I met a Danish man online, got married and had two children then I found out the worst about him|LNN

At 22, Mellisa met her Prince Charming online and in just under a year they got married and moved to Denmark permanently after she turned 24. Two beautiful children were born from that union and then she found the worst about her husband ……..
Here is Lynn Ngugi with today’s episode of LNS
#LynnNgugiShow #LynnNgugiNetwork #LNN
Join the Lynn Ngugi Club to access special content and supporter perks 🥰
/ @lynnngugi

[@LynnNgugi]

Good morning team LNN What is your take home from today's conversation with Mellisa? You can reach her on Instagram at findingshiropodcast Enjoy her content here youtube.com/@findingshiropodcast?si=GLtAljDQDcIWtd3j and don't forget to subscribe. To share your story with us, send a summary to [e-mail] or [e-mail] for consideration. Thank you so much for watching🙏

[@josephinemakanga2336]

We shouldn't rush for the whites and make quick decisions.one has to be vigilant and wise whenever we sense some funny characters.God saves His people.

[@josephinemakanga2336]

Sorry Melissa

[@ayanali-vq2gj]

Hi lyn I tried many times to get through you but to no avail

[@josephinemakanga2336]

God uncovers the truth for His chosen ones.

[@gorillarhino3891]

I enjoyed the way you told the story. It was sad but also entertaining.

[@phe-phepb7471]

Please can we understand there is no such thing as child pornography. Children cannot consent to engage in sexual behaviour. The more appropriate term 'Child Sexual Exploitation'.

[@yvonnegoodgridge6693]

Yes it is

[@Pst.Rosemawira.]

There is power and freedom from confession and exposing the enemy

[@WoundstoScars]

A very important distinction. There's no such thing as child pornography. Children can't consent it's exploitation and it's illegal.

[@malaikanaomi1408]

Yes or child sexual abuse material or depictions

[@gailm.4324]

Two things I think she did wrong..telling a man you are leaving…and letting him know you saw his pedophile material…those things could have gotten you hurt or killed…

[@veronicawanjiru3223]

Very true ,never try that

[@mongalix8]

And 3rd one was not calling the police as soon as she found those images.

[@gailm.4324]

@@mongalix8I gave her a ? On the 3rd one because.. when you love someone and you are presented with certain choices.. you are very conflicted… so I had to ponder the 3rd idea…

[@gennisparry4352]

I agree with you wholeheartedly!

[@brianamichelle9024]

Yessss! She’s definitely covered. But some men do and WILL kill to keep that type of secret. Plus, all of this is happening on HIS soil?! 😩 Who will the cops believe first? This is where us sisters (Black women specifically) must be smart, especially when dating a man of another origin. ESPECIALLY a white man. One must collect data and plan, plan, plan. Emotions can get you hurt, without strategic planning. She is BLESSED. 🙏🏾

[@LK-sy3kl]

Yes many people hide pedophiles in Kenya I was a victim when growing up and people knew but did not say anything or did not want to confront the person. We should learn to stand up for defenceless children

[@esthrlight11]

Agreed, many paedophiles in African homes

[@mugabedavid4845]

I pray GOD heals you

[@fthuku]

Same here

[@marialesulie6798]

@@fthukuOMG There a plenty of them. Something need to be highlighted

[@margaretkiarie8447]

I don't know how you are doing. Finding closure is difficult and also a taboo in our culture but it is the point where you start or you will never heal or move forward

[@TheBrokenSilence]

Sorry to say but Mellisa, she got played from day 1. No mother will instruct a son to go and buy an engagement ring as quickly as they did!! The family knew of his sexual sickness and thought marriage would resolve it. They knew

[@bellaolum9768]

I found that very strange, she had just gone to visit and next thing she was engaged 😅😅😅😅😅

[@gennisparry4352]

@@bellaolum9768she was excited to get her papers if she wishes to speak the truth. So she went into it because she thought she had hit the jackpot.

[@naburgr]

The mother asked "how did they find out" Ahhh she knew her son was a dirty bastard

[@minajose6602]

Yup I also felt the same they knew but just decided to shield there son. More grace and wisdom to Mellisa.❤

[@yvonnegoodgridge6693]

That's exactly 💯 what I said

[@GNginnah97]

Can everyone admit that this girl is a great story teller? Her sense of humor is top tier. She’s a whole vibe. She’s composed and knows what she wants in life. She narrated that story without shedding a tear. I speak healing to her and her kids. May God’s Grace carry them through. She’s is intelligent and bold. Thank you for coming out and sharing this story.

