If You Can Do THIS, You Can Easily Get Girls

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Denmo

Denmo

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@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial 7 ай бұрын
Where have you met girls before? Besides the nut section at fortinos lol
@JoeBrown-bt4qg
@JoeBrown-bt4qg 7 ай бұрын
i have temporarily given up approaching female strangers because the next step involves a "date" . She will be expecting it to be out in public (implying that she doesn't trust me), and she will expect me pay for dinner, drinks, etc (implying that she wants to be compensated for the time she spent with me). I am not trying to be cheap and creepy . But from the get go i am in the hole and fighting an uphill battle to gain her approval and she knows it. I look back on my life and all the best relationships were when she was willing to visit me at my house sooner rather than later without monetary compensation. Huge green flag
@AlexanderMüller-i9e
@AlexanderMüller-i9e 7 ай бұрын
Hello Jack, i have been using ur advice to become more of a socialzier. I am already practicing talking to many different people wether it is school or outside with random people, it works well actually. But i am having a hard time with girls. I mean I can talk to them like normal even if they are pretty but when it comes to asking for their number or approaching them for the intention of getting their number i somehow am too afraid
@AlexanderMüller-i9e
@AlexanderMüller-i9e 7 ай бұрын
i somehow dont wanna embarass myself by getting rejected by a girl or not knowing what to say. But i am definetely working on it
@salahworx6963
@salahworx6963 7 ай бұрын
I actually go dancing. Latin dancing which is very physical. That`s a great way to get to know ladys. But I am careful about hitting on them - don't want to get harassment claims. I talk, joke and flirt a bit but don't ask out in any obvious way.
@JoeBrown-bt4qg
@JoeBrown-bt4qg 7 ай бұрын
@@salahworx6963 harassment claims? lmao So you think you will get fired from your job if you ask a girl out at the dance club?
@AnythingThomas
@AnythingThomas 7 ай бұрын
I (17M) approached a girl on Friday, conversation went well and we said we were going to hang out at lunch but she stood me up. A little annoyed as it was the first and only time I've ever approached a girl but at least I proved to myself I can do it.
@MichaelDavins-id7vx
@MichaelDavins-id7vx 7 ай бұрын
Best dating coach said his pick up rate was 1% so you doing good bro
@Totsy30
@Totsy30 7 ай бұрын
Hell yeah dawg. Proving to yourself that you can approach and make the move is hardest at the start. The more you do it, the more you realize it isn’t a big deal. They say no? It’s whatevs.
@YZFMANIAC08
@YZFMANIAC08 7 ай бұрын
Only approach women who give indicators of interest
@omotayosatuyi252
@omotayosatuyi252 7 ай бұрын
I've been stood up before multiple times it's not fun my friend
@omotayosatuyi252
@omotayosatuyi252 7 ай бұрын
@@YZFMANIAC08To be fair it was his first time approaching a women and it was his first time meeting her
@AnointedOne4God
@AnointedOne4God 7 ай бұрын
Bro has a heart for the people.
@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial 7 ай бұрын
when men cant get girls they get angry and do not contribute to society. Sounds weird but, helping men make friends and have the option to date motivates them to participate
@fahimrafaonmoy5272
@fahimrafaonmoy5272 7 ай бұрын
@@Denmosocial That's True... But Can You Make a Video About Some times I'm Too Good at Approch Some Times I am Not.... And I'm unware of this Situation of mine... I Don;t Know What it is.... But I'm Sure It is Happening to Me....Can You Please Describe Why We Men Feel Like This Some Time Maybe It's Me or Some Percentage of Men Out There Like Me....Make a Video About This....
@benhorton1943
@benhorton1943 7 ай бұрын
Cold approach is 100% the way. I've gone out with girls that I couldn't dream of swiping on me on dating apps. It shows your confident, and is just way more genuine and authentic than dating apps
@szililolabu
@szililolabu 7 ай бұрын
💯
@therealriverryan
@therealriverryan 7 ай бұрын
True. Going to start this week after Memorial Day weekend before I do my vacation
@szililolabu
@szililolabu 7 ай бұрын
@@therealriverryan write us how it goes
@therealriverryan
@therealriverryan 7 ай бұрын
@@szililolabu Did first approach today, didn't ask for her number. Just kept it short since she was heading home and I had to go to work. I saw her walking across from me when I was coming out of the train station and caught up to her when she was at a crosswalk. She smiled when I told her that I saw her walking by and thought she was cute and wanted to come over and say hi and we introduced ourselves to each other. Went well for first approach for today. Doing more tomorrow.
@szililolabu
@szililolabu 7 ай бұрын
@@therealriverryan that sounds great. A smile is great feedback.
@ModernDatingMastery
@ModernDatingMastery Ай бұрын
*When you truly believe in your worth and stop worrying about getting rejected, that energy is contagious.*
@JoeBrown-bt4qg
@JoeBrown-bt4qg 7 ай бұрын
Being able to speak humorfully non stop for 3 minutes to a baddie is a superpower unto itself.
