"I Realized My Friend Is A Psychopath"

[@icecoffee907]

this literally came at the perfect timing. I have a friend who studies psychology, and we were just talking about child psychopathy. I'm not sure what to feel now. LOL

[@thoughtspeaker8705]

These psychopath stories had more wholesome ones than I expected

[@paulleckner8235]

My younger sister was my bully. She thought no one would believe me when I complained to our parents. When she got caught, she was angry with me because I couldn' t take a joke.

[@piegirl8263]

I always feel bad for people who have psychopathy. It's not that I'm excusing the horrible actions here, but that just sounds like a rough way to live

[@yeet8627]

true. it’s not like they chose to be born that way. still doesnt excuse their actions tho

[@morgandouglas6014]

I would not want to be friends with the girl in the last story. She’s clearly the exact type of person who would ask you to be your friend and refuse to take no for an answer.

[@cgamejewels]

Psychopath and sociopath are not the same. Psychopaths are highly intelligent. They would have jobs like police, doctor, congressman, stuff like that. Yes, they can have families. They just lack a conscience and feelings or remorse. Sociopaths attack the emotions and mind. They do more manipulation. I saw a couple of really good KZbin channels that talk about the difference between psychopaths and sociopaths.

[@sophiacalon3463]

Idk I read that a psychopath is born with these symptoms already and sociopath develop them over time

[@seungminnnnnnnn]

Ya psychopathy tends to be more genetically related, but environment also helps to fuel or put out those feelings sometimes.

[@VasiliZgRR]

Lol….You do know sociopaths and psychopath are individual, right? There are High-functioning sociopaths who are calculated, steady job, married. Not all psychopaths are smart….Not all sociopath are short-tempered. My brother is diagnosed with ASPD he’s not even a short-tempered person. He’s cold, indifferent, calm, manipulative person, calculated…I call him cold reptile and yet he’s not a psychopath, explain this to me? It’s genetic and environmental issues…KZbinrs don’t know a shit about this term ‘’ASPD’’ Because ASPD people are individual. PS: have a nice day.

[@seungminnnnnnnn]

@@VasiliZgRR exactly! When someone says psychopath people assume “omg a crazy person” or a murderer, when really psychopathy boils down to borderline personality disorder. I know someone diagnosed with this disorder that has a great providing job and a wife!

[@thecookinestkid401]

Same. For me, an eye opener was a RadioTTS video about "AMA I'm a clinically diagnosed Psychopath."

[@Wi11owCreek]

The actual diagnosis is anti-social personality disorder. Psychopath/sociopath are ways to describe how their symptoms manifest. I knew a psychopath from school. Friend of a friend thing. Heard he gave good hugs.👍 It’s also a spectrum, so some people have more/stronger symptoms and some have fewer/weaker symptoms. Depends on the person.

[@elfenlied_girl1238]

Honestly they could live pretty normal lives they know where the lines are drawn and where not to cross the only difference is that they use their intellect rather than feelings

[@yeetusfeetus7877]

I think Psychopathy is more a mix of NPD and ASPD than just ASPD. Psychopaths tend to be narcissistic/egotistical, instead of just Sociopathic.

[@Wi11owCreek]

@@yeetusfeetus7877 I don’t know that much. I just wanted to give a general idea.🙂

[@reinapanda6852]

@@yeetusfeetus7877 Not necessarily. I actually study anti-social personality disorder just out of curiosity, but I'm not a professional just do my research. From what I know narcissism surfaces surprisingly from insecurity. They do not feel like they are good enough and develop a complex of trying to convince both themselves and others that they are the perfect version of something. That something is different for every narcissist depending on what they became obsessed with. Psychopaths tend to develop NPD due to the fact that they experience emotions less that most people. This causes an insecurity of not feeling normal and trying to convince people that they are better than everyone else. However, while this is the case with some, others latch on to different forms of OCD or other addictive behaviors as a way to cope. Many people with ASPD have Depression due to this fact.

[@jaylynn1994]

I think it also depends so much on how they were brought up when they were young

[@shadowboxer1]

Just goes to show you don't really know what's going on inside someone's head even when you think you know someone really well.

[@rosepetunia1829]

Guy: **Steals TV** Cops: **Arrests him** Guy: “I don't understand.. It's just a prank bro!”

[@creativecutieprincessd]

Ha, every prank channel from 2015 ever.

[@aquilae7338]

Psychopathy and sociopathy can be caused by environmental factors, but people can also be born with it

[@leen3623]

The second story really took "it's just a prank bro" in another level

[@jessarie98]

One time years ago my brother's best friend at the time pulled a prank by sneaking into the bedroom through the window and flipping the mattresses upsidedown (he shared a room with my other brother at the time),replacing the pillows with cinder blocks in the pillow cases, and leaving a lawnmower in the middle of the room. I should also add, he (and another friend who helped) managed to pull this whole thing off without anyone in my family noticing even though we were literally one room away. Yeah. We were pretty oblivious. It was a good prank though.

