If You Date Someone With Borderline Personality Disorder... Prepare For THIS

[@AxxelX5]

AVOID !!! almost killed me and I'm still not recovered after several years

[@WoziduranJahemter]

Many guys died killed by girls with BPD doing witchcraft on them also.

[@Haroun.Benmahdjoub]

For real! They keep coming back trying! The stalking, the spying, and the breach of privacy!

[@Nope00901]

Same

[@Nope00901]

@@Haroun.Benmahdjoubyup mine came back after 3 years thru a family member. I never thought she’d try to talk to me again. But she did… like do you know what u put me thru

[@Dman9fp]

If it seems too good to be true, nowadays it most likely is lol. The most attractive down to earth gals are almost always taken, that's just life

[@YouTubeOverrated]

You can't keep someone else warm by lighting yourself on fire.

[@YouTubeFan559]

Don't... just don't. My last gf had it.. just a horrible relationship.. could not make it work no matter how hard I tried

[@SartorialisticSavage65]

The best expression I've heard for BPD is: No good deed goes unpunished.

[@EnFyr]

Facts. 15 years with one broke me.

[@JaskiratSGrewal]

same. nothing is ever good enough.

[@Nope00901]

Yup. Leave them right where they at

[@FathersLoveWithoutEnd]

Dont think that you can save them. They will take you down with them. Every time.

[@YouTubeFan559]

Yep 💯

[@CoReOmega]

They we'll drain your soul

[@Nope00901]

They kick you down and stand on ya head. Then blame you for getting their shoe dirty

[@shawncoleman2909]

Eight years with a girl with BPD...almost killed me. Gorgeous, smart, funny, completely unstable. Endless rollercoaster that picks you up and drops you on the rocks almost daily. The neurotic tendencies are contagious and start to take over your mind just from dealing with them. Super dangerous and ultimately heartbreaking. Will forever mourn the loss of her potential but self preservation set me free.

[@Nope00901]

Bingo 💯💯💯

[@bobesfanchi]

How long did you stay?

[@AmandaHugenkiss96]

@@bobesfanchi They're a like a drug. Very addictive and the withdrawals are the WORSE.

[@ThatsMADDD]

Guys, please learn about this and other personality disorders. It’s hard sometimes to pick it out if you don’t have experience but if you do realize it, end it right AWAY. The stages are mainly an Idolization stage followed by the devaluation stage. The devaluation stage WILL DESTROY you and mess your psych + life up. This is very serious. It doesn’t matter how tight your game is. It’s because they have a personality disorder.

[@brendangray]

Yep. 100% right. That devaluation is inevitable and bpd is rife.

[@qwanathomas735]

Exact and precise description. BPD people know they have it and still get into relationships knowing that it will happen time and time again. They only need one valid reason to devaluate you.

[@zandig666]

Oh ya if they say the most fukkkd up shit and act like they didn't say it there's a problem 😂😂

[@Nope00901]

💯💯💯

[@davidbrown2440]

@@qwanathomas735the reasons are often not even valid.

[@michaelarojas]

Anyone suffering from mental health issues must focus on themselves.

[@BREEZYM6015]

That's exactly what I do.

[@Laura-sg6ss]

Yes however for how long😂😂 should they just never be in love, alot of people will never be "over" it entirely. Should they wait until they're 70?😂 and anyone is crazy coz alot of people are struggling. R.I.P. humans👯🏾‍♀️👯🏾‍♀️👯🏾‍♀️

[@VintageVice-li4pq]

He'll nah breh take that shit out on some rando

[@thecatevans]

he got hit by a borderline suddenly all this content makes so much sense.

[@user-ju6zx3rm8d]

yes, but thing is, the dating marketplace as a whole shows bpd-like traits. Women with bpd are just that, on steroids

[@Haroun.Benmahdjoub]

Women naturally have some traits but with full bpd, it goes cray crazy... I don't think that he used to be specific about bpd in other videos until he saw our comments about it because I mentioned cluster b PD many times.

