I Feel Like a Failure

[@sethgamesandmorehedleyh3049]

brother I am 17 (9 months until I'm 18), I'm in the exact same situation, I say I'm gonna do this and I'm gonna do that but I never do. I try my hardest to do things but I just can't, I take the easy way and play video games eating bad food with a terrible posture. When I was younger I thought being 17/18 would be so cool, but now I wish I was younger again. Who knows what we are doing on this planet though, we are a flying rock created from nothing, if your happy thats all that matters, lifes short make the most of it with your family, I actually think jobs are stupid and a waste of time but thats my opinoun lol, be happy and make memories. good luck

[@thekidsterling]

@@sethgamesandmorehedleyh3049 Life’s interesting isn’t it? Best of luck to you as well 🙏

[@peely.oiledup]

if you’re only 18 you truly do have your whole life ahead of u. basically no one has their entire life and financial situation figured out right after they get out of high school. i would put an emphasis on challenging and disciplining yourself with things like a job and consistently working out. u have way more time to figure things out than you think, and it sounds like you have supportive people around you that can help you through difficulties. remember that the first step to these things is the hardest and best of luck to you on your journey

[@thekidsterling]

@@peely.oiledup thanks man 💙

[@GratefulNPC]

Dont know how i got this recomeneded to me, but i feel this exactly. Im 23 and have some dreams and goals but never the motivation to work toward them. Dont have a job rn but dont have the motivation to apply anywhere realistic, nothing sounds intresting. I also am a quiter when this get hard, the marine story you told is 200% something i would do if i could even get the effort to apply. As for reading the word every day, i found that starting with psalms is a good kickstart, you have 150 days before you have to think about what you should read next, which always stopped me in the past. I was doing better these past 2 years but so much hit this year i fear im back to square 1

[@thekidsterling]

I fell you man. I guess the best thing we can do is pray about it. Atleast that’s what I’ll have to do. Everything else I’ve tried has failed.. Thanks for the support though man, best of luck 🙂

[@Mr.Monkey2000]

dreams and goals lol

[@Norman34O1]

23 as well. Working toward owning the family business someday so money will never be an issue for me. On paper I should be living the dream, but for some reason I’m still not happy. I don’t know what I want to do with my life, but I don’t think it’s this. I don’t even want to figure out what I want because I can’t just leave my family business. Not sure what the next step is for me, but I pray that God will put us all on the path that he wants for us.

[@Rappermand99999]

18 is the time brooo. I would give anything to be 18 again. Now Im 25 and starting to focus on my dreams/goals. Do it now... you wont regret it!! Give yourself time to realize your goals in life and make a plan. You can do it bro!

[@hozic9929]

My man is so real for this

[@abrahamshalabi]

Damn bro making me feel depressed 😢

[@jackstevens4492]

Everyone feels lost in there 20s man. But the beautiful thing is you get to find yourself. There is no right way to live, just a right way to experience life- with a smile on your face

[@heavyisbirb-qj1rq]

i feel the same bro. growing up didnt fix anything. since 15 i have been the same person,just ageing. wasted so much time, by the time i got to 18 i gave up trying to get a gf. i got a good paying job, but im locked in my head. everything is useless when i can't ever show my true feelings and opinions. i can read normal people so easily , yet i can't act on it.

[@garglemeister7142]

Reading the Bible’s tough man. It’s a lot of knowledge, I’m not the best with it either. But something that’s helped me is listening to the sermon on the mount. Then I read it. Don’t force it, in my experience if you do that then it’s coming from the wrong place. You’re a smart guy, and things are tough in this world. There’s always gonna be good and bad, but keep moving forward. We all have that strength. I’ll pray for you man.

[@garglemeister7142]

@@cyberiacy I don’t know enough about it to disagree. But I find solace in the sermon on the mount. The message of Jesus there is of one of love and compassion.