@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial 7 ай бұрын
this power can be learned young padawan
@PremiumUserUltra
@PremiumUserUltra 7 ай бұрын
Easy, you gotta let go. You are you and not the past and not the future. Being present is amazing.
@fuzzypanda1684
@fuzzypanda1684 7 ай бұрын
You'd think so, but I've approached tons of girls and talked to them for anywhere from just a few minutes to half an hour, all the while they're smiling, making eye contact, twirling their hair etc., only for it to go nowhere. Apparent initial interest means nothing.
@JoeBrown-bt4qg
@JoeBrown-bt4qg 7 ай бұрын
@@PremiumUserUltra But "letting go" is a superpower!
@heartpaid6767
@heartpaid6767 7 ай бұрын
@@PremiumUserUltra thats a pretty good advice
@josh2878
@josh2878 7 ай бұрын
Jack doing his part helping solve the number one problem in the western world, mad respect to you bro.
@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial 7 ай бұрын
we out here
@TheArsenalMan125
@TheArsenalMan125 7 ай бұрын
@@Denmosocial I wish you were around six years ago. Jack your videos are great and the advice is solid but it’s too late for me at 31. This stuff just won’t work.
@vonavykanalasmr64
@vonavykanalasmr64 7 ай бұрын
I invited a waitress in restaurant on Coffee today. She was smiling on me all the time i was there, so i build up confidence and ask her. My legs was shaky, but somehow i do it. She answered, that she have boyfriend, so i was little sad. But the point is, if I hadn't asked her, I would still be wondering if she liked me or not. I have peace in my soul now, that my body and my confidence didnt fail me and I know the answer and can move on. Greetings from Czechia! 🇨🇿 We have beautiful women 🥰
@KameranRussell-cq1bs
@KameranRussell-cq1bs 7 ай бұрын
I cannot get over how much incredible value there was in this video. Thank you so much man
@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial 7 ай бұрын
cheers mate
@durodesduvo8424
@durodesduvo8424 7 ай бұрын
I’ve been approaching a lot of women lately. I’m intentional, confident, normal, and all of that good stuff, but if you’re not her type, there’s nothing you can do- meanwhile another guy who _is_ her type can lack confidence and still have a much better chance. It can make you bitter knowing that for us normal guys, the things that are out of our control; genetics and upbringing, 80% determine your success with women, at least it varies depending on the area. I’m over here considering what should be the next language I should learn so I can move to a whole new continent where the women there _might_ appreciate me more. If your type is desired in your home continent, you have no idea how blessed you are.
@comicrandomness3289
@comicrandomness3289 6 ай бұрын
I'm going to san juan Puerto rico for work. I want to make it a working vacation. I've been hearing about passport bros so I've been watching these types of videos to know how to approach women. Hopefully i can be like the rolling Stones and say "what's the matter? They're coming over at twelve with some puerto rican girls who are dying to meet you!"
@tacticalfox1928
@tacticalfox1928 7 ай бұрын
All my friends who have relationships have met their love in interest circles. It was as if they were mutual acquaintances, in class, at work. So the thought of "going out and meeting someone on the street" or whatever it is makes me think that something is already wrong with me.
@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial 7 ай бұрын
how did they get into the interest circles in the first place? They had to go out and meet them first lol
@BS_Profile
@BS_Profile 7 ай бұрын
Those people don't understand that not every guy is lucky enough to have a cool and attractive woman sit next to him in class/work that acknowledges his existence, talks to him, jokes around, is friendly, etc. If we all had that, then no shit we would ask her out and probably get into a relationship with her lol. They can't comprehend the fact that not everybody has a girlfriend tee'd up for them like that through pure chance. It's easy mode at that point. Things are a lot more difficult if you don't have that.
@enginerdy
@enginerdy 7 ай бұрын
@@BS_Profilethe takeaway here should be HAVE INTERESTS.
@tacticalfox1928
@tacticalfox1928 7 ай бұрын
@@Denmosocial I've been and still am in interest circles, but I've never found a love interest there, although I've tried. That's why it seems to me that just going out and starting an acquaintance is something strange and speaks of me as a person with whom something is already wrong. I've already tried to get to know each other on the street, using dating apps. Variable success and complete fatigue from dating.
@Eleven-mn7us
@Eleven-mn7us 6 ай бұрын
@BS_Profile Actually facts bro
@colmfarrell3915
@colmfarrell3915 7 ай бұрын
Great perspective brother. Would love to see a video about getting over that weird sense of discomfort when you do muster the courage to start an interaction with someone but it goes horribly, then moving on and fully letting it go without viewing yourself negatively. Letting go of mistakes is such a pivotal part of building future potential to become successful.
