I Empathized With People Who Hated Themselves Hated Life And They Knew I Could Feel Their Feelings!

[@onepeachsoda]

My mom had PTSD and she wouldn't see a psychologist. I realized then that no matter how much I love her and want the best for her, I can't help her until she decides to help herself. Heartbreaking but I've learnt to let things be.

[@GoobieAndDoobie]

Hi Peach 🍑 👋❤️ I’m sorry you had to experience that. I’m learning to let things be as well

[@onepeachsoda]

@@GoobieAndDoobie hi goobieeeee! It's all part of being alive. I'm sorry too that you had such a toxic "friend". We live, learn, grow. Repeat. ❤💛💚 🍑

[@janpaengeng]

Yup same thing as mine. My parents became stagnant even my sister. They help each other but it became a crutch. Like dogs too it can become crutch. Thats why i didn't want to get dog yet until i fix myself but just understanding kind of way. I hope we can change the world i feel like we can all do it by sharing awareness like this we all make youtube.

[@gianniberez5309]

I’m in the same boat as you. Still trying to learn to let things be. It definitely sucks not having a mothers support and love

[@CajunGreenMan]

Sorry you experienced that. Take Care!

[@mojamurphy4905]

I forget which Non-duality teacher said this..... "the answer to every problem is more SELF LOVE." I appreciate your openess and honesty. Your videos are transformational for me. Please continue. ❤

[@SherryZarcone]

Dr. Goobie, you are brilliant. This actually happened to me. This person was not only an “energy vampire”, but also “transferred” their own torment to me. I almost lost my own health, strength and well-being, as they actually became stronger at my expense. After many years, I walked away, and saved my own life. Please keep going. Your following will keep growing. You are very gifted. Please continue to take care of yourself. Blessings.

[@chicknflag]

I agree, your words are spot on❤

[@GoobieAndDoobie]

I’m glad you walked away ❤️

[@Johnhealey-]

Hi mate. I just wanted so say hi and let you know that the content you are giving us is fantastic, very informative, special and very much appreciated. You have and are helping me a great deal while I deal with injury surgeries, cancer and PTSD amongst other things. I am slowly working my way through a lot of your videos, some of which I have watch or listened to multiple times. Please know and understand what a valuable and important work you are doing by sharing your very personal , mentoring and thoughts with us. As a 54 year old man living in Sydney Australia, 🇦🇺, even I , having years of living and life experience fund your content extremely important for me. I would like to thank you deeply and let you know what wonderful offerings you have given me. Thank you my friend. I wish 2025 to be healthy , happy and rewarding for you. Thanks again John , Sydney Australia

[@GoobieAndDoobie]

Hi John from Sydney Australia 👋❤️

[@Just_Saying_12]

"Helplessness is the strongest form of control." This is just well articulated!! I have been manipulated by my mother for a very long time, and her main instrument has been "Helplessness". My empathy almost killed me! What shocked me the most is that she knew what she was doing! One of the things that gave me the courage to escape, is the realization that she was okay to sacrifice my well-being for hers. Now, I always try to choose myself first and then give what I can within healthy limits.

[@Jilli8310]

My Grandmother is like that. I love her to pieces, but she is the queen of all manipulators, it has gotten worse with age, especially now that they won't let her drive anymore. She always plays the martyr too. She is the most stubborn woman I have ever met in my life. Her mother was like that too. It must be a learned behavior because I see very small glimpses of it in my mom, but nothing concerning. I just hope it's not woven in the DNA to where I get like that too. So, I can relate ❤

[@IamPotato_007]

My mom used helplessness big time. My job was to make her happy. I became a healer in order to heal her. And she preferred doctors despite me healing people with food choices and lifestyle. All she ever wanted was my destruction. But in the end, she set me free with all sweet manipulation.

