I’m Bi, Actually | LGBTQ+ Memes

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Jammidodger

Jammidodger

Күн бұрын

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@WhyIsTheClosetDoorOpening
@WhyIsTheClosetDoorOpening Жыл бұрын
What to do if you don’t like gay marriage: Step 1: When a gay person proposes to you, say “no” How to avoid getting this close? Step 1: When a gay person asks you out, say “no” (I commented this before seeing it in the video)
@melissabennett4328
@melissabennett4328 Жыл бұрын
Now you tell me. I have bad news for my wife...
@minestar2247
@minestar2247 Жыл бұрын
My first question would be :who would even ask you out in the first place
@TheEnmineer
@TheEnmineer Жыл бұрын
@@minestar2247 People of either sex presumably. And if one isn't into them (for whatever reason) the appropriate answer is 'no' lol
@FrozEnbyWolf150
@FrozEnbyWolf150 Жыл бұрын
Remember the day gay marriage was legalized, when government agents came and forcibly separated all straight couples and ordered them to await their assigned gay partners? Yeah, me either.
@WhyIsTheClosetDoorOpening
@WhyIsTheClosetDoorOpening Жыл бұрын
@@OfficerZlock Dude, take a hint, we don’t want you here, go spread hate somewhere else
@widowkeeper4739
@widowkeeper4739 Жыл бұрын
When I came out to my mother as bi, she said curtly, "That's nice, now let's never speak of this again." And we didn't. She never once met anybody I ever dated and I don't miss having her in my life.
@MarfansGoth
@MarfansGoth Жыл бұрын
Goddamn, her loss i guess.
@helenalovelock1030
@helenalovelock1030 Жыл бұрын
How awful. I’m so sorry but it’s her loss. I hope you found someone to talk about it and can help ❤️
@kiraoshiro9251
@kiraoshiro9251 Жыл бұрын
what a crap response, imagine the reaction if you had said that to her when she opened up to you.. gosh when mom came out to me as bi, I said "omg I always thought you were straight" then I thought back on how much more I crushed on girls than guys growing up and realized I wasn't straight either. my sister, with a brief explanation, helped mom and I both realize we're actually pan. this all came from mom ranting in the car about an ex gf that cheated on her with some bad boy type. I'm always grateful sis knew some queer terminology else my orientation would still be "wtf is going on" so it's always better to be open with your kids, give insight and be curious. there's nothing confusing about making things clear, heck I wished I'd learned what pan was back when I was 13 cos that's when I started having girl crushes. thinking I was weird cos I grew up in fuckin backwardsville pennsylvania where the school's queer demographic consisted of a single known lesbian and that's it. everyone, especially girls, from all cliques made fun of her, spread rumors to make it sound like she was gross, masculine, or made lesbian her entire personality. funny that queerphobes claim we do that to ourselves. so I never talked about my girl crushes, only boys. even though I thought about girls a lot more. it just didn't make sense to me.. I was confused af being in the dark about queerdom. I think your mom was lucky to have a kid so insightful and patient with them, and she didn't appreciate it. now you're gone from the energy hope and joy vampire, I wish you a good life to spite her ignorant self.
@kiraoshiro9251
@kiraoshiro9251 Жыл бұрын
and excellent pfp I'm a big spider fan, but also, I'm a big spider fan ; D
@DeezNutzOnYoChinnyChin
@DeezNutzOnYoChinnyChin Жыл бұрын
Hopefully you’re sure you don’t miss her
@waffles3629
@waffles3629 Жыл бұрын
Kids really don't care that people are trans. I'm non-binary, I'm also a swim instructor, I have yet to be able to actually answer a kids question about my gender because they've either started talking about something else, or swam away before I could even open my mouth.
@waytoobiased
@waytoobiased Жыл бұрын
props to them for not being scared of water more than four feet deep - when I was six years old, I was not so bold
@kiedisboughen5318
@kiedisboughen5318 Жыл бұрын
@@flintlock9857 you're one of the people who shouldn't be near a playground because everything is sexual in your mind
@mousethehuman7179
@mousethehuman7179 Жыл бұрын
​@@flintlock9857why tho? they seem to know how to handle kids, and their identity is not a topic in their job? Shouldn't we rather keep arseholes away from teaching kids, like yourself?
@MarfansGoth
@MarfansGoth Жыл бұрын
​@@flintlock9857And I'm sure you have a lot of credible evidence and logical reasoning to back up your claim lmao
@MarfansGoth
@MarfansGoth Жыл бұрын
@@flintlock9857 I think you need to look up the definitions of 'fact' and 'claim'
@enzi87
@enzi87 Жыл бұрын
When I was younger I've met people who thought "heterosexual" was a slur. To the point when I once told someone "oh, you're heterosexual" they took it as an offense and answered "nono, I'm... normal!". I think that's the same sort of ignorance we're dealing with today about the term "cis". Hoping that changes in my lifetime
@enzi87
@enzi87 Жыл бұрын
@@trevorchester4439 what joke? O.o
@richardryley3660
@richardryley3660 Жыл бұрын
I keep sharing the story about my sister who tried to explain this, and the person just simply could not get it. He heard "h-something-sexual" and just stopped listening.
@DeezNutzOnYoChinnyChin
@DeezNutzOnYoChinnyChin Жыл бұрын
I seriously doubt that happened
@enzi87
@enzi87 Жыл бұрын
@@DeezNutzOnYoChinnyChin that's fair, you're not supposed to believe everything you read online 😊
@DeezNutzOnYoChinnyChin
@DeezNutzOnYoChinnyChin Жыл бұрын
@@enzi87 absolutely 👍🏿
@Devlinator61116
@Devlinator61116 Жыл бұрын
Allosexuals: "There are plentty of fish in the sea." Asexuals: "But we don't even like fishing."
@Neon_leon_1
@Neon_leon_1 8 ай бұрын
Exactly
@SunIsLost
@SunIsLost 7 ай бұрын
Yep *THIS*
@anmarein4608
@anmarein4608 6 ай бұрын
fish are friends not *-food-* sexual partners
@beardeddragon3665
@beardeddragon3665 Күн бұрын
Aromatics:I hate fish!
@wizard-lizard
@wizard-lizard Жыл бұрын
The only people who think cis is a slur are those who would use trans as a slur.
@gurusmurf5921
@gurusmurf5921 Жыл бұрын
They don't actually believe it though. They're just trying to be buttholes. But yeah, no one who doesn't hate trans people claims that cis is a slur.
@waffles3629
@waffles3629 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. It's just sad.
@angelofdusk13
@angelofdusk13 Жыл бұрын
THIS.^
@moonlighthowling666
@moonlighthowling666 Жыл бұрын
Yup. Its exactly why transphobes think transwomen are trying to erase women, because they want to erase transwomen
@minestar2247
@minestar2247 Жыл бұрын
Or gay as a slur, something which i am guilty of
@chronic-rose
@chronic-rose Жыл бұрын
Jamie was my trans awakening! and by that I mean he gave me so much gender euphoria knowing I could maybe look like that someday- and now I have a beard! thank you for being you Jamie
@olivelikesart
@olivelikesart Жыл бұрын
SAME OMG lol
@chronic-rose
@chronic-rose Жыл бұрын
@stopsin1 congrats special snowflake
@Yourstruly_band
@Yourstruly_band Жыл бұрын
@stopsin1why? Why must you hate us dude
@orangutantapioca1530
@orangutantapioca1530 Жыл бұрын
For me it was Jaime, One Topic, and The Click. The three of them helped me see that my lifelong pining for a female body was likely more than just idle fancy. Now I see myself as genderqueer since basically I am just gonna do whatever I want, gender norms-be-damned.
@Juno-bug
@Juno-bug Жыл бұрын
@stopsin1shivering in my boots
@PokhrajRoy.
@PokhrajRoy. Жыл бұрын
Person: “Pink is not a colour for boys.” Me: “Well, actually, it was considered a boy’s colour many moons ago. Reject modernity, embrace tradition.”
