"I'm A He/Him Lesbian" Trans Guy Reacts To TikTok Pronouns NONSENSE

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[@liiselaura]

"non-men" is the most annoying thing i've ever heard in my entire life

[@Annmarie-gd3fv]

Yep, and in the last couple of years, I've heard some pretty annoying "things"!!! It's amazing how it's perfectly acceptable to some people to diminish and erase women.

[@ausi731]

forreal. that would be a woman thanks 🤣

[@atyourservicedog]

I also hate being called “cis women”, we are just women. Women. We didn’t for labels, why are they adding labels to others to make themselves feel better? I didn’t ask for a label I don’t need, leave me out!😂

[@cocatfan]

Birthing person is pretty awful.

[@katiemason6222]

The most putrid thing I’ve ever heard

[@DavisNeyando]

" I use he/him pronouns, but I don't identify as a man, I like women, but still not a man, I identify as a girl" Bruh... This is just ridiculous.

[@norahgold6130]

They just want attention they’re mentally I’ll why can’t they just say that they’re lesbians? Why’s that so bad to admit

[@KPOPISLIFE425]

Fr my brain 🧠 is broken lmao

[@marino5652]

Its circus

[@Rebecca_Bailey]

I think I just lost brain cells

[@Roman_zBP]

Pronouns don't equal gender but if you use she/her to me it's misGENDERING😤😤😤😤

[@sailorsaturn8232]

What’s the point of all these labels though like it really doesn’t matter like it’s confusing asf for litterally I reason

[@sailorsaturn8232]

But seriously I really do want to understand what’s the point because Ill definitely won’t be teaching my kids this if you’re a feminine male okay I get it if you’re a masculine female okay stop trynna make it more than what it is i understand we are trynna get people to be more comfortable in their skin but you don’t have to make everyone else uncomfortable and confused

[@Alithea_Ancunin]

@@sailorsaturn8232 Pretty sure the point is control.

[@tengosueno6555]

exactly! like, what?

[@mssophiad03]

Why should we expect their people to be consistent in their own principles?

[@othernamename8006]

As a ‘traditional’ lesbian, the ‘non-men’ part really bothers me. I don’t like other people re-defining my own sexuality and explaining it back to me. They can do what they like, but that’s not for me.

[@acid_tongue_4315]

Yeah, I agree with that and Im not even a lesbian-Just sapphic (attracted to women, but undecided on men 😬). Lesbians are still fighting for recognition and respect, why tf is the sexuality changed to be inclusive when others cant even include them in basic human decency??? Bruh moment

[@ellex8597]

Girl wait for the mfs to come and tell u that you're transphobic if you don't date a woman with a d**k 🤡 you'll be surprised. How dare u be a lesbian and like pussy? 😭😂

[@AstroHiFiGabbyTurner]

that's how I felt when I "found out" that apparently even the word bisexual is transphobic. well excuse me!

[@nicholaswright3801]

A true lesbian is an adult human female (woman) attracted to other adult human females (women). I’m the same when it comes to women and trans women. Only the former for me. Some can have both and that’s fair enough but to push it on people while trying to erase women and lesbians just straight up sucks. ☹️☹️☹️

[@Misfit710]

Didn’t anyone tell you that we are just supposed to feed the delusion of degenerates or else they’ll call you a bigot? Yeah I don’t either; fuck knows I’ve been called worse.

[@silmaril8989]

Wasn't there a time where we, as women, wanted to be recognised as full human beings instead of just "not men", as if men were the only ones deserving their own word/category?? I'm... speechless

[@silmaril8989]

Wait, that also means they CAN define what a man is, but a woman? No, we simply don't exist anymore because it's "not inclusive enough" ^sigh^

[@tengosueno6555]

Involution.

[@jennyjustjenny7634]

I want old times back. And with old times I mean everything before 2015/16. I was 19/20 when this all started and I'm confused af. 😅

[@silmaril8989]

@@jennyjustjenny7634 Same. I'm close to 27 now and feel really old or as if I'm in the wrong time period

[@jennyjustjenny7634]

@@silmaril8989 Exactly! I'm not even conservative by any means and I still feel completely out of place. 😅 Those people are radical, their opinion is an ideology and they force it on everyone.

[@bluespectrum1348]

As a lesbian, I apologize everyone, we do not claim this individual. Lmfao!

[@frijofroisdeern3783]

...but are you a non-man Lesbian though? 😂

[@TinTin-uv2vc]

No apologies needed that person mess mental health services !!

[@jen2804]

Im sorry, that was my fault. My non-man lesbian circus freak got out of her cage. I mean his cage. I mean... I'm sorry. It won't happen again.

[@jelenimirijana1890]

real lesbians know a lesbian is a biological woman who is only attracted to other biological woman. If you say non men you admit you would give a trans woman a blowjob. which would make you either straight/bisexual or in my opinion a pansexual because pansexual are attracted to the person not the genital. lesbians and gay man are only attracted to someone with the same genitals as them. @@frijofroisdeern3783

[@ObnoxiousFeline]

If "pronouns don't equal gender", then why is it "misgendering" someone when you call them the wrong pronouns? That's an oxymoron.

[@DarknessIsThePath]

Logic doesnt exist in their world

[@liberfaction9700]

Here's where the grave of rationality lies

[@gablinhuman]

they evolved. now, they say “pronouns don’t >always< equal to gender” so a non-dysphoric woman can be a he/him and you’d still need to call her “he”

[@uosdwiSrdewoH]

Don't try to make sense out of it. You'll drive yourself crazy.

[@Archon_of_Freedom_]

​@@DarknessIsThePathMy whole world is logic, it's how I survived in this world, along with many others too. So I will never be able to understand them, ever.

[@elieslol]

Thank you! I am a 13 and I have autism. During quarantine I got kind of sucked into the “trans” community bubble on TikTok, and I saw multiple people trying to defend neopronouns by saying that you’re ableist (autisticphobic) if you’re against neo pronouns because apparently it’s for autistic people. And I myself got really upset about this because they were using me and people like me and our problems to defend themselves. None of the people that used this argument was autistic and have no idea what we go through. Even tho it’s true that many people with autism go through some kind of identity problems because we often feel bored in this world it should not be used as a argument to push neo pronouns on others!

[@jovana_kocic]

😲 wow. Smart 13yo You shouldn't have to deal with all of this and have this pushed on you. Trust me , disconnect, disengage from anything that causes you stress.

[@shawna5706]

@@jovana_kocic Agree 100%

[@ObnoxiousFeline]

Have an ex-friend who calls herself a "he/him nonbinary lesbian" and that's why I dropped HER as a friend. You can't be both a lesbian and a "nonbinary he/him". That's an oxymoron.

[@vonnii1013]

Word

[@heyo80]

These people want to have all the labels

[@tinabenson1492]

@@heyo80 LOL...Yep! 😂

[@Snowmon89]

No, not an oxymoron. Just a moron who either is incapable of recognizing what a paradox is, or incapable of acknowledging being wrong themselves. There's also a third possibility that their minds are so incredibly warped with fake definitions trying to justify too many things while ignoring reality and actual definitions of words. They literally don't know anything else and are raised to resist anyone who tries to teach them reality with hostility.