[@takobibimbap]

You're like a little star (not too bright) in this chaotic world that gives smooth and sustainable light and warmth to your viewers. Thank you and please keep sharing your emotions and thoughts, and your time with Doobie😊

[@theancientandreios7417]

Those who practice empathy and oneness reveal signs of high consciousness. It's true love and will be a more common practice in the future of humanity. Thank you for spreading awareness. It raises all boats. Also, self-love and taking personal responsibility are so important and fundamental to a successful life.

[@sho6501]

70% into the video and I’m in tears… Dr. Goobie I’m happy for you. I hope you can continue to heal.

[@Jilli8310]

This is such a great topic to talk about. I come across so many people that have difficulty distinguishing the difference between empathy and sympathy, especially in my profession where a little empathy is important but using sympathy is dangerous.. Although there are very distinct from one another, sometimes it's just a fine line. Finally an intelligent person worth listening to. I really miss having conversations like this. Thanks Dr. Goobie. 😊❤

[@Livingthewild]

We evolved in small tribes of no more than 200 individuals. Having empathy for 8 billion others might be stretching our evolved capacity for empathy. These days, I tend to save my limited empathy capacity for our innocent, non-human friends.

[@stratocasterblue]

I think Dr Goobie made every video of his just for me there is no other explanation

[@micomicomi5485]

Always a good day when goobie uploads. After a long and exhausting day, only videos like this can calm my restless mind

[@caroldiedricks]

Thank you Goobie, I’m only learning this lesson at the age of 75 years. Your advice was and always is so pertinent to me. I’m so thankful that I found you and please keep going. You are at the right place and time for healing and helping humanity. ❤

[@Vladimirleninputin]

Me too I'm 60 , starting to find out I am only responsible for my actions & it's impossible to help anyone who doesn't ask for help ❤

[@jhoselynzarate]

I like your videos because I'm learning English and you talk slow it help me a lot. Thanksss❤ Please Don't stop uploading videos

[@theancientandreios7417]

I really like that empathy dial. It seems like a really useful tool to maintain your balance.

[@tomturnipseed2541]

We would be a greater society if we all had more empathy for our fellow man!!

[@Life_Of_Mine_]

Keep on uploading these beautiful philosophical reflections, my friend ❤

[@topheeba]

i appreciate your takes always, thanks for sharing this viddd i cannot wait to watch it!! empathy is such a complex thing

[@TheSisyphusReality]

Thank you for including us in your journey by uploading authentic videos. God bless you ❤

[@hannah5245]

To summarize, your video today is about " holding on and letting go" Tentatively, not so tightly, absolutely. I actually fell into a deep sleep for the amount of time of this video. Even tho my mind wasnt listening, my soul was re-ignited again. You touched on a raw part of empathy for me that I feel strongly about. With that, I believe I have healed a little bit more.

[@anasha100]

There is a proverb that Joy shared is doubled, and a sorrow shared is halved. I believe empathy is the mechanism to help another reduce their pain and emerge on the other side both stronger, more connected and resourceful. I think the problem is not empathy but the inability of at least one person to connect or have genuine empathy. Goobie, I think what you describe is not the empathy but lack of emotional boundaries and a reduced sense of self, which is caused by complex postraumatic stress disorder (often due to a painful childhood).

[@rooroo5192]

You're so right, myself gone snd still going through this phase, and I experienced that intially when you start turning down your empathy a little bit, you feel like you are selfish, not a good person, you feel dissonance but with time you get clarity, that you doing the right thing, and that you're not selfish, you saving yourself, you also need that empathy for yourself, its bidirectional, and you can help others only when you are in a good condition yourself.

[@seanchan3559]

I once read about an analogy of a cookie jar that relates here. Simple, and almost silly, but very true. We have a 'cookie jar', and they're our cookies, and we can choose to give them away if we like. If we give them all away though, then we have none for ourselves and we find ourselves in dire need of cookies from others; we also have no more to give away or share. Optimally we should work to keep our cookie jar full. In other words, we should first take care of ourselves and our needs. If our jar is full, if all our needs are basically taken care of at the moment, then we have plenty for ourselves and we can also afford to share with others if they might need a few…which in the end is not selfish at all. If you think about it, it's kind of along the same lines of why in the event of an emergency on an airplane it's not selfish or cold but wise and proper to first put your oxygen mask on before helping your child or others with theirs-if you don't put yours on first then maybe no one ends up with oxygen in the end. For reference, the cookie jar analogy came from a brilliant little book called 'The Portable Therapist' by Susanna McMahon.

