If friends don't pay you back, do they care about you?

[@timelessmusicfamilymusic9175]

When someone ask me for money, the 1st thing I ask myself. Why didn't they go to a bank or use there credit card? which, I, myself would have done. Usually, cause of their bad credit, which is a good sign they're irresponsible with money & a good indication that you won't get your money back. You can't control someone to pay you back, all you can control if your willing to lend them money. 😗?💵

[@weworks7811]

Timelessmusic Familymusic sounds like my bro,he owes my sister $11,000 and he doesnt pay her back,but he has like 3 big TVs , she even PAYED OFF his car,when HE said he was gonna do the payments,because she CO SIGNED!!?,because he has little to none credit, whyy sister!!!??...mind you hes 36 years old lmao,lives in a 1 ROOM apartment,has 3 KIDS,lives in the ghetto(LA),they have EXPENSIVEE shit,the wife has $4,500 handbags meanwhile their children sleep on the floor..SMFH.and of course my sister is pissed she wants her fucken money back!!..i told her lesson learned sis dont lend ANYONE money unless their guaranteed to pay you back.and my sis makes good money shes a navy nurse but thats not the point! Lol

[@bionicredneck6976]

Enlightend 1 Cab I need your advice on this topic

[@bionicredneck6976]

Timelessmusic Familymusic I need your advice

[@johnnyford9524]

You said it straight up how I was trying to put to words. I've been a dumbass 3 times by helping so called friends out

[@TheGauremdee]

This is so true I'm going through it and I hate it

[@MrTway88]

People's actions will show you how they truly feel about you. Him not paying you back, is his way of telling you he's not really your friend. Simple as that.

[@karendepalma4408]

Agree,

[@thegrandsupreme9529]

Facts.

[@AssetsOnly14k]

Sometimes that money owed is a cheaper loss than having that "friend" back in your life for future headaches and setbacks.

[@thebeast9869]

Fuck that there not a friend if they lent money and refuse to pay it back fuck them if i lent money it would be my first priority

[@bingzgaming1318]

Yeah wtf that’s not a friend fuck them

[@Chiller0871]

If they can't be trusted to pay you back what they owe, they weren't your friend the first place and don't need to be in your life.

[@ekambarampachaiyappan3181]

Well said.Better not to see that FACE again.

[@Alex10daysago]

moral of the story don't be friends with broke ass people. real friends don't ask friends for money.

[@julianacheriza1575]

You think so? But if your a real friend wouldn’t you not mind helping a friend out??

[@KIlovefood7]

@@julianacheriza1575Idgaf now they have to figure it out.

[@gmontanabeats]

​@@julianacheriza1575Being broke is because of impulses and laziness. If I have to work hard for my keep them why do other people get to make excuses? A person's first instinct should be to earn for their self instead of dependency. People need to stop being idiots when they touch money.

[@jalilchandler1270]

Facts

[@MoniqueFromPlymouth]

The real lesson here: NEVER loan money to friends. They can turn on you VERY quickly. Not paying a friend back tells you just the type of person that they are.

[@danelisslow3269]

But if you wouldn't loan to a friend, aren't you a bad friend? 🤔

[@MoniqueFromPlymouth]

@@danelisslow3269 If your friend has money problems, that's THEIR problem, not yours. Never fall for a sob story.

[@MikeStone3000]

There’s no guarantee that the person is gonna pay you back what they borrowed from you. They actually took your kindness for a weakness & played you like a trumpet 🎺. So whenever that happens to you, the best thing that you can do is to write them off your list, and never do that person any more favors.

[@resistance2024]

Sometimes when you are too nice people think you will not care about the money and think they can keep it. Or sometimes they just decide not to pay and keep the money then you know they are just worth the amount you lent them which makes them cheap and teaches you a great lesson!