@NathanielTavington
@NathanielTavington Жыл бұрын
Pink also used to be yellow.
@tjenadonn6158
@tjenadonn6158 Жыл бұрын
The word skirt used to refer to both the garments now refered to as shirts and the ones we still refer to as skirts. Therefore it's perfectly normal and traditional for men to wear skirts.
@PokhrajRoy.
@PokhrajRoy. Жыл бұрын
@@tjenadonn6158Exactly. Men have been wearing flowy garments since time immemorial.
@elaexplorer
@elaexplorer Жыл бұрын
Children were called girls regardless of sex until the age of 3 to 5 and wore dresses. Males were sometimes called knave girls and female children were sometimes called gay girls, if there was a need to differentiate. Boy was a derogatory term and was used only to refer to male servants.
@ragnkja
@ragnkja Жыл бұрын
⁠@@elaexplorer The words “boy” and “knave” have basically swapped meaning in English. “Knave” is an obvious cognate of “Knabe”, which is one of the German words for “boy”.
@reptilianrascal1125
@reptilianrascal1125 Жыл бұрын
As a straight, non-trans male and a chemist, it is equally as natural to be cis as it is to be trans. There is nothing wrong with either and chemistry proves it.
@reptilianrascal1125
@reptilianrascal1125 Жыл бұрын
Also, I'm a car guy and I really want to mod my exhaust to have titanium rainbow tips :) Ally Car Mods!!!!!
@fionafiona1146
@fionafiona1146 Жыл бұрын
​@@reptilianrascal1125I love titanium oxide colour and having had chemistry class explain why it gets different shades, as well as details about partially hydrogenated oils
@kiedisboughen5318
@kiedisboughen5318 Жыл бұрын
Can I get a short explanation or a website or something? Not doubting you, I wanna use it against transphobes
@fionafiona1146
@fionafiona1146 Жыл бұрын
@@kiedisboughen5318 They aren't known to be good at advanced learning but you might try to teach something about: Latin gramar Chemistry nomenclature (from Latin roots) Bimodal distribution of human sex attributes Google "trans fatty acids chemistry" or "how to hydrogenate vegetable oil "
@farfetchdthegamer3810
@farfetchdthegamer3810 Жыл бұрын
@@kiedisboughen5318I don’t know the details (still in school) but cis and trans in the chemistry context are just different types of organic molecule isomers (which in turn are different structural arrangements of the same empirical formula) Also btw I just feel the need to mention I love lead iodide with a passion.
@fancytreeshrew
@fancytreeshrew Жыл бұрын
When I was in (a Christian) preschool, one day they brought some kittens and the mom to our class. One kid asked where the dad cat was and I, without missing a beat, went “she doesn’t have to have a husband unless she wants to. She can marry a girl cat too, cuz that’s legal now.” My teacher told my parents about the incident and my mom was so proud 🤣
@Eliot-is-Dead
@Eliot-is-Dead Жыл бұрын
Your mum is an icon and so are you lolol❤😂
@fancytreeshrew
@fancytreeshrew Жыл бұрын
Thanks 😂@@Eliot-is-Dead
@Mordryne
@Mordryne Жыл бұрын
I think the "Divers" thing is just badly translated from German, where "Divers" would be Diverse as in "anything else but binary" and would be normal in any kind of forms.
@jomarch1645
@jomarch1645 Жыл бұрын
Same in French! "Des objets divers" = "diverse objects" so it could be a mistranslation.
@rainboworange
@rainboworange Жыл бұрын
That's correct, we even have job ads that say (m/w/d) after the job title. That stands for male, female and "other". As someone in that category I do not like that. "Divers" sounds a bit like weirdos or leftovers or something. But at least there is a recognition that there is someone outside of the binary.
@123ricardo210
@123ricardo210 Жыл бұрын
Same for Dutch!
@nickitailorgirl1076
@nickitailorgirl1076 Жыл бұрын
@@rainboworangeyeah, it was kind of a compromise back then when it was decided to use „divers“ for those who identify non binary in Germany if I recall correctly. It‘s pretty difficult with German language to create good terms for it. Especially if it comes to pronouns. This will take time and a lot of people who just use our language in a different way so people get used to it. There is change happening so we‘ll get to it eventually I think. 💜💚
@oliverbennett8501
@oliverbennett8501 Жыл бұрын
My assumption was just a mistype of "diverse" 😅
@SomeGalNamedEve
@SomeGalNamedEve Жыл бұрын
Conservatives when a "man" acts femininely: "You're not a real man!!!" Conservatives when that person actually isn't a man: "Wait no that's not what I meant"
@SomeGalNamedEve
@SomeGalNamedEve Жыл бұрын
They don't care about making sense, they just say whatever they think will hurt the most.
@SomeGalNamedEve
@SomeGalNamedEve Жыл бұрын
@@flintlock9857 Not really, I've gotten to the point where people like you who are obviously just trying to make me feel bad often just make me laugh. Your desperate attempts to hurt me just seem so childish to me now lol
@cukka99
@cukka99 Жыл бұрын
I suspect it does. As evidence, I present you. You seem to be so extremely damaged that you think your posting inane comments here would impress anyone. To be fair, I don't know what hurt you so terribly. Was it "the truth" or something else? Who knows. Whatever it was, my deepest condolences to you. @@flintlock9857
@hekimeti1614
@hekimeti1614 Жыл бұрын
​@flintlock9857 if your goal wasn't to hurt, why were you gloating about "truth" being hurtful?
@tjenadonn6158
@tjenadonn6158 Жыл бұрын
​@@flintlock9857Conservatives are biologically incapable of telling the truth, as they are the only lifeform on earth whose respiration is based on lying rather than on chemical reactions. The second a conservative stops lying is the second it starts dying: expecting a conservative such as yourself to go even a second without lying would be like expecting a human being such as myself to go an entire year without oxygen. This is all basic biology that you would've learned if you were a human instead of a conservative. Is that simple enough for the conservative to understand? It will answer either yes or no.
@YourQueerGreatAuntie
@YourQueerGreatAuntie Жыл бұрын
💜I'm in my mid-forties, but JAYSUS I love Heartstopper!!!! It slightly breaks my heart that this was unimaginable 30 years ago, but then heals my heart back up again to witness how incredible the younger generations are in supporting and loving LGBTQIA+ people. As a voter who was among the first people in the world to vote for same-sex marriage in 2015, it is extraordinary to witness how far we have come, and not going down without a serious fight! I'm Lettuce, and genuinely NOT transphobic, but am allergic to tomatoes for real. Can we have a different sandwich filling please? Like Tofu?
@Leena79
@Leena79 Жыл бұрын
I'm in my mid-40s, too, but of the veggie bacon variety. I'm okay with both tomatoes and tofu, but I guess no-one wants to swap bacon for broccoli? 😂
@SiusaidhMac
@SiusaidhMac Жыл бұрын
I've never seen Heartstopper. I think I want to now. 😊 I'm just asking out of curiosity: where did you vote for same-sex marriage in 2015? It's been legal in Canada since July 2005. I remember when it happened. ❤
@wittypseudonym
@wittypseudonym Жыл бұрын
I'm tomato, and I'm allergic to tomato, too! I agree with the tofu sentiments.
@w1nterdays
@w1nterdays Жыл бұрын
@@SiusaidhMacUS I believe
@dasha_ucko
@dasha_ucko Жыл бұрын
​@@SiusaidhMacYou definitely should! For like a month after its release, I didn't watch it because I thought it would be boring, but then I finally watched it and it instantly became my favorite TV show
@HumbleWooper
@HumbleWooper Жыл бұрын
My asexual awakening character moment was probably when I watched Disney's "Moana" for the second or third time, and I realized what I love most about it is how refreshing it is to have a movie with an adult(ish) female lead who doesn't get bogged down with romance stuff. For her entire story, even though she spends lots of the movie alone with a man who (as far as we know) isn't in a relationship himself. I've never minded stories with romance in them, but seeing films where the girl has a great character arc without a hint of romance or sexual tension even when there's potentially single guys around... to me it's like taking that first breath of outdoor air on the first really /cool/ autumn day after a long summer.