[@Outriley]

I thought it was just me but there are a lot of people who cant feel emotions. the only feelings I genuinely feel are mostly guilt and empathy (or sympathy, idk). even when my father passed away, I only cried because I felt guilty for not actually being sad and also because my family was crying. idk the difference between sympathy and empathy, but basically I cried because all of my family was crying and not because I was sad. i cant feel love but I genuinely try to help my family and friends and be there for them like a person that actually loves them would, but these tasks feel like chores. even celebrating my friend's birthday with her felt like a chore even if I had fun. i just want to be left alone but if I'm alone, I feel lonely. maybe this is depression idk

[@IvyCoveredAngel]

At least you can feel empathy/sympathy. I can only feel anger and sadness? I have a condition where I have no name for my emotions because my brain can’t read them. I can’t feel happiness and I can’t feel disgusted I can feel jealousy tho and show signs of BPD as well as Depressive Psychosis (which no one knows how it develops). What’s worse is we think I have autism as well as when I was a kid I tended to torture animals for entertainment (I did stop and I feel guilt for that)

[@keithtextor4892]

Your comments resonate with me. Especially about wanting to be left alone and then feeling lonely. It's a no win situation. I also felt very little when my father and brother died (six years apart). But in time I was able to unlock my feelings and mourn "properly" (There's no "proper" way to mourn or grieve; when I say I could mourn "properly" I mean I was actually to mourn ... it was like clearing a clog from a nozzle. It blasted out with no warning and then there was uncontrollable flow of emotions.) Grieving was important for me because it caused me to re-see both of them and I was able to remember to good things. I think concentrating on bad things temporarily blocked my grief. I'm rambling, sorry. I should probably talk to a professional therapist about this. 😐 I'm sorry for your loss. I hope some day you'll be able to grieve.

[@rosetta3479]

When you think of serial killers you are thinking more along the lines of sociopath. They don't have the same masks as psychopaths, which is the main difference (that I understand anyways). Psychopaths are good manipulators to get what they want, for most it's money and/or money. People think they are really nice and likable, also incredible intelligent. Most sociopaths are less intelligent or simple thinking, I want this so I'll do the simplest thing to get it(with out regards to social norms). They also have less controll and are more likely to act out. They probably can't build families like psychopaths usually can. And most people can tell something is off right away. (I am not a professional though, so take with a grain of salt. I am a psych student and watch way to many cop shows and psych videos on KZbin.)

[@creativecutieprincessd]

I think this is a good introductory for people to research further.

[@IvyCoveredAngel]

They can build families it just takes more work, also therapy and seeing early signs helps a lot

[@jesuschrististheanswer4546]

Sociopaths are the ones that will lie to get what they want and their brains are just wired to be self centered

[@elfenlied_girl1238]

3:28 it’s called antisocial personality disorder and usually people who have no remorse think with intelligence rather than feelings, they could live normal lives and they DO actually know where their limits are using their common sense but the second story that dude is just plain stupid

[@Outriley]

I thought it was just me but it there are lot of people that cant feel emotions. what you described sounds like me. the only feelings I genuinely feel are mostly guilt and empathy (or sympathy, idk). even when my father passed away, I only cried because I felt guilty for not actually being sad and also because my family was crying. idk the difference between sympathy and empathy, but basically I cried because all of my family was crying and not because I was sad. i cant feel love but I genuinely try to help my family and friends and be there for them like a person that actually loves them would, but these tasks feel like chores. even celebrating my friend's birthday with her felt like a chore even if I had fun. i just want to be left alone but if I'm alone, I feel lonely. maybe this is depression idk

[@BrandonL_00]

The story of the person who doesn't feel emotion reminded me of what I read on Reddit a while ago. It was about a boy who had a brother that was pretty much in a "vegetable" state. He couldn't do anything on his own, he never spoke/made noises, he rarely blinked, and he never showed any feeling/emotion. This caused the boy's mom to constantly ignore him to take care of the brother 24/7. One day the boy started yelling, crying, and hurting his brother because he was jealous that his mom never gave him attention. If I remember correctly, there was never a proper diagnosis for him and he eventually had to be moved to live at a facility for further research. But I believe he was actually born like this which is bizarre to me. It's just all around such a tragic story, I really wonder if that boy's brother was talking/feeling on the inside.. so sad to think about.