[@paperroutesolo8913]

“If their not there for $200, where will they be for the more important things in life”

[@Shazlii]

My friends always called me when they needed money. I always helped them and sometimes just went out of my way to assist them. I noticed a trend where initially did fake checkups before finally asking for a favour not immediately but at most two days after '' checking up on me''. After loaning them they disappeared and never paid back. Recently I began evaluating my friends and tested them if they would return the favor. One night at around 8pm,i texted 4 of my close friends (or so I thought) and asked them to loan me some money because of an emergency . I didn't ask for much as I was testing the waters. NO ONE LOANED ME THE MONEY. THEY ALL GAVE VARIOUS REASONS AS TO WHY THEY COULDN'T. Whether they were saying the truth or not, it didn't matter because as my friends I expected them to ask later if I got the help I received and if I was alright. This was an eye opener for me. I grieved a lot and ghosted them completely.

[@jacquelinemanzano9328]

A false friend is a true enemy. He used you and could care less how you feel. You will not get your money back by asking him directly. Our rewards in life are in exact proportion to our contribution. Friend or family, I do not loan and I do not borrow, it's my golden rule.

[@111justinjames]

Yea I loaned a “friend” $250 last year for the first month of his car insurance and we are not cool till this day smh. I literally had to go to his mom to get the money back.

[@xlg4ming998]

U got the money back right?

[@dcabral00]

If I lend you money, and you don't pay me back, not only are you not a true friend, you are also a thief. I should not have a hard time getting my money back from you, and yes I was stupid to trust you.

[@amansur5182]

You were stupid to judge a man while he’s down and struggling, on the verge of ending it all. Good job shows a lot about you.

[@Gvids671]

@@amansur5182and you are stupid as fxck to believe that just because someone lends you money makes you entitled with no obligation to return the money back in reasonable time. If you have no intention of paying it back then you didn’t deserve to borrow it in the first place. You are not entitled to anyone’s money.

[@AceSmoke662]

Gave my friend over 1,000 to save him from getting evicted told keep 300 i need 700 and I’m havig to constantly ask i just told him to keep it i be around somebody like that no more

[@Gvids671]

Recently a friend of mine asked to borrow me $20 until his upcoming payday and will reimburse me. He always says he needed it for his gas. He borrows me like 2-3 times a month but the only time he pays me back is when I ask for it. He never actually just pays me when he knows he owes me. I always seem to have to be the one to remind him. Last week I asked him to help me out with gas money even though he still hasn’t paid me back but I needed it and I never ask him to borrow money period. He said he’ll check me that same day. He never did. I let a few days go past and he never reached out to help me knowing I needed the money. I finally just text him and told him to cancel helping me out. He was so fast to reply to me right away with a lame excuse. I ignored his calls and now he’s avoiding contact with me and still hasn’t paid me back as promised.

[@TamiAllTheWay]

Actions speak louder than words. You’re better off without that friend

[@emac5738]

You nailed it. I pretty much just lost a friend of over 20yrs after helping him when he was down.

[@jesusshuttleworth8523]

don’t give anybody shit, always an excuse not to give it back.

[@allenchristopher8095]

I went shopping with that friend a few years ago for Black Friday..helped buddy out with a purchase. Biggest mistake... never again... been shopping alone ever since..

[@christinebuckingham7334]

Thanks for making this video - needed to hear this - learned my lesson the sad way. More than the money, a lot, it's the heart, trust, goodwill, and patience that was treated like it was nothing. Always heard growing up, to have a friend, be a friend - to some that doesn't mean too much. Thanks again and good luck to us all.

[@TB1M1]

Aint that the truth. To me at least, trust, integrity are profoundly important unless you have it nothing else matters.

[@bingzgaming1318]

I loaned a friend money to pay for gas expenses for a trip we took earlier in the year and all he does is dodge me now. It really shows true colors

[@Just4Meek]

Same 😞

[@oncetwice5942]

It's even worse when a FAMILY MEMBER does this kind of crap!!! I agree with everything you said in the video. It's all about the principal to follow through with paying back. I have a family member that would not pay me back and keep giving me different dates I will get it back. I started to get impatient after a while and lashed out because it is ridiculous. Now I know to never help that person out ever again as long as I live. It sucks that your friend took advantage of your kindness smh. It seems like being a good, caring person doesn't get you anywhere smfh.

