I’m SICK to DEATH of This- Time to Go ALL IN | Raw Talk Ep. 1

[@libertycaps97211]

I’m 55 in the PNW US. Yes, life gets to be a grind. I’m just glad I grew up in the 70s and 80s. Lived my 20s in the 90s. Life was a lot more fun back then. ALOT MORE.

[@emzicoolintheuk]

Same! 👍❤✨

[@tubenit71]

I couldn’t agree with you more. The 80’s and 90’s - AKA Pre-internet, cell phones, and social media - were the absolute freakin’ best! Those were/are my good ol’ days. Canada here.

[@Jughead24]

I agree. Grew up in the 60s and seventies. Changed fast. Anybody know what/how this happened?

[@tim1883]

61, same. I got to play outside when I was a child.

[@Mr.NoName1972]

52 years old here. If I had a time machine, I would go back to the 1980's and keep pressing the reset button and stay in that time period. I can only do that in my mind.

[@bsecure39]

Im currently 75, retired after a 40 year career, single, not rich, but $ comfortable. Still your questioning resonated with me. I stopped drinking a year ago, have lost weight, increased walking, and "forcing" myself to be more open and available to people in general' notwithstanding their differing viewpoints and beliefs. Ive also tried to reduce the focus on me and my mistakes and show more appreciation, or at least less arrogance--not so easy for an introvert who is trying to gain more wisdom. Given our difference in age, experiences, and challenges, our goals and path may be different but I hope to learn from you as I follow your journey with great interest!

[@caljohndavies]

@bsecure39 love that 🙌🏻 thanks for for comment!

[@mup_pet]

I'd say they're dramatically different. Your generation had affordable housing and didn't have this culture of zero hour contracts and dead-end jobs as the norm. Then you had Thatcher who completely sold this country out, and then Brexit, which has made us so much poorer (and will continue to do so until we eventually rejoin in say 20 odd years time). I can certainly respect people cutting back on their vices and trying to take control of their minds, bodies and lives, but there really is no escaping the prison which many young people face, not unless there is radical change (and voting for Reform would be like voting for petrol to put a fire out).

[@mpat100]

@@caljohndavies whats wrong with your hometown; why do people act as if there is always somewhere better than where they grew up?

[@MovingHomewithCharlie]

Another free spirit wakes up. Welcome back to the wider world Cal! Good for you. 👍🏻 You’ll do great.

[@caljohndavies]

@MovingHomewithCharlie you know it brother!

[@JronDon854]

But what can he actually do to get out? Genuine question

[@MovingHomewithCharlie]

@@JronDon854 strike out on his own terms, there are 5.5m small business owners, there is a long list of ways to get started on your own two feet and once you have you'll never go back. Be in charge of your own time and no one can fire you.

[@JronDon854]

@@MovingHomewithCharlie But doing what exactly? Quite broad advice

[@Bald-American-Idiot]

​​@@JronDon854"but doing what exactly" geez bro...time to start thinking for yourself 😂😂😂

[@darrylmayeski5914]

You’re 31 and healthy, two things many men would kill to be. So while you’ve got that going for you, eliminate the things that are dragging you down. Find your happiness, and run with it.

[@kenthompson5723]

eliminate the things that are dragging you down. -------------------------------------------------------------------------- That's pretty hard to do when Western society demands that everyone conform to their expectations of a 9to5 job and the usual cultural institutions of marriage, children, religion, and the straitjacket of financial DEBT.

[@rickeyryan1986]

I’m a 74 year on the us and you just explained my life in 5 minutes! My worst fear since I was young was looking back on wasted life! So here I am! Don’t do what I’ve done !!!!!

[@alexanderedwards6811]

Your life wasn't wasted mate, don't be so harsh on yourself. Best wishes from your British cousin

[@bruno_giordano]

I am a Japanese man in the same mental state and phase in life as you. Thank you for this video, I take it as my sign. See you in glory.

[@TebessiTebessa]

Japan is the worst 😂

[@SPFboy86]

​@@TebessiTebessaI think you have meant the worst. Based on many KZbin videos, the shine of Japan costs people's mental and physical health. They are overworked. Here in the UK, it's much better, at least for now.

[@tom_tom_tommy]

⁠@@SPFboy86 nah the UK is as bad as a third world and getting worse at an incredible speed. Japan is safe and clean as hell and people are polite

[@SPFboy86]

@@tom_tom_tommy That safety and cleanliness require people to live for work. They hardly go on longer holidays and overtime is not an option, but an expectation. Japan is a mono culture who makes their own citizens to work to the last breath. Besides, society won't accept well foreigners working there, especially if they don't speak Japanese. I rather wish to have the good habits of Japanese settled here in the UK. :)

[@FishingtonBurpPuzzle]

@@TebessiTebessa Right. I have lived there for 25 years. A lot of isolated depressed men - and women, crappy food, no self expression.