[@pamelamubuta]

❤

[@Deedor72]

100% so much humor in the painful experience. She nailed it👌🏾

[@pwanja]

Let's add extremely beautiful & composed to that list wueh she looks like a model the melanin is really poppin 😍

[@mwituamweene9850]

No...there are parts of the story that sound made up maybe that's what you mean.

[@happyreader5367]

Black women idolizes the one way too much. Beware always

[@raceThink]

Why are we talking about child porn in the Phillipines where as this is happening right at our doorstep in Kenya. German high profile men (lawywers, doctors, police directors....the list is long) come to Kenya and do the exact same thing with our children, and we are not shouting loud enough...It is frustrating and annoying. There is a powerful lady in Mombasa who has been fighting this and with very minimum support from us

[@mwituamweene9850]

Thank you for saying it to our deaf ears. Our dull brains will wake?

[@TheLocedIntrovert]

I noticed this in Kenya and Tanzania. I'm glad people are fighting it.

[@monikam9069]

So stop welcoming the sex tourists in Africa. All these men have "fetish"

[@meelahmak]

@@monikam9069oh,come on! You’re better than that. Your comments under this thread are quite distasteful. It takes the same energy to work towards a solution than perpetuating the problem. But, alas, everyone has their place in society 😑

[@monikam9069]

@@meelahmak In Africa not Europe. White colonizers left Africa. No need to follow them to Europe. I can only imagine what was going on in Africa when Whiteis lived there. Probably millions of Africans were already "mixed" and this was done with lust not a rape

[@KinosaBetty-pj9mb]

I love Mellisa's calmness. She doesn't speak with anger or bitterness. She doesn't speak to make her husband look like a monster. Melissa you have understood God.

[@winniembula8740]

She has healed and chose peace

[@ndeledorothy3858]

Hos husband is indeed a monster😏

[@suzzmile82]

It can only be God grace ❤

[@fabs8496]

But he is a monster

[@user-pd1or3mf7y]

She is indeed a product of grace ❤❤❤

[@learningmisso]

At 74 years old, I know that a person is who they are. We change no one. The key is to not let them change you. I love this interview.

[@FF-vz7wg]

Wise words

[@missbettyboop2509]

Thank you for sharing your wisdom. ❤

[@timieperenwuko8024]

Thank you.

[@jolicehamilton4021]

Very wise words! I’m learning that, now!!! And by not allowing anyone to try to change me, the more I find myself walking alone. Everyone values are different and I’m holding to my values, without feeling guilty or obligated.

[@chocolatesugar4434]

Thank you mama ❤❤❤❤

[@LizzyElly]

I just love my Mel,I’ve known her since waaay back in Kenya when she was getting married,then we both moved to Europe her in Denmark and me in Italy,we have both gone through narcissistic abuse,i asked for divorce in 2021 and am a single mom of two too;She always encourages me to keep going,she rose and helps others rise,go girl 👏🏾

[@LynnNgugi]

More Grace and love to you❤❤

[@LizzyElly]

⁠@@LynnNgugiAmen 🙏🏾God has been faithful through and through 🤗

[@ajiboladahunsi4645]

Melissa is a real shero! I thank God for her strength and dignity.

[@gathonindungu3487]

Pedophiles in europé is like Tea 🍵 in Africa. Most WHITES looking 👀 for black women WHO have KIDS its only for pedophile advatage of using her kids sexually Its very common here in SWEDEN. 🇸🇪 the neighbouring to Denmark 🇩🇰

[@paulinegichuki1074]

Most black women getting married to white men do not do proper vetting as we do when marrying our fellow Africans

[@foreverblessed369]

She did the right thing reporting him Wrong is wrong Children must be protected Put aside family relations The interest of children first Protecting them is keeping them away from this monster in her husband

[@lorrainemwangi3526]

Also protecting kids out there.

[@hunnuunny]

She waited more than 2 years! Give me a break she is a terrible person. She's only telling to monetize on her perverted husband. She is just as sick.

[@MA-yh2ko]

I'm absolutely FLOORED. What a brave, resourceful STRONG woman. I wish her and her children continued health and strength!!

[@christinemwangi7547]

From the Story, it is quite clear that most of the instances when a Mzungu is looking for an African Wife, they are either rejects of their society or has mental illnesses. The mother in Law, knew his son's problem. But the family of the man thought that an African wife will shut up and tolerate his behaviour and be 'grateful' that she in Denmark

[@sandrajordan2179]

I agree with you, the mother was quick to let the son propose because obviously he's a sickness and they thought a black woman would accept him irregardless.

