I Was Abandoned At Birth & Left In A Van, So I Did Ancestry DNA ‼️ Shocking Results ‼️

[@d.shannon261]

I just did 23andme. Nobody on my mystery father's side will talk to me. Nobody trusts me. It's disappointing. I'm taking a step back. At least I know my ethnicity now. It explains a lot. I'm 57 and will probably never know more because of suspicious cultures.

[@ToraisaJ]

Thank you for watching my video. I pray you get more answers. Sending you love ❤️

[@gusmonster59]

It may be disappointing, but you also have to see things from their side - you basically came out of no where to them. The same thing happened to my uncle a long time back. He found where his father's family originally came from (another country) and when he went to visit, they avoided him. He found out later, a relative had died. He showed up right at that time and it was thought he was just another relative showing up to get money. You can go onto Ancestry and see if there is public tree so you can at least trace your father's side back further.

[@Dimensionalalteration]

That's heartbreaking. They're AHs

[@ninibaby7496]

Don’t give up! I did this in 2015 and didn’t get close relatives until 2019! It was so disappointing and hard. I was able to find my father with no clues except he had sex with my mom in 1982! Upon meeting him I was able to assist a DNA cousin locate his mother through my father’s DNA. The older generation tend to be skeptical with this new technology but in time some younger relatives will be curious! The holidays and new year is when most surpluses of DNA results happen. Just stay encouraged, you don’t need to frequent the site but keep some faith the right person will connect to you! I’m sending you the loving vibes with encouragement I needed. ❤ 🤗 ❤

[@ColorJoyLynnH]

I see you. I am so sorry.

[@usagators2506]

Hey Toraisa! I'm Chris Weaver and I just found out yesterday that you are my first cousin born just 2 months before me. I have been doing all in my power to reach out to you. I would love to finally get to meet you and your family.

[@tiffanyb.9551]

Have you met yet?

[@ebenezerkittoe9115]

Wow, hope you have met her.

[@FaeForest999]

Have y’all met yet?

[@CelestialPopCollectiveOfficial]

If this connection was on an ancestry site then she would have gotten the same match. If she didn’t, then this message is BS.

[@Applecider-Poetry]

the Chris Weaver channel has no content.

[@bluebonbon22]

I found your story exactly when I needed to hear what you had to say. Thank you for sharing. Im 74 and my 1/2 brother is soon to be 80, we just found each other after all this time through Ancestry DNA. I had found my birth mom and her side of the family. I visited, and while I never had a deep connection, at least I knew. But she told me she had also given up my older brother, as she had me and asked me to continue the search. I did but I didn't know his correct legal name after he was adopted. We are going to meet this next week near San Diego, CA.

[@ToraisaJ]

What a blessing!!! I am praying that all goes well and your questions you have are answered. Stay encouraged ❤️

[@lusimyer]

What a lovely.story at the end.

[@mslafay7]

People keep telling me to let the past be the past, but just like you, I want to know. I grew up in fostee care. I identified my biological mother through AncestryDNA in 2017. I still have no clue who my dad is/was, but I've been embraced by all of my dna matchs on his side. Knowing the truth is a game changer in so many way. Im glad you got to know, meet and experience your biological family. You are loved and blessed. Tragedies make us stronger individuals. God bless !!! ❤

[@adrienjohnson591]

It is your right! You have the right to know.

[@Choc_Blanco]

Your adoptive family knows more than what they telling you Love!

[@intentionalparenting2605]

That’s what it sounds like. But not always the case. It’s easy to make assumptions from the outside looking in.

[@ToraisaJ]

@@Choc_Blanco I thought they did… but they actually didn’t. Catch up on what happened. My Story 😭 Left In A Van kzbin.info/aero/PLI96JDI9PysVcy1YSJWfSHuey85gJ56EQ

[@MonaeMalome-dq6ru]

❤ I have witnessed a lot of rape babies by grown men giving up for adoption in the 1966- 1980s . These men did this to hurt families..I had this done to me as an orphaned CHILD I choose to keep my daughters and sons.. I lost my oldest 2 sons. But most importantly, I lost the first love of my life. Who couldn't speak English. THUGS SOLD OUR CHILD TO ASIAN THUGS POSSIBLY THE SAME PEOPLE WHO MURDERED MY BROTHER IN LAW..WHO COULD TELL US ABOUT OUR SON❤

[@myrrhsolace5875]

Wow! So it was really just a coincidence? That’s wild. I would have assumed that your adoptive parents were tipped off by your uncle regarding your situation

[@ToraisaJ]

@@myrrhsolace5875 It was as crazy as it sounds.

