How To Survive A Breakup (UNFILTERED)

Going through a breakup is one of the biggest challenges of your life. Similar to the other challenges in your life, it can either make or break your future. Today, I wanted to give some raw, unfiltered advice of how I've dealt with breakups in my personal life, as well as how I would handle a break up if I was in your shoes.
Hope you enjoy and that this helps!
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Hey! If you’re new to the channel, my name is Iman Gadzhi.
I’m the proud owner of a highly coveted advertising agency called IAG Media that has worked with clients such as Oura Ring, Kevin Rose, AJ&Smart, FuroSystems & many, many more.
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[@YAKSH756]

hey brother thank u so much aunty will be proud of u

[@sammoore5786]

Jesus loves you Iman, He's been with you and your mom every step of the way

[@ImanGadzhi]

Thank you my man 💪🏽 all the best to you

[@pitoblogg]

Iman and his mom are of Muslim background( like most southern Russians) Although Iman had said that he does not practice any religion.

[@caypasha]

@@pitoblogg muslims love jesus as well ;)

[@bryanjiang8726]

The amount of emotional maturity it takes to talk about this and record this video is enormous. For a 20 year old you have been through a lot for sure, but it takes a certain personality to be able to hang in there and rise instead of falling. Much respect bro. 🙌

[@ImanGadzhi]

Thank you so much my man ❤️🐋

[@ImanGadzhi]

Thank you so much bro! Respect to you sir ✊🏼

[@grzegorzwilk2626]

All i can say is that you're one the wisest man I've ever listened to. I've been through all of shit in life, including not having a family, drugs, breakup. I moved out when I was 18, had to work 12 hrs a day to be able to rent a place and have something to eat. Now I'm 21, deeper in shit than ever, still struggling but I finally realized what's important in life and I've started working towards it. I hope I could message you when I acheive what I want and tell you that it's your contribution. All the best for you brother!

[@YayanFauzi]

I want to know your update, man

[@guacfiend]

@@YayanFauzi same

[@pauf5567]

Same

[@EGO.BReAKERR]

Yo, any update?

[@esmereldasnickles8056]

How you doing now?

[@thrishrob]

recently just broke up with a girl i loved so deeply. it hurts to let her go but i have to let her go. iman, you're my strength bro. your videos are my safe resort and i find myself at peace and comfort whenever i watch your videos. thank you for saving young men like me and millions across the world.

[@MuscleGeeksTV]

Bro, how r u doing right now? Did u move on?

[@HANNAHFOREX]

I killed myself after my break-up... I killed an old version of Hannah. When you hit rock bottom, there's nowhere else to go but up.

[@modelbliss9821]

Respect Hannah!

[@HANNAHFOREX]

@@modelbliss9821 Onwards and upwards 🙏🏽

[@ag2407]

“I died inside and resurrected a beast”

[@Veagence100]

Hey Hannah I feel as of your story is somewhat similar to mine. I'd like to ask you about what you just said. There's anyway we can talk via email or other medias?

[@travisingram1091]

The new version of Hannah is "Hannah Forex", love it.

[@BasedBrothers]

The maturity you display at such a young age man. Thanks for sharing this, very helpful

[@marp9444]

I love watching young Iman, you get to see the more painful side but the way you handled it was awesome compared to the rest of our generation.

[@thekenconklin]

Super relatable, thanks for actually opening up. Everyone deals with this stuff, but most don't ever share what they are really going through (causing everyone to pretty much go about this stuff all on their own)

[@ImanGadzhi]

Glad I could help my man 👆🏽💚

[@Jeremy_Pogue]

The dark times are what truly build giants. The light is there, you just gotta search for it in the right places. Be intentional about what you focus on and allow yourself to do to help overcome the pain. Just went through a tough breakup (2 year relationship) a few weeks ago & my agency has never been stronger than in the past couple weeks because I chose to focus all my energy into it. Use these dark times to get stronger, smarter, and better than ever before. Learn from your relationship to figure out what you can improve next time. Reflect, stay strong, and be brutally honest with yourself. Avoid the temptation of the easy ways out from the pain (alcohol, drugs, meaningless sex). Distance yourself from your ex and respect them. Now is the time to build & shape yourself into the person you want to become & don't ever settle for anything less

[@riccardodamici]

no words, only empathy man.

