I failed at Van-Life. Nothing works. I'm done.

[@vintagemarylouise7319]

Jeffrey, please consider giving us a quick update❤ I'm sure I'm not the only one that cares & hopes that you're safe & sound.

[@patcappelli2332]

Its okay to make mistakes and change your mind. We have all been there. Do not have any regrets. Its a learning experience. Forgive and move on.

[@amyburl3826]

We hope you’re doing ok. Merry Christmas 🎄 Reset, readjust, restart, refocus… as many times as you need to.

[@marywalker2896]

where are you Jeffrey..

[@wonderetc9143]

We miss you Jeffrey and hope all is OK! Was listening to your songs and so good.

[@janewasson4845]

Jeffery, you've had a hard year. I can see van life if you, Katie, or Barb were traveling for a few days. But...l think you need a real home, a bed, your decorating, your stuff, your sales show, and maybe, later on, a dog again. But it sure needs to be about YOUR happiness and peace of mind for a change. Enough is enough!! Good luck! ❤

[@puppy2haley]

@@LannieLord oh plzzzzz - hush up you bot!!! 🙄🙄

[@annj3]

@@LannieLordhe has worked hard for years and has done very well for himself. Not one plan/lifestyle works for everyone.

[@aabramo2852]

​@@puppy2haleyit's call an opinion. Allowed when you put your business out there

[@VickieV1333]

I hate that you are facing SO many issues with your van home!! I’m praying that it all works out the way you want it to! No matter what, I’m here! Who’s with me?!

[@susanstonestrom2086]

I'm with you!

[@PromiseNovember]

I'm so sorry. Do you have family to stay with?

[@sylvanramble1757]

Jeffry, please let us know how you are doing. We are worried about you and miss you.

[@jill.yesterdaysmemories]

Even though van life is appealing to you… I can’t imagine why. I’m sorry things are continuing to not go well for you but maybe that’s a sign that another way of living would fit you better. I do admire your sense of adventure. I hope that you will find your happy life.

[@vanillalux6537]

I'd say it is not a failure at Van Life but the van just failed. I would have never dared to even get this far. So I have a lot of respect for the journey so far!!!

[@gissyb1]

Exactly the van is a dud. Unfair

[@lovebeaches4255]

I am so sorry your vehicle failed. Many years ago, I bought a brand new Chevy Camero and I loved that car. The problem was, before it was paid off, I had one major repair bill after another. I lived close to work, so when I sold it, there was only 30,000 miles on it. I had spent many thousands of dollars repairing it. I am a patriotic person, but I have not owned an American car since and I have never been stranded due to a breakdown. I had to do what was best for me

[@bonniemciver275]

I hate to say it Jeffrey but I never thought that life style would be suitable for you. You were good at what you did for a long time. After you moved to Florida I was surprised. That's not to say moving was a mistake, no. Sometimes people need a change, to try something different. You did that. But once you were in your Florida house, things moved so quickly. The money and work you invested in that. I think you would be happier with a place of your own. I wish you all the best in whatever you do. Take care ❤

[@AtticFareVintage-xy3kl]

Sweet, Jeffery, YOU didn’t fail, the vehicle failed. I’m so sorry this was such a rough road for you but you are brave for venturing forth trying new things.( Not everyone can say the same.) Life is all about experiences. Regroup and follow your heart. Looking forward to tagging along on your next adventure.

[@juli-fabricandtreasures3642]

Jeffery you have had so many problems with your new venture, I'm so sorry. Your home in Florida was so cute and you did such a nice job fixing it up. You seemed much happier in your home. Maybe find something smaller and have your business in a home again. Wishing you the best.

[@chrisbland9539]

Im sorry your Van Life is a flop. I was concerned when you announced your plans. I felt that you should have kept your house and tried this adventure. You had put so much work into your home. It broke my heart when I heard that you were selling it. Kee us.posted on what you decide to do. Keep your head up, Sweetie! ❤

[@frankiedianerazer8880]

Please get another House. One that’s ready to move in. You are so good at all you do, but take a breath and don’t look for happiness, it will come to you!!

[@marlenefolta6912]

Jeffrey what a few days you’ve had. I think your van life is over before it actually begins 😢 I don’t like you being by yourself, being lonely and having these problems. I hope you’re rethinking your dream. Don’t think it’s meant to be. Sometimes things happen for a reason. Be safe, we all care about you.

