I found love again after spending years with a man who would beat me ,call me ugly and useless | LNN

47 year old Angela is a woman in love.,but she also knows how it feels to have loved a man that made her feel worthless and who constantly called her stupid and ugly reducing her self esteem to zero
On this episode of LNS, she takes Lynn through her painful childhood journey, falling in love with her abusive ex husband, raising her daughter, leaving the marriage to finding love again in a man that appreciates her
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[@LynnNgugi]

Good morning team LNN, We hope Angela's story serves as proof that you are deserving of beautiful, healthy love:) You can connect with her here www.raisingremarkableteenagers.com/ To share your story with us, send a summary of your story to [e-mail] for consideration Thank you so much for watching. Have a blessed weekend and remember to be an active participant as we observe 16 days of activism Against GBV "The 16 Days of Activism against Gender-Based Violence is an annual campaign that begins on 25 November, the International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women, and runs through International Human Rights Day on 10 December.

[@Kasweetie_254]

Yessss💯💯✌️

[@diariesofablindfitcodinggirl]

Hello LNN, I sent an email to you a few weeks ago but I never got any response. I'd really appreciate you highlighting my story. It'll be of great help. Thank you.

[@wmusinya97]

She's a vibe, she's a beauty, she's an inspiration 🥰

[@Iam_Maureen]

If God was in her story,i will also come out victorious

[@supermom3728]

I feel like this lady is talking about m.

[@peterwanjohi4332]

I tell you this is my Sister and a Friend whom God used to change my whole story. She sponsored my Secondary and College Education I got a job and managed to pursue a Bachelor of Commerce ( Finance) at KCA University She is a gem in my life,she is a gem in our family Angie you are God's sent The past reminds us of the hurdles we have all gone through and relays the best things ahead of us

[@gracekariuki6688]

May God continue blessing her.

[@angelakaranja6400]

🎉thanks bro ! I celebrate you !!! Thanks for joining in to support- many family members after you tell an unsettling story tend to distance themselves-- but we must speak our truth because this is what encourages others to open up and thrive too

[@sarafinamacharia809]

Am a single mother,i came from a toxic relationship, my x husband was very irresponsible,so i left,i have a daughter who now is going to form 2, but i have been looking for a person who can sponsor her to finish her education pliz help me

[@yolloliving]

She is a lovely person, i love how she grew past her childhood traumas. So beautiful!

[@sharonrioki8728]

@@angelakaranja6400 quite an inspiring story

[@Iam_Maureen]

Three weeks ago I lost my newborn son and during the same period i learnt of my husband infidelity,he is cheating publicly and blaming me. I separated from him,iam on my grief stage and i hope to heal completely. God has a great plan for me and my babies.

[@LynnNgugi]

Sending you so much love and light Maureen🙏🙏

[@teejayangel6638]

You will be ok, as long as you've left that toxic situation. Keep encouraging yourself, speak to yourself positive and affirming words. The world is waiting for you to WOW it with your talents/gifts.

[@francymutua7022]

Sorry i wish you quick recovery so that you can move on

[@Iam_Maureen]

@@LynnNgugi thanks Lynn🙏🙏iam at stage of denial, can't believe it😭

[@Iam_Maureen]

@@teejayangel6638 thanks angel,I will surely attest to this after healing 😭

[@elizabethwaithaka7236]

Am in a second abusive marriage and am trying to get out of it pray fo me ...

[@agnesnjeri8402]

May God help you 🙏..I know..I also had two abusive marriage..and now I prefer being single for my kids.. they were going through but pain that I was

[@RUZHOFFS]

Iam so sorry about that. Please create an exit plan and if conditions allow, get out as soon as possible.

[@elizabethwaithaka7236]

@@RUZHOFFS conditions not good as soon as possible will exit

[@hottensiahwanjiku2550]

It's normal don't be hard on yourself but mapema ndio best just put a full stop n walk away

[@editholoo6180]

Weee toka and wait on God's time

[@mercywangai8948]

😯Angela...she is 47??? n she looks 25...wow! Aging beautifully like fine wine. Great message esp for me... really needed to hear that. Am so much encouraged. I wish her more love 💕 and wins.