[@kayleighozzo1104]

This really pisses me off I have a few people in my life that have let me foot the bill for shit...if I owe money I make a effort to pay them asap! I think ahh let it go but why the hell should I! I need to get rid of piss takers like this

[@Alvin-eq5rc]

Big thumbs up to this video. This is the problem that I faced all the time in school. I don’t have the courage to ask it back..sometimes can be as much as $80.. I felt that if I ask or remind my friend about it I will either put him in shame or make a bad reputation of myself... really sad.. happens all the time. I don’t borrow from any one. That’s me if I do, I will pay as soon as possible. Usually the day or two later. Never more than weeks month or years.

[@endangeredmexican9644]

Exactly I would pay the one I owe a week or 2 at most. I lend a friend $40 he hasnt payed me back over 6 months. I got another friend that I let him borrow a game for 2 weeks and he hasnt gave it back for over a year and its even more hard to get it because he moved schools. Im fucken done with everyone. Everyone is fucken like this rather have no friends and be a loner

[@Baba_cmn]

That’s exactly me

[@jinglejazz7537]

if you lend someone $20 and you never see them again, it was worth it. I was in that boat. Took me years to pay people back, some people up to 12 years to pay back $600. I finally paid it back with 6% compound interest over 12 years. I paid them $1210.00. It was constantly on my mind for years, I just couldn't do it do to health reasons, but when things changed I paid everyone back. My conscience is clear, and they were happy to get the extra cash, during covid and money was tight.

[@dfw1fast143]

I loaned a “best friend” $3,600 so he could get his vehicle back from being repossessed so he could get to work and the prick only has paid me back $150 in a year. The same period of time he promised he could pay the entire loan. Thirty years shot to hell because he’s about to get lit up.

[@howcin]

Yeah? And I bet you're the asshole whenever you bring it up.

[@jsttv]

Back in 2001, loaned $500 to a friend, because her ex husband didn’t give her money, and her car was almost repoed for missing car 2 car payments. Long story short: She took advantage of me, and I had no choice but to take her to small claims court. We almost went to the Peoples Court show, but she didn’t want to be humiliated in public. Then she immediately paid back my money. Whats interesting she got a dose of karma. About 7 months later she married a so called self made millionaire. Then 4 short months after the marriage her new husband got arrested and sentenced to prison for first degree grand larceny. She had to wait almost 10 years to annul the marriage.

[@howcin]

Thank you for the support on the video everyone!

[@bionicredneck6976]

howcin I know how it feels and I have turned against the so called former friend because he is a liar and a fraud and a schemer which he never paid me back so he is scared of it coming out in the open to his family and so called friends

[@seekeroftruths3911]

Dude I totally get where you're coming from I've had friends and family mostly family borrow from money for me it's f***** up that people will destroy relationships just to get money from me!

[@CoachJMagana]

Thee most valuable video I’ve ever found on KZbin. The dollar amount even pertains to my situation. 2 and half years ago I loaned a friend a bit of money and over the course of a couple months it added up all to $200. But the biggest part of that loan was money for him to buy college textbooks. So over half of a year of trying to get paid back always an excuse or reason that couldn’t get the money to me. I stopped talking to this friend for and half a year. Then we start talking again and only after a couple months of hanging out like old friends taking a trip to LA going out to eat. I asked for the money again. Only for him to make reasons that he was still struggling. So I stopped talking to him again for half year and here I am currently had recently hung out but again asked for the money and when he promises to pay back or pay some he just doesn’t keep his word. Over the course of these past years. He’s taken trips to LA, Vegas, bought new game consoles, new clothes and shoes, etc. A childhood friend of 11 years and all falling apart because he can’t pay $200 but even more keep his word.

[@howcin]

It's fucked up, sorry to hear. Thanks for sharing.

[@oskadavid2964]

Borrowing money to someone shows you what they really are inside.

[@Sophie-ui6hi]

It's so sad that the fault ended up being ours despite of us being a victim.

[@motormouthalmighty]

AW! IF THEY BORROW EIGHTY QUID FROM YOU AND THEN TELL YOU TO TAKE A RUN AND JUMP AND DON'T BOTHER THEM AGAIN,AW IT SOUNDS LIKE THEY WORSHIP THE GROUND THAT YOU WALK ON AND LOVE ADORE YOU.OF COURSE THEY DON'T GIVE A DAMN FOR YOU!