[@btjhlp]

The one with the "human mask" seemed like it was a movie, and one that I would probably watch 😅

[@Amberlily9207]

Nature vs nurture sometimes people are just born like it no matter how well off they were or how good they were treated other times it’s brought on by events… it’s sad both ways

[@Blue-bell-berry]

I have aspergers and sometimes I scare my self thinking I might be phsyco. It's not that I don't have emotion I just don't know how to react. For example if my friend said a family member died I would feel sympathy and feel sad for them but i wouldn't know what to say and my instincts would say to leave the conversation amedently. Since there my friends I really want to comfort them and I try my best but I'm never really good at it. My personality on my own is very excited and hyper and I'm a major nerd about the specific subjects I like. I found out this was normal for people like me but I tend to match ( to a degree) the people I'm with. When I feel comfortable with the people I'm with I am totally my self. I even tend to use a falsetto ( higher voice) if I'm uncomfortable with the people I am with. My friends know this and we've never had any problems. Though I have a running joke with my mum that I can't tell when she is joking or not ( usually it's pretty funny and it's happened since I was little)

[@lavandergalaxy3669]

I connect to that too. Being on Spectrum has some benefits but has it struggles like seeming like apathetic but I am not.

[@melafaire]

When I was studying education, I was taught that a psychopath is someone is born without the ability to feel emotions and that a sociopath is someone who learned to not feel sympathy for others either because they were taught that through being spoiled and becoming entitled and not caring about others feelings as long as they get their way, or by having some of their emotional needs not met which hinders their emotional growth. Without actually going into a child's background it's hard to know what it is, so a teacher just has to meet a child where he or she is and try to nurture them the best they can for the time that they have them in their class.

[@Scrabble_Juice]

I love her channel because of the drama she finds.

[@mazieglick563]

I do too, I like listening to the stories.

[@karaelzexceed666]

3:48 psychopaths are born, sociopaths are made. but the real diagnosis is antisocial personality disorder. lol I scored like 35 out of 40

[@christianwiberg447]

They can feel some emotions but not all like guilt. But there are different types of sociopaths some are functional others not so much.

[@I.am.god.bowdown]

I think in some instances it can be things that are triggered by something that happens in childhood or young adult life but other times it really is just the chemical makeup in the brain

[@Ph03n1xx]

That first one was so sweet, I'm glad that guy had the strength to be better even if it sucks that he had to.

[@deltanoctis]

Yes. People are indeed born without emotions. They're obviously very rare, but the cats cannot feel certain or any emotions. Those people are known as psychopaths.

[@jasminepuma8975]

Someone backed into my mom's car so she would get the money for damage on her car. She lost because we were giving my mom's lawyer a ride home from the store, (his wife was at work, and they share a car) he witnessed everything, and my mom pressed charges against her. The woman who backed into us has unfortunately done this not once, twice, but five times. Sad life for that woman.

[@yvy.830]

OKAY i love the second guy he is so sweet doing his best for his family n stuff hes so wholesome

[@poppybond3478]

you’re the reason i’m now addicted to roblox and minecraft story times on tiktok😭

[@uarmyalo]

Can't wait to watch today's video! Hope everyone's doing well btw

[@Scrabble_Juice]

I hope you're doing well as well! ^^

[@js8303]

Congrats you’re first! 😁

[@uarmyalo]

@@Scrabble_Juice ty :D

[@Scrabble_Juice]

@@uarmyalo You're welcome! :D

[@uarmyalo]

@Dolores Madrigal👂🏽 thx 🙂

[@Exoticbutterpan]

Sometimes, yes because of what happens around the person as a kid it messes with there brain so they become Psychopaths in the future. But some can grow up with a loving family, surroundings but then they become serial killers or psychopaths for who knows. There's my crappy explanation of your questions

[@SammyLammy1D]

Actually, most people are born with anti social personality disorder. Those who are born with it are usually better at hiding it. Also, at least where I live, people can't get a diagnosis of aspd until they are 18. However, some people develop an aspd as a trauma response to something that happened as a kid.

[@misachitachibana7214]

From the comments I’ve gleaned that Sociopaths were formed and shaped by environment and psychopaths are wired. I don’t know how much is true and I am too tired to find out.

[@Exoticbutterpan]

@@misachitachibana7214 well youtubes for some reason hiding your comment but I think that's true lol

[@angelaliu9058]

Psychopaths are born that way. Sociopaths are from childhood trauma.

[@thelunarwizard]

@@angelaliu9058 Both are actually applicable. You can be born with it or childhood trauma can cause it. Or you can be born with in and childhood trauma can make the symptoms worse.

[@FunSizeSpamberguesa]

There really is something sad about someone who has to go through the motions to be seen as human, without properly understanding why or feeling any true emotion. Good on some of these people for trying, but I can't imagine how hollow their lives must be.

