If She's Holding You Back, But You Love Her, Please Watch This Video...

[@svetlanikolova3196]

me (a woman) watching the enteire video lol

[@fernandososa6507]

I wish I knew this sooner. You're spot on with my mistakes throughout the relationship, that sadly drove her away..

[@FilipSmallPP]

Same here brother ❤ I am doing everything to change myself for better... if it is meant to be we will be again together

[@f13ryfox71]

Your videos always strike a cord with me, I always get emotional, but they also push me to change and improve ❤

[@jingwentang6768]

You do look at things in such a constructive way. A place of strength🎉

[@withmessagesofvirtueiamunt2380]

You are on a good path stay your course! ❤ 🙏🏼

[@MrDSmith]

Point 5 definitely is definitely laying the foundation for growth from Stage 2 to Stage 3 of a relationship level. Well said 😎👍

[@pepinopepino7]

20:08 now, about this one, I do think my girlfriend "gives me these challenges" out of her own fear, hurt, insecurity, trauma... as she sometimes doesn't trust me, thinks I'm lying, etc. I don't feel it beibg a challenge she does out of love, but rather something bad. She's a good person, and I'm pretty sure wants me to grow, but this really gets me thinking about breaking up many times, and I wonder if my case is the one you mention at 19:42. Care to help a brother?

[@pepinopepino7]

btw, I've joined your community and I'm excited to start talking. But I can't wait to have some advice on this

[@redwall1521]

@@pepinopepino7 if she's giving you challenges like that, those are games and she is being manipulative. It doesn't matter if that manipulation comes from her past, that's still stuff SHE and SHE ALONE needs to fix. It's NOT up to you to fix it for her. Leave her if the "challenges" are becoming too burdensome for you, which it appears that they are. You don't deserve that. And if she comes back, and she's genuinely a better person, you have to remember why you left her. Just because she's better doesn't mean that she's fully healed from her past (and most people are never 100% healed from their past). It'll come back if you get back together. You need to move on.

[@pepinopepino7]

@@redwall1521 thanks for the long comment man! You're very right that such problems need to be solved by the person, for the person. I'll keep it in mind because sometimes I can forget that

[@pepinopepino7]

@@eq2 Sorry, what do you mean exactly?

[@jennyrudi]

Amazing videos!

[@eq2]

Do you have more videos on how you acting on purpose helped relax her? This was very profound for me

[@jingwentang6768]

It sounds like men do so much work while women only needs to be with him and be loyal to him. ❤