I started dating again. | Tuesday Talks with StarPuppy

[@andreapotter9110]

When you've never been on a date or had a bf Sighs in single and antisocial

[@dwaynemicheal2801]

I've never related to something more in my life than this comment. Felt that in my soul.😔

[@KoriandrOfTheStars]

Dis me

[@Lisa_Flowers]

Me but I also don't really care about it 🤷🏾‍♀️ But I relate to sometimes struggling with it

[@soleil4418]

You're not missing out.

[@munchkin4887]

It's okay our time is coming😭😂

[@triciacharles8022]

As a single woman in her early 30’s, dating is especially trash now. Smdh.

[@sharoncherryontop1275]

hi i'm 27. my bf is 30.. i was Single for 2 years before we Met coz i wanted to Enjoy Single life! anyways... i just wanted to share... that as much as i Love my bf.. so thankful for him.. he's a great guy... we're very Happy together. IF my bf and i should Not work out.. i think i would date 35 yrs and up! seriously... lol. i dont know Why i told u this lol. I just wanted to be transparent.. 🙏😍 guys mature after 36 --> HUGS! Don't live up Hope! You are Beautiful! I Pray you Meet ur Match! HUGS♡ ♡♡♡

[@IluvAmerica]

Tricia Charles why didn’t you get married in your 20s

[@ennvee1989]

Say it louder girl! Im in my early 30s as well and online dating has left me shook! Trash trash TRASH😑

[@triciacharles8022]

Every Wave of Feminism Because I didn’t settle 🤷🏿‍♀️

[@triciacharles8022]

xVvix xnNix I tried online dating and that experience had me give up dating for a year 😩😩😩

[@osakasweetie19]

Anyone else feel no interest in dating or relationships yet are watching for Danielle? 🙋🏾‍♀️

[@deenad3562]

"I didnt want my pictures to outshine Me." --StarPuppy, 2020

[@TheSouthernbellebeau]

I’ve been “searching” since I decided I wanted a relationship. I’m 20 now, and I’ve always been the “fat friend”, never had a boyfriends, in hindsight I’m happy about that because I saw first hand how all of my friends would get into relationships, break up, fight, just toxicity to the max. So from them I learned what I DONT want. It’s come in handy now that I’ve slimmed down and guys actually approach me. I can spot the red flags instantly, and I don’t entertain them. My standards are also pretty developed and if you don’t meet them.... byeeeee. I know that when the time comes, I will know if that person meets all the check marks. Until then, imma be single and enjoy me myself and I.

[@thedarknessofnana]

Hell yeah! Enjoy your youth to the max, you are only in your 20s once... and have your you time before kids enter the picture. As a 31 year old, I can tell you that the energy levels to have fun and go out are only there for a decade. Once you’re 30, you’re not dead and can still have fun but you gotta take it tf slower so you don’t injure yourself lmao. 😂 Take it from me, get into a habit of doing some mild to moderate exercise (it could just be walking a lot as you get from place to place on public trans) so that you will transition towards not having as much energy as in your young 20s smoothly. (My lack of energy might be because I’m chasing down a 2-year-old every day lol. 🤣) I digress. Have your fun and continue to not feel pressured into a relationship! Glad to see young women who know themselves and are not afraid to exercise that self respect. ✊🏽

[@BabyLoloify]

You're doing everything right! Never doubt yourself 🙂

[@nyasiam.2819]

Enjoy yourself! You ain’t missing NOTHING! Trust me lol

[@malkiafuraha9694]

Also as a youg women, one year older, I would recommend putting God in the centre of your relationship. Pray first and aks God if he is the right one. Marriage and dating is a good thing, with the right person everything will be okay.