[@laurelclark4139]

Good luck on your continued search. As my adoptive parents had passed I did a DNA test some years ago to find out my ethnicity- always said I was Heintz 57. Found some close matches but they never got back to me. During the pandemic I was contacted by my now known niece. She put me in touch with her mother & after a long chat on Facebook discovered that her dad was my dad. I’m the middle of 4 half-siblings. My dad had no idea about me but he calls me every day. I just booked my flight to go to his 92nd birthday in January. It was such a blessing to find the family. My birth mother has passed & haven’t found any close relatives on that side. I have friends that findings their birth parents was great but some not. I was always okay not knowing as I was excepted like I was blood with my extended family and was grateful that I had been adopted. So glad that lady found you!

[@ToraisaJ]

@@laurelclark4139 What a blessing you found your father. I am glad you have a relationship with him. It’s a blessing being adopted and loved ❤️

[@mammamia8882]

By what you stated in your ancestry, I’m pretty sure that we’re cousins too, it’s crazy isn’t it.

[@vikingwarriorgoddess6609]

I am adopted also. 1967 was a closed adoption. I did my Ancestry DNA about 15 or more years ago. Since I had no luck finding people, I wanted to know my ethnicity which turned up good news. Years after knowing my DNA Info, I received an email through the Ancestry website for a close matching blood relative in New Zealand. I'm in the USA. I've since had other 1st level matches, but no one else has info or wants to converse. The older I get, the less likely I am to find parents and siblings. I do keep touch with my only known blood relative in NZ. I hope your searches turn out better for you!

[@ToraisaJ]

@@vikingwarriorgoddess6609 Hugs 🤗 I have learned in life… things happen for a reason. Stay encouraged ❤️

[@vikingwarriorgoddess6609]

@ToraisaJ Thank you, Sweetheart. God is always in the mix, and I have been blessed in this life despite what obstacles develop. I also wish you the best in this journey.

[@sari2020]

​@@vikingwarriorgoddess6609I highly recommend reaching out to a search angel. They will be able to help in doing things like building out a tree for both sides of your DNA, load, DNA on multiple sites for wider/more results to help narrow it down. Even if people aren't willing to talk sometimes the paper trail is enough to at least narrow it down to 1 or 2 options. Apologies if you have already pursued this path. I really do hope you find what you are looking for.

[@knitswithdirt]

Did you not go through the adoption agency and have your records unsealed? I don't know what state you were adopted from but I was adopted in WI. At the age of 21, you are able to have your records unsealed. I have my original birth certificate and they were able to connect me with my birth mother. But THANK GOD FOR ADOPTION. That's all I have to say. lol Back in the day (I was adopted in 71) all adoptions were sealed. But most states have an age that the adoptee is able to unseal their records. You should look into that.

[@vikingwarriorgoddess6609]

@knitswithdirt I'm was adopted in CT in 1967, and records were sealed. My adoptive mother and I tried get the records from the agency and the hospital. No luck. It's ok. I'm sure my parents have passed on. The one relative found by DNA has hunted down my bio father's last name and I am from 1 of 7 brothers. Paternal Family name is Braddock.

[@ButterflyGoddessMoe]

I remember going through the process with my ex helping him find his parents and It helped change him in so many ways. It's a blessing to see you all are related in some way. This is only the beginning, there will be a part 2, and you will find all you seek! Thank you for sharing this part of yourself with us.

[@ToraisaJ]

I just might do a part two because I’m doing more research and putting the pieces together. The truth always comes to the light.

[@rosahacketts1668]

@@ToraisaJ What is hidden in the dark is revealed in the light. DNA has been your light.

[@ToraisaJ]

@@rosahacketts1668 So true! Stay tuned for part 2. Thank you for watching!

[@JenOnDemand]

Omg sis you bought me to tears watching this. You are so courageous and strong and even though your not sure who your birth parents are your still so sweet and pure. That’s just crazy that your uncle is actually blood related! It’s amazing that you got in contact with the person that wrote the article and the woman that found you 😢 whew ! That’s awesome that your in contact with your blood related cousins. Families can be sooo huge so it may take sometime to find out who your birth parents are but I think with you putting this video out will help with that process as well. You should definitely do a part 2. I pray that God keeps you strong and know that you are loved no less, everything happens for a reason. You created your own beautiful family and you are blessed friend 💜 I’ve never did ancestry DNA but I’m gonna look into it. Thanks for sharing hun

[@ToraisaJ]

😭😭😭😭 I warned everyone to have tissue lol I was shaking when I spoke to her. Everything happens for a reason. God definitely created me for a reason and I hope anyone dealing with a similar situation knows that. I could of gave up on life but I didn’t. I love my little family so much and I thank God everyday. He knew I needed them. Thank you for watching and always being supportive 💕

[@traceyperfitt1231]

Im betting she or a sister are your mumma . Im from ireland and so many babies born out of wedlock were secretly passed to other family members ❤

[@smithface8791]

The uncle might be the birth father.