[@aryanndailey]

Okay so I have a lot of info if anyone wants it. Feel free to correct me if anything is incorrect :) So psychopathy is something that the person is usually born with and it affects about 1% of the population. The sociopathy (which makes up about 1/3 anti-social personality disorder cases), is a developmental thing, which is usually a side effect of things such as abuse when the person is a child. It affects about 5% of the population, so odds are, you know a sociopath. Also, here's how not to confuse them. Sociopaths are people who have like an overly emotional reaction, usually angry, to situations and lacking empathy. This can lead to them being abusive and such towards others, although this is not always the case, because some of them are striving to change for the better. Psychopaths tend to be very controlling and manipulative, and can be incredibly cunning and good at hiding their mental state if they decide to do so and they also lack empathy. This exists on a spectrum, so there are very few people who are the worst of them. The large majority of people that suffer from these mental disorders are not nearly as bad as the people in the stories, but are only a little sociopathic/psychopathic. They are also the people who can be more self-aware about things like this, and strive for change. People on the far end of the spectrum have far more potential for being dangerous and extreme cases.

[@ReliPen]

these people sounded like a friend of mine, he was mostly emotionally detached but he felt remorse so he wasn’t a psychopath

[@NixV0822]

Psychopath is genetic, sociopath is environmental.

[@anonymousjanedoe]

3:41 Actually I think psychopaths are born that way and just show symptoms at 11 or later, however sociopaths are formed by environmental factors. There is a large difference between these two. That's what I've been taught anyway.

[@onlyinkorea1345]

it's easy to mix up psychopath and borderline, sociopath and narcissist. honestly at this point don't bother trying to know who's who. just know yourself.

[@themaddtatter6679]

My son has a hard time with expressing sadness. He knows what it feels like, and he can say he feels sad inside. He just doesn't want to cry. I told him it's ok not to cry as long as he accepts the fact that it's ok for others to and to support them when they are sad. He expresses happiness, fear, excitement, ect... just fine. He just doesn't like to or has a hard time crying. And it's ok.

[@teragram38crows49]

So he doesn't just cry on the inside? Cause that's perfectly fine as well.

[@themaddtatter6679]

Most likely, and that's why I respect his response. And always tell him it's ok to feel sad, but if you ever feel really sad ( like depressed) or angry because of it to please tell somebody. He just has a different way of expressing grief as do I sometimes and I've had people tell me I'm responding incorrectly to which I promptly tell them they can find something better to do than to analyze me and be my therapist.

[@stard7566]

yay i’m early ! ur videos bring me such nostalgia ! ( i watched u since like 2015 ) :)

[@noahmorgan13]

My best friend in my teenage years learned I had a crush on his older brother. Thinking he was having a laugh, he decided to try and set us up. It worked big time, and his brother became my first partner. Soon after, my best friend met my older brother and they hit it off immediately. They were like perfect for each other in every way. For almost a year he dated my brother. He gave his virginity to my brother, took my brothers virginity. They seemed so in love, so close, so romantic. My relationship with his brother ended, and soon after he left my brother for someone else. I was so confused. They seemed like they would last forever. Then he told me the truth. He did it all for revenge because I was spending more time with his brother than him.

[@taylorjade902]

When I was younger I had a friend all throughout primary school let’s call her Mia we had a toxic friendship one day we would be hanging out laughing. Then on the bus home she would say that I was a bitch for no reason I felt sorry for her because she had 5 brothers and she was the youngest so I stayed friends with her until she took it too far and told a teacher that I’d been bullying her and telling her to k i l l herself. I almost got suspended but my classmates knew it was a lie. She got off with nothing but a warning but I have never forgotten and I will never forgive her.

[@anonimoose165]

The guy in the 2nd story is literally the manifestation of the “it’s just a prank bro”meme

[@momoshikadora]

These people both fascinate and scare me. Even if cynically I think that they've the best life because they feel nothing, no emotional pain no nothing. But then you hear how the most successful people are psychopaths. They don't care about your well-being as long as they don't break you. Terrifying to think about.

[@solargomez2490]

Thank you for posting queen

[@cupio-stardust]

These were probably the most interesting stories I’ve read in a while.

[@Theawesomeninja_XD]

Same here

[@daisy_jin124]

OMGG I used to watch you when I was like 8 and Im so happy to find you in my recommended

[@JessyDupre]

3:30 That one's not a psychopath. That one has all the signs of being an unwilling sociopath. There is a difference there oddly enough.

[@js8303]

My favorite part of the day

[@rosepetunia1829]

Same.