@RiderZer0
@RiderZer0 7 ай бұрын
I appreciate videos like this. I was bullied a lot in high school. It was like people tried using me as a stepping stool to look “cooler” or be “popular”. I developed serious social anxiety that I still have yet to overcome and my perception of people has been quite negative. But the fact is, people are social creatures and it’s something I need to move forward from. I used to visibly shake and get ice cold when socializing. Now I can actually have conversations with people, but being humorous with someone I just met is my biggest hang up.
@arielgarcia8377
@arielgarcia8377 7 ай бұрын
Just got laid up last night after a cold aproach, this is literally it
@Im-lost-pleaese-help
@Im-lost-pleaese-help 7 ай бұрын
How sad
@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial 7 ай бұрын
bro send me an email or give me a testimonial thats awesome
@shreddersteve2663
@shreddersteve2663 6 ай бұрын
@arielgarcia8377 Lucky bastard! I can't even get a number out of approaching.
@shreddersteve2663
@shreddersteve2663 6 ай бұрын
@arielgarcia8377 Lucky bastard! I can't even get a number out of approaching.
@shreddersteve2663
@shreddersteve2663 6 ай бұрын
@arielgarcia8377 Lucky bastard! I can't even get a number from approaching.
@Mr.Subhuman
@Mr.Subhuman 7 ай бұрын
This video is packed with sooo much value bro. Thank you man. But at the sime time as i watch this video i feel utterly sad because i can't implement the advice you're giving. I grew up with selective mutism and extreme social anxiety plus i live in turkey. i have so many things working against me. In any case i learn a lot from you Denmo, never stop making videos. Much love.
@23theroger
@23theroger 7 ай бұрын
going to approach 5 girls this week - Skyline
@speedy0_FPV
@speedy0_FPV 7 ай бұрын
talked to a group of 3 girls at a local climbing gym and made them laugh :D, thanks denmo!
@fuzzypanda1684
@fuzzypanda1684 7 ай бұрын
Making them laugh doesn't mean they're interested, trust me.
@brunoespinoza4523
@brunoespinoza4523 7 ай бұрын
@@fuzzypanda1684 bah! At least he talked !
@fuzzypanda1684
@fuzzypanda1684 6 ай бұрын
@@brunoespinoza4523 I talk to girls too, that's how I know their laughter doesn't necessarily mean interest.
@saeidk736
@saeidk736 7 ай бұрын
gotta give it to you. your marketing skills are pretty great.
@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial 7 ай бұрын
cheers mate
@fantastichumore
@fantastichumore 7 ай бұрын
Ok, here we go again. I'm going to approach at least 5 girls this week!
@DeusaRem
@DeusaRem 7 ай бұрын
Why?
@MichaelDavins-id7vx
@MichaelDavins-id7vx 7 ай бұрын
@@DeusaRem because people hook up then never see each other again and he needs to be a G
@andreasschneider6600
@andreasschneider6600 7 ай бұрын
#ohnesinn
@andreasschneider6600
@andreasschneider6600 7 ай бұрын
But still go for it :D
@AnointedOne4God
@AnointedOne4God 7 ай бұрын
Good luck brother
@zukunftverstehen
@zukunftverstehen 7 ай бұрын
Man, your videos are so calming, I feel such a relief after watching them, even though I have a lot of struggles I think that everything is possible and the hope is not lost yet! Thank you so much!
@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial 7 ай бұрын
glad to hear brother
@Matt-oy7pz
@Matt-oy7pz 7 ай бұрын
I’m glad you made a conversation with me today
@Abhishek.Sharma1991
@Abhishek.Sharma1991 7 ай бұрын
I’m going to approach at least 5 girls this week - Big Fan
@lepszyjaPL
@lepszyjaPL 7 ай бұрын
good luck 🤞
@omotayosatuyi252
@omotayosatuyi252 7 ай бұрын
U got this boss
@zeethree
@zeethree 7 ай бұрын
There must be something sick in my head that I have to be assured that a girl likes me and I like her before I will risk talking. Must be residual family & peer rejection.
@JoeBrown-bt4qg
@JoeBrown-bt4qg 7 ай бұрын
Nothing sick at all. Because you know the next and what will result. i have temporarily given up approaching female strangers because the next step involves a "date" . She will be expecting it to be out in public (implying that she doesn't trust me), and she will expect me pay for dinner, drinks, etc (implying that she wants to be compensated for the time she spent with me). I am not trying to be cheap and creepy . But from the get go i am in the hole and fighting an uphill battle to gain her approval and she knows it. I look back on my life and all the best relationships were when she was willing to visit me at my house sooner rather than later without monetary compensation. Huge green flag
@Ryan-cb1ei
@Ryan-cb1ei 7 ай бұрын
Same here, I just need something, I’m looking for the tiniest bit of assurance that she might be the slightest bit attracted to me at least, even if it’s just a simple stare. I’ve seen girls most definitely look at me (and I test it by not looking back just to make sure it’s not a staring contest) and that could be enough. Although I’ve never really approached but I’m working up the confidence haha. Sometimes you can just tell you and a girl operate on the same wavelength and that you’re good fit for each other, idk it’s a weird phenomenon. I wonder if other people can relate. I’ve made a few friends with girls in the past where we could just tell there was something there before, almost like we were long lost friend or resemble family, and so we gravitated towards each other. I wanna know if others have experienced that.
