I used to be in my Masculine Energy

[@mufasahm8238]

As a Muslim Woman. I love listening to you. You speak so clearly, so honest, straight to the point, not waffling & good humour. Thank you for sharing your attachment style, sharing a bit about your husband and sharing a lot about you. You're a breath of fresh air :)

[@MsUnknown007]

Why did u put „as a muslim Woman“ before ur sentence….?

[@kaliuchie315]

@@MsUnknown007lol 😂

[@mehwishnaeem1874]

@@MsUnknown007hey another Muslim Woman here, I believe she put it there because the limits and beliefs imposed on us growing up from a religious point of view is a lot to deal with (not that it’s right it’s a cultural thing that comes with being a Muslim woman) and listening to her kind of let us to break free from these unseen chains

[@MelissaRAZAF]

A podcast would be a masterclass 😭 you such have the voice and the wisdom for!!! Thank you for sharing this, can’t stop learning from you ❤️

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

Wow, thank you!

[@neomalefahlo4843]

All hits no misses

[@campanitavideos]

@@Margarita.Nazarenko no podcasts. Everyone is doing that. Videos are more personal cause is like talking to you. ]

[@holistichabits]

I absolutely love your videos Margarita. You are just so straight forward and have a very calming energy. I could listen to you talk for hours! 💓

[@Loupoonug23]

We should be both masculine and feminine depending on situations.

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

100%

[@cove_mallak]

I’m 17 (today’s my bday) & I just watched your anxious attachment style & how to become secure video & I’m definitely buying those books you mentioned but I just wanted to say thank you for making that video. The addiction I have to certain people is insane & gets in the way of my life & my focus so I just really appreciate you very much you’ve helped me already to understand myself more which in turn will help me change it. Hopefully I can do my research & actually truly change 🤞🏽💪🏼

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

Happy birthday!!

[@TheeStarQueenDrea]

I am mortified at the fact that in my pain in the past I would yell at my children regularly 😩 and I thought it was normal and ok even 😭 I am soo grateful for your videos because they are super healing for me and they keep me detached and that has helped my interactions with everyone so much better and beautiful/healing even! Thank you Thank youuuu sis! 🥰🫶🏾🌟👑

[@tiblanes]

On the question of platonic male-female friendships, especially when one or both are already in a committed relationship, do some research on emotional infidelity. I’m glad I did.

[@dancing0nthe3dge]

Hey me too! I immigrated to the United States with my parents when I was 4 years old, they were both in their masculine energy my entire life. Of course none of us spoke the language. I grew up watching my mother run herself to the Bone doing all of the things all of the time. My father? The only thing he did was go to work eat and fall asleep on the couch after a couple of drinks. And when he did parent, it was with fear and yelling and abuse. I have even developed cptsd and two other anxiety disorders, officially diagnosed last year, as a result of my childhood. When I met my husband I knew that I could be in my feminine energy. I've been a sahm for the last 5 years. It's been a dream, mostly aside from having to be in trauma recovery therapy. Watching this video gave me hope because I've only been doing it for a little over a year and I have an anxious attachment style and my husband hasn't avoident attachment style. I only hope that I will have a positive outcome as I move towards the secure attachment style.

[@TinapayGamer]

I believe a man and a woman can have a platonic friendship if they have been friends for a long time and have surpassed the attraction phase already.

[@n0426]

You can’t really trust them though. Maybe long distance or in a work place. Because they are always the one’s trying to sneak at night. When no one is around and the party is over. You just read it in their tone. Seriously they have their low points and they want that female friend who will gladly take the wifey duty without getting paid. What i call male friend’s are only my uncles and siblings.

[@anonymousnation5235]

All suppressed things come to surface when the opportunity arises.

[@n0426]

@@anonymousnation5235 it’s a matter of having personal boundaries. Some of these men are narcissists who don’t even love or respect themselves. Staying safe is your personal responsibility.

[@danitaaaas]

All my men friends are from my high school and university days.

[@beautifulinfinity]

@@n0426you’re right. One such “friend” i had known and trusted for over 4 years, assaulted me last year while i wasn’t conscious. Can’t trust a “male friend” ever again

[@JennyPlunkett]

Recently found your channel, and it really really resonates with me right now. You speak the truth, it's difficult to hear, but it's necessary to level up. Thank you!!

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

I appreciate that

[@mariaelenabartesaghi6322]

I am awed at how charismatic you are!