[@tikkilover4890]

Yessssss

[@scarletfokx1449]

the bum from the 2nd last story was actually a narcissist :l

[@alexisoliver4487]

I use to be friends with a guy that was a borderline psychopath long story short I have a restraining order against him😂🤷

[@parkgimmy4225]

It would be interesting if two psychopaths were to be in a relationship. Will either of them realise that the other is faking it as well? Will a psychopath want their partner to be genuine? Or is it okay for them to fake it as well? As for me, i think I'm okay with living with the psychopaths as long as they fulfill their duties and abide by the law. I don't feel much emotions myself.

[@connordoesexist1807]

Majority of the psychopaths are pretty much your normal person but wired differently. And more common than you think. The "dangerous" ones are the loud minority.

[@Zen-xx7tx]

I'm not a clinically diagnosed psychopath or anything but I myself try and be social for my own benefits,I have made friends only to fit in so I have thought about this for quite a while now...whether I'd like it if someone else(who might be a psychopath) will be friends w me just for personal and social benefits...and tbh I wouldn't mind at all as long as they don't harm me and treat me good. Sorry for any mistakes,English isn't my first language.

[@Jay-wh2uy]

From what I've heard Psychopaths are born and sociopaths are made.

[@Lsrxaoh]

a girl that comes to our open day shows' (horse riding) mum that has something wrong with her. Her daughter is so nice but her mother forces her to be mean to everyone. When she tries to be a good sport and clap for someone that had a good round shell get scolded by her mother. Her mum also abuses the horse (whipping hard when the horse had done barely anything wrong, forcing the daughter to wear spurs, etc.) I wish I could help but im only a kid :( that mum needs therapy

[@autisticdancer]

So I am by no means an expert on this kind of stuff, but I have researched a lot of mental illness/disorders in my free time because I find it interesting. So if I get something wrong in this comment feel free to correct me. I’m pretty sure what we call a “sociopath” or a “psychopath” is actually something called anti-social personality disorder. It’s mostly the same thing as what we would call a psychopath but honestly I feel like we should call it anti-social personality disorder instead of psychopathy because like we have read in some of these stories, there are quite a few people with this disorder who can put on a mask and act like a completely normal person and are fully aware that they don’t experience things like empathy and emotions. And honestly I feel like that goes for almost for ANY mental illness/disorder. Most people who’s brains are wired differently don’t like being treated like outcasts. Most of them just want to be normal. And as for whether it’s caused by upbringing, it can be caused by genetics and or upbringing. Anyways like I said, this is just what I’ve found through researching this kind of stuff and I’m by no means a professional. So if I got something wrong here or you have something to add feel free to do so. :)

[@connordoesexist1807]

Ngl, it's the best explanation I have ever seen.

[@Theawesomeninja_XD]

I literally saw sociopath v.s psychopath videos a few weeks ago. From what I looked up and was taught, sociopaths are only born based on their environment while I think psychopaths can be born that way but sometimes are not. Psychopaths mostly use manipulation to act like they care while having little to no emotions, while sociopaths are more impulsive and are easier to identify. Hoped that helped, love your videos

[@ashlismith8596]

Yep, there's no other way to say: Get rid of this person because they're crazy🙄

[@crescentmoon0fficial]

I got a story similar to this: So my ex-friend which I’ve been with for 3 years. I became friends with her when another friend I’m friends with introduced me too. Later that year, that other friend didn’t want to be friends with my ex-friend anymore. (There we’re no bad intentions! She just didn’t want to be her friend anymore) When she told her, she cried and pretty much played victim and that other friend got bullied for a bit of time. (At this time all I knew was that that friend didn’t want to be friends with my ex-friend anymore) So fast forward to this year, I started to mature a bit and became more introverted and my ex-friend got super annoying. And also she was super boy crazy and would simp over kpop idols and people at school. But there was still a part of me that didn’t want to do it because I was friends with her for a long time. But one month ago, a different friend who was also friends with my ex-friend. (Not the same person who got bullied) Told me tea about my ex-friend. She told me that she broke up with her boyfriend to go for someone else. But when she told her mom, she said that the boyfriend broke up with her. Which I was there when she broke up with him and she did it. That friend also told me that she thought that my ex-friend is a pick me girl. And then I realized that I needed to get away from this girl! I actually don’t know if this is considered toxic or being a sociopath or psychopath but I wanted to get away from her. I actually haven’t told her I don’t want to be friends with her anymore because I’m afraid that she will play victim and I’m going to get bullied or be questioned about it a lot.

[@tephrafalls6321]

Psychopathy is an interesting subject to me. I've seen several documentaries on it, and there are some treatments available. Basically, it's like there's an invisible barrier around the part of the brain that allows you to experience the same things "normal" people do. Only very strong emotions and experiences get through, mostly thrill-related stuff. Hence why they do well in any kind of "hunting" type of activities, like the guy who worked in the financial field and was allowed to make decisions others would feel as being "cruel or tough". Others will turn to crime, not just murder I'll let you know, but apparently "the thrill of doing something others consider bad" and "the thrill of possibly getting caught" is strong enough to get through to their brain. I can imagine knowing someone who is a psychopath could be quite scary. But I find it an interesting subject. Just know that the majority of them aren't murderers.