[@aleterra]

yes, that's the problem, he has the money to pay you back but he won't. Not even make an effort to pay you in small installments... that is not a friend. I gave a friend over 1100 euro a year ago and now he gets angry when I ask it back. Whatever! He is not my friend anymore.

[@jaydiens5299]

I'm going through this 6 months and not a penny lend him 1000

[@LouisKatz]

Thank You. I have two 'friends' that owe me money. One $200, the other $500. Both have the means and day they said they would pay me back has long gone. One says, "Oh, I forgot." The other, God for bid I ask him.

[@albania10]

I went through this many times and still didn’t learn my lesson, but eventually I always manage to get them back my way, even if it takes a long time because I have principles I don’t like people take advantage of me, or disrespect me, but why I have to go through all this in the first place, when I’m always trying to help.

[@oskadavid2964]

Revenge will make you like the guy who ripped you off, just laugh it off if God punishes him before he repents he will regret it

[@cathychildress4735]

The guy is occupying your brain rent free

[@et5895]

I'm sorry he didn't pay you back. You were spot on

[@howcin]

Lol

[@michelleachacoso4983]

I loaned a friend $3K and she screaming "Sue me!" We're going to court.

[@JohnSmith-pl4sf]

I can relate, I helped my friend with his work he kept pressuring me and pressuring me to do it, and he said he was going to pay me 150 dollars... We agreed... so I did the work... When I asked him about the Money he owed me... He said, "oh I thought you said you didn't want me to pay it to you anymore".... I was like dude really🤦‍♂️ i replied, ok so did you hear me say that "you can forget about the money you owe me?" The he said "those were the exact words".... And he even has the nerve to tell me to help him make this low rider club he want to do for fun, not for profit.... He just wants to do it for fun... But I got better things to do with my time than go ride bikes ... This was an insult to my intelligence... he doesn't honor his promises.... And prioritizes his wants and needs over his friends.... Don't be friends with someone who doesn't honor their promises... As a person it is not your obligation to lend your friends a helping hand, or support their cause.... As a person you need to understand that there are people out there who will drain you financially, emotionally, and mentally....

[@DeyvsonMoutinhoCaliman]

A friend of mine owes me $ 400,00 and just bought a $ 2.000,00 notebook. I consider this friendship lost, I still talk to him, but only if he goes after me and only if he calls me to do things that are of my interest, and only if he takes me using his car and brings me back on time. I became completely cold with him until he either pays me back or the friendship is broken for good.

[@verac6731]

This was a good Video. I don't understand the Person who said it was "the stupidest Video on KZbin ever".

[@howcin]

Thanks for the support, don't mind that it was a family member trolling. Have a good day!

[@UnMinutoViajando]

howcin i recently lent 300 to my wifes cousin whos having financial problems and needs help for her mom. what bothered me was that she texted us about an aphone that her sister had bought for herself. And i thought, wtf! they are your sisters, actually ... three of them. its been a month and i am excited to see for how long she waits....

[@gauthier8822]

The guy who said it was stupid is the guy who owes all his "friends" money lol

[@mrkenwu1]

You are so right, bro!

[@hanifjones4914]

for anyone who didn't get it. You know people by their conversations that is why it's important to listen. if anyone has a problem with security, they are lax and probably potential thieves and hate boundaries. Anyone who has an issue with someone asking the borrower back for their money simply means that those individuals would borrow and not pay back.

[@adityasangore5323]

I bought a fone for my friend that he told me to buy and ship to my address online because he was busy and I am a fool that I gave him the fone and now he is not paying. I gave another friend 7$ and he is not returning the money. This happens with me everytime. I feel very sad due to this and I am too afraid to ask.

[@susumyadav1786]

aditya sangore same here brother, 18k still to be recovered from office friend, I will never lend my money to anyone.

[@adityasangore5323]

yes even they feel bad still never give money.

[@lafaraz]

I feel you. Its been 2 years since I bought a phone for my friend online since he said there was discount if bought online with my card. He is still not bothered to give me back my money. Asked him twice but he says he is still struggling whereas in the last 2 years he has bought a Royal Enfield, Flat screen TV, a car and what not. I have learned my lesson and promised myself not to lend shit to anyone no matter how close he/she is to me. Next time these so called friends need any money, all they will get is insult from me.

