"I was intentionally infected with HIV. What does the law say?"

[@yvonnemotloung3467]

I could listen to you the whole day 😩❤ please create another KZbin channel for vlogs/ sharing your daily routines i.e how you keep your skin so clear

[@NozibeleQamngana]

Thank you. I will definitely think about it Yvonne :)

[@km-kaddy]

The way she tells her stories, she is so engaging

[@foreverfearon]

I'm so intrigued with your level of maturity and truthfulness, you could be bitter and play the blame games by not taking responsibility for your actions but rather you joinly take responsibility along with your ex, my dear I believe that this was intentionally done to you but stand still and see the salvation of the lord, The Lord shall fight for you and you shall hold your peace, be bless

[@2toosexE]

I agree it is criminal to knowingly infect someone.... it is wrong

[@mtemdlamini5107]

If a person is positive he or she must disclose their status to their partners & give the next person an opportunity to protect themselves. I understand if u did not know but when u know tell the next person

[@moemo4016]

I think both ways when you enter a relationship you should take responsibility of honesty upfront.if you love someone n yes u r positive in any disease one has to let them know n allow them to decide whether they stay or not.if its not eaSy to b stRaight at least ask question indirectly n see where the other person stands with situation like that then if s need be walk away instead of infecting them intentionally

[@joyent7643]

Unfortunately people nowadays are selfish and very deceitful. The city ends up being on the one party to really find out and not rely on just being told. It's sad but there are those people out there. Couples should go together to the clinic every few months and get tested together anyone coming up with excuses what what what red flag!

[@shan_7714]

Absolutely crazy! if u know and don't disclose itto your partner that should be a crime !

[@NozibeleQamngana]

It is Shannon. The law recognizes that as a crime. However, its not always easy to prove. Its the word of the HIV- person against the HIV+. The person that was aware that they're HIV positive can, at times, lie and claim that they told their their partner that they were HIV positive and they still didn't mind when they had sex. The court cannot just convict someone when there's no concrete evidence. I know it's bizarre.

[@moemo4016]

@@NozibeleQamngana but that's crazy,who would want to be infected before they even have a kid?the court is crazy n the judge needs to go back to school.they should go on health files

[@blessingbreakthrough4199]

Thank you, so informative and educational. You have so much wisdom.You know,whenever listening to you,this verse ROMANS 8:28 comes to my mind that all things work together for good for those who love GOD and are called according to HIS purpose. The devil thought he was destroying your life through HIV,but he is disappointed because GOD is using you mightily for HIS kingdom. The challenges that your mom goes through, I believe now she is really thankful to GOD for HIS love,provision and HIS FAITHFUL.

[@lexioko]

You inspire to want to know more about the law, you literally inspire me to want to be better informed so I may also be of assistance to other women. I wish I saw this in high school, my career path would have been completely different.

[@xoxomacx2539]

In your case, you have a strong case because you discussed taking the HIV test. You can prove you took the test. You specifically asked him to take one. Even if he did not tell you he was +ve, his omitting this information is the same as lying. He was deceptive about something you had specifically discussed. You need a good lawyer to help you with this case. Even if you have let everything go, he is still out there infecting other people.

[@lithankepu]

I think in SA is lenient because they have seen that many people have lived with the virus hence they lenient, which is sad. Very informative Nozi, thank you☺️

[@kristinewouldntuliketoknow2367]

You give me hope and strength and i love you for that may god give you eternity of life love blessings and happiness ❤🙏

[@NozibeleQamngana]

God bless you Kristine. Remember, its one day at a time. Nothing came easy. We work on it every single day.

[@kristinewouldntuliketoknow2367]

@@NozibeleQamngana thank you for telling me that. I suffer from anxiety and depression plus stress. Taking it one day at a time is the best way for me. Its hard being a single mom going threw these feelings no help but i know at the end i will be better in jesus name thank you so much 🙏❤

[@trudy_triad]

Your hair. 😍😍😍😍

[@Thandiz1]

Her hair is life❤❤

[@ntombiengubane365]

Yoh Nozi l just love you girl. I'm forever grateful to my boyfriend for introducing me to your channel. I have learnt a lot and guess what lm hooked.

[@lexioko]

Technically, based on the third point, you consented to having unprotected sex with the assumption that he had tested and was negative (an assumption made through the conversations you had), in the event that he had explicitly stated his status you would've revoked the consent. Consent has terms and he didn't follow the terms, meaning the consent was invalid. I don't have enough English to back this up, but I once read an article that stated that if someone acts as if they are something they are not, in order to get a sexual encounter with a person, it is deception and it is a crime and that encounter can be noted as rape. I don't know if I'm making sense, I hope I am.

[@amarachichibuko9992]

Ma'am you are really strong and beautiful Your channel is the first KZbin channel I am commenting for the first time. Please in your next videos make out space for a video how girls should protect themselves against rape and HIV.Us young girls are dependent on your advice I love you so much.

[@dollykhumalo1768]

The sad thing is there's really nothing one can do to protect themselves from rape.

[@maureenbaloyi8014]

Its a first time watching your channel and i have been on it since morning.

[@veevictorius5116]

He needs to pay.expose him.

[@godzillanismo4892]

Playing victim is the national anthem of women. i am afraid of HIV. BIG TIME. My mom won't keep quiet about how bad it is. I test my one partner over and over and use protection RELIGIOUSLY. I CAN'T !

[@Snenhlanhla_jobe]

Your channel is so informative sis Nozi. I love your content ❤️

[@khey-jhynmartin7723]

I have really enjoyed this video. You are very informative and have given my a wider understanding on this topic discussion. Thank you xx

[@NozibeleQamngana]

Thank you so much!

