*When you become the best version of yourself, you'll naturally attract the right person who values you for who you are.*
@VladislavBabbittАй бұрын
@@justinalam1594 You are not a PUA, though.
@smiles7631Ай бұрын
Dropping the past is key. Letting it go is hard, trust me. I can write a book on it. But I feel better everytime I'm triggered if I let myself feel it and let it go. Lots of healing happening in my life and it is good. Thank you Maya for inspiration.
@VladislavBabbittАй бұрын
Yes. Take whatever useful lessons you can from it, then drop it.
@pandorasbox9294Ай бұрын
This chick should start a male profile on a dating app and see how easy it is.
@VladislavBabbittАй бұрын
I myself have never used dating apps. How have they worked out for you?
@antebellum606Ай бұрын
@@VladislavBabbitt I got a date each week but with girls that were not relationship quality.
@VladislavBabbittАй бұрын
@@antebellum606 Ah, OK. At least they accepted to go out with you.
@antebellum606Ай бұрын
@@VladislavBabbitt You'll find even with dating abundance this won't make you happy until you make yourself happy. Sadly being disappointed and disappointing many women is not what you're looking for. Make the good feelings come from you. Dress well. Get a haircut. Bring your body fat down. Put on some muscle. Practice looking people in the eye. Speak deeper, slower, and louder. Quit any drug and alcohol habits if you have them. Treat yourself like you're someone you care about. Do difficult things that are valuable to build your confidence. Do all of this (and more) for you.
@kathyguinto4585Ай бұрын
She's doing this video,obviously becouse of what she thinks what could be in it,or she wouldn't be doing it.JMG
@LeeEverett1Ай бұрын
It's my trust in them that's holding me back. I've been burned too many times in the past and seen the worst sides of female nature that I feel like can't trust any of them for a relationship. How can I trust a gender who's notorious for saying "I love you" to leaving, cheating, or ghosting 2 days later like you're nothing? It's very rare I hear of men doing this but it's basically daily I hear or read stories from other men experiencing that.
@mikeloki2064Ай бұрын
The same happened to me but eventually I realized that it was my fault through poor choices. Severe childhood trauma damaged my ability to even see a decent woman. If you see a negative pattern in your life, the problem is likely something within you.
@citizencain454Ай бұрын
@@mikeloki2064 it's not always the poor choices of the person involved, some people can deceive others easily. The best thing is to realize that EVERY women is not like this and let it go. but also be wiser next time around.
@oeyvind.713 күн бұрын
Men in modern societies need to hear this!👍🏼
@inevitableenterprises6041Ай бұрын
Love when you get fired up - you're basically a faith healer - feel the zeal!
@dezmondphillip8263Ай бұрын
💯🔥
@vijayam1Ай бұрын
Waking up to some Sunday mornings like this... Good job Maya..
@ezflashАй бұрын
way to go girlie you're rocking lately quite the wave
@raphaelritz537626 күн бұрын
Thanks, for trying to motivate us :-) I've met some great women in my life, but we let ourselves grow apart. I miss them.
@conor1580Ай бұрын
There's a big problem that women are distancing themselves to the point where no man can get into their life. A lot of us men have done the work. Still there is a problem that both men and women are distancing themselves. You have to see that for what it is, and how chaotic it is. There are genuine problems with society. And people spending too much time in social media is part of it. Men put themselves out there, women need to start doing that more
@mrax10128 күн бұрын
Excellent video.Thank you for mentioning letting go of the past. So many of us carry around old pain,hurt, hate, heartbreak and tauma for absolutely no reason( I'm not talking about victims of severe abuse).. It serves no purpose, wastes our time Everybody has been hurt. Some more than others, but we all have to eventually heal.
@VladislavBabbittАй бұрын
Excellent video. She is talking about relationships, not flings or one night stands.
@clarencemwatha164128 күн бұрын
What she’s saying, is leave your past in your past , we get that we’ve been hurt in the past, but let’s build ourselves and our purpose and we will eventually attract them
@dj1uniqueАй бұрын
Perfect time for this powerful message. Thanks 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤
@EdisZlomaАй бұрын
I have honestly noticed that my wife wasn't enjoying our private time lately, but when I would bring it up she would just brush it off. I read a book on the theme and its called hidden techniques for manifesting women zorlest I have seen masive changes in our sexual lifee, definitely recommend. Great video tho
@themagescornerАй бұрын
Word Maya. Let's do a 1:1 session. Your wisdom is amazing. 🎉
@MagicmayaaАй бұрын
Email me @Mayalynncoaching@gmail.com and we can schedule a call! Thank you 🙏
@citizencain454Ай бұрын
I do. and she's awesome.