[@Stalkerx13]

Aditya Sangore If they really wanted to pay you back they shouldn't wait for you to tell them. Just don't let anyone borrow money, or if they ask tell them go ask the bank for a loan.

[@bionicredneck6976]

Aditya Sangore I know how it feels like but the dude is scared of me because I was going to sink him in to his girlfriend and family and now I have turned against him

[@katheandphil]

I love not loaning money! I help my friends anyother way, but never with money. Because I learned that I don't like feeling being taken advantage of

[@MrAkhalif]

Thanks for this video, this video really got me thinking.

[@howcin]

Gandalf The Black Thanks for the support.

[@WorldTravelerCA]

Here is my story: in January 2018 my then best friend of 15 years had an accident with his leased car that he used for work and I knew he was struggling that time so I offered him to fix his car and that I don’t expect him to pay me back unless his finical situation will change (cost of a repair was 2200$ CAD) Then in early March I got a call from him asking if he can borrow 2000$ for his unpaid phone bill and it was unusual for a phone bill to be this high but I asked him if he can pay me back this 2000$ before I was going on a trip to Asia in June and he replied with a Big YES. In early days of June same year I called him up asking if he had my money as I was about to go on my trip and he told me he didn’t have any money at that time, to make this story short-till this day I only collected 900$ from him and his last payment was in 2020. Basically I gave up asking and chasing my money, I lost a friend as a result and learned a good lesson to never ever to land any money even if they are your old friends. I wish it wasn’t so 🙏

[@softecat2123]

My story was the same, he asked me to buy this bumper for him and it was $700, its been two years since then and he was always going out partying, he bragged about making over 100k and i asked him why he didnt bother to pay me back. He told me to be quiet & when he went broke, he sold all my stocks for $550 without telling me. Now he owes me 1.1k and he is calling me a back stabber.

[@dannyxst9545]

I'm very sorry that this happened to you.

[@timelessmusicfamilymusic9175]

Lending money💰 to a friend👤 is like trying to open a door with a broken key🔑.😒

[@NELSONDIAZBX]

Someone, an acquaintance just suckered me out of $10. dollars. I will never loan them money ever again.

[@khazeljane4962]

I'm currently going through a situation with my friend not being able to pay. Would appreciate if you can give me some Advice

[@howcin]

Not being able to pay and not choosing the pay are two different animals. I don't get upset if I lend a friend in need some cash and they CAN"T pay me back. My issue is friends that blow you off and buy things they don't need and then lie to you and pretend they don't have it. Your situation is better because if the friend says they don't have the money to pay whether it's true or false it's much better than the friend that basically tells you he isn't paying because he doesn't want to. You have options. You can ask for payments. He/she might not have the $200 that's owed or whatever it is, but can he give you $5 a week? At least that shows an attempt.

[@bionicredneck6976]

howcin I have the same so called friend, now he is scared of it coming out in to the open and I have turned against him for that reason for not paying me back

[@felicialartey8865]

@@bionicredneck6976 Those people are monsters i had also a fake friend like this for not pay ing me back. Now we are enemies for life. For me no more. Even when i am a billionaire i wil never lend money agian

[@forexpresso]

old vid but still relevant. i lost my source of income for months, basically had to restart so i asked money back thats owed for YEARS. they only give excuses. am like bish i helped on your problem, cant you atleast suggest some solution 😕

[@deljean]

Fuck them

[@owa2533]

Yeah so quick to take and say thanks but to get it back. OH oh Oh! yeah...

[@Swanseaguy1979]

A long distance cousin of mine who always stays at mine and friends houses when she travels messaged me a few weeks back to ask if I could take her and her boyfriend to another part of the country as she wanted to show him that side of the country whilst they are visiting. I booked some time off work and due to the distance said that we should go a third each in the cost as we had to book accommodation. Now that she’s back home after taking the trip not only has she ignored my request for money which I reduced, she’s also been partying up since and even taken a trip to Mexico whilst messaging me about where I should take them next time they visit. The trip cost me hundreds as I bought them their meals and paid for attractions. I want nothing to do with them anymore

[@felicialartey8865]

I have borrowed 1450€ to a Thai woman. She told me to pay it back. She paid me 50€ back once i ask for the money she got angry with me and showed her treu colours. Now i have prayed against her succes!