@JohnnyBGoode-xn9mo
@JohnnyBGoode-xn9mo 2 ай бұрын
No, that’s a totally normal human response. It’s the same reason everyone who wants to be a musician or writer or whatever says “is it too late for me to start” or “how do I know if I’m *really* and x or y,” or why people spend days stressing themselves out putting together the perfect plan for workouts, college, nutrition, etc. The human brain was evolved to avoid risk and due minimal work for maximal effort. This makes sense. In the jungle, you must conserve as much energy as possibly and avoid risk unless it’s guaranteed to succeed or you have no choice. You just need to learn to completely ignore that instinct and recognize it for what it is: irrational fear evolved for a different environment. Feel it, and then ignore it. It’s difficult, and you’ll never be perfect at it (probably 60% at best) but you need to learn to distinguish logical planning with avoidance.
@_BROJAS
@_BROJAS 6 ай бұрын
Out of everything I’ve watched on KZbin regarding this topic. This was the shortest, to the point, nothing but facts shit I’ve heard. It’s as simple as that. Well put dude.
@garyrobinson8665
@garyrobinson8665 7 ай бұрын
I have a cute dog and he attracts girls like a magnet. I practice talking with the girls this way. At least one or two girls a day will approach me to pet my dog. It might sound lame but it works.
@matthieulucas3898
@matthieulucas3898 7 ай бұрын
thanks to share us this denmo ! This weekek i am going to talk with 5 girls.
@crand20033
@crand20033 6 ай бұрын
I was standing there at a night club the other day and two girls approached me, they said they wanted me to buy them drinks. I bought them drinks (cost me 22 dollars). They drank them, walked away and I never say them again.
@JackJonValois
@JackJonValois 7 ай бұрын
I don't use the gym, I use the woods
@crand20033
@crand20033 6 ай бұрын
For what?
@tonyalgar4886
@tonyalgar4886 3 ай бұрын
@@crand20033 Maybe looking for girls ?
@USCGkev
@USCGkev 6 ай бұрын
Denmo I’ve confirmed every point you ever made in your videos today I was at a huge park that hosted a yoga class for free. Yoga hot chicks every where the amount of beautiful women were crazy around me and I didn’t speak to a single one or shoot my shot. Might have to sign up for your courses man this was horrible and I’m use to getting girls .
@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial 6 ай бұрын
all good brother, ready to help you when you are
@ruin1619
@ruin1619 7 ай бұрын
I am quite good looking, but had severe depression and social anxiety disorder. Not anymore, I feel great now, but I am somewhat isolated… still even when I was sick, if it wasn’t that severe, I could crack jokes, there were times when I was a class clown… but I went through extreme hell… I am way more serious because of that… I will try… if I succeed to get a relationship I will change my channel into something more positive…
@StormBRNGER
@StormBRNGER 7 ай бұрын
Great one Jack! Loved the Sigma male VS Charismatic last part hahah. Because it is so true. We need more examples of men being fucking charismatic, I think is one of the best things for the world right now. For this young generation specially
@charthers8903
@charthers8903 2 ай бұрын
This guy is awesome - I would never believe in a million years this generation could ever produce a dude that sounds like this
@amirh.jabari5401
@amirh.jabari5401 7 ай бұрын
14:39 the Malven act got me bro🤣🤣
@MinuteBracelet
@MinuteBracelet 7 ай бұрын
I talk to random people all the time but any girl i’ve talked to and gotten a number from ignore me and stand me up all the same. It’s not worth your energy guys. Does Denmo just believe that girls off dating apps are that much different than the ones on?
@fuzzypanda1684
@fuzzypanda1684 7 ай бұрын
Nice to see someone else who gets it. I spent years building my physique and my social skills to the point where approaching girls with confidence isn't a problem. I usually get good reactions with lots of smiles, giggles, and hair twirling, but never get any actual interest. I'm so tired of videos that say that if you get into shape and start approaching with confidence, you'll get results. Because there's a chance that no, you won't.
@animeman197
@animeman197 5 ай бұрын
Are you attractive? #BlackPill
@SystemWillFail1
@SystemWillFail1 5 ай бұрын
Yeah it’s all bs, this guy is just capitalizing on struggling men, which is like 60 percent plus of guys nowadays! I’m 6’4 and fit, and still struggle, fuck modern western women and fuck this society!!