[@scovyaporsha]

Nothing but Facts❤. Watu wengi are in denial with this Reality. I Live in the UK. Come see my sisters with these Rejects. Just Pitiful 💔

[@christinemwangi7547]

@@scovyaporsha Facing the reality is good

[@user-ob8ur7bq2z]

Absolutely

[@AngieR82]

I'll never ever understand why Black/African women( Kenyans & Nigerians especially), continue to chase after these reptilians thinking they're actually capable of sincerely loving them. Their lust for the enemy will be their ultimate demise. Thy want your energy and your land. Why not find your own kind to marry and have a family with??? We have enough problems to deal with within our race already; why complicate things further?

[@Nyakomisaro]

Lynn, nataka like yako juu I have 2 nieces that I named Lynn. One is Lynn, and the other one is Adelynn. Another one on the way, I'm going to name her Celynn. I want a lot of Lynns in my family to change the community. What a blessing you are, Lynn! Hugs to you and Hugs to your mother for raising you well.

[@LynnNgugi]

I really hope I live up to this name..sometimes I really get scared but I know I am only human..🙏I wish them great health, peace of mind and God’s richest blessings 🙏🙏

[@Nyakomisaro]

"Be still and know that I'm God," says the Lord. He is the same God in the mountains and the Valley. He will walk you through the stormy waters. God is using you just the way he used Moses. He was a starmer, but still, he used him. Our human nature is imperfect, but he uses us in a perfect way. Hugs again.

[@LynnNgugi]

@@Nyakomisaro❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@BettyMesso-hq6il]

Lynette n lyon if a boy

[@mariehmuthee5056]

​@@LynnNgugiqpa

[@startingoverbygrace]

Wow! This is deep. To know that she would have lost her child to her abusive ex-husband is beyond me. This story really makes you think twice in so many ways. It's not just covering the basis of differences in culture, religion, and finances, it goes much deeper than the initial new romance phase, which turned into an engagement, and then marriage. Even if for one second you think you'd end up with a perfect fairytale love story and things take a turn, now you're faced with what laws of that land/country stand against you or what is for you. Regardless if the relationship was pursued long-term or short-term, I can tell you firsthand, that narcissistic people have a physiological way of luring you in without you realizing it until you're in the thick of things. She not only faced discrimination from the police by the color of her skin to warrant the fact that her then-husband battered her first, but they favored protecting him instead in spite of it. I could not fathom this and I know many of you would agree if you were faced with the same. Her story is literally saving lives. Learn from other's experiences and take note of her testimony. I can relate to this because I was a victim of domestic abuse. And the same instinct she experienced of that first reaction of someone putting hands on you, and fearing for your life in that exact moment, is exactly what I went through. Please do not stay in it the first time it happens. Get out immediately, and find help to protect yourself by all means necessary. Otherwise, you will fall victim to a repeated cycle of being battered and you will find yourself stuck in becoming submissive to the abuser. Peace and love to you all.

[@user-wp7yc1bs6f]

Very clear and sobering interview right there. Mellisa is a great woman indeed. She doesn't look like what she's been through. I love the fact that she handled this interview with a lot of grace, honesty and good conscience. There was so much balance in the way she told her story and that tells me she's a great woman. She can be trusted. She didn't fall into the trap of anger, bitterness and resentment in spite of all she has been through. May God grant all her heart's desires in this journey and make her a billboard of His glory. Amen! To Lynn, you're doing a fantastic job dear. You allowed your guest to tell her story without unnecessary interjections and side journeys. Thank you for interpreting all the Kikuyu sections of Mel's interview. Keep up the good work!

[@pjj.5649]

This is a stunningly powerful, strong, freeing, interview and testimony. Mellissa told a story of triumph, perseverance, determination and monumental grace when many would have crumbled under the circumstances. I listened with my mind and heart and I don't know how I would have come through that crippling time. All I can say is, thank you for her story and experience. I am forever changed by what she has shared. I love that she called the man out on his voyer behavior staring at an 11-year-old girl. She is absolutely right, today they take a lecherous look and comment and the next time he is touching. Disgusting. You have to speak up and call the pervs on their filth and twisted minds in the moment. Not to do so, is telling the perv, no one is there for that child, so they are free to have at them. I will always call the man or woman on their lowlife crap in the moment.