@skampo1525Ай бұрын
Oh this woman is 1000% correct! With 6 ,7 or 8 figures our problem isn't solved. Value Men attract Value Women. self love and inner work are keys to that. Or we face the same patterns over and over again until the lesson is understood. Get the job done
@gregv3920Ай бұрын
I agree with everything said here. But in my experience, becoming that person, being successful, taking care of myself, having close friends, having strong belief and boundaries, has completely chased away most women. When I was broken and honestly using them they'd line up. Now I'm wondering what kind of dog to get to bring some affection and loyalty into my life. And that's fine!
@Ben-farid-7839Ай бұрын
"You guys have clicked on today's video for a reason" !!?? The reason is " I'm a subscriber" ! :)
@aruraru6644Ай бұрын
I wonder is it possible for a fallen in love man to be the only person, who is in control of his own happiness, but good luck for everyone with it.
@anthonya3554Ай бұрын
I am 28 and have found that every girl I met in my life who I found physically attractive and had a nice personality, it always turned out they had a boyfriend. Even you're in a relationship. It even seems that most girls I don't find attractive are in relationships too. It's bizarre. It seems as if girls' greatest fear these days is being single. My parents found that there were more single women when they were younger
@dwaynetherockjohnson2024Ай бұрын
I can't do this anymore... I just can't... I'm done with all the games, all the maybes, all the bullshit. Why is it so hard to find an honest woman with her shit together, who knows what she wants, she is over her stupid exes and non toxic?
@citizencain454Ай бұрын
The key is when you find someone like that, you give them a chance to figure it out, and if they can't , let them go, in peace.. keep circulating. keep meeting people. they may even come back years later to you , ready to go. Don't get bitter. I know it's tough. Take a break if you need to. But also find happiness in your mission and your purpose.
@dwaynetherockjohnson2024Ай бұрын
@@citizencain454 thanks bro. appreciate the kind words
@samlads1711Ай бұрын
Worthlessness isn't a belief can can be demolished easily. It can become a part of a mans own nature, something that is embedded within him if it stayed for too long. It's something i struggle with and the main reason i'm not in a relationship, but it is still a belief, not something immutable. The hard part is realising how long this process of decostruction is lasting.
@mr_man-d8dАй бұрын
Thank You Maya🙏🏼💜💯
@sistergrimace1567Ай бұрын
No. I am neglecting things. I keep kicking my heels in the dirt, but it feels like the world is getting darker instead of lighter. I justify it by saying, "Well, if you want something, then you'd better be prepared for lack." And sure enough , it is getting dark out.
@JojoAcesАй бұрын
I want one but I won’t try to get one because I’m not read and I’m purpose driven. This being said I have to get into my career and have my own place MINIMUM. Out of respect for myself. I feel it’s a disservice to date before I have these things.
@citizencain454Ай бұрын
MAYA!!! this was great!! I could listen to this over and over again. This is such a good pep talk. I'm in the middle of the transformation process right now. Hoping to be ready to go by MAY 23. 2025. I've developed what I call the big 5. Get your ; Insides, Outsides, Time, Money, and Balance. And you will have the pick of the litter in most cases.
@JimKittell6486Ай бұрын
I can't begin to describe the magic of a good marriage. The ROI is far better than anything else. Nothing else is in the parking lot, let alone the ballpark. It's simply beyond your imagination, it was beyond mine, until I got here. Imagine if you never drove & owned a car, you would have no idea what it's like. And it's even better with children. On top of that, just when you think it can't get better, it does, it was 7ish years for us. People are so hung up on sex and appearance, a good marriage is far more than these. This is a wonderful 1/3 century-long marriage talking
@NoName-zb1gmАй бұрын
She's very empowering but if you want to play checkers while women are playing chess listen to her. If you want to play chess while women playing chess, listen to a male coach.
@citizencain454Ай бұрын
I understand what you're saying, but Maya is one who actually does have a lot of this figured out. This video was awesome. I was cheering! finally someone saying the tough stuff that needs to be said.
@NoName-zb1gmАй бұрын
@@citizencain454 She talks to a man like his mom or sister would. Sure it's with love but she hasn't cracked the surface of how to really del with women. Being sweet and cooperative doesn't always work. Relationships are a game to mist women and men have to play the game. Even the nicest women play games with his emotions.
@ElliottMorrow-fg4lcАй бұрын
No; I don't WANNA 'play'
@muradkhalilov6605Ай бұрын
Hi. Thanks a lot for this video, this one really helped me.