[@arisha.s.richardson1188]

God is good

[@LaynieFingers]

This video really resonated with me... when I was younger, I had a pattern of dating the worst guys because "they needed me" and I thought I could fix them. I was engaged twice before I was 18, and the first was extremely abusive. (I've been diagnosed with PTSD thanks to that relationship.) Thankfully, I was able to figure out the common denominator in all my crappy relationships- it was me. I got myself into those relationships for whatever reason, so I stopped dating for 2 years, basically to try and figure myself out. Right before I got started dating again, I decided to try and figure out what I wanted and didn't want in a potential partner. I made a chart with 4 categories: things I absolutely wouldn't do without, things that would be nice to have, things I absolutely wouldn't tolerate in a partner, and things I preferred not to deal with but weren't dealbreakers. It involved things like smoking (absolutely not), reading (a must), the ability to be silly and not take themselves too seriously... The chart helped me really nail down what I wanted in a potential partner, which was something I'd never had before. Two weeks later I met a guy that I generally wouldn't have dated- he was intelligent, he was nice, he was funny... he was all those things that I generally didn't think I deserved, I think. Thanks to the chart I'd made, I was able to realize that if I'd had a magic spell to turn my chart into a person it would have been him. I took a chance and we started dating... We've been married with 26 years now, and honestly he's still my favorite person on the planet. And without that stupid chart I wouldn't have thought twice about dating him. Do I think you should make a chart? Maybe... it might work for you, it might not. But figuring out what you want (and don't want) in a partner before you start dating can be incredibly helpful. But take this suggestion for what it is- just the ramblings of some stranger on the internet. :D

[@swagsurfin7736]

Thanks for sharing. It reminded me that I need to be more intentional

[@LaynieFingers]

@@swagsurfin7736 I'm glad it could help a little. 😁

[@cassie_6540]

I really needed to read this! Thank you so much for sharing♡

[@tmars034]

I know Im super later but thank you. I wrote what I want in a partner, but completely forgot to list the traits I want to avoid in a partner, so thank you

[@tellitstraight]

Glory be to God 🙌🏾❤️ I pray Jesus heals you from the PTSD. I’m so happy that you are happy now in a healthy relationship 💯

[@gummies4tummies]

I downloaded Tinder for the “banter”, but I just couldn’t gather the strength to even finish my profile. I felt so embarrassed for some stupid reason.

[@gummies4tummies]

majestic_whale I’m glad I’m not the only one lmao

[@bradlyannetejeda]

Samee , I downloaded badoo and deleted it right away

[@selftitled3671]

i lasted a day and then had to delete

[@craftwithgift7948]

♊ Gemini right here! I feel ya too , shit is stressful af and I'm lazy af doing this .

[@Jcf97__]

I can’t even type that shit in the App Store 😂 it’s just never gonna happen

[@jamesstephens3222]

You are an unusual girl (not in a negative way), and you're gonna need a certain guy to be with you. I mean this in a positive way. I wish you well.

[@bibaolaitan5189]

My parents also say these things about me...

[@SLBrown-zo5oj]

Definitely a compliment! ☺

[@ShogoMakishimaxx]

People say the same thing about me. Thing is...I end up with people like her ex. 😑

[@ootwpublishingmedia7894]

Catfish? CATFISH????? YASSS HONEY... That's how you know you look good

[@naadiramuhammad3745]

I’m so glad you said “you were breathing before you met them keep breathing after they leave” I’m literally going through the motions after ending an awful relationship a few days ago. & I know I’ll still think about him & miss him in my life but I was fine before I met him & I’ll be okay without him too😭❤️

[@dublancdedinde]

Are you okay now ?

[@kefilwesebolai1007]

I don’t get how people who successfully find love through dating apps breakthrough the barriers ( ghosting, hyper sexual convos & pics, the superficial-ness, awkward encounters) - these people are UNICORNS. But I think I’d go back to the apps just to practice dating again because I’m starting to feel asexual 😂😂😂😂

[@Darksphere101]

Just keep going until you find what you want. It's not a barrier, you just rid yourself of those types and keep on.

[@gamegrunt8739]

Hi **waves** Unicorn chiming in here. I met the love of my existence on an app. I had been single 2 years sis, was playing the field and when I was finally ready to stop being so casual... it happened. We broke through the usually troubles because we were so straight forward it was scary 😂😂😂 Him: look, I’m not here for bullshit. I want to get married And have children one day. Could that be you in the future or no? Me: Sign me the fuck up.