[@stevendaniel8126]

I'm 75. Life goes by sooooo fast. Grab what you want while you can. Screw what anyone else thinks or says. Be and act young while you are...... Go, man. Kick life in the ass because it's going to do the same to you !! 😊😊

[@suewright3345]

What a refreshing dialogue...i am 70 years old mother...you've got it right. The GB that i grew up in has gone to the dogs...go and make a new life, live free young man 🙏

[@mstirlz]

Even achieving your goals can be bad. I got looked down on by friends and society for having no career ambition or hobbies. This changed. I trained and got a high paying job, and got addicted to the gym. This resulted in the same people getting spiteful and jealous. Now im looked at the same as i was before. Im starting to think avoiding people all together is the way to go

[@mikehunt4797]

Sadly those are no friends.

[@AbXy-rg2th]

I do just that. Realised alot in my alone times, like there being no real genuine friends or family. Since being awakened, reality has hit me hard.

[@geoffdundee]

💯👍...people are toxic.....the less you have around you the better your life will be.

[@traktor321]

😂

[@chrismay2298]

This. People are fake and pointless anymore. Buncha emotion driven NPCs. Fuck em.

[@LightHouse_222]

Bravo. Wow, I had that same drive 25 years ago. Youth is a crazy 🤪 gift. So much is possible. Now, at 56, happy to be a hermit, building puzzles, cups of tea. Feeling the grass under my feet and the rain on my face. 5 years in London, including lockdown, drove me back to Africa in 2022. My children are your age and still travel. Luckily not bogged down with family and mortgages and so on. Go out there and do it ! Find that project that will make you jump out of bed in the morning! I have subscribed, just to see where this energy takes you. ❤ from South Africa.

[@caljohndavies]

🤝🏻

[@FoxyUSAx]

@@caljohndavies I’m 54 and I feel for young people. You’ve now discovered life! Now make a plan! You’re young so make those goals happen! Politically, it’s dire but you can change it. IMO the internet didn’t exist but it has its uses I agree. However the world is better without SM and the internet. But we have it now but I’d suggest take time off if you can and make plans from abroad when you’ve had time to relax and got a bit of sun and sleep. I agree the UK is cr@p atm and over crowded too. So think from a place of rest and beauty….jump on a plane and take time out for a few weeks. All the best btw!

[@larswillsen]

I'm worried for the youth .. I'm 61 .. former military coder .. Had my best time in the 80s, seen the entire World .. a couple of years ago I decided to re-record my music after 30+ years without touching music .. one year in I was hit by a massive stroke (brain) .. You're absolutely right, don't buy a house - live .. I might have been lucky to become a coder before I was 10 thanks to someone that taught me in the middle of nowhere in the Arctic .. I can't code post-stroke, I watch video's like yours, listen and understand your frustrations. I'd have been so frustrated if we were to live this era .. I guess the only thing you can do is to let go and go somewhere, take it from there - See what life have in hand .. I know, one need funds, but you'll be surprised how far you can go without - I wish you to live your life the best you can, use your human abilities and never let society dictate a damn thing .. I'm a Greenlander, I'm a Nomad .. it's in my blood - So is your ancestry .. tough people - Go!! :)

[@frankcastle2876]

I'm 50 now. I was 20 when I left Detroit, was headed for California ended up stopping in Denver and found my way. My friends who stayed in Detroit are still in the same shit as I was then. I am much happier now after 30 years of hard work. I would encourage you to go somewhere where there is more opportunities. Good luck, you're going to need it.

[@BullCityRich]

You are awakening. Congratulations!

[@melike1984]

" People do not decide their futures, they decide their habits and their habits decide their futures " F M Alexander

[@divinityeaster6610]

Life is very difficult. It’s mundane for a lot of people. Every day you have to get up and get through another day. We live in a low vibration dimension. Our souls made a contract to live out this existence. It’s hard but I keep going.

[@stevewhitehouse41]

Clear any debt if you have it,buy a van,kit it out as a camper and go travelling for a few years but most of all get out of the UK at your age. I am 68 and still working and you can be free and get your life back while young. Go for it and never look back.

[@thelevelupcommunity]

And most of invest..

[@FoxyUSAx]

Excellent answer! 👏🏻👏🏻

[@para.podcast]

Recognising it is the first step. Then the power is with you, well done for seeking better for yourself. Wishing you the best on your journey.

[@amit_patel654]

As long as we're still breathing, there's always a way out.

[@joannedibben2352]

Yes I agree with you as long as we are breathing things can change

[@2scents434]

First thing you need to ask yourself is what makes you happy? What are things you really want in life to feel content and complete? Once you know then make plans to get it. At the end of the day we really just want someone to share this F’d up world with and to love and be loved the rest is icing on the cake and worth the daily grind. Hope you find happiness brother.

[@chrismay2298]

How did they trick you all into believing that chasing "happy" is the goal. What happened to balance? It's wild to pursue a constant "happiness". Impossible and delusional.