[@barbaras8562]

Just remember dear, you are never a mistake. You are in God's grace now and always no matter who your parents are

[@ToraisaJ]

Thank you 🥺❤️‍🩹

[@Aimeeprettyfrugal]

Did ancestry DNA confirmed my birth father. He is a broken man and just confirmed why my mom didn’t tell him. I am better off but being able to confirm it for myself and letting my sisters know I am there sister was awesome.

[@diamondscurlspearls9032]

You are so brave for going through with this! Not only that, you’re brave for sharing this with us. ❤️❤️❤️

[@ToraisaJ]

Thank you love and thank you for watching ❤️

[@crediblewitness2u]

The biggest thing I've admired about you since we met is your heart. This is beautiful. Im so proud of the strength you have in not only starting this journey but sharing it with us. Much love to you friend ❤

[@ToraisaJ]

Aww 😊 Thanks Cherelle. I’m a walking testimony. Thank you for watching!

[@CookingWithShamonica]

You look sooo beautiful friend!! You had me in tears..😢 I know this is just the beginning. I’m praying for you! Love you!!😘❣️

[@ToraisaJ]

Thank you love! ❤️❤️ Love you too 😘

[@tarot-karma-online]

Your bio parents gave you good looks, your adopted parents gave you a family, so you had the best. Remember whatever caused your mum to give you up and leave you in a van was traumatising for her and you would have grown up iin a toxic environment if she kept you. Results of your later life might have been completly different. Now you are creative, well spoken, educated. Your angel protected you so to speak.❤❤❤

[@ToraisaJ]

Don’t make me cry 😭 God covered me. I think about how life would have been. Thank you for being so kind.

[@simonesinyan1496]

Wow! I didn’t want to watch when it 1st came out because I am so emotional. I finally watched and I have to say this story is fascinating! It’s like a onion. I trust you will get the answers you seek and deserve! Thank you for sharing your story, I know it is helpful for others.

[@ToraisaJ]

Well my story will make you shed a tear. My goal was to help others and let them know that you have to always try to find the good in tough situations. Many think my life is perfect but it isn’t, I’m just cherish the family I do have. Thank you for watching!

[@ArmoniDash]

So happy you shared your journey with us. You know I love your transparency.. I was a big bag of tears watching this sis.. You are so courageous and I pray god gives you the answers you are searching for..

[@ToraisaJ]

Thank you friend!

[@yoshi240]

Hey my love! Omg I love you so much friend❣️ I cannot possibly imagine all of the emotions you went through when you received your results. You are a strong, beautiful, black woman and I adore you. You are amazing and I admire your resilience 💞🥰

[@ToraisaJ]

Thank you so much Kaleia! It was hard but I hope my story encourages someone to go after answers even if it hurts. Love you too!

[@RottenInDenmarkOrginal]

Bless your heart sweet lady. You are who GOD made you to be. 💜🙏💜🙏 it sounds like there are some family secrets you discovered!

[@ToraisaJ]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@christines5430]

The algorithm pushed this video to my feed in September 2024. I will also watching your updates.

[@ToraisaJ]

Watch my playlist Left in A Van. Thank you for watching ❤️

[@Itsmedarling34]

My Mom and I both did this test as well because she never knew her Father and my Siblings acted like I didn’t belong to our late Father! Results came back that Mom and I are Italian and Black because her Dad was Italian American and I FINALLY had proof that I am indeed their Sister and that closed a lot of mouths! None of my Mom’s siblings or nieces and nephews have responded to us either but at least we know where she came from now ❤

[@Bellamarcella1212]

I’m Italian and lots of us with Sicilian roots have African, Middle Eastern and Greek heritage. Italy is so close to those places so if they think they don’t share those roots they’re crazy! Love hearing your story! ❤️❤️💕

[@debramedina9347]

You are a survivor with the victory. I did ancestry DNA kit in 2018, and I’m virtually meeting cousins I never knew I had, every other week. We’re trying to figure out how we’re related, which of my parents. Interesting!! You will find your answers through DNA matching and communication. Ancestry is so helpful. Thanks for sharing.

[@DeAnnaMonetTV]

WOWW, I'm watching this like a movie. I want to know more about my ancestors as well. I am so happy that you were brave enough to do this. You don't have the full story just yet but the pieces of the puzzle are connecting. I hope there is a Part 2! Wishing you lots of love & light on your continued journey ❤️

[@ToraisaJ]

My life is a movie 😩 Thank you for watching and your sweet words ❤️ I will be doing a part 2 since I have found out more info.