[@thecatevans]

@@Haroun.Benmahdjoub I can’t tell you how many men I know, myself included - who have had their lives absolutely devastated by women with BPD. Emotional recovery is a length process - hope bro gets out. The girls part is relevant, certainly the biggest block for the independent progression of men - but there’s other things we need to focus on…. Get well soon brother

[@Nope00901]

@@user-ju6zx3rm8dyes

[@TurbulantSynider]

​@@Haroun.Benmahdjoub No.. not naturally. Only a few personality types gets hooked up to them until the point of devaluation amd discard. We need to heal ourselves and past childhood traumas to not dive in to these creatures.

[@rapstar4575]

Truth. Bpd relationships are a huge waste of time. They will find a reason to devalue then ghost you ripping your heart out. Run ❤

[@Nope00901]

💯

[@Innatelydone]

Many don’t realize that these mental health disorders actually come from spiritual warfare! We battle not with flesh and blood, ALL PRAISE TO THE MOST HIGH!🙌

[@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485]

Our war is a spiritual war

[@CalebBroad]

THIS IS TRUE & IT SURE DIDN'T HELP WITH THE PEOPLE THEY THOUGHT THEY COULD TRUST LYING & BETRAYING THEM... WHICH IS ULTIMATELY WHAT CAUSED IT. WHAT I WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND IS NOT APOLOGIZING OR BEING HONEST ABOUT WHO CAUSED IT. WITHOUT THOSE TWO THINGS, THERE'S ZERO HOPE

[@dalts9327]

How the fuck do you know that for a fact?

[@Clintsessentials]

💯

[@rustyshackleford4299]

"You will know them by their fruits."@@dalts9327

[@Abdanthedestroyer]

Demon possession bro

[@Abdanthedestroyer]

We went through the same thing this year

[@Nope00901]

Yup 💯

[@Photomonon]

Took the words right out of my mouth

[@cowboynohorse]

I am your 49th like! You are correct about the demonic possession.

[@OSTARAEB4]

This is very scary! I had a work colleague and she had feelings for me. I wasn’t interested and I let her stay at my place on four separate occasions. Let’s just say I wasn’t interested in her or any female. I came to realize she was crazy and afflicted with NPD but I suspect she was BPD with DID. She was emotionally out there and flew into rage fits and got verbally and physically abusive. I’ve never seen anything like it! I also saw her go black eyes once and it terrified me. Yes. They are manipulative and controlling and I highly suspect she was abused in several different ways and I suspect by her father. I threw her out of my home once and she butressed herself in my door like a football player. I tried to peel her hands off the door and she was like an octopus. I couldn’t believe what I was witnessing and thankfully didn’t have to call the authorities. She “fell” in my building lobby like a toddler and I was who did she click into now?! Every word TJ! Run! You can’t fix these lost souls and a real unstable, dysfunctional bag of crazy! Run! She owed thousands and lived way beyond her means in some sort of fantasy world!

[@HughMungus-n8r]

I’ve dated a woman with BPD in the past. It was hell on earth, had to break it off for my own sanity.

[@Nope00901]

💯

[@CalebBroad]

ALL YOU CAN DO IS PRAY FOR THEM & FORGIVE.

[@yolandelyle]

As soon as you notice these signs,.............. 🏃🏃run for the nearest exit door out!! RUN AND NEVER LOOK BACK!!

[@Nope00901]

💯💯💯

[@tperceval]

Bang on Bro. The saddest part is seeing the potential. But the BPD comes from childhood issues, primarily a bad or lacking father figure. This is why Men from this generation need to be better, to ensure the chain is broken and we phase out this very sad disorder. We cannot see BDP in its true sense, without seeing its connection to the bad/evil behaviour of the father. Zero point in seeing it in isolation. Everything is connected to everything else. Trauma Therapy is what they need and men need to become a lot better fathers.

[@RoosterRaw]

I was there dude - exact same girl with the same mental disorder BPD - tough. Stay safe guys - people gone crazy .

[@brandonlashbrook6892]

They will emotionally black mail you, etc. Into being trapped into a relationship with them.

[@Nope00901]

Yup

[@NolayAhhsay]

I'd rather be solo than have that headache

[@EnFyr]

15 years with one... At this very moment I'm sending you all my warnings from an institusjon. Safe to say she broke me. You said it best with "a mental disorder robbed you for a good relationship and family." That's how i feel about it too.

[@psa4026]

Everyone seems to be BPD these days. What you described here is what I deal with on a daily basis with almost everyone I meet.