[@lj9524]

A sign van life is NOT the answer!

[@sylvialee1079]

Always follow the path of heart rather than the one of convenience. A stroll along the river for a time of peaceful reflection seemed to appear as needed. Sending love and hugs Jeffrey, you got this! ❤️ ☮️ ❤️

[@carlid8824]

Oh I’m so sorry, Jeffrey! Ya know, I’ve been nervous for you ever since you purchased that van! The mileage scared me a bit! A simple key to van life is a reliable vehicle. Here’s to hoping you get it all sorted out and back on the road. Sending good vibes your way!!

[@dlittle7983]

Oh, Jeffrey, that's a real bummer. You worked so hard on your van. I'm hoping you're able to fix the problems. They say you are learning from mistakes and challenges. Don't give up. Keep calm and start again. Take care.❣️

[@carolnaples5737]

At least you tried, more than a lot of people could say.

[@campersonja7157]

Dont give up!! You can do it. This is my dream. And just like starting my reselling journey, Im learning from you. Everyone makes it seem magical. it's helpful to see it isn't Alternator, out pickup did all sorts of sfuff just like that at one point the radio was just playing. Crazy noises, bangs, going into limp mode. Spent $1000+ at the machanic and they couldnt figure it out. Called my brother he said Alternator. Fixed that and the issues started up again. Brother said sometimes it take 3 or 4 Alternators to get one that works right.he said thats why returns are so easy on that part. So anyway put a another new Alternator in and never had an issue again

[@davidsharkey8267]

You can keep pushing and just amazed how strong you are, much better than most of us! Congratulations how you bounce back and keep going. If there is still a warranty, get the dealer to make good and get some value out of the van until you decide your path. You do have a great idea and keep going.

[@kathysilk2898]

Jeffrey, be patient with yourself. You are on a learning curve. You a smart creative man. Take care. Kathy

[@kathysilk2898]

Just a thought. Find a loyal friend who knows about cars. You are smart and you learn fast. But you are not yet a mechanic.

[@AnneArnold-ir6qo]

oh Jeffrey you are really truly in the weeds with this van life. Praying you have a safe uneventful trip back to FL. You have given it your all . Rest up , destress, and then make your future plans. I wish I could give you a hug. You sure need one.

[@RoxanneJ]

I think it’s really great that you tried this! Not many people can say that.

[@shirleywolford3650]

I don’t think you’ve failed at anything. You bought a lemon plain and simple. I don’t know what the warranty is but you need to trade that one off. Keep your chin up.

[@TraceyRolandelli]

Don’t give up on trying new things. I know the tendency on KZbin is to criticize people in hopes of getting them to do what others feel is right, but everyone goes through discovering what works for them. I just never recorded it step by step. I think you are brave and eventually will find the right combination of what works, whether it’s getting this van fixed, buying something new, or a combination life style. Wishing you the best!!

[@BlazingSadles]

You can always gi to an autozone and they will rin a free diagnostic for you.

[@stephanielevine4998]

Jeffrey , you tried it and I don’t think it’s for you, at least you tried. My main thing against your van life odyssey was safety. There is a lot of crime around and you alone in the van would be a sitting duck. You must think of safety first. I trust no areas anywhere, things and evil can happen. If only you could find an apartment in Katie’s building, she’s a wonderful person and is true blue to you. Of course is none of my business what you decide to do but please I speak to you as I speak to one of my sons, security must come first sweetie. Love you ( Katie too) and ALL the very best!!

[@SherryAnnOfTheWest]

Too many frickin' "assist" lights ... I drive a car with manual windows and door locks and the only sensor is a "check engine" light. Actually, it's too old ... it's a '96 Toyota Rav4 I've had since 1999 and besides regular maintenance and oil changes, it's only cost me $1000 in repairs the whole time (air conditioning). I highly recommend buying "bare bones" vehicles without all the (literal!) bells and whistles. Maybe not as old as MY vehicle, but they do sell vehicles and vans with a minimum of "electronics" that are newer. As for solar, I would recommend a "suitcase" solar panel or a portable folding one that can be placed out without having to park your van in the hot sun.

[@patriciaanzelc5386]

You seemed happy in your home. It was so lovely and your dog was so cute. I wish the best for you and hope you find happiness.