@TheRomanticMisunderstood6915 күн бұрын
And girls have just to sit there, what a wonderful position !
@timeravagerАй бұрын
9:42 Your individual thoughts won´t change the typical behavior around, so pie in the sky for simps who want a gf, all those poor simps.
@plunder943Ай бұрын
I don't think any man would want someone who would dare give up on him or look at him with doubt in their eyes regardless if he has his stuff together or not.
@OGCHuila24 күн бұрын
The true test for a man is when he has power will he act with humility. The true test for a woman is when a man loses it 'all', will she stick around.
@anilbaksh9962Ай бұрын
Maya- I been working on myself for 6 years, lost weight, went to trade school and have 2 trades. I just want someone to talk to and hangout and see what may be. However, all these women want is a Chad, or the rich dude. I so tired of their games - im done. Im perfectly happy bieng single and done with the bs women carry on with. Money can buy you whatever you want and no strings attached. I wish you would open a dating profile as a guy and experience the bs we get. It is why most men are done with dating, girlfriends , and fine with bieng single.
@citizencain454Ай бұрын
Modern feminism has definitely ruined MOST of dating , but not all. I'd change your location to a state where the women are more traditional . I've been thinking about moving over seas?!?!... haha.. But no, all jokes aside, they're out there. keep circulating , and meeting new people.
@Raymond-rr5ivАй бұрын
If you've had too many relationships that do not work out... Try to appreciate that you were the only one there every time a relationship failed. Figure it out, change, and fulfill your dream.
@lawrenceevers2219Ай бұрын
Great message
@henrysarango244728 күн бұрын
For some strange reason I feel I know you from a previous life, something unknown of you is very familiar to me although your skin distracs me I feel I know you... Your gaze gives me like a hint clear but blurry at the same time...
@thecrazyboy9221Ай бұрын
Yeah, just read the Gospel, men!
@sean.cory1Ай бұрын
I'm not mentally ready. I have PTSD Depression and Anxiety. 😢
@citizencain454Ай бұрын
you'll get there. keep at it!
@Billy_B_GoatАй бұрын
Solid message, well delivered, pretty face. Peace and Love, B Goat
@angelcruz657029 күн бұрын
My grandpa passed away I could have a girlfriend I said yes to you it’s true
@matiaspereira938213 күн бұрын
I want a brunette girlfriend who is basically a female version of me in personality
@jeffharmon2447Ай бұрын
Very helpful! Thanks
@lorensims4846Ай бұрын
I've always found that an ideal woman will show up when you're NOT looking, when you least expect her. I've recently been contacted by completely accidental connections online, both wonderful women who are now helping me immensely, each in their own way. And I have still never actually met them. They're well across the country, in different directions, much as my second wife was before I eventually drove across the country to get with her.
@ElliottMorrow-fg4lcАй бұрын
That's not how it works, EIther.
@NoName-zb1gmАй бұрын
For the past 20 years our society has been giving more to women and empowering them so they don't need men. There are a lot of good guys out there who don't have great jobs and a lot of money. Women look down on them because women don't appreciate they've been given many advantages by society over the past 20 years. Many think they've done it on their own. Let me tell you I work with and for a lot of women and they are not great workers or bosses but have been given these jobs because of the politics over the past 20 years.
@omnizenАй бұрын
Wow, what a lecture!! When can you move in?
@ets2atstruckermartin527Ай бұрын
Yes the reason is you
@eddiebatterАй бұрын
Try being a single man and you’ll change your opinion
@angelcruz657029 күн бұрын
My friend Jazmine told me I could have a girlfriend I said yea to you it’s true
@lorenzor7993Ай бұрын
Good video. Thanks Maya 🙏🏾💎
@darrinbarrett8830Ай бұрын
Tell it like it is girly! 😊
@gregoryward3815Ай бұрын
Your 💯 right. I am a loving caring man but I have work on my life first.
@HunkyMan777Ай бұрын
Love yourself first
@salharo8925Ай бұрын
Sis can you plz let the females know we need respect and loyalty to be all in 😮
@User-fo8yxАй бұрын
You are in my manosphere subscribe list but to be honest you are not in my top 10 content (hopefully others feel differently). Somehow I dont feel much connection. I think you guess way too much male perspective. Hope that you can continue sharpening your content, video ambience. You deserve to grow your audience
@JordanJJerebАй бұрын
Why the hell would I want a girlfriend? That is the most annoying thing I could possibly have.