[@johninnes881]

Agree truer words couldn't be said.These darn creatures are controlling everything believe it or not as they get themselves in all the control areas shops banks post office schools blasted everywhere but when you've had a dramatic deep down experience with them it helps you sense these suckers out a mile away.YOU CAN JUS TELL RIGHT AWAY WHEN YOUVE BEEN THROUGH SO MUCH AS THEY USE SNEAKY TACTICAL DECEEIT TO BAMBUSAL YOUR EMOTIONS AND MIND.TO HELL WITH THEM.

[@Nope00901]

Bpd is common. But everyone just has toxic traits or even bpd traits. Or npd traits and that’s what you are seeing.

[@Dman9fp]

It's a spectrum. It can get pretty bad especially if someone with those tendencies are tired, hungry, expectations are broken, etc. Even If we feel we've "conquered it"/ stayed employed for years & years and gain a crap ton of resilience strategies. Just takes 1 bad day/ potential mor0n out there to get in our head, and it can blow up all over again. It sucks, it's a hellish disorder. No it's not demonic possession and we/ they don't mean to be that way. Trust me it'd be a whole lot easier to just not be crazy/ go off the rails ever... but telling someone with it to just be chill all the time is like telling a horse to never go fast or a cat to never play or hunt small critters. It's just in our bones. Especially when super stressed & tired / pushed to the limit

[@zandig666]

Bro I've had them verbally attack me and the next day they say "you fixate on things don't you"!! 😂😂😂😂

[@kyleklmondwa9042]

Dude that's basically EVERY woman does that, not just BPD crazies.

[@AnthonyAdrianAcker]

After leaving my ex who I am pretty sure is a Narcissist, I was developing what I thought might be BPD. My therapist who I have been seeing weekly for coming on 3 years said I may have but was in regression. Narcs will have you believing you are the insane one.

[@Nope00901]

Yup same

[@SherrysReviewsandResearch]

Mental health is such a journey. And its a solo one often. I sometimes think its best if people witj mental health issues just marry others the same.. Otjerwise its immensely hard.

[@shaneclinger5888]

Terry, you talk of possession and the disorder. Choices lead to possession which leads to the disorder. This is all explained very well in the movie Nefarious!

[@user-ju6zx3rm8d]

cope. bpd is usually caused by childhood trauma. Wake tf up

[@Mike-yn9ne]

It's impressive that a man your age has developed as much insight on the matter that you have. I've been married for 25 years to the person you have described. I caught on to it about 5 years ago. During the early part of our relationship I was working too many hours to dwell on it. It's too late and I have too much to lose to shut it down now. But I don't tolerate it any longer. When she breaks into that "mode" I shut her down. It's been tough and it will indeed mass with your head in a very bad way. When she's right, I'm right. When she's not, I let her know. I have no choice. The alternative is to lose your mental health. I'm done with that.

[@va4808]

I dated one and she suffered from BPD, she was also an evil broken witch, when she got triggered she would attack me with black magic instead of communicating. Weeks after she'd be trying to make up with me as if it wasnt a big deal. I feel bad for her, she's in some kind of demonic love with me. A fine line between love and hate with these people. Its a shame, they can actually heal if they do the work but it that change has to come from them and they dont seem to have the courage to face themselves.

[@user-ju6zx3rm8d]

they cannot heal at all. This is bpd. Read about it

[@Fitnesshealthpositivity]

Same bro I went thru the same thing

[@va4808]

@@user-ju6zx3rm8d BPD is a result of complex trauma, complex trauma can be healed. It takes time and a commitment to make healthy changes and choices. Therapy might not be able to heal BPD as the trauma exists in the body. One must work somatically with the body when doing real deep healing work. If the person works with the body they can heal.

[@va4808]

@@user-ju6zx3rm8d BPD is an affect of complex trauma. Complex trauma can be healed when one works with the body. Talk therapy might not be affective coz its not the most powerful healing modality. Heal the complex trauma and you heal BPD. This isnt an easy ride and the person must really want to take the journey themselves but it can be done. Healing trauma is basically releasing the emotions, stress response energy and programming from the body so the nervous system can heal and regulate.