[@teejayangel6638]

This generation of 60s % 70s never age.

[@kemigishadaphine4409]

Iam wondering lam 28 but l look like 40s my God bad marriage

[@teejayangel6638]

@@kemigishadaphine4409 it's reversible, take care of yourself mentally, emotionally and physically, you're too young to look older.

[@cpaannwanjau6044]

Was looking for this comment,she is beautiful inside out❤

[@dorisfam]

Since I discovered that over apologizing kills my self esteem 🙄 ,till today I no longer stay where I'm not appreciated nor I can't stay where I cry 😭 everyday, selflove for life #., your story makes sense on my daily today's lives

[@joselinekanana3363]

Being single and happy is better than being sad and afraid in abusive marriage,you should be in marriage to be happy to smile to laugh,and to make good memories not to be upset to feel hurt and cry.

[@vidavida5262]

This is so true

[@wambuimachari1783]

Yes yes

[@lilianwangari3761]

Sure

[@puritykamene362]

As a child whose mom left an abusive marriage. I became a happier child when she left.

[@Joyful-gu5bj]

Me too. Waa over joyed when my late Mum decided to leave. I watched her been bitten almost everyday and especially weekends. May her soul rest in eternal peace.

[@njerikamau5954]

My daughter tells me that all the time. My kids are happy that am happy 🤣🤣

[@daezysinspirationtv]

I congratulate you

[@stephkirathe]

This show has really triggered me!!! When I was going through a difficult time with my family and trying to discover myself to heal. I spend a lot of time studying narcissism and mental health. I learned, despite growing up in a well-off home, I grew up in a very dysfunctional family...There is something I read that stuck with me, "Adult children of narcissists carry a pervasive sense of worthlessness and toxic shame, as well as subconscious programming, which causes them to become more easily attached to predators in adulthood." My late elder sister wasn't lucky. Because of all the vile hatred, invalidation and rejection she went through at the hands on my mother and her puppets...perhaps she would have married an abusive husband; perhaps she would have had a different life if she was loved, heard and encouraged; perhaps she would still be alive.

[@liznyaga3918]

Sorry about what you went through, true, the things we go through as kids affect us much later in our adulthood. I'm glad you researched about that stuff and you're aware now. Have you considered seeing a therapist, it helps alot. You need to become a better person first before being able to extend love to others. I grew up in a dysfunctional home as well and I can tell you I've had to deal with alot of issues in counselling. I'm currently a student counselor and I've learnt alot of psychological issues that children have suffered from, from the families they grew up in. It's super sad but there's hope when you find help.

[@narcissisticabuseawareness3607]

You’re right. Child abuse does rob children the present and the future

[@mercygakuo6002]

@@liznyaga3918 I agree,I need therapy

[@JayyAAAA]

@@mercygakuo6002 🦋❤️

[@jackyweru8252]

She's such a good story teller... She's got a really good aura, I'm glad your story will inspire others

[@peaceandama4801]

"...a person who does not support your journey or is threatened by your journey" is the catch for me. Literally living this right now

[@tabbiemwas7478]

This was my case.n the clipping part

[@lillyann6025]

That's Soo powerful. I was in such marriage and I left with my 3boys 4months after C's and battered properly. I didn't know where to go but God works well with anyone who trusts him. Even if am not stable yet..... Am happy I left. Am at peace my kids are at peace..... Hoping for more blessings. Never think you can change a person who can't value you.

[@RUZHOFFS]

Praying for you and things will get better ❤️‍🩹

[@elizabethnzioki7627]

Your a strong person, may God shower your ways,

[@lillyann6025]

@@RUZHOFFS Thankyou Soo much. Am very optimistic about life and I'll testify soon.

[@lillyann6025]

@@elizabethnzioki7627 With God we fight and come out victorious.