[@Powerful_Akoth]

"We don’t need to mention it because it is not my story to tell and it doesn’t serve a purpose "~ intelligence + wisdom wewe. Big up Melissa 🥳🥂👏🏾❤

[@yolandahughes2205]

IT'S EVERYBODY'S BUSINESS TO PROTECT INNOCENT CHILDREN SPEAKING OUT CAN PROTECT OTHER CHILDREN FROM A PERVERTED PEDOPHILE THAT'S THE PURPOSE.... THAT'S CONSIDERED "INTELLIGENT" THINKING

[@tabbykaranja7745]

Hi Melisa I know you are a prayerful person but I would advice you to purposely pray for your children and disconnect them with that spirit from their father

[@nellykh1900]

Very very Important, because those evil spirits would want to stick.

[@moondust766]

I am amazed by the strength, resilience and intelligence of this woman. Her eloquence, the words that she carefully chooses to express her pain and suffering, the way she laughs and uses her gestures contribute to the beautiful wholesome being that she is. She is what she says and says what she is. Bravo. And Thankyou for sharing your story

[@Touchedhem7]

Yes! She’s intelligent and bold.

[@scholardave9755]

Such a strong woman full of wisdom, mistakes made, lessons learned, I love her courage and how she embraces herself after all she's been through, her love for her kids. she is just great, not forgetting how well she narrates her story, she is indeed an author. Thanks Lynn for this story..

[@roseleen314]

Can't imagine how her kids will react when they fully understand what kind of man their father is. So sad.

[@lolon6605]

So sad

[@zahrahussein7328]

Omg How sad is that!

[@JoyceNakyazze-sz7lk]

He is possessed .pornography is satanic. This man can be delivered in the mighty name of Jesus Christ

[@fantasankoh1616]

​@@JoyceNakyazze-sz7lkAmen 🙏

[@gennisparry4352]

@@JoyceNakyazze-sz7lkIf he wants to be delivered, that is.

[@saumuhamisi1603]

I’m happy she’s got custody of her kids and she’s looks amazing thanks Lynn for this beautiful story.

[@Unique2023-]

I feel his mother knew a long time what her son was into, that's why she persuaded him to hurry and get married to you.Sending you love ❤️

[@olgaanyokwu3555]

And mum( family) tried to use a black girl to hide (fix) his evil 😮

[@Unique2023-]

@@olgaanyokwu3555 ....Exactly, that is why they were all nice to her.

[@leedear8379]

He was a 36-year-old bachelor 😮😮😮 no wonder they were happy to see him getting married

[@plastichouselady]

I agree that the family was complicit

[@user-ff3wr9qs3i]

@@olgaanyokwu3555that’s what I’m thinking 😮

[@crackerjacks6789]

This woman is so poised well spoken and beautiful . I love her dress hair and make up.. This is a powerful story.. 😮 it took courage for her to come forward…she did the right thing. She probably saved a lot of innocent children.

[@DiBrown2024]

She is beautiful.

[@winniemathu3168]

Girls marry when you are ready, preferably 30 years and above. In your twenties, do your career and be self-sufficient

[@jonathanmukanda4207]

Bad advise. Not everyone has the same experience. And you not the one who make propose to Mary, a man does

[@joslynewakesho6089]

Not a good advice

[@kirabogloria2187]

They come here to Africa to marry us using us as pets thinking we are soo grateful for marrying us...not knowing that we are strong ...healthy..wise ..still listening

[@silaton305]

Spot on.

[@meditationwithsierra3989]

They are nothing many come for our minerals etc in the name of love

[@Easyyum]

So true

[@sdanson2020]

This 💯

[@bukeaor2961]

A Brilliant interview, and the subject Mellisa is a great story teller ! Quite self aware, eloquent, in-touch with herself, a realist, and a thinker at the core. You can tell she has great critical thinking skills and analyses things and puts them into perspective. This was interesting ! bottom line, living overseas and married is not easy ! I totally applaud her and ladies take notes !

[@zaclankay]

Melisa is indeed a product of grace! The story is quite moving. Although I would have enjoyed it more if there’s less infusion of Swahili. But all in all, there’s a great lesson for everyone, men and women alike. May God guide our children and protect them from evil relationships, in Jesus name.

[@ruththama2008]

🎉First of all let's talk about how beautiful she is, was shocked when she spoke in Kikuyu I thought she is Jaluo 😊I'm glad she is in better place now.

[@kathomi]

Also thought she was luhya or luo

[@zakiyussuf1212]

Akothee kamili !😅😅

[@annakamau7153]

This interview is powerful, enlightening, validating, empowering, inspiring, uplifting due to it's honesty, delivery and timing! Thank you Shiro and Lynn for the masterpiece!

[@manjongflorence9544]

You are a great woman Melissa. Your bravery, honesty, and sense of humour is amazing. Thank you Lynn for this splendid interview.