[@AbisolaDamilola5007]

Isolating is not idiotic. Don’t let anybody take that away from you. I’m trying my hardest but the neighbors keep on trying. They need their empathy now!

[@ili397]

What an analysis l!!!

[@Roy-lm4rc]

Goobie, you picked a very interesting topic. I am, by nature and the way I was raised, highly empathic, and I have been conscious of this throughout adulthood. The issue is I can not much help it as it does not let me enjoy my life to the fullest. The fact is I feel guilty if I enjoy my life while there are lots of problems and unfairness in the world. I should add the point that in most cases I feel totally helpless and that really hurts.

[@Kane.JimLahey.]

That's one hell of a title Goobie. Always enjoy seeing you upload, you always have something insightful to say or discuss.

[@Dtchmastrkilla7]

I always think of this with the analogy of trying to save someone from drowning but they end starting to bring you underwater with them.

[@Peace20100]

Therapy is priceless I think ❤

[@shatzoren1]

Very important and personal subject, thanks for posting this. However, as someone who felt obligated to help helpless people, as well as someone who sometimes feels helpless but does not necessarily puts the burden on others, I will disagree. The control is not in the hands of the helpless, it is in the hands of those of choose to carry the weight. The helpless may truly be helpless, some neural circuits are simply stuck until seriously shaken by the environement (friends, family, nature, physical health, etc), and cannot control much regarding their state of mind. That is why personality disorders are viewed as disorders, they are beyond free will. Having that said, sometimes those who carry the weight of other helpless are also in fact helpless. It can be contagious once compassion fatigue has struck too deep.

[@edge9751]

Haven't watched this video just yet, but I read the title and this is a perfect example of something that happens to me all the time but I just haven't put words to it. Awesome. Also, absolutely love your channel and your positive energy! Also seems like your community is super supportive and awesome as well. Hoping everyone's having a great day 😊♥️

[@runawaysfox7638]

Dear Dr Doobie, I worked as a Doctor for 4 years right after my medical college and quitted my job due to country crisis. It was 3 years ago and still I couldn't find myself another career .May be I dont have courage to change another profession or Im having fears like what if I chose the wrong choice for career again. ever since I found your videos,they been such a great help to me. Thank u for what u've done for community

[@catherinesengupta4699]

Well done Goobie. You're journey is made up of such conflicts that others may also be on, and exploring how to manage your feelings is a braver thing than I think you realise. ❤

[@annenguyen1748]

It's a great lesson I learned today It's helped me learn to forgive and set distance from empathy. Thank you, Dr. Goobie!

[@lanalouise-elliott9668]

Empathy is a given like kindness humanity needs more in a world of desensitized beings ❤

[@beepop3827]

I unfortunately have experienced the situation of having extreme empathy for someone who has had an unfortunate life, but lives through some lies. We were just kids when we met, but my friend had severe mental health issues and would constantly go to the mental hospital. It broke my heart. I would cry every night. Until one day, i was so utterly immersed, I became just like her. Self harm, depression, stopped eating. Everything. I only realize how crazy it was 2 years after I was out of it. And oh my god It definitely traumatized me.

[@llr1731]

Thank you. I am also learning to moderate my empathetic tendencies even now. As they say, better late than never. Stay well❤

[@HypocriticYT]

Most people you cannot help and it is their choice. You can live happier by not burdening yourself with others issues. Free them and free yourself.

[@rosamariajirano9412]

Thanks!

[@GoobieAndDoobie]

Thanks for your gift

[@KashifKhursheed-ng1vk]

Worth it talk!