[@justdoit.86yearsago]

So many people have met their partners on apps. I think it’s just about not allowing the wrong ones to discourage you from carrying on.

[@permafrost0979]

Zero shade, but I'm glad I'm married, and not dating out here in these streets in 2020 🙌🏾 Sounds like a hecka lotta stress.

[@FatimaB]

I completely agree!🤪

[@permafrost0979]

@La la Land To look down? No. Just acknowledging it sucks out there. My dating life was non-existant back in the day: I didn't have the confidence to go after ppl I liked, and no one was approaching me either. I was terrifyingly lonely. How I got married is a mystery; it was practically arranged 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@vikvik8612]

@La la Land You totally missed the point. Read again and maybe you'll see.

[@permafrost0979]

@La la LandWhat are these supposed "red flags" even alerting you to? I'm just a stranger on the internet, I have no investment or interest in deceiving or harming anyone who reads my comments. 1. Why should marriage stop me from commenting? I'm a fan of Danielle's channel. I don't think I even finished the video, I was mostly responding to other commenters relating their horror stories. 2. If we were talking about sustaining healthy marriages, I'd have a lot to say. I don't have much to say about dating and find a life partner, bcuz my circumstances were quite unusual and not easily duplicatable. I married someone I'd known all my life; there's no advice to give there, bcuz not everyone has that kind of relationship already available to tap into. 3. I never changed my position. I never came on here to insult or look down on singles. I was always just acknowledging that's its rough out there and I'm glad I'm not in the dating game. I only added information i.e. I didn't date but was fortunate to find someone anyway. 4. You came at me with the intention of being mad regardless of the truth. First you thought I was gloating and being arrogant. I clarified that I wasn't gloating & that I'd experienced some rough times too (more so loneliness than toxic relationships); but then you interpreted that as turning myself into a victim. Um, OK, sure 🤷🏾‍♂️ Somehow, I really got under your skin and stepped all over your toes: my bad. You want me to just go back and delete my whole comment? It seems to have really been triggering for you.

[@viceanterra3]

Same tbh. I tell my friend that all the time. If I wasn't married, I wouldn't bother dating through apps. Fr.

[@NaturallyWit]

When you were talking about being romantically smart now and looking so proud of yourself, I felt that! I literally said out loud "good job!"

[@goshenqueen]

NaturallyWit I know! I’m over here feeling invested and excited that she can see her own growth!

[@smilesallround]

Off topic but your profile pics are really pretty NaturallyWit and StyledbyMercy!

[@TriumphantTiff]

Last time I online dated, I ended up polyamorous for a brief time, randomly. I was outchea WHILIN'! This was something I never thought I'd be into, as I've been a traditional super cautious gal. But I threw the rules away and decided to have fun. Instead of living this fun amazing 'Sex in the City' lifestyle I pictured in my head, I was more lonely and sexless during that experience than when I was monogamous 🙄 lolol. Online dating is so disorienting! I found my super special person after wading through the deepest darkest sewage of human existence (OkCupid). Hang in there honey and try to have fun while evading the uber crazies! We're all cheering for you 🤜🏾🤛🏾

[@neegas3490]

😭

[@Indiegirl007]

Girl, OkCupid would put you through it.

[@TriumphantTiff]

@@Indiegirl007 giiiiirl, yes. OkC had me thinking quantity was the issue, when nope it was def a quality problem😂

[@ThatGirlMoi]

@@TriumphantTiff lol funny cuz I can relate. Dated a guy, ended up in a poly arrangement for the thrills and it only confused us and created problems oops. And yes, from okc 😭🤧

[@TriumphantTiff]

@@ThatGirlMoi Dang are y'all still together or did y'all break up?

[@farfrompleasant]

As an asexual, dating is very awkward especially if they’re attracted to you and you can’t truly reciprocate... 😅

[@KB-xx2sn]

I feel like that's me too but I'm not sure...

[@sedsa097]

So why do you date?