[@ashleyfrancois3268]

I'm so proud of you! You are so brave and strong. Good luck and I'm very excited for you. Ashley.F

[@ToraisaJ]

Thank you Ashley ❤️

[@kieraj2312]

Virtual hugs to you friend.. I know this is something you’ve been in search of since we’ve met years ago.. You are truly blessed and favored.. One day you will get the information you want about your birth mom and dad.. I’m happy and proud you took this route and got some information

[@ToraisaJ]

Thanks friend! You know I really wanted to know. This is a start. Thanks for always being encouraging!

[@favoriteswubby]

Watching this in September 2024. Great video!😊

[@ToraisaJ]

Thank you ☺️

[@SharkyJ40]

Me too! The algorithm loves her story. 😊 Such a beautiful smile. 😁

[@Dime.Society]

@@ToraisaJit must be trending

[@ToraisaJ]

@@SharkyJ40 Thank you 😊

[@ToraisaJ]

@@favoriteswubby Welcome 🤗 My Story 😭 Left In A Van kzbin.info/aero/PLI96JDI9PysVcy1YSJWfSHuey85gJ56EQ

[@cocolyndon4604]

I never knew my father, did a DNA test with Ancestory, a sister reached out to me. She sent pics of my father who is deceased, he'd died months before I was born as he was very much older than my mother (he was the same age as my grandfather), she sent pics of all my siblings (8 children total by 4 different women, me being the youngest), and my grandparents. Me and the surviving 3 talk over the phone but have never met. They tell me about my father and the family. All of my fathers children knew of each other and grew up spending time together, they didn't know about me.

[@ToraisaJ]

@@cocolyndon4604 I am sorry you didn’t get to meet your father. Praying your relationship with your siblings blossoms and you meet one day. Make sure you’re ready when you do.

[@miriamandtwins7747]

You need a special hug ❤💯 you look stunning on that orange dress, everything is gonna be alright

[@ToraisaJ]

Thank you so much. I need lots of hugs 😩

[@berylmorgan8482]

Hello Toraisa I love your name..i fully understand why you are searching for your birth parents..i wish you good luck finding the info you are seeking..

[@ToraisaJ]

Thank you. I found them. Watch my playlist Left In a Van!

[@annajohansson7116]

Hello from Sweden, to the 1% Swedish girl! 🙂

[@ToraisaJ]

@@annajohansson7116 Hi there!

[@tiffanyk.1955]

God bless you💗 Your story is overwhelming but an inspiration at the same time. I can't imagine the strength it must have took to even film this video😢 you look beautiful and you're glowing❤️

[@ToraisaJ]

Thank you for watching! I’m blessed.. despite of .. and always tell myself that. Thank you! I feel pretty 🥰

[@WilmaFistdu65]

Adopted as a baby in 1965. Found my paternal bio family after a DNA test. Was a culture shock for me and none of us are close. I have a half Sister who i dont even want to meet.

[@ToraisaJ]

@@WilmaFistdu65 I hate that.. but sometimes that’s what happens. It’s unfortunate. I hope you’re doing well.

[@WilmaFistdu65]

@@ToraisaJ thank you. I'm well and happy and most of all grateful for the family who raised me.

[@ToraisaJ]

@@WilmaFistdu65 That’s a blessing that you have a family that loves you… so many children that were abandoned don’t. Glad you’re well.

[@WilmaFistdu65]

@@ToraisaJ both my folks have passed. They were war refugees to Australia so no other family here. Thankfully I have my 2 beautiful Daughters and a Granddaughter.

[@ToraisaJ]

@@WilmaFistdu65 I am sorry for your loss. I know your daughters and granddaughter bring you so much joy.

[@dawnerwin2097]

Crazy and so cool to hear you found your family. You are an amazing woman ❤

[@ToraisaJ]

@@dawnerwin2097 Thank you 😊

[@Ccross.1375]

God bless you Toraisa. I’m glad He has made your life so beautiful in spite of your painful beginnings. May He continue to guide you in all areas of your life. ❤❤

[@ToraisaJ]

Thank you ☺️ Hugs!

[@yoshi240]

You look so beautiful!!! I love the fall scene outside. You had my hubby and I about to cry..love you baby cakes 😥💞❤️

[@ToraisaJ]

Thank you 🥰 Fall is my favorite.

[@bettykulinski9814]

33 years old. That's the age the Lord was when he died on the cross. I hope everything goes well for you on this journey. ❤

[@arielsea9087]

I liked your presentation. You are a mature person ready for the answers be what they may. I can respect that and feel sad about your beginning life experience. The thing is you are a happy, loving person. Give it time. By getting your answers you come full circle. I did ancestry but for different reasons. I am from Puerto Rico and found I’m very mixed ethnically. All the best to you and yours.

