Music video by Incubus performing Pardon Me. (Live in New York City 2001)(C) 2002 SONY BMG MUSIC ENTERTAINMENT
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@buzzkillington38406 жыл бұрын
One hell of a performance by the red pants guy!!!! Incubus did good too.
@LeocaprioDinardo6 жыл бұрын
JAJAJAJAJAJAJAJAJAJAJAJAJAJAJAJAJAJAJAJAJAJAJAJAJAJAJAJAJA man I even have headache because of laughing! You won internet.
@Tanner-James5 жыл бұрын
Dying..
@daisyjane9835 жыл бұрын
Hahahahhahaha
@ronaldadrianelopez28745 жыл бұрын
HAHAHAHAHA
@MrBandini275 жыл бұрын
That's the Punisher taking vacation.
@ericgamino47811 ай бұрын
I'm jealous of red pants... He was front and center for this badass performance by Incubus. He's just a fan like we are...
@chancebroussard921111 ай бұрын
Jon Bernthal?
@Lex1uth3r7 ай бұрын
Must have been the hardest thing to stay in his seat and not get up and rock out to this killer freakin live performance.
@jamesburton74459 күн бұрын
A true fan who let's it all out, that's mr.red pants!
@eneskaraytug514 Жыл бұрын
Few bands can be proud of having such a perfect fan like the red pants guy.
@chetty4751 Жыл бұрын
🤙🏻🤙🏻🤙🏻
@TerrySanders-6 ай бұрын
I'm that fan lol
@scottpippin52684 ай бұрын
He sings his ass off on this one
@DanPyjamasАй бұрын
@@TerrySanders- literally, or figuratively?
@stuartcarswell28152 күн бұрын
Imagine what would happen if Incubus knew he was smashed on Peruvian though! Outta there 😂
@martinbirthelmer61064 жыл бұрын
What's incredible about the red pants guy is that years after this performance he is still garnering new comments.
@vereist78133 жыл бұрын
He deserves em❤️
@TheSpock233 жыл бұрын
Red Pants Guy = Legend
@bobloblaw70303 жыл бұрын
Even aliens 1000 years from now gonna be talking about red pants guy
@TheSpock233 жыл бұрын
RPG for the win!
@bennyd14312 жыл бұрын
read books mush?
@steelo7126 ай бұрын
2024 Red Pants is still bringing it! Incredible performance
@NatashaMatherne2 ай бұрын
Red
@SithEyess8 ай бұрын
recognizing the red pants guy in all of us is truly freeing
@lbob370 Жыл бұрын
The guy on the turntables deserves more credit.
@Duffington6 жыл бұрын
My perception of the red pants guy has now changed. I like him. If you watch other videos of the Morning View Sessions e.g Warning, you see him rocking out, and when Brandon hits the high note on the outro to Warning you can see his happiness and he even claps. He clearly just loves Incubus like the rest of us
@thomashogan19854 жыл бұрын
I love this guy
@redrumTAPE4 жыл бұрын
Exactly, wishing i was there too!
@bunt16913 жыл бұрын
Also a fan of this fan
@IHopeYoureOffended693 жыл бұрын
Fuck red pants guy. I'm trying to enjoy the show and he's concerned with his ego. No pass here.
@crazyrabbits3 жыл бұрын
@@IHopeYoureOffended69 - no having fun allowed!
@kadri2466 жыл бұрын
While everyone noticed the guy in the red pants, I guess no one realized this live performance and vocals are 1000+ times better than the actual cd recording. This is epic.
@summerrr12 жыл бұрын
This is for a recorded performance, so there is some post production.
@Dranreb8652 жыл бұрын
How sure are you that he isn't doing a mariah or milli vanilli?
@kidlattv85012 жыл бұрын
@@Dranreb865 you guys sure dont know this band, watch other live concerts of incubus and be amazed
@TNAgaming150 Жыл бұрын
He does a different rendition of the song live, I guess it’s like how he would of done it if he could do it all again. He does it on a few songs actually, Is incredible man he stops You in your tracks, listen at 2:45 that’s crazy lol just saw them live again last year, seen them a few Times now. Incredible.
@omarisaac5189 Жыл бұрын
Thank You! Best version by far
@MitchMayhem45 ай бұрын
2024 and the red pants guy still rocking it! He needs to be found as such a hero!
