In Defense of Male bi-sexuality

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There seems to be this ongoing argument about Male bi-sexuality. Love is complicated enough as it is, why complicate it more...Our mission and the reason for this channel, really, is to give you the courage to be true to who you are...whomever that happens to be. Love who you feel pulled to love, don't let convention stand in your way.
Music Guy-Roger Duvert
Starring Thomas Adisi, Brandon Crowder, Eric Colton, Jeff Juett, Randall Galius, Jr.

[@hummingbirdcity]

I don't know why we argue about what's possible in the minds of other people.

[@brandenblinn]

Amen to that!!

[@klept0manic271]

I know I'm late to this video but, you are right the human psyche is the most dangerous and interesting place. So anyone who says bisexuality doesn't exist does not know anything about phycology.

[@kcrown364]

Hello

[@Jasona1976]

In the right time and the right situation I believe that the vast majority of men are at least "bi".....

[@brandenblinn]

Well...according to Kinsey it's 80 %...and if you take the 10% that are already "gay" then that means that 90%...would, at some point, either in their fantasy or some place in their reality have a same sex experience. But THE POINT is...just be true to who you are in as much as it is possible to be...this will only free your heart and soul.

[@Jasona1976]

@@brandenblinn I agree...but for many men social pressures to be hetero...or perceived as hetero....are too great. In my own life, and in 10 years of living together and doing everything together, my "buddy" felt the overpowering need to find a woman and get married, which he did. The "marriage" ended after a couple of years and now he lives a celibate life, and cannot have any contact with me (who is openly gay), but his pretense as hetero continues.

[@brandenblinn]

God, my heart goes out to you...and him!

[@hairyscotman]

I am older, and you are correct....it's just a matter of time for most...once a married guy has had it up the wazzoo….there is no going back...

[@okamithedarkwolf9955]

That's pretty much a bold assumption only

[@AndyMHB]

Thanx for that! Bi-men needed more support and understanding. From my own experience, i think it's easier to live gay rather than as bi-male. I was with a bi-man for ten years, most of whom we lived together. I was his first man. He met his first girlfriend during our relationship as one of my good friends. I knew all his girlfriends during our relationship. Unfortunately, none of the women were able to deal with it. His first girlfriend ended the relationship with the fact that she can't beat me. What a fuck!! I was never jealous of the women, they always at some point. Why? Ownership! Yet no man can give another man what a woman has to give and vice versa. He was often desperate and felt guilty only for his nature.That finally chrushed him and our relationship. Before, I thought being bisexual is the ideal. Now i know that´s not true. It's so much harder to be a bi-man and maintain a fulfilling sexuality and love than as a gay or heterosexual man. Mario, never stopped loving you! Hope you´re fine

[@TARS20]

It is of course different from one individual to another, but most women prefer monogamous relationship. It really comes down to the Bi guy whether or not he seeks monogamy or polyamorous. It'd be easier for him to choose monogamy rathen than being in a poly, since it is quite rare to find people who are okay to share emotional connection in 3 way (different from Open relationship) especially when it involves different genders.

[@davieboyme8531]

I just dropped a face time with my friend from New Zealand to watch this! I have waited so long for more of these twos story!!!

[@tyebrown6348]

This director makes you go within and bring forward your reality. Once you dive in theres no point of return. - unveiled/raw truth surfaces. Thk u

[@MichaelLaRocca3]

I have lived this with so many guys who also enjoy women sexually. I believe our orientation comes from our heart not from our genitals. I have had sex with women and I still wake up gay the next morning. When a man who considers himself straight by orientation, but falls in love with a man, that is were the true bi person is or can be. My partner led a very straight life. He even has a son. He had one or two small sexual experiences with guys when he was younger, but he fell in love with me with the words, "I have never loved a woman as deeply as I love you." He was craving sex with a woman so we separated for two months. He had his fun and now he's back. Love comes in many forms and there is no one set of rules for any of us. Keep producing your work. It is not fantasy. It is real life.

[@brandenblinn]

WOW Michael, thank you for sharing this! People say that my Triple Standard film is bi-phobic...they really just have NO IDEA about the complexity of this. In America we're not cultured to explore, live fully, etc. I know this so well. I never really even felt that I was being cheated on...because I for sure cannot provide my partner that which a woman can. And I wouldn't want to try. That said, it does work better for me when my partner is experiencing the same level of attraction in each realm...and, I wouldn't want to have that same experience again...but I still still love the guy, he still loves me...and we're no longer together in that way. It's all good!