[@Doidao-xx5vf]

Lol I was in a situationship with a woman with BPD a few years ago, one day she decided to leave me on read and when I didn’t chase her all hell broke lose. She did it again and I still didn’t chase I just carried on with my life. It’s been 3 years and she still tries to get my attention 😂😂😂 I haven’t talked to my own parents in 6 years I could careless if a woman or friends or other family members want to talk to me or not. I’m immune to all that stuff.

[@Nope00901]

💯

[@ericb.3002]

Both my exes are bipolar and I loved them both but it was depressing and it is depressing to still think about it. It was just too much to deal with.

[@user-ju6zx3rm8d]

bipolar is not the same thing

[@CoReOmega]

It's living hell man I had a girl who was like this

[@ArchiveChamber]

This was raw and completely relatable. God bless you Terry. I wish you to find a good godly woman. That’s what I’m looking for as well.

[@David-nu6kw]

I am 99 percent or even 100 percent sure my ex of 9 years has BPD. I am 39 and spent 25 percent of my life with her. She ended up discsrding me after a fight. I lived with her. She caused the most pain and trauma I have ever experienced in my entire life. I knew something was off but I loved her and step daughter and cat 😢. I still do. I never knew about BPD before I was discarded. I have never been so confused after arguments with her in my life. Her father 8 years ago said "Make sure you tell him how you are" infront of me after I met him once the first time as we were getting ready to leave. Driving home I wondered what that means. This is an incredibly sad ilness and she labelled me abusive, kicked me out from our apartment, and sent me separation papers. This almost destroyed me legit. I could not sleep for 2 weeks. I still cry as I miss them all. This was 5 months ago.

[@GarethJohnson-gd6if]

Stay strong brother, I'm in your boat just not as long. Got mine pregnant dew next year.

[@mojo5628]

Please tell me brother and be honest, does is scare you that she is pregnant now despite all the "ideas of love?" Please be honest as I am dealing w one myself. But she lost the baby due to not knowing she got pregnant while on birth control. Of course I miss her, but all my friends, male and female have told me "dude! You dodged a major bullet" Just want to get your input brother and wish uou of course al the best. That child is of course not to blame and I know you will do your best to love them. Praying for you! Look forward to your input, it will help others.

[@GarethJohnson-gd6if]

@@mojo5628 scares the life out of me, I'm a single dad with 2 and this one on the way. 4 plus year sober and these last 6 months has been harder than all that out together. I was emotionally, psychologically abused. Gaslit manipulated. Loved her more than anyone but can't and never will go back. And especially she sees nothing wrong with everything that happened. The lack off accountability is extraordinary. And also don't forget the I was the abuser and the gaslighter. Sorry to hear about the baby you lost. 😢. The sad thing is she will use this as a weapon against me for as long as she can.

[@GarethJohnson-gd6if]

@@mojo5628 Scares the life out off me. She full blown bpd. Was the maddest time off my life. Sorry to hear about losing yours bro. Definitely dodge the bullet man trust me 💯. I'll be there for my son. I have plans in place when I need to step in and take him. Done it with my other 2 who I have 3 years now. God bless bro I'm praying for you

[@jeffnugent6588]

My first real relationship she cheated on me at the beginning with a friend he actually told me about it didn't want to believe him we got back together then eventually moved in together big mistake then found out the only reason she wanted a kid was to collect government money this was after five years and she was cheating on me again so I packed my shit and left when she went away one weekend

[@1MNUTZ]

The empath that tries to change them gets screwed hard

[@Flokix4]

I agree, but they know they can't kill us.

[@1MNUTZ]

@@Flokix4 yea they can lots of people self delete from their abuse

[@1MNUTZ]

@@Flokix4 they drain you to the point of insanity then you can make a stupid decision

[@1MNUTZ]

@@Flokix4 they poisoned me with pharmaceuticals caused me brain damage

[@1MNUTZ]

@@Flokix4 that's why I dont trust anyone anymore and don't help anyone. They all just want to use me for what I can give them abuse me in the process and then set me up. They are pure evil I'll never let them in my life.

[@crystalburkhardt]

BPD is not the acronym for BiPolar Disorder guys…… and if you think he is talking about bipolar, you have zero justification commenting on anything mental health related.

[@kyleklmondwa9042]

That sounds like something a BPD chick would say to DEFLECT.