[@lizoconnor2752]

Most unaware ppl are way too distracted to get in touch with their personal capability to empathize

[@Srennoc]

I believe if you do not have empathy, you cannot have self well-being, or inner peace.

[@maeconsciente6777]

What a great video! Cleared out so many feelings over here. I'd like to know the name of the book you mencioned on the video. Thank you very much.

[@nightowl6260]

Very profound. Thank you.

[@user-yt9cf7gw5o]

empathy

[@pavannaveen5354]

Hello Goobie...😊 I'm from Tamil nadu, India. Here we have celebrate the traditional festival called as Pongal. To give gratitude for sun ☀. He is the reason animals, plants and we to be alive. We tribute to sun by grown crops, Respect agriculture land , farmers. And Cows ❤ Happy Pongal to all...❤🎉 We celebrate for fours days.

[@Roy-lm4rc]

Thank you goobie, it was a great talk and I learned that how others also have the same problem I have had and still struggling.

[@loveu4everjandc]

Being empathetic is a gift and curse. It's a gift to be able to feel and relate to others. It is a curse to be so empathetic that you take on their burdens.

[@maryannknox7158]

Truth

[@mpymelondy]

Dr. Goobie, you are amazing. I am hearing you and seeing my self.

[@marciarigel2896]

I really happy for you learned this import lesson of life Goobie!! Dignity is the answer to good relations. I prefer the word mercy, because I think this feeling protect our own emotional integrity. For me no makes sense two people feeling bad, this no helpfull, but I know some people must to decide and training, because its not easy

[@KashifKhursheed-ng1vk]

Awe Googie love you!

[@justinamontgomery2618]

I am a feeler too.....completely understand what you are expressing...thankyou

[@Musicmanbutte]

I have felt like this many times in my life because I am an em-path, I feel other peoples feelings, and I even fell other peoples pain, when I was in the hospital room when my mom was slipping away to death, I actually felt myself slipping away as well. I am not a Kook, but this is something I did actually feel, my sight started going backwards, and I even had to catch my breath and sit down for several minutes. It sounds like you are either talking about a family member or a spouse. I can read people really well, and it sounds to me like you are talking about a personal experience.

[@GoodVibes3000]

Makes me happy to see you post another video. Keep posting! -Much Love ❤

[@dyhppyx]

Damn John. This is some really insightful stuff

[@djy69]

Feelings will misguide you. Feelings will lie to you. Feelings will distract you. Feelings will overcome you and make your decisions irrational, erratic, impulsive. Emotions are powerful and should be analyzed from a distance. Too close and they could paralyze you. Let logic and rationality prevail.

[@정하신-y5w]

Thank you ❤😊

[@ilaannwhite3094]

There are many people who don't seem to have empathy. Many are extremely wealthy, I think.

[@AlvinLee007]

That's me! But those things took place over 20 years ago. I am a lost cause. I have since disconnected from others and only resolve to keep my immediate family and partner alive/ happy. Lost all my friends from college and university because I was a dropout. I do blame my family. But that's water under the bridge. I'm simply waiting for the end of my life.

[@sho6501]

I hate the egg shell walking around an abusive person. But you can’t cut them out especially when they’re family or in a higher pedestal of influence in the bigger, unavoidable social circle.

[@pearlyung]

Dr. Ramani videos on Narcissistic people/family may be of help. Nobody can cure Narcissistic people. Its an addiction. Waking up at 40 is better than dying in an illusion.

[@lauroaugusto3355]

Thank you Goobie

[@leahcruz791]

A tough video. Here’s another analogy- paddling a canoe to save someone who keeps drilling holes in your canoe. Ok to love others from afar.