[@Agentxanonymous48]

Awesome true and karma good or bad karma goes according to the situation

[@12Messenger]

The fucked up part is that it is my sister who's 21 and I'm 18 and I loaned her $650 because she wanted a car and was short so I was like of course it's my sister. It's been since November of 2016 and it's now 2018 in that time she's gone out of state to party, travel with friends, nail shops and it hurts to think that I'm not a priority and she hasn't forgotten because she's reminded me a few times in the past year she hasn't forgotten. I will hurt her feelings if I have to. I hate confrontations but when you push me over after I landed you fucking money from my heart and didn't even rush you to pay me back fuck you that's how I feel right now because I couldn't try to get over on someone because it's just not in me to do that to someone. She had my dad DNA(nothing drughead who's hated by everyone he knows) and i have my loving mother DNA. He's right it's not her priority so I'll just take her to court about it.

[@howcin]

Send her this video! Maybe it will make her think about how you might feel.

[@12Messenger]

Thanks.

[@alcapone3214]

I would just ask her to borrow her car, and I would take it as a hostage. Then tell her that she needs to pay the ransom to get her car back.

[@gioisblue]

@@12Messenger update?

[@Mossy213]

I lend someone money and now they’re upset I asked for it back. Yet they have money to do their nails, and when I got invited to one of their parties and asked for a drink they told me there was no more but proceeded to give someone else who asked for a drink one.. I was like damn ok Then one of their siblings who I don’t even know decided to tell me in front of everyone there that she stayed talking bad about me, same sister she talks bad about to me.. I left it alone though. But it spoke volumes about the type of person they are.

[@ilyPath]

Same only it wasn’t really a friend but a club member.Said to wait over and over again and I said it didn’t matter,but he insisted on saying he was going to pay me back.

[@octoberscorpion]

It’s the principle.

[@martin22336]

Just happened to me today took a time to build a friend of mine a PC and ended up not getting paid for it. While taking all the risk.

[@Indescribableopinions]

Friend borrowed about 350-400 dollars 7-8 months ago when I didn’t have a job/car/income stream and he had both so I though I’d give him some. Only payed off 150$ when I lied saying I couldn’t afford Christmas presents. Now his car blew up but him mom drives him to work so I’m going to say “hey remember when I didn’t have a car or job but I gave you that money for? Yeah you aren’t paying for gas anymore so I’ll be taking that back.”

[@howcin]

I'm 100% lost

[@petercooling3503]

I bought tickets for icesakting for me and a friend, she said to pay and book but it didn’t happen the first time so I had the option to reschedule but only had a certain amount of time to do this like 20 mins. They didn’t let me know when they were working even though it would have taken the 5 seconds to find out on their phone but I had to book something so I booked Saturday. They now say they can’t as they are at work Saturday. I said couldn’t you tell me yesterday that? Now they are annoyed at me and they don’t want to meet anymore. So I’m going myself and I doubt I’ll get my money back

[@Jchristpsalms8411]

I loaned a fam memeber money many times and its the same thing smh this time its only 10$.. but its been almost 2 months ... They done had the money plenty of times but when i see them theyre broke.. but says "ohh i know i still owe you i havent forgot" after your looking at 100$ worth of stuff they just bought .. Im not letting it slide either after i get the money back never ever again...

[@rachelgarcia6964]

I gave my friend plus lend her money because she was going through a very difficult time. She always said she'd pay me back. Meanwhile she took trips and other things. I patiently waited. I was struggling financially and ask if she could start paying some of the loan back and it seems she got offended. I'm the one who feels used and I'm upset.

[@steverfc7]

i would not even give my friend 1 cent let alone 30 or 40 dollors

[@franceslee8194]

yeah sometimes it is not about the money itself but more about principles. A real friend won't need a cent from you to be your friend.

[@Flashyfinancier]

Its dollars...not dollors

[@Swanseaguy1979]

The biggest regret isn’t about The money, it was booking two days leave from work so I could help them go on the road trip I had no interest in taking otherwise

[@danelisslow3269]

Then you're a bad friend.