@millynocito7958
@millynocito7958 Жыл бұрын
My asexual awakening was watching heartstopper a few months ago. Representation is important
@Chandra_Lunat
@Chandra_Lunat 2 ай бұрын
@HumbleWooper Your comment is just awesome👏!!!! I also love the metaphor at the end; both the metaphor as a whole and the image of the literal situation described, the positive memories I associate with it and the hope that I can experience such or similar situations again one day..❤️‍🩹😌🍀🌱🌳 I wish everyone reading this a pleasant day :)
@moxiebombshell
@moxiebombshell Жыл бұрын
10:54 Can confirm -- kids don't care if someone is gay, trans, queer, nonbinary, bi, or any combination of permutation thereof. They might have some questions, for sure, but in all the times I've talked to kids about LGBT+ subjects and individuals (including talking to my own kids about my being queer & their dad being bi, as well as their cousin being nonbinary), they've never been even remotely fazed. (kids are generally great about dealing with accidentally screwing up someone's pronouns, too, unlike a lot of adults I've noticed! No arm-waving or overreacting or making it all about them and their feelings vs. the feelings of the person they misgendered. They just generally self-correct and maybe offer a quick 'oops, sorry!' and just keep it moving. It's beautiful LOL)
@BestFriendsWhoLiveTogether
@BestFriendsWhoLiveTogether Жыл бұрын
I used to be bisexual, now I identify as a lesbian (sexual orientation is pretty fluid, and can change at different times in life). What’s annoying is that people treat the time when I identified as bisexual as a time when I just didn’t want to come out as gay. No. I was interested in guys but I am not anymore. I don’t know what’s so difficult to understand about that.
@mirandarensberger6919
@mirandarensberger6919 Жыл бұрын
What? You mean feelings are not a thing trapped in amber, unmoving and unchanging for all eternity? That's crazy talk!
@tjenadonn6158
@tjenadonn6158 Жыл бұрын
HRT flipped me from being a gay man-shaped thing with almost zero romantic or sexual attraction to women to a lesbian with almost zero romantic or sexual attraction to men. It's been a bit of a mindfuck, but it only makes sense that that would change as everything else about me changes.
@minestar2247
@minestar2247 Жыл бұрын
Huh, how does that work, the model i use to understand this phenomenon doesn't predict this possibility
@AstralArbourSys
@AstralArbourSys Жыл бұрын
Yeah, somehow even people accepting of gender fluidity insist that sexuality can't change because that would mean you can choose to be gay. I'm. What the hell?
@bbkyuu
@bbkyuu Жыл бұрын
@@AstralArbourSysthey just equate choice with change for some odd reason. Your sexuality Can change however that doesn't mean you're any more in control of it than you were before
@ShinyRK9
@ShinyRK9 Жыл бұрын
Fun fact: Jamie was my bisexual awakening
@MURDERPILLOW.
@MURDERPILLOW. Жыл бұрын
I would love to know the story behind this
@TeeArCreep
@TeeArCreep Жыл бұрын
Capcom was, personally. So many twinks...
@EmilyTheMedic
@EmilyTheMedic Жыл бұрын
…I don’t know how I didn’t notice it before but yeah, he is *really* handsome lol
@ShinyRK9
@ShinyRK9 Жыл бұрын
Alright I’ll explain, so i was in my phase questioning who i was and I found Jamie’s videos and i just felt great watching him, he made me understand so much about the LGBTQ community I didn’t know before and i found myself just watching him
@ShinyRK9
@ShinyRK9 Жыл бұрын
Also yeah he is hot
@audreywinter6910
@audreywinter6910 Жыл бұрын
I'm bi, actually, and just today finished my binge of the first two seasons of Heartstopper. Loved every minute of it! 💕
@starlightstorm_
@starlightstorm_ Жыл бұрын
I binged the two seasons for the first time this week too ☺️
@oliviajade3655
@oliviajade3655 Жыл бұрын
Binged them both and am now making my way through the graphic novels (just as good so would totally recommend them!)
@noeldoesstuff
@noeldoesstuff Жыл бұрын
I was crying at the last episode 😭😭😭😭
@Kit-Nicole
@Kit-Nicole Жыл бұрын
I watched both seasons in one night I was up till six am, also actually I'm bi as well 🙃
@oliviajade3655
@oliviajade3655 Жыл бұрын
@@Kit-Nicole when season 1 came out, I binged that in one night and then when season 2 came out, it was a rota’d day off for me so I spent the day rewatching season 1 and watching season 2 with junk food and a blanket lol 😂
@waffles3629
@waffles3629 Жыл бұрын
Yep, the bathroom stuff is ludicrous. Every person I know that I know has been harassed in a women's bathroom have been cis women, trans men, or non-binary. One of the cis women I knew this happened to was visibly pregnant at the time, but they "knew" she was a man. The trans men all lived in places where it was illegal for them to use the correct bathroom, and I've been kicked out of women's bathrooms since before I knew trans people existed simply due to not being feminine "enough" (I'm non-binary).
@waffles3629
@waffles3629 Жыл бұрын
@@pietjewaanman3506 the trans ideology of a cis woman being kicked out of a women's bathroom? I think you're lost.
@hannahk1306
@hannahk1306 Жыл бұрын
I don't get why people even care about who's in the next stall, so long as there's proper cubicles. Potential attackers aren't going to care about signs or societal norms anyway, they can also be of any gender. As a cis woman, there have been a number of occasions where gender neutral toilets would have been really convenient. There are also certain situations where nobody bats an eyelid, such as in people's homes or a row of portaloos at an event.
@waffles3629
@waffles3629 Жыл бұрын
@@hannahk1306 same. Like a toilet is a toilet and poop is poop. And exactly, as it turns out people breaking the law don't really care about breaking the law. If a man wants to walk into a women's bathroom he just can, there's no magical forcefield to stop him.
@sys-foster
@sys-foster Жыл бұрын
​@hannahk1306 right, like normal people go to the bathroom to ✨️use the bathroom and leave✨️ but then there's some weirdos out there who are very concerningly obsessed with what the person next to them looks like without clothes 🥴
@waffles3629
@waffles3629 Жыл бұрын
@@sys-foster yep, like 😱shocker😱 people go to the bathroom to *_gasp_* go to the bathroom. The horror 🤦
@sammjaisais7135
@sammjaisais7135 Жыл бұрын
Heartstopper is such a great show and I'm so in love with all the characters. I also just LOVE Nick stating "I'm bisexual" all the time, and how Tara and Darcy say they're lesbians and not just "gay". It's refreshing to hear that and not just "I like women/girls". And also to hear characters say bisexual and bi so openly. As a bisexual, I love seeing it. I'm so happy for the younger audiences that get to watch the show during the time when they can still dream with a sweet high-school romance. And I love the talk around consent and how outing people is not okay and the acceptance of trans and aroace people for who they are.
@wolfieboyfie
@wolfieboyfie Жыл бұрын
one day my mom was spewing all sorts of homophobic bullshit, i told her to stop bc its wrong and hurtful, she asked if im gay too, and i pretty much said "I'm bi, actually." 🤣🤣
@wolfieboyfie
@wolfieboyfie Жыл бұрын
@@trevorchester4439 this was years ago so i dont really remember the specifics just horrible things about gay ppl
@wolfieboyfie
@wolfieboyfie Жыл бұрын
@@trevorchester4439 well idk what to tell you mate, trans women ARE women and if you disagree with that, that makes you a butthole 🤷‍♀
@Egg0-
@Egg0- Жыл бұрын
Oop- I really wanna know what she said tho-
@wolfieboyfie
@wolfieboyfie Жыл бұрын
@science_bear you are not me, you do not decide what i am or am not bothered by. and as a bi, i can very well date someone of my own gender and she would definitely have something nasty to say about it so how on earth would i not be bothered by it?? but go off i guess and lastly, i have been nothing but supportive of gay ppl so do not come in here accusing me of shit
@wolfieboyfie
@wolfieboyfie Жыл бұрын
@@Egg0- again, this was three and a half years ago, i do not remember her exact words
@PokhrajRoy.