[@user-ju6zx3rm8d]

literally THE video i was waiting for from you. Super valuable, need more like this

[@AmandaHugenkiss96]

Everything he's saying is 100% true. It's crazy how we all have the same experiences. That thousand yard stare in Terry Joel's eyes says it all.

[@CalebBroad]

SUCKS WHEN YOU LOVED THEM, THEY WON'T BE HONEST OR APOLOGIZE FOR ALL THE LIES & BETRAYAL. EVERYTHING THEY DO TO YOU, IS YOUR FAULT. TAKE EVERYTHING YOU GOT, LEAVE YOU FOR DEAD, GHOST YOU, KEEP LYING & IT'S YOUR FAULT THEY REFUSE TO APOLOGIZE. LIKE ANYONE IS GOING TO COME BACK BEING TREATED LIKE TRASH & JUST ZERO HONESTY WHATSOEVER. FAR FROM PERFECT, BUT IT'S JUST SAD. PLEASE PRAY FOR THEM IF ANYONE WOULD

[@terrancestumbrice4640]

I am dealing with this with my women. One day shes fine and we are bonding and the next day its like something is not right. I try my best to have a conversation with her about this behavior and energy but she doesn't want to listen. It makes sense now.

[@SDVHILzseriolih]

its so crazy bruv, just lost a woman I thought was my one because of this very thing.

[@JesusChrist_IsTruth-LoveForALL]

Yep! 💯 I've seen them AND been with them too! 🏃💨 RUUUUN! Forget about them and keep it moving! 💯 Don't make it more complicated than that.

[@PassionateSpirit88]

It is such a sad tragedy to be in a relationship with a bpd girl and it overtake her and the love and potential y'all could have had. It is such a romantic high but your instincts tell you something ain't right. I went through this and she will go crazy when you suspect something isn't right or if she is cheating. Just wish them well in life.

[@ZekeRodriguezshow]

Been there done that. It’s absolute hell. Never again. I give up quick as well. If I see any of those behaviors exhibited I’m done. See ya

[@brodaymonday2367]

My ex has BPD. She shows very high prevalence of nearly all the traits. Was with her for 3 years and made a massive change in her life. she asked me to give her more commitment but I said no so we ended it. You have to treat them selfishly and never let them push boundaries. You can get the best relationships out them but it’s a constant hassle of being strict then spending hours explaining why your boundaries won’t shift. She cut out all her guy friends, never went out with girl friends or girls trips, did everything I asked of her but it takes so much time and effort to make sure they’re keeping their mental health on track

[@surfreadjumpsleep]

This is Truth. Dated this girl for 3 months. She was great. I had to leave town. She wasn't too happy about that. I came back to town and then she came out and met me. Spent two more months together. She even took me to his visit her grandmother. Had to leave again and she painted me black. Now I learned that before I came back that second time she was on hookup apps asking for between 2 and 3 men to abuse her sexually and have MMF sex with her long term bisexual boyfriend.

[@pjerdolinski37]

Whit a bpd you are just a character in her movie, crazy town movie, and then someone else will take that role..

[@aronrosas4191]

This.

[@skatertrash4205]

I went to prison over a bpd woman she beat me up and called the cops😂 run!

[@Nope00901]

Smh

[@Flokix4]

They will bring you rockbottom, and some will not survive it!

[@Nope00901]

Facts. Some commit S

[@Flokix4]

@@Nope00901 I was there brother, God saved me.

[@Nope00901]

@@Flokix4 thank God. God is good ❤️

[@Flokix4]

@@Nope00901 ❤️🐺👍🏼

[@andiwithani1215]

Went through the same thing bro. Can totally relate.

[@aronrosas4191]

This is the truth. I'm currently speaking with a co worker and realized she's very bi polar. Its a mental illness of the emotional state, some get it from PTSD or trauma experienced. Its a personality disorder so dating one isn't going to be a walk in the park.

[@Nope00901]

💯

[@juliarose96x]

Bipolar isn’t the same. Bpd is a trauma based illness , it can only be caused if you have a very traumatic childhood. They can have similarities bc of the intense emotions but they are not the same.

