As a man I have learnt if a woman is not all in on my first try she does not deserve me when she has made up her mind. My time is important to me and I don't have time, energy to chase someone who does not know what they want. Only give a woman one shot if she does not reciprocate cut her loose she is not yours. If she changes her mind later reject her she had her shot. Never give you time to someone who saw fit to waist it
@alonzoneloms565124 күн бұрын
Need to be put on a T shirt!!😂
@KofiDjinАй бұрын
I'm experiencing this right now. Thanks for helping me out with this message❤.
@JessicaOSАй бұрын
You got this!
@KINGJOSIAH883 күн бұрын
A life changing message 🎉
@nanaekowduncan8087Ай бұрын
Your videos have saved me. I bumped into one of your videos some years back, when I was discarded. I listened intently to your advice and trust me...I am enjoying the man that I have become. Thanks a million
@LampfallshopShopАй бұрын
Since I followed you, I really have my tricks to handle mine 😅😅😅 she is mine and couldn't play any games anymore cause I'm with Jessica os and take his advice thank you 😅😅
@GodsbusinessonearthАй бұрын
Love your videos coz you cover up all the areas... I don't want to be trapped by chasing woman anymore without reciprocating
@shannarsaidSwahiliАй бұрын
This video carries what men need to hear
@ErvinTagoeАй бұрын
May you live long ❤️
@TobiAkpataАй бұрын
How can I like this video a billion times?❤
@lL-js2hgАй бұрын
Make billions accounts
@addoasante7437Ай бұрын
Jess your lecture today is as if you are talking to me one on one. Thank you for the tips. Well noted
@Yungdizzle313Ай бұрын
Thank you for removing the blinds...🙂
@royalusala8527Ай бұрын
Let's just stick to point number 1: You are just not her priority,,, the other points are just to sooth your egos a little kings.. Remember point number 1 always!
@KJThePublicistАй бұрын
BOOM!
@dynamic901624 күн бұрын
Respect 👊
@micheletoile656024 күн бұрын
Period man
@ShaunTheNavigator5 күн бұрын
HUGE FACTS
@Its_superdave09Ай бұрын
I just kept on nodding to every line Each was hitting me like a rapper's punchline It was like a stress reliever & eye-opener God bless you Jess
@businessboom6143Ай бұрын
Another eye-opening video that reveals everything we need to know to avoid the pitfalls of being heartbroken with women that toy around with men's emotions and seriously not interested 🎯💯
@VicknowledgeMkАй бұрын
You have texted her many times and called her many times but she didn't reply to your texts and she refuse to answer your calls because she's playing the game of control but this is what you should change everything for your own good stop texting her and stop calling her and stop chasing after her that is how you make her craving for you that will drive her nuts . Make yourself busy with something productive. Ignore her will break that pride and ego ... Do not be her backup plan but be her priority by ignore her and pull away from her because she's playing the game with you....
@elvinclark87776 күн бұрын
@@VicknowledgeMk I meet a 47 yr. old woman who is STILL playing games. Ignoring my texts and calls. So now I will take your advice and fall all the way back and see what happens. Thank You
@kasanical3 күн бұрын
Thank you Jessica. Great advice! Anyway, the women are many, I wont waste my time chasing one who takes me for granted.
@JessicaOS2 күн бұрын
Exactly!
@lifea-broad.5113Ай бұрын
Sad reality.
@jyrehicecream9779Ай бұрын
I love everything about Jessica
@faithfulchinazor1172Ай бұрын
Jessica you're a blessing to this generation of men. May the oil on your head never run dry.
@Thereisnomole-di7rtАй бұрын
Guys stop chasing and start attracting. You are not the center of her universe. Don't be a one trick pony .Get out, do fun and enlightening things. You can lose money, you can get it back and more. You can lose a watch , you can get another. Time is a resource you can never get back..
@oluwatobilobamoshood7031Ай бұрын
Am in this position presently all she said was directed to me and I will make a good use of it, Thank you Jess
@KJThePublicistАй бұрын
Thank you Jess, I began to use your advice and have avoided alot of BS in 2-3 short weeks
@miltonmawewe5248Ай бұрын
Madam Jess 🥰🥰,,,,She's Always True......✍️💪💪
@Ms.LifeHopeDesireАй бұрын
Depends on attachment style. Reciprocate.
@king-taolaolaiya7182Ай бұрын
You are just too amazing, I look forward always to see your video, am winning with them. Hope I get to meet you soon. The funny things is I went to your videos from 2 year back to learn. Thanks Jess
@nelsongoncalves5379Ай бұрын
Excellent point
@JessicaOSАй бұрын
Much appreciated
@davidmatovu4230Ай бұрын
Long live Jessica
@BaronCapital-lt5ozАй бұрын
You talked to me in the language that i understand the most. Truth is the language and i truthfully understood. Thank you Jessica.