@Mordal1222
@Mordal1222 7 ай бұрын
9:15 Bold of you to assume I get matches on dating apps.
@Daviddaze
@Daviddaze 7 ай бұрын
Comedy is important as long as it's not overdone. Balance with seriousness to not look like dufus. The serious questions are to find out what's in her brain if you're searching longterm connection. If just hooking up, remember sex means babies.
@Shivs.adv.
@Shivs.adv. 7 ай бұрын
I approached few girls watching your channel. Got rejected. Few numbers which i got...they aren't responding...ghosted. Except one, i am going to text...probably she would do the same. I wish died long back. Till college i was passive...now this is the price i pay. Reality is different.
@ProgrammerCpp1999
@ProgrammerCpp1999 7 ай бұрын
Bro you are Indian and if you are living in India what he is saying will never work because India you just cannot approach a a random stranger it is considered very weird,Indian society is nowhere as open as western society.so his advice will mostly work if you are living in west and also you are a white dude
@DeusaRem
@DeusaRem 7 ай бұрын
Why?
@nilakshguleria2449
@nilakshguleria2449 7 ай бұрын
Period ​@@ProgrammerCpp1999
@adithyanprakash9921
@adithyanprakash9921 3 ай бұрын
​@@ProgrammerCpp1999 almost facts.
@adithyanprakash9921
@adithyanprakash9921 3 ай бұрын
Buddy there is something you do before you approach..
@mohidnadeem9890
@mohidnadeem9890 7 ай бұрын
I'm going to approach five girls this week. God can't even stop me. -Mohid
@vtmegrad98
@vtmegrad98 6 ай бұрын
you don' t need a gym membership to lift weights or run.
@loyisotshandu342
@loyisotshandu342 7 ай бұрын
Your recent thumbnails are dope.👌👌
@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial 7 ай бұрын
thanks mate ill let my guy know
@danielmurray4965
@danielmurray4965 6 ай бұрын
"You cannot get girls unless you talk to them." - Denmo
@Jpiter
@Jpiter 7 ай бұрын
I will talk to 5 Girls this week, cute coworkers for the win if your quitting for Wildland fire season so lets see how it goes. DONT DATE COWORKERS IF YOURE PLANNING TO KEEP YOUR JOB LONG TERM. -Jptr
@aniketthakur611
@aniketthakur611 7 ай бұрын
Hey i am going to college from next month!!!!!!! Can you make a college guide video where you cover everything ( dressing,dating,communication,money etc etc) it would be awesome bcz there are very less video about this…..
@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial 7 ай бұрын
I have a college guide in my free skool community
@aniketthakur611
@aniketthakur611 7 ай бұрын
@@Denmosocialidk why my request keep getting denied ???
@aniketthakur611
@aniketthakur611 7 ай бұрын
@@Denmosocialhey denmo! Why your course is not opening in skool classroom section!!!!! It showing 0% ???
@agagqbq
@agagqbq 2 ай бұрын
tbh the one thing ive learned from just going to people and talk to them is, if they turn away or act rude, theyre the problem in the interaction, not you. as long as youre friendly and "take care of yourself" you cant do much more. some people will be good some people are just trashy because thats how they are
@whatsupish
@whatsupish 7 ай бұрын
I’m going to approach at least 5 girls this week let’s get it!
@agagqbq
@agagqbq 2 ай бұрын
routine starting from today: home workout > shower > talk to multiple people on the way to work > hopefully dont be mega antisocial at work
@someguy4071
@someguy4071 7 ай бұрын
Hey Denmo, just wanted to say that I liked how you put your important sentences on screen when you say them. I wish there was a funny reference at the end though.
@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial 7 ай бұрын
will keep doing in the future
@lukebrog3702
@lukebrog3702 7 ай бұрын
umm yea the first part is called "stealing"
@stoundingresults
@stoundingresults 7 ай бұрын
Low quality people, what do you expect?
@yeahrightbear8883
@yeahrightbear8883 7 ай бұрын
Denmo, anytime I pursue a girl, it never works out. 9 times out of 10, they will agree to a date but not actually show up when it comes right down to it. I have been flaked on so many times that I've come to expect it, and I'm genuinely shocked if a girl actually shows up. It's only when the girl asks me out that things actually get past a first date. What am I doing wrong?
@noglobo
@noglobo 7 ай бұрын
Believing a KZbin person making up stories to keep viewership high is what you are doing wrong.