[@KingDrewPhilip]

I never loan out anyone with my money… at all! Sorry ! If I don’t let anyone “borrow” my money, I won’t get into this issue of them never paying my back.

[@grmcia9546]

How about companies.I have that never paid me the 3500.00 mosher from NY? Another one is LisaSanders on Ebay. I made a bid, and had to pick it up, Of course I couldn't do that. But Lisa refused to release me of the 7.00, she expidited the payment so she didn't have to refund me. I think to leave in feedback may work for others to stay away from these people..

[@peterii3451]

I don't give a fuck if that person is capable to pay back or not,i its not acceptable to owe someone two fucking hundreds dollars for over a year

[@kennethcollier9791]

I loaned my ex my rent money for a car repair she said she would pay me back on Monday when she got paid but never did

[@thedeal9526]

I'm starting to think that these people all go to a convention where they learn how to be deadbeats and think of ways to try to make the lender feel guilty. This is because if you notice the fact patterns in these comments are the same.

[@TB1M1]

Yeah, you are dead right! 99% of people are not real friends they are just placeholders to fill time.

[@jasonportnoy3080]

Yeah i lent my close friend $25,000 As a business loan.. we have a contract... the business failed , Now he moved across the country and i rarely hear from him. He tells me he’s going to pay me back really soon every time I speak to him but it’s been years.. he has a kid ... hes working as a bartender, i know he really has no money to pay me back and now I According to the contract he technically owes me approximately 50,000 now bc of years of interest. Do not lend a friend money if you’re not prepared to gift it to them, otherwise most likely your friendship will be destroyed and you still won’t receive the money back.

[@randymanuel8257]

it also happened to me ...he always i will return the said money on friday .. but nothings happens .. really disappointing

[@bionicredneck6976]

Randy Manuel I have the same as you

[@despoinaat]

You just ask them to give you one of their personal objects or something they really like and then give them the money so he is forced to give them back after.For example,give me your computer and then I can lend you the money and so when you return them you can get your computer back.That simple

[@howcin]

Despina Tziouma I understand collateral, and how actual loans prevent defaults. The point I'm making here is when you spot your friend and he lies about paying you back. To make no intent to pay you back because they are your friend, you shouldn't have to hold their belongings hostage.

[@despoinaat]

howcin I agree with you I was just recommending a solution if that friend is known as not to be trusted.I guess you shouldnt give him money if thats the case but if you have to thats a solution

[@bionicredneck6976]

howcin I agree with the woman below and now it is time to turn against him and to teach him the lesson

[@Alex10daysago]

I can't give you the computer. I need it for work related stuff. can you hold onto this old sock and return it to me once I pay you back those $400. I really like that sock so you know im gonna pay you back fast.

[@angeliqueocular9336]

If someone’s asking you for money pull that reverse Uno card and be like I need money too

[@somnium5603]

I house sat for a "friend" and looked after their annoying ass dogs for what I thought would be a week oh and sorted their slips for taxes... It turned into three weeks. I was done after that and just wanted to come home to my own house and cat. They came back didn't pay me a cent. Meanwhile they drank hundreds of bottles fancy wine and other expenses. Later they asked me to do another job basically doing admin and also being a sales person for his art and other people's art. I had to drive 12km to town and back for meetings about organising this event. And nothing happened at those meetings I just wasted petrol and time. Other people got paid before hand because they were more important. This weekend is his event and I can't even go to my own exhibition where my own art is! Im not allowed. Let's see what happens. Maybe a miracle. Guess whos going to be there for them next time? Now there's going to be rumours about me being a terrible person around town.. fuck this place and so called friends!

[@raquelargallon422]

Sad but true

[@TheAazah]

Spot on!

[@AndrewHedlund100]

This guy owes me $500 I’m about to go put a brick through his windshield

[@HeySteef]

I borrowed my friend 15 euro's. And I'm just scared that he don't will pay me back.

[@timwiechmann1519]

Time to quit lending out money and time for some new friends. The problem started with you lending out money

[@liamlee5046]

Look like the barracks in east Fort Bliss

[@carcasscruncher9354]

Try 3k, each friend. Two so called friends. I'm about ready to go collect.