[@maxoreilly2698]

Or a plain vanilla moron

[@shonaaitken7635]

I love, love, loved the second one. "I use he/him pronouns, I don't want to be a man, I don't feel like a man or a woman, but I am a female. I hope this clears things up and helped". BWAHAHAHAHA. Yeah, yep, a-ha, it helped. It showed that it's all a fucking game to most of these people. They are messing with the heads of other young people, taking the piss out of genuine trans people with gender dysphoria, and straying WAY into the territory of misogyny.

[@deannadanielle]

I feel like they genuinely want to confuse people on purpose just to start an argument and publicly shame them on tiktok

[@Saylessdomore109]

I hate everything about this. Non men is so fking disrespectful to women’s existence. Never thought I’d see the day I’d be erased by my own. How embarrassing.

[@ausi731]

these people call themselves feminist but revolve the entire existence of women around men and instead of calling a woman a woman, they will first refer to her as a non-man until she tells them her pronouns. new age bs.

[@susi9242]

Yes back to the 1400th we go, when women were literally thought to be "lesser men" or "non men"

[@baobhansith5522]

​@Umlilo Artworks lol I can't get my head around this either. Shall we also refer to men now as non women to balance the scales. So we now have non women and non men🤦

[@Asterix_Angel33]

@Umlilo Artworks because the main issue isnt men, its women. If you look into it, tell me why uts always trans women (mtf) that keep saying ridiculous things about women and not trans men? You see more trans women talk bad about women then trans men about men.

[@LOUISENKIND]

This!! Exactly my thoughts!

[@LenaClaire91232]

I am so sick of feeling guilty for being a lesbian who is attracted to WOMEN. Not non men. Not non binary people. Women. But if I say that I’ll be canceled and my friends will ditch me 🫠

[@darkdoka8941]

Yeah, recently I really realized how stupid a lot of this shit is but I know that I can’t voice any of it around my friends or siblings without starting fights 😕

[@LilfoxTheHybridHylian5967]

It's honestly insane how things are

[@ru4041]

As a lesbian WOMAN i’m so happy you finally talk about this!! So sick of feeling like i’m the only sane one especially in this generation. It’s definitely making me scared that i won’t ever find a girlfriend/wife because of all this chaos in a lesbian community. Thank you so much, Marcus

[@greenbeans9748]

Right?! I'm a lesbian and I worry about being alone too! 😂 There are too many weird ones and it makes us feel like black sheep because we don't support this nonsense.

[@Paipaazi]

Same here! Less than two weeks before I am 24 years old and single as heck since it feels everyone I meet from my age group that are LGBT are like these 🙃

[@22grrrl]

@@greenbeans9748same omg….the minute i find a normal lesbian i may wanna marry them 😭

[@22grrrl]

@@neko7606 😭😭 i’m only 20 and most of the lesbians my age are these lunatics

[@MWSfan18]

Gay guy feeling the same.

[@dustinmartin2369]

People don't have pronouns languages do. Forcing people to change their language to adopt something that has zero utility to them is narcissistic to the extreme.

[@triggered577]

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@DarkCelestialConsciousness]

💖

[@kpeggs82]

Thank you.

[@infinitivez]

The vast majority of people use language, everyday, to communicate. No one is forcing you to change your language. You see someone who is feminine, it's socially acceptable to refer to them as She/Her. They tell you otherwise, it's their pronoun, not yours. Not respecting it, is just asinine. Enjoy being the arse.

[@KittenTheB]

@@infinitivez trick my senses and you'll get your preferred pronouns 🤷‍♀️ simple as that. It's not being an asshole to call someone a duck if it looks like a duck, quacks like a duck, and flaps like a duck..... It's not a chicken 🤦‍♀️ . And it IS rude and narcissistic to expect someone to go against what their brain is interpreting. If language can change and doesn't matter I dare you to go all day without using the word ONE while shopping.

[@ellacheck]

As a lesbian THANK YOU. I’ve gotten called a terf because I said I wouldn’t date a trans woman

[@1800JokesOnYou]

Gender ≠ pronouns Gender ≠ biological sex Gender ≠ expression Then what's the point of changing your gender identity when it literally doesn't mean anything?

[@MillerTheMagicalBoyDarkPrince]

Ikr

[@jelenadrnas3253]

I got a headache listening to this bullshit

[@Roman_zBP]

To them it's just a ~vibe~

[@MillerTheMagicalBoyDarkPrince]

I get it if like people feel comfortable with using He/Him He/They and They/Them but if somebody just uses their pronouns and don't like don't want to be called a man or a person then they need to love their selves for being biologically women like I do as a trans male with no surgery

[@MillerTheMagicalBoyDarkPrince]

@@jelenadrnas3253 Same

[@jscho8674]

My generation always hated labels, and just wanted equal, fair treatment and respect. Why do all these younger people LOVE these labels so much, and go out of their way to pile as many of them as they can think up? I've seen a video where the young girl said her pronouns are it and dirt. What the heck is happening?!? Why would someone degrade themselves like that?! It confuses the holy heck out of me. All of it. /end rant

[@DelphineTheWorstBladeEver]

It is mostly Gen z, but I've been seeing crazies of all ages. I've noticed boomers and millennials are less into it, and x and z are blindly supporting. That's just how it looks on the places I go, on the internet. Obviously I never actually see anyone acting like this in real life.... Lol.

[@dongiano]

The non-man thing is wild. Same when they called fertile women, 'birthing person(s)'. It's just ridiculous

[@nikolaosnikosjordan]

You never here such crap about men. Literally, it always seems to be women. 🙄 Can’t respect women while non-binaries or other persons exist apparently. I’m tired of people being so self-centered and narcissistic. Believing that everyone must cater and should know their pronouns. That everyone should care about them just because they’re different. A lot of LGBTQ+ people are creeps or honest to the gods…narcissists with childish mentalities.

[@gosalynmallard143]

Or people who menstruate...

[@dongiano]

@@gosalynmallard143 chest-feeding

[@wren3695]

its such a weird way to describe people

[@allyxd1790]

Kinda reminds me of the handmaid's book they all cry about 🤣

[@diamond-ge7td]

i used to be friends with a non binary he/him lesbian. yes I'm serious 😭 I still respected that person because I did not want to disrespect them. but that person was so 'woke' and kept villifying me for so many things that were not my fault and kept victimising themselves. they even said I was fetishizing women when I was questioning my sexuality (bicurious) 😭😭 these kind of people are so toxic and sensitive to EVERYTHING and will make anyone look like a villain for nothing 😭 also, they also had it/itself pronouns 😭😭 this is what 'wokeness' does to people 😭😭😭😭

[@stevenscott2718]

for some reason this remindes of an interview of fetish model i read. "don't you find it demeaning to treated like a sex object?", "No, i want to be treated that way thats why i'm a fetish model" the whole interview could be sumerised as "you should feel bad about your job because i don't like it." "well i do like it so get fucked".

