FEMININE ENERGY isn’t always what you think it is

[@jessicamorris452]

I am autistic, and one of the most amazing things in your video is how fluenty and logically you talk, you never shout obnoxiously, you get to the point, but the biggest thing for me is the no music in the background. You have saved me.

[@birdfriday]

Same

[@nateo200]

Same! I'm very high masking and I've read a lot about this stuff already but I absolutely love her presentation style because it is so concise and calming!

[@megmarieeuj]

I am autistic too and I feel the exact same way!

[@JW-mg1sk]

Here I am to join the gang 😊 and say that I also appreciate the “clean” delivery. It’s such a refreshing experience

[@ANU-pz5bx]

Hey sis!How to master an art of conversation?I want a video about this topic

[@XoNycole]

Yes!

[@unbreakingchaos2044]

This one right here! I would love to see a video on this, too! 😊

[@momeeborah9150]

Yes please!!!

[@Zz81flo]

Yes please

[@Gelicaa.2]

Yes please!!!

[@christina8418]

So many videos focus on feminine energy with little recognition of motherhood. I am so appreciative of this video. I feel slightly more empowered and beautiful with your message ❤

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

Yes people don’t want to hear it as much as you can tell by the views on this compared to my other videos. But that won’t stop me making content on it x

[@elocat2511]

What I’ve learned from almost 18 years of motherhood is, being in the present while being the primary caregiver of your child you will get to know one another on a deeper level. As they grow, you witness their personality and individuality take shape. When you respect them as being a unique and separate individual they will in return have a great amount of love and respect for you! So it definitely pays off! I started out as a young mother with very dysfunctional parents so it was not easy for me to know how to do motherhood. I continue to learn what my children need from me through healing my own childhood wounds.

[@herownmagic]

"Sometimes the role of womanhood that is given upon you is hard, arduous, and must be walked through like the metaphoric fire in order to scold you and mold you into the phoenix you are going to rise out to be." omg. this is exactly what I needed to hear. So good

[@belleccino]

Is happening to me 😢

[@herownmagic]

@@belleccino I understand! I’m just coming out of the flames I feel like. It’s been so hard!

[@Tatiguz]

This is amazing! To all christian queens looking at this comment....During evening prayer yesterday and morning prayer this morning I felt the Lord wanted to heal me from parental anxiety. I have been struggling with being exactly what Margarita is talking about right now. I finished morning prayer and I picked up my phone to put on some music while I make breakfast but instead, I found this!!! God wants to give me the grace. Hallelujah!

[@Kateyjean]

Love this comment :)

[@fembot521]

Feminine energy is about love, radiating love. This keeps me light. Would love to see a video on self soothing and what that looks like or ideas! Thank you ☺️

[@susieare]

As a mother of three little boys I think you are 100000% spot on. Your best yet. Its taken me a long time to get to grips with being present in the moment, having that ability to just pay attention and the skill of being flexible in how you approach all sorts of situations. Bit it feels great. I feel settled and powerful. And I know I still have an infinite amount of development to go through. I went from putting my child in nursery 40 hours a week so I could work, to home educating mother of three 😂 I think us women have been lied to so so terribly about motherhood. We're so scared of it, because we know we ultimately have to surrender to it. But its so worth it.

[@nitirakhra3202]

Margarita! Babe. You were handmade to guide women with masculine energy. To find something so thoroughly researched and aimed directly at the issue, is impossible! And here you are. Spelling it out for women who are struggling in their masculine. My life’s going to turn around. And I have you to give credit for. Thank you! For doing this. For starting this channel. For your course. God bless you and everything you stand for. You single handedly are changing many women’s life.

[@saggie5261]

Great advise. My kids are now 17 & 20. They are both happy well adjusted young adults. A piece of advise I have is apologise to your kids if it’s required. Sometimes we are going to get unnecessarily angry or upset because we are tired or whatever reason. Also ask the kids for the truth and tell them they won’t get into trouble if they tell the truth. We will work through it together. And do as I do, not as I say. My son was naturally inclined to tell lies when he was really little, but we fixed that by taking the opposite approach to most partnering I have witnessed. It’s a very rewarding time of our lives. Wishing you all well who are at the start of this journey ❤️

[@Loti10198]

Single mother here, I love your perspective on women saying they are “just a mom.” There is more to being a mom and motherhood, it is also one of the most greatest responsibilities of being a woman if you are raising children. Love this video, and finding the balance between the masculine and allowing flow from the feminine side is key to being a single mom for me.