[@sheriabresch8919]

Going from a home to a used van was so extreme! I agree with those who suggested buying a new, warranted trailer or small RV. Less of a lifestyle shock. More comfortable, relaxing, appropriate for working and dependable. Good luck!

[@lindag2478]

No matter the ups and downs, I am so glad you continue to share your journey with us! ❤️

[@ConnieShops]

Prayers for wherever your van life takes you and if that doesn’t work out… you’re young….you will find something that makes you happy… keep making videos and we’ll keep watching!!

[@southernbelle193]

I loved your house you sold. Loved your flamingo collection and your decor etc. you had a room for shipping..you had it made brotha. Consider a tiny house. Depressing to travel around aimlessly. You are better than that. Plus you need a shower and a toliet. I would absolutely hate van life! Hang in there and figure it out. This is not the person I use to watch.

[@Wildmushroomss]

I don’t know that you can say ‘ you made it’ if they were dying inside and unhappy. 🙁 he said he wasn’t happy 😢

[@dachshundmom9966]

I would not advise a tiny house. A steady job with benefits and an apartment would be a start. Our economy and healthcare are headed for big changes and all of us need to be ready. I am not trying to be a pessimist but there are many years ahead to chase your dreams.

[@puppy2haley]

@@dachshundmom9966 yep, plenty jobs at Amazon/FedEx, etc if your looking for a job with benefits. Heck, even Walmart. I personally think, Jeffery, you should have started out in brand new vehicle so you’d have the warranty. Back in 82 my husband rode a motorcycle & in 86 our child was born so the new thing we did was travel. Travel trailers at 1st but then moved up to pop out RV’s. Husband owns auto shop / been a mechanic all his life so if we ever broke down I never worried. Usually a flat tire here & there. Just have that van checked by a GOOD MECHANIC! 🙏🏻✔️👍

[@zuzuspetals8323]

You deserve many gold stars for effort, Jeffrey. You accomplished more than many of us could have. “Better to have tried and learned, than to never have tried at all.” All good wishes for your future endeavors.

[@zuzuspetals8323]

14:26 I would have burst into tears at this point … Courage, Jeffrey. You’ll find your way.

[@patriciaanzelc5386]

I haven’t watched in a while. I’m am shocked at this video. The longer I watched I got more and more concerned. This doesn’t even seem like the same person. I wish him the best. Take care.

[@beachbumetta]

I thought the same thing. Doesn’t seem like the same guy I was watching in Florida. 🤷‍♀️

[@cherylraban7707]

I'm so sorry, nothing is more frustrating 😮

[@elderlypoodle9181]

My dad decided to go off the grid in the 80s. A man with 22 patents under his belt. From a designer at Mattel toys to movie props and a Beverly Hills job. He loaded up his truck and moved from Beverly,…. Hills that is…👍 He went to stay with his sister and helped with her art. Then he visited my brother in the cold part of Florida and they worked on a Navel project that was bought. Follow your instinct son ❤️🐩

[@annj3]

Very interesting, Poodle.

[@reallydarlings-se2xf]

Which is the cold part of FL?

[@elderlypoodle9181]

@@reallydarlings-se2xf I’m not sure of the name but it did snow there

[@elderlypoodle9181]

My mom sent him fur lined gloves

[@LilyGazou]

Sounds awesome.

[@chinajadeelee]

Jeffrey i wanted to tell you that I feel the same way you do. It all started when i lost my cat who i felt extreme loss and trauma and depression. I tried to focus on things but i have never been the same . I think that you are suffering from ptsd and when you sold the house and everything you believed that would cure what you are feeling inside. Losing the love of your life is so hard to get over. Kick the van to the curb and focus on your health because i know you have a lot of health issues with pain and migraines and illness that hits you out of nowhere . I agree with staying with your parents and just resting. I wish you all the best and give you my love and wishes for peace.

[@margarita7243]

Who is the love if his life Stella? What happened to his boyfriend?