[@22grrrl]

i’m a lesbian because i’m a female and exclusively into females… i hate what they’re doing to our community I love being a woman and loving other women

[@casey98]

the "t" has hijacked the LGB

[@youtubestolemyname]

It really is this simple. Sad lesbians these days have to sift through these attention-seekers just to find another female attracted to females. It should literally be as simple as your comment.

[@2004hu]

I’m sorry you gotta go through that. Seems very invalidating

[@leeriches8841]

I understand. Sucks that they've 'rEcLaImEd' the word 'queer' too. I would never call myself that.

[@22grrrl]

@@leeriches8841 Oh yes definitely. I will never call myself a queer, it’s very synonymous to straight imo

[@OliviaHall-fd5th]

THANK YOU FOR THIS. I am a trans girl but the whole he/him lesbians or she/her gay men literally make NO SENSE. It really annoys me how trans people look like a total joke when we are compared to these people. I seriously just can't with it.

[@ds82wrestling]

I'm sorry, the "look at my hands" guy is disturbing. I would not allow them within 30 feet of me.

[@triggered577]

Me neither. He seems like some kind of sexual pervert/deviant. 🤢🤮

[@kentuckywildcatgobigblue7190]

Exactly

[@dancinginthepsychward6381]

Amen

[@asdfasdff747]

And disgusting

[@SombreroPharoah]

His whole vibes so dark! I gotta say though, the hand thing gone right over my head. What the devil does he even mean? Like... Bruh.... You got painted nails!? Every single goth lad out here has, it really don't mean squat!

[@BeatzByMK]

I’m a woman, not a “non man”. I don’t want to be man, but I want to be called a man. Wtf… how tf can you be a lesbian and go by “he/they”. My brain hurts.

[@arielle]

Keep speaking the truth babe

[@marcusdib]

❤❤❤

[@kalen2465]

I was born in the 90s. Even then it was difficult to fit in as an autistic. Now it's the 2020s and things are much weirder. Now we got people that identify as bugs, dirt, or non men. Autistic people already feel out of place. This new craze doesn't help. Especially since most of these people have you're with me or your against me mentality. I can't help but wonder how many de- transitioners are autistic and transitioned because their friends pressured them to.

[@insanenoire7154]

Took the words right out of my mouth. I’m autistic and I don’t fit in with the modern day community. I don’t understand a lot of societal expectations but that doesn’t mean you have to identify as a bug or something.

[@jelenadrnas3253]

These women need therapy, a lot of it.

[@22grrrl]

Some of them are men 😭

[@love-ip7sz]

It's so disgusting how people dismiss just how many people take on new identities as a way to escape their trauma. People really bs like it would only be say 1%

[@IDontWantThisStupidHandle]

@@love-ip7sz there is no way for us to know any of them are doing that without them saying so. Regardless, it's not a healthy way to cope with trauma, and when it involves silencing/punishing total strangers because they don't agree with your nonsense, it is problematic.

[@yuh.1567]

After watching the whole prounouns mess I'm so glad to there are only one prounouns in my country . I'm living in Turkey and we use " o " for he, she or it . For the langues who have a lot of prounouns, I wish them patience .

[@dimercamparini]

Damn that's heaven...considering moving to Turkey soon... :DDD

[@keva9936]

My first language is bengali (I live in India) and there exists only gender neutral pronouns to refer to people in this language (shae, ta-ke, o-ke, etc)

[@LukiKruki]

@@keva9936 My first language is Polish but it's so heavly based on male/female word gendering that it's not possible to add any "new".

[@arinaira1417]

Same here. I'm from Indonesia and we have one pronoun 'dia'. You can use the gendered one but i prefer to use 'dia' because it's easier.

[@valerie362]

They're basically taking terms that have been used inside the lesbian community/bedroom forever and trying to make it an issue. Butch lesbians liked to be called he/him forever but they don't force mainstream people to call them that. It was a word for friends or people in the club.

[@sparkly3tchr]

Right? I was thinking the same thing. Some very butch women I dated didn’t want ME to refer to them in feminine terms because of our dynamic but didn’t go around asking everyone else to do it.

[@valerie362]

@@sparkly3tchr Exactly! I've had friends who wanted their girls to call them Husband, My Man and friends call them bro, dude, etc. I'm only not adding daddy because I have issues with that as a parent lol but it could be in that list.

[@DarkCelestialConsciousness]

Wow didn't kno I love this! XD 💖🌻🌺🔥💯💥

[@vonnii1013]

I assumed thats what it was about for real

[@FakeVenatus]

@@DarkCelestialConsciousness Historically it was also used so lesbians can be in public together without being murdered for being lesbians.. cause you know... one looks like a man

[@user-lt2rw5nr9s]

There was a chick at uni that identified as a gay man with he/him pronouns. She tweeted that she got in trouble for using the anti-gay F slur and she claimed it applied to her so she could use it.

[@user-lt2rw5nr9s]

Oh, needless to say she presented feminine and didn't make any effort to look like a guy. If she looked the part I wouldn't of cared really.

[@tntatp]

thank you for making this video. i’m a lesbian and recently deleted tiktok because it was getting absolutely ridiculous. i remember there being this cis guy with a full beard and everything, his pronouns were he/him but he said that he identified as a female lesbian and everyone who disagreed with him was labeled as a transphobe... thankfully these discussions are only online currently lol you don’t run into these people in real life

[@22grrrl]

bc they literally never leave the house they’re so into their phones…….a whole dude should not be calling themselves a lesbian..it’s the same reason why i deleted tiktok too 💀

[@cariaus3758]

I recently had a customer who came in to buy women's shoes, and it was a man with very short hair a beard, lipstick long earrings and sparkly bodysuit. I'm not sure what he identified as, but it is becoming the norm as I've seen a few bearded men dressed as women in real life.

[@babygirrrl5147]

Yeah I saw a female, dressed femininely, saying she was a he/him lesbian. So fucking stupid. I'm tired of men wearing dresses and then saying they're lesbians. Tired of being called transphobic bc I don't want dick

[@Violetbunnyfish]

It sounds like he was just trolling.

[@angel5423]

"Non-men"😂😂😂 along with "Birthing people" and "Menstruators" bruhh this sounds like Handmaid's Tale

[@champigranja1179]

Non man? That sounds so dystopic. It reminds me of The Handmaid's Tale novel, where they called "unwomen" those who had no value and got sent to concentration camps to clean toxic waste.

[@LukiKruki]

It reminds me of Polish movie comedy Seksmisja (Sexmission) where the women killed all men (or the men killed themselves idk), went underground and created a community where only women exist, where anything man related doesn't exist, where women pregant themselves without men, where the remaining men are turned into "women", where men don't have rights. The protagnonists are the last two men woke up in the women facility. It turned out the ruler of the facility is a man disguised as a woman.