[@joycemumbe6868]

You are very courage's .may God lift you higher and higher

[@gathongabeatricewambui3009]

Great conversation. I am inspired...47 looking 25. Beautiful girl

[@Favoredone_Ke]

This show has been like a free therapy session to me, thank you🤗

[@helleninzeyi]

I just realized ukitoka on an abusive marriage and go out there,the doors open more than you expected

[@midabingamlata9129]

Yes, it's the thoughts of you are not worthy , no can love you. It's a lie . Good men know a good thing if they're God fearing.

[@bellaatis7473]

I can't miss watching any of your shows, they motivates, am staying with a narcissist, it's never easy but anytime I listen to such stories I know my time to be happy is coming. Narcissts makes you look 3× your age. Thanks alot Lynn for the good work.

[@Kasweetie_254]

We all have a lot to learn from Angela's story , especially about Selflove, self-esteem and leaving tables where peace is not served.

[@francymutua7022]

I like your confidence lady

[@lydiaongaki8645]

How I wish you could go round schools ad mentor our young gals

[@victorianthiga3472]

After watching this , I feel it's time I open up and tell my story. #Lynn ngugi I will be your guest soon.

[@juddiemunge]

She's such a bubbly soul. I have learnt a lot from her,she has beautiful affirmations in her life. She's awesome

[@carolinemunge1563]

Abusive marriage is a Noo🙆

[@wacekewanjoroge6679]

Oh wow..what an inspiring story. Angela Karanja is such a vibe even after what she went gone through ,she tells her story with so much wisdom,grace ad compassion. I pray for everyone going through any domestic violence or abuse.May you find the strength to chose yourself and leave💜 May you prioritize peace over everything,it shall be well. Shukran Lynn and LNN team.

[@Fallon_rogerz]

This video just made me realize sometimes you don’t have to hear someone say “I’m sorry” as long as the person knows they hurt you, you got to move on My mother grew up in different households, lost her mum at 15, married very young and had me as a teen … sometimes I’m angry she didn’t do more but then the people around her never supported her and she grew up not knowing her own worth I think it’s safe to say that after this video I get my mum better now.

[@merryzvi]

Well said. Get your mum better

[@vadrinenjeri9932]

Y

[@vadrinenjeri9932]

T❤

[@carolinewanjiru4345]

Am not near to marriage live alone dating anyone at the moment, next year am going to the fourth floor, this story has made me to stand firm and not give in to the pressure. I WILL WAIT

[@ceciliagichiri7992]

Wx/8euux

[@lyn254]

To every woman you are beautiful and wonderfully made, let no man treat you less in the name of marriage.thrive in your power ❣️

[@culturenarrativeswitholalo7394]

Very inspiring story.Her mum broke the cycle by receiving her daughter's words. She healed that generational trauma.Thank you so much for sharing ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@cherrydee167]

OMG ! This lady is from my area wow am happy to see someone giving testimony ☺️ from my area I grew up am in Dubai and I swear for sure it doesn't matter how you grew up or where you come from...the future is always bright ☺️☺️I'm enjoying her inspirational story ❣️❣️ Murang'a mugoiri well represented

[@Alba-Shi]

Tuko wengi hapa😉

[@mamawatorotalks8208]

When we heal we know exactly what we want and don’t settle for less

[@asteriamariambereshu3927]

You are right..

[@alicehappiness509]

Very true, abusive relationships are very complex and NEVER judge a lady for walking out. Angela you are beautiful inside out. Learnt alot from you,wise lady🙏.

[@shemushemu9534]

Got Goosebumps listening to this stories , Our Mother's tend to be in Marriages even though they are unhappy but what you did show things are changing for the good and Never to give up on Love nomatter what your situation is

[@StarDaughterOfZionDube]

I love this woman already , God didn’t create us to be abused , it’s not His will for us to live in abuse and bondage ❤

[@yomiolayinka8754]

I’m getting obsessed watching Lynn. A very motivating interview

[@teejayangel6638]

Love love love Angela's positive outlook of life, what an inspiring story! Keep soaring!