[@harrietnjuguna9917]

Melissa is such a vibe! A strong woman full of wisdom. That's quite an experience to go through. Thanks for sharing your story that's really an eye-opener to us. Lots of lessons to learn

[@dubilajane2134]

So beautiful, articulate, eloquent, sophisticated, intelligent and perfect at narrating her story.We rise,we fall,we rise again and keep on....thank you for your inspiring story.❤Thank you Lyn!

[@rahabgathogo1842]

Powerful story Melissa. I love the way you acknowledge God all through, and following your gut feeling. My lessons tonight.

[@bellaolum9768]

I love everything about Melissa's story. It is so deep and very inspiring. She is truly a product of God's grace! And boy can she tell a story 😅😅😅😅

[@chinenyemmegwa6225]

Her voice is so soothing, such a powerful testimony, such a strong woman, so beautiful ❤️

[@MshauriPeter]

"You can rise up, You can start all over again..." powerful statement of fact Lynn. May I appeal to all your fans, Lynn, especially ladies, to take this simple line seriously. Ladies, downfalls do not amount to failure but a learning experience. No one should define a journey to your destiny but you alone. Melissa, looking at your previous photos, and now, just like Lynn has affirmed you already, I also validate that. Guys, once you have become of age and can be in a position to make informed decisions for your life, go it, and as you navigate your life journey, be intentional in making conscious decisions. Life is never smooth sail. Having said that, be ready to experience both highs and lows. God has accorded you skills and capacity to surmount each hurdle you meet. However, how to apply them remains your prerogative. Lynn's shows are about experiences of others that are meant to help you and me learn how to avoid the mistakes they made. It's not mere stories to laugh and wait for the next episode. I leave you this simple guideline, be you, be real, and at all times practice self-care. Peace of mind is the best tip for healthy living. Melissa has spit snippets of wisdom that can make any serious woman think twice before engaging. Listen, process, and decide...."What does a 22-year-old know? " Melissa has cautioned you here. It's all about you and your life, ladies.

[@annescott7585]

Deep

[@Deedor72]

100%

[@phoebeadikinyi3441]

Very true,thanks for the great advice

[@joycem47890]

100% true. I always look forward to your comments, no matter how lengthy, they are always on point

[@miriamkahindi2910]

I am glad to read such wisdom in such a random place! ❤

[@mosy2049]

Melissa you are so beautiful and eloquent. I could listen to you the whole day. Thank you for sharing your story!

[@lauraomon]

the guest is a brilliant story teller. It was not just telling a story, she was ministering to the audience! God Bless you for this.

[@AraoVICKYCHRISTINE]

Have just watched this video, am in Uganda.I just thank God for her and the kids

[@bakedbyyves]

Mesmerised by this lady what a great story teller! Anything 2hrs i would have watchen 30 min but had to finish this story. God bless what a woman!

[@tabithangoigo5489]

It’s funny how I love this woman yet I have never met her. V positive energy, Godly vibe etc… You are strong woman and guess what the world belongs to you.

[@mercyanyangoonyango]

I wish one day i will heal of my childhood traumas i went through just because my mom always defended my toxic and nasist step father 😢,I LOVE THIS LADY FOR STANDING BY HER KIDS ❤❤

[@angelinemuriuki7384]

Sending you love & prayers. May healing be your portion 🙏

[@sylviahkinyangi9892]

So sorry,me too never had s good childhood from my step dad

[@ever4813]

Sending you love and healing ❤

[@janexkabarangira9762]

Wowuuuuu! What a great, inspiring story! Thanks Mellisa for accepting to be vulnerable and sharing your story. I have learnt a lot from it. Bless you more.

[@kikiwithvee6597]

This is such a good interview. And Lynn you are such a good interviewer. The only suggestion I have is to please provide an English translation when the convo slips into your mother tongue for those of us who don't understand. I got the general meanings (I think!) but I would have loved to understand the full convo. In any case I'll be watching- new subscriber! Wish everyone watching the best 😊 love from London, UK x

[@gailainsley6939]

My exact thoughts too 😅

[@veronicawanjirushee]

Swahili is not mother tongue.. whenever she speaks Kikuyu she repeats in English..

[@sarahmuzaki4656]

Melisa, you remind me of a relationship I was in when so young which was so so abusive!!! I realized that I had entered this relationship out of infatuation and never love!!! The man derived a lot of satisfaction from seeing me hurt!! Like any other African who wants to satisfy society, I hanged in there for longer than normal!!! But for all that time, he never existed to me!!!! I had developed this kind of resilience that I couldn’t even hear him when abusing me!! I woke up to the fact that he was ugly, not educated enough, very unkind,had no money, and very hateful!!! By this time I had started on a life plan for myself. By the time I walked out, I had completed my studies and gotten a job!!! Up till now, I hate the memory of him!!!!! Thank you God🙏🏾🌹

[@The_Cruise_Fam]

Nahhhh, not All African girls like to hang and suffer. You’re generalizing because some of have been thought well by our parents not to take crap.