[@ToraisaJ]

Thank you so much for watching! Being sad all the time won’t help the situation. I have cried enough and have accepted everything I’m finding out. At the end of the day I’m still blessed. I’m glad you were able to do Ancestry DNA. Thank you did the sweet worlds ❤️

[@lyetaherb4703]

Oh my Lord this story is going to be so moving…. I’m with you baby girl…

[@GeorgiaHarbeck]

Keep the faith Toraisa!! You were found - you will get your answers.

[@adriannecote5319]

You were such an adorable baby and you have grown up to be a lovely lady. I am glad you have found a few new connections. So happy your adoptive parents were so wonderful. You were meant to bring them joy. God continue to bless you and your family.

[@ToraisaJ]

@@adriannecote5319 Thank you for your sweet comment 🥰

[@ToraisaJ]

@@adriannecote5319 These comments make me smile 😊 Thank you! God bless you ☺️

[@macpduff2119]

If your adopted mother's brother matched 3300-3500 cm, then he is your bio father. The higher the matching cM's the closer the relationship. I found my half sister, and she was 1500 cm's.

[@terrekent9737]

I’m looking at your comment and it made me think about my aunt whose cm is 1795. It made me wonder if she is really my mom and not aunt. You got me thinking. There is a secret in my family and no one is talking.

[@FOXYCECILIA]

@@terrekent9737 Do some detective work, get something she touched, like a straw, a spoon or drink bottle or gum and send it to a lab for DNA results.

[@terrekent9737]

@@FOXYCECILIA That will be difficult to do because she lives in another state. Wish I knew what I know now when we had a family reunion back in 2018. Never thought about this until rumors started circulating. She is in her 90’s now and I won’t be able to dig.

[@JMoney2886]

​@@terrekent9737 Hi, at 1795. Your aunt is either your aunt or your sister.

[@terrekent9737]

@ Anccestry said, she was my mother, but responded no she is my Aunt.

[@bernadettefriday1953]

You are such a beautiful baby and still a beautiful soul now. Keep seeking and you will see that your true identity is in Christ. ❤

[@ToraisaJ]

Thank you 😊

[@ShirleySingh-w9e]

You are an incredible person! You have handled and are handling this so well! You are a natural on camera and so well spoken. Have you been able to talk to your adoptive uncle or even your family to see what they might know and are possibly hiding.

[@ToraisaJ]

Yes, I have connected the pieces. Watch my playlist kzbin.info/aero/PLI96JDI9PysVcy1YSJWfSHuey85gJ56EQ&si=Dia59L_PBjmPf06h

[@Adlovett83]

Proud of you. Seek the truth.

[@ToraisaJ]

Thank you cuz for watching and always being supportive ❤️

[@happymusicvibez-cleanmusic4523]

Such an heartfelt, selfless video and the way you summed up at the end - expressing your feelings and saying you hope your experiences help others - just beautiful. Also that you are acknowledging & counting your blessings is admirable. Good luck on your journey and God bless 🍀🙏

[@ellenaloney881]

Beautifull lady,it is so important to know our heritage.I know who my father is but he never told us about our grandparents.He was born in Barbadoes seems. Like he is Welsh Irish but the silence of his past is palpable.Thank you for your story.Every life is important and a blessing from the Lord.

[@ToraisaJ]

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@ancupola1994]

Thank you so much for sharing your truly touching story - thank you and thank you again! I admire your upbeat and informative video. May you be blessed.

[@ToraisaJ]

Thank you for watching and your kind words.

[@nataliesirota2611]

Blessings to you and your family! We are an adoptive family and fully support our daughter's journey if she chooses to search.

[@ToraisaJ]

@@nataliesirota2611 Thank you. She will appreciate you for that.

[@GoldenGate-p3s]

God bless you and you’re beautiful inside and out 🙏🏾

[@ToraisaJ]

Thank you!

[@PrissyLilMissy-d2v]

Awwwwwwwwww look at how cute you were 🎀🎀🎀🎀 you're such an inspiration I feel like you are going to inspire a lot of people to do their homework and find their origins.

[@ToraisaJ]

I hope so. This is why I did this video.

[@PrissyLilMissy-d2v]

@@ToraisaJ Most definitely 🫶🫶

[@GregnKatieWeeks]

I'm so happy you have started your research journey. There are many organizations the options to seek additional research help. I'm happy to help in any way I can. 😊

[@GregnKatieWeeks]

Consider uploading your dna data file to other dna sites, GEDMatch is a site most frequently used by others who are in the same situation.

[@GregnKatieWeeks]

Familytreedna, myheritage, livingdna are among others that will let you upload your dna data file.

[@ToraisaJ]

@@GregnKatieWeeks Thank you. Catch up on what happened by watching my playlist. Thank you for your comment.

[@khughes1963]

You are blessed in finding out what you have learned, and also in your husband and family.

[@ToraisaJ]

@@khughes1963 Yes 🙌🏾 Very blessed.