[@celine_marie]

Yeeboi, Soul mates and looking for the «right fit» is hopeless. Everyone comes with their pros and cons and it all comes down to where you are in life and what you need. But kudos to you, you’re way ahead on the emotional maturity journey than most guys your age.

[@blakeshuholm8256]

Thank you for posting this Iman. This had to be tough for you, but you did it for the community. So much respect man

[@ImanGadzhi]

No problem brother, glad I could help ✌🏼

[@wisdomogedengbe3693]

I think when companies support people like you who are relatable instead of picture perfect it just makes that company more likeable.

[@ImanGadzhi]

I appreciate that bro! 👆🏽

[@tristanshadday2420]

People can take what you have but never what you know

[@christofferagger4072]

Imam pops up every were i need him...

[@lucahontau9054]

you’re speaking a lot of wisdom for your age my G

[@ImanGadzhi]

Had a lot of life experience in a short period of time 😁👆🏽

[@AR-uf3mq]

Yo the timing of this video is unreal!! my "break-up" happened last night but thank-God i'm already on that Abundant Mindset which help me got through it a little easier. it's not really a break-up cause it's not an exclusive relationship but we're both vibing the same energy so it's kinda tough leaving her, but hey it is what it is. lesson i learned from this experience is you can't work on yourself just to impress certain individuals, in this case the girl i liked. you have to do it for yourself. Don't hide the pain, Deal with it. 🤞🏻

[@ImanGadzhi]

Thank you for sharing bro, I’m so sorry but you’ve learnt an important lesson 🙏

[@travisingram1091]

Iman, nothing is more rewarding when your clients get to actually connect with you on a deeper level. Content like this helps you achieve that. A lot of other agencies are always trying to show this superficial front when on the inside, they are all just like you, and me. They experience the same shit.

[@asieralonso2800]

Look, I dont really care about online marketing, and almost neither entrepreneurship. But I really like how you think for a 20 year old and I keep following you because of that.

[@ImanGadzhi]

Thank you for the support 🤜🏼

[@iamkarandudeja]

Ah, Iman just had a break up, 10 days back. It was my first relationship. It's pretty hard to work right now, seems like a bad dream, first breakup, now this Corona. 😥

[@vimalcurio]

Hope you're good bruh stay strong 💪 ❤️💙💕

[@Jeremy_Pogue]

Stay strong brother. I just went through a breakup 3 weeks ago (2 year relationship) and not gonna lie the first 7-10 days were really tough. But looking on the bright side, since then, I've gotten the most done for my agency in the last week and a half than I ever have. I guess I took all the time and effort that I previously focused on my relationship before and shifted all of that into my business. So hang in there my friend and try to be intentional on what you transfer your focus towards. You're not in this in alone bud

[@ImanGadzhi]

Appreciate you sharing this. My heart absolutely goes out to you and I'm so glad we are all part of this fraternity. Know that you can be kind to yourself, and that the last thing you should do is beat yourself up for struggling to work. This will pass, and you will be stronger for it, I promise. Let me know how you get on

[@iamkarandudeja]

@@vimalcurio Thanks man❤️

[@iamkarandudeja]

@@Jeremy_Pogue Oh man, sorry to hear that but I see you made some good progress during the time, you are really strong, I myself hoping to do better in coming days. Thanks for the condolences.❤️

[@munendrarathood9557]

An Iman Gadzhi video a day.keeps all tensions away. Cheers brother !!

