IM PREGNANT- BUT HE'S NOT READY | The Baby Mothers Podcast | EP 15 | Feat JadeTalks

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[@Axxx-hj1nt]

I’ll never understand why women choose to have a child by a man that has stated he wants nothing to do with you or the child 🥴.

[@jackryan3487]

Coz it’s about their feelings

[@lauren3236]

Faxx honestly thats like my worst nightmare, to be a single mum to some wasteman that wants nothing to do with his child, if you choose to have a child with a 🤡 then baby girl you too are apart of the circus & now you got a lifetime of dealing with those problems.

[@kieranlewis0003]

I feel like it's a silly investment, why go half on a child who isn't committed to be a grate father? She's cheating her child out of a grate future and she cheating her self out of peace of mind....smh I feel like girls like her have no right to complain in the future when someone tells you who they are

[@solitude1586]

@@lauren3236 if he stated he did not want the child then she my dear is the waste woman.

[@azariahhope1649]

2 people lay down and when protection isn’t being used both people are clear what could happen if that wasn’t what he wanted the snip or protection is on the table for a man this isn’t one sided nor is it for anyone to scrutinise a mothers decision to keep a baby despite the situation

[@MRLX54]

As a mother the moment you choose the need to control over the love you have for your child you already failed as a parent. This woman has a lot of growing up to do nothing in her story highlights any growth or emotional maturity. Seek therapy and let the father see its child. The child has a right to a father so setting all these conditions for the father will not change that. This power trip shes on is all about her getting back at the father for not being there weaponising the child. Instead of solving things amicably with the father she allowed it to escalate to the courts. I just hope she realises that her daughter deserves better than what she is doing.

[@tamunosakiwestscott-bloack2229]

I can see that this woman is lying and trying hard to play the victim. This is a Narcissist in motion.

[@RemindMe268]

When she made an excuse about not letting the child see the grandmother, the entire story went left for me

[@nobleonenoble2]

Nah this woman and her friends fully dissed the nan she didn't deserve any of that she came in peace 😂

[@sweetnezgyal]

Straight this was a line! Liberties

[@stratford19]

Respectfully, I feel there needs to be a more robust vetting process when choosing guests and their stories. I am assuming this is to demonstrate the difficulties a mother has had with the father of her child/children? I must say this episode reflects more badly on her. For example, there was some sort of understanding that nothing serious was going to come out of the sex. So why wasn't protection used (this I blame both). She then talks about high expectations of women that are unrealistic then proceeds with the example of provocative clothing. How is this even unrealistic? It just sounds like you are totally against the idea (which is your right) but the idea it is unrealistic is very concerning. The idea of dressing more conservatively does not take anything from your womanhood if communication has happened. Not putting the dad on the birth certificate opens the possibility of the dad not wanting to assist you in any way shape or form as he is not even legally the father. I also feel you should have checked that friend that sent a horrible message to the father's mum. I am not a slave to elders but they still deserve a level of respect. All in all I just think this messages makes the girl looks bad to be honest. I wish her nothing but the best but her decisions needs further examining.

[@Sacred_Walls]

You said that so eloquently! Thank you for speaking truth to power! ❤️‍🔥

[@BRI2020-d8x]

He’s standards are not unreasonable but they wasn’t in an committed relationship so doesn’t sounds like a red flag 🚩 sounds like they were on two different paths

[@Kufo-Oriji4632]

This is a very selfish immature woman. Hopefully she grows up for the sake of her child.

[@deetee1827]

Yes indeed. Young selfish and is storing up problems later on. Does she not imagine her daughter will have rights to her family other than hers? Every child deserves to know a much about themselves as possible. Be prepared for problems if you block her father and his family from her life. 😮

[@D33Beloved]

Disappointed with the mindset 😕

[@sineadkk9152]

Advice from an older more experienced mother. We have to separate ourselves from our children. Although we sacrifice so much in being pregnant and having them. We have no ownership over them. A man has the right to be on the birth certificate if he has a child. All children have the right to a father on their birth certificate. He has nothing to prove to you as he’s that’s child’s father. If there’s a genuine fear of threat I understand. He does not have to make up for how he’s wronged you while pregnant unfortunately that your pain. He only has to be father he aims to be to your child. You can’t make him the father you want him to be. He is not to be controlled by you. Let your child have a father and you won’t regret it. As that’s what they would truly want and deserve and don’t make your pain become their pain.

[@Mrreal1871]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@missabigail1366]

This is so well put together! Great advice - As a coparent, you really have to compromise and accommodate the other parent despite your feelings!

[@MRLX54]

Excellent sentiment as a mother of 1 in a co-parenting relationship I agree with this wholeheartedly sometimes you have to step back and allow the relationship between father and child to be organic as much as possible and not to impose your ideals or opinions just let nature be and focus on being the best parent you can be for the child.

[@perculiarnn3633]

She seems very immature and self centred. The behaviour to giving birth and not putting the dad on the birth certi. You got a lot of anger.