[@ValeriaRios-z4l]

I have been struggling with feeling like I’m not doing anything with my life besides being a sahm/wife and this completely shifted my perspective ❤ I had a single mom growing up so I am blessed to be able to be for my daughter what I needed as a child❤️

[@vladaieva]

Hi Margarita. Your story is so relatable to me. I came to America at 11 and also was raised by a single “glamorous” mom living in the 90s. Everything you have said about mother hood is on point. I am also in my 30s, a young widow, with a 7 year old girl. I am proud to be a mom and I am also thankful for the experience, as nothing will make you grow up like taking care of a baby. Those were my hardest moments. Thank you for your channel. -Vlada

[@user-hh1ex4fk3s]

I love what you said about single moms in Russia being sensual and sexual. I’m 30 with a 2 year old and just broke up with my fiancé. I really needed to hear this to get back into my milf energy lol. It’s hot girl summer 😜 thanks Margarita! ❤️

[@bustways4618]

I'm 22 and I wanted to thank you because when I'm perceived mums around me (my mom, sisters or previous friends of my siblings who go through parenthood), I was so terrified, because... I was looking all of them and I be like : "Omg, if it's that's seems so exhausting to be a mother, I don't want to be one one day if it means destroying myself." You know what I mean ? Thank you again. I give you all love and joy you deserve in your life. Big hug from France. 🇫🇷❤✨

[@soniamoonchild1379]

You bring such a practical & real take on the discussion around femininity that I haven't seen anywhere else. Thank you for your incredible content! ♥

[@JediBunny]

Wow. This was powerful and I really needed to hear it. Coincidentally it’s the 3-year anniversary of losing my mom. Thank you for sharing this 💞

[@mochipoyo]

Margarita, thank you so much. I'm so blessed to have found you. You are an inspiration - not in the way of "wow i can never be like you" but because of how much you went through, how much heartbreak and hardship you weathered in order to get to this place of wisdom that you now share with us so generously. You are leading by example, it's like having an older sister! Thank you for your honesty. You are so strong and beautiful, and I used to be a bit intimidated by women like you, but I can sense kinship and maybe that is a part of my own growth too.

[@scarletlea5748]

Thank you very much for this, it’s great advice for many, even me that hasn’t had children. I’ve just gone through menopause and have been trying to regain my feminine energy and remind myself I’m still attractive and worthy of love and happiness. I know this might be a bit random to you however it has helped me ❤

[@esj1315]

I soo wish I’d have found this info when my kids were 5 and under. You’re so right my girls are 7 and 9 now and it is easier ow than it was. It’s still a challenge but I don’t have that feeling of morning the death of my previous life as much. I would love a similar video for staying on your feminine flow with a husband with a demanding career. I have a very full life myself but it can still seem so one sided on affection and attention which makes leaning back and filling your own cup forever seem hard and lonely.

[@hawaaaa]

I hope you’re doing okay Margarita. Thank you for this video🤍🤍🤍

[@mimi.k6270]

What a deep subtle subject.. what a beautiful message.. Excellent channel. excellent content.

[@hayaf6079]

Thank you for captioning the video! So thoughtful of you ❤

[@hema2942]

The way you talk is mesmerising and so to the point thank you ❤

[@liasadventure]

Your relationship/personal growth videos are awesome 🙏😊 Would love to see a video about disorganized attachment style! And if both have it in a relationship how to manage it. The roles always switch from one to the other.

[@Skeijeindi]

I agree with you. I am very strong person too. But we either stay alone because men are scared of us or we end up in a relationship where the man tries to change us big time.