[@ImanGadzhi]

No problem bro! 🤙🏽

[@tobiass320]

I just read this in the book ‚Think and Grow Rich’, maybe it will help some of you guys! „Disappointment over love affairs generally has the effect of driving men to drink, and women to ruin; and this, because most people never learn the art of transmuting their strongest emotions into dreams of a constructive nature.“

[@khadijamasood6580]

Tobias S thank you

[@samliu2772]

Thank you, you are one of the only KZbinr that is actually relatable and honest to the core. Thank you for sharing your experience and wise words that is so articulate

[@ImanGadzhi]

Appreciate it man 🙏

[@Benjamin-sw1sx]

Good to see this side of you as well. Take care!

[@ImanGadzhi]

Love bro!

[@harshpedhavi8992]

All I can say is that I feel so good when I hear you. Thank you very much for guiding us on this.

[@tmmh]

Even tho i never had a relationship, i know that this is good info. Its always good to face your emotions, not only in relationships but in other areas of life. Thanks for the vid.

[@ImanGadzhi]

You know it bro, my pleasure 😇

[@confidoplaysfx]

I am glad I was put on game before my break up, it was hard tho for the first 3 days but I replaced that feeling when I found Iman and SMMA 1 week after she broke up with me. I’d like to thank her for doing so because without that break up idk if I would have found SMMA. Everything happens for a reason.

[@MrLendaAAAA]

Thank you a lot for your words, trust me, it was the best video about this that I seen. My ex and I decided to broke up but it's like you said, it was over a lot time ago. She started to distance herself from me and I got to a point that I saw that it wasn't working besides my love for her. It was a 7 years long... Man, that hurts but I know that time will help me heal.

[@cocokorbel]

Watching this in 2022 I’m glad you’ve made this video and I hope there’s more like this in the future

[@modelbliss9821]

Much love and respect covering more personal aspects of life Iman!

[@ImanGadzhi]

Thanks! ✌🏼💚

[@stefanbollen82]

Thanks you very much, Iman! I am going through a break up and this is something I needed to hear.

[@Arminmob777]

Keep your head up brother. But, please keep this in mind! He didn’t point out how big the absolute most important antidote is. HIT THE GYM. Go on walks. Go jugging. Any exercise, but gym is really good due to the atmosphere is full of good energy.

[@zoegarcia7031]

Best fucking advice I have ever heard in my entire life! 🔥...straight to the point! Practical advice!.. I hope you get everything you admire... And i will pray you and your mom stay happy in each and every phase of your life! ❤️.. Love you brother

[@natashaking3711]

Hey Iman, thank you for sharing all this. As a woman I can honestly say the world needs more men like you. You're an inspiration! And I find it so beautiful how you look after your mom and all those you love

[@duncan7814]

ah the dark period. 4 months of acid use and it literally feels like your reality is falling apart ): always gets better through and you come out a better human every time.

[@duncan7814]

breakups can fuel so many amazing things mentally. if you utilize the anger toward good

[@joshuadamons214]

Honestly the best thing is just to know your self worth. I know that everything happens for a reason.

[@christianorsa]

Really nice to also hear something else outside of the stuff you normally post!🙌

[@ImanGadzhi]

Thought I’d give you guys a bit more insight 😌

[@benzeigler3666]

Thank you brother. You’re a wise man and I strive to bring people like you into my circle

[@ImanGadzhi]

❤️👆🏽

[@sufinaali5767]

Going through .... 😔 “Wherever you go, there you are ... “ 😔 love will hurt. First, second or third time and that’s coming from a lot older person. Most of you guys and girls are young, enjoy life, go on adventures, live your life to the fullest. One day someone will come along and reciprocate at the same level of love and whatever you are in your life.