[@Nike_from_Italy]

As an autistic girl i really appreciated your comment about woke people's behaviour torwards autistics. My feelings are, we can say, partially "turned off" so back in the days i had multiple friends telling me that i was probably trans or non-binary for that reason (?) and for a short time i identified as non-binary. Now i'm 20, i got a second diagnose of ADHD and i'm not talking to those people anymore. I don't hate them, but for sure i don't have any kind of a real dysphoria and i'm still scared of how easily people and trends can manipulate me... Great video, by the way✨✨ (If i made mistakes it's because english is not my first language)

[@vanessaarnell]

Marcus , I love your theories. I see why you and Blaire get along. You both are normal trans people.

[@ghostbaeb3]

blaire is a man in disguse and this is a woman acting like a man. yall pick and choose who gets to be trans and who doesnt lmfao

[@vanessaarnell]

@@ghostbaeb3 lol. I never said Blaire wasn't a man or Marcus wasn't a woman. I was just simply saying that those two are normal trans people. These two know they will always be male/female genetically. They have no issues with that. That is why I like them so much. They aren't lying to themselves.

[@ghostbaeb3]

@@vanessaarnell trans people arent oblivious to what they were biologically born as you fucking idiot. once again youre picking and choosing who to support. my comment was sarcastic. its bullshit to see trans people in power have these right wing ideologies and shit all over people. specifcally minors or the 1 percent of people who have detranistioned yet. wont fucking google the actual facts. gender and shit is all a conception and another way you fat conservatives want to control minorities. fuck you.

[@vanessaarnell]

@@ghostbaeb3 aww, you must be an angry little trans person. God bless. Lmao

[@SarahJaneOmega]

Not too long ago, I tried signing up for a social media site that is specifically for LGBTQ+ people. I'm a bisexual woman. The first thing I had to do was say what gender I am. The options are No Entry, Man, Trans Man, Trans Woman, Non-binary and Other. Nothing for biological women, which I am. Needless to say, I didn't sign up.

[@rebeccahicks2392]

So Man got an entry but woman didn't...

[@PurpleMonadoBlaze]

I’m autistic and a trans women I tried to date last year first tells me:fuck ableism and then tries telling me about how trans people support autistic/other disabled people like me and then a few days later or so, she tells me I’m a red flag because she asked for my opinion on public schools and I told her about how I don’t support public schools and how in school I wish I was in normal/regular ed classes with everyone else and not special ed because 1. Im not high functioning autism and 2. I was bullied my entire childhood for being in special ed services. And I’m somehow a red flag because I don’t like my experience in school? So now whenever someone tells me something like “fuck ableism” I’m just thinking to myself:why are u telling me this? I just wish I was normal instead. Im commenting this because I agree with you that I don’t think the “lgbt community” cares about autistic/disabled people like me and just wanna exploit us instead.

[@juliannacolombo5584]

I find people who are supportive demonstrate it with actions, they dont need to announce it to you. If you dont mind me asking what state did you attend school in? I think special ed needs a huge overall from the states ive experienced.

[@tengosueno6555]

I hate people who you can't have a normal conversation with. They're all for 'fuck ableism' until they meet a disabled person that won't just blindly follow their ideas. Plus, they always use us neurodivergent people to 'justify' neopronouns, invented genders and literally all of their political propaganda, but they really don't give a shit about us. Being autistic does not mean I can't think for myself.

[@greenbeans9748]

Sounds like you encountered a disability virtue signaler. 😒 I have Aspergers and hated being in the special ed services too. No matter how much you tried to blend in with the other kids, you were an instant target if you had a para or went to something as harmless as a resource room. I'm a college student now and even though I have the option to receive extended time on tests and such, I refuse to use it. You're not a red flag, you're a breath of fresh air. You just want to live your life like everyone else and don't treat your quirks like they're something special or something to constantly whine about. Also, I hate the word "ableism." Why can't we just call people jerks?

[@badasspinkpony5486]

I work as a sped para and I'm sorry you had a bad experience. I'm very fortunate that my school is online which means that the kids have the advantage of anonymity, but I've heard plenty of horror stories from the kids I work with about bullying from both kids and teachers. If there's something your school could have done better, what would it have been?

[@juliannacolombo5584]

@@badasspinkpony5486 I have a question about online schooling. How tailored is it to the individual student? My biggest critique of the special education classroom was that although there were many varying degrees in capabilities and learning styles as well as the "grade level" each student was current performing on. This did my sister a huge disservice. It wasn't until 8th grade that she had a teacher who would split the class in two different math groups. It's was too little too late. My sister went into general Ed classes the following year and I was horrified with how many basic things she wasn't taught. It was a huge struggle to try and catch up..and she did. By end of year she got decent grades..graduated with honors. So she had the ability but the class covered such a huge array of disabilities..idk how a teacher could deliver the same lesson to the group as a whole for every single subject . She went into high-school not knowing the structure of paragraphs or essays. That one "English class" skill gets used in almost all high school classes. I was shocked into anger she wasn't shown before hand. Not for nothing though general Ed does also let some students fall through the cracks this way too. I was bored in school. I would cut class by7th or 8th grade. I would always show up to hand in assignments and take tests. Tests where I would always score 90s or higher. Teachers were frustrated they couldn't fail me for absence because of how well I did on the material. I even asked if they could assign me something more challenging.and no one did until my senior year of high school. That woman finally saw me not as a degenerate bad kid. She knew I was serious when I told her I rather not be in class because I can be reading further and learning more that way. It made all the difference how she treated me.. Idk if any of this helps...but felt good to share. Happy 2023!

[@kellharris2491]

I will say this as a young girl I went through puberty early. I got a lot of sexual comments starting at age 11. And it did make me uncomfortable. It made me very self conscious about my body. I was a big tomboy. I was pressured to be more feminine and to act a certain way. And so I wanted to be a boy. I had gender dysphoria. My gender dysphoria was caused by pressure to be a certain type of feminine and so I rebelled and tried to be as masculine as I could. As I got older I became comfortable as a Bisexual woman. Many of these women are just lesbian or gay. And possible with internalized homophobia or confused about gender roles. As teenagers many gay or lesbians are gender nonconforming. But they usually feel comfortable in their gender when they get older. I feel like many of these teenage girls don't understand that they can be butch lesbian or tomboys. Instead they feel like they have to be nonbinary or he/him lesbians. They aren't trans. They are gay.

[@taeyang069]

It really surprises me how women both straight & homosexual have the short end of the stick when it comes to dating but at least straight women don't have to deal with men in makeup calling themselves a "lesbian"

[@therealtrissmerigold]

No, but we still have to deal with trans men with "bun bun" and "potato" etc pronouns telling us we should date them lmao

[@insanenoire7154]

I’m an autistic woman and I grew up in the 90s so I wasn’t exposed to all this stuff. I never considered myself trans or non-binary because I felt comfortable being referred to as a girl and liked to express myself that way. I get that there’s a higher percentage of trans people among the autism community but I don’t think it’s fair to convince other autistics that they’re trans. Let people figure out their gender identity by themselves. We already feel ostracized as it is.

[@milenac.7013]

i will neverrr get defining women as non-Men. they don't even hear how ridiculous and insulting that is? and does that mean they define men as non-women? and if we're going by that definition, that means we define the one thing as being "not the other thing". so why not call it THAT thing that it is ??