[@chinajadeelee]

@@margarita7243 yes stella .. he tried to adopt another dog but ended up giving it back remember? I could never replace my cat and everything reminds me of him in this house. Sometimes i am laying in bed and i feel him come up and put his paw on my hand. I know its not real but i just accept it . Jeffrey is bouncing from thing to thing trying to find something to fulfill that love . I dont know what happened to mark. We were told he is training at the Mayo clinic and took his dog with him. Now he is never mentioned again so i am just guessing that he is going his own way and Jeffrey is going his own way. I think Katie is a very good friend and she makes him laugh and explore new surroundings. I really like her so much and she isnt a fake friend to him. She will help him through his crisis i just know it. Anyhow i hope this answered your question and i hope i didnt offend jeffrey or anyone here. Peace and love to all.

[@christyallen4219]

It’s ok to change directions

[@SueKurucz-q8r]

Don’t give up Jefferey. Always expect challenges, especially with new technology. You need to build up confidence and experience. An option could be to travel around just in Florida so you can get use to your situation. Travel for a month or so while staying close to support systems. If you need a break after that, take one. You can do anything you want to. I admire people that follow their dreams like you. I do know what it’s like when great expectations don’t line up with reality. One day at a time and have something to look forward to everyday. This will help you cope. Make up a list of solutions for when things go wrong so you don’t feel so unprepared. For example, you might get a flat one time. It will be on a dark rainy night when you are either on a busy road or in the middle of nowhere where. What would you do? Create an emergency preparedness plan. Go easy on your self. This is a big change. One thing is for sure, things will always go wrong.

[@VickieCVlog]

So much negative, unsolicited advice and people telling you how to live you life. You impress me as someone who will follow your heart and your on path. You do you and it will be great!!

[@janetpogue4970]

Yes

[@annj3]

I agree 💯 %

[@susanstonestrom2086]

YES

[@margiesthirdactvintage5118]

My car did that once and it turns out it was because of the progressive plugin thing that I had in the diagnostic outlet that monitors your driving habits so you can get a discount. It fried the computer in my car and killed my battery. The good news was that progressive paid for all repairs and towing.

[@LilyGazou]

Thanks for the heads up. I’ll avoid that.

[@maryrinks8383]

I'm sorry your having issues. ❤but hopefully things will turn out with your van. ❤

[@Willsreclaimedvintage]

I have been nervous about that van after seeing so much dirt behind the panels... With all the flooding, you have to be very careful where you purchase vehicles...

[@Willsreclaimedvintage]

Maybe having a brick home and road trips was the way to go!? Sending good vibes and prayers !!

[@Willsreclaimedvintage]

Get back to your parents and regroup..... It appears to have some electrical/computer issues 🤔

[@ellenmoon1787]

You need to get a portable generator if you going to keep camping out in thr van and get a electric blanket with the generator stay warm and safe

[@rickricky7066]

this would be a very stressful way of living. I think if you don't know car mechanics it would increase the stress level by alot! I think you need to sit with yourself and have a honest conversation as to what will be the best thing going forward for you. I'm not sure what that is but do what makes you feel the most peaceful.

[@littledotti]

Get a tiny home.

[@jamb5057]

I did van life solo for eight years. It’s not for everyone. The first year you spend troubleshooting and finding a routine that works. I enjoyed all the traveling and it’s definitely an exciting experience. However for me I did it until the cons outweighed the positives and that seems to be where your at. Best of luck on what you choose in life ❤

[@TheVelvetLoungeLife]

Unless you purchase a new vehicle it's just par for the course.

[@lizzie5919]

Just take a stress break Jeffery. You have been bombarded with one thing after another since you started this chapter of your life. Consider your options and the things that make you happy and complete and move forward from there. And if you do decide van life is no longer the direction you want to go then at least you know you tried. ❣️

[@JacquelineNewberry-ei3ql]

Sorry this van thing is so tough. I know you will find your place in a home on wheels or a house.

[@PlasticNationStrangr]

Columbus, Georgia is my hometown. I live about 5 minutes from the Riverwalk. I hope you're able to come back one day when you have a more reliable vehicle. (Joey's Thrift Mall is the place to go for antique and thrift finds. Katie would love Blue Canary Records too.) Best of luck in your next life chapter, Jeffrey! You are incredibly smart and know how to adapt and thrive. Whatever the future holds for you next, you are going to own it and make it an adventure!

[@joycecook1114]

You’ve got to buy new… used is buying other people’s problems… sorry you’re going thythis.. it sucks!!