[@IluvAmerica]

Whenthestarssettle you can’t have romantic attraction without physical and or sexual

[@anissa2361]

@@IluvAmerica Yes you can. You can be attracted to someone's personality.

[@farfrompleasant]

sedsa097 just because I’m not sexually attracted to people don’t mean I can’t be attracted romantically. To answer your question though, I don’t.

[@debbienehikhuere]

SPEAK ON IT!!! "that I'm not hurting myself by trying to be someone's girl (person)" I love you and your videos, keep thriving

[@noreehix5714]

Dating can be exhausting but for what I have seen around me of my friends who are married it is worth it. I know what I want and that’s all.

[@SistahBear1]

I made a dating profile recently and deleted it. I realized I cared more about the dogs in their pics than them 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@dena_9518]

This shit was fireeeee ❤❤😂😂😂😂

[@milly-jacksonholiday8741]

😆😆😆😆

[@verablexitasap858]

They thought your photo was photoshopped because of that incredibly rare shine and glow eminating from you naturally and then amazing positivity and spirit shines through on top of that!

[@frenchiegirlintheusa]

Dating is toooooooooooooooo. hard . I stopped dating as well. The men just want a one night stand, and I'm done.

[@Lee-ii9mk]

i must be one of a few that goes into dating to look for marriage

[@jask4968]

自由British Hong Kong you poor thing!! Is it really that bad out here??! Best wishes ♥️

[@shalom4441-o6i]

Nope, I only date with the intent TO marry! 😊

[@anissa2361]

When I date I'm dating with marriage in mind not just to have fun!

[@bibaolaitan5189]

You're not alone..

[@DefineMorena]

Same

[@shay7820]

So true!! "Easy to get into relationships. Not easy finding meaningful ones".

[@MissZoniaJ]

Am I the only one who swipes left faster than i could blink 🙈😂

[@deshara7816]

Zonia James lol and the accidental swipe on a cutie, then contemplating buying the rewind feature lmaooo i didn’t tho

[@estieeu2364]

@@deshara7816 yes i did that so many times😂😂 but i wasn't gonna pay for any rewind feature

[@Healing_Soul333]

yasss thats me lmao

[@kwmccabe]

In your pictures you look like a model, honestly. You're very photogenic. I don't know if I could do dating apps...I might try meeting groups of people on meetup or something

[@msylvini]

"I am very much so a conversationalist. I will talk your ear off. I will listen to you until we both just faint!" 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Same same **sniffs**

[@ootwpublishingmedia7894]

"Impersonal" "Trivializing this person's whole existence" That's how I felt. Tried twice and deleted it after one day twice.

[@KoriandrOfTheStars]

*is actually asexual lol* Imma date my pizza tho

[@TheStarPuppy]

Sounds reliable and noice 🙌

[@KoriandrOfTheStars]

Double AA battery love!!!

[@SarcasticSean]

Asexual gang. ♦♣♥♠😂😂😂

[@unsparklyunicorn]

just because you're ace doesn't mean you're aro ajsuskskslndb

[@KoriandrOfTheStars]

@@unsparklyunicorn I mean that's nice, and I know that lol, but I am. Hence the double AA battery comment because......it applies to me lol

[@Thewrightchoices4u]

Thank you for this in 21 and I literally just ended my relationship with my bf. We were interracial ( him Asian and me black ) and its hard out here but imma suck it up and love me and someone will see that 💯

[@liz5473]

“One could even call it...okay” Me: OKCUPID?!

[@apriljames4205]

Try being out of the dating scene for four years. I'm scared to start dating again. I stopped my freshman year of college to focus on my school work, doing an internship, and working part time. So I had no time for dating. Now that I'm about to graduate I want to trying dating again. I downloaded a dating app, but I deleted the same day. Idk why, but it feels so cringe. But I'm not the person to go out and find people to date. Any pointers?

[@MaynardsSpaceship]

If you're wanting a serious relationship, I'd steer clear of most dating apps.