[@elizabethwacira2561]

Inspiring story ❤️it's ok to be single than be abused..Angela you rock..

[@Butterfly-jt6cr]

Very inspirational! She had the courage to change the narrative. Breaking the cycle is never easy but we can do it with determination. Very insightful wellness journey! 💯💞

[@wmusinya97]

She actually gave me a flashback, I left my abusive babydaddy because I couldn't suffer the same way my mum suffered though bado sijapata mtu lakini leaving a toxic man is the beginning of happiness, see God 🙏

[@narcissisticabuseawareness3607]

Studies released recently shows that the two happy groups in our society are married men and single child less women. Women of next generations make wiser decisions

[@shikohmwangi1217]

Taking notes, Lynn glowing each and every moment plus channel growing

[@jpwabob8149]

Shout out for miss Kamau..... let us always have positive impact to people around us. Lyn si we find out where Miss Kamau is..... am sure she is much older now but let her know she shaped someone's life. The way we handle ourselves and others matters a lot.

[@susankambrude4668]

She's such a beautiful soul and a great story teller.

[@stellamulisa8336]

When you're wounded, you bleed on others. This explains so many things in life!

[@catherinewagaki1029]

This is the best thing that has happened to me this morning Lord remember me at the time of need and give me a second chance

[@josphinemacharia6045]

“Thrive in the place you’ve been planted” Powerful

[@KI-jn3hn]

I was in an abusive relationship for years & I managed to get out of it in 2017. I have been single since 2017 but this story is making me think twice.

[@carolynmurungi7070]

My case,let's move on sis

[@marywanjiru9107]

Thats me right now just moved two months ago.

[@mercysyombua2151]

This is me, but I always in Gods timing

[@mercysyombua2151]

I mean trusting in God's time.

[@olyviaandtheboys7788]

Am on my way to join you girls 👭

[@lucynluyali573]

Wow, thought she's in early 30s,love is a beautiful thing

[@estherkamau927]

Lynn you are an inspiration to many. Todays show has touch my soul, Am reminded of my value as a woman.

[@gertrudechacha8885]

watched angela karanja story, and was very inspired, by her courage, i lost two aunts through domestic abuse, yet people knew all about the abuse. No one did anything, they would come home tell their parents about, but nothing was done, in the end one of them took poison and ended her life. the other was kcked by the husband while pregnant and died. this has left a very bitter taste in me.

[@josephinesuji5900]

Pole. The worst bit, is that these men get away with this scotfree.

[@millicentmutisya943]

😭😢😢😢

[@daphinemary5269]

Imagine

[@angelakaranja6400]

So sorry- and that’s why we are speaking so we can stop losing our dear friends and sisters aunties mothers and ourselves!!

[@favouredmonique1361]

Thank you Lyn,I love her confidence and how articulate she brought it out...SELF Love 😘 is key,heal so that you don't bleed on other people..this is my story difficult childhood can really mess you up unless you realize it and resolve all the childhood traumas

[@serah32]

This is such an inspirational story, and I can tell she had a lot to unpack! I’m happy for her accomplishments.

[@annastanciamoraa3012]

In any reconciliatory relationship, we never seek to redo the experiences or things but owning up and saying "I was wrong, please forgive me" turns around events and restores the relationship and melts the pain of the occurrence. that was wisdom! Thank you Angela.

[@shyrokiki7441]

She has such a bubbly and lovable spirit. Her story Just goes to show how much of an impact a god teacher can have on a child.

[@angelakaranja6400]

🎉100 percent! That’s why when I work with teachers I remind them how pivotal they are

[@giftytengey2066]

Lynn, yes marriage is good but when abuse sets in, then the best advice would be to ran fast. Being single is no crime. Love for self is very important. An abusive marriage brings a lot of psychological problems including bed wetting cos of the trauma one goes through. Lynn, kudos to you and your team for all the great interviews you bring us. Gifty from Ghana 🇬🇭

[@frogiefriday3711]

Wazungu are genuine and if they love you will give you the best love. If they don’t want you they will let you know.