[@MichaelLaRocca3]

@@brandenblinn Thank you for your comment. The many I have been with are still in my life in some way as friends. Some, their girlfriends or wives know I am an ex, and some not. I love your work. Your cridicts may be those who have not been as fortunate to have the experience, so for them it is still fantasy. I have kind of a reverse story. I came out when I was 14. I told my parents when I was 18. It took some adjustment for them but within a couple of years they were great about me being gay. When I was 30, I was dating a bi guy. I had never been with a woman until this time. He had a female friend who was cool having a three-way with two guys where everyone was participating with each other. He encouraged me to try. I did and had a wonderful time. I have had those kind of three way since. My big challenge was telling my family that I had sex with a woman. It would have confused them so much that I never said anythng to them. My Mom went to her grave never knowing and my Dad is too old now to bother him with the details of how all of that worked. Anyway, I just wanted to share that with you. Thanks again... Michael.

[@brandenblinn]

Thank you!

[@MichaelLaRocca3]

@@brandenblinn If you would be interested in some of my true stories for your films, I would be happy to work with you on a project. I have been in showbusiness for 48 years. I have only done film. Most of my experience is stage and television. You can find me on Facebook: facebook.com/mlarocca3 and we can chat more. Thank you...

[@brandenblinn]

I'm always open to collaboration

[@davieboyme8531]

Love this whole video! Was nice to learn more about you personally

[@brandenblinn]

Thank you!

[@johnp.mccartney2556]

That was raw and awesome. Thank you.

[@JakeLikesJoking]

People actually accused your work of being a gay man’s fantasy? That’s just ignorant and belittling to the work! Those people must not be aware of how deep human emotion and love can be between two people regardless of gender. And of the many forms of love. It’s sad because it’s those people that need to see and hear these stories the most. Thank you for sharing that piece of your past with us, it really drives your point home with what you’ve achieved in these short films. ☺️

[@Budcat101]

Oh for a World of understanding! Thanks for this informational Vid

[@Dulch1e]

Loving your work ;)

[@seanbeckett4019]

You guys should check out Andkon of Grero, he has an audiobook called Grero that takes a very interesting look at male bisexuality, and describes all the variations of homosexuality that the modern age has largely forgotten about. Please check it out, he needs your support. His work deserves much more exposure.

[@brandenblinn]

Thank you...interesting stuff!!!!

[@theresamtreats]

Loved hearing your words. Is the rumor true that you are continuing the Derek and Cameron story? We want them to have a HEA!!!!

[@brandenblinn]

We are...but, its changing. Dramatically. We're about to start a campaign to launch a channel specific to male bi-sexuality. Derek & Cameron is part of this offering. If all goes according to plan we'll be in production by May, 2019...Thanks for your support!!

[@hamptonkashikyri4404]

@@brandenblinn yes. NO matter what turns, they are both so dramatic and subtle in their performances. How often has it ever been done that panning on two men just having a conversations can be so powerful. It doesn't happen in most films, not these words and not this way that you have done. Going to work can get challenging in the kitchen sometimes [smiles]. What a scene that was, and is. How could one not want it to continue into the day? Flawless, and brilliant men thinking out loud and putting it into real words. .............Was struck in the words of the psychiatrist when he said they moved from intimacy to sex, and I clearly understand why he said it in the overriding concern and evolving awareness, but their sex was so intimate by the nature of how it evolved, that they ascended into intimacy in their sex as well. Totally vulnerable

[@ricktomlinson5481]

My first video of the day before dashing off to work and wow...EXCELLENT ! in every way. I have had an open relationship with the same man for 22 years and let me say the bisexual reality is very true! I have also explored both sides of the fence. "To thine own self be true!" Thank you Branden for a well done presentation !

[@juliancoulden1753]

Superb.

[@jmdenn3000]

Sometimes it’s s so scary as a bi guy your so confused you don’t know which way to go or who to be

[@michaelcain9324]

Loved Derick and Cameron.

[@GrotrianSeiler]

For some people, maybe many people, it’s hard to accept their feelings, it’s scary, it’s painful. And some never do. How we think of ourselves and how others think of us often gets in the way.