[@NorbertNagy00]

Really good honest talk Mate. Feel the same at 45 y old, living in London. Discipline,desire, planning and taking action are the most important elements what we need to implement in our lives. Waking up earlier wven 30 to 60 minutes makes a huge difference to start with. Your attitude and view of the world resonate with me and many others so just subscribed and thank you for your time,realisation and honesty

[@robertcullison9476]

You're very fortunate to have awakened from the game-ified programming of society. Keep going because it doesn't get better, YOU get better.

[@DanielImmanuel2143]

Hey mate. I wish you well. You have to change your thinking. What you dwell on, you attract. Well done for being awake!! Keep going 💪

[@A.I.N.A.C..]

Hey Callum, 47 here Try living in Jersey, i have been sucked back in many time after living on boats and in tents to free myself up financially.I just cant take anything seriously anymore, and i just go about with a big smile on my face, cheer people up where i can and spread the high vibes.I am just about to go busking too uplift the spirit here in St Helier as it is very depressing and sanitized from anything that makes people happy,As you know, miserable people in fear are easy to controll.I am on a fitness journey too, got a 6 pack first time in my life! Keep smiling and pushing!

[@caljohndavies]

Legend bro, keep up the positivity. The world needs it 🙏 Busking with Guitar? I play also.

[@PeterTuffrey-s2j]

Hi mate, I’m 53, did the same job for 34 years, relationship failed, I moved out, bought a boat, perused my art in the evenings and quit booze. I’ve been a full time artist for a year. I just snapped and quit my job. It’s a struggle for sure but to be in charge of your own life is a major plus and I wasn’t a natural risk taker…I feel what you are saying 👍👍

[@SlamSlungBC]

Life is what you make of it. People really need to slow down and relish being in the moment with those they care about because one day it all stops, ends and never ever starts again.

[@ronalddonaghe3674]

First time watching you. You grabbed my attention as soon as you spoke your first sentence. I am 76 years old and I am living my best life. Although I did work at jobs that sucked the life out of me, I was gaining valuable experience, skills, and whatnot and so, by my fifties (hey, that's the new thirties) I ran a side hustle (editing) and turned it into my retirement income. But I digress...I'm going to listen to the rest of your video.

[@juana9483]

To be human on this planet is to be a slave. You woke up that's all the answer is to follow a spiritual path.

[@Hughmancase]

no mate, to "wake up" today is to be a blue haired im a victim cunt. the guy didnt wake up. the guy grew up.

[@axxxingforanswers4648]

I wish I was 31 again....68 now...don't give up...stay away from negative people and victims....you're too young to give up....from US. At least you don't have Trump to deal with...

[@ВиталийСлонов-ч4ъ]

My life in a nutshell. Thanks for sharing. Happy Christmas! 🎅🎄

[@dan19752008]

I'm 50 next year, I've had depression for over 30 years, I went self employed from home this year with my wife, I had enough of working for idiots for 33 years, I'm better now but I need to move abroad, I've had enough of the UK

[@whydontyouwork]

Mate I feel EXACTLY the same. Worked hard for 10 YEARS. I’m 38. Trying so hard to get out of debt.

[@thelevelupcommunity]

What debt do you have if you don’t mind me asking? I speak on this stuff on my channel and would be good for me drop a few things people go in debt for and how to eliminate it on my next vid

[@steelearmstrong9616]

Things are about to become much more worse and far worse than most realise. By this time next year everyone will be begging and wishing that it was the beginning of 2024 again and it will only continue to get worse by the day. You have a great attitude mate. Hang in there brother. From Australia

[@caljohndavies]

Thank you brother! Love your country man, was there for 1 year back in 2021/13.

[@steelearmstrong9616]

@@caljohndavies Love your country to man. It’s just so sad seeing what’s going on over there and in the west in general. Australia is right behind you. Looking forward to more positive vibes coming your way. Subbed. We will get there my friend 🍀

[@caljohndavies]

@steelearmstrong9616 legend. Yeah I'll be documenting my journey so keep an eye out for more raw talks!

[@caljohndavies]

@steelearmstrong9616 also follow me IG where I'll be sharing daily updates @caljohndavies

[@Daneiladams555]

Australia is a fascist country, get out

[@JakTbh]

In my experience, it's best not to think about this stuff too deeply. It's a sure-fire way to end up depressed and miserable. Find a job you can tolerate (or even like if you're lucky) where you earn enough to pay bills, go on a holiday or two a year, and fill the rest of the time having experiences and spending time with the people you love. To me, that's all that really matters when it comes down to it.

[@winecrimesfoodandtime7119]

❤

[@JimmyLives1986]

I couldn't agree with you more. That's the way.

[@chrismay2298]

Ah yes, the old "ignore it and it will be fine" bullshit...