[@Diana-kt5gc]

I love to hear your personality is a cultivated thing... wow this is inspiring

[@anonymousnation5235]

It's like listening my life story from someone else. I'm so glad other people understand the problem I've been facing. It's very relieving to know that I'm not alone. Bless you Margarita ❤

[@destinyflowers3651]

You are just so beautiful ❤️ I just love how speak and articulate yourself and your mannerisms. Your videos are very informative and entertaining. Keep it up🙌🏾

[@Zfaith_fitness_detox]

Unreal how many people are so judgmental with these questions! Assuming so much… And you don’t skip a beat. Classy!

[@nalutaayaracheal9544]

New here from a 3years old video but stayed for deep rooted wisdom.

[@eveheart2876]

You keep ur POV real and respectful

[@NG-fb1ul]

Thank you for being real and not fru fru like some of these women I see online(who seem to never have had masculine energy) teach us to not be in the masculine.

[@fineartlifestyling]

You have charisma and character when coupled with your Scarlet Johansen looks it’s da bomb!!!

[@jasminebaby3375]

You are amazing and I love how you answered some of the troll’s questions. People can be so judgmental.

[@katie98711]

The only issue I have with "no male-female friendships" is that it kind of makes bisexual people unable to have adult friendships. If my partner would not be comfortable with having new male friend John from work he also wouldnt be comfortable with having new Jenna friend since I am not straight. But It is my interpretation and I value your takes and what you say really helps me grow, just wanted to share.

[@shelly6176]

Thank you for your honesty, I think you are a strong independent woman. I admire you. Thank you for your wisdom ❤

[@miagalore]

Adverts are really ruining You Tube these days. However, really great video, thanks ❤

[@kimlou82]

This could actually be me talking here ... Even my 25 year long relationship (which is what led me to this lady) sounds the same ! Thanks for the great content , you have definitely helped me 😌

[@estebanmaldonado1395]

You are a woman with great personality, everybody respect that. Congratulations

[@juliafath464]

I love your videos so much they help me out a lot especially since my childhood is so similar, I grew up with my immigrant mother and my sister with no males nor did I attempt to develop any male relationships. I was wondering if you could do a video on this subject. I struggle to keep information boundaries with males or sometimes I think I lead on too much even though I am not looking for a relationship. I’m very interested in what you have to say and how you overcame this obstacle. Thank you so much💗

[@maynardfrench5418]

Hi Margarita, I watched several of your videos just now and I love how smart you are. I wouldn't say that you were masculine, rather you are a strong feminine, big difference. Masculine and feminine complement each other. You could easily handle being with a strong masculine, no problem. It would come easy to you, while other women would struggle with that. You don't need to change anything. Your perfect counterpart is a strong masculine, that is your blueprint. That is who you are. You did not develop into your masculine because of the roles your mom and grandma stepped into while you were growing up, so there is no need to shed any masculinity here. It's not that complicated. I know very hardworking women who are extremely feminine. Just know that you are very precious the way you truly are.

[@busyrob]

As a man, I have platonic female friends, but they're all women I have zero sexual attraction towards. I couldn't remain just friends with someone I'm attracted to.

[@Gedankenful]

Dear Margarita, I relate to so much of what you say, your story. With having no relationship with my dad, to being raised by a very strong Mom, having no men around, being in my masculine and being anxious. Gosh..I am currently in an 8 yr old relationshio, which is not serving me..and has turned me into someone I no longer like. Needy, depressed and anxious. My partner grew up in a very cold family and I think he is avoidant/disorg. or a covert narc. Never expresses himself, is very emotionally and physically distant. What do you think I should do? I was thinking of taking a break..or couples therapy. Now he moved to another country..n im so sad and confused about this. Sorry for the essay..but well here I am..in a foreign land..n lost. Thanks for being awesome.

[@steffanyolarte53]

How were you able to leave your masculine energy into your feminine? I’m starting this journey, but I don't know where to start. I grew up without a dad too. I have been in my masculine energy my whole life-Idk where to start.

[@galacticsoul2726]

I do think it’s possible to be friends with men, and I totally agree that sometimes men are more likely to have other ideas in mind. I think it’s hard, but real friendship regardless of gender is possible. I agree social groups, family friends, long time friends it’s easier.

[@n0426]

One on one friendship with a man will be a pain for you. It’s only best if it’s in a public setting. I don’t even interact with my narcissist father and uncle anymore. Unless it’s in a family setting. Some men are just an unnecessary pain that you can do good without.

[@khierraparker98]

You’re a Queen, Margarita!

[@KatyaVasilivna]

I am loving your content! I hope to speak to you day one on one because we come from similar culture and background. Thank you for being a positive influence :)

[@Kristen0197]

Thank you for speaking your truth! ❣

[@nemethgloria3497]

Thank you so much for answering my question!❤️

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

No problem!!