[@feralblueprints]

I'm a first-time mother of a sweet little 3 week old girl and when I tell you this is EXACTLY what I needed to hear 💖 there's a very real grieving process we go through of the old self when we begin to have children, and i completely agree that Western thinking makes that grieving process way harder than it needs to be. Thank you for the reminder of just how beautiful and sensual and important motherhood is. It's something i didn't understand for a long time. I wish i could send this to my younger self. Much love ❤️‍🔥

[@TeaLaRee]

Ty, I'm a full time caregiver to my disabled son. To go from driven in college & at work to now changing diapers, dressing and educating an 11 y.o. . It'slike being in the infant stage but perpetual. To say I am exhausted is an understatement..I thought my motherhood was going to be different. I thought I would do it all. I have struggled with finding the days I feel myself, but I fight for it every day. I know if I don't, I'm impacting everyone else if I don't pour into my own cup. Ty, this video is a lovely reminder of how noble it is to be a mother and pour into our children as a womanly figure is our power. 🩷💕🩷

[@esi22]

You are doing a great job be proud of yourself❤

[@DilCardyn]

This video on redefining feminine energy is a breath of fresh air! It challenges conventional stereotypes and offers a more nuanced perspective on what feminine energy truly encompasses. I appreciate the speaker's insights on how feminine energy goes beyond traditional notions of passivity and submission. It's empowering to see feminine energy portrayed as a force of strength, creativity, and intuition. As a viewer, this video has opened my eyes to the vast possibilities of embracing feminine energy in its authentic form. It's a reminder that both men and women can embody feminine energy and benefit from its nurturing and intuitive qualities.

[@amyli092]

Even as someone who's wanting to be married but not have kids, I find that this really spoke to me... acceptance and being in the flow is very difficult for me sometimes. I'm glad I stumbled across this video in my list of recommendations ❤

[@karizma7010]

Thank you, thank you, thank you. What you are doing is priceless.

[@iheartbellatutu6915]

I have been following you since the first of this year then I stopped bec I met someone and everything’s going good until it’s not… I came back to your TikTok and feel so empowered again. I’ve talked about you on women groups in FB and have developed some virtual friendships and they all thanked me. They have been watching you too and it has helped them get thru relationships. I like your accent bec my sister lives in Aus but I know you’re British. But anyway, thanks for everything that you do for the public. Love from Chicago❤❤❤

[@Hanhetje]

Many thanks for your KZbin channel Margarita! I am learning about feminine energy as I am reinventing myself from the bottom up. Your topics are very helpful. Thanks a lot!!

[@MihadGesey]

Dainty jewelry is very beautiful and flattering... feminine energy is different to maintain with motherhood thanks I needed this video❤

[@deniunique4831]

I never comment on videos but this one I could not avoid. You have to be one of the most intelligent and realist women on KZbin. You also dropped some real gems in your video. Thanks for your content. Keep it coming ❤️ God bless

[@moonchild-thirty-thr33]

You're like me and super picky about your jewelry. It doesn't have to be expensive it just has to have a specific design. Although a lot of the time things that are more unique are handmade and more expensive. I've found a few perfect things on Etsy of all places. 🥰

[@prik4727]

Profound video. I struggled with the same things being an intellectual that became a mother 4 years ago. No one has articulated what I felt until you and now. Thank you ❤

[@riccianncena423]

This is my most favorite video of you. Thank you for empowering women and mothers ✨

[@umchileanywaysso]

Im an indian woman ❤ and i love ur channel. Thank u margarita ❤

[@aseeshera5998]

Think as mothers you just need to remember although your child may be your heart. Don’t make them your identity. Do things for yourself that you did before being a mum. Not all mums but some mums that are housewives or even if they work. Make there child their identity then struggle when that child grows up and wants do there own thing. Some people turn into controlling mums because they’ve basically made their child there life. I think that’s why housewives have stigma too it. Or people boohoo your just mum. By being yourself doing your own thing your also teaching your child to be independent, self care, self ensure .

[@tinalove7860]

Yeah but it's hard especially when ur a single parent with very little help from child's biological father

[@stacygrenado6934]

You talk reality. I like how real you get.