[@mantakiteke1390]

Hi Nozi. Did you ever thought of opening a case for your ex who intentionally infected you?

[@hopeinallah5112]

You are a gladiator nozi Masha Allah and God bless

[@tushemereirweshallon1651]

Hello my dia sister thank you so much

[@brendamaketso4063]

In Kenya it's an offense punishable by law. One can be jailed for infecting another knowingly.

[@lydianantume384]

but its not effective

[@lebogangnchabeleng756]

Thanks for sharing, I love you ❤️ 🙌

[@patiencekeza7132]

Can you tell us the symptoms you had or how you can know if you have it Thank you so much again for helping a lot of people through your testimony

[@Kakwasi]

She didn't have any symptoms. Just a random test

[@pandereekamarenga8511]

What is key and what u said inn one of your other videos is "...forgiving yourself every day..."

[@noloyisomakaziwembali7867]

Thanx for informative topic I've learned a lot thanx babe

[@moemo4016]

South Africa should work in agreement with Europe about resources used to trace when the person was infected and by who.that would also lead to so many convictions coz batho ba diha ka boomo infecting innocent souls out of revenge n saho makatsa them ho ipususeletsoa ka bona were not even there motho a tshoara mogare. N the wae they do just going around infecting innocents is what will make them people to continue with the stigma n not allow them in their lifes.m sad. Askies Nozi

[@rikisonzhou9066]

very well researched thanks dear

[@zainabinti5170]

And self test HIV kits are not sold over the counter in S.A. why???

[@greenleafservicesltd2762]

same question, they donnt have over the counter kits

[@mabathohlohlomi9083]

They have self test kits at clicks. Saw them yesterday.

[@nayelushaba3041]

Thank you for sharing

[@mexiconovember9758]

Iam a 24 year old woman and I just found u today and I relate souch coz first time I had sex I was 15 and I was infected with HIV I always tell my partners early...... But i must say it has been very hard growing up as a teenager and a young woman having to tell pply status as I have gotten older I have gotten used to everything and iam so proud of my self my family still doesn't know but my friends and partner know and previously what I had seen is men wanna use condoms to protect themselves from HIV but soon as I tell them my status they wanna stop using condoms my current partner we been together for 3 years and for the past 2 years we haven't been using condoms but he tests negative.....but he knows just like all my previous partners.

[@kagisomarvinmolekwa3933]

its probably because your viral load is too low to be detectable.

[@busin6388]

The U=U principle then applies in your case.

[@lateshiabrooks2180]

@Mexico November that is great that u tell, or told your partners! God bless u

[@Masked_guys]

Mexico november your partner is discordant (infected but not affected)he doesn't have receptors that hiv binds to,if he sleeps with another negative person without a condom can infect them and the person can seroconvert to hiv positive.

[@lilac8794]

So it gets better with age. The depression and denial stage is the worst. You’re giving me hope

[@flavianasambuokanya4130]

About the requirement for consent, I would presume the law would say that, if you are aware of the status but you proceed with the sexual act, that’s when you waive your right, but not when you are not aware and and you proceed with unprotected sexual contact. Further in your case, even if there was consent, it was consent obtained by deception. I believe in some circumstances, consent can be invalidated, especially this circumstance. To determine consent, one must not only look at the act but the risks. And for one to analyze the risks, all facts must be on the table i.e I am consenting to having unprotected sex, which may lead to pregnancy, I am consenting to having unprotected sex which may lead to OTHER STIs, and I am consenting to having unprotected sex which may not lead to HIV infection-based on the knowledge at hand. Your consent is not only for the sexual act, but the consequences. If you are keen on it, I think you may find a way.

[@VicSeezzo]

I have watched your Videos starting from the latest and I visited your #ImstillMe and they are so encouraging. Thanks. I'm not positive but I know someone special to me who is positive and all I learnt all this years was to accept and love the person more and me morally supporting. Thank you. #WakeUpAfria #AfricaToTheWorld

[@Kakwasi]

This person should have been jailed. Especially because you have an email showing that you sent him your negative results

[@mepierre661]

My husband and I didn’t want to have children right after we get married , we always use condoms . One day the condom broke I get pregnant.Its not a matter of protecting myself if he was infected with HIV,I will b infected that night.

[@athenkosinqampoyi6611]

Aba babini bajongise oobhontsi ezantsi ba right? 👀🤔 Sendtsho laark yintoni engathandekiyo kulento ithethwa ngu Nozi? I like it when you say "eneh" ❤😂

[@nkeirukaatulomah9381]

u are amazing

[@noxolo_n_msibi2261]

Kodwa ke if umuntu engafuni ukuyisebenzisa icondom ekubeni ezazi akukho right.

[@10khours]

1 successful conviction and it's said specific laws are not principled.... disappointing.

[@XDotcom203]

In as much as it is every person's responsibility to protect themselves and not assume a negative status, the + person should disclose because the other may be responsible enough to insist on condom usage however condoms break, the question then becomes would the - person have had sex with the confirmed + person even with a condom had they been made aware of the + status of the other? The answer is not likely, but no one will ever know because that option was never presented. The negative person may not even be aware that the condom broke...and there they are assuming safety because they used a condom right ukanti if they knew that condom would be inspected for even the slightest erosion whether there was suspicion of breakage or not.

[@NozibeleQamngana]

Sisi! Thank you!

[@alicegauteng2358]

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[@thembinxitywa9754]

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