[@marcusstephenomara884]

You are absolutely right with what you're saying. The economy is beyond repair. Its everything housing costs are completely unreasonable, you give up all of your income on bills. Going out for a pint is not really an option these days it's far too expensive. Most people have had enough. They move to this country thinking how great it is and soon realise it was a big mistake. I'm 44 now and it's been home, work, pay your bills, pay for food, clean up - drink and go back to square one again. What's the point in that. I would do anything to move out of here go to Australia maybe or US and start over. This is not a way to live your life. No wonder mental health is so high and people's lives are dysfunctional. Accepting this is wrong and doing something about it is the first step to making everything better and meaningful.

[@kathyinwonderlandl.a.8934]

Please don’t move here to the US if you care to live because with our guns and politics we are doomed.

[@wherezthebeef]

I salute you. you're not alone. Journal every morning and have constant reminders to keep yourself on track and accountable to yourself. The longer you wait in life, the more trapped you'll become and the system will devour your $$ and your life, then you get old, sick, and prisoner of healthcare system. Hopelessless and routine will become a psychologically inescapable norm. Escape while you can. You can do it.

[@MrZart]

*Life is shit. Once you accept that, life gets easier to tolerate.*

[@JoolsUK]

Life is hard. But beautiful. There are many reasons to develop and achieve.

[@mikehunt4797]

Prison planet 101

[@mup_pet]

Life is hard, then you die.

[@thadtuiol1717]

@@mikehunt4797 Keep voting Democrat/Labour/Conservative for more of that

[@mikehunt4797]

@@thadtuiol1717 Pretty dumb to make assumptions based off nothing. You must be wrong a lot.

[@BB-sf7jv]

First video huh? You did a great job. That said you are going through a mid life crisis 10 years earlier than most guys do. It’s a good thing to get it out of the way as early as possible. Keep up the good work…..just know you are not alone! 😊

[@Kareena1988]

I have visited Bristol last year...the people and their negativity were UNBEARABLE...

[@BobMinelli]

EXCELLENT RANT, sir. Now that you've made that decision (meaning: to cut away from), simply take steps however small (baby-steps) every day. And of course, there will be giant-step-days, but the mindset is in place. Daily actions/thoughts that shift towards what you want, not away from. Lastly, I'll leave you with this. "What you focus on...EXPANDS." Cheers mate, from Wisconsin. May this message find you clear, coherent, mindful and with peaceful easy feelings filling up your brilliant life. Peace! ✌

[@kronos4136]

Life is easy, people make it hard. I wish you well and remember you are the principle actor, in a play you write and act within, If you don't like a particular scene simply move on and start a new one.

[@barbarajean7208]

I loved this! No BS, just the truth.

[@iamelizarosalind]

You got this. Keep striving, give time to your passion projects and build the dream life over time while grinding the day job, it’s the long game, nothing worth having comes easy 🙏

[@GuitarsandDrones]

We moved to Canada from U.K. in 2008 age 46. Change is in your own hands 🙌 people just need to push boundaries, and before you ask, no we had very little money. The binge drinking weekends stopped in Canada as this country does not have that mentality

[@urbanet1939]

Remember to do innerwork aswell, meditation, to connect better to your spirit/intuition in a positive and constructive way. To have peace of mind while changing your life. Innerwork is as important as changing your outer circumstances. Peace and love!

[@gabrielacsinte9849]

Don't you think everything is physical? For example, I don't have intrusive thoughts, only when I suspect that my digestion is not perfect, especially if I eat things that irritate my gut, even though I got no symptoms. Starches in big quantities and uncooked fiber does this for me. Other than that, I have no issues. And I had 5 years ago intensive adrenaline and anxiety, went on meds, felt like no one, miserable, tired, afraid, naive, insecure and low confidence. After I went through a period of discovering the real nutrition, by increasing my metabolic rate, things improved till the point of resolving all my insecurities by itself. I mean, I didn't work on myself to not have those intrusive thoughts and neither I tried to change my mentality in some way. I just became more independent by my way of being, but I didn't aim to do it. I think a healthy body tends towards being yourself. Forcing it the other way around doesn't work long term

[@gabrielacsinte9849]

Now I have plenty of peace in my mind without doing anything. The only thing that I am careful is my digestion, that's it. It's physical.

[@colin4215]

We are the architects of our life Callum. Opportunities will come and go, but we need to take the necessary risks when they arrive. Stepping out of our 'comfort zone' is the key to growth, and getting used to handling pressure, stress and adversity from all aspects is what defines our character. I did the 9-5 mundane misery in my early 20s, and then I decided to travel working abroad for adventure. I am 43 now with a wife, children, good house, business and a life I love. But it was really hard work and I made a lot of sacrifices, and still do to this day. There are still hard times as the more you grow, the more you don't want to lose it. If I were to speak to my 31 year old self now, I'd say go out and take risks, don't give a f*** what others think, learn all you can, and find what you love doing.