[@carolw.]

You Need soul healing

[@hildahmutugi5429]

Looking at Melissa is like experiencing my soul sister. Very refreshing...and quite eloquent I Must say.

[@fionaabalo2096]

wow Mel is a great story teller, her eloquence is amazing and she is such a vibe. i listened to her word for word with a sad face and smiles at the same time.

[@virginiamwangi356]

One of your best guests, very articulate and eloquent. She had very good humor too. She needs to write a book.

[@kunzi_ya_yesu1956]

Its the way Mellisa puts herself in other people's shoes as she speaks! Very respectfully!!!! Very eloquent! Very smart! Very articulate! Wow!!

[@jdezeeuw6540]

Great story especially for those who can relate. She protected her kids at any costs and please always follow your instincts. Thanks lynn❤❤❤❤🌸🌸🌸🌸

[@jacklinmiller5958]

Thank you Lynn for interviewing Mellisa. Her testimony is complex yet Melissa is very discriptive in telling her story. May God's healing continue in her and the childrens life's. Melllisa, you are an amazing woman.. Thank you for sharing..

[@Leoessence707]

A very eye-opening interview, I will definitely ask my family to watch because when you are empowered with information, you can be better equipped to sideline potential problems. Thank you so much 💕

[@elizabethwamwendia7602]

This guest is not only super intelligent but pretty, stylish and more!!

[@bangibabs]

Melissa is one strong woman and knows how to draw you in when sharing her story. Thank you for sharing this with us and for raising awareness. May God bless you ladies ❤

[@oloriayabaajibola7577]

I believe I stumbled on this show by divine direction, I have received strength to deal with Goliath.Thanks for this platform.

[@meelahmak]

I hope you’re okay!

[@valerienelson7202]

Me too. I’ve been married to a narcissist for 21 yrs. I didn’t realize for years but now that I’m older & wiser I can clearly see the signs were there from day one. I’ve been verbally & emotionally abused for years. Please don’t judge me but thank you Melissa for your brave story: I think I’m finally finding the courage to leave.

[@edwinacriear2630]

Absolutely beautiful interview! We all have made our missteps with love but the thing is is to forgive, forgive ourselves, grow from it, share with others so we can grow together. Thank you both so much for a dynamic interview.

[@anitalumumba4525]

I saw this as a notification on my phone and surprising Mellissa’s voice and words are a precognition that I have had. God works in weird ways. Mellissa your courage and zeal is what we all as ladies need. You are braze❤

[@fridahkinoti18]

This was an eye opener, coming out and speaking out was the wisest thing Mellisa did..Kudos

[@greatnation4328]

Thank you Melissa for opening up your experience to educate the community. Lessons learnt: 1.Making choices should not be emotional or out of limited information. 2 Surviving the first mistake is another series of asking questions and making more informed choices. 3. When life offers lime....make lemonade to continue.

[@marianamcanuff6835]

Thank you for this testimony!!! it has been very inspiring and empowering. Shame can be so burdening but once you get pass it, it is so liberating and healing.

[@ushindiraha]

I love this woman. She is teaching me lots. She has a mature and kind heart

[@marietabingatati5914]

I haven’t even listened to her story yet; first thing I see is that BEAUTIFUL and radiant smile ❤

[@Kajoy128]

There's a thing with this lady which sparks an interest to listen to her more.She is a brave woman!Her sense of humor is another whole thing😆she is a vibe.

[@maureenphungo5039]

I'm South African by the end of this year I will be speaking Swahili because of Lynn's guest ... Na mtoto wangu

[@jilokizito1705]

You guys would rather bite your tongues with that damaging Afrikaans than learn Kiswahili. I don't know whether it's the superiority of inferiority complex, or both complexes.

[@gyamfiwaaasamoa-bonsu5577]

Exactly what I told myself and I'm a Ghanaian 😂

[@Nanciedell]

Karibu Kenya😍

[@Susie.wemove]

😂

[@Susie.wemove]

It sounds like Melissa was making too many excuses for her husband. If those were her own children in the pictures and videos would she have been so lax in getting the police involved? She keeps saying its not my place to say this...its not my place to do that blah blah blah. But she kept having interactions with him and not calling the police instead she was telling him to go for therapy!! God alone knows who s child or children that monster must have harmed in his life time- but I know if I saw something like that on my husband s computer I would be calling the police pronto! Some women turn a blind eye to child molestation/ port and instead think the man can be redeemed or worse still if I don t say anything it will go away. For someone as eloquent and articulate as Melissa who describes herself with a certain amount of arrogance as a sapiosexual, I find her attitude and behaviour in this case sadly lacking!!