@themidnightsonАй бұрын
And that's why I'm single. I don't have time for those games. Reciprocation is the key to long-term relationships
@KJThePublicistАй бұрын
I've noticed every time I meet a woman they ask me what I "want" in a relationship or a partner... I say reciprocity... and somehow the conversation slows down
@themidnightsonАй бұрын
@@KJThePublicist I agree. A woman's power is manipulation. She can only achieve that when you are totally invested in her . She has no interest in totally investing in you
@adamadeniyi9108Ай бұрын
I love you so much you are the best teacher in relationship ❤ this is what am facing thank God I come across this video 🙏
@thesobertruth8271Ай бұрын
ghost that B!!!
@Abesa-zo1ebАй бұрын
Thank you Jessica
@xxxyyy-iy4hfАй бұрын
Blessings Auntie Jess, you are the best.
@ronaldmwanaute4821Ай бұрын
Thank you so much Jessica
@hendersongreaves300421 күн бұрын
OMG!! GOOD work. I am a victim of all you have just said, thanks.!!
@NerdNovaTechАй бұрын
@Jessica Os, I really appreciate your insights on relationships! One topic that I think deserves more attention is the impact of mental health awareness on modern dating dynamics. As we prioritize mental health, how do we navigate the balance between vulnerability and maintaining personal boundaries in relationships? Many people are still learning to express their needs without fear of judgment, and this can lead to misunderstandings. Additionally, how do we support each other in our mental health journeys while fostering connection? I believe exploring these aspects could resonate with many and spark meaningful conversations!
@RayRay-bz1ob21 күн бұрын
Thanks Jessy all u said describe what I'm going tru right there. I'm just gonna pull back.
@stingraytq8494Ай бұрын
I have learnt this over time😊
@alonzoneloms565124 күн бұрын
Never! Never! Back track into a Relationship! Once the boat sails! Let them watch the sails!! Passports are looking real good. Right now.
@muritalaakande69Ай бұрын
This is quite interesting, there parts of what I had experienced in the past. Kudos.
@globalmarketaction4049Ай бұрын
You are absolutely amazing.
@JessicaOSАй бұрын
Wow, thank you!
@destinysodje1167Ай бұрын
Thank you so much Jessica ❤
@NerdNovaTechАй бұрын
Jessica OS raises such an important point about the dynamics in relationships. If a woman never calls first, it might suggest a lack of interest or investment in the relationship. It really emphasizes the importance of mutual effort in communication. Relationships thrive when both parties feel equally engaged. Her insights encourage us to be mindful of these patterns and to communicate openly about our expectations. What do you all think, should we always take the initiative, or is it okay to let the other person make the first move?
@quinceyrobusky2449Ай бұрын
Not chasing immaturity. Once i leave, i'm not coming back. Either take the relationship seriously or lose me completely
@TheAyanrindeАй бұрын
This is just basic reality of life and the best thing to do right now is to followed your advised and trust the process..and somewhere along the line she will understand..its high time for we men to man up and stand firmed..
@shinegandez2982Ай бұрын
Great as always ❤
@JessicaOSАй бұрын
Thank you so much 😀
@MondexSamuelАй бұрын
Thank you ma 🙏🙏🙏
@dynamic901624 күн бұрын
It's obvious n thanks much for this video.
@donavin5117 күн бұрын
Thanks! This was a very helpful video.
@GalabaSasikumarАй бұрын
this format really suits me
@andyogie585Ай бұрын
You are wonderful ❤
@mukundelorland6620Ай бұрын
❤❤❤Jess
@christianmomohconteh9371Ай бұрын
Good advice really love your videos educative!
@WelcomeToTheEmpireАй бұрын
I will delete the number and when she calls me i’ll say “who’s this”? This number is not in my phone anymore. FOH. NO disrespect allowed !
@TheTone7Ай бұрын
You think people in their 50’s wouldn’t play games sadly some do or be there supply and don’t reciprocate dating isn’t the same anymore.