[@Julie-qw5ld]

Best wishes to find your family. You are a lovely and accomplished young lady and anyone would be delighted to have you in their fami!y.

[@ToraisaJ]

@@Julie-qw5ld Thank you 😊

[@Aliciajanaechannel]

I’ve heard of people not wanting to search for their birth parents due to possibly hurting their adoptive parents feelings. Which makes a lot of sense. But, I understand wanting to know where you came from. You want to see how they look and who you resemble your birth mom or dad. So totally makes sense. That’s something how your adoptive moms aunt is really your blood family member!

[@ToraisaJ]

I had to do it for me. Thank you for watching!

[@marciacoleman6198]

It a possibility that the women who found you in the van is your birth mother. It might be a family secret of why it happen. It might be to protect you from what happen and so you can be fully loved. It might be a situation of rape. I’m not speaking this is fact and not to add hurt to your story. God bless your journey!

[@ToraisaJ]

God definitely protected me. I did find my biological mother. Watch my playlist Left In A Van. Thank you for your comment.

[@patriciachona2742]

@@ToraisaJ You did?! Wooow!!! Praise God for that!

[@North_York]

You are so lovely! Proud of you, girl!

[@Parakeetfriend4215]

I'm so sorry. That is criminal to leave a child like that. I'm glad to see that you are well inspite of your trauma. Their loss. It's their loss that they didn't raise you. You got good parents in spite of them.

[@tanyabrown9839]

yep so I suppose her mother really doesn't want to be found as she could go to jail for what she did (if people can be charged that far after the crime of child abandonment. edit, I've just seen she ended up finding her birth parents 2 years ago.

[@ToraisaJ]

Hi Tanya. I did find her. I don’t think she can go to jail. However, I don’t want her in jail. She has to live with what she did every day. Thank you for watching.

[@ToraisaJ]

Thank you hun. Taking it one day at a time.

[@TriumphantTiff]

You are so brave to start and see this process through. I can't imagine all the feelings that come along with this...but I am glad you're able to face this head on and show the way to others. You are blessed, I hope you find all you're seeking. My mom didn't know her dad that raised her wasn't her dad until her biological dad had passed. She found out in time to make it to his funeral and meet her family, but not her father. His children confirmed that he wanted her in his life desperately, but her mom cut contact. She says meeting her siblings helped her understand herself so much better. My mom rarely cries but that's one of the few times I've seen her cry was to talk about that ordeal. I pray for your strength and peace as you continue this path💗💗

[@ToraisaJ]

Thank you for those words Tiff ❤️ Wow! You’re mom is strong. I’m stronger then I know experiencing this.

[@ChalfonteThompson]

Oh wow! 🙏🏾 going up! Thank you for taking us with you on this journey.

[@ayankunleakanbi1650]

So, we can call U Naija gurl! U welcome to the Naija family. The're many Nigerians in the USA and particularly, in Atlanta GA where U are located. Love from a Nigerian relative. 👍🏾

[@amyjo6629]

Lovely. You are an absolutely lovely young lady. Blessings to you. ❤

[@ToraisaJ]

Thank you so much 😊

[@Njoofene]

This is very touching. Stay blessed.

[@IAMHER_NurseTee]

That’s awesome they were willing to help. So touching your such a strong person and it’s great to see that you choose to move forward with life in a positive light love it

[@harrietyounger6118]

I wish you all the happiness in the world and be proud that you have met your blood relations in your daughters xx

[@gmamah9559]

My first time here and i must say firstly, YOU ARE GORGEOUS!!! Ive done my tests and I suggest a support group for some of the garbage you might find on the journey. I found some really horrible people. I am not those people. I learned from history. ✌️

[@ToraisaJ]

Thank you. Do have any groups you can suggest. I am thinking about creating one myself.

[@gmamah9559]

@@ToraisaJ Happily, my groups consists if distany family members that are equally disgusted. If you have been contacted and asked how you deal, sounds like you've found a calling! Healthy discussions with no attacking, info verification, anything that offers validation for that mess that everyone has. I have so many messes. No wonder we struggle, huh? ✌️

[@godisgood7334]

I really like your name. I've never heard it before but it's beautiful and so are you. Thanks for sharing your journey. 🦋

[@ToraisaJ]

Thank you ☺️

[@joyful9984]

God definitely knew your strength even from before your birth ❤️ you shine as His precious daughter first and foremost. I pray if He wills that He will allow you to know the truth about your birth parents. Nothing is too hard for God! God bless you 🌷

[@ToraisaJ]

Joy Ful Thank you for your kind words 💕

[@Briisvanity]

Hey sis! I finally made it. I've been wanting to watch this ever since I seen your notification.