[@tengosueno6555]

Why do women need to be defined by MEN? This is the most anti feminist shit I've seen. These people are disrespecting all of the women who fought for centuries so they could be able to sit in their privileged ass and rant about unimportant 1st world issues.

[@abyssoftus]

By their definition that would mean all Intersexed people are women and I know a few that would strongly disagree with that assessment.

[@theresas740]

I feel double plus ungood about being called a non-man.

[@Tony-qr8hu]

It is not defining women as „non men“. Non men means people who are not a man. And that’s not only women. Its also non binary people and agender people etc. „non men“ is just a term for all of those together.

[@abyssoftus]

@@Tony-qr8hu I think you may be conflating gender with sex, they are 2 different things. They were at one time closely link and still tend to be for the "cis" population but for those that are "non-cis" it can be very much unlinked. Unfortunately many of these gender activist also conflate the two damaging their cause.

[@huitrecouture]

On the lighter side I'm laughing my ass off at your withered gaze upon hearing "non-men". You are my new FAVORITE CHANNEL hands DOWN! 🤣❤

[@AC-hf3gm]

I'm a lesbian and as a girl I rejected feminity and hated being a girl, I still feel dysphoria towards my breasts(I only recently found out it was dysphoria) and I'm so greatful I had common sense. I had to learn to love myself and deconstruct alot of stuff I believed as a girl and carried with me. I'm fem now and and comfortable being myself and being feminine. I used to hate the idea of being a lesbian because I had this preconceived idea of a butch/dyke and hated myself so deeply. I'm proud to be a in women. I wish they put in effort to actually deconstruct this bullshit and heal and grow instead of denying reality.

[@ackzk]

👏

[@justanotakugirl5821]

Hi, I'm also a girl and have experienced dysphoria about my chest (wanting it to be not there, and to be flat) for around 5 years now. I know that I'm not a man. But I also feel weird calling myself a woman, neither of those words feel like me. I might just refer to myself as a girl forever at this rate Do you have any advice?

[@SummersPsycheDelicates]

@@justanotakugirl5821 if you don't mind me popping in (I was also a tomboy who wished I could get my breasts removed over the years but I'm past that) I would look into why you feel like the word woman doesn't fit you, bc to me that sounds like you have preconceived notions around how to act like one, or it illicits a certain feeling, like descriptors that don't fit you when you hear it. I could be totally off base ofc but I hope that helps! Wishing you good luck :)

[@Lunalla]

I relate so much with what you’re saying, except I’m bisexual. It took me a long time to accept having breast (they’re large) and that stemmed from sexual abuse, and just all around uncomfortable in my body cause I was going through puberty lmfao. Glad you’re doing better and more happy and accept yourself and your body, that shit is never easy.

[@Lunalla]

@@justanotakugirl5821you’re simply dealing with something that’s psychological causing you to feel this way towards your chest. Please understand this girly; there’s more than one way to be a woman, and you don’t need to feel alienated from it simply because your experience may differ from most women and girls around you. I resonate deeply with what you’re saying and wanting to have a flat chest. You’re still very young, so understand this discomfort won’t be permanent and you have to actively and consistently put in the work in order to keep your mind, body, and spirit healthy. Take it day by day, you’re gonna do just fine in life, you’re already open to listening to others which is a good step in self help and self acceptance/love❤️

[@nikolaosnikosjordan]

I love how they’re still supporting men by reducing women to all these things. Suddenly we only care about women if they’re “body positive” (fat and encouraging just being fat; I know there are people who were born as such, as all bodies are different. But there is a difference between being naturally bigger or having lower metabolisms, and choosing to be fat), beautiful, or trans (mtf). Wonderful…women fought so hard and this is the result.

[@Listentotheread]

I’m not a girly girl, but that doesn’t mean that I’m a man.

[@ditzyditz7329]

Exactly like have people forgotten that tomboys exists? People aren’t 2 dimensional, they are all unique in different ways-

[@cynthiahembree3957]

@@ditzyditz7329 I’m a tomboy and at this point I just can’t understand what people are thinking. Being a woman who is a bit more on the masculine side isn’t a bad thing. And it definitely doesn’t make my a man

[@houseflies]

What I remember, is that lesbians using male terms for themselves has been a long time thing. They were often butch women who were subverting expectations in their relationships, referring to their girlfriend as their boyfriend or - indeed - using he/him. Just as gay men have been using female terms, historically. Now, the difference is that, back then, this was solely homosexual culture. Everyone doing this/exposed to this were homosexual or bisexual. They were all in on the nuance. The point used to be the non-conformity of societal rules - or, admittedly, to hide -, and not at all about gender identity. (I'm not talking about transsexuality here). Additionally, it's absolutely horrifying to see women and female exclusionary sexuality defiled to a 'non-men' category. Women are not the absence of maleness. It is very telling that men aren't being described as 'non-women' in equal measures. For crying out loud. All the decades of fighting for female liberation and this gender trend is trying to destroy it all in just a single decade.

[@ShakeDownStreet0714]

Ok, I'm a lesbian & these "lesbian" tik tockers are clueless about what being a lesbian actually entails... These people are ruining things for the rest of us.

[@LilfoxTheHybridHylian5967]

Always did. They always did.

[@y3sterdays_tr0ubles2]

It’s unfair that these dumb people can just declare that their a “man” or “a woman”, and are just seen as it, and praised for their hard, selfless journey, and I had to go through pretty rough mental issues, trying to get my peers and family to just simply see me as a dude, and feel comfortable around me. This went on for two whole years, and “came out” at 13, and had to wait 4 bloody years to go to therapy to help me get in hormones. It made my life a living hell. But I knew myself, I knew I was a guy, I knew someone was wrong, and I RESPECTFULLY and NICELY stood my ground. this world is fucking Bull.

[@jackietea8772]

Its so funny to me that they just decide to change what "pronouns" mean because they feel like it.... but the word pronoun was literally created to describe the persons gender during discourse.... that is literally what a pronoun is. You cant just decide thats not what it means because you feel like it. Words are created with a certain definition for a certain reason... its why they exist. Female is a woman born with a vagina... Male is a person born with a penis.... We need these two words to understand the world in science, medicine, storytelling, culture. That is what we made them for. That is why the words TRANS man or TRANS woman exist. If you identify as girl, and genitals have nothing to do with it then transgender doesn't exist... so should we just stop saying that too? or is that transphobic? Penis's and Vagina's are a real thing that cant just be erased because of "semantics". They are bending definitions so badly nothing even has a clear definition anymore. I dont even feel like these woke people agree on definitions anymore... they all say something different, and all come up with new definitions every hour. It's so convoluted. You cannot function in science without clear definitions... it just doesn't work. They are not there to be offensive, they are there to describe reality.

[@jelenadrnas3253]

This comment should be on billboards at this point so these delusional people have to see and read it

[@silmaril8989]

Everyone just creates their own reality, because "reality is subjective" (and yes I've read whole threads about this argument, basically saying nothing is objectively real [natural sciences exiting the room[... and they claim to be the sane ones...)