[@caljohndavies]

@colin4215 love that Colin, thank you 🙏 This is exactly it, pulling my head out of arse finally and putting in the work, discipline and sacrifice necessary. It starts with personal development. All the best to you my friend 🤝🏻

[@emailsph3282]

Agree, but don't recommend marriage, cohab or kids for men. 50%+ divorce rate, 90% misery rate in the longterm, expensive, exploited and disrespected.

[@colin4215]

@@caljohndavies it’s a pleasure. You make great videos and come across really articulate. Keep going 👍

[@katiepougher734]

I'm a female age 51.and enjoyed this topic I ft same in 20s 30s but pressures of finance life circumstances makes you have to work..an be a wage slave.. I live alone never married or kids which is pur of the box ..i guess.. I would say if you have a drive or a talent use it.dobr abuse it. Show it ..work on it ..life is hard .I felt a change gor everyone and feel fir Mt younger generation so go forth an prosper 😊

[@aronrosas4191]

You may have been raised by narcissistic people, typically expect perfection when its not a reality. Life is what you decide to make it, our status in regards to money does determine alot of what happens to us as individuals. I approach life with a "less is more" approach and it has had a good effect on my mental health. Don't give up, it's not over.

[@agatastaniak7459]

Yes, "less is more" seems to be a Danish mindset and research shows Danish people are maong happiest in the world, so you mght be on to something. In my humble view humans have always had a hard time trying to accept that that they are in fact highly developed monkies with overgrown brains and more free time not devoted to searching for food and shelther than other primates would have. And for some reason humans have always tried to invent reasons why each of them that belongs to the same spiece is supposed to be " exceptional", "better than others", "a rare odd piece who is on the verge of being a genius". I have always liked biology, I have never denied being a part of a natural kingdom, I have never tried to mentally defend myself against the concept of evolution of the spiecies, so I had none of such "attachments to outcome". I was raised in high discipline so I might have self-directed perfectionism tendencies but I am aware of my up-bringng, so I keep them in check. Also following "less is more" logic. Cannot complain. I do not like setting unrealistic goals for myself. I do not complain about being " as mediocre as everyone else". I do not buy into all this "get out of your comfort zone" pep talk. To me a livingcreature that gets out of its own comfort zone may very well die prematurely.Most members of each spiecie are "mediocre" or "average". This is why they are able to survive. Those who are on extremes don't have an easy life. It's the matter of just a few IQ points for example between being a genius and suffering from madness, between being full of energy and being doomed to be constantly depressed. While being "mediocre" increases the chances of leading a longer, calmer more satisfying life. A pity many people fail to appreciate it and fail to adopt "less is more" mindset but knowing guys like you exist gives me back hope in humanity so to speak. Let's hope you can promote some way. In a less is more manner of course. At least among people near you. ;-) After any change for the better has to start somewhere.

[@pea-dub]

Its bizzare as ive pondered over the last few days that, most of my childhood i wanted to be a grown up,now im an adult i want to go back to be a child again. Oh the irony.i must admit,being a grown up is absolutely soul destroying in this currant setup.

[@woodyexplorer]

I used to feel trapped in a desperate situation, with nothing to look for in life. That was when I finished high school and failed to enter a university. I was lucky to make a turn by getting into the easiest university to get into. I made it as a starting point and earned my way to a happy one today. Education is a key really.

[@lesserson2311]

I have learned it is very important that you have hobbies and passions that you pursue daily; & meaningful relationships with your family and friends to share life with, the good, bad and ugly. Support, be supported, to nurture, care, share and engage and be open to receiving it all in return. It's the little things in life that make it worth living, so make them count. Good luck mate!

[@aidenfreedom]

Agree with your take Cal, making positive personal decisions changes our future path, never look back, always be ready to learn and admit when we were wrong, embrace change for the better and keep it simple, life for me is only complicated if i make it so? Bless you man, great video and chat, you are a star sharing this. Thank you. 70 here next year and never a dull moment, and British...wonders never cease!!! "You are what you think"

[@magma9138]

You cannot fail. LIVE FULLY>LIVE NOW,.

[@carolinegathercole8473]

I’m 68 and I’m sick of this grind. Can’t afford to do this or that or go here or go there.

[@empathsentientsoul]

Well done on the video, Callum. My son is around your age and you say exactly the same things. We have been fed so many lies about "success" all designed to keep us in perpetual debt to the system. I hope that many more people, particularly young men, develop your mindset as I believe this is our best chance at reversing this hell-hole that we find ourselves in.

[@caljohndavies]

Appreciate that, thank you. It's about time we step up as men, nowadays I don't see much strength out there.

[@alexandreekarsai6337]

I love your true and honest speech.Don’t give up on your dreams. Keep hustle and grinding…bless you from Budapest..