[@robertlino3378]

If he was truly your friend he would have payed you back once he had the money and along with it a token of saying thank you or interest to show you he is grateful. When you lend a so called friend money and you have to go out of your way to Badger them about paying you back with no response or argument, are they really your friend. ?

[@robertlino3378]

Friends don’t let other friends feel like they being used or played,

[@SC-zg1te]

Would you help a nearly homeless friend? I did and keep doing it. I’m not capable of doing it soon(maybe now). To be honest he is not great friend. I feel I m just foolish but No matter what I still feel painful when I think one day, a person who in a period, was being very close with me becomes homeless. I perhaps will stop supporting him soon but I hope he will always be ok and won’t be homeless one day.

[@sammypotpie]

The people that disliked this video (are confused), so funny.

[@CUSTOMWORKS7.3PSD]

Right on have a similar situation but I never asked This guy won't pay his taxes , property taxes, any bill he literally is living right now today with out heat and electricity winter wisconsin Give a idea his electric bill monthly was 40 bucks which he could pay but won't I bought him a rebuilt alternator when he broke down last august I knew I would never get paid BUT here is the Sociology He has asked to borrow money in the past which I never would do for him and if he would ever ask in the future I can show him he can't be trusted by anyone

[@kingjae1498]

Nah they dont🤷🏾‍♂️....same ppl would be on your neck if you owed them....friend become overrated the older you get

[@thedeal9526]

Borrower who do this-if you happen to watch this video I'll give you some credit for at least taking interest in the topic. Maybe you're trying to make things right and pay the money back. But for the vast majority of you how do you do this to your family and friends? I guess honor means nothing to you. And if you think that someone doesn't want their money back because they're not asking for it you're sadly mistaking. So go do the right thing and pay the money back.

[@sharon3261]

I lent a neighbor my last 5 bucks today. I know she won't manage her money next month either. I'll probably end up lending her another 20 next month, but that's all, and she won't get more than a $20 float from me. I lent another neighbor $50 three months ago. She never even tried to pay me back. It hurt, but it only took $50 to find out what kind of person she is.

[@howcin]

Don't lend her that next 20! Stop the bleeding!

[@sharon3261]

@@howcin The woman who borrowed $5 paid me back just now. She said she was depressed and asked for a hug. She cried on my shoulder.

[@endangeredmexican9644]

Damn I fucken regret giving "my friend" $40 for a damn season pass. He hasng payed me back its been at least 6 months and he says hes going to give it to me but never does its soo annoying im getting pissed

[@jcarnivore9022]

just don't lend anyone any money that is it.

[@cannedbread9684]

My friend has said to my face that he has the money but hes going to spend it on currency in video games and i know he has the money

[@TruthTriumphs777]

Punch them in their face if they don't pay back...

[@jalilchandler1270]

I’m still waiting for my money

[@unholydanger]

i lend my good friend 1000 singapore dollars now i cant get it back for 2 months when he promised me 2 days im very angry with him now

[@Flashyfinancier]

Did you get it back?

[@Flashyfinancier]

Friend : yo, can you lend me $200 bro? Its for my car repair and stuff you know...ill pay you back soon i promise bro. You got my word homie! You : allright....i mean...i guess. 2 years later: You ; hey bro that $200 i lent you 2 years ago...can i have it back? I saw on your instagram that you been taking trips down south and shit. Friend: WTF? You: what do you mean ? Friend: WTF - What the fuck man! Get off my back son! You : Dude... Ex-friend: i got nuttin to say. Happens all over the world everyday of the week.

[@JJones-nf9ce]

Afraid to say it but people need to make the loan and ALSO charge interest say 15 -25% extra each week the debt is not paid. Make a clear video recording or contract with the terms written out and with the borrowers signature or agreement

[@theblurmetalhead]

DISSPOINTED many times

[@Rhiaanon]

So true!

[@manujohn99]

So this basically means that nobody in this world is in real trouble & so people with money does not need to ever help anybody who comes asking for money......... Right???

[@howcin]

You missed the whole fucking point.

[@jedimastersmj]

Amen!!!