[@jackietea8772]

@@silmaril8989 Reality being "subjective" is literally the REASON we make words and definitions... so we can all try to connect the dots as a social group. Its why we have the dictionary so we can communicate and understand each other... otherwise we would all be talking gibberish, expecting people to understand what we are saying. Bending definitions so heavily to the point of not having any is literally going backwards. Its why no one can have a coherent conversation about this community with these people... its talking in circles because definitions are SO convoluted.

[@LukiKruki]

trans = across port = carry parent = appear transport = across-carry transparent=across-appear All from Latin

[@GM-qq1wi]

I attended a lesbian wedding last year, held in a nightclub, at 8pm, with a drag queen as a wedding celebrant. They used "he/him pronouns when referring to both brides, it was so stupid. The wedding theme was "green", because bride A is a stoner, so everybody was encouraged to wear green; including bride B who wore a mid-thigh length green satin dress and bride A wore green suit and green platform boots. So cringe, you had to be there.

[@Ktakahashi18]

How do these people talk to people? Like people outside their little tiny brainwashed bubble, how do they talk to people normally? They have created their own vocabulary and change it every other day. Its bizarre these people exist.

[@love-ip7sz]

They don't talk to people they talk AT people and that's why they stay in their little thought bubble...

[@psychegoddessoflight9358]

Mindfuckery games: the only way to win is to not play. The “he/they lesbian” especially just gets off on messing with people’s minds. “Hell is empty and all the devils are here.” -Wm Shakespeare

[@mrs.higgins3055]

I love being a biological feminine straight woman! ❤️ Yes, I said it.

[@JenBabyJen]

Same! God forbid we admit we love the bodies “assigned” to us 😂 lmao make it make sense

[@evastrangelove]

Samesies 😊

[@AgentSickOrange]

If you say youre a woman you dont need to say biological before it

[@BeatzByMK]

I love it too!!! ✨ people like this really disgust me. They want respect but yet they disrespect us… make it make sense.

[@charlottesmom]

Same! ❤

[@curiouskato]

53yo grandmother here, brought up in the 80s with my proud lesbian sister. She has been my best friend and my rock many many times. We talked about this issue a few times and are just left scratching our heads. IMO I wish the lesbian and gay elders out there could set these youngens on a path that makes freaking sense😳 I have spent decades celebrating pride with my sister and my friends and just feel this whole fake trans 'movement' is setting LGBTQ back in so many ways... Thank you Marcus for all your videos and keeping us informed by explaining so much of what these people are 'trying to do. Keep up the good work😘🌈💖✨

[@bemused9522]

Working at a college, being required to take Safe Spaces course, learning pronouns, I feel like I am an advocate for every student, but this last year has just thrown me (I am old school X hener). So, in effort to not hurt anyone 's feelings or be disciplined by the college, the last 6 months, I refer to everyone as you or that student over there. It's the only way I can figure out how to manage it, as the pronouns change seemingly every week.

[@jennyjustjenny7634]

Oh that sounds so bad. Isn't is sad to go to work and literally be afraid to talk with people/ the students?

[@astroterf.]

Damn, I'd be so offended if someone referred to me as 'you there' Can't you just use names instead of the ridiculous pronouns?

[@TheLadyDelirium]

@@astroterf. That's the ideal situation but it's difficult if you don't their name or the person you're talking doesn't know the name of the person you're referring to.

[@bemused9522]

@@astroterf. 2000 students, no name tags. Nope, I don't know all their names.

[@astroterf.]

@@bemused9522 fair enough - I never had a teacher who didn't know all their students names though 🤷🏻‍♀️ I wasn't having a go, just saying that 'you there' just seems dismissive to me, like the person doesn't even value me enough to use a name I think your point about 2000 students just underscores how ridiculous this pronoun stuff is though...these people will say 'its no harder to remember a pronoun than a name' but 1) that's not true and 2) they change their own pronouns probably at least as often as they change their underwear (more in some cases, it seems) SO - why should they be surprised if you get it wrong? The end result is this! Student #1, Student #2, Student #3 just to possibly not 'cause offence' It's time teachers stood up to this, but it's becoming such an ingrained agenda I have no idea where it all will end 😔

[@lother1111]

"It's uncontrollable what people think of you in their own heads, you do the same thing. So before you say "stop assuming people's pronouns" you do it too when you look at another person." Yeah, this is so true. It's stupid for them to think that people will never just assume someone's pronouns especially when they do it too. I'm an artist and I made ocs/fcs and I've seen people who will also make characters that they claim go by some bs pronouns but there are a lot of them that end up slipping up in their OWN characters' bios and call them by the pronoun that they look like at least once and they'll get mad if you call the character by the pronouns they look like. It's always so funny to me when I see it tbh because it's like "Okay, so you know this character is just a girl. You acknowledge it, clearly, but you don't wanna actually say they're a girl" it's dumb af. It feels like a really stupid game and I want no part of it

[@kjosephine70]

Thanks! I tend to lean quite left politically (believe in body autonomy, affordable healthcare, socialist programs like libraries), but I cannot get behind these odd activist behaviors - so refreshing to watch your videos.

[@marcusdib]

❤❤

[@SomeJerkOnTheInternet]

Same here, these extremists are actively hurting leftist Causes by making the left look insane.

[@megsley]

you're not the only one! I tend to vote liberal/left but this gender identity politics shit has left me exhausted.

[@mamamua4644]

Im so tired of everyone assuming that if you are liberal or on the left that you stand behind this nonsense. It’s a way to shit on democrats or liberals without realizing a lot of us aren’t woke SJWs.

[@Justanotherandy63]

If "he/him" lesbians want to date other "non-men" then just date each other and leave actual lesbians alone. Or is it that they don' want non-men with men parts any more than actual lesbians?

[@Sarah-dq1fm]

The look at my hands guy was creepy af. I thought he was pointing out his manicure 🤢🤢🤢….so freaking disgusting and scary.

[@babygirrrl5147]

Yeah he was freaky AF!! He has crazy eyes and looks like breath stinks like shit. Nails looked grubby af too. If your voice sounds like that, you ain't a woman or a lesbian

[@Gstar2395]

I feel like many of these people share a common issue, like, their behavior seems similarly strange. It's like, before we didn't know certain mental illnesses existed and now we know what they are and how to treat them or get them under control (bipolar, anxiety, etc.) Maybe the same is happening now, there is something going on with some people (other than social media) but we don't know it yet.

[@AdviserMoppet]

5:53 when she said to learn history I'd like to ask her when's the last time she read an actual educational book that she wasn't forced to read.

[@daisyhoward5472]

I'd start with just a book.

[@clarie4497]

Does anyone remember the MySpace fad of girls kissing girls (I mean literal pre teens and teens) for page views? Like, there'd be one pic and then everything else was cute boys and Emo teddy bears. Then it disappeared and Katy Perry made it a fad for awhile before it also disappeared. Edit: spelling error This TikTok trans "movement" reminds me of those days.