[@ImanGadzhi]

Really well said, wishing you all the best 🙌🏽

[@daniellehelberg]

I don’t know why this vid came up to my fyp but I enjoyed the joy you gave off sharing knowledge in this video. Thank you for you openness and honesty 😌

[@meh3083]

I appreciate your humility and honesty, Iman, thank you for these older unfiltered videos

[@LetishaMalakootiTV]

I’ve been best friends with both my exes for 10 years now. They are my best friends. And we could never keep each other blocked, and yes it took awhile but eventually if you are both loyal human beings you can be the best of friends It just comes down to who you are as a person

[@ImanGadzhi]

I totally agree, I’m saying for the 3-6 months after a breakup keep each other blocked. After the dust settles, then you can go and be good friends again.

[@danielmf7646]

Hey Iman, I can't relate more with you about the pain of a breakup. But mine was a different kind of break up it was leaving my personal beliefs that I once thought to be true and was manipulative to believe since birth. I was fear monger to believe a very close amargedon end and if I didn't align myself with the doctrine I would die. But when I found out it was all bullshit I was enraged and than despair took grip on me, all does years of my life I was living a lie. From there I was sucked into a life of addictions that im still trying to escape. I cant tell u how much it helps listening to other stories that give hope. Thanks for Sharing Iman

[@caroltrimble2738]

It's just apart of the journey and all of these experiences will only make you stronger for a position outcome for your life.

[@serafimmoura8054]

This was definitely one of those videos that I didn't want to end. What an amazing and wise speech that you delivered bro. Absolutely incredible! I really hope to meet you personally in a near future 🙏

[@ImanGadzhi]

Appreciate that Sirr 👆🏽💚

[@leslienull3689]

Yes that happened to me, I graduated college, landed a digital marketing job and my ex that broke my WORLD at 18 came crawling back.. by this time 5 years had gone by and I wasn't even interested anymore.. in high school a nice administrator saw me crying and trying to keep it together in the hall ways and pulled me aside to ask me what was wrong. I told him my ex broke up w me and the administrator told me about his story w/ his wife of them breaking up in high school and him also being devastated back then, but then 7 yrs later they ran into a parking lot and started over and were then married.. honestly that story helped me get through it because i was hopeful that maybe after college me and my ex would get back together.. welp college graduation came and I seriously stopped waiting for that relationship after my freshman year of college but still had that thought in the back of my mind.. when the time came that he wanted to catch up.. i was just like... you're too late. you're way too late. I'm not even slightly interested anymore... and honestly found him annoying >.

[@skull_nox5754]

Thanks imam Gadzhiii. i will come back when im successful!!!!!!

[@tristanshadday2420]

I’m greatful for your existence you have helped so many people keep doing and being great !

[@ImanGadzhi]

Thank you my man!

[@prestonmott4223]

bro some of the shit you said in this video is straight facts, I didn't even realize it was how I was feeling until you said it. Now i have some thoughts on whats going on and how to improve myself so thanks man

[@EZonorov-t6x]

TRUE LOVE NO BEGINNING NO ENDINGS NO DEPTHS ALSO CAN NOT BE TAUGHT BUT JUST 💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛

[@VoteforHumanity1_1_1]

I can come to your channel for all around life tips and inspiration. Thank you so much for sharing!!!

[@ImanGadzhi]

You’re welcome bro 😀

[@BenedekSanta]

watching the 3rd time, and it's so helpful, and a lifesaver after my first real relationship!

[@lois8885]

Thanks for open up, this videos are necessary too👌👌

[@kenjiloy4956]

Thank somebody I chance upon your YT channel at 2017! Never looked back.

[@ImanGadzhi]

Thanks so much for the support 🐋❤️

[@silviyandyuzev6870]

Yea breakups are tough I personally went through one 10 months ago on school vacation, she just cheated on me on the third day out of 5 in turkey. But fortunately, I've been through a lot just like you Iman, we have very similar stories with single moms and financial difficulties, but the thing I want to say is that you have to leave your emotion in front of the door when this shit happens, and start using your brain and logic if you don't want to fail yourself.