@PokhrajRoy. Жыл бұрын
“I’m going to own my mistake. I messed that up.”, said no bigot ever.
@mirandarensberger6919
@mirandarensberger6919 Жыл бұрын
This.
@TheTransDevin520
@TheTransDevin520 Жыл бұрын
Thats not true. There was a guy named Justin Nash that attended the Denver Pride Parade with a sign saying “Recovering bigot, I am sorry! Free Hugs.". I know its hard. But we can't give up hope for them.
@AnOrdinaryJoe
@AnOrdinaryJoe Жыл бұрын
Thats rlly not true.
@TheAtlarchy
@TheAtlarchy Жыл бұрын
The funny thing is that it is true because once you do say that, you stop being a bigot...
@SisterlingSoap
@SisterlingSoap Жыл бұрын
​@@TheTransDevin520the saying still tracks because "recovering" means they're no longer a bigot! that means they overcame bigotry and are a decent person now. ❤ but you're right that bigotry isn't set in stone, people can and do change.
@Mockingjay975
@Mockingjay975 Жыл бұрын
One time I was volunteering in the primary school I went to and was in the nursery classroom with 3 and 4yr olds. This boy said: "My dad married my grandpa!" I was like "I don't think that's true." because it would be concerning and he was like "boys can marry boys and girls can marry girls!" I didn't know whether to be happy they were accepting or concerned at the implied incest.
@SomeGalNamedEve
@SomeGalNamedEve Жыл бұрын
Honestly, both. The best thing to do in that type of situation is to explain that yes, there is nothing wrong with gay relationships, but incest, however, IS very wrong.
@Mockingjay975
@Mockingjay975 Жыл бұрын
@@SomeGalNamedEve Yeah, I did try to do that. Honestly I wasn't too worried because it felt like the kid was just making it up because he thought it sounded funny lmao
@tinnagigja3723
@tinnagigja3723 Жыл бұрын
The statement can be true without gay marriage or incest even entering into it. If the grandfather officiated the wedding, he did indeed marry his son (to his now spouse). It's like a little riddle, like the surgeon's child one.
@lauratroy13
@lauratroy13 Жыл бұрын
You usually have two grandpas, so the dad could have married the other parent's dad
@sternentigerkatze
@sternentigerkatze Жыл бұрын
@@lauratroy13 That smells like drama to me 😱😂
@LiveLaughLaux
@LiveLaughLaux Жыл бұрын
You telling Shabbas sisters was so cute!! They literally were just like "Oh Jamie wasn't born as a boy but knew he was a boy so he started getting a deep voice?" "clever" or "Once the difference between me and Jamie?" "Jamie's very huggy" 🤣🤣
@mirandarensberger6919
@mirandarensberger6919 Жыл бұрын
And at the end, "He's still huggy." Got me right in the feels.
@1BeautifulDuck
@1BeautifulDuck Жыл бұрын
Jamie and OT are the reason I now know I'm trans, and I've never been more pround.
@veilbreak5867
@veilbreak5867 Жыл бұрын
Jamie has indoctrinated 1000s into the cult.
@HunsterMonter
@HunsterMonter Жыл бұрын
​@@veilbreak5867The cult of feeling better in your own body and being your authentic self?
@veilbreak5867
@veilbreak5867 Жыл бұрын
@@HunsterMonterbetter in ones own body? A lifetime of medications, and 'surgeries that don't heal and inevitably fail. .....I don't think Jamie felt better in her body when the skin tube she had stitched on to mimic a penis began spurting blood, had to have a blood clot literally squeezed from it. Then needed how many more surgeries (revisions) on it? I believe 4 is the usual number before there's nothing left to work with, and they just give up! Though could be worse! it could have just started to rot whilst attatched like others have. Basically it dies, decompose, then falls off. The men who have a faux vagina made from a piece of their colon don't fare any better either. Having to force the hole open (which always smells of shit, cos it's from the arsehole,) with medical dildos several times a day, , so that it doesn't heal up. And is excruciatingly painful. They have constant infections, cos it doesnt self clean, like an actual vagina. And sex with thrse created genitals isn't feasible. One guy who tried intercause with an mtf, described it as a physically painful, and embaressing experience for both parties. Comparing it to sex with a dead, unyielding muscle, that rigamortis had set into! Many end up with colostomy bags! And that's just some of the misery after genital mutilation surgeries! The damage that cross sex hormones does to the body is scandalous! Infertility, the risk of heart attack from testosterone is about 3 times more likely in FtMs than in actual men! That's just some of the physical issues. The mental stress is obviously way higher post, than pre all these barbaric frankensteinesque procedures! Accepting oneself for who we are is being authentic. Not living a lie like this! But that would mean acknowledging homosexuality in most cases....and that won't do will it! We cant have that much authenticity! The cult of trans is also the most homophobic cult Must trans away the Gay ....at any cost! Jamie and her partner more or less admitted this. A lesbian relationship would not have been culturally acceptable to the partners family.....so Jamie had to fake it as a man to appease them! So your claims are incorrect
@frnotpixel
@frnotpixel Жыл бұрын
@@veilbreak5867💀💀💀
@therewillbecatswithgwenhwyfar
@therewillbecatswithgwenhwyfar Жыл бұрын
5:11 Both of my daughters were SO ANXIOUS about coming out to me, but I wasn't surprised in any way and I'm already part of the community so it's sweet that they were nervous. They were very let down at my lack of dramatic response. 😂
@enby_mushroom
@enby_mushroom Жыл бұрын
Nick's constant I'm bi, actually was so relatable and then with Charlie and Darcy and Isaac going on as well I don't think I ever cried as much at a tv show tbh 💙💜🩷
@tanrekki
@tanrekki Жыл бұрын
My ex bf was the reason of my asexual awakening. Maybe that's the negative power. Then later another person caused my demisexual awakening and that's gotta be at least as powerful as the bi version
@beatblocksgaming
@beatblocksgaming Жыл бұрын
It’s gotta be either ace awakening or you have such negative rizz you ruin all relationships for that person
@CoMorbiditty
@CoMorbiditty Жыл бұрын
@@beatblocksgaming people cant technically 'cause' your orientation. You're born that way. lt can be fluid yes, and hormones can influence that as well, but it's you who have domain, not another person
@flintlock9857
@flintlock9857 Жыл бұрын
​@@CoMorbidittyUm no you literally don't born with a sexuality. It shapes as you grow up, which is why people aren't born gay.
@jakemurphy6125
@jakemurphy6125 Жыл бұрын
Jamie … the way you explained coming out made me tear up. That’s exactly how I felt when I came out on Christmas Day to about 20 of my family all at once (I hadn’t even told my parents but they knew). I knew everyone would be okay with my being Pan but doesn’t mean it’s not hard. So thank you !
@JonahIronstone
@JonahIronstone Жыл бұрын
I started T today. Hooray for permanent, irreversible changes to the body! (And the Q? That's queso. Delicious cheese for the sandwich.)
@cukka99
@cukka99 Жыл бұрын
While I deeply appreciate and admire hard work by whoever (moderators? Jamie himself?) deletes nonsensical comments from these videos, I am also glad to (occasionally) be here early on before they've had a chance to clean things up. I like seeing that many many people leave thoughtful and positive comments, and only a very few deranged posters leave lots and lots of inane nonsense.