[@TheStarPuppy]

Go out and engage in your interests and hobbies. Also pond hop within your friends= meet friends of friends IRL, see what happens 🙌🏿👌🏿✨

[@BeutifulBeholder]

I too have been out of dating for 4 years. It is tough to get back in. I am finishing up my BA and I also like my alone time BUT I am somewhat interested in a relationship...but I am also somewhat anti social 🙃🙃🙃😭😂. I tried the dating apps too and agree, they were super cringe. Like I take a photo of the potential suitors (hah!) and show my best friend and sisters so much of the cringe that comes across my feed and have a belly laugh and then delete them and delete the app 🙃.

[@verasumter5441]

Hi April James, I agree with Starpuppy, try to meet people who know other people who r possibly looking to date. They know these people a little more about their life and style. I think u would know after the first date wether there will be a second date then move on. Good luck, it’s nice to have someone.

[@AboveRubiesTV]

Sameeee! Like, the whole thing!!

[@coletteacw2170]

"Its actually easy to get in a relationship" Me: Girl Speak for yourself I cant even get a text back 😂

[@malanie6950]

Colette acw but you are so beautiful? If you can’t get a txt back then I shouldn’t even try!

[@anissa2361]

Girl same! My phone stays dry! 😂

[@DefineMorena]

☹️

[@MiaCarter7]

Period. They hit you up, tell you how fine you are, then ghost.

[@Soulglo222]

My phone is a desert 🏜

[@jennifern9188]

Girl you should be dating casual...men do it. Don't be serious unless they give you something to be serious about....and even still!

[@upilekchepa3740]

Haven't dated in 4 years, my last relationship, which also happened to be my very first relationship was terrible to say the least, ever since then I haven't had the confidence to let myself be comfortable around men the things my ex would say about me(that im incapable of being loved and nobody can ever love me) still to this day invade my mind. There's this guy i really like and he lef me know he likes me too and would like to take me out and of course I started running 😩😩. I really want to get back in the scene, I'm tired of running but yoh lol it's scary, I find myself subconsciously sabotaging myself

[@AmaryllisTV]

I honestly do not envy anyone who is dating in this era! You have such perfect skin. It's flawless. I could see why some thought you weren't real. 😂

[@nylatolbert2827]

I met my bf online and we're literally inseparable(we've been together a year and a half,going strong). A good amount of my relationships started off as good convos online. I've had bad results and amazing experiences. And I'm grateful to have met my bf cause we're both huge dorks and anime obsessed and I get that it can be impersonal and that it's not for everyone. But it's definitely an interesting way to meet and get to know people. I'm a huge introvert and have anxiety so meeting people like through cafes or shows whatever isn't my cup of tea. But it's awesome you tried it out and got out there :) casual dating can be a great experience just getting to have fun and explore without being so set on someone and committed at the jump. Until you truly get to know someone. So I'm rooting for you!

[@kailynpartee3377]

Something about your voice relaxes me, it's like I'm talking to a friend.

[@daddishowkey]

I'm asexual and it's not any better. Some might say it's ever worse

[@KatNaturalBeauty]

I live in Atlanta and let👏🏾 me 👏🏾tell 👏🏾y’all 👏🏾!!!!!!!!!! 😭😭😭😭

[@umayaswellcallmejesus1489]

Kat Natural 😲🤭😂😂 I’m sorry for your loss LOL

[@Amber-db9cz]

LMAO😂 I heard

[@nah8173]

😭😭😭

[@crissoa]

Could you move 🙋🏾‍♂️

[@grizzthegreen4500]

Tell us

[@quasar4472]

as an asexual I was giggling at the envy part! let me keep playing this video! I had to pause to say that LOL!

[@Chuma.N]

“You were breathing before you met him, you keep breathing after they leave”😹😩💔

[@gamerdreamer]

Girl that outfit on the thumbnail you look stunning 🔥🔥

[@altheaelias549]

I think your absolutely beautiful. I’ve watched a few videos of yours and every time I’m stunned by your beauty

[@munchkin4887]

Your hair is growing like crazyyy, and you looked beautiful in that photo

[@neshaoinspopolk4417]

That last line was the best advice for me honestly. Thank you for being you.