[@vimalcurio]

Stay strong 💪 ❤️ 💙 💕 mahn I can understand how it feels

[@kalpananage.8992]

Thank you so much , I'm from India but yeah I love your videos so much they are informative this video helped me because I was in a position where I was not understanding what to do but yes you put straight points which make sense and surely you are incredible❤

[@jewelsoflife2810]

From having many problems with Relationships I learned this, You are One Man with Billions Of Dating Opportunitys to Date, thanks to the worlds population. People always get attached to one person, but forget that beyond your mirror, the window and open roads have thousands of compatible women out there for what ever your taste. So go out there and get Em 😁👍

[@DaWorldIsBlack]

Man you're just an inspiration bro 🙏

[@ImanGadzhi]

Thanks so much bro ✌🏼

[@tristanshadday2420]

You got this !!! Keep being great keep doing and being you! You are perfect and amazing just the way you are and also look at the life you created for your self you got you more than anyone ever will and that’s a good thing and that stuff is hard but no pain no gain and what dosent kill us makes us stronger and everything is a stepping stone for us to learn and grow from and when the universe takes somthing away from us it’s just means better things are comming you got this I believe in you !

[@ImanGadzhi]

Thanks Tristan, all the best to you 🤘🏼

[@jakobwagner3060]

was not expecting a video today but here we are great video

[@ImanGadzhi]

Thanks bro! 💪🏽

[@bheecarrychiragvarma1419]

Thanks bro, you are LITERALLY me

[@ambreiaj]

thank you iman!

I know its not smma content, but for me, this is one of the best videos of you i have never seen (And i have Kaizen and Influencer course) but this video helps me a lot, thanks man!

[@ImanGadzhi]

Glad you enjoyed the change! 👆🏽💚

[@alisafa4466]

Pete does a great job with these video edits. The coffee part 😂and the B Roll is on point!

[@ImanGadzhi]

Hahah he’s having too much fun! 😁

[@pronoybiswas4904]

breakup is the best thing that can happen to a boy

[@GovindSingh-bd5sy]

This was such mature and valuable advice, appreciate you man💪🏽

[@nickbjones8833]

stay strong always

I need this video, holly thanks my man!!❤️

[@ImanGadzhi]

No worries bro 😌

[@XxXTheMakerXxX]

Well. Thank you for sharing that. I didn't actually think that robot (like you are) can suffer from such a simple thing as break up. I did go through one (2 years relationship) too. Tough. Took me 4 months to get back to life.

[@genesislacap6306]

Hi Iman, this helped me so much. What an amazing person you are! Youre my model

[@vasilikiterzopoulou155]

I would like to say that I am happy to see you influencing your audience to start thinking in this way. Respect. Also, it is good to see you this happy and serene, I can feel the energy. xx

[@ImanGadzhi]

Thank you! 😁💚

[@THEBLAX21]

Fuckin loved this vid man!! Flawless advice. Im happy to say I've grown insane amounts since my first and only breakup and have done 99% of the positive things you mentioned. Im on a different level now. Much love brotha!

[@ImanGadzhi]

Great to hear bro! Keep killing it 🙏

[@alejandroaires6806]

I needed to see this, thanks from the bottom of my heart Iman! My current relationship is amazing but, I cant give her what she wants. So, the right thing to do is to let her go. And aside from that, I cant have any distractions right now because I am trying to push all my energy into starting my agency and signing my first client so I can afford to enroll in A.I and start building my agency from the ground up. Cheers, and much love.

[@sandramichaelson1272]

[phone]"🙏🏾

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[phone]🙏🏾 🙏🏾

[@nettekalahiki4517]

Happy with your positive choices that’s awesome. Really like to hear about your business and practical advice.

[@nizaralbusaidy8490]

notification squad. love to hear the journey bro.