[@cyn7261]

19 year old here feeling the same way. i have this goal of being a streamer and working a dead end job and "manning up" and joining a trade around my mid twenties if it doesnt work out. life is unpredictable and thats what we all must realize. i cried to my mother a couple days ago because the combination of heartbreak, worrying for my friends wellbeing and the same empty, uselessness that we all have felt at some point. it's hard to give good advice since im living through it as well. i think society pushes us, especially men, to be successful, to take after the previous generations glory and prowess. you have to tell yourself its okay to slow down, while at the same time disciplining and planning your future out; everything in moderation. i have a goal to travel to europe soon and experience another culture and country for a week or two. setting goals and making small, noticeable progress can help. ive noticed myself forcibly becoming less lazy. dropped something on the ground, pick it up dont leave it. tell your parents you love them, tell your friends you love them. dont be afraid to learn something because its "too hard." society might expect you to be in control of your life at our age, but we must realize our own significance and live the life WE want to live, not how society wants. but never live the life you live now, always try to change for the better, live the idealized life you see your perfect self living. i hear your story and it speaks to me, i and many others relate to it but we have to take deep breaths and focus on our goals. nothing is promised for us, but the Lord will always guide us. God bless you.

[@heavyisbirb-qj1rq]

im crying man. i can't even talk to people. i just put on a stupid facade.

[@cyn7261]

@@heavyisbirb-qj1rq I know you can do it, the only thing that's stopping you is your mind. I believe in you

[@heavyisbirb-qj1rq]

@@cyn7261 just got rejected the other day by a 2/10 that i didn't even like

[@DWay0690]

"You are the master of your thought. The molder of your character, and the maker and shaper of your condition, environment, and destiny" ~ James Allen. I just turned 34 in June, and I feel very similar, I always regretted not serving in the armed forces. At least you took that leap brother, you didn't fail. You learned something about yourself. Just experience what you can when you can. Hope this finds you well.

[@HoodedSpidey]

I’m 21 and I would give anything to be your age right now. And there’s so many who wish they were mine. It’s not even close to over.

[@rapbeast_one]

I'm gonna subscribe and wait for the update video. I'm sure in few years, things are gonna be different. Life can change in a matter of days :)

[@Liam25433]

Bro you’re not a failure. I don’t really have any good advice cuz i’m 14, but i really hope you figure everything out. I subbed and i really wanna help you with any way i can.

[@bradycg]

My one piece of advice would be to have an honest conversation with your parents or someone else that you trust about this. They know your situation and can help you way more than any random person on the internet would be able to. Other than that just hang in there and try your best to get better.

[@sergeantjackson2088]

I feel what this guy is talking about i still kinda feel the same way i joined boxing when i was 19 haven't gave up Sense it feels like it gives me hope That I can improve on not just that But even more things I need to do like get my license Get a job feels like it's so easy for everyone Else but in reality i'm just not trying hard enough. I'm 20 now by the way

[@AfriendlyStranger]

Don't be hopeless, failure is on the trail to success. We all have a resource, it's important and we can't get it back, time. So spend time well. The mind looks for the bad and ignores the good. Enjoy the little things like eating a nice snack or the nice cool breeze. Failure is needed to win. Plenty of the best failed and dissopointed people.

[@moneypromusic4419]

I feel like this sometimes man

[@chrishelm7754]

Take a jump bro. Wasted time is a blessing a lot of people don’t get. You got a chance to be behind and that’s insane you got some breathing room. But now you got the itch to be better. Whatever you did in the past is meaningless. You don’t need anything you don’t already have. Find a challenging path and accept the new. You got it

[@thekidsterling]

Really felt this one man. Appreciate it.. for real 🥲💙

[@ScoliosisKing-e9d]

It does get better, your only 18 relax enjoy life YOU are worthy of being loved, but completing your goals takes time, you'll get their bro.

[@thekidsterling]

I know that what you’re saying is probably true because everyone tells me that, but it doesn’t feel like that right now. I’m probably just stressing too much because of the pressure of how big my life goals are, but I’ve heard so many stories about teens learning about life the hard way and winding up homeless. I just don’t want that to be me. Thanks for the support though, I’ll try to keep my head up and stop stressing so much

[@sergeantjackson2088]

Also I seen the Message he put at the end of the video Stay a kid. I wish so bad.I could just go back in time back in 2010s.Or 2018 Such a much more simpler time Where I didn't have to worry about.All the things going on in today's world if that makes any sense.