[@JessyourBrandBuddy]

Wow!!! What a story, what a strong woman!! Thank you for giving this a voice Melissa....and thanks Lynn for giving us the platform

[@bancymunene3436]

She is such a sweet soul. Indeed when God steps in, we don't look like the trouble we have gone through. May you rise higher Melissa.

[@user-yq2cu9qs9y]

Thank Mellisa for the story it's an eye opener many of us are going through toxic relationship and narcissiism.

[@mariabaemedi3326]

I feel the need for every mother to listen to this, thank you Lynn for bringing Melissa onto podcast, I was glued to my phone not wanting to miss anything from this topic. God bless you both x.

[@sarakhunou9254]

Thank you so much Lynn for the stories you bring to us. Eye opening , very much helping. Thank you, thank you and thank you. I just wish if possible ( I'm South African) statements/words said in African language ,if they can be written in English so that we can be able to understand everything. I love your show very much. Thank you

[@paulinekamau4071]

Mellisa I truly applaud you for your bravery girl this is on of the issues that are NEVER spoken about & they are happening right before our eyes especially in Africa we have normalized grown men admitting young little girls & no one says anything. Thanks for calling out that idiot at the market. Lyn this conversation is so needed & I think your platform is the most appropriate because we can’t ignore this issue anymore.. Mellisa you are very articulate & an admire that , what a great resource you are, all the best my dear in what you do to help other people who are going through what you have been through… Lyn I know you have really grown in the industry that you haven’t cried the way you used to. My husband is not Kenyan but he LOVES you & before he knew your name he used to say “ Honey let’s watch the lady that cries in her show more than the guest “ Lyn we love you, more power & keep doing the great work..

[@paulinekamau4071]

I meant admiring

[@oluogunbiyi7713]

I love the God factor you repeatedly emphasized in your story. How God helped you navigate your way out of this ordeal. It's a talent of discernment we do not acknowledge most times. Continue to shine the light with your story Mellisa. Thank you for sharing

[@marynjokimirie4753]

This kind of stories are very common in Europe, she has represented many,who cant openly speak out, pole sana Melissa, i send healing your way ❤

[@canyango5457]

Thanks Melissa for sharing your experiences and lessons ...you're truly an example of a child of grace. Thanks Lynn, as always you are full of light, love! Kudos to you and your team.

[@fedelisnjenga2285]

I have enjoyed listening to Mellisa, your smile and braveness is amazing. You have narrated the experience from a healed side. Keep fighting girl

[@Scole23786]

“Retired project developer”, love this expression because it applies to many women especially those of us that are empaths

[@sonja0707]

💯💯💯

[@lizh6227]

Agreed💯

[@leboleemenoe9934]

Facts!!!!!

[@user-cn1sp5yo2j]

Beautiful interview Melissa, so proud of you for being so vulnerable, it takes a lot of courage to do this. You are a great story teller.

[@shirleyodongo6439]

I love Mellisa's energy and personality. Such a phenomenal woman. More grace mama.

[@atoncybiker2022]

She makes a serious story sound so comical. I love her attitude!

[@tedwoll]

Thank you Melissa for this, as someone who is in an interracial marriage and planning to relocate I have picked alot from this especially about your own network. Thank you and you are such a beautiful soul. More blessings and favor upon you

[@imanayanda]

She was 22 and he knew that she wished for better for her life. Used the fact that he is Danish and desirable the whole package would look like to a young African woman looking for a better life and opportunities. And unfortunately this is how so many of our women become vulnerable to such people.

[@everlynejudith5445]

This has been among my best conversations ever. The strength the believe that this lady has behind her face,is braveness and a strong woman that has fought and stood for what is right and that's why God NEVER left her side and took her through the journey. Melissa hope we women can put on this armor. Such a good spirit and someone I can listen to all day. Angekuwa mwalimu wangu wa MATHS! Ningepita💯. The truth gives you the wisdom and strength to carry on no matter what. Much love to both these two amaizing women❤

[@naomiokoe3221]

@LynnNgugi, Melissa’s story is very touching and she is what you call a strong woman. May God continue to give her the wisdom and strength to continue to look after herself and her children. May I also state that this is one of the stories I have watched fully and enjoyed because there were not many sentences in your own language. Thanks

[@ItsMeYourfavorite7]

I respect this lady so much! What a Queen! Prayerful and wise 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 God is the Greatest 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 thank you for sharing your story Melissa

[@Bornies]

There is something beautiful that I pick from almost every story in this rebuilding edition -God meets us at our worst point/ situation. Which friend does that? What a friend we have in Jesus! To Him alone be the glory.