@lLIBER4TORl6 жыл бұрын
Idc what anyone says. Red pants guy killed it. He cheers his friends at the start, he's having a great time and feeling a great song. A concert full of people like that is more hype than a boring silent crowd.
@bunt16913 жыл бұрын
He was the ideal guy... So much energy. Knew every word
@rickglanville991011 ай бұрын
i went to a couple of incubus concerts and the crowd was lame. I felt like red pants guy cuz i was rocking.
@lLIBER4TORl11 ай бұрын
@rickglanville9910 That sucks. I hate lame concert goers lol
@ironjesi9 ай бұрын
He is a convicted date rapist.
@ianheyman26826 жыл бұрын
PERFECT ENUNCIATION by red pants man. not only does he know the words but he's gonna make sure everybody knows that he knows the words. respect.
@benjaminmajewski2194 Жыл бұрын
Unless your too close to him. I have a friend who thinks he’s Phil Collins. Concert killer!
@xyz-b5f3f11 ай бұрын
Jgn poyo sudahlah😂
@Karoyep5 жыл бұрын
Not one freaking cell phone. Just enjoy. Pure
@Gingerbearded8 жыл бұрын
Man I miss this kind of music nowadays..
@inej088 жыл бұрын
i feel you
@metalphobos36325 жыл бұрын
As you cover cake by the ocean Dude, some of the songs you cover are everything wrong with todays music.
@jadecruz80144 жыл бұрын
Because of the existence of fake singers tho.
@winniearaujo63484 жыл бұрын
Me either ☹️
@kylanrushing88304 жыл бұрын
I'm not old enough to know what it was like when all these revolutionary bands came around but I like the old music a whole lot more than the new music
@Arne61937 жыл бұрын
No fucking smartphones or cameras! What a time to have lived in!
@kevinwoloszyn623 жыл бұрын
The guy in the red pants is the genesis of modern day bro culture #respect
@Rizza.2 жыл бұрын
god i had no idea how insanely good they were live..
@danielhiman2 жыл бұрын
Saw them recently at After Shock, so good live!
@BV-Auto2 жыл бұрын
You forgot to mention how good the red pants guy was!
@jspelaston11 ай бұрын
Same! I’ve enjoyed their music since my early 20’s when they just became popular but never saw them live. I’m super impressed.
@danielfarmer60629 ай бұрын
@@BV-Auto who is red pants guy
@zachmarafioti13928 жыл бұрын
Red Pants Guy featuring Incubus
@adriantrifan78868 жыл бұрын
Lol
@marcosfilho18278 жыл бұрын
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
@bannerisred.__.8 жыл бұрын
Facts! Lol
@knowen8 жыл бұрын
laughed so hard i spilled my beer.
@lisric808 жыл бұрын
LOL
@elaunchasemusic3 күн бұрын
I had this clip downloaded from Limewire or Napster or Kazaa or whatever like 20 years ago. I used to watch it all the time.
@187macabee6 жыл бұрын
Red pants guy should be the mascot for young adults from this era he's perfect
@vapingemskopp61134 жыл бұрын
Sometimes i wake up at night and think about how´s the red pants guy doing today...
@TheSpock234 жыл бұрын
Out there just living his life probably
@k.k.76944 жыл бұрын
I hope he still has the outfit!
@TheSpock233 жыл бұрын
@@k.k.7694 You know he does.
@ziamarie3 жыл бұрын
Lmfao omg im dead. That guy is me at every concert, sans the red pants but i might get a pair to pay tribute to him 😂
@ItsSauIGoodman3 жыл бұрын
Probably still on coke and drunk lmao living life
@AntonDoesMusic7 жыл бұрын
I still think this is the most relaxed set-up for a performance. Playing in the center of an almost college lecture-like room. I don't know, seems much more intimate and enjoyable than a stadium.
@mitchellsmith69793 жыл бұрын
I'm in my 60s and grew up with Zeppelin, Clapton, Aerosmith and the likes but I still recognize fantastic music when I hear it. The professionalism, talent and creativity of "Pardon Me" rises above like cream especially when this live version sounds equivalent to the studio version. I love music the universal language.
@literal66922 жыл бұрын
what happen with red pants guy your coment has nothing to do and say nothing about him , what is the deal here ...