[@Revenant9911]

me too bro

[@-EV0LVE-]

I gotchu bro I subbed to your channel I feel you brother

[@ilyaanufriev1344]

It comes with time. I think that something you can do is change your surroundings, maybe take some group courses and meet new people. It is important to take care of yourself. Fix those eating habits, sleep schedule, maybe take on some kind of sport or creative hobby. All those things need to be done gradually, though. Religion seems like a good thing for you to start working on yourself. Praying is a great way to connect with God and reflect on yourself. When it comes to financial stability it also comes with time. You really can't have it figured out when you're 18. Again, you have to do things gradually and be patient. There is no shortcut to success. You have to start somewhere even if it is walmart or smth that you do not consider interesting for now. You can always learn new things and work on yourself it's only a matter of time and patience When you age you understand that there always is a way out of many situations. Struggling is part of the process. Failing is part of getting better. Those feelings you have right now are okay and you are, of course, allowed to feel them. You can always try again and there is no shame in that. Go to that bootcamp you had left one more time and really try to get it done.

[@016_]

Marine life is tough, not missing out on too much. Pay isn’t great either

[@Cubix-Tube]

Im in the same situation bro

[@HarambeTheGod]

You don't feel like a failure, you ARE a failure! LOL!

[@senditvr]

Bro what 💀💀💀

[@PearlDaGoat]

Bro is a menace💀

[@Jeowashere]

Hey bro I'm jeo and I'm 21 about to be 22 and I can feel the same way at times especially when I turned 18. I'm also a guy who was struggling with faith and that's the thing holding me on but bro if need someone to talk to I wouldn't mind just talking ether that be faith or just the struggle of trying to live this life

[@WendysAnime]

Well just don't try to kick the bucket like I did...You never really recover from that.

[@user-ld9dy6tq4c]

What did yoy plan to do when you dropped out? I think you should try and focus on that. Also doing something you dont want to do like working when you dont have to do is something that I think a lot of people struggle with. I think most people dont have good discipline either. Idk man you are still young and even though you should try to be better I promise you will change a lot as a person In a few years.

[@BobGoldfield]

Complaining does nothing. You must change. You must act. You know what you have to do. Make sure to keep up the Bible reading and prayer. I will be praying for you.

[@Lua0x07]

HAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHA

[@JAYGMES]

dam bro aye 4 years away im 14 and idk ive wanted to get things in my life fully together and the life i wanna live is full of wealth happiness a family and such but uh shit i havent tried to make money, had a hard time going to the gym all summer, soon to be 9th grade still aint got no bitches hell i dont even have any friend girls and ima be honest it may not feel like it from your end but i learned something pretty valuble from this random video with at my time of watching 81 views. I learned that if you dont do anything nothings gonna come out of it and not to make fun of you cause i deal with the same bullshit wanted to go to the gym all summer as i said didnt do that wanted to post and make more music this summer didnt do that hell even catching up with some of the friends i dont talk to as much didnt do that either idk really know where i wanna go in life and im only 4 years from graduating high school and doing nothing huh fuck me

[@neb4233]

Make more Minecraft content!

[@Lua0x07]

ok

[@stealth5678]

start training mma and make the ufc and become champion

[@Mr.Monkey2000]

Cute. but dumb.

[@criminalpizza6328]

That's what I'm tryna do lol

[@-EV0LVE-]

Just join my stream. You are not a failure

[@flickcore]

get over yourself bro no one cares. they never will. fix it yourself or keep wasting away.

[@Mr.Monkey2000]

Do you have a job? I was almost exactly like you so I got alot of advice for you if you don't have a job.

[@thekidsterling]

I don’t have a job currently

[@Mr.Monkey2000]

​@@thekidsterling This video was sent from God then lol because we were completely the same person (aside from you doing bootcamp). This year, I turned 18 around graduation, and I also ate bad, stop working out, had no job, didn't go out, felt ashamed all of the time, and really had no goals or motion. I just sat alone in my room playing games and going to bed around 6 am. And I remember telling myself that in order to fix myself, the one thing I needed to do is to "find out what I wanted to do in life."

[@Mr.Monkey2000]

@@thekidsterling ignore me at your own peril

[@abrahamshalabi]

​@Mr.Monkey2000 your a nice guy man, thanks for trying to help my friend 🧡

[@Mr.Monkey2000]

@@abrahamshalabi I hope he listened and got started because if he doesn’t nothing will change about his life and he will continue to wallow in pity. I am speaking from my own experience and also from seeing other people be fucked up because they do nothing all day and complain about it.