[@PaulBenares]

Many gay men who do drag are often referred to as she/her, even off stage. But no-one would think they are women.

[@ЕкатеринаШишкова-о1р]

Jeez at this point I identify myself as Kim K’s hidden daughter and my pronouns are Balenciaga and Dior 😂✌️

[@MrsHyde1018]

Everyone back in the day laughed and mocked Chris Chan when he came out as a lesbian. But as the years go by, he was truly ahead of his time. 😫 What some people in the trans community don’t realize, is some women are lesbian because they don’t like men or don’t like dick. And that’s ok. That’s what the term lesbian is for. It is not a term for biological men. Some lesbians lean more in the bi direction, and them I could see dating a trans woman. But acting like every lesbian *has no choice* but to want you is a fallacy. Especially if you’re a biological man that hasn’t had or doesn’t plan to have bottom surgery.

[@missikira]

I personally am bisexual but I don't think I would be able to actually date a trans person that still have their original genital , this is why I don't actually identify as pansexual but actually identify as a bisexual

[@stevenscott2718]

What gets me about the 'trans' lesbians is the attitude of your phobic if you won't date me. It just like what? no. If a straight women refuses to date a lesbian there not homophobic, if a lesbian doesn't date a man she's not hetrophobic. They always seem to ingore the probable real cause that they find them unattractive

[@kelseyhasiuk460]

Marcus, I truly appreciate you, Arielle, Blaire & Buck, for being so courageous. I have recently left the leftists- not to say I'm 100% conservative. I just truly love how you all are willing to tell things in a rational manner, despite political, gender, or sexual stances. Thank you so much for making me feel like I'm not crazy!

[@ashmelon7272]

Yeah sorry. I do want my women to be... WOMEN. That's why I like them in the first place! Sorry. Also lot of the nb and he/him lesbians also tend to pressue other wlw and call us phobic for it for not being attracted to them. Just like the mtf. Can't catch a break...

[@CalThePaladin3733]

They're tiring...

[@amandawilkinsontarot7096]

I am done with people saying, "I identify as". If you have to qualify something, then you are not that thing. Who wants to have surgery by someone who identifies as a surgeon?? Who wants a lawyer / oral surgeon / doctor / social worker, etc that identifies as something as that profession??

[@blvdwika]

@7:30 * looking at his hands * YOU ARE NOT A LESBIAN

[@therealtrissmerigold]

I legit yelled, "SO BASICALLY YOU'RE A STRAIGHT MAN" at the screen when he did that lmao

[@HexesfromTexas]

I remember this episode on The L Word where Alice was dating a lesbian man named Lisa. They (the characters) all thought it was so bizarre and back then yes I think it was put in the show to be more inclusive. But it was still a “ridiculous thing” And look at where we are now.. in actual reality. 😂😑 What is happening?

[@aturniakane4539]

i noticed a lot of hate/self hate towards women. i always find that odd, because in my family women are strong and resilient. they also don't try to be men.

[@katsukibakugou9367]

7:36 Mom, come pick me up I'm scared ;-;

[@leftalone9881]

I’m an autistic woman who detransitioned. Not only have I never strongly identified with being “a girl”, I also never felt GOOD ENOUGH. Growing up I was called “it” even fully presenting as a girl. As in “ew don’t let it get near you.” I felt girls could be alluring and attractive but I was too crude, weird, and unattractive to be a woman. I didn’t understand why I was othered for liking the things I liked and behaving the way I am. Autistic people disproportionately identify as gender non-conforming due to the inherent nature of autism, but they’re also infantilized, condescended, and considered basically not even human enough to be seen as a complex romantic and sexual being. What’s worse, autistic women are disproportionately subjected to sexual abuse, which further creates that disconnect between the feminine body and the mind. I want to protect autistic women from this dehumanizing treatment. There’s no right way to be a woman. Autistic women are women enough.

[@watovit]

This comment is extremely enlightening ❤ You are woman, woman :)

[@Velvet_Wings9]

As a late diagnosed autistic woman.. thank you for your comment! You are really strong!

[@growingoaks]

I really enjoy seeing normal trans people like you, Buck Angel and Blaire White. If it wasn’t for Blaire, I’d have taken one look at someone like Jon Yaniv or Dylan Mulvaney and thought that’s how the whole trans community acts. It’s really refreshing to see the ones who arent bat shit crazy.

[@TIVOSTUDIOS]

It's weird I grew up with an older sister that a lot of people thought was a lesbian because was not very feminine very beautiful but never into make-up or girly anything, she is happily married with 3 kids and very open about what she likes and I asked her if she was not even a little bi, and she is definitely very straight, I'm gay and used to have gays friends of mine thinking I was too shy, fill me with alcohol to finally see me transform into a screaming queen, it never happened, I only like guys, I not even top, but I'm only interested in guys stuff, the reason most my friends are straight, because besides the sex I have very little in common with gay guys, I don't self hate, I grew up in a very liberal family if I was a drag queen my mother would absolutely love it, is just the way I am, I'm very extroverted but I never managed even by pretending in how to be flaymbouant, is just doesn't happen naturally, so why people just don't be whatever they are and stop overly analysing, have a vagina, breast and like other with the same specifications : congratulations you are a lesbian the end !

[@juliannacolombo5584]

I am so glad you covered this! Im straight (strictly dickly lmao just wanted an excuse to say that). But feel like us woman need to stick together..lesbian or straight..women..stop trying to erase us! Non men..gimme a break..children are non men..sure you wanna argue this stance?

[@babygirrrl5147]

Period! I'm a lesbian but yes all of us women need to stick together. I'm tired of men and these weirdos invading our spaces and we just have to accept it and be happy about it. I'm tired of men in dresses calling themselves women and lesbians and trying to be in our locker rooms and bathrooms.

[@ziigiiziig]

It took me 29 years to finally come out as a lesbian and this is what my dating pool looks like... Might be time for me to go back in the closet.

[@mint_soup9743]

That eyeroll at "patriarchal society" just kills me 😆. I feel you! Like: " Oh, here we go again! 😩" 🙄

[@다미최-w5b]

Your common sense is so refreshing. What you are doing with this podcast is terribly important. Thank you so so much.

[@Emilaria]

It's disturbing that all of the confused and vulnerable people getting trapped in this craziness are younger women. It's like girls are being told it's not okay to be a woman, that women aren't real.

[@mikaeldk5700]

Your channel is pure gold. Thank you.

[@scotthix2297]

Marcus, you are the calming influence to this old society guy man who came up when the big problem in LGBT was misogyny and eye rolling at Bisexuality. My Solstice reflection partially revealed to me that the overarching statement of the gender agenda is summed up by the phrase, "I have issues..." I now follow you into the new year as a voice of assurance and a fierce but lighthearted remi Der that no matter the silliness...the earth is still round and there is reason at the core of serenity. Happy New Year, Marcus!

[@bobbywalker2980]

Thank you . It's such a breath of fresh air when I see someone actual talking about this instead of screaming or demanding. Thankyou .