[@IMiksone]

Love your videos! Started keto diet getting inspired by them :)

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

That is awesome!

[@MrLorenzomarco]

Please please do a podcast you are incredible xxx

[@annabee148]

You're Gorg and Ty for your content it's already helped a lot

[@natalia_00123]

My assumption about you: you're the long lost sibling of Scarlett Johansson 😂

[@baileytyler5006]

love learning about getting into your feminine energy! Love these types of videos

[@thehawttomboy]

It's me again. I love your content. Everyday.. xoxoxo -Alexandra

[@jro7243]

You are simply the best!! 🙂

[@Danaclerici]

Just discovered your channel and I absolutely love it 💗

[@abigailhayes7910]

Podcast!! Yes pls

[@ajohonly3721]

I’m so new as of today but! I’m ready let’s go.

[@clarisegerst6031]

Please do a podcast !!! Hi from NYC

[@ms.wealthyy]

I love your videos ❤ I see you as my mentor and big sister

[@oddballchic]

Self manufacturing, pretty rad.

[@Dailypharmaceutics]

Can you please make more videos about how to get into feminine energy 🙏🏻

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

I will x

[@devincristopher3]

good evening Margarita🌞

[@bettyfreddy8377]

I cannot cry. Too many antidepressants???? OMG , my dad died when I was 4. Yeah, I can relate. Thats nice you jave changed duting uour relationship

[@annam.4184]

Great stuff, thank you!

[@hazelivory69]

What did I do to work on your masculine …. I am currently in that state of mind and being aware and not knowing what to do next is a struggle.

[@raincity5004]

Stay in your masculine energy I would’ve liked to know you with that kind of energy really your cooler that way to me😊

[@EvaLara-yu5tq]

I used to think guys and women can be platonic friends until my ex had a female friend (from work) … well I found messages of them going on full on dates and saying I love you. Apparently he loves her, just not attracted to her, just going to lunch and dinner together behind my back.

[@user_user123]

hey Margarita thank you for your great videos! Can you please give me an advice. I talk to a guy and he did something toxic, he laughed at my web site code I made, he said it's not very good. But I know that it's good he just didn't want to admit it. Should I give him a chance and continue talking to him? Or I should find someone better?

[@rouib]

Girl leave there are better men out there for you. Do not give him a chance, especially a man who can’t praise your successes!

[@user_user123]

@@rouib thank you sister

[@luvzouk4life7]

💕✨️Love your channel + energy ✨️ 💕

[@ruchisharma255]

When men see a high value woman, they straight up label them as gold digger. Because presence of such women is threatening to them

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

Yep ❤

[@etcwhatever]

Ive got called that...they have no clue i have a well paid job. 🤷‍♀️ insecure men...run

[@ruchisharma255]

@@etcwhatever haha that's y you threaten them. They hv sure clue that they can not get you because you have high standards. So they decide to lable you gold digger so that they can feel better about the fact that you would never choose a man like them

[@Dawn2Dusk23]

Men are never threatened by women. They are repulsed by women with certain masculine traits. A high value woman to them is NOT a woman who makes a bunch of money.

[@mrandmrsbeauty]

You are amazing!

[@beauli5011]

do you have the video on how you stopped yelling? that's a big problem of mine. I often don't feel heard otherwise

[@natalia_00123]

What I often observe from male-female close friendships (especially when both or one is straight) is that one of them is interested romantically but it's not reciprocated.

[@sihlesihle6838]

Soo true & one has hope that one day

[@HristinaSlavova-lt1iy]

In the last minutes you are talking about cultivating your personality.. I recognize that's something so important, but how do someone consciously and intentionally do that work? How did you? Can you do a video on this topic or do you have already something that hits it?

[@CrownofThornsProductions]

I really liked your videos on attachment. I subscribed. Then as I watched more of your videos, I came to the conclusion that you have core wound by the way some men or man treated you. And I wondered if instead of you have a stronger attachment you just have a more closed heart. Anyways I'm not judge , I wish you all the grace and healing that life can bring.

[@vivveene]

Lately, I have gone straight into masculine energy. I find that I procrastinate less and I am a little more focus. Is it a bad thing to use my masculine energy to get out of survival mood or gain financial freedom or is it not possible to do so?

[@c0cochan3l29]

Good content ma’am

[@ThePrawn25]

Margarita you look so much like Scarlett Johansson.😍🤩

[@annabee148]

You're so beautiful and graceful and naturally Gorg

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

Thank you so much!!