[@Briisvanity]

Sis you are so brave! This whole video had me in awe sis I was crying with you. You are extremely blessed and you have such an amazing soul. I would've never known you went through a tragedy like that because you have such a kind heart and you're always smiling. I'm still sitting here in awe like I wish I could hug you right now. Is it possible that there may be a footage of your birth mom putting you in the van? I also would've loved to hear what Ms.Robinson had to say about finding you.

[@ToraisaJ]

I’m a very a strong person and always try to be positive. Thank you doll! I cried again watching it. I try to always remember that I’m blessed and the devil won’t still my joy. I’m receiving virtual hugs from you 🤗 Unfortunately, they didn’t have footage. I wish they did. Mrs. Robinson went over the moments when she found me. It was a lot to take in but glad we spoke. Thank you for always supporting my channel ❤️

[@evamarieandmarleyife1211]

I am glad that you were able to at least find that uncle.

[@bluesky-rb8fn]

I wish you the best!! You’re in the place you were meant to be!!! I’m a person who feels things !!! There is more for you!!!❤

[@ToraisaJ]

@@bluesky-rb8fn Thank you 😊.

[@dawnyoung8]

You click on the closest relative and click the shared relatives column and take note of who the shared relatives are . Go to the next closest relative and to the same . By figuring out how the closest relatives of shared relative groups are connected , That’s how you find who your parents are . Your brothers and sisters will likely be half siblings , they’ll come up as first or second cousins . Pay attention to the amount of cmg. You share with the relative . Also note the shared relatives to determine maternal and paternal . Work both sides , you’ll figure it out in no time

[@PulsedWave1]

Thank you for sharing. You’re beautiful. Good luck to you.

[@ToraisaJ]

@@PulsedWave1 Thank you for watching and your comment ❤️

[@dorinebucci7935]

You have a beautiful name, as you are beautiful as well. All the best to You in your search. Much Love xxx

[@ToraisaJ]

@@dorinebucci7935 Thank you ❤️

[@rcafmaintainer3723]

you are beautiful lady, glad you found some peace and being positive.

[@SimplyShakendra]

I love fall as well. My absolute fav. You look beautiful!

[@ToraisaJ]

Don’t gas me up! Thanks boo!

[@NaturalBebe15]

I feel like hugging you honey. Honey you are stronggg I would have broken down. 😩😩😩 Remember You are very blessed hun remember that

[@ToraisaJ]

Natural Bebe Very blessed 😊

[@jonathanlammie9975]

Dont worry girl god dont abandon you he loves you and will see you true i get tearry eyes when i losten to you story no one should go true what u been true but god have you here on this earth for a purpose bless.

[@ToraisaJ]

Thank you!

[@cynthiaheiland4013]

My mother never knew her paternal father nor did she ever ask her mother who he was. She never got to meet her birth father’s family before she passed away. The amazing part, we found them and my brother used to work with her half brother and never knew they were related. It’s amazing how DNA helped us find our family. I’m sure if you keep digging you will eventually find your birth parents. Good luck with your search!❤

[@ToraisaJ]

@@cynthiaheiland4013 I am sorry about your mother. Wow! What a story. Thank you for sharing. Thank you for watching ❤️

[@WarmSunMgm]

Do the leads method with your matches and build a research tree using census records. You have enough close relative matches to pinpoint your birth parents easily.

[@leadershiplifeadvice75]

Hey Toraisa, Congratulations on finding your roots. Please connect with Nigerian-Americans in your neighborhood and make out time to visi lt Nigeria. You will have a whole lot of lovely family members loving you greatly. Welcome home sis.

[@Parakeetfriend4215]

My parents were married, but divorced before I was born. My father's side didn't come looking for me, I had to go looking for them. So even if your parents were married, you can still have relatives that don't care, but sometimes you do find one or two who do. So don't dispair. God wanted you here or you wouldn't be here and if they don't like it too bad. No one asked them.

[@karmagal78]

I have 2 new (distant) cousins. One is a 4th cousin. She messaged a few of us. She had never heard of our surname until her dad took the test. Turns out that one of my great grandpa’s younger brothers was his father (the mother was married at the time and my great granduncle was a milk man). Yes, we have accepted them into the family. The other one is on my mom’s side and a 2nd cousin. Her grandmother and my grandpa are siblings. Her father was my grandaunt’s son. I messaged her because I didn’t recognize her name. Also welcomed into the family. Hopefully your biological family is also accepting! Looking forward to seeing any updates!

[@ToraisaJ]

@@karmagal78 Thank you for sharing your story ❤️ Catch up on …. My Story 😭 Left In A Van kzbin.info/aero/PLI96JDI9PysVcy1YSJWfSHuey85gJ56EQ

[@daphnejackson841]

So happy for y'all 💯❤️

[@ToraisaJ]

@@daphnejackson841 Thank you 😊

[@jassminejames210]

someone's not telling you the truth in your adoptive family

[@ShayDonnice]

I hope your doing well hun..I remember when you first posted about it on Instagram...sending you a big warm hug 🤗

[@rebeccamyott7041]

Bless you Dear. Keep your chin up..!