@mexiguayan2 жыл бұрын
@@literal6692 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@valovalmieni89292 жыл бұрын
Man, Brandon was such a babe
@gigantballs11 жыл бұрын
That guy in red pants is having the time of his life.
@bandulf60854 жыл бұрын
yes
@fridz664 жыл бұрын
If I were there. There’d be two of us not caring about what others think as long as we’re having a great time and not diaturbing other people.
@zitimotleyxxjmxx3 жыл бұрын
@@fridz66 count me in
@machicorleone3 жыл бұрын
Fuck yes..he is living his best life
@adderon3 жыл бұрын
Jon Bernthal is rockin out
@Chalo-ng3nv6 ай бұрын
I was in high school when Morning View Sessions released on DVD, I bought it immediately. Money well spent. Incubus was my jam back then.
@jackkanovysac49985 жыл бұрын
many props to the folks who recorded this and mixed it. fucking phenomenal.
@gusperez99552 жыл бұрын
For real
@hida_berserker6 ай бұрын
i think i'll buy me some red pants too. he's an inspiration !
@YTCProductions7 ай бұрын
Still here 2024 Incubus will never die out in my heart
@javierarias6164 жыл бұрын
Few bands can be proud of giving such a clean and perfect live show like this one.
@cassidyjulie92489 жыл бұрын
Brandon's hair is just soooo perfect😍 oh god
@sainttrunks19828 жыл бұрын
+Cassidy Julie he had the Sting/ The Crow hair back then
@michaelreefer53768 жыл бұрын
yeah cassy! i love u
@josealejandrohernandezrami64456 жыл бұрын
"Pardon Me" Pardon me while I burst Pardon me while I burst A decade ago, I never thought I would be A twenty three on the verge of spontaneous combustion. Woe-is-me But I guess that it comes with the territory An ominous landscape of never-ending calamity I need you to hear. I need you to see That I have had all I can take And exploding seems like a definite possibility To me So Pardon me while I burst into flames I've had enough of the world, and its people's mindless games So Pardon me while I burn, and rise above the flame Pardon me, pardon me. I'll never be the same Not, two days ago I was having a look in a book And I saw a picture of a guy fried up above his knees I said I can relate Cause lately I've been thinking of combustication As a welcomed vacation from The burdens of the planet earth Like gravity, hypocrisy, and the perils of being in 3-D But thinking so much differently Pardon me while I burst into flames I've had enough of the world, and it's people's mindless games Pardon me while I burn, and rise above the flame Pardon me, pardon me. I'll never be the same Never be the same...yeah Pardon me while I burst into flames Pardon me, pardon me, pardon me So pardon me while I burst into flames I've had enough of the world, and it's people's mindless games So pardon me while I burn, and rise above the flame Pardon me, pardon me. I'll never be the same Pardon me, never be the same. Yeah
@danielhiman2 жыл бұрын
Sing it!
@hyowokatzamuaio52463 жыл бұрын
Damn this version of the song is just hilariously good. I love those kinds of harmonies
@user-yl4sv8xg4b7 ай бұрын
I'm sorry, I've been into Incubus since only recently (I love them terribly already) and I've seen numerous comments about the red pants guy on their videos, even the recent ones. I wonder if it's all about the guy from this video? Anyway that's so awesome! The whole fandom knows him now :)
@JHAN1212 Жыл бұрын
These boys were cookin back in the day
@skoolynugenator18025 жыл бұрын
Saw Incubus back in 2002. Probably the best performance I’ve ever seen by any band.
@ziamarie2 жыл бұрын
Can confirm because i saw em back in 2001. Tool is probably the only other band that sounds just as amazing when ya seem em live.
@sonnysanimalanddinosaurand3746 Жыл бұрын
The red pant guy being the highlight of an Incubus video, is a good example of “people’s mindless games” lol
@Spiritbox12 Жыл бұрын
Lmaooo
@AngelBlsro8 жыл бұрын
Say what you want about the guy in red pants but he's drunk and singing along. That's fine by me.