[@harleywilks7843]

i am considered a psychopath which is hard to admit i feel some emotion i understand others emotion and am able to show emotion quite well none of my freinds know only a few family members do i watch sad movies with freinds and sit there staring blankly while they're all sobbing i understand why they're sad but i don't feel sad im not manipulative im not evil i don't have a thirst for blood i just have childhood coping issues that caused me to mask any emotion to protect myself however it's been maybe ten years since i started doing that and ever since i haven't been the same. i don't think i'm a psychopath i think it's a different issue but that's what my psychiatrist thinks so i belive her

[@strawberryshortcake608]

Ur hair is so pretty Omg-

[@LonelyWriter26]

All this dramatic stuff is happening and I'm over here so far outside the social circle that I don't even got a clue lmao. 🤣

[@thelunarwizard]

Psychopathy-I hope I spelled that right-is an anti-social disorder that you can either be born with or environmental factors in your early childhood can cause you to develop it or make the symptoms worse. My family has issues with mental health. My biological grandfather has psychopathy and so does my mother. And so do I. It was a pretty weak form for me until my mother took me away from a happy home to live with her. Five years of torture just living with her. Then I broke off from her and now live in a great environment. There where still problems with her for years after that until I completely cut her out of my life. She was a narcissistic lunatic who couldn't even take care of herself much less a child. I got diagnosed when I was I think 13-14 when I became really violent. I didn't really understand what I was doing was wrong. I, unlike my mother, am not narcissistic. I have very low self esteem because of her. I also got bipolar from her. Thanks mother. I'm a lot chiller than I was and my therapist said that I was finally showing emotions. Like sadness or anger. I'm doing a lot better than I was. Also, about the psychopaths' becoming politicians or doctors or some kind of high intelligence job. Uh, no. I may be very smart, but I'm not even going to college. I would rather become a content creator thank you very much. Jesus christ, I just reread what I wrote and it's all over the place. It's so long too. I am so sorry for that essay. If you can understand it.

[@keithtextor4892]

@kyutie I love your videos and your takes on the people you're reading about. Watching your videos, and those of a select group of others, is a bright spot in my day. But one thing you said today kinda made me sad. "The fact that he's forty and hanging out with 20 year olds? That's frickin' weird." I know you went on to cite other things that made that guy weird, but I was left figuratively gasping by your comment because I'm wondering how people in your generation are viewing me. I'm 56; my wife left me five years ago; I have no children or blood niblings; my father is dead as is my only sibling; I'm separated from my cousins by hundreds of miles and in most cases by at least 10 years; many of my friends have moved away, others have moved on. My mother is still alive but she's 87 and fading. I have nobody anymore and I don't cleanly fit in to any group. I try to befriend people of various ages. But I often find myself approaching the 20-somethings in the office and trying to make conversation. I try not to pry but I ask questions about their lives to show an interest in them and not just talk about myself. I never talk about anything that might be misinterpreted as inappropriate and I would NEVER expose myself as a "joke." But now I'm a little shaken ... do the young men think I'm a closeted bi? Do the young women think I'm a creep? (Or "frickin' weird" as you phrased it?) I'm not trying to attack you or zero in on a single phrase you uttered in a video where you spent eleven and a half minutes saying OTHER things. I'm just left a little sad and insecure now. (Probably because I had already wondered it and this just gives definition to my insecurities.) Please know that most people in an older generation don't want anything inappropriate when they talk to you; they just want a friend and they want to connect with someone who is chronologically the same age that they feel they are. Keep up the good work! So many people like me need people like you to continue doing what you're doing.

[@Dun4times]

No one is born with psychopathy (or any other psychological disorder). However, some children are born at high risk for developing psychopathy due to inherited (genetic) factors.

[@beatrixthegreat1138]

Oh yeah there’s like a bajillion of them but you never hear of them because they live normal lives and hurt no one. They could even be a best friend. We hear about the people that are dangerous.

[@nanumi14]

My old best friend is so stereotypical psychopath, that I wonder how I didn't realize it sooner. We were friends starting in 3rd grade. He was extremely smart, but never did his homework. He had a really bad home life, he got kicked out for being bi when he was 13. He was definitely the type of person that would hurt small animals. He told me in 9th grade that I was his first love because I was the first person that treated him like a human. I don't really know what to take that as. He was dating my best friend and gave her 10 years of life. He lived with my family for 9 months and would talk about how he would kill all of us. Then he abandoned my friend, the person he was dating in Alaska after cheating on her. That's when I decided to cut ties. Though, late last year, he messaged me on Facebook asking how I was doing.