[@TurbulantSynider]

Only a few personality types gets hooked up to them until the point of devaluation amd discard. We need to heal ourselves and past childhood traumas to not dive in to these creatures. NPD ❤️ BPD but that is also a traumatic relationship. THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NO RELATIONSHIP WHICH IS POSSIBLE WITHAN UNTREATED BORDERLINE. YOU WILL GET IN TROUBLE ONE WAY OR THE OTHER. HEAL YOURSELF SOMEHOW. ISOLATE FIRST AND GO NO CONTACT

[@abnashibanga2806]

This video is so true. My father uses his sociopath tactics to dominate me. The crazy behaviour is gone beyond madness, my father is totally hardwired to the crazy tv and messd up job. These people will never admit the torture because they want to pile misey because it makes them high.

[@funkychorizo56]

You forget that all their outlandish behavior due to becoming vindictive isn't based on reality and only based on their delusional perception of reality, so you can not win. The cycle will play out and you will have to deal with it.

[@borasha]

I was there, I couldn't continue despite many temptations, maintaining my mental health and inner peace is more important, my advice is don't waste your time, health and peace, you won't be able to fix that and your years will not return.

[@brettcatterall7761]

I broke up with my girlfriend last month. She was graped when she was a little kid by her neighbor . All her past trauma bled off on me and i could have been arrested from her false accusations

[@athenajoy1455]

Can’t fill a bucket with holes with holes! Stop trying to fix these demons you will end up looking in mirror and not recognize yourself

[@JaskiratSGrewal]

Early on in my past relationship, I spent the entire day with this girl, and at the end of the night I said I'm going home now. She called me mid way home and started a fight so I turned around and went back to her place, and she had already put my clothes and gifts I got her by the garbage. Hot and Cold behaviour, hissy fits, fights over nothing. She also had daddy issues (said "I hate my dad" on the regular), and narcissistic. She also had a drinking problem. I never would have left her, because I'm loyal to a fault, didn't want to give up on her, and just felt that she would get better. She broke up with me. I didn't know what the hell was going on at the time until after I got out of the relationship and started looking into it. When you said you would be married to one these girls, that hit home. I wish she wasn't like this.

[@wtrpddles]

been dealt with it

[@metalassassin8841]

Going through the whitdrawals rn... After almost two months from discard...After a year and a bit of rel...You cannot describe the hell that such a rel is... Once they are done with you, you feel like they feel basically...Empty...

[@higherpower7176]

I have bpd and a convinced all of y ex gf’s were either bpd or npd, it was nuts. I have Asperger’s and bpd so mostly Asperger’s toes over. Love bombing and making you feel great and once they know you lie them they start up with the push and pull, there’s no such thing as no drama. You have to let them go, you can’t save them, it’s not your responsibility and the best way to leave is with indifference. Do not fight or yell or tell others, they will use it as a unit ion to be a victim and paint you black. Keep an eye out for red flags and pay attention to your gut feelings. Do not leave them by embarrassment or insults or going 180 on them or they will keep tabs on you for life. I personally had to shut down once I discovered them stalking me. Hope this helps

The saddest part about the entire thing is that usually, the girl will love you to pieces. And so whatever she's doing, it comes from the subconscious. She's operating on auto-pilot. It's a defense mechanism due to severe trauma. In my case, the girl lost her dad. Prior to that, there were traumatic experiences in childhood. So she pushed and pulled me. After it ended, she told me that she layed on the floor of her apartment in a puddle of her own tears. She literally said she'll always love me and wishes me well. Do I believe her? Maybe. Consciously, they want you and love you. But as someone else said in the comments here, it's a spiritual issue. Almost like a demon inside. A couple of months after it ended, i found out she went on a vacation with her little daughter (who got attached to me btw) and her ex, the father of her daughter. This is after her telling me and her best friend (who is a shrink) telling me that she will NEVER be with that guy. That he is NPD and all the rest of it. Then I learned that BPD and NPD are peas in a pod. Thats another side lesson learned. Actions...not words...especially with women. PS...i'm surprised her shrink friend was not able to diagnose her. Then again, she's also a bit of a weirdo.

[@FinalPresentationSociology]

Weirdo in what sense? Autistic? Schizophrenic? Emotionally unstable?

[@Zay408er]

I walked away from a person with BPD. I didn’t know BPD was thing. She was off and I researched it I was like I’m good.