[@anuneupane2556]

Every relationship teaches something which helps us to build ourselves in different ways. If someone leave you let go they don’t deserve it. If you want to forget anything remember it in the morning when you are in half sleep half wakeup and the things which you want to remember think that before you go to sleep. If you want something to use that really help you with out harming your health then use mad honey from Nepal. It is better than drugs and it’s good for health and you won’t be addicted

[@sinsin9887]

First time on this channel , you have great great advice on business and finance but this video really helped me mentally, your awesome dude! More success and health to you ! :)

[@ImanGadzhi]

Glad to hear I could help you my man 😁💪🏽

[@mrmeeseeks1633]

Hey Iman, your video really helped me a lot and I just wanted to say thank you for your great content

[@djthamlas_tbs]

You’re right man, hooking up with people post break up doesn’t work. Better to stay single or celibate to deal with the pain first

[@tomasfoster2642]

Thank you so much Iman, this video has been instrumental for me! I’m deeply thankful for your advice and I send you lots of love

[@ImanGadzhi]

so welcome

[@tuoyoogholaja2390]

Keep Pushing man

[@Hanfahhussain]

good to see this side of you

[@ImanGadzhi]

😇👌🏼

[@rowrow9415]

Helped tremendously ❤

[@dynamicgeekstudio6864]

God bless you and your mother bro! I can relate on the love amount you have for your mother!

[@ImanGadzhi]

😌💚

[@sydneyjae4304]

I was in a very toxic relationship for almost 4 years. I was like 14 lol when it started. Little did I know all those years how bad it was. Even when its something bad, you still love it. Like drugs or any bad addiction. We always broke it off- on and off for those 4 years. I always tried helping him improve his outlook on life and to have some positivity. But he almost never showed emotion unless it was to manipulate you. I went back every-time, now that I think about it, not because I was "so in love". But because that's all I knew for the better part of my teenage years. It was the comfort. Not being in a toxic relationship was uncomfortable for me, and I didn't know what real love looked or felt like. ok rant over haha.

[@sydneyjae4304]

that's so crazy. me too. I felt safe at his home a lot of the time. I loved his family and his sister and I were so close and I wish I could be close to her still. Just like you said, "It felt like I had broken up with her (his) family".

[@olliewhyte3103]

A lot of love for this video Iman! Went through two myself on a similar time scale. Introspect🙏🏻

[@ImanGadzhi]

Sorry to hear that bro, they’re really tough. Hope the video helped!

[@Gautamz]

Thanks for this video iman Much needed ♥️

[@ImanGadzhi]

No worries my man 👆🏽

[@LolGaming8]

I am 16 and I have never had a girlfriend. Thanks for the advice

[@ImanGadzhi]

No problem bro ✌🏼

[@Angelonishima]

Thanks a lot Iman, you are a Role Model for everyone of us, thanks bro, God bless you 🙏🏼

[@hida1406]

Hey iman i love ur channel so much❤❤❤ btw i hope u share about tips for self love please. Thank u

[@sumityogi1119]

totally agree with you Imam ✨

[@ImanGadzhi]

👌🏼💥

[@WillyNsab]

Love your story bro, thanks for sharing. keep Killing it.

[@jewelsoflife2810]

Great Video Coming from a Fellow Old Soul

[@ImanGadzhi]

😇👆🏽

[@alejandrojordan5471]

LOL, I really felt identified in many cases. So much true I had to hear!

[@millennialfalkon9229]

Love you dude. You such a champ! Stay cool. Stay cool forever.

[@SuspendedAuro230]

Great Video!

[@stancuflorin]

This information for sure will help me in the future, noted and going to apply when needed, thank Iman 🤙🏻

[@ImanGadzhi]

Glad I could help bro! 🙏

[@omarhagag3]

Appreciate u keepin it real

[@ImanGadzhi]

😌👌🏼

[@cburgess2809]

Thank you for the help, I needed this

[@Siyabongandlovu10]

I remember watching this a few years ago. Damn.