@watchdog6619
@watchdog6619 7 ай бұрын
Yeah, noglobo is kinda right, sadly. Approaching them will mostly never work out, cause they don't want to be rude, or simply don't have the strength to say now. I'm sure they felt awful when they didn't show up and are to insecure to cancel the date. The safest strategy is when they approach, cause then they put effort into it and don't want to wast that opportunity. 😮‍💨
@noglobo
@noglobo 7 ай бұрын
@@watchdog6619 Having worked with many young girls and women, who trusted me and enjoyed working with me (cos I don't put that pressure on them mentioned in the video), it has been amazing to watch them give the positive vibes in real time to male customers coming on to them and then immediately as they leave, ask if I can serve that guy next time, even though they fully went along with smiling and flirty behaviour. I would never put serving staff in this situation. The best way to do this situation is to make friends by name with the most easy going person in the department, so the girl can see the social situation going on. She then usually wants to be part of the fun.
@gd8205
@gd8205 7 ай бұрын
I used this to cold approach (walk-in) to businesses and offer my commercial cleaning services. It works in life, not just girls
@fuzzypanda1684
@fuzzypanda1684 7 ай бұрын
It can, but it can also backfire spectacularly. Next thing you know you're being avoided and are ostracized because you've been labeled as "that guy".
@kristofhorvath3502
@kristofhorvath3502 7 ай бұрын
Im going to approach at least five girls this week
@ttvtobilive
@ttvtobilive 7 ай бұрын
I will approach at least 5💯
@fuzzypanda1684
@fuzzypanda1684 7 ай бұрын
A while ago I was at my local grocery store where I know most of the employees on a first name basis. I was in the bakery section and two cute girls behind the counter called out to me to get my attention. We started talking and they said that I had "amazing pecs" (I work out a lot), and I laughed and said they could touch my pecs if they wanted, which they both did. We talked for a while longer and when I said I had to go, they asked when I'd be back again. But the next time I saw them, they both avoided me and ignored me like the plague. Nothing happened between the initial interaction where they wanted me to stay and the next time when they completely ignored me. I worked for years to build the confidence to approach girls and this is not an unusual result. What I'm saying is, even if you build the confidence and social skills to approach girls, it doesn't mean you'll get positive results in the end.
@Kilcoy-on8wp
@Kilcoy-on8wp 7 ай бұрын
You needed to strike in that moment, and get there contact details, when their interest levels were high.
@Babyyxxmarie
@Babyyxxmarie 7 ай бұрын
I think they were waiting for you to say hi the next time. Normally if I make an effort to put myself out there and the guy doesn’t chase me afterwards I assume that they’re not interested. I would have got their info before you said bye or spark up a conversation the next time you saw them. Girls love assertive men! I think you’re doing great I know Denmo gets rejected too he just doesn’t show it very often. Don’t give up. It’s apart of being human you’re not gonna be everybody’s cup of tea. I’ve gone up to 5 guys so far (I figured I’m gonna be single forever if I don’t start putting myself out there when I see an attractive man) I’ve gotten a few dates but none of them lead anywhere and that’s okay they weren’t for me. Yes it’s extremely scary but the thought of dying alone is far scarier to me then it not working out with a few people or getting rejected. Keep trying all you need is 1 person to be successful odds are in your favor! I’m sure it gets way easier the more you do it (I’m not there yet haha) Best of luck! :))
@fuzzypanda1684
@fuzzypanda1684 7 ай бұрын
@@Kilcoy-on8wp I've done that before too, but usually if you get their number right away they never reply, so that time I decided to wait since I knew I'd see them again.
@fuzzypanda1684
@fuzzypanda1684 7 ай бұрын
@@Babyyxxmarie Thanks for the reply! I actually did go up and talk to them the next time I saw them, but they both seemed very disinterested. One I saw behind the counter and when I went up to talk to her, she barely replied and walked away to the back. The other was walking through the store and I said hi, but she kept staring straight ahead and didn't even acknowledge me. Approaching isn't really that scary for me because I spent years forcing myself to do it until I became desensitized to the anxiety of it, and now I actually really enjoy talking with people. It's just the disinterest from girls that gets to me. Anyway, if you've approached 5 guys and already gotten a couple of dates, you're doing fantastic! back when I approached a lot, I had to approach dozens of girls before I got a date.
@Reactor519
@Reactor519 7 ай бұрын
I'm not gonna approach any girl this week, I'm too paralyzed.. idk I'm ready but when i see one I just freeze and my brain goes blank, there is nothing more than I can say than Hi ;ddd
@fuckindante
@fuckindante 7 ай бұрын
social anxiety talk to people more to eliminate this it will help
@rswow
@rswow 7 ай бұрын
I've failed even the "hi" part for many years. lol. You did the first step! Congrats. Maybe picture something funny about her to stir you up to talk more.
@xMysticMike
@xMysticMike 6 ай бұрын
Great content, keep up the good work!
@worldblazin4209
@worldblazin4209 7 ай бұрын
Hi. Thanks for the brutally honest dating advice for young men. Yeah watched that video it was really nice. ❤
@luftlayersoroma5105
@luftlayersoroma5105 7 ай бұрын
I am a 33-year-old, relatively good-looking guy who is fed up with the crappy results from Tinder. How much time do I have left before it becomes awkward to approach twenty-something girls to get to know, socialize, and pick them up?