[@janetpogue4970]

I know this can happen 😮

[@BarB2-90Nine]

Hope this text finds you well Jeffery Things just gotta get better; miss your auctions and urn house.. Get that Van fix plz we need you safe 🧡

[@nicoleleclerc4985]

Sending you love and support from Vermont. Hugs.

[@crazyrawgranny8695]

well we always got rid of our ford vans at 120-150 thousand miles cause transmission about to go and electronic control unit was going on one. Is there a lemon law in Florida... get your money back.

[@stuckinflorida97]

No, Florida does not have a lemon law for used vehicles. Florida concentrates more on protecting businesses rather than consumers. 🤬

[@samsmomm]

Sorry for the set-back. Why are you returning to FL? You sold your home, right? I hope everything works out (vehicle issues are a major pain).

[@janetpogue4970]

Maybe to stay with Katie?

[@bergenpines1]

Parents live there I believe.

[@nanderson8286]

His parents live in Florida and he bought the van there. Makes sense to head right back to that dealer for reparation or compensation.

[@cynthiaamitrano8915]

In order to successfully live in a van/RV, you must buy something with a warranty (new) and you must be able to do most of your own maintenance and repairs. There’s a reason why people get rid of older vehicles. I’m sorry Jeff and I don’t know why you sold your house, but I think you may have acted too hastily. Get rid of the van and decide where you want to live. Buy a small house. In the meantime, live with your friend. She loves having you around.

[@Itsreallyme571]

A tiny home ?

[@rubyred8845]

The garage needs to plug in an OBD reader into your car and it should tell them what's up. I hope that you can repair it

[@5262janna]

It worries me as just like your house has to have a good foundation so does your vehicle especially if it is your house. None of these vehicles have served you well in terms of reliability, so scary to me and troubling for you. I don’t like to see someone have problem after problem as I know they can take their toll. Please take care and know we all care about your happiness. I hope you figure it out and when you do I hope you are pleased with your decision.

[@Lisa-doxielover]

You don't look happy at all 😢 I think either another house or a mobile home on wheels

[@Cindy-cq8zr]

Oh man. So sorry for all the problems you are having. Sending positive vibes your way!

[@Miss59Pat]

You will through this, dear! 💗. Is there a safe place with friends or family where you can regroup? I selfishly hope you will soon be making flea market shopping videos! You can do hard things. I am rooting for you!

[@derekdalton5658]

Deep breaths, buddy. Deep breaths. Take it one day at a time. Hopefully a mechanic will be able to sort these issues relatively cheaply. I don't think it's a "sign". Keep positive, and hopefully, you'll be back on the road in a week.🙏 Lots of people are rooting for you.

[@brendamusante9086]

Hi Jeffrey. You tried what you wanted to do & life this way has been rough. But don't give up on your dreams. Maybe winter somewhere safe (& reliable) and try again in Spring! Van problems are overwhelming you, don't let them ruin your dreams ... all your skills will help you prevail! Appreciate your keeping us all informed. Best, Rich (& Brenda) 😊😊

[@LilyGazou]

I find van life very challenging as a creative person. No studio space to rely on.

[@DeeBee63]

You bought two crap vans. You were ripped off. I would have given them hell. You are too nice of a person. You are a Midwest man I am a Jersey girl😂

[@heidiesterholm2938]

Many varied ages live in Jacksoville. A nephew 49 full time resident. My sister lives in Jacksonville from October to May she's 78.

[@janetpogue4970]

Hi Jeffery. Where were u on your way to ? To see Barb ? I really feel for you. I am sorry things have been so rough 💕 your friend Janet

[@lisaviscomi1094]

I wish u would have kept your house and rented it out for money then u can rent an apartment by katie

[@AndreaBenson-g5y]

Jeffrey, i have no words right now...sending strength ❤

[@pamyork5217]

I don't think it's God's.Will you don't seem as happier doing your reselling?Hanging out with kate katie and do in your life with Barb, I don't mean to discourage you, but I believe this is a way for God to keep you safe down the road. Prayers❤

[@joni5571]

I believe he should maybe go see his parents and heal FIRST❤

[@joanb8489]

Jeffery, I really feel for you and admire your courage. The check engine light and all the other lights is not a good sign. I personally had misgivings about your van life. I wish you the best no mater what. These lights really scare me. It’s your decision. But if I were you, I would stick to an easier path. You are very bright and very creative. If you must travel do so in a new reliable automobile. Van life seems to be uncomfortable to such a creative artist. Your a super person. The very best of luck to you in whatever you decide to do. I have been watching you for literal years and am sure you will continue to succeed in whatever you chose to do. Also you are a great singer😊😊😊

[@scrappygirl--danayates3075]

Hang in there. I know it's a lot to learn but you will get there.