[@TheKeystoneChannel]

I hear you , Cal! The question is: What is this "life" now? I think it is not what it was anymore. We are changing to a new world of awareness. Changing the game, or rather, stop playing the game and living our purpose which comes from within. Remove yourself from the negative. I hear you. I am 55 yrs old and still at the point where I was at 30 yrs old. But I learned a lot. There is so much more than we can see and society asks from us. What are we asking from ourselves? Is my question now. Matrialism and consumerism is the old world, going within and connecting to your soul is the new world. Choose to disconnect from the matrix and connect to your soul's purpose. Not easy and it is hard work. A different perspective if you will. Much Love from The Netherlands

[@sannak9617]

Great speech! 👍🙏❤ Greetings from Finland which is also in shitty situation.

[@Mers3av1ew]

It’s great you feel like this. This is your springboard- now off you go , and be brilliant

[@Alchemy_Art_Designs]

Well said young man! You CAN do it… you ARE doing it…. Woohoo… break free from the matrix . I’m also working on ways to do it… wishing you continued strength on the journey to personal freedom

[@LauraSnow-in3nx]

Wow! You are really done with all of that & more power to you! When you take your power back from addictions they can hold you down anymore!

[@mariamagv]

I've believed deeply in your purpose since I met you, and I feel that many people, even outside of the UK, share that feeling. Here in Latin America it's the same, but I know we can all improve individually when we understand what we want and what we don't. Love you! 💗

[@caljohndavies]

Love this Maria 👌🏻💙

[@nickmonkey284]

Great video This will resonate with a lot of men in the UK today All the best to you

[@jmy871]

Life has always been a problem the problem is we take it seriously. We think our life has such a purpose but it doesn’t. Everyone’s story is the same. You are born and then you die. It doesn’t matter what you do with your life mate. It’s all the same

[@cortashaelam320]

God has given me a purpose. I wasn't created to be like everyone else. It does matter what you do in the middle before you die.

[@IsraelCountryCube]

​@@cortashaelam320youre a female i assume, hey if you he wants to die with no worship to God, therefore everything good comes from God,family, marriage spouse, wife , husband, children, friends, humanity , community, if he cant do the good that is prevalent in his neighborhood but he obviously canr see the obvious at the same place, okay let him be. He will eventually recognize after having being told what is good, which i think he already knows, he will feel a burning sensation to find meaning and finally drop all the addictions he has in practice while still feeling sense of attraction for them he will look for the God who can purge that evil away from him. God bless you all. I seriously desire for all of us humans to worship the God who so very much deserves our time in holy mass, and he would give us spouse if thats what we need. Amen follow God and he may give you what you need.

[@cloudhigh6582]

​@@IsraelCountryCubeZeus?

[@yaneznayoui1597]

@@cortashaelam320 Whatever you tell yourself to comfort yourself for the inevitable end.

[@cortashaelam320]

@@yaneznayoui1597 Ha ha ha. I already made it. Just waiting to cross over.

[@jamesthegooner]

This was motivating. I’m doing the work now, too. If my business takes off (a women’s athleisure/lingerie brand), I’ll have a job (somewhere in the company) waiting for you. You have the attitude I want in my business. Godspeed, Cal. It’s with you, for sure.

[@KnightsTemplar-y4u]

You just said it" Cost of living" , stops you being able to do lots of things, its then just work to live in the UK, America is the same but more expensive.. Society has changed, no real face to face conversations anymore, people are all wrapped up in themselves and social media, I'm 52yrs old and have seen the changes, my partner died recently quite young and that grief has done strange things to me.. Life is what we make it and it is short, when i was young it was the start of the home computer and was an exciting time to be young now we have it all, its not the same.. Lots of negative changes are occuring in Britain and everyone is feeling it, including the farmers the WEF government want us to have nothing and be happy.. Its all part of the plan and everyone is feeling the pinch...

[@wherezthebeef]

It might mean escaping to an affordable country as an expat to give yourself financial breathing room to accumulate some savings and not be in financial 'fight or flight' mode.. try. E. Europe, E. Asia, etc. Live dirt cheap with less stress, digital nomad.

[@Drakkar101]

Subscribed. Keep documenting the journey of the free spirit. The people of the matrix will try to shame you, don't listen to them

[@rafiekwilliams]

Thank you for this...Living in the western society can be a lonely experience if you don't follow the herd and going with the norm of a 9 to 5 job...I have always had this sense that there's more to life than what we are aware of and made to believe...I am a rebel at heart and have always chosen individuality over following the sheep and thinking like everyone else to find my true purpose and destiny on this incredible, mysterious, miraculous, and unfathomable journey we are all on. Thank you I feel less lonely knowing there's others who feel the same as me out there. P.S. You should come to Cape Town, South Africa, It's one if not the most beautiful city in the world. Much love 💛✨

[@jimbrammer5069]

First I’ve seen your face or listened to u bro👌👌👌Sums me up 10 fold !!! Very honest and motivational

[@geo525252]

The very first step for anyone to break out is to realize that you're not a victim, you're a volunteer. You decide to buy in. You decide to stay stuck in the familiar for the illusion of safety. It takes courage to change. I'm 72, made the change at 33. You're on the right path. Get sober, get fit, dump the loser "friends", make the changes you know are necessary. Right now you're motivated. That will come and go. Discipline is what will separate the winners from the losers.