@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial 7 ай бұрын
I recommend you join Socializer bro. I work with guys your age frequently
@Joseph-phelan
@Joseph-phelan 7 ай бұрын
IM bouta approach 5 girls this week!!!!!! wish me luck
@mistafyremusic
@mistafyremusic 7 ай бұрын
I'm going to approach 5 girls this week. Josh
@SahilBatra9
@SahilBatra9 7 ай бұрын
I am going to reach out to 5 girls this week.
@morad5119
@morad5119 7 ай бұрын
I will approach five girls this week. I haven't in a long time.
@adomasgaudiesius
@adomasgaudiesius 6 ай бұрын
Im going to give in to my undiegnosed social anxiety disorder...
@WhiteFishNinja
@WhiteFishNinja 7 ай бұрын
Haha working in Vaughan? I work at one of the firehalls right by the fortinos by weston and 7. Some good looking employees there lol
@jackd7298
@jackd7298 6 ай бұрын
I’m going to approach at least 5 (3 if I don’t go out, maybe) girls this week. I’m counting on you future me
@Mohamad-1993-w2d
@Mohamad-1993-w2d 7 ай бұрын
I'm going to approch at least 5 Girls this week -- Simo
@davids7275
@davids7275 7 ай бұрын
I AM Going to approach 5 girls this week - David
@khamariharris862
@khamariharris862 6 ай бұрын
I’m going to approach atleast 5 girls this week 🎉🎉🎉
@nobodysperfect06
@nobodysperfect06 7 ай бұрын
Yeah I'll always be angry and bitter and resentful that I never had a girlfriend until my early 30s, unfortunately I can't do anything about it. Yeah while women get to easily spend their youth having fun, It's Not Unusual and not unheard of for lots of men to spend their youth being lonely and miserable. Yet people think men still have it better than women do. I get even more angry and pissed off whenever people say that comparison is a piece of joy that just fills me with a lot of anger and rage. I know I have spoken to other guys who told me who never had a girlfriend until later than normal and they told me that they feel that if they were born a woman they would have had their first relationship much earlier in life.
@Noels.u2b
@Noels.u2b 7 ай бұрын
I'm sorry to hear about your struggles with relationships, I hope someday you'll be able to unpack this and heal. If you're still looking for love, don't let your anger ruin your chances for finding meaningful connections. Rooting for you 😊
@ReyRey_Loves
@ReyRey_Loves 5 ай бұрын
Bros putting us on game🙏
@Reactor519
@Reactor519 7 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video
@szu3560
@szu3560 7 ай бұрын
I’m 0 for 8 rn, let’s get to 10 this week
@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial 7 ай бұрын
good man
@szu3560
@szu3560 7 ай бұрын
0 for 9, onwards to 10
@szu3560
@szu3560 6 ай бұрын
0-30, I can’t do this anymore I feel worthless
@Ahijah-do4hr
@Ahijah-do4hr 7 ай бұрын
My problem is that i don't want to face rejection. If i saw a girl that gives me the green flag, I'll approach.
@AJDoes
@AJDoes 7 ай бұрын
Question for Denmo or anyone: I am a private pilot (meaning I only fly myself in small aircraft.) and my goal is the US Air Force to fly. I don’t want to fall into a typical pilot stereotype of telling everyone I’m a pilot. So it’s usually a topic I avoid. (If I’m with people like my friends, they usually bring it up to new people for me like “hEs a PiLot” The problem is my entire life revolves around aviation. I have other hobbies too, but most of the stories I have to tell is about flying. I especially avoid bringing it up to girls because I don’t want to come off as bragging, because I feel like it’s a hidden ace up my sleeve. Denmo has said before that girls find it attractive when guys talk about things they like because it’s easier for us to be animated about them. Do I 1, find something else to talk about, or 2 find a way to bring it up so that it’s not cocky.
@jermainesigundu6398
@jermainesigundu6398 7 ай бұрын
Denmo your videos understand me alottt!!! But i really need some DENMO advice so i wanna talk to this girl i really like(in school)but shes always with a flock of girls (friends). I know how to talk to girls but not if they alot any advice bro😢
@omri10011
@omri10011 7 ай бұрын
Goated video as always, but what if i have alot of friends & multiple circles but all of em are boys / girls i have an agreement with that we won't date? I don't really wanna get out my way and socialize when i work out for example because i don't have time for another friend in my life.
@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial 7 ай бұрын
easy bro A) go out with them and use them as social proof to interact with other groups/meet other girls B) go to their social events / invite them to your own, in order to meet their female friends (so basically like, they introduce you to their friends)
@omri10011
@omri10011 7 ай бұрын
@@Denmosocial Thanks for the reply man, i've been doing the second one you mentioned but just haven't found a girl that is my type yet (went on 2 dates from that method though). As for the first one, any suggestions for places me and my friends can meet new people and groups?