[@miriambator-strzelecka100]

i wonder how can i bring up my 6 years old boy to not make him more in feminine energy, while his father isnt in touch. do you have any thoughts?

[@merrytheresia7089]

How communicate if you have an anxious attachment to your partner? Is it OK to explain it in an early stage of a relationship? Or better wait? Thank you for your video

[@priscilladasilva7832]

I struggle with being in my head and not spending enough time playing and sitting with my kids. I've been a stay at home mom for 12 years now, Mt youngest is 5. Do you think it's too late for me to stop and slow down and give them that part? Do you think the damage has been done?

[@AugustusOmega]

You should use 2 or 3 cameras, I noticed in other videos you're playing with the editing with rapid zooms, do slow zooms to break up a static frame and use some rapid zooms sparingly, but this kind of content could benefit from profile shots and possibly add some B roll in places just to spice it up, thats if you could be bothered, the talk is all people come for, the straight sense and of course you are captivating. The extra effort may be a fun diversion but in the end you have intrinsic value in your conversation and thats all thats really needed. Keep going, you are right over the mark.

[@fineartlifestyling]

Hell yes 🙌 when Soviet women were forced into their masculine energy the consequences are deplorably huge!

[@us5771]

i could listen to you to sleep

[@myriam221]

Thanks for these videos !! Did you ever take the MBTI test?

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

Yes I have

[@myriam221]

@@Margarita.Nazarenko i can only see you as entp or entj for some reason. Are you ??

[@elizabethanne8729]

I’m not even two minutes and I’m already silently clapping this morning. 🙌🏻🤌🏻 So I used to never cry. I thought it was stoicism but it’s not because those two things do not necessarily correlate. And when I started doing the work on myself I found that I actually cry more than ever and I only cried in front of my husband too. So you’re not alone. He is the only person I’ve ever cried in front of except for my parents growing up. I think it’s a marker of feeling safe with somebody and being able to be your authentic self without fear of censure or mockery.

[@georgefrazer2231]

Childhood friendships are correct. Males are always 'looking' for the 'perfect' females. Having no 'father figure' is difficult for women. Having no 'mother figure' is difficult for men. Those 'brought up' in 'one parent' families find it hard to adjust to having a 'normal' family life. We all need good family values and be good 'role models' for our children. May we all be content in who we are and be content in our relationships. Education gives us 'good jobs' but once we have got financial security we must also become part of a community and give back to society. May we also have faith. Money is a tool but that is all that it is. It is a means to an end, not an end in itself. We need 'inner beauty', because this is the only thing that lasts. We all need 'security' but ultimately this world will not give us total security, but we walk forward and keep on believing despite all the 'setbacks' we have in life. Thank you for your videos.

[@MariaRodriguez-le5ty]

Thank you❤how do you advise I raise my daughter not to be in her masculine energy and my son not to be in his feminine too much? I’m a single mom and I want to get this right as much as possible.🙏🏽

[@SpiritualAttitudeSage]

Give them all the love and care they need. Not spoiled= with some boundaries. Trust your gut feeling and detatch! Because often we are too attatched to a possible future for our kids and that screws things up

[@alannamorris-jc6pe]

Are you going to start a podcast?x

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

I am. X

[@alannamorris-jc6pe]

Ekk, can’t wait!! You have helped my relationships so much ,I admire you❤️🙌🏼

[@sarahesen3388]

At around 6.18 in the video, you say your hubby has now become securely attached. How did you get him to know that he needed help too without telling him he needed to fix his attachment style? Ps. LOVE your videos. You are my daily Margarita cocktail that I learn from🍸❤️😘

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

I didn’t tell him. Me being secure eventually lead him to becoming so also.

[@RM-pl5po]

You are lucky you figured all this out while you were still YOUNG enough to attract another man and have kids. I’m 38 and it’s pretty much over. I’m too old to have any more kids and men my age want younger women. I don’t want to settle so I know my options are very limited. 😢 age is EVERYTHING for women

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

My mum met her partner at 45. They adore each other. I hope that you don’t let this opinion limit what you can do. Xx

[@Eg-jd9zt]

This is so not true! I’m 38 and date more now than ever! I have tons of men interested. It’s about your mindset. No issues here at all. I look late 20s and guys love I’m mature and look younger. In fact younger men like me and are too young for me. I’m now dating someone who’s 37 and my ex before him was 35

[@velsanawellnessvlog9367]

I am 39 and Will be 40 in few months, and I have never felt as confident, feminine, and sexy as I do now. I finally completed major healing of childhood traumas and only then could get in touch with my grown-up femininity and sexuality . And this makes me very attractive to many men ! More then when I was in my 20th. So , girl, continue your healing journey, and you will be amazed to see that real feminine don’t have Age ! Even at 80 or 90 we will have our magnetism

[@user-pk5pl7ox1e]

What's both your mbti's?