[@alogab8060]

Hi kutie! Im an old fan from 2016 i saw an notif today and it was you i missed you sooo much

[@mindyourbusiness2954]

very interesting video makes you woner how many times someone has met a psychopathic person but they were hiding behind i fake mask IRL? Freaky yet interesting i always had a thing for psychology and learning about the human mind

[@skarrlettewinter6669]

Contrary to popular belief, very few recorded serial killers were clinically diagnosed psychopaths.

[@salazar7863]

Psychopaths were born while Sociopaths were made.

[@PrettysureyouneedaHug]

So some psychopaths are just normal people who just don't know how to feel emotions? Interesting. Btw Hello Ellen😊😊😊😊😊

[@lavandergalaxy3669]

No, they can feel emotion but they lack empathy. The ability to understand the other emotions.

[@connordoesexist1807]

Majority of psychopaths are normal people who are wired differently to not knowing how to be empathetic. Majority. The number is larger than you think.

[@mochisprite9779]

This is the stuff I find interesting, so I'm taking Psychology this fall! :)

[@that1nerd44]

Sociopathy occurs from environmental factors, psychopathy are just born that way. I least that's what I've heard

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Hii,I love your videos!

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Sorry I'm so late ellen but the video was amazing and I hope you and coco have a wonderful night's sleep💜💜💜

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Hi guys! How's everyone?

[@SecretlyTwoFrogsInATrenchCoat]

Psychopaths are born sociopaths are made

[@samgnz3n530]

i was curious so i looked it up Guess what there is no longer a clinical term of being a Sociopath or a Psychopath. What Is the Difference Between a Sociopath and a Psychopath? Today, both psychopathy and sociopathy MAY be used as terms implying an Antisocial Personality Disorder, the OFFICIAL diagnosis for an individual displaying the traits of either term. While there is much overlap between psychopathy and sociopathy, they are not one and the same. What Is a Sociopath? The term sociopathy was coined in the era of behaviorism between 1920 to 1950 as a primary psychological theory, but it has since fallen out of use. “This term has not been used in modern science for several decades-for example, you cannot get funding from the National Institute of Health [NIH] to study ’sociopaths,'” says Kent Kiehl, Ph.D, a neuroscientist studying brain imagine, criminal psychopathy and other psychotic disorders in Albuquerque, New Mexico. When the term was still in use, it was believed that people were born as blank slates and subsequently shaped by their environment or social forces, ultimately resulting in a good or bad personality, says Kiehl. However, this view was determined to be incorrect and, as focus shifted to increasing accuracy and reliability in diagnosis, the term “sociopathy” was dropped from the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5) about 20 years ago. What Is a Psychopath? Even though the term is not an official diagnosis per the DSM-5, psychopathy remains a term in psychology today to indicate individuals who display high levels of unemotionalism or callousness, as well as impulsiveness or developmental antisocial traits, such as destructive or aggressive behavior. Symptoms of psychopathy generally appear in early childhood and impact all areas of an individual’s life, including relationships with family, friends, at school and at work. About 1.2% of the adult population has psychopathy, according to a 2021 study in Frontiers of Psychology. Those with psychopathy tend to display antisocial behaviors, such as a lack of empathy and disregard for the well-being and emotions of others, which can negatively impact relationships both personally and professionally as they struggle to connect and trust the world around them. Psychopath and Sociopath Traits The traits of a psychopath and a sociopath are “the same,” according to Kiehl, with both falling under the clinical diagnosis of Antisocial Personality Disorder. However, in terms of social construction (everyday people's knowledge), the two terms are viewed somewhat differently. Specifically: -Sociopaths tend to act more impulsively and erratically compared to psychopaths. -Sociopaths generally struggle to maintain a job or a family life, whereas psychopaths may be able to do so. -While psychopaths generally struggle to form attachments, sociopaths may be able to do so with a like-minded individual. -Psychopaths may be better able to disassociate from their actions and experience less guilt than sociopaths. In order for a patient to be diagnosed with Antisocial Personality Disorder, they must display a “persistent disregard for the rights of others,” according to the DSM-5 clinical criteria as listed in the Merck Manual, a medical reference guide. This disregard is indicated by the presence of three or more of the following traits: -Disregarding the law (such as committing acts that are grounds for arrest repeatedly) -Acting in a deceitful manner (lying repeatedly, deceiving others for personal gain or using aliases) -Being impulsive or failing to plan ahead -Acting irresponsibly on a consistent basis (quitting a job without plans to get another or failing to pay bills) -Being easily provoked or aggressive (frequently getting into physical fights) -Failing to feel remorse (feeling indifferent to or rationalizing the mistreatment of others) However, the most utilized method to assess traits of a psychopath in clinical or forensic work is the Hare Psychopathy Checklist-Revised (PCL-R), says Kiehl. The assessment can be used to predict violence and other negative outcomes, as well as explore treatment potential. The assessment includes 20 items on which individuals are rated on a scale of zero to two based on how much their personality or behavior matches the item’s description. This results in two primary scales-one to measure emotional detachment and one for antisocial behavior-which combine for a total score. The highest score an individual can get on the PCL-R is 40, and a score of at least 30 is needed for someone to be classified as a someone with Antisocial Personality Disorder. Items on the assessment include: Glibness/superficial charm Grandiose sense of self-worth Need for stimulation Pathological lying Conning/manipulative Lack of remorse or guilt Shallow affect Callous/lack of empathy Parasitic lifestyle Poor behavioral controls Promiscuous sexual behavior Early behavioral problems Lack of realistic, long-term goals Impulsivity Irresponsibility Failure to accept responsibility Many short-term relationships Juvenile delinquency Revocation of conditional release (meaning someone was granted a conditional release from prison and that release has been revoked.) Criminal versatility Psychopathy and Sociopathy Causes While sociopathy-when the term was still in use-was a disorder believed to stem from a person’s environment, psychopathy is believed to arise mostly from biology and genetics with some environmental influence, though research on psychopathy’s causes is ongoing. “There’s a lot of current research examining how biology/social forces interact and contribute to the development of psychopathic traits,” says Kiehl. “We generally review ‘primary’ psychopathy as coming from a larger biology/genetic component, contrasted with ‘secondary’ psychopathy, which is hypothesized to come from more social forces (such as bad parenting or perhaps trauma as a child) contributing more than biology.” source: www.forbes.com/health/mind/sociopath-vs-psychopath also don't use a youtube comment to self-diagnoses others around you or yourself please and thank you.