@TyTyslicksterАй бұрын
EXACTLY
@freshempire7477Ай бұрын
That is sad
@GodsbusinessonearthАй бұрын
Sad
@janamtelli5893Ай бұрын
this video’s take really clicks with some of the things I've been reading in the book Magnetic Aura from Talesio
@mr_smart.24Ай бұрын
Too real
@wednesdaymariam546Ай бұрын
I kinda relate to this for a long run
@AlfredSwai-j3qАй бұрын
I once expencing this. I use poing number two to move on.😊😊
@cricketgamercricketgamer-d1oАй бұрын
if you're seeing this comment, it might be a sign to read 'Magnetic Aura' from Talesio ❤️
@BABA_YAGA_FF-007Ай бұрын
its hard to put into words, but the book Magnetic Aura from Talesio completely changed my life. i recommend everyone reading this to read it
@LuhckhyBouyАй бұрын
We can I see the book
@LuhckhyBouyАй бұрын
We can I see the book
@punchtravelchannel25 күн бұрын
Makes sense
@paulvijay3040Ай бұрын
I'm in the final stage right now and confused. I'm ready to take a step back but I'm getting fear of losing her.
@bevenrufu959712 күн бұрын
brutal truth of life love is complicated
@FrederickBass-b2w14 күн бұрын
Knowledge maketh men an women ❤🎉🎉 08:39
@Mustakim591Ай бұрын
really liked this video
@Dj-qi2weАй бұрын
To all the guys your better buying a washing machine it’s lest complicated
@ArunArunsharma-yp2jcАй бұрын
awesome video
@erastuskiplagat1295Ай бұрын
my coach😊
@ARNABDHIBAR-m1uАй бұрын
i can't believe no one on youtube is talking about magnetic aura from Talesio
@binubodla7938Ай бұрын
best!!!
@TheFuture36520Ай бұрын
Strong Christian girls are always trying to convince me but I ain't a people pleaser.
@gtoexpress8111Ай бұрын
Good video as usual - On point dear u tell it like it is - u hold nothing back
@KasonHarmlex-jp4bmАй бұрын
I ghosted a girl I've been chasing for almost 3 months and recently she chatted with me and we started conversing again. my headache now is that I don't have the strategy to apply now.
@RevealedFilmsАй бұрын
The strategy is to not get wrapped up in daily conversation and back to where you were before…you’re likely her backup plan to her ex or other options. Offer to have her join you for mini golf on Friday…if she’s busy and says no with no alternative time or date. Say ‘no worries’….stop speaking to her.
@GodsbusinessonearthАй бұрын
@@RevealedFilms wise
@NickKiogoraАй бұрын
It's complicated 😅
@hajiiikwelu1632Ай бұрын
Female Nature!
@skepo22Ай бұрын
I don’t even believe number 2 lol number 1 is straight up she is not into you just block her and move on no need to chase.
@Darth_BatemanАй бұрын
Replaced.
@Oshiko_SamАй бұрын
How would you react/respond if she becomes uncertain and cautious, you choose to end contact, and then she begins to question why you stopped reaching out?
@alphamantis8552Ай бұрын
@Oshiko_Sam if you're highvalue male, you don't have time for her because many need your attention
@Oshiko_SamАй бұрын
@@alphamantis8552 Okay 👍
@RevealedFilmsАй бұрын
@@Oshiko_Sam “nothing..just been busy with some other things, if you want to catch up properly one day let me know”
@RogueHeroАй бұрын
Well if she cared so much she would reach out to you and respond to you in a timely manner , these chicks know what they be doing. Fact is she's most likely dating other guys and vetting her options.
@Oshiko_SamАй бұрын
@@RevealedFilms thank you for the information, I would appreciate it if you could also include your contact details.
@leiperincАй бұрын
What if someone is in this situation but they're actually dating with the girl?
@elohimlabs226129 күн бұрын
R"ships have a lot of work, just stick to getting money young king
@georgeadjei2571Ай бұрын
Hi Jessica what if you are in a relationship with her but still you are always the person to initiate????
@JohnSmith-ds5tbАй бұрын
all these games they play 😅
@tylerk140Ай бұрын
What if shes mirroring you but liking other guys pics?
@AshburgDiorАй бұрын
Ts worse wen she is sending mixed signals 😔
@paulvijay3040Ай бұрын
Did it worked?
@Oshiko_SamАй бұрын
1st here😅
@JessicaOSАй бұрын
Second!
@Oshiko_SamАй бұрын
@@JessicaOS Lol 😊 Ok ...I got a question
@kofib3Ай бұрын
Clap for you both👏
@Oshiko_SamАй бұрын
@@kofib3 👏👏
@zarrzarr998920 күн бұрын
so true manipulation
@aimatacollins1326Ай бұрын
Jeccisa oc how do you know my situation
@KeyToTheMansionАй бұрын
Women were never thia complex it was never like this before. I dont know what heppened but it has become too much of a science project. Not enjoyable anymore
@HHV4413 күн бұрын
Drop her no time for the game keep it moving. Find someone that actually likes you.