@mirandarensberger6919
@mirandarensberger6919 Жыл бұрын
It's kind of a group effort. Anyone who sees a hateful comment can report it. Sometimes if I have the time, I'll just scroll through the comments section and report all of a particular troll's comments. Obviously I can't get to all of them, and some are so inane that I don't bother. But I definitely try to get rid of the most hateful ones, and certainly any that threaten or imply violence. I know there are some other people who do this also. (Good thing, because I actually have to go to work pretty soon, so I won't be able to right now.) Just ordinary people doing what we can.
@phoenixvance6642
@phoenixvance6642 Жыл бұрын
They gotta be a special kind of oblivious to not realize the action of spending their free time being toxic says a lot more about them than their messages say about the people they are trying to disparage.
@blowinatranny
@blowinatranny Жыл бұрын
​@@phoenixvance6642 "spending their free time being toxic" by saying women can magically become men just because they one day declare they're a man
@cukka99
@cukka99 Жыл бұрын
Oh poor confused poppet, they are already men before they declare it. Coming out isn't "becoming a man"; it's letting people know that you are one. Also, you might want to consider giving a moment's thought to what "toxic" actually means before you embarrass yourself further, @@blowinatranny
@paulhammond6978
@paulhammond6978 Жыл бұрын
@@blowinatranny It's not magic, it's this little thing called "science". Look into it. Science and medicine have made many things possible and improved life no end for all kinds of people.
@creep691
@creep691 Жыл бұрын
No but the first bit is true- before I came out I was one of my friends omnisexual awakenings and it gives me a massive ass ego boost whenever I think about it like she thought I was HOT. Now I have a god complex.
@-closedchannel-
@-closedchannel- Жыл бұрын
Possible explanation for 3:05 : "Divers" also means "Various" in French. So it could be for anyone whose gender is fluid? Maybe they could only write the last option in english...But not the rest.
@ragnkja
@ragnkja Жыл бұрын
My brain went to German rather than French, because it’s the standard third option for German and Austrian forms that ask for your gender (since 2018 in Germany and 2019 in Austria).
@-closedchannel-
@-closedchannel- Жыл бұрын
@@ragnkja Could be that as well! It would depend on who created the website and their nationality I guess ❔❓
@DrWhoFanJ
@DrWhoFanJ Жыл бұрын
It’s also a valid (if somewhat archaic and definitely very rare) alternative spelling of “diverse”, as used particularly in legal contexts. Example: "By order of the High Council, this is an impartial inquiry into the behaviour of the accused person, known as the Doctor, who is charged that he, on divers occasions has been guilty of conduct unbecoming a Time Lord. […] He is also charged with, on divers occasions, transgressing the First Law." - _Doctor Who: The Trial of a Time Lord: Part One_ (1986)
@DrWhoFanJ
@DrWhoFanJ Жыл бұрын
@stopsin1 AKA you’re a proud bigot. Not sure why anyone would think that’s a good thing to be at all, but human beings are infamously illogical.
@unapologeticallylizzy
@unapologeticallylizzy Жыл бұрын
9:51 This is why I live my life unapologetically as a queer Christian. I feel like people need to see that. As a Christian, I talk very openly about queer stuff because it is so important to me that queer people know they're safe around me and won't be judged. I also try to talk about queer stuff in Christian spaces as much as I can so cishet Christians know that queer Christians exist and aren't any less Christian for it - although sadly, I do have to be careful and picky with which Christian spaces I share that in. I do need to keep myself safe as well.
@EstherH85
@EstherH85 Жыл бұрын
I’m often told I’m not a Christian by bigots My husband once told me “Well, you aren’t exactly a model Christian… you don’t have enough hate in your heart” LOL 😂
@O-pm8bb
@O-pm8bb Жыл бұрын
I think that it's sad that so many queer people don't feel safe enough to explore spirituality. So many of us would want to but feel pushed out by religious bigots
@unapologeticallylizzy
@unapologeticallylizzy Жыл бұрын
@@O-pm8bb Yeah it is not fair. Religions should be for everyone.
@unapologeticallylizzy
@unapologeticallylizzy Жыл бұрын
@@EstherH85 Nah I don't like that. I won't even joke about it because I will not let them take over my religion. A model Christian to me is someone who shows radical love and acceptance to others. Honestly, I'd say the minister at my church is a model Christian.
@unapologeticallylizzy
@unapologeticallylizzy Жыл бұрын
@@flintlock9857 ?
@Blueberrycat1222
@Blueberrycat1222 11 ай бұрын
When my SIL told our nieces (6 & 8) that my wife and I were getting married all they said was “so we’re gonna have two aunts!?” And they had absolutely no other questions lol
@PokhrajRoy.
@PokhrajRoy. Жыл бұрын
If you compile Jamie’s Freudian slips, that’s a great comedy special right there.
@RachelKay528
@RachelKay528 Жыл бұрын
I LOVE Heartstopper. Can't wait for season 3 🥰💖💜💙
@trincrymsyn6383
@trincrymsyn6383 Жыл бұрын
So fun! Think my favorite is the " being someone's bisexual awakening" one and the STACK of pictures lol
@TigerPrawn_
@TigerPrawn_ Жыл бұрын
I really appreciate how calmly you talk about all these issues (even though you say you're raging inside). I am usually pulsing with adrenaline and sweat and rage on the outside. So it's nice to see how calmly you can address people's bigotry
@arsonist127
@arsonist127 Жыл бұрын
10:24 when i told my second cousin who is 9 about me being a boy, they were a bit confused at first. because of the gender stereotypes that had been taught to them, they were confused about my eyeliner and eyebrow makeup. when i explained that i do makeup because its supposed to let u make urself look cooler and nicer they understood it. i also explained that it doesnt matter what others say you are, because "who are other people to tell you who you are. only you really know yourself." "my name is soo mine, because i chose it" they thought that was super rad. also told them ur body doesnt = your gender either, "i have arms and legs and they aren't my gender." :) after learning all this and understanding, they asked if i can do a cartwheel and then proceeded to try to teach me :D they were like another younger sibling to me that day :))
@littleender100
@littleender100 Жыл бұрын
I am bisexual and trans, while my sister is asexual. My mom is an ally. My sperm donor is trans, but she left my mom and two kids. Wall my stepdad is a bigot and a narcissist. (I haven't come out as trans yet and it's the only thing here that's a secret.)
@O-pm8bb
@O-pm8bb Жыл бұрын
W family (except the stepdad f that bih)
@O-pm8bb
@O-pm8bb Жыл бұрын
nobody asked bozo@stopsin1
@scoredatarot
@scoredatarot Жыл бұрын
As a asexual demiromantic my myself I'm happy for her coming out
@Leena79
@Leena79 Жыл бұрын
I am bi, actually. Heartstopper is so good! 💗💜💙 I can't name a specific bisexual awakening, because there were really more than one, but it took a while for me to catch on. But nowadays, when the bi-cycle is going strong, it feels nice to get bisexual reminders - like, what if I'm really just lesbian, then I see someone who convinces me, still into dudes, too. 😂
@animeartist888
@animeartist888 Жыл бұрын
My bisexual awakening was one of my besties in high school. Had a suggestive dream about her, and then I really couldn't deny it. My pansexual awakening was in adult naughty films tho, when I realized that I liked people with breasts but also a penis. Go figure lmao
@Leena79
@Leena79 Жыл бұрын
@@animeartist888 Ain't human existence just beautifully diverse? 💗
@RM-hi4vv
@RM-hi4vv Жыл бұрын
Bi, here, also love Heartstopper 💖💜💙. Also, I’m demisexual though. Which I didn’t know/understand until here in my 40s. I had 2 long term hetero relationships that spanned my entire adulthood. When the second failed, I had space to reflect and realized I’ve had crushes on women I’ve been really close with through the years as well, just already in a relationship and never thought about what it meant. Aesthetically always liked women more, but as I’m demi, I never had that like “celebrity sexy crush” awakening or anything. Def found people of all genders “hot,” but it doesn’t translate to actual “sexy feelings” if you know what I mean. Then I realized I fell hard in *all* the ways for someone AFAB in my life that I was close enough to that they’d made it in under my “demi” umbrella. So I realized I’m bi in my 40s.🤷‍♀️
@Leena79
@Leena79 Жыл бұрын
@@RM-hi4vv I'm demisexual, too! I actually figured that out before the bi part, because the serious crushes I've had have happened very rarely. I was in my mid-20s when I figured things out, and at that time, I started analyzing my interest in certain female celebrities. I never just see a photo of a celebrity and think they're hot, but after watching a few seasons of a tv show, or a film which really hits me in the feels, I find the attraction, too. In real life, I need that deep emotional or intellectual connection, and once that happens, a switch goes off (or on).