[@caljohndavies]

@@geo525252 100% agree. The journey has begun my friend 👌🏻

[@richardthomas8413]

Good luck. Keep your spirits up and remember your still in the prime of life so lots of energy and time. Be kind to you.

[@Demebeso714]

It's your life..live it as you want to .start today right where you are..do it while you're still young and healthy...but do it!!!!

[@ItsCoreyLynxxYall]

Isn't any better over here in the US. We may have some disagreements but we're humans going through this all the same. Strength to you my dude. I promise there is still something worth living for.

[@joannbrown2842]

I left the UK for the US 30 years ago. Trust me, it's better.

[@Les-OZZYTHEOSCAR]

I really do wish you all the best. I'm almost 53 now, with a home almost paid for, a wife and 3 grown up kids around 17 to 22 years of age. I have always felt as you are speaking now. I've never felt that life was " all that ". We are all trapped in the system, and I really cannot see that improving, especially when we are all forced into having digital id's , and cash is gone. All I hope is that this does not become reality, but still other than that I feel we are still trapped in a world wide system, with no easy answers. That said, you are still young and have the drive to make this change, so I say go for it while you have the chance.

[@B-ch8wl]

Sounds like you have no idea what you have

[@lmc1dj]

Congratulations on understanding that the world you live in is now going to be the world you want to live in!. Once the awakening starts, it's easy to become rattled, angry, you then very quickly learn to flip it, and understand that most things what you were taught isn't actually meaningful, and as my personal saying goes " the moment you have nothing, you have everything"!. Good luck Buddy.

[@MIris44474]

Your right, I had the same feeling 10 years ago and left the UK to go to Australia, I loved it but the visa was difficult to obtain further and I came back. 10 yrs later I have that feeling again of being fed up here, its just too negative and the weather makes it worse. Need to make a change, its harder to do it alone this time but I will do it

[@caljohndavies]

@MIris44474 I hear you! 🙏 Would be good to connect on IG: @caljohndavies 👊🏻

[@joebothehobo9906]

Good for you mate! I’m 32 and feel exactly the same. I never comment on any KZbin videos but this hit me hard. I’m also from the UK and I agree 100% about what you said about it! I’m currently traveling in Morocco at the moment and loving it. UK will always be home because of my roots and family connections but your right, people there are so so negative. When you start traveling you meet people who are so more optimistic, driven, inspiring on a daily basis. Each day is a new adventure. Not the same old shit in the uk where the days roll into weeks months then years. Most people in the UK have given up on their hopes and dreams. My advice two words ‘GET OUT’ you can always go back! Nothings forever don’t be scared. Thank you again wish you the best pal. Your’ll be sound. You have the right attitude which is all that matters ✌🏼 ❤️

[@meatmoneymilkmonogamyequal5583]

It sucks. I empathize with you 100%. I'm 54. In this monetary, pay-to-live paradigm one is only as free as their purchasing power.

[@tadore5046]

I look forward to following you on your newfound journey!

[@RolaiEckolo]

The moment change takes shape is when you make it yours.

[@blacksheepassignment]

I encountered this moment at your age and it has never left me. It’s been well over a decade - and your video may have been the final trigger for me to start sharing the roller-coasting story that unfolded.

[@knottyinks1]

Congratulations on having your “awakening” at an early age and good luck with your endeavour!

[@caljohndavies]

@@knottyinks1 🙏 🤝🏻

[@LivingOnPrayersOffGrid]

🙏

[@MMMMUK19]

You are so right and you are wise to figure it out :)

[@Iam-z5s]

Brother, I am 31 as well, right where you are now. I am done with all the stuff man, my drinking, smoking up, popping shit and what not. I have blocked a lot of people, some family, some whom i thought to be my friends. I got hospitalized a few times cause of my drinking, bad shit man. I can feel you, I have subscribed to your channel, would be watching your growth. Greatness comes from small beginnings. God be with you, we have chosen a path that only a few can. No way on earth, its going to be easy, we have to undo a lot of shit, that we had done to ourselves. Trust in God, and we move ahead. Proud of you!

[@kingmobcollective]

Ill never fuckin settle . Ill never let that fire in my soul fade away .

[@caljohndavies]

Exactly brother! Those that are called for more never 'settle'

[@Kris-p6m]

I don't understand why it happened

[@joannedibben2352]

Good for you yes don't settle and let time slip

[@zarroth]

I'm 50 now, and I've never been to a point where I felt sorry for myself, no matter how broke or in debt I was at any given point in time. No one has ever helped me in the good or the bad times, which says a lot about society, but it never got me down. There is something else going on if your mental state is that degraded.