[@gloria4517]

Preach girl, preach! I'm really proud of you. At all cost don''t sleep with anybody. Wait until you get married. Be upfront with anybody whom you will go out with. Let them know up from ( from the get-go) that you are not ready to get intimate, that way you avoid conflict. Be safe :)

[@gloriaa.4858]

@Gloria. I agree with you 100,000%. The "Crazy" usually comes out after intimacy.

[@DariaHupov]

I've never been on a dating app. I much prefer meeting people at events I attend. I know online dating is how our generation does it now, but I would rather put myself out there and be single for longer than to "shop" for people online, sort of speak. But I love the fact that others are giving them a go and have intriguing, fun and sometimes weird stories to tell. I am also very proud that you see the red flags and walk away when needed. The level of self respect that you have is something to look up to! ❤ You go, girl! Stay safe and enjoy the dating scene! 🙂

[@ayeha5496]

Daria Hupov I so relate to this!

[@taylorgreen7268]

When you aren't even concerned about dating because your life is in shambles but you watch for Danielle.🤷🏾‍♀️😂

[@littlegothgirl8869]

Me! 😂

[@ohgumdrop2208]

I can't agree enough with you on the conversation part wow some of the guys just don't know how to co tune a conversation and it gets kinda annoying after a while

[@BelleJ8]

Yes sis you are very beautiful!! That's why they think you photo shopped that melanin so flawless it don't look real!!

[@nadiag366]

This was such a beautiful video (as always) I just absolutely love your mind ♥️ you got me teary at "its actually very easy to get into a relationship, but it's challenging to get into a relationship that's meaningful and good for you" and that got to me because I've been struggling lately with those "you're still single??" type comments and your statement just served as a beautiful reminder that yes I'm still single, I'm still single by choice. I know what I want and I'm willing to not waste mine or someone else's time when I can clearly see that they are not what I want. And I also loved it when you said "I'm not hurting myself by just trying to be someone's girl" ❤️ The goal isn't to just be dating anyone for the sake of dating and its okay to want more, it's okay to be patient and content with the process unfolding, it's okay. Thanks Danielle, I really appreciate and needed this.

[@ValentinoQ]

Yasss perfect timing! I’m about to do my hair for a video 💜 && I actually met my BF 5 years ago (in a month) on OkCupid. I was on the app for less than 3 months met like 2 people and found him and we’ve been together ever since. Don’t give up on online dating it works sometimes 💜

[@ace.of.space.]

aromantic and asexual here, i am so very sorry it sounds hard out here for y'all

[@NaturalBeauty_NB_]

You look so fine all dressed up OMG😍😍😍😍

[@zaiah0008]

Hey star, you seem like such a cool and unique person, I feel like you bring out the best in people and on top of that your so beautiful which is icing on the cake! Personally I would love to meet someone like you one day and I hope you find whoever you are searching for. watching your videos today has lifted my spirit so much lol. Good luck out there!! ✨✨✨

[@wewemtundusana]

Wow, I discovered your channel and just can't stop watching your videos. I feel a deep connection. The video about being an empath...It took me three years to recover from that and now I look around and everyone is using apps, but it feels so "not me". Thanks for being a weirdo. It is so refreshing and somehow makes me embrace my own weirdness.

[@damayalapapaya]

theres really no better feeling than a true and honest connection with someone. good things come to those who wait. i didnt ever get into dating, and wasnt just waiting around either. i was living my life and then when youre ready, things fall into place. ive been with my bf for 5 months, we didnt go out of our ways to connect and find each other, instead we fell into place and its the greatest treasure i could ever ask for.

[@vivililly6887]

Girlllllll seems like their is plenty of us riding this wave ....... You couldn’t be more spot on with what your saying. It’s a generational thing now to online date. I find that the problem with online dating is that people have far too many options, and putting in the work becomes effort, plus people are just there for the frill and not necessarily there to find a companion. I’m a sapiosexual /demisexual and it’s hard finding this through online dating. Good luck to us all.