@laughsingay
@laughsingay Жыл бұрын
15:28 I'm not kidding, I have those exact glasses. I don't even need glasses, (they weren't prescription obviously) I just liked how they looked, and I wear them like every day. I feel CALLED OUT.
@erikasakura7721
@erikasakura7721 Жыл бұрын
Not only do children not care when they're not taught to hate, my 8 years old nephew has even commented to my mom that I've been more happy and nicer to be around ever since transitioning.
@Hoomanisyting
@Hoomanisyting Жыл бұрын
With the 'kids do not care' That statement is so true, when I was 10 my best friend came out to ke as a lesbian and I just said 'ok, pass the ball I wanna play 2 square (our version of 4 square)' and we moved on with out lives
@pathevermore3683
@pathevermore3683 Жыл бұрын
Probably a memory your friend will cherish for a long time.
@juniorqindes8335
@juniorqindes8335 Жыл бұрын
@@pathevermore3683oh hey again homophobe. Still pretending to be a supporter?
@pathevermore3683
@pathevermore3683 Жыл бұрын
​@@juniorqindes8335Hey, trigger boy, still getting super triggered and crying because trans people exist?
@katsimpsforleviathan
@katsimpsforleviathan Жыл бұрын
I am a simple human. I see Nick Nelson and I click
@ashjones-zc5dt
@ashjones-zc5dt Жыл бұрын
I was gonna say that then saw your comment-
@S0nnyDoesStuff7
@S0nnyDoesStuff7 Жыл бұрын
So was I- 😶
@ShedaLubrensk
@ShedaLubrensk Жыл бұрын
"divers" is actually an official designation in Germany and relates to people who might identify as "intersex" in English language context. The word shares a common root with the English word "diverse", although it would be cool if scuba divers got their own option on forms 😂.
@PokhrajRoy.
@PokhrajRoy. Жыл бұрын
6:08 “They are a product of their times” logic falling flat on its face.
@harleyquinn2141
@harleyquinn2141 Жыл бұрын
I had to laugh so much at the glasses one, like I am currently wearing the exact model they demonstrated XDDD had to share with friends XD As always, love your vids!
@SaffronMoon-d8p
@SaffronMoon-d8p Жыл бұрын
As a cis person, I remember when I first heard the term cis, I felt like it almost sounded insulting, but I knew it wasn't so I got used to it and now I am perfectly fine being called it. Even when I first thought that it kind of sounded insulting, I would have never gone as far as to call it a slur.
@dragonles
@dragonles Жыл бұрын
❤🧡💛💚💙💜 The funny thing about Heartstopper is that if it was a show that had straight people, I would have no interest. I hate romance unless it's LGBTQIA+, then I am addicted. I'm the BT (FTM), except I hate bacon and tomato. I do like guacamole, but Milla Jovovich is too cute for me to be guacamole. One of my relatives came out as trans to me via letter, and he watched me read it. I hugged him and told him how proud of him I was and that I felt so honored that he told me.
@jerrimenard3092
@jerrimenard3092 Жыл бұрын
Im Nonbinary. I'm also pansexual. I use to identify as bi, but then things got complicated.
@transsexual_computer_faery
@transsexual_computer_faery Жыл бұрын
i'm a xenogender woman. complicated is the only way i know how to live!!!!! lmao
@_StarlightRose_
@_StarlightRose_ Жыл бұрын
​​@@transsexual_computer_faerycan I know what you mean by xenogender in this context? No hate, Im just ignorant on some labels
@MinerBat
@MinerBat Жыл бұрын
@@transsexual_computer_faery hmm that is a new word for me, what does that mean?
@chrisleneil
@chrisleneil Жыл бұрын
I’m agender/Pan. Right there with you!
@lolucorn1
@lolucorn1 Жыл бұрын
​@@MinerBattaken from the NonBinary wiki: Xenogender (coined in 2014 by Tumblr user Baaphomett in a submission to the MOGAI-Archive blog, from xeno alien + "gender")[1] is a nonbinary gender identity "that cannot be contained by human understandings of gender; more concerned with crafting other methods of gender categorization and hierarchy such as those relating to animals, plants, or other creatures/things."[1] Xenogender isn't defined in relation to "female" or "male" (the binary genders), but by other kinds of ideas that most people don't think of as having to do with gender.
@_StarlightRose_
@_StarlightRose_ Жыл бұрын
Fellas, is it gay to be gay?
@freddiefishton
@freddiefishton Жыл бұрын
No
@Toni-lo9ms
@Toni-lo9ms Жыл бұрын
It's straight to be gay actually. (Patiently waits for straight people to fall into my trap)
@_StarlightRose_
@_StarlightRose_ Жыл бұрын
​@@Toni-lo9mstrue
@_StarlightRose_
@_StarlightRose_ Жыл бұрын
​@@freddiefishtonaye, fair enough
@alicebthegachaweirdo8378
@alicebthegachaweirdo8378 Жыл бұрын
Probably
@caitlyncamp1624
@caitlyncamp1624 Жыл бұрын
I have to say, the editing on this video is like the best I've seen from you. I'm living for it, fantastic job, Jamie!
@stopallsin
@stopallsin Жыл бұрын
I'm burnjn the Igbt flag jn my profjle...
@maple_____
@maple_____ Жыл бұрын
One of my best friends who happens to be in the early stages of transitioning, has been struggling with depression and low self esteem/worth. I will definitely recommend the sponsor to her because she just last night confessed to me that she was thinking about if she wasn’t in the world anymore. As any friend would i tried to help her, but being cis i couldn’t really help her. i hope this might help her to feel better about herself. Thank you for the recommendation, jamie 💜💜
@ProfessorYaoiI
@ProfessorYaoiI Жыл бұрын
Be careful. It’s made by the same people as Better Help which had a scandal around improperly trained therapists a bit ago and apparently it doesn’t work with your health insurance
@lucykitsune4619
@lucykitsune4619 Жыл бұрын
There's a transfem version of that joke too: "I really wasn't sure about my breasts before, but lately they'be been growing on me..."
@AngryNerdBird
@AngryNerdBird Жыл бұрын
This also applies to erotica writers, and knowing that something you wrote upgraded somebody else's fetish.
@killer_rabbit42
@killer_rabbit42 Жыл бұрын
5:06 Unfortunately, even if you think your family will be supportive, you can be surprised by them. My mom has been in relationships with men & women in her life. For most of my childhood, she was in a long term relationship with a woman. In high school, I thought she would be supportive when I told her I was bi & introduced her to my girlfriend. She immediately said she didn't believe me & wanted me to kiss my girlfriend in front of her to "prove" I wasn't faking it. I kissed her on the cheek because I didn't feel comfortable doing a full on kiss in front of my own mother (I would have felt the same if she asked me to do this with a boyfriend I introduced her to). That relationship didn't last very long because my mom made it really uncomfortable for both of us.
@TheWizardApple
@TheWizardApple Жыл бұрын
The wholr mental block thing w coming out u said hit different. I came out recently and it was a struggle to say the least. Because i wasnt able to say this big secret no one knew yet i was trying so hard to get out, my mum and therapist just assumed i was being manipulative and attention seeking and that nothing was actually wrong with me. And no, i havent heard an apology. Good times!