[@boogsybrooks]

Theres no jesus.

[@chancepeace2064]

Wow, what a story and what a strong woman !! I feel that the way her ex-mother in-law pushed for engagement very quickly, she knew about her son's issue. I think she thought that a marriage will cover up his addiction!

[@graciouslyloved10]

Yeah...women protecting monsters....

[@janekinyanjui484]

Well said 🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤

[@silaton305]

Wow!! Makes a lot of sense

[@Flourish_today]

​@graciouslyloved10 Mothers protecting there son's is shat it sounds like.

[@MburawaUK]

Nowadays wamama wazungu are looking for wives for their useless sons and they mostly target Africans. Be aware.

[@bygrace-254]

Right here my favorite host ..Lynn Ngugi we love you to the moon and back ❤❤🎉

[@graceaglow230]

I experienced a very similar story involving pedophilia--the perpetrator and his own minor child. He is now serving a life sentence without parole. Thank God for strong and brave women, who stand up to protect their children and other children. Melissa, you did well. I am sure you will inspire many with your beautifully narrated story. Please find it in your soul to pray for your ex-husband. This perversion is a trap of the devil to destroy lives and so many have been caught in this mess. The devil comes to steal, kill, and destroy, and he will do it however he can.

[@bettywamae2000]

The ex husband is not willing to change🤷🏽‍♀️

[@kahindiperis1606]

Thanks Lynn for your light. Your guest is very brave and very beautiful.

[@roseheron4537]

I Listened in awe to her story. I've been through a lot myself and is healing, thanks to my network of family and friends. All the best to you and your children Melissa. Loving your shows Lynn. Watching from Jamaica 🇯🇲.

[@j.allenstv3781]

As a Jamaican, I was married to a White man and I too was mentally abused & otherwise. I think my ex-husband is into children too, but I don’t have sufficient proof because every time I got suspicious or seen him watching questionable pornography & I confronted him he rebel by saying that I should let God judge him.

[@corajones5046]

This is such a rediculous response. “Let God judge him,” are you crazy. In the meantime this low life is hurting & destroying children. And, unless you report this snake to the police, you become an accessory to this horrible crime. Don’t be such a fool!!!!!

[@Shineynsparkles]

@@j.allenstv3781how did you get such a creep

[@sweetangelsluv]

​@@j.allenstv3781 my friend also had the same story as you with her 🖤. She went through years of confusion, manipulation and just ab*se. Hopefully ALL pedos have their time where the sun doesn't shine

[@cindyowino2899]

So eloquent and humorous. She was so interesting to listen to.

[@virginiangugi1391]

Mellisa reminds me of Ciru Muriuki and Miss Kihoro - the way she speaks, the story teller in her and her humor. Radiates so much joy. Sorry for the life experience.

[@jennifer1552]

Thank you Lynn and Mellisa for this informative program. It takes a lot of courage to share your experience so honestly.

[@naomwambui257]

She is soo eloquent ❤. Great conversation

[@rosewilliamskenya2478]

This is like a thriller. Such a brave girl. Thanks Lynn for the story

[@hannahngigi162]

From a friends invitation to chat for love, becoming the victim of love and a victim of violence in one plate. She is a strong lady and a no nonsense black beauty. The part of throwing his monitor outside the window was a clear definition of what she is made of. The wrestling part made me fear her and the boldness to call the police. This to me was a real movie but then a true story. She made my weekend!

[@Fatuma-ff4tl]

Wow, what an amazing story to tell and an eye opening lesson for parents and more especially for me as a single mum. Thank you for sharing your story. Melissa you strong , beautiful and courageous woman and mum. What a blessing you are to your children.

[@nkathapamela5703]

Aaawh Lynn is an amazing soul doing great work here to make the world a better place for all of us,, blessings to you queen ❤

[@peterkariuki3696]

She has a beautiful and mellow voice for tv. Reminded me of Sophie Ikenye when she was saying bye😊

[@olaola7887]

Powerful story, articulately delivered. Thank you for being so brave. Is it possible that you put this into writing or adapted into a movie?. It will surely reach a larger audience and many people in this kind of situation would gain from your God's given wisdom.