@AdonisHasNiceArms
@AdonisHasNiceArms 3 ай бұрын
i am goin gto approach 5 girls this week
@thecurrentmoment
@thecurrentmoment 7 ай бұрын
I think joining a group activity is underrated for guys - guys tend to bond over doing stuff, unlike women which bond really well over just conversation. I'm not saying guys don't bond over conversation, but it's definitely different between men and women. Men can just do atuff together, not say anything, not find anything about yhe other guys, and they have formed a real bond. But sitting down for brunch and talking about what's happening in their life just doesn't bond guys the same way as doing stuff together does. Sooo...the point is joining activities that involve doing stuff with other people means guys can be in their element and is a great way for guys to socialize (woth or without the prospect of meeting women) It's probably the best way for guys to start building their social skills, as opposed to just talking
@tweeze123
@tweeze123 7 ай бұрын
ALL the girls in my entire life except one liked me AFTER i talked to them. Maybe they did find me attractive before I talked to them but if I never talked to them, it would have never developed into anything. Only one girl made the first move and she turned out to be kinda crazy. It's kind of annoying how these dynamics work as guys we can immediately like a girl just if shes pretty but girls I guess need to know u a bit
@Eleven-mn7us
@Eleven-mn7us 6 ай бұрын
I will approach 5 girls this week, i will comment in 7 days
@breakvinnysjaw
@breakvinnysjaw 7 ай бұрын
This is a great video
@theawesomegod313
@theawesomegod313 6 ай бұрын
I will try better to approach girls even though I've been better about it-Awesome king Ryan
@laszlotorok3593
@laszlotorok3593 2 ай бұрын
Im going to approach at least 5 girls this week. - Laci
@BS_Profile
@BS_Profile 7 ай бұрын
As bad as the apps are, they're the only way I've been able to get dates. They're very few and far in between but still better than what i get in real life. IRL I'm practically invisible. They never talk to me at all unless it's part of their job
@jimmyarmour5446
@jimmyarmour5446 6 ай бұрын
theres this chick that works at a convenience store that i visit often for lunch, next time i see her (this sunday) i want to give her my number as opposed to asking her for hers. my plan is to ask for the receipt (noone asks for a receipt for lunch) and write my number down in it how yall feel about this plan?
@MrJuan_Vzla
@MrJuan_Vzla 6 ай бұрын
How did it go?
@onathe5217
@onathe5217 6 ай бұрын
I'm socially awkward and shy to socialize with people I don't know... I'm done huh?
@gosu_bg5818
@gosu_bg5818 7 ай бұрын
Imma go talk to at least 3 girls this week and 5 guys to make friends
@zimbaownestad8104
@zimbaownestad8104 7 ай бұрын
I am going to approach at least 5 women this week.
@DickWolf-xb4kl
@DickWolf-xb4kl 7 ай бұрын
Can you go over your investment portfolio in a video
@BeardedBeerMan
@BeardedBeerMan 7 ай бұрын
Number 3, okay so I got to talk to my dog because I have a home gym?
@jeremycarpenter5550
@jeremycarpenter5550 7 ай бұрын
Learn the cold approach it works trust me .
@d-8664
@d-8664 7 ай бұрын
Trust it does not work.
@bohemianist2082
@bohemianist2082 6 ай бұрын
5:40 "i am going to approach at least 1 stranger person in this week"
@jamesadams6360
@jamesadams6360 2 ай бұрын
Bro, I'd sell both my kidneys to look like Pete Davidson. Hes got a hairline, a jawline, and straight teeth. That's like peak male attractiveness there.
@marceloliwa3702
@marceloliwa3702 4 ай бұрын
I'm going to approach at least five girls this week - Marcel
@theterminator8707
@theterminator8707 Ай бұрын
I’m Gonna Approach At Least 5 Girls This Week -The T-800
@michaeldavis8137
@michaeldavis8137 7 ай бұрын
I will approach 5 girls this week!
@shockwave6416
@shockwave6416 7 ай бұрын
I love story time! More story time! More hand movements!
@Beardo.2020
@Beardo.2020 Ай бұрын
I'm 22 and with my relationships in high school I always had girls walk up and talk to me, I was too much of a puss to approach the hotties myself, to be fair though I had lost weight the summer after my freshmen year, and my sophomore year was littered with girls approaching me. Now I've gained my weight back and lack confidence, in the process of losing weight, hopefully these vids will pay off, just gotta nut up and go for it I guess.
@geoeconomics5629
@geoeconomics5629 6 ай бұрын
If you can control yourself This is very attractive to women
@jbluis2k
@jbluis2k 6 ай бұрын
Im going to aproach at least 5 girls this week - Luis
@michaelcaggiano7393
@michaelcaggiano7393 6 ай бұрын
I’m going to approach at least 5 girls next week - Michael
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