@FlagBoi
@FlagBoi Жыл бұрын
12:04 I have actually made a sin calendar, January is Sloth (You stay up late for new years and are exhausted. It's also in winter, a very lazy season) February is Lust (Because of Valentine's Day, obviously.) March is Greed (St. Patrick's Day, the whole point being kidnapping someone for money, pretty greedy) April is Envy (Because I couldn't find a big holiday for April, therefore it's envious of months like December and October) May is Deception (I had a few months left and needed to fill them with something, so May and September got irrelevant sins) June is Pride (Need I explain?) July is Violence (Celebrating the singing of a document that caused a war with explosives? Seems violent enough.) August is Wrath (I lied about May; August has a nothing sin too.) September is Theft (Like I said, not all of these have some big meaning.) October is Blasphemy (People say Halloween is "of the devil", I know it historically isn't, but this works for our purposes here.) November is Gluttony (Thanksgiving of course.) And December is Indulgence (New Year's Day, also winter is vice season.)
@teacup5921
@teacup5921 Жыл бұрын
Born in the month of Indulgence!
@FlagBoi
@FlagBoi Жыл бұрын
@@teacup5921 Hell yeah! I was born in the month of theft. I say we replace star signs with this, but I'm biased.
@-cat_in_space-
@-cat_in_space- 9 ай бұрын
nono, april fools, april is deception
@FlagBoi
@FlagBoi 9 ай бұрын
@@-cat_in_space- YES!!
@TransGuyShane
@TransGuyShane Жыл бұрын
My bisexual awakening was afab me crushing on drew barrymoore in 50 first dates, charlies angels and everafter and tim curry in rocky horror picture show. My bi awakening as a demisexual trans man was elliot page when he came out ❤ I've had to come out so many times lol but I recently had to say "I'm bi actually" to my sister even tho she already knew 😂 To quote the brilliant Whoopi Goldberg "if you don't like gay marriage, don't marry a gay person." ❤ My niece will be 6 tomorrow and she is my biggest supporter , ive been her uncle shane since day one and she loves me regardless. Kids are so supportive when not taught to hate ❤ Oh also i thknk that is the goose from untitled goose game ❤️
@eriklagergren7124
@eriklagergren7124 Жыл бұрын
"HRT causes permanent irreversable damage to your body, like bottom surgery" -smol brain "Yeah, I sure hope my previous organ doesn't grow back" -big brain
@mirandarensberger6919
@mirandarensberger6919 Жыл бұрын
The transphobes seriously don't understand that permanent irreversible change is exactly the point. And also that change doesn't mean damage.
@artikulv731
@artikulv731 Жыл бұрын
@@flintlock9857then educate us
@tjenadonn6158
@tjenadonn6158 Жыл бұрын
@@mirandarensberger6919 "That block of marble was irreversibly damaged when Michaelangelo carved it into La Pieta!"
@mirandarensberger6919
@mirandarensberger6919 Жыл бұрын
@@tjenadonn6158 Brilliant!
@wiselioness322
@wiselioness322 Жыл бұрын
@@mirandarensberger6919Yes they do. They know that it helps us. That’s why want to ban it, because they hate us and want us gone.
@PokhrajRoy.
@PokhrajRoy. Жыл бұрын
7:02 OMG I HAVE HAD THIS QUESTION FOR YEARS and then some Straight Girl will ask “But why are all the good guys gay?” LIKE EXCUSE ME SEND THEM MY WAY and I’ll transfer the hot straight guys to you.
@anthophyllite
@anthophyllite Жыл бұрын
I don't know if anyone else has commented that yet, but in Germany, "divers" is actually the third gender option on birth certificates. All job descriptions that don't need a specific gender now have (m/w/d) behind it meaning male/female/divers. I don't know why they decided to give it that name and if I remember correctly, it was established for intersex people and not so much for non-binary people, but hey, at least there is a third option.
@phr0ggerz_
@phr0ggerz_ Жыл бұрын
Jamie talking about giving the person your combing out to made me think of how I came out via paper airplane
@akitokutikabanae7010
@akitokutikabanae7010 Жыл бұрын
Oooh that's so cool !!
@anitanielsen1061
@anitanielsen1061 Жыл бұрын
"Tell that to the chemists" omg now I wanna see what a transphobe chemist looks like!
@_StarlightRose_
@_StarlightRose_ Жыл бұрын
"This person is broken. Their body doesnt match their brain chemistry" "These frogs think changing sex makes them mlre attractive to other frogs. But it wont. They know"
@ProfessorYaoiI
@ProfessorYaoiI Жыл бұрын
@@trevorchester4439 no salt on my fries please
@ProfessorYaoiI
@ProfessorYaoiI Жыл бұрын
@@trevorchester4439 nah that’s not an answer to what I said. I need to make sure you got my order right. No salt on my fries and a large shamrock shake please
@ProfessorYaoiI
@ProfessorYaoiI Жыл бұрын
@@trevorchester4439 We’re all impressed you just got an a in high school calc but if you keep saying random stuff I’ll have to call the manager or get another cashier
@ProfessorYaoiI
@ProfessorYaoiI Жыл бұрын
@@trevorchester4439 learn what cope means, it doesn’t apply here
@avantika_singh
@avantika_singh Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the joy you bring!
@lozey8317
@lozey8317 Жыл бұрын
"You will find your not-straight fish" is the encouragement I needed in my life right now. Thanks 😊
@Annik_Tenacious_Felis
@Annik_Tenacious_Felis Жыл бұрын
My bisexual awakening was definitely Underwold and The Mummy 😂
@simplymeowlogical
@simplymeowlogical Жыл бұрын
💜 I enjoyed the ace rep too in heartstopper. It's subtle, but it's well done (coming from an ace)
@jayden_ninja
@jayden_ninja Жыл бұрын
Heart stopper is so good ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 Nick and Charlie are so cute together. And my fave Tori moment was when she kicked Nick’s bro’s phone and threatened him ❤❤
@sephbox
@sephbox Жыл бұрын
Something I never really hear anyone talk about regarding "cis" and why some people might react unfavorably: It's a relatively harsh sounding phrase and when we produce it, our faces grimace into something snarl like, thus making it easy to mistake it for an insult. You know, like "wasp" sounds more harsh and aggressive than the comfy and soft sounding "bumblebee", which might indirectly shape our expectations for the thing referred to. Don't get me wrong, it's mostly homophobia, but I think there's always a bit more going on under the hood to how we react to stuff compared to how we sometimes may want to reduce it to a single reason. At least that was my initial reaction to the word. Also as a cis person we are usually privileged to not being used to feeling "othered" in terms of gender if that makes any sense. The difference being I then simply educated myself on the meaning and etymology of "cis", accepted/adopted the term and moved on from being initially butthurt 😅.
@waytoobiased
@waytoobiased Жыл бұрын
phonetically, it works super well in YTPs
@suetick1549
@suetick1549 Жыл бұрын
I still don't like the prefix. It reminds me of the word piss while trans sounds travel related. I want a travel sounding prefix, too. And a way of saying the same basic thing without making it sound like one is in agreement with gender norms. That was my biggest issue. Of course everyone decided I was a transphobe just because of my fixation on how a word sounds to me personally. It has nothing to do with anything else. I'm autistic though and just have different ways of looking at things. Gender and linguistics both. And of course I have no idea when it's ok to say something and when it's going to get misunderstood and upset everyone else. Someday, when I'm long dead, the language will shift no doubt.