[@triajinugroho1838]

I miss Derek and Cameron, how are they btw?

[@brandenblinn]

They're coming back at some point

[@hamptonkashikyri4404]

@@brandenblinn YES IT WAS SO WELL DONE, and Derek and Cameron WERE REAL CHARACTERS and owned it. I was taken back that Cameron left the relationship with Derek when he did, but the dynamic that was lifted up of it always being on him was legit and apparent. ON the other side also, at times we frequently and readily fall in love with straight men, or questioning men simply because they are men. With me they were fine with it, and loved me also, but it seemed that when they fell in love with a woman, they as hetero went away. This was in part frequently with wives and children becoming the entire conversation, frequently isolating with other married couples to the exclusion of single male friends For one it was cataclysmic for him when he divorced his wife . Through a friend I have found a way to salvage a connection/conversation with his former wife enough that if she really wants to know what was going on, with me, and them, him and us, I can share part of it with her. She had her own overriding difficulties with him that had nothing to do with me being in his life for years. Again, thank you. ALL OF YOUR FILMS HAVE BEEN COMPLEX, REAL, EXQUISITE, AND RIVETING. I will continue to lift this up. THANK YOU.

[@animeisweird4077]

Cool 👍

[@benigndagasuhan683]

I hope i could find my truly mine ❤

[@alberciik]

Love it

[@stevendarden3238]

I agree with him

[@jnewmark41]

this happens all the time.....

[@kcrown364]

Hello

[@pilgrim1952]

I've loved bisexuals in my life, so it is part of my reality also.

[@sebastianvazquez4427]

So looooooong no see

[@ronricci3407]

I wish it were more common. It's ascary to be that honest.

[@matthewnelson9809]

like i stared as long as it core compable i can

[@tayseeryagoubmohamedabdoun5032]

It's hard to be gay

[@user-lz1fp8uz1t]

Мне очень нравится красивые ребята, все хорошие.

[@eduard7251]

I exist (:

[@kalashnikovkhodorkovsky8153]

Some people just can't face the fucking truth!

[@kcrown364]

Hey how are you

[@johnpickford4222]

And some people can’t face the truth fucking. It goes both ways and bye-ways!

[@DDominoGeronimo]

😭☕😭☕😭☕

[@phillipalvarez9175]

I believe human sexuality is a fairly complex issue that society has not done well to understand. As a male who identifies as predominantly straight, I had a same-gender experience in graduate school. It was kind of like BB's short film "13 or so Minutes." I don't regret it but I wish I understood it better. It's refreshing to see a filmmaker tackle this kind of thing.

[@brandenblinn]

Beautifully said, Phillip, thank you! You'd be amazed at how many "gay" men want to say that this is some "gay man's fantasy" as it would never happen in real life! Well, it's happened in my real life...and yours...and so many others! Somtimes I'm astonished at how homophobic gay men can be towards themselves and each other...anyway, so glad you posted this!

[@cupcakeboss8720]

I'm still not gay

[@matthewnelson9809]

just as long as it core complable i can why yu say cause i my last insert to my paper work and service via self hep and therpt to rightous via jesus and self

[@akfonly7529]

Drugs and alcohol make most dudes bi. Just no kissing on the mouth or talking about it. You swear to yourself you were just wasted and sleep with as many women as you can afterwards

[@andrewwilliams-kz6vh]

BJ Tman spot on

[@andrewwilliams-kz6vh]

BJ Tman i have always thought myself straight but lately i find myself attracted to guys would like to try . i love the idea of feeling a guys hard cock

[@andrewwilliams-kz6vh]

BJ Tman i have always thought myself straight but lately i find myself attracted to guys would like to try . i love the idea of feeling a guys hard cock

[@victuz]

@@andrewwilliams-kz6vh Or you know... Penetrating them.

[@JamesDBolf]

8p

[@DAS1962]

I think this video is not a defense of bi-sexuality, but rather a defense of male sexual confusion

[@brandenblinn]

elaborate...please...or do you represent that 20% that is either GAY or STR and for that reason cannot even begin to fathom that others might flourish in their own self-discovery...you, from the outside looking in, may think of it as confusion...You may even call it unabashedly bi-sexual...what I would call it is an open minded exploration into uncharted experiences...an exploration requiring honesty, courage and an open heart...something that doesn't require labels of any kind...just a desire to express and experience the fullness of life!