[@Lee-kt9ww]

I would switch back to your other RV if not sold yet. Simply more room.

[@cosmiccountrygirl179]

Is Jeffrey Ok haven't seen any videos and its been 4 days - did he get in an accident??

[@susanstonestrom2086]

I LOVE❤️ these videos, Jeffrey! You have brought me along on your adventures, both the ups and downs, and we ALL are learning new things. One of my favorite things is how you are living so simply in this latest van, yet you make your own coffee with a FRENCH PRESS !!! I LOVE IT ❤❤️❤️ Every time you just MENTION buying some coffee I get coffee - thirsty. I don't like people commenting on 'what' you should do. You will do whatever you dang please, and I will be here rooting for you. Thank you for sharing both the successes and failures, but of course I wish you the best in whatever you do!

[@cgbryant8147]

Always give problems. I would suggest a Brand New already built van. with extended warranty

[@kellyharper8072]

Did you consult with anyone before making this life changing decision? That’s a huge decision. I’ve watched a few of these people who buy these vans and then do this lifestyle and they end up hating it and having a ton of problems.

[@decoratingyourself5462]

Ending up in Jacksonville is not a bad option..

[@EmmelinePinkhurst]

Haven’t watched you in a while. So sorry. One day at a time.

[@elizabethohare1366]

What ever the outcome of this is, I hope it is what you want. That life feels so lonely to me and you are such a people person!

[@velmamendoza1120]

Hi Jeffrey, gosh I'm sorry that you're having problems with your van. Do you think that it might be an electrical problem. I hope that you can get it fixed soon. See you on your next video.

[@sundoesshine8583]

Regarding stuff falling down etc. A longtime vanlife lady who is just in a minivan actually, always says to secure everything so it would stay put in a major collision for her safety. When we got our van, a very low build, we just used bunjees and straps on everything while in major transit. I gotta say it really is a smart move. You wouldn't think things would move, but when making that sudden stop now and then, things really do fly that you wouldn't think could. PS We just had tire pressure gauges go on too. They say it can take 20 mins of nonstop driving to reset them after filling. Also, with time, they just go bad but that can be tested which was about $50 at the dealership. All ours were still good surprisingly, but it took the mechanic to reset the light, as the 20 min driving didn't work for us...

[@dustysfinds9900]

I am So SORRY you are having so many troubles , and I have to be honest, I LOVED you in your beautiful little house in Florida!!! You were So Happy decorating and making it your own!!! You just don't seem like the Happy jovial Guy we got to know ...

[@crazydaizy2745]

This is exactly how things would go for me.

[@RecoveringCarboholic58]

We had an issue like this with our motorhome and it turned out being the catalytic converter. It was 12 so just thought I’d throw it your way.

[@TracyGiesler]

So worried about you Jeffrey. I hope you are doing well. You seem lost. Please ask for help if you need it. You have a large community of people who care about you. You don't know us, but we feel like we know you and you don't seem happy. Please take care.

[@kitschyoyo78]

Well, I wouldn't say you failed at van-life. Your Vans failed you. At least you tried. I had a feeling that you will end up in Jacksonville - hope you find a nice place to live. It's a fun city.

[@RhodaStone]

did you check your battery cables

[@bethb7965]

Do you have a warranty for this van??? How about looking into an already outfitted van, one with low mileage and with at least a toilet of some sort? Hope things work out for you, Jeffrey ❗ Would hate to see you end up being stuck in the middle of nowhere...

[@msp381]

It would have been a better idea to buy a newer van to avoid mechanical problems. Good luck with everything.

[@rogerokelley]

🚩🚩Have a parts stores “Load Test” battery and mainly your alternator

[@kristiwilliams9626]

I am wondering if you could find a place in Katie’s complex. I would love to see you back thrifting and selling. Good luck to you.

[@susanhauke8164]

Maybe he could just live with her

[@bettyharvath5217]

Watching you from Delaware.