[@lucywai7631]

Lynn you are so good at what you do. You just let her have the stage which was the right way to interview her.

[@ruthwatitu89]

Wau the woman is beautiful thanks Lynn for bringing such stories to inspire us

[@saumuhamisi1603]

Beautiful story I’m really happy for her she over come her past and she’s now happy with her new husband 🥰

[@lilychepkirui9947]

I love this girl she is a vibe, alot of positivity in her.

[@MisosimitamuC]

I'm in France but I won't stop watching your shows Lynn. The show teaches a lot of things. We are happy and we love it very much. We are the Lynn family.

[@bettymwash2672]

hey

[@MisosimitamuC]

@@bettymwash2672 hello

[@bettymwash2672]

how are you

[@MisosimitamuC]

@@bettymwash2672 I'm good dear how are you?

[@bettymwash2672]

Aki im need of a job i dont know bt you can help me to get a job

[@winniejoy3858]

I like watching such interviews and inspire me having been single for 6 yrs

[@Kasweetie_254]

An abuser will first of all make sure you totally lose your self esteem,then they get the power n energy to abuse you the way they wanted.

[@josphinemacharia6045]

Love her story. I’m inspired by her story. I pray for that kind of love and support from my one day future mate. This and Ada’s story is so inspiring. And she’s so beautiful. Looks more like 28.

[@jackychela4638]

Beautiful soul🥰, beautiful daughter and amazing family ❤️she is a champion... Say no to abuse👌

[@LindaTinahTV]

I like that she mentions that there are good people out there. I believe this. In this crazy world, there is still good. She has good energy.

[@narcissisticabuseawareness3607]

A story full of teachings! From hard work to breaking generational stories. My dad used to also use the derogatory word on me too. We’re thrivers now☺️☺️☺️

[@gideonjoseph4274]

and a bunch of lies too..........she was my mom until I was of no useto her.......she did the same with the so called ''abusive husband".......she lost control......she's trying to control the narrative and its disgusting

[@catherinefreeman8193]

Wow amazingstory i will try to get angela so inspirational

[@ggsworld7462]

Another interesting story ,let me sit down and enjoy the show 😍

[@CoolkenyanInisrael]

Wow,Angela's energy and humour is unmatched. I love her already. She know who she is despite of what she has been through....this is awesome 👌 Rising up from abusive relationship is a choice that requires one's self love and confidence. Thanks Lynn for the video n your blouse is so good on you 👌

[@speak890]

Angie, you're an incredible woman! Keep soaring.

[@rogersraymond9867]

This lady is full of vigor and energy, I can resonate with her Thengeini primary school story

[@lizanjau3]

Am truly proud of you Angie,i usually say when you know your worth you begin to be selfish in so many aspects of your life..your time,your emotions,your space ..and with that you realize that you deserve much better.We glow differently when we heal.You look amazing my gal.

[@gloriamutola1103]

This woman is beautiful and so bubbly,her laughter is contagious. Aaah,I would be happy just to watch her from a distance. I love her

[@emmawach840]

Thank you Lynn for bringing us these inspirational journeys! This is one of the best! I must get that book!😊

[@Jacko2009100]

She's a gem, and she don't even look her age.

[@lucywanjiru1427]

So glad that you got out of the relationship, stabilized and were able to focus on exactly what you wanted. May God grant you your heart's desire.

[@chrisjuma7181]

I am watching this with tears in my eyes.

[@kyomuhendo963]

Thank u lynn for the good work u do,God bless u🙏🏻 this story has taught me alot

[@chosenqueen5109]

"There was a lot of clipping of my wings" ☹️ It's so true, abusive people don't want to see you happy or proud of yourself. They want to humble you...

[@wambuimachari1783]

My God have mercy of that kind of people....

[@tabbiemwas7478]

My exact case,the clipping was too much I felt suffocated.