@Processing321Ай бұрын
Depends she can pour into you and make you strong
@kc270352Ай бұрын
you guys need to stop lying to yourselves, you do want one, their just not picking you lmao
@JordanJJerebАй бұрын
@@kc270352 Been there, Done that. Nightmare.
@StanBrohnSBFilmArtsАй бұрын
@@kc270352 depends on your definition of "girlfriend"
@-StayloАй бұрын
Cope
@RecepSalih-rn7ipАй бұрын
trusting this over Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki? no wonder the same cycles keep happening
@yorletsinnavtubeАй бұрын
Do you do therapy on your own boyfriend? 😝 That'd be a good angle.
@yutoob6181Ай бұрын
Preach!
@inevitableenterprises6041Ай бұрын
Are you Canadian? you sound a little bit Canadian eh? =)
@inevitableenterprises6041Ай бұрын
or could it be Kansas? hmm...
@Rando-vn8dsАй бұрын
Just motivate yourself, bro
@angelcruz657029 күн бұрын
Lots girlfriend everywhere are together with your girlfriend everywhere you can’t not be together you will died real live it’s true
@ifcinvestor569Ай бұрын
They say the practice of semen retention makes you a woman magnet after 6 months! I have 3 months 2 go
@trucututrucutu6071Ай бұрын
6 MONTHS!!! THAT'S NOT GONNA WORK FOR MANY MEN
@thedarkhacker8799Ай бұрын
You gotta work out with weights with semen retention and walk a lot and run if you can, watch some stuff on female attraction and talk to lots of women at first they will all reject you then you'll start to get the hang of it. I'm on 118 days and its getting better with the ladies.
@donsavant6170Ай бұрын
Real talk
@MrbergmannАй бұрын
I hate this advice, most men that have a girlfriend work a 9-5 and play video games with friends or watches tv with their gf, like normal people... they are not chasing some grand purpose
@ElliottMorrow-fg4lcАй бұрын
Oh, um, PLEASE stop calling it a 'game'; and-and-and what you're saying - just isn't absolute
@charliefox9573Ай бұрын
Try meeting a woman at 53..
@citizencain454Ай бұрын
I'm 55 and had 2 dates last month. Weren't the right ones.. But what I'm doing is working..
@wholeyghost7790Ай бұрын
💞
@inspirealmundo725Ай бұрын
te quiero
@ADAMHOPKINS-k6y26 күн бұрын
Well tried starting online dating with women that are local in my city.All they want to do is TEXTING.No one wants to meet on a date.Or talk on the phone?26 women in a ROW all have asked for money?Why would you ask money from a complete stranger you don't know?This is about meeting someone face to face to see if your comfortable.WHAT HAPPENED TO MEETING PEOPLE?Yo,chick I ride my bike every day and try to make friendly conversations with women.
@MartinVoois-b6iАй бұрын
🤠👍👌🌞🍀❤🦋
@VCZ-49rАй бұрын
🍿
@DevaJoho-z7v5 күн бұрын
💟😘👸🎙️💙🧔😘
@randyk389Ай бұрын
💯
@DanielSanchez-lo9uyАй бұрын
Thank you for your videos:)
@EliteQuarTipsАй бұрын
Lol it seems like you’ve had men depend on u for happiness are u happily married why should I listen to u?
@JohnWicks_BrotherАй бұрын
😎
@keithnkelly83Ай бұрын
Not really interested but ill watch you, the issue is they all seem to have smaller attention spans then a puppy. Wander why(sarcasm).
@WaldotruterАй бұрын
Well i guess you would be the ultimate price everyone desires.
@BrandonJames-u2gАй бұрын
Maya I miss you doing your magic gold tap at the start of your videos
@SHAWNSchreiner-t7jАй бұрын
don’t waste your energy on weak stuff, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki is the real move
@rubenahedo7933Ай бұрын
Thaaank you. Mayaaaa.
@SanjuanitaRamonАй бұрын
this is cool and all, but Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki shows the whole picture
@DeedeeHopperАй бұрын
why stick to surface-level stuff when Magnetic Aura hits you with the real truth
@KyungCritesАй бұрын
you’re missing out if you ain’t read Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, it breaks it all down
@HYMANYuenАй бұрын
not saying this is bad, but Magnetic Aura makes it look basic
@GwennKelseyАй бұрын
stuck on repeat? Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki actually changes the game
@CordieShermanАй бұрын
if this hits for you, go read Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, it’s next level
@NieshaIbanezАй бұрын
Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki shows how to break free, but most people don’t even try
@JOSIAHOrellana-j4bАй бұрын
nobody talks about Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, but it’ll flip how you see everything