@Eazy_Bruh6 жыл бұрын
Angel Belisario for real, this was 2001 those days were the shit even though I was 6
@samcpea956 жыл бұрын
As soooon I saw that guy do that I came to comments b cause I knew I wasn’t the only who saw that
@lesclaypoolonbass94316 жыл бұрын
Ya, Jamie Kennedy is ok
@god17705 жыл бұрын
Phoebe:- it's 9:00 in the morning, what is wrong with you?
@pedroinfante33954 жыл бұрын
Why do you have to make a statement on everything, if they use cellphones to film, if they are quiet, if they are high, fuck's sake just do your things and leave others be
@ghostface226 ай бұрын
Litterally got goosebumps listening this is just as good and comparable to Nirvana at mtv unplugged, legendary by both bands !
@katherineponce36658 жыл бұрын
I got that feeling of the red pants guy everytime I listen to Incubus... I don't blame him it's the vibe I get with those lyrics....so pardon me.. lol
@alexgrant2468 жыл бұрын
that was perfect lol😂😂
@GOREilla.7 жыл бұрын
Awesome lol
@BarbarousAmerican7 ай бұрын
Red Pants Guy Featuring Incubus ❤️🔥
@darwin69606 жыл бұрын
The thing that needs to be notice here was at 1:33 where DJ Kilmore kills it more amazingly.
@TezTezTezTezTezАй бұрын
Listened to this when it was released and still listening in 2024 ❤🙏
@Christopher_1759 жыл бұрын
When I bought this dvd red pants guy was one of the first things I noticed. 10 years later and he still gets hate, just this time it's from all over the planet. Thanks KZbin.
@rickcook17439 жыл бұрын
Ghost_Hands What is the funniest part, its the dudes mostly commenting on another dudes pants.... wtf..... Bunch of closet sausage jockies.
@Ocrockets889 жыл бұрын
Lol #Teamrespants!!
@derrickdevries8216 жыл бұрын
ditto to the dvd and now 12 years on lol
@angrymobsters1599 Жыл бұрын
You have heard it from numerous people but man dude in the red pants is living in the moment. ❤
@MYNAMEizCLARENCE4 жыл бұрын
I’m 26 Deftones, Nine inch nails and incubus were a huge part of my high school .. along with other music. I know they were too, for people in their 30’s and 40’s I think their music is timeless, it can last a lifetime and newer generations seem to cling to it. Especially Deftones and NIN (due to their most recent albums)
@jefferydavis33323 жыл бұрын
I’m 37 and the music we got back in the 90’s was amazing. Every week a band would release a single that was a timeless epic.
@V4mpb4t2 жыл бұрын
Well, I'm 18 and I love NIN, Incubus and Deftones.
@BetaBreaking2 жыл бұрын
@@V4mpb4t I thank my parents for being born in the 80's. I got to grow up listening to 90' and 00's music. So much nostalgia and hard hitting stuff from metal, rap, and rock
@elleare96196 жыл бұрын
His voice is so flawless!
@TonTon.214211 ай бұрын
This is one of the greatest live performances of all time. Up there with the Alice In Chains Unplugged.
@TerrySanders-6 ай бұрын
Omg finally someone said it ....Thank you
@TerrySanders-6 ай бұрын
TonTon,2124 😂
@SJW82Ай бұрын
Thank you who ever made this possible.....I Owe you a pint of life!!!!
@Aerospacer774 жыл бұрын
Best band of the 90's PERIOD!! I was lucky to see them in '98 at the Aragon ballroom in Chicago. Took the train by myself to go see them since none of my friends were into them. I'll never forget the show and taking the train back home at midnight all by myself.
@northwestkidmarc21 күн бұрын
Incubus is such a amazing band this is forever a timeless classic and phenomenal 👏👏👏😁
@BTHDreamer3 жыл бұрын
What is the deal with everyone commenting about red pants guy. Of course the guy is having the time of his life rocking out... I mean... this band is amazing live.
@MoneyMakingMitch-LV133 ай бұрын
Red pants guy is alive and well, still rocking the red
@BenjiMay_3 жыл бұрын
Red pants guy ingrained himself into my malleable teenage brain, it's good to see he's getting the recognition he deserves 🍻
@Adrianherrera001 Жыл бұрын
2023 . Still cool with the red pants guy .