[@vreluctantwarrior7492]

Psychopathy is a very complicated disorder that involves genetics, environment or personality. It is not fully understood. I think they say every 12 people you met is a psychopath.

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the girl in the last story is literally lila rossi...

[@JustLilyTbh]

Lila Rossi doesn't have a supporting mum.

[@shuu-wasseo]

@@JustLilyTbh other than that

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@@shuu-wasseo Fair enough

[@Purrrrrrsia]

I would body slam the daylights out of the last friend.

[@cal4207]

So he was a sentry guard I watch the video where these terrorists rolled up to a military camp shot the sleeping guard and then everyone else in their sleep it's interesting the way a human body jumps but that was not my first fascination with death I honestly don't understand people's irrational fear of dying after all nobody gets out alive

[@KIeinEen]

It is a nature vs nuture topic. ASPD (antisocial personality disorder) they are finding that some people are born with a violence gene that may not necessarily switched on. It takes nuturing to switch it on (the gene is mainy the ones that can become serial killers usually) people with ASPD make up about 1% of the population (but dont quote me on that). It's been a year since I looked at abnormal psychology so there are some things that could be wrong.

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Not all of these peops6are bad I think, they just need therapy to help them

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bring back the gaming channel-

[@Kadeda]

Ellen, you and I are much more likely to kill someone than a psychopath. They don't tend to kill people because they don't fall into the trap of passion and logically realize how much trouble killing someone is. Serial Killers are an extremely minor percentage of psychopaths. Most are likely nice people trying to get through life as best they can just like any one else.

[@elysialvr]

OMG lol been a while since I commented again. I just watch ur vids and leave. Ima try to write more comments!

[@arshiachidambaram7764]

most psychopath are born psychopaths to answer your question aspd can be a genetic condition most sociopaths are made but psychopaths are usually born

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You are awesome 😎

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I love your videos kyutie

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Amazing video

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Doctor Ramani on KZbin is very helpful in her videos about toxic people, and how to stay safe.

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I'm early and i have no idea what to say!!

[@SammyLammy1D]

You are born with aspd (anti social personality disorder), but some people don't show it. I am not an expert, but I think that "psychopaths " are born like that and "sociopaths" show it after a trauma in their childhood.

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A lack of conscience and empathy, disregard for rules and norms, and impulsive and aggressive tendencies are all common traits of a sociopath. These traits make a person more likely to use, exploit, abuse, or harm other people, so many sociopaths are dangerous people to allow into your life Psychopaths often display traits and behaviors that are cold, manipulative, antisocial, and narcissistic. These tendencies have been liked to early childhood experiences including maltreatment, rejection, and lack of parental affection, however, the exact causes are not well-understood

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