[@kongspeaks4778]

What exactly IS "masculine energy" to you? I've been trying to understand what you mean as you use the phrase across your videos.

[@underbudget7251]

I just love you

[@annaolleta]

Why don't you give second chances? I mean... WE have all fucked up things ad made things wrong or act wrongly but learn from it right? I mean... sometimes we act wrongly and then we realise it so that we can be better and change. I just wonder... why don't you give second chances? I don't think it is because you don't think people can change obviously, I mean.. you've changed and everyone willing to can also change. I am just curious about your opinion in this topic! Thanks for all the honesty and nice talks!

[@debby4380]

what do I have to do to get a princess treatment from a guy I've been dating for 2 years already? I think it's my fault I don't get the princess treatment cause I was always in my masculine energy, always independent and saying I didn't need a man to buy me stuff or pay for my stuff. Now I've learnt a lot and I want to change that because he's gotten so used to it that he hardly buys me stuff anymore or pay for anything only once in a while. How do I change that?

[@hc7092]

Might take some time but you can say things “I love it when you pay for this”, “I love it when you lead” etc. if it doesn’t change after a few months, he’s not going to change at all and you may need to question compatibility x

[@debby4380]

@@hc7092 Okay wow this helps a lot, will definitely try it and see how it goes.

[@lindsaypeek63]

The above poster is correct, no nagging just you change and flow with what comes up. He might change with you or you will attract a willing masculine partner

[@lishmali]

Omg ily

[@annasur7827]

Your energy is still very masculine.

[@brhsmaa]

how have you been?

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

Happy ❤

[@laurapitcock5414]

Not being in a comfortable place financially creates a lot of stress. I saw my parents always fighting about money and I decided I will be very well financially to not have to deal with this. It puts a lot of strain on a relationship and can cause it to fail. And even though as a woman now we can be financially independent there is still the matter of women not making as much as men and we have way more expenses to just be socially acceptable. So yes, I think wanting a man that is financially stable is very important.

[@anggggggayyyy]

How long did it take for you and your now husband to both shift to a secure attachment? Did he ever find out that you were trying to become black cat? Like was this a conversation?

[@breezytops14]

What is your sun sign?💗

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

Virgo

[@breezytops14]

@@Margarita.Nazarenko my favourites!

[@godsgrace1871]

Lol 😂 i love your energy

[@lilyrose3145]

You have the means why dont you adopt?

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

Adopt who? Sorry confused about context? Xx

[@kyliepopewisdom]

❤❤❤

[@youngcoby7029]

Why is it a big deal when a women becomes a women that’s what puberty is for

[@trafficcontrol2420]

❤️

[@RealTalk-mq2ug]

I am tormented and tortured and haunted and terrorized and raped: deep inside my soul. The grief is unbearable. He left me. Replaced me. My "best friend". The only friend I had. The ultimate betrayal. Complete abandonment. I wake up every morning: breathless and panicked: praying desperately just to die... How the actual fuck could he do this to me? We went from speaking every single day about every damn thing, and now we're strangers! My heart and mind cannot process nor comprehend: how this is even possible!! He replaced me for another. The pain is unbearable. I'm in hell. Hell with no escape...

[@luismartinez-pq3vz]

🌹🦂

[@dianahex6715]

Newsflash , you still very much, are. Being independent is a masculine trait.

[@HandeIcyil]

Super unrelated! 😁 Do you have a Capricorn rising? Or Scorpio placements in your big 3?

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

I don't 😮

[@HandeIcyil]

@@Margarita.Nazarenko I really don’t know,there is something that in your chart I assume.You are very down to earth /analytical and self disciplined or this is how I observed you. 🤓 Maybe some sort of Virgo/Aquarius/Pisces.At least I tried !

[@kristyy2488]

Amazing you can see this. I am Capricorn

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

@@HandeIcyil I am Virgo sun, pisces moon and cancer rising in western astrology. And Leo sun, cancer rising, Aquarius moon in Vedic astrology xxx

[@HandeIcyil]

@@Margarita.Nazarenko Ah,That makes sense. I’m a cancer sun,scorpio moon,capricorn rising in western astrology. This was just my observation out of interests. I like picking up similarities .Thank you for sharing it !