[@baccaratnatural]

Attractive people are much more likely to be get mis diagnosed with being normal when they have a severe or mild mental disorder, you can look the hows and whys but it is just the way it works.

[@miltonbroski224]

Bro. you are speaking the truth I watch your videos everyday after work.. at least u didn't have kids with one of these types of women like me.they will try ruin u and the kids lives. Narc's are dangerous

[@danielcollins43]

Yes Sr. Thanks for today’s lesson 🙏🏽💯🔥

[@OpLanters08]

Sure does suck when she is really pretty. Makes you realize its best to just let them go and let God set them straight. I tried fighting for someone who is manic. She is insane. Walk away.

[@johnmoran7996]

You can sense it and pick up on it immediately sometimes,those first red flags!that's when you start to realize something is off!😮

[@Statesider1]

To anyone who is in a relationship with a Person with BPD, the idolisation phase is as good as it gets, once you’re on that pedestal the only way is down. The cycle will be idolise, devalue, discard, I guarantee you. They were like this before you, they’ll be like this with you and they’ll be like this forever. You can’t get a personality transplant, this is who they are, the cycles literally minutes. They will never ever bring you long term happiness, notice the constant phrase of ‘roller coaster’ people use describing them, they are emotionally unstable and you will be too. I say this with the deepest respect for everyone, what you allow will continue and oh boy will it continue, know your worth because with a BPD before you know it you’re accepting things you know are totally unacceptable

[@funkymonk542]

It’s the frog in boiling water theory , many people would say just walk away , it’s easier said than done unless you’ve been with a BPD person you’ll understand that it’s not easy because you love this person but the sad rest is that they can’t take in your love so your on this hamster wheel that’s attached to a rollercoaster, their mood shifts like a thirteen speed Petebilt truck. You began to tolerate their nasty behavior then it can shift to walking on eggshells becoming closer and closer apart, you’ll become unease and an empty emotional wreck of a person. We’re not meant to feel that way , it’s either become some schmuck on wheels or finally stand up to the bullshit , and if you choose to stand up consider that relationship over because you’ll become a threat to them , it’s a lose, lose proposition and when it’s over they’ll move on like you never existed, it’s painful and he or she will repeat that cycle will someone else

[@robbytheartist3997]

I've gone through every single thing you have my brother. My wife refused to get the treatment though. She was diagnosed during our marriage. I worked hard to help her, but if she dont want it, there's nothing you can do about it! Married to one for 6 years. She almost got me thrown in jail on lies!!! Good thing I record things! I had to go no contact, even with my kids cuz she has them now. Get your therapy and keep your head on a swivel. If she got issues with any of her parents, don't date her!

[@thehentailord6708]

The thing is you shouldn't be dating someone with this disorder . Recognize the signs and leave while you can. Don't say anything just ghost

[@Nope00901]

They gonna call you a narcissist after y’all break up. Even tho borderlines are basically narcissist with mad trauma and alittle more empathy(not much more, because they lack empathy too)

[@scm24]

IDK diff between bipolar/borderline, but stay away regardless....crazy AF....

[@Haroun.Benmahdjoub]

Bipolar disorder entails severe mood swings, while Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), categorized within Cluster B in the DSM-5, involves pervasive personality dysfunction. BPD, positioned alongside other disorders like Antisocial P D (ASPD Aka psychopathy informally or sociopatjy), Narcissistic PD (NPD), and Histrionic PD, poses significant challenges due to its potential for toxicity, characterized by a lack of empathy and predatory behavior, especially towards vulnerable individuals. Effective therapy and treatment are crucial to mitigate these destructive tendencies and foster self-awareness, breaking the cycle of perpetual societal harm.

[@Nope00901]

💯💯💯 both are the different veggies in the same pot

[@AwakenedEmptiness]

A female covert narcissist is basically a BPD, they're almost indistinguishable. The only difference is perhaps an empathy switch. Not really convinced its real empathy anyways, because its all based on there NEED. Real empathy is built on the fulfilment of the others, need not your own.

[@ideasandtrucking]

Timing of this video is hilarious lol..