[@mamoukouyate916]

Thx Goobie for being such an eye opener. Thx also for sharing the insights of your therapy sessions with us. Listening to you is therapeutic, it empowers me now to calibrate my Empathy knob, which I think is the cause of most of my own suffering. Plz keep posting. I’ll come see you when/if you become a Therapist 😅

[@TheInformationViewer]

Correct: Molecular energy; emotions. ~ Telepathy. Love ~

[@adrianduarte008]

Plays “God so loved” by We The Kingdom

[@helloworld4303]

Hi Goobie! Thought provoking content as always. Would love to see your content as podcasts if you are thinking about uploading them

[@echang1572]

I think and my 70+ year experience tells me, “PEOPLE DON’T CARE ABOUT YOU”. (There are some exceptions and I don’t blame people feel this way). I don’t believe in forgiveness, I don’t believe giving someone a 2nd chances. I do noticed that people thinks “kindness for weakness”. Do the right thing is different from empathy, I think. By the way you sounds like catch a cold.

[@Chubbchubb2313]

Same conclusions but I am 76. I devote my time to other creatures and find it much more nourishing.

[@IamPotato_007]

I wait for your videos.

[@tessw9744]

@26:46 that's called "projection". That's also where we get the word "scapegoat". The scapegoat takes on responsibility for everyone's (usually family's) problems. This allows the family to function without ever having to focus on the screwed up dynamics.....as the scapegoat is always the problem. Most people call themselves "empaths" when in actuality, they're "codependents". Codependents are people pleasers.....trained to believe that "good people sacrifice themselves for others".... Unfortunately, that draws ya to users....and you Begin a dance of pathological giver and the pathological taker. You sound like you're on the road to healing, because you're not afraid of looking at what makes you vulnerable. One has to have that ability in order to heal.

[@Sarvejanasukhinobavantu]

I almost had tears not even 1 minute into the video.. totally understand and still feel other people shoes , when young I went silent and couldn’t understand the sadness and use to blame it on my monthly cycles.. and be done with it, but sometimes it used to prolong more than few months,, I became socially anxious for the same reason.. people tagged me as sensitive, very touchy etc… Well, Not intend here what others thought about me.. but many experiences definitely questioned my sanity, met those bottomless pits, black hole of helpless , uncharted numbness , but one thing was I was stubborn to choose life, my zest for life was the only strong point that was my plus ..oh yeah no external validations mattered, except What I felt, for I was blamed selfish.. One thing when lived off grid in 2014 .. for 8 months I lived just knowing i am breathing.. but then .. a lot occurred!! One theory I can share , see if it makes sense - imagine a bunch of concentric circles , imagine the innermost circle , here exist access to only is..myself , freedom and god (like a meditation place)- in that order!! The next circle is close family members who i rely and let rely on and these people ( mom. Dad/ if you have spouse/ close sibling/ bff) also these first outer circle do NOT have access to the inner most circle The next out circle is acquaintances, need to know folks, colleagues, friends who are allowed under your hood etc The 4 th outer circle , hi hello bye yearly once check on and they are ok to do the same The rest are all outer space, no access world and fall under general compassionate sectors ! Now in these circles ( except inner most core) keep changing the access based on the responsiveness of folks in the matrix around me in this world .. if anyone not understanding and respecting the boundary, respectfully -no access!! Before anything ‘I am human’ - and one other life form JUST like you , may be constantly choosing to see and perceive differently. Your eyes in video definitely pierced mine as if someone was talking to my soul

[@Sarvejanasukhinobavantu]