[@WanjiruMuya]

When a man hits you once just walk away, Angela you are soo beautiful 😍am happy that you walked away and found love again.

[@carolinekamya2339]

When he verbally abuses you once, walk away too - that comes before the beatings

[@florenceachieng]

When a man hits you once he not gonna stop and that red flag

[@therese2148]

Not just hitting, but raising his voice, pushing etc just putting his hands on you is a red flag.

[@rosemarywairimu9635]

Run .....

[@sheilahendrich6995]

Hi Lynn Ngugi and your guest, watching from Kansas 🇺🇲

[@dorriskimathi8571]

Get out of marriage since 2014 hadi now am not thinking for any man am take care of lovely twins ❤️🥰

[@magretkhisa4373]

Got out of marriage 2018,taking care of my 4adult kids,let's connect

[@reginakarim5007]

Hi Lynn,the story is sooooo inspiring,watching from USA.

[@liliansimiyu1123]

This is so beautiful, thank you Lynn and Angela. I am a month old out of an abusive marriage and it is refreshing to hear this. One day I will be ready to share my story and hopefully give someone else hope, asante sana

[@ladysafari01]

Angela, Angela, love this woman and who she's become. Thank you for sharing your inspiring story.

[@ireenbwalya1185]

Great lesson, people should learn to be strong and leave toxic relationships.

[@janetanyango7168]

I have to heal myself before I start over again. Thanks Angy. You've touched my heart and given me hope. Lynn, you're the best. God bless you both.

[@JoyfulGod]

Great job Lynn, wow such beautiful soul who knows what she's need amazing.

[@ioniefrith3095]

Nobody dies of been single, but will if you stay in an abusive life style

[@phanicekhalayi8250]

Iistening to this teaches me one thing.i need to be greatful for everything no matter how small or trivia it may be

[@reginahenry513]

Wow ! I can relate so much from Angela's story . One day I will tell mine

[@mercymercy2121]

May God continue blessing you Lynn,your stories is therapy to many of us

[@janeblessedjcheboi5877]

Good morning Lynn and team stay blessed always here to learn

[@boohookidscreations8003]

Narcissist think they own you, they don't, your freedom is their worst nightmare. Lynn, ask Angela where I can get her book.

[@angelakaranja6400]

My book is on Amazon or any other online or offline bookstore

[@agnesnjeri8402]

Ageing gracefully Angela.. you're looking great .. very inspirational 🌹🥰

[@maqangazamanyezile218]

Thanks so much to Angela your guest Lynn, what a great story she has. Her story, her life is very relatable especially to our teenagers. She's very beautiful and powerful. Yes, most of the women have gone through abusive relationships

[@idawairimu7093]

Waaa.. A difficult childhood but God was still in control.

[@ajjruu5390]

Lynn family, one of the best team. Many likes👍👍

[@kidsentertainmenthub4126]

Angelas story has brought me tears,my cousin whom we lost through domestic violence would be her age if she was alive,how i wished she listened and believed to the strong words my dad used to tell her.We loved her as a family,the pain never goes away even after the 20 years we have been without her.I miss her dearly.

[@beatricewanjiru7656]

Hugs

[@rolahnjoroge5673]

Mrs kamau is now a doctor lecturerin the same university.

[@bontlentsweng42]

@@rolahnjoroge5673 wow 🥰🥰🥰

[@pattiwanyeki436]

Hugs🫂

[@cindymunda8306]

Angela is such amazing soul

[@terrichallo4389]

Remarkable lady, well done Angie. You are such an inspiration. God bless you

[@nck2310]

Waoh.....what a beautiful inspiring story........thanks,Linn for bringing us Angela.

[@ruthg.5915]

Angela, you are a wonderful person and have a lot of great nuggets to share with adolescents and youth in general. Like the confidence and enthusiasm, and will definitely try to get your book, "smuggled" from Amazon

[@WamboMerci]

Such an inspiration, thanks Lynn for bringing us such important eye opening contents.