[@Afrotistic]

I've been doing this for 7 months and I already feel how you feel

[@densk8r]

Don't do it, I tried for two years. Every time she made a nuclear apocalypse out of the smallest situation (that 9/10 times only existed in her head) and it would unfold into the most comically absurd meltdown you could imagine. This happened VERY frequently, I'm talking multipule times a week if I did not act in a very specific way. I'm now dating a wonderful woman who I truly feel like myself around who has never once acted that way in the same amount of time I was with my ex. You can leave if you can get over their multiple insanely dramatic empty suicide threats. If I can do it, so can you.

[@densk8r]

They will never once apologize for the mind-altering emotional trauma they put you through on a regular basis either. It's insane. It's like the previous day didn't even exist. And if you so much as mention the absolute meltdown you had to endure and be chill about then YOU'RE the toxic one. Fuck off.

[@TurbulantSynider]

Also BPD are extremely magnetic and gorgeous. Your gut will warn you like crazy to NOT PROCEED. but you still will 😂 hahahahahahahahahahahaa just like i did u til i realised i havebeen attracting them all along

[@Zay408er]

I feel the same way about these chicks bro. Your not alone lol it’s crazy out there

[@douggross3323]

Just got out of a relationship with my gf who has this lol video came at the perfect time

[@juliarose96x]

Not all people with bpd are the same. I know someone that has it and she has anxious attatchement, she’s manic 24/7 , has been married multiple times and always in chaotic relationships . I have it and I prefer to be single/ alone, and I have avoidant attatchment . When I do have a boyfriend they complain that I always hav a wall up/ distant .

[@unholy.confessions]

If you're with a girl with bpd run !!!!! She left me without any reason she was crying the day before she left me telling me im sorry if im a bad gf the day after it i went to the gym then she ended everything with me PLS dont do it to yourself just save ur life

[@smokiedocumentaries5568]

Hope you’re okay bro I can see your pain I went through the same g

[@bendhaese]

I've got my own physical health problems I've been in a relationship with my bpd girlfriend she really can be great loving sweet and everything but she hurts me to especially for example i can't eat gluten she knows that very strongly lije when she eats somthing with gluten i can't kiss her what she did she took foodbwith gluten and put itball on her lips and said kiss me and i said no i can't in a nice way she was not having it she kept trying until she got the kiss i felt so bad not only that it can make me sicker but just the crazyness that she actually hurts me on purpose and then i talk about it few days later she like it was a joke like besides that she definitely puts me down to but also tells me im so cute its just idk what to think about it honestly its extremely stressful but its so hard to walk away from this any suggestions?

[@independentpuppy7520]

I wouldn't be able to deal with that. Haven't got the patience.

[@allanmeierjensen4925]

If you monitor me dont😂 good video ..what potential?...great video Terry got a like from Europe

[@TurbulantSynider]

You guys are talking about girlfriends. I HAD JUST A CRUSH. A CRUSH ONLY . AND SHE DID ALL THE IDEOLIZATION, DEVALUATION, DISCARD, HOOVER and lached on the next in the next day. The next day. Its unbelievable.

[@medricadu8863]

4:04 minutes use cotton buds

[@caliburrito3879]

I have a baby momma who is JUST like this.

[@UniversalBabyKen144]

30 star 💫 clip💥✅🔥👏🏽💯

[@MakingAMark75]

They mirror so you fell in love with yourself.

[@cwp2580]

Do not be captain kirk, saving her and her loved ones beam them off to fortune n fame

[@chaleorta]

Just DON'T run for the hills as fast as u can

[@Carybackup2]

Don't get VA JJ whipped guys 😅😮😂

[@UnaversalTriumph1one]

Dam very Tru 💯

[@BDogs10]

Bro. You struck a rich vein of bpd chicks. I’ve had my own bad experience (not sure if bpd). You know it might be a common trait

[@jbaru-jw7uf]

Don’t be with these people. If you are, you need to keep a neutral mentality. You can’t ride the rollercoaster upwards. You need to maintain stability in yourself. You can’t enjoy those huge highs, so that way you’re ready for the lows. These people will abuse you. If you can handle that, then that’s great. But the relationship will never last. So you’re not in it for the long run. They will discard you, or you can leave them first. It’s that simple.

[@Carybackup2]

Half have BPD 😅😮😂😢

[@SamuelSurbrook98]

I don’t understand. Why is it YOU that telling us this

[@johninnes881]

The constant buzzing wont help the ears.