If you are interested to learn a bit of me .. I really cannot spill entire my full 4 decade journey, even handwritten can only give some glimpse of it, however if have to share some highlights , some major incidents shaped my life and for better , met different, very weird situations, in attempts of my parents who had vision for my life , by pursuing my marriage ( arranged) and , I in understanding myself in this world…when turn of some unprecedented events.. don’t know, how!! No straight answer..after unbelievably shocking and panicky that my parents once uttered ‘I better die alone and happy than go through anymore’ .. and friends said ‘please be happy’ .. well seen enough to say that , someone/something/ my unconscious protecting entire way, my friends say I have to write a book(have no intentions for that or in near future.), in their words , ‘my life sounds like multiple life times, might help someone in need ’, and my child hood memories appear as if not this life time ( with so many restrictions for first 20 years of life and choked childhood, no freedom of expressing fear ( like, as teenager when groped by family member) any needs or wants , anxious under a 3 generational family household, ) only good ones were with my aunt..and I forgot most of them, as then waiting was waves of tsunamis in mid 20’s to 30’s , with many sleepless nights, emotionally draining, met corners of mind and it’s tricks putting me down, only plus thing is physically I kept up, with good amount of exercise, preserving my autonomy, while gaining financial freedom…(never a people pleaser, yet life started after 34 , unapologetically myself, after dropping trials of IUI) many folks ask , how did I maintain my sanity.. well it was journey ‘MY journey’..may be it is how I found something priceless, “ME, Freedom and GOD consciousness in everything! “ That’s the only apt words/ answer I could give..

[@GoobieAndDoobie]

Thanks for sharing your life experiences

[@jaytso1883]

Getting unstuck with a destructive friend may be 'easy' to contemplate. What if it's a long time spouse where there a hugh amount of emotional capital invested? 🤔

[@JoinTh3Adventure]

24:30 this is the main reason im here !

[@taherehkarbasi3838]

Your video help me to recognize some my reaction to my close loved one that hurt me and hurt them

[@treehauschalet1628]

Like having neck pain from disc disease maybe genetics combined with living a classic office worker lifestyle, poor posture, poor diet, high stress low exercise, high caffeine and nicotine use. But I too have become miserable and hard to not snap at times, thanks for reminding to me know to not project my pain on to others, especially great empathetic friends.

[@treehauschalet1628]

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[@hdhdhhehe6709]

Hi Goobie that sweater is flattering! Nice color on you. Thanks for more low sodium chicken soup for the soul.

[@ChristaJensen-pz6yr]

I have always been an empath. An empath has to learn the difference between their feeling and others feeling. It might not seem like much. But being able to tell the difference is life changing. Great post!

[@FernFinland]

But empathy is also knowing where you begin and where others begin (not enmeshment) and not being a pain absorber of others' pain and suffering. Empathy is putting yourself in the other person's shoes and seeing the world as they see it. But empathy has to have balance. Empath is not a healthy way to be in the world. In all things---balance.

[@louiseoneil5745]

Have you ever seen the original Star Trek episode called "The Empath"?

[@carpediem44]

Doobie, the protagonist of Parable of the Sower also felt the pain of strangers.

[@owenmcintyre9299]

Paradigm shifts, please examine and investigate Caeayaron and Suzanna Maria Emmanuel

[@ZacJackson-y2q]

I am an empath. I can walk in any room, and i cant always tell who im feeling but i sure can feel somewhat of what they are feeling without any words even being spoken. If I know the person i instantly can tell what they are feeling. I just want everyone to love one another, but i have also had a traumatic life, i never want others to hurt the way i have throughout my life. Financial hurt is one thing, but a childhood of traumatic events is another, mix them both and being so broke right now, it's hard not to feel broken, but still all i want is to help others feel better. It is so hard to focus on myself.

[@Livinglikeleslie]

💜💜💜💜

[@Paul-Pixton]

It might interest you to have a look at mirror pain synesthesia. Im not a big fan of the empath idea. It seems to me there's a cognitive empathy and a felt empathy. Thanks for your videos. i love what you have to say.

[@Candleflower42-zp3sh]

I’m learning about narcissism from HG Tudors channel. He is a narcissist/psychopath. HG is not his real name, he’s in England, very intelligent, uses his awareness to teach others. It’s interesting and helpful if an empath.

[@freeglee3482]

sorry but "eat crap before he dies" kinda made me chuckle

[@marvinjasonkennethnandke]

hey thanks for sharing ur thoughts as always great content! ps: could u do a rig rundown of ur pc setup and gear?