[@ninascorner11]

I'm definitely not cut out for online dating either... If I don't meet my husband irl I won't meet my husband... Every guy I met online was looking for a quick girlfriend and everytime I was taken back! Like... you don't know me... why do you want to be gf and bf after two dates...?

[@Ysabeau99]

Omg I saw the title and legit SCREAMED ahhhhhhhhhhhhh I’m so happy for you!! Gurl have fun!!

[@09echols]

Swiper no swiping🦊 Had to edit. I did the dating myself for so long (6years) that my friends started throwing random men AND women at me in the hopes that something would stick. When I was ready I intentionally chose someone I was guaranteed to NOT fall in love with

[@AyyRalphy]

So gorgeous i love your glowy skin!!!! Get it girl 💜

[@kaimobley5324]

Star the fact you felt that way about your first swipe is gold. Genuine Gold. Your are something special. What you just said is what allot of us guys want females to understand. If you don't like us that's fine. Like you said Compatibility is a thing. But when your rude and unnecessary about it you don't see the person for who they are before you really get to know them. And that's what allot of women have problems with nowadays. They say men think it's a game messing around on females but yet you females are the main one's with the yes or the no choices. Allot of guys get "swiped" for the most superficial of reasons High Key on average. But then get lumped with the idiots that do negative things to women. Getting blamed for things we never did and forced to apologize for it. But now women are complaining about guys not approaching, wondering why this is happening and it's bcus of the very thing they didn't do but you yourself did. Care about them as a person before making harsh unjust judgements.

[@marshap7403]

Thanks so much for your Tuesday talks ❤. It helps my friend with his dating woes and shows my young nieces and nephews what not to do and keep their standards high.

[@neshaoinspopolk4417]

Just tuned in and I'm already gleaming for you 🤗💫

[@K_E_Robin]

Always hold your hopes high! Cause everyone deserve to be loved. 💗 You to Danielle. But at you're own time, pace and when it feels right to you. 💗

[@zayzay544]

I'm in the dating scene now for the first time essentially at 27. Have been in a relationship since I was 16 and that ended in 2018. So the next date I go one will be my first first date in 10 years and my first time in as many years trying to learn a person from scratch.

[@dricee8]

It’s ok my first time using bumble I swiped to the left so many times, that the system ran out of options (“left swipe syndrome) 😂 You’re on the right track don’t lower your standards & don’t give up ❤️

[@Miss_Icarus]

6:32 That's what friends are for. They'll rip off your bandaids for you 💘😂

[@1985tmc]

Girl, way to be on guard against those red flags. Once people show you their true colors, it's definitely a key indicator on how they can act again in the future.

[@namaste_charlei]

Danielle: "It's actually VERY easy to get into a relationship..." Me: ::stares in heteroromantic asexual:: 😂😂😂 I watched the entire video, I know it's hard out here for all of us. 😔

[@gintamaluckystar000]

S. Essilfie I felt that 😔✊

[@godniiji]

Met my soulmate on blk. We basically exposed our deepest interest in life. I don’t even think we talked about “what do you want from your future partner.” We just kept it real and shit blossomed from there.

[@Ji-wz7ys]

your natural beauty blows me away each time i see you, damn. and yeah, i totally agree, dating sucks big time, hahahaha.

[@AleySoundz]

You look amazing in those thumbnail dresses. Stunning.

[@MariYum21]

Your hair is flourishing, just be patient I’m growing my hair out too 🤎🤎🤎

[@sl101d5]

Your so smart and articulative and much wiser beyond your years, I wish you the best and be careful on those dating apps, although I’m sure you already know that, but most of them are just seen as more of a hookup outlet than dating so just keep in mind that most people’s intentions, on there, are not good.

[@ashlirankin5266]

The shrinkage is phenomenal

[@AiyaJ]

I love you Star Puppy 🥺💞

[@shenicedells1712]

😂😂 I've been single for almost 5 years..absolutely no dates and whewww. These dudes only look physically attractive to me..emotionally I dont feel a thing

[@gon-chanlaura5155]

Yooo- I 10000% understand you with the whole being jealous of asexuals. I don't necessarily know that they can turn it off, but I wish I could.

