu9 ай бұрын
Meanwhile your highest self would give you the world and hug
@burnttcaramel9 ай бұрын
🥺🥺
@Melissa-gc5hz11 ай бұрын
Girl, I checked your video because I saw a really beauty and that’s you🥺🥹😍😘
@burnttcaramel11 ай бұрын
Aww thank you, brb crying 🥺😭😍
@pm531210 ай бұрын
What are you talking about? This is video just randomly pop on my youtube home page. I click and watch due to the title and within the first 10 seconds I paused. Your cute smile make me went outside scream "she too dam cute".
@burnttcaramel10 ай бұрын
Pls watch the rest of my video! 🥺😂
@KD0MOO9 ай бұрын
Can I steal you 😂
@burnttcaramel9 ай бұрын
🙈🙈
@Irland_mindset9 ай бұрын
Listen to me girl, I don't like to comment when I am not doing a compliment but brace yourself. Increase your voice volume in your editing software and lower the soundtracks. It's the opposite actually in this video and it's highly uncomfortable for viewers. Anyway, thks for your emotional support and motivation, I needed it.
@burnttcaramel9 ай бұрын
I actually appreciate you taking the time to comment! I’m just starting out/still learning and appreciate any form of feedback :)
@Irland_mindset9 ай бұрын
@@burnttcaramel All the other parts are great though, I didn't even notice that you just started out. Don't worry it's just those beginner mistakes that become fun memories for the future. Your channel is so genuine, you'll accomplish a lot. Have a great journey!
@jovemgafanhoto45129 ай бұрын
Nothing wrong with you, just stop chasing Chads.
@ramdom_assortment10 ай бұрын
You're really cute. Guarantee you'd have no issue with dating if you were in the US.