@thatdisabledprincess
@thatdisabledprincess Жыл бұрын
I adore Heartstopper. Nick's journey really helped me accept my own bisexuality, and I loved the aro rep in the second season! --an arobi person 💖
@Curly._.Fries29
@Curly._.Fries29 Жыл бұрын
9:39 I watched both seasons and I read all the heartstopper books too. (I’m also bi, actually) 💙💜💕
@TransAroPan
@TransAroPan Жыл бұрын
Pride’s All About Celebrating Everything we Were Able to Survive,I Survived Years of Bullying in,&,Out of School,I Also Survived a Suicide Attempt Way Back When I Was in 7th Grade,I Celebrate Those Things Every Single Days of my Life Now
@dianamerchant1026
@dianamerchant1026 Жыл бұрын
So 80s kid here. Linda Hamilton in terminator 2 was my bi awakening. I was young enough that I wasn’t sure if I liked her or wanted to be her but as I go back I’m like “ oh yeah…” what’s great is my husband and I are attracted to the same women so we can both enjoy looking❤
@Dandelion-Dreamz
@Dandelion-Dreamz Ай бұрын
One of the best thing about my friends (among the many other best things, which is actually just most things) is that I was not at all nervous to come out to any of them. I was positive that they would be supportive. There probably isn't a single alternate reality where they aren't. I love my friends sm
@froggledrawstuff
@froggledrawstuff Жыл бұрын
i’ve just recently started watching heartstopper and i’m so glad to see memes about it, it gets me so much more excited to finish watching the show
@abigailcowling-smith3532
@abigailcowling-smith3532 Жыл бұрын
Hey, Jamie! I know this will probably get lost in the sea of comments but I just wanted to say thank you. Your channel and content have really helped me be a supportive ally to my younger brother since he came out as trans 18 months ago. Not only that, but your book has been a lifesaver for my supportive (but sometimes misdirected (she means well)) mother, who is always willing to learn about how best to support her child. Many thanks from the bottom of our hearts❣
@juniorqindes8335
@juniorqindes8335 Жыл бұрын
Ironic, the channel has been failing for a while because of her homophobia.
@pathevermore3683
@pathevermore3683 Жыл бұрын
​@juniorqindes8335 lmao, that was hilarious! Jamie must have made you super upset and triggered!
@juniorqindes8335
@juniorqindes8335 Жыл бұрын
@@pathevermore3683 nope, someone just told me about t their KZbin statistics and I looked it up. It’s starting to be more of a cult following than anything. New people unsub quick or stay subbed and the growth rate won’t compensate. Lucky for him youtube won’t remove inactive or duplicate accounts.
@pathevermore3683
@pathevermore3683 Жыл бұрын
​​@@juniorqindes8335lmao, please, we know your kind is incapale of basic math. Statistics is way out of your cult's wheel house.
@user-mv5zt8qd9l
@user-mv5zt8qd9l Жыл бұрын
@@juniorqindes8335 "I make up nonsense to pretend like my hate campaign is working." Failing creators don't tend to have successful book launches and growing merchandise lines.
@PokhrajRoy.
@PokhrajRoy. Жыл бұрын
7:37 Gillian Anderson is going to love this meme. For context, there was another meme on Twitter that Gillian Anderson on X-Files was Bi Awakening for many people.
@cmntr_
@cmntr_ Жыл бұрын
'Divers' is a mistranslation (or rather a non-translation) from the German 'diverse' meaning not clearly male or female. In Germany there are four gender entry possibilities in official documents: male, female, diverse and no entry.
@pietjewaanman3506
@pietjewaanman3506 Жыл бұрын
Male and female are words related to sex, not to gender. World is crazy
@jamievee8375
@jamievee8375 Жыл бұрын
10:48 once at a party I met this girl that was around 6 and I was talking to my friend who was drawing with her and she asks my friend “is that your brother?” I’m not on T but the only things that dont let me pass are my voice and my chest but did the kid care? Absolutely not and it was awesome
@mattseats4710
@mattseats4710 Жыл бұрын
I appreciate you so much! Thank you for having this channel and being who you are.
@stopallsin
@stopallsin Жыл бұрын
I'm burnjn the Igbt flag jn my profjle...
@hawtyboi
@hawtyboi Жыл бұрын
Just started watching another Jamie video and immediately jumped to this
@ChewedBubbleGun
@ChewedBubbleGun Жыл бұрын
Decently close friend, wake up New Jamie video dropped
@VickiLovesDoctorWho
@VickiLovesDoctorWho Жыл бұрын
Princess Jasmine and Billie Piper were my bisexual awakenings 🤪 I wonder how many bisexual awakenings Secret Diary of a Call Girl was responsible for 🤔
@bibatskingdom
@bibatskingdom Жыл бұрын
I love Heartstopper! I'm Bi and Nick has made me more confident in myself. I've stopped just saying I'm gay, and started correcting people who assume.
@Idiot_TaylorsVersion
@Idiot_TaylorsVersion Ай бұрын
5:22 the way I came out to my dad was making a video (just with some text and music, not me speaking)and sending it to him and waiting in panic for him to respond just for him to send me a video of himself in tears saying how he accepted me 🥹 and man I really wish it had gone that way when I came out to my mom
@UltraPrimal
@UltraPrimal Жыл бұрын
"Bilk" is a photoshop of "Silk", a soy milk brand in North America.
@greengeckygecko
@greengeckygecko Жыл бұрын
i remember coming out to my “supportive” mom (actually like last month?) and one thing that confuses me to this day is mom: so i/we dont see you as a boy.. me: 👀 mom: but also not a girl me: 😐???? so what do you see me as then, a potato???
@_StarlightRose_
@_StarlightRose_ Жыл бұрын
You are a botato, as you are watching JammiDodger, who calls us all spuds
@annakilifa331
@annakilifa331 Жыл бұрын
Did you forget that nonbinary people exist? If she neither sees you as a boy/man nor a girl/ woman, then she obviously sees you as nonbinary. A nonbinary potato. Probably.
@mirrortarget5729
@mirrortarget5729 Жыл бұрын
This video was very calming to watch after I found out about Project 2025. Despite how horrifying it is, I think everyone should know about it so that we can stop it
@skytiger1584
@skytiger1584 28 күн бұрын
I’m def gonna look into that therapy thing because I have trouble with facial expression and tone of voice, it feels like when I’m in session I have to press a button for each little movement I do, so that texty thing is gonna be helpful as fuck
@frenchfluency
@frenchfluency Жыл бұрын
Hey Jamie, in case noone answered this already, "divers" is the word that is used in German for non-binary. So, it appearing on that forms is probably a translation error from an automated machine, or someone who tried to write "diverse" (a literal translation from the German) and dropped the -e accidentally. Love your content btw 😉
@Sepa493
@Sepa493 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the explanation, it was really helpfull
@Snek86
@Snek86 Жыл бұрын
Jamie makes me feel happy with who I am. Most of my family is very homophobic and transphobic, and they would completely disown me if I told them I was Nonbinary. The only supportive family member I have is my mom. Anyways, thank you Jamie!
@crazcatladeestudios9956
@crazcatladeestudios9956 Жыл бұрын
On a slight tangent from the bisecual awakening, my friend hit me with what is, quite possibly, the best compliment i have ever been given. I was talking about a dress that makes me look like and evil queen and they said "Listen, I'm asexual, But...". The ego boost that gave me, dear lord.
@hansthesnowman7090
@hansthesnowman7090 Жыл бұрын
"Divers" is german for "diverse" (as in diversity) . It is also used as a synonym for non-binary.
@Fishwolfcrow
@Fishwolfcrow Жыл бұрын
14:38 this made me happy because a month ago I sewed a stuffed goose and it didn't have have wings so it flied with the power of sheer bisexuality
@zzombiiz
@zzombiiz Жыл бұрын
10:58 i was so shocked when jamie pronounced blåhaj properly
@LexiTheUselessLesbian
@LexiTheUselessLesbian Жыл бұрын
Day 157 of asking for OT, Jammidodger, TheClick and TheLexiKitty to collab
@Reflux_E
@Reflux_E Жыл бұрын
And noahfincce
@weirdo001
@weirdo001 Жыл бұрын
This is something we all want to see. 🏳️‍🌈
@KittyKatalina
@KittyKatalina Жыл бұрын
Re: LGBT sandwich To quote another youtuber's reaction, "I'm... Lettuce and Tomato! I'm a healthy little snack!"
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