[@iloveyhudlpvi]

I just want to say that you are so stunning!

[@idontwanttoaddmyname9713]

Whoa that pink just brightened you up.

[@TheRealCeymione]

Omg!!! The 2nd dress in your thumbnail, I have that one too!!😍I love it! Looks great on you girl!🤗💖

[@michellec8714]

I relate to this so much! I refuse to lose hope😅

[@MarcelWilsonLynch]

And see this right here? This is why I can't use dating apps. Too impersonal. I am demisexual and monogamous. That just recipe for disaster. I fully support other non ace people using dating apps. It's just not for me. It wasn't made with me in mind

[@ad2094]

I am also demisexual and monogamous. It took me so long to even find the language

[@MarcelWilsonLynch]

@@ad2094 honestly same. I was 23 when I actually realized I was demisexual though I've always known I was monogamous I thought everyone thought like me.

[@ad2094]

@@MarcelWilsonLynch yeah the way its presented in media, at least while growing up, it would seem what we now call demisexuality was expected and enoucraged. But then you get older and realize people meet random strangers, sleep with them and then decide if they are compatible for a relationship. Reality vs expectation basically. I knew something was up when I was the only girl in my group that thought grinding was weird and should probably be qualified as sexual harassment 💀

[@MarcelWilsonLynch]

@@ad2094 omg it wasn't only that but like my mother always asked me if I was gay. Always told me I needed to date and then would lecture me about how dating is just meeting people to get to know them which is still such a strange concept to me. I always found nudity gross. And I thought my mom was the weird one😒 nope turns out I'm just ace. It's me I'm the weird one😂

[@ad2094]

@@MarcelWilsonLynch I started questioning myself at some point but then when I finally met a guy that I became close friends with and developed sexual feelings for it was like "ohhhh THIS is what people are talking about" It's cool to meet others with similar experiences cuz then you don't feel so crazy

[@JermaineAuNatural]

I have friends and the stories are CRAZY along with the people to match😹😂 it’s good to see growth and that you recognize and acknowledge red flags and treat them accordingly. Keep your wits in these dating streets🤣😂

[@snookiewhip]

My first tinder date we went to a beer garden and I didn’t eat and I projectile vomited all over this mans apartment and my friend had to pick me up. But he still hits me up tho 🤷🏾‍♀️.

[@omnidiscord]

Please! We need the stories!! WE NEED THEM!

[@TheCinnamondemon]

that pun aboiut the dating app! im in awe

[@cynthiag.5048]

making friends first is key for dating

[@valerievaughn6312]

I really think you should be on Broadway somewhere doing the skit because you just have that Talent

[@lilyraimey3499]

“I envy asexuals.” AYYYYYE! *happily takes bite of cake, alone* 🤍💜🖤 (Also, props to you for even knowing what that is)

[@tairinuchiha2719]

I am mad that I straightened my hair cause I can't fix my hair like yours! It's cute! And then you took off the headband lolll. Still cute.

[@wshiwa]

AYE ASEXUAL GANG ♠️

[@feliciajones6462]

Love your energy never change

[@craftwithgift7948]

I love the part where you said "it's my design"!! Felt proud for you girl!

[@onthelocjourney09]

"First of all I'm a KZbinr -- I don't leave my house" 😂 I'm glad you feel that you have a sense of clarity and discernment after taking the time to get to know yourself! Wishing you all the best despite the trashy dating scene.

[@natashagoba7190]

I've watched so many of your videos but the last 3 mins of this one made me subscribe .. Thank you 😇

[@julisa3100]

look at youuuu all out there like a lil cocoa marshmellow dango. Those outfits in the thumb was on poinT.

[@GregarGames]

im literally star puppy if i had to do online dating. thank god im still in a relationship because this sounds like a lot of stress for no reason. I wish you the best of luck girl though whether you stay on the online dating path or not lol.

[@Darksphere101]

Aww good for you Danielle. Keep up the excellent work. I haven't had a whole lot of luck either.