[@marinaBSNRN]

Is it really within our control to dish out right amount of empathy?

[@nickalexander4431]

You may be an EMPATH good sir! Look up the term Empath and then look up Dr Judith Orloff who has many books on the subject 😉👍

[@luneparadox]

I LOVE YOU BROTHER 💞💞💞 keep going!!!🤗🤗🤗 PROUD OF YOU!!! NONDUAL 🌈☯️✌🏾YES Octavia was ahead of her time!!! 2 great books!! I'm still listening but you gotta read the 2nd book if you haven't! Do you know the term Highly Sensitive Person or HSP?

[@Manila-sb3sn]

❤❤❤.

[@JB8833-cr1cy]

How does living in Seattle compare to living in Monterey?

[@redskyintheafternoon]

❤

[@justdanny7252]

I knew I've walked a similar path. We empaths can just feel it 😂 Glad you found your way back to loving yourself without being a narcissist. I have another song that reminds me of my happy thought. That reason to love myself. I hope, that you enjoy it as much as I have: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z2mQiphogZiYoJosi=Tdz9v4OUQZOZSLfj

[@incognito595]

Or, maybe this person is Entirely Right?

[@DynomiteKid65]

hey goobie, how do you forgive yourself? how do you stop negatively bashing yourself? much love, dk

[@FernFinland]

Book: Toxic Empathy: How Progressives Exploit Christian Compassion, 2024, by Allie Beth Stuckey.

[@ptuparttimeutuber2236]

What’s the difference between Empathy & Sympathy @ Doc?

[@ashchenari1499]

Howdy sir. I left a comment on one of your previous vids regarding a comment on spine surgery. Is it really only justifiable with emergency situation? My l5 s1 pars defect spondy has left me crippled for over 2 years despite trying everything including a great diet, PT, neuroplasticity exercises, stem cells, etc. Is the surgery unreasonable if there is such a huge quality of life impact with no end in sight?

[@GoobieAndDoobie]

Hi. I’ve had some patients have a significant improvement in their quality of life after a lumbar fusion for spondylolisthesis. Ask your surgeon the risks and benefits. Ultimately, you have to decide

[@ili397]

Doctor. Goodie let me explain the essence of this brilliant lecture of your with a saying from Albania my country. There was someone who was told X person wants to harm you to kill you. The person ask “ who is it” he heard a name and said “ no way he wants to harm or kill him, I was never empathic or helped him “ there is no reason he could do such a thing. After a while he was told this time Y ( person) wants to harm you and his answer was “ now this man will really harm or kill me because I always was sympathetic to him and help him all me life.

[@ashchenari1499]

@@GoobieAndDoobie thank you doc. It’s been a rough ride and I think I definitely would have to tools to recover nicely if I choose to do it. Just a tough decision for sure. Love the content

[@FernFinland]

Goobie/Doobie (the human) : Have you considered being a mental health therapist or a Christian counselor? Appears you are genuine person with the gift of empathy, compassion, understanding. You can obtain a Master's Degree (2 yrs) in a Counseling Program with internship and take state licensure exam. You could go into private practice and only take self-pay and not deal with insurance companies. Pray about it.

[@Lindajah714]

Thanks Goobie for your empathy insights from your own experience and the questioning and inquiry that arises🪷Goobie healing❤sending gratitude for your video share

[@beginnersguide4556]

Traumatic brain injury. / YES Goobie, You should Feel - a little bad. Letting you find yourself and then you leaving is F#^@ Up! (( 💔 A True HEALER, HURTS by Choice❤‍🩹)) It's part of the job. Dose she have warm arms? Anything? That is what BEST FRIENDS FOREVER is about.😿 Like a tuning fork to the Rock Band. It is overwhelming, but can be fixed as long as you Both want it. A 23 year marriage. It was Toxic and Repetitive at one point. You leveled up and she didn't, It's time for Her and her insecurity's. It took about 2 Years to filter out Toxic Drama but we just love each other to much. ☯