[@tamunosakiwestscott-bloack2229]

That is to maximise their child support while ensuring that the father has no parental rights. Only BW do this.

[@Mrreal1871]

Does she think she’s making him look bad. Women today just can’t reflect or be accountable for anything and other women always back the bullshit. She needs true friends in her corner telling her about herself. She really feels ok to tell this story like she’s the victim. She try get a man but just thiefed a child as that’s all she could get out of the situation. She was a link and nothing more. She threw out the pumpum and he took piece but got fucked.

[@BRI2020-d8x]

Well she can choose to keep her child regardless takes two too tango

[@nikeanisere7948]

Why is the onus always on the woman. She does need to take responsibility but so does he!!! If you don't want a child to be from a "broken home" take precautions and protect yourself or just abstain from sex. Everyone needs to stop making out like a woman should hold 100% responsibility.

[@Mrreal1871]

@@nikeanisere7948 Because she’s the one on a podcast exposing their foolishness. And not seeing her part in it and trying to make him look bad in spite but she is even worse. So it’s not always. But women seem to not self reflect or be accountable their feelings don’t let them. Even you are over looking her massive part in this!

[@fweshy274]

How about making the decision in the best interest of the unborn child and not either parent. Broken families and single parent households are failures

[@wina6631]

Who needs enemies with friends like this! She let her friend interfere with her child’s family to the point of disrespecting the grandma! So childish I really was hoping the storey would be drama free on the mothers side but just made a decision to keep her baby which I don’t believe was bad decision but the girl is full of drama!

[@en1245]

Selfish, this is a serious problem, it's all well and good bringing a life into the world, but the world doesn't owe that life anything, I'm an example of that, being my mother had me with no father in sight refused to put his name on the birth certificate then fed me lies growing up, I was taught that my father is a coward & a dead beat but in reality, why did you choose to have a child with him if he didn't want to stick around, it's not like a divorce where you know who your father is and it just didn't work out.. I don't even know his second name, and so the cycle continues a lifelong full of struggle and persistence whilst all my peers who do have 2 parents regardless if they are together or not have excelled before my eyes, any man who has grown up without a father will tell you "I wonder how I would be with a father figure in my life" because we don't stop searching for role models to look upto, something many women like my mother didn't understand.

[@tamunosakiwestscott-bloack2229]

One if the most telling signs about borderlines is how easily they can paint a person especially a man as an abuser etc . Notice how she tried to slander the baby father by claiming he made nasty comments about women on social media. But when asked what he said she says “ she can’t really describe it “ and he said “ Women should hold themselves to the highest standards” Then comments about “ Thefe were things I should have known before we had a baby” as if the man made a conscious decision to make a baby with her. He wasn’t even her man. These women are broken and are damaged from their own traumatic childhoods which no doubt involve a multigenerational single mother.

[@tamunosakiwestscott-bloack2229]

Actually the social workers don’t care if either parent doesn’t know where the other lives. That is it their concern. They only care that the child is safe where the child is with either parent. Neither parent are entitled to know where the other lives.

[@Jayysaproblem]

49mins and the only take away from this is that she is selfish

[@philly1076]

harsh

[@jayejaye4life]

It was doomed from the start no real label of boyfriend and girlfriend or a serious relationship. Was there no serious talks? it was never going to go right. You can never make a man stay by having a child with him. She needs to take some accountability it was her bad choice

[@tamunosakiwestscott-bloack2229]

How can he kidnap his own kid? These women are mad.

[@newworld6821]

Somethings are not adding up tbh .. but I get everyone's experience is different..I wish her the best of luck

[@kayx3387]

We all have to remember some people have different views on abortions maybe in heart she wouldn’t be able to go through with it and believe she would be able to keep the baby even if it means she’s on her own

[@MrDeronsimpson]

Your partner expects you to dress proper is a bad thing no good man is gonna want their partner to dress provocative on road. I can see right this girl that she very disrespectful in general.

[@BRI2020-d8x]

The friend has a point sorry you can’t be self centred

[@almondeyez]

She would decide to have the baby because she was surprised she could as she had explained her situation of not possibly being able to conceive. Just because he didnt want to be responsible does not mean that she should choose to abort. I only wish young boys would choose to be responsible in the bedroom .

[@zeub78]

Excatally she wanted to cherish her blessing

[@paulbury6487]

The way she talks is annoying! Something is not right with her whole storey. She admits red flags at so many points along the line but she still went through with it !

[@tamunosakiwestscott-bloack2229]

Every woman I see on this show is damaged. This is also why we as BM need to avoid BW where possible. Nothing good can come of it.

[@treediddy432]

sad

[@philly1076]

not watched it all, but i assume this is a black man. they usually do this, and tell the women to abort. sickening, should be ashamed of himself.

[@emilystarla9052]

it’s not just black men, it can be any race..

[@BRI2020-d8x]

Not really

[@favouritethings11]

So no white man or Arab Chinese or Indian has made a woman get an abortion 🤔 ? 🙄

[@user-kr8pb6tu1b]

More fool her