[@shynique]

So all these years of feminism for women to be recognised, now women are being reduced to "non men". Erasing women once again. It's insane

[@sara_4321]

1:01 the way he rolled his eyes 😭😭😭

[@peppei666]

hi there! I just found your channel and I love it, I've always been a very carefree woman, I can wear whatever clothes I want or cut my hair as short as I want and still feel fine identifying as a woman, because your aesthetic choices don't make you the opposite sex. people (cough dylan) think being a woman is wearing pink and acting dumb.the people that want to break "gender norms" are the ones putting conditions and labels on what it "looks like" to be a guy or a girl. makes my head spin. also I have to say you remind me so much of dick grayson (robin) in batman, I think you'd break the internet in a robin cosplay

[@sofypi7493]

4:27 the fact that person justify their shenanigans with autism is so infuriating, it give a bad name to autistic people that got their shit together. to be fair in italy gender was never a concept till recent years "thanks" to the internet, only saw sex and then everyone is free to do whatever they want with themself, discovered the existence of trans people and understood that they were people that felt deeply discomfort in their body and to alleviate that discomfort they would transition and present as the other sex... then now after being annoyed with respect my gender and pronouns we get "pronouns don't equal gender" bro what's the point then? do words still hold any value?

[@angelikaolscher7104]

The medical community is also very autism phobic, especially when it comes to biological women. During diagnosis, autistic people are actively pushed into gender dysphoria lead diagnosis, even though in esssence it should be normalised that gender identity is not expressed as clearly. However, just because one is a "tomboy" doesnt by default lead to a cute gender dysphoria. However, just because the autistic person doesnt fit into the category of de facto gender dysphoria, doesnt mean they dont struggle with finding peace in being a "tomboy". That struggle, I repeat, does not by default mean de facto gender dysphoria to the degree, that transitioning would relieve any symptoms what so ever.

[@profe3330]

Serious question: where are these baby Einsteins getting the idea that they're qualified to lay down the law about this kind of stuff? Does their all-knowing, all-seeing expertise require a whole semester at an actual four year college, or is a TikTok degree enough?

[@Denise_1374]

I guess that’s what narcissism does to a person🙃

[@therealtrissmerigold]

@@Denise_1374 spot on

[@Suzzers]

Maybe they learned it from their "gender studies" class.

[@nigelft]

Brief history lesson: Back in the days of both Ancient Greece, and the Roman Empire, everyone was grouped as being men, and non-men. Non-men didn't just include women, but boys and teenagers whom weren't considered an adult man, yet. Hence there was prevalent attitude that men couldn't have relationships with other men, but if that person was classed as a non-man ... well, you get the idea ... So, historically speaking, the terms non-men/man has been in existence for millennia, and isn't recent at all ... ... although I do question how, and why, it has been brought back into current usage ...

[@TheCarnivoreSoprano]

They are contrarians. And it's beyond annoying

[@dieollekicia9146]

so I can call myself a she/her (as a hetero female) gay guy now? 😅 is that how this works? 🤣

[@nunusakura5643]

In other words: Leave The Lesbians ALONE!

[@philosophie8744]

Love your content ❤ the fight against this has to come from within the community… people like you are amazing. On behalf of women children and humanity in general thank you for speaking truth and fighting for all of us.

[@brandyreads]

What is it with the erasure of lesbians or the term lesbian. They have to add in the whole “I identify as a man”. There are different types of lesbians, you have the more feminine type of lesbian or the butch/masculine lesbian. Either way you are still a woman. I have been seeing this in my romance book community where they say a f/f romance is “sapphic”, no one wants to use the term lesbian romance. All of a sudden I hear the term sapphic and I’m like “wtf does that mean?”. I had to look it up because I didn’t know what it meant. I feel this is another form of erasing women, and they are doing it in the LBGTQ community, the whole point of the L in the community is for Lesbian 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️. These young and dumb people are erasing everything that the past LGBT community fought for. It’s sad seeing it.

[@lizchesney25]

I'm so sick of all these labels!!! And when someone says they identify as they/them I consider them to have a multiple personality disorder!! This is all just ---------!!!!!!!

[@Dachshundcrazy]

thank you for always bringing up good points on topics like this. I grew up in a family of mostly women, and I grew up seeing how different each and everyone is. The different ways to express our womanhood. I personally am what used to be considered a "tom-boy" I'm very comfortable being a woman. I love being a woman, but because I'm not particularly "hyper-feminine" I have a hard time explaining myself to many fellow LGBTQ people.. just feels like the same sexist rhetoric of the "backward olden days" (eras like the '50s and such) and because I don't fit their definition of "feminine" they try to strip me of my womanhood. Looong story short I really appreciate the content you put out. Thank you.

[@angelah6191]

You have a very calm way of discussing things people are usually not calm about. It is refreshing to hear opinions from someone who is using more logic and less emotion.

[@hotdog1214]

I've seen that first clip before and seeing it the second time is no less infuriating. I am not a 'non man' attracted to 'non men', how incredibly demeaning. I'm usually just rolling my eyes (not unlike Marcus) at the ridiculousness of these TikTok videos but this one actually makes me mad. 😠 A lesbian is a homosexual woman; its right there in the word; same, sex. Not unnameable entities that are attracted to non men or space aliens or plant life. Good grief, its not rocket science. Its somehow worse when it comes from actual women (who identify as _not women_ ironically) making this assertion. But overall I just don't get what this obsession with pushing into lesbian spaces or redefining them is all about. Why not get a new word, they are fond of making up pronouns so why not a new word for whatever they 'identify' as and stop hassling the truly Sapphic. Thanks to Marcus for once again being a voice of reason in the storm. Happy New Year! PS although its a stereotype I do actually like a bit of woodwork, DIY and tinkering with my car. My -plaid shirt- lesbian uniform is somewhere in my wardrobe but I don't wear it that often these days. 😋😂

[@theresas740]

@hotdog1214. I'd like to think your "it's not rocket science" is a shout out to our dear departed Sapphic Shero Sally Ride! I happen to be in uniform right now: I'll see your plaid flannel and raise you blue boxers ( today's woven though I rather knit). "Non-man!" Helen Reddy is flipping in her grave and I have been less insulted by the Jesus-freaks at Pride! I an 54 years old, butch all my life and have never had another lesbian ask me to address or refer to that person as he or him.

[@daashazireael6613]

That girl saying oh you're attracted to a he him lesbian in such a smart ass way. It's like babe you yourself don't even call yourself a man. They're attracted to you because you're a woman and you look like a woman. They decide after finding out your pronouns are he/him they don't want to actually talk to you because you're psychotic not because you're a "man" or "nonbinary". If pronouns don't equal gender and gender doesn't equal literally anything then it all means nothing and it's pointless. It's being confusing for the sake of being confusing

[@JamieMarzy]

I can't help but think that all of these people are just so dull and boring, like they have nothing of substance to offer anybody, that they need to make up these insane identities that literally contradict each other and don't make any sense. I heard a quote once and I've used it many many times since then. "If everybody is special, nobody is."