[@dancingonthe3dge]

Hey I self-realized in motherhood too! Although therapy really helped with that too

[@izarawanjiru]

Much Gratitude for this Golden Wisdom ✨️ 💛

[@DaydreamChronicle]

Girl, you made me cry 😭💗

[@HeartsU2]

I really like you. You’re my kind girl. You are very wise for your age. I’m following you :) From mom of 6, wife of 25 years and registered nurse. 💕

[@anacristinamoura881]

You didn't mentioned taking care of the dependent elderly in the family. It's taboo i know, it's not "glamorous" (it's not Instagram or Facebook material, like children), very few do it, but it's been my transformative journey. And all you said about the phenix, the feminine power and the transformative potential of feminine energy is all so true. Being in the moment is the key to accept and appreciate life: its beauty and ugliness, its joy and suffering. Being in the moment takes patience and love, and in some cases is a skill or talent, a potential inside us. It's a pleasure to listen to intelligent people that know what they are talking about👍 thank you for your work!

[@user-bz2pt6lo6l]

Please can you do a video on how to have a more playful and lighthearted mindset without coming across obnoxious or dumb. I cannot for the life of me, be playful around men because I feel that they are gonna take advantage of me😢. Love you and your content ❤

[@Wahmen]

This video resonated with me so deeply, thank you for this.

[@Karinka1108]

Very well out together, pleasure listening to you

[@rachelspohn]

Please make more videos!!! I love this content so much and it’s making a huge difference in my life. ❤

[@user-pk5pl7ox1e]

I LOVE this gal talk!

[@moonchild-thirty-thr33]

My partner made me feel like I was "just a mom." He acted like I was never enough no matter how much I did. I know now if I were to have another child that my partner must recognize my contribution and worth.

[@moonchild-thirty-thr33]

Also feeling in my feminine power did not exist either. I didn't have the energy because I was being criticised about something I messed up.

[@user-pk5pl7ox1e]

Maybe get him to babysit whilst you go out with the girls. Then he'll realise

[@krystalgardiner5591]

@@moonchild-thirty-thr33 I had the same problem.. I was so looking forward to being a mother again (a new partner) but I was put on bed rest and he started resenting me. Actual threats of cheating on me.. and then when my son was born I was constantly criticized for everything. Nothing I ever did was good enough or right, and being a mom wasn’t enough for him. He wanted me to be a power couple.. it killed my self esteem and I literally withered away to nothing. Completely lost myself. I don’t have advice, just wanted to say your not alone.

[@Dawn2Dusk23]

Perhaps you did not communicate the way you wanted to be appreciated. Men are not mind readers. I'm sorry you felt that way, but try looking back without the victim filter. I am not trying to be mean. Just trying to encourage self awareness.

[@moonchild-thirty-thr33]

​@@Dawn2Dusk23 Actually, I was a victim of emotional abuse. I will not be denied of my reality of my own experience. Admitting it has helped me to heal. It would have made no difference to him to communicate that because abusers do not care about appreciating others. Saying "Not saying it in a mean way," is the same as saying "no offense but" and go on to say something offensive. Concentrate on your own awareness.

[@tasniaenamepsa2786]

Please,post more video on this feminine energy topic..I really love your videos.. Want to learn more about this

[@marianamartinez4106]

To the end of your video, you choose happy however I challenge my self to redefine what happiness is for me, coming from my experience my happiness is seeing my kids happy it means my needs are not fulfilled at the moment in conjunction my kids are far more important than my needs I hope this sacrifice pays off in the life after next.

[@transitionsnc]

Good video. I feel like a lot of women let themselves go in early motherhood. It's a challenging time in a woman's life.

[@natalyaoshitok8938]

This is vital! God! I needed this so bad! Thank you!

[@amberkillion]

I absolutely love your perspectives + look forward to your videos! Would love to know if you have any book recommendations or things that have shaped your mindset 🤍

[@soulfilledbeauty]

Any chance you can do a video for the solo moms and how to operate in their feminine energy when needing to do both roles in the household??

[@CM-B23]

My children are already 12 and 9. Their birth to now went by in the blink of an eye. Try and take it all in enjoy the cuddles and love . One day there will be a last time they need you to brush their hair, give them a bath , wash their hair , help them get dressed , colour in with them , sing to them…one day they’ll be super independent and doing it all for themselves

[@annabee148]

I love your content it's so uplifting. I'm not a mum (yet -hopefully one day)

[@InesMezghanni]

To be a mum is a hard job that's why in Islam women aren't obligated to work outside and her man who is her husband is the one who stand for her financially And i m very thankful to Allah now that he give us those orders to organize our life Because being a single mom is not easy AT ALL To raise her children and provide them food and house ,to play the role of dad and mum is such a big hardship Sex is allowed only after marriage in Islam I m not saying that there isn't a woman became a single mom after her husband died but the number of single mom without mariage are -of course- more I am a woman and being a mom is hard let alone to be mom and dad in the same time.women are the only victim in this situation ❤️

[@JHW44]

Wow, thank you for this video 😊 I have always felt the same way about motherhood.