[@zezeusandthealgorithm]

Bro, I tell you I am 44, living in London, and still on the hustle, now with the new digital era there are more opportunities to achieve something more meaningful, but still, to leave the matrix the closest would be to go to the bush with no phones, co's even if you do on a van, and do You Tube, you are still plugged in! I at the age of 43 decided to leave Hospitality, after 25 years, and I am trying to make a digital income to go to the mountains, and you are right, as Morpheus said, some people no matter what they'll defend the system, as it's easier, not a lot of thinking involved! Best of Luck!

[@diemcarl5546]

Well summarized ❤💯

[@zezeusandthealgorithm]

​@@MP-mr8rjAh, no worries, SIR! I see where you’re coming from, and I appreciate your perspective. Calling someone 'bro' is just a habit I picked up during my years living in New Zealand-it's a cultural thing, really. As someone who speaks three languages, I tend to use 'bro' universally as a term of connection, meaning we're all humans and, in a way, brothers. That said, I understand it can feel dramatic or out of place for some, and I respect that. I'll leave you to your preferences. Wishing you all the best on your journey, too. Cheers!

[@johnleven8907]

Nothing can stop and beat us more than we can to ourselves. Most of the shit we learned is completely untrue, and then again, it's pretty easy to figure it out. Don't believe anything just because. Go discover. Life is a full adventure. Hug from the Patagonia

[@sonderman8079]

You're still young and can scape this soul destroying prison. I am 64 and look back at the hollowness of it all. Be brave and go againt the f*&king system. Good luck!

[@wherezthebeef]

Indeed. For all who find it 'unthinkable' to escape from their life, remember, at some point most of our ancestors fled some country to move to our current country mostly for economic reasons... when it's no longer economically feasable, or whatever.. the life is just drudgery and misery, have the same courage as your ancestors had, and move to greener pastures. Try E. Asia... Thailand, Vietnam... or plenty of places around E. Europe, Asia... for low cost of living and higher quality of life.

[@michaelaiken8916]

I’m listening to it all. And thank you.

[@TomTremayne]

I feel like you Carl & often spend hours online planning my escape from Peckham but I always come back to the same thing - it's gonna be me waiting there for me when I get there, so I'll be interested to see how you get on. Please post videos of your progress & good luck.

[@sherrymiller2302]

First, you have to have a strategic plan. Another thing you MUST have is perseverance, which is a mind over matter. You may or may not reach your goal, but at least your life will have meaning! Believe in yourself!

[@grahamcole-y5s]

IM 56 MATE AND THE SAD THING IS EVERYTHING YOU SAY IS TRUE , IM AFRAID , ITS EITHER POVERTY , HOUSE CAR KIDS , IF YOUR LUCKY HMM , OR CRIME , THE LUCK OF THE DICE FELA , ITS BETTER TO STAY ASLEEP , THAN WAKE UP TO IT , ITS CALLED HARSH REALITY , AND THERES NO CHANCE FOR US GRUNTS TO GET ON NOW DAYS

[@RM-pf3wd]

The age of enlightenment... It all starts with making the change to your own reality... I wish you well ive quit my hamster wheel job because i realised im only in this life once...

[@Tom_Tabbing]

Im having my first child and its changed my life already ❤

[@Mr_Freduk]

Follow your passion. That’s why we are here. That and to experience life itself ups and downs

[@happymom1940]

Come to America! My father did when he was a young man. A true Brit! Sailed across the Atlantic on the Queen Mary. Met my mom and they settled in Texas. He was British to the core. Never renounced his British citizenship. But he made a nice life here in America! Come and find yourself. There is a big world out there for you! It’s your oyster. Always remember that. You’re in the driver’s seat!

[@stevef7798]

Unfortunately, America is riddled with issues for the younger generation as well. The last decade is setting the next generation up for extreme struggle.

[@angelasepi657]

No more immigrants according to Trump.

[@agatastaniak7459]

Oh girl, sending this "all me exes live in Texas" vibes to a grumpy Brit. ;-) Who knows, maybe some hot blooded Texan people can boost his mood? I cannot say that it's easy to get British grumpiness out of the Brit but I admire you for trying. ;-)

[@Viltliv]

i feel you man. escape the damn matrix. do you. Make your own business, and live as best as you can. Salute from Norway

[@dismaldog]

Yeah a lot are waking up to this,at 60 I am a bit slow on realising this but now a lot of younger are waking up as they realise that they will never get anywhere.

[@Landshark2020]

Live in the moment and learn to count your blessings. I know it can be hard. And remember. Action cures fear.

[@Sten111]

Visiting another country briefly is often an illusory exercise that life is better there. It takes character and endurance everywhere to build a settled life with family, own home and a future in face of the grind and drudgery of everyday life.

[@caljohndavies]

This is quite true 🤝🏻

[@TimPhoenixTV]

We’ve been sold a lie, or created it for ourselves. What we need and what is supposed to make us happy etc. I’m also stuck in mediocrity in Sweden and it’s hard to break free. Keep it up!