[@ToraisaJ]

Thank you 😊

[@TheRealKMoe]

Awww you got me in tears with this one. Sorry i am late here but i had to wait until i could fully watch. Your story touched me bc i have a friend that just went through something similar. She found her mom but the dad is prob not going to be found at this point bc of her story. Im so thankful that you have your parents and im so sorry that happened to you. I can't even imagine what you must feel inside but you are a strong one even for speaking on this on this platform. So proud of you and i know you have prob helped some that wouldn't speak on this. I was wondering if you was related to your adoptive fam in some way bc that is something the friend of mine found out as well. Oh great the reporter tried to help you. So amazing! Your smile when you spoke to the person that found you in the van. Wow. Did your uncle have any explanation for you? Im sorry if i missed you saying. This one got me over here in tears. Thank you for sharing. You are so strong and i wish you the best finding them or getting more answers!

[@ToraisaJ]

Thank you so much for watching! It was hard to discuss on camera but I know I needed to do this. I could barely breathe before I talked to her lol My Uncle said he didn’t know anything 😢 but I believe family knows more then what they are telling me. I will be doing a part 2 because I have more things I’m doing behind the scenes. I’m hoping that people know that you can go through things in life and still make the best out of life.

[@laurentaylor1719]

Hey I just bought my kit! I’m also adopted and have some heart problems and found out they run on my biological side…. I’m terrified to find out who my family is and to even talk to them but I was to know health history!

[@ToraisaJ]

I am proud of you for getting the kit. You can do it. However, do it when you’re ready. Sending you lots of love.

[@pamelacullinane]

You are a beautiful woman any mother and father would be proud of you I’m proud of you God bless you kid❤

[@ToraisaJ]

😭🥹😍 Thank you.

[@carolynholcomb8105]

Bless you. You are and were loved.

[@ToraisaJ]

Thank you.

[@passiondreamfulfilled4552]

You’re so strong! 💗

[@ToraisaJ]

I have to be 🙃 Thank you for watching!

[@buntingy]

Amazing story

[@Jean-us6ow]

God bless you and yours. 💐♥️

[@ToraisaJ]

@@Jean-us6ow God bless you too! ❤️☺️

[@Moonstorms]

You have the most beautiful name. It’s what brought me here.❤

[@ToraisaJ]

Thank you ☺️

[@ButterflyGoddessMoe]

You're in my head! I was saying that I was going to do one of my vlogs on my ancestry results!

[@ButterflyGoddessMoe]

Yea.... it's not about them... it's about you and having a deeper understanding of self. I'm sure they'd understand

[@ToraisaJ]

I had to do this for me and glad I did. Thank you so much for stopping by 😊

[@lusimyer]

Aww,such a cute baby pic ❤❤❤

[@ToraisaJ]

Thank you.

[@lovesyah4618]

I did ancestry a yr ago April 2023 and I found out that I'm not the daughter of a man I thought was my dad. He died in 1999 and I attended his wife's funeral in April 2023 and the pieces fell into place. There were whispers for years but no one said anything to me. I couldn't sleep for 2 months and I'm still searching on my own for the real sperms donor. My mom is alive and about to turn 83 in a few days. I have mixed feelings about confronting her but I also know time is of the essence and not promised to anyone. I've told two of my 5 siblings from.her. I know who the family is that the real Dad is from right around the community. I don't know what to do though. Somebody HELP😢 I'm sure he's deceased. I've been connecting dots to that side of the family but I haven't pinned down who he is yet. I'm probably all over the place here but any advice is welcomed. Thanks to all.

[@ToraisaJ]

Sending you love and hugs. Praying you don’t give up and understand that it will all come together at the right time.

[@ShiningLights333]

I can help you for free.

[@KristieBento]

You are so beautiful. It's a shame your mother left you. I can relate. My mother tried to abort me so I had issues growing up. But here I am. My mother kept me but even that was really hard. Because she raised me while being afraid of what she did to me and how it would effect who I became. Funny because I am a nurse and mother and quite stable.

[@ToraisaJ]

@@KristieBento Thank you. I am sorry. We usually turn out to be so loving and stable. I thank God everyday. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@katarascal3183]

You do NOT need makeup... Your natural beauty is so much better.

[@ToraisaJ]

Thank you 😊 I cringe watching this video lol I don’t know why I put all that makeup on 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@katarascal3183]

@ToraisaJ we believe society and social media. They fool us to buy their products. You are beautiful without makeup. Don't hid what GOD gave you.