[@ginamontelongo5958]

You go girl🦋my youngest is my daughter 26❤

[@donolivia7501]

Love this I’ v had to watch it again!

[@wonder7798]

Remembering how to play, pretending, so important.

[@theParadoxgirl]

I really enjoy your videos. I wish I would have found the. Before my divorce. But keep it up. ❤️thank you

[@aletor193]

If you believe is not easy, it won't The women who enjoy to care, loves motherhood .

[@lifelessons4609]

So true! Thank you for that reminder

[@emmawatts2290]

Do you have any videos or blogs for us to learn not to be anxiously or avoidantly attached to your children? Thanks for your videos. Really interesting.

[@elizabethsmith8204]

The personal flight to come slap me SENT me

[@julie15957]

Well I fu×$in% needed this. Thank you. On repeat.

[@Moonstonee212]

2:06 2:25 2:44 5:49

[@thefox8915]

Absolutely awesome thank you❤❤❤

[@ajohonly3721]

🖤 watching you while trying to put my little one to bed . Greetings from Europe.

[@fempirethings]

GREAT VIDEO!!!! love it

[@choosnau]

My child is almost 3 and I'm going insane 😭😭😭😭

[@melanieluft4955]

Can you make a video about how to be in my feminine energy while dealing with narcissist/abusive in laws?

[@lamamma1307]

Thank you for this beautiful message. As women we are privileged to have the burden of reproduction. The more women support women in this noble calling the better our world will be for all humans ☮️ ❤😊

[@mikayackov8145]

Omg yes!!!!! Now just find me that man you talked about 😅

[@RumiRose12]

Very wise ❤

[@mikepiccolo32]

Holy smokes

[@99Psyc]

Is that Leo's pillow behind you?? lmaoo

[@mikepiccolo32]

Is Aerosmith on your play list Margerita?

[@marykurtzner]

Love to hear about how to be sexy, confident and let men down gently who assume interest when we are just being ourselves?

[@Lotumaupe]

🙏🏾❤️

[@mikepiccolo32]

Aerosmith is doing a final tour Are you going?

[@krasav_chick]

Love everything you've said but mum buns should be illegal 😂

[@matilda4406]

What's your personality type ?

[@matilda4406]

@@user-pk5pl7ox1e yeah, you can do the test to find out, learn a lot about yourself

[@matilda4406]

@@user-pk5pl7ox1e you said you would love to know, do the test and find out

[@matilda4406]

@@user-pk5pl7ox1e ISFP type ?

[@heyu123]

You’re so eloquent I’m so glad I found u on IG. A friend of mine follows u and I was suggested ur account ❤

[@bibi_fania]

1:54 " una de laa diferencia por la cual alguien de 35 se ve mas vieja que la otra.. osea la razon de su apariencia sea diferente es su PERSPECTIVA DE LA VIDA

[@tiffytoes011]

What about women who cannot have children? I had cancer and that choice was biologically taken from me. Now I’m almost 41 with no children and single

[@dancingonthe3dge]

What do you think about the channel just pearly things? She seems to preach for women to be in their feminine.. but actually hasn't achieved it and is like giving advice about it.

[@Tarotwithmandy]

❤

[@SkyeKity]

7:07

[@emilyglendenning5515]

I can’t find the link for the jewellery, please help

[@CHANDNII1111]

See descriotion

[@matilda4406]

I think mothers need to be both happy and good. I think you can't have one without the other.

[@isis_thakouni]

$10,000,000 In'-ari tha kou'-ni Ab'ba Thy'-a'-tira .

[@jessicali8594]

If you have two brain cells to rub together, you know that in August '23 it's time to accumulate gold. Learn from Asian women who have always done so.

[@btwthblood]

You are a darling.

[@LarryMadwick]

😇❤️ are you listening too yourself ,you go nuts when you are at home working yourself and me too death … ❤️😇