@joeyjordison50822 жыл бұрын
Red pants guy rocked it out! 🤟 Incubus did good too. 👌
@adrecWerdnaLihp3 ай бұрын
i love the live gigs back then, when crowds are enjoying watching the show, than todays, they are focusing on their phones during the live show then enjoy watching it later on their phones
@andrewscott1387 Жыл бұрын
That guitar tone is epic
@JPerpetualKid_9 ай бұрын
My college roommate always play the cassette tape of Incubus. I was not a fan but their songs managed to creep into me as I usually heard them before. 20 years after, I love this song and been listening to it a lot second only to my favorite song from them, "I Miss You!"
@heltyweltylyf5 жыл бұрын
The guy in red pants is the coolest audience in that concert. He know the lyrics and he support the band
@albeertoh21316 жыл бұрын
3:29 I love those background vocals
@jaymunny8 ай бұрын
This performance was in 2002 which means that's definitely nacho varga in the audience 0:18
@coreynorman1666 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes I find my thoughts wondering if the acoustic version is better than the band version but then I come back to this performance and straightens me out
@xxLonniExx Жыл бұрын
This is peak Incubus imo ❤
@Nonya2324Ай бұрын
I’ll be watching them soon. And I’ll be wearing a red pant in his name.
@bryangalster76473 ай бұрын
Damn they straight DESTROYED that performance, amazing
@jhosmanelivelasquez61065 жыл бұрын
I really love this song. real hype 2019 anyone
@mikey_mutz26 күн бұрын
This song and performance will never get old
@Duffington7 жыл бұрын
The guy in the red pants must be in his 40's now. All he is remembered for is being the red pants guy in the Morning View Sessions
@marcelogilliardmaiaantunes37036 жыл бұрын
That's a lot more than most of us, actually...
@Duffington6 жыл бұрын
Marcelo Gilliard Maia Antunes I'd be proud if I was him 😂
@90loneeagle5 жыл бұрын
You're wack bruh,
@kevenkleine62625 жыл бұрын
His my dad
@DirtiestSoul3 жыл бұрын
Well, most of them guys in the video are 40 now
@SloopADoopy Жыл бұрын
Giga chad red pants is rocking out
@caitlynsterbutzel58184 жыл бұрын
His voice is so shot now but here he sounded perfect. It's crazy what time can do
@stephenm87252 жыл бұрын
vocals sadly go down in quality as most singers age. can't hit certain notes anymore. yes, Brandon sounds incredible here
@cleangoblin20216 ай бұрын
@@stephenm8725 some maintained it through discipline. Brandon seems like the vegan kinda guy so i doubt he neglected his health. But dudes a stoner so who knows
@chrisrodriguezsacor67106 жыл бұрын
A decade ago I never thought I would be At twenty-three On the verge of spontaneous combustion Wo-is-me But I guess that it comes with the territory An ominous landscape of never ending calamity I need you to hear I need you to see that I have had all that I can take And exploding seems like a definite possibility to me So pardon me while I burst into flames Pardon me while I burst into flames I've had enough of the world and it's people's mindless games So pardon me while I burn and rise above the flame Pardon me, pardon me, I'll never be the same Not two days ago I was having a look in a book And I saw a picture of a guy fried up above his knee I said, 'I can relate?' Cause lately I've been thinking of combustication As a welcomed vacation From the burdens of the planet earth Like gravity, hypocrisy, and the perils of being in 3-D And thinking so much differently So pardon me while I burst into flames I've had enough of the world and it's people's mindless games So pardon me while I burn and rise above the flame Pardon me, pardon me, I'll never be the same Like gravity, hypocrisy, and the perils of being in 3-D And thinking so much differently
@curnwah116 жыл бұрын
Why did you feel the need to post the entire lyrics with perfect punctuation? Copy and past job, or do you really need to get your end away?
@ciprianoroi6 жыл бұрын
@@curnwah11 dafuq are u saying?
@TheRossillini Жыл бұрын
Glad I was raised in these times for music.
@brandongroenhoff68004 жыл бұрын
Wow they sound incredible live!!
@hotboxcards5760 Жыл бұрын
Bart and Me.. Bart and Me. Will never be the same
@giacomoezrabarbieri96914 жыл бұрын
1:48 Brandon is not actually singing, the real singer is the guy behind him
@fishnchips78265 ай бұрын
Such a breathtaking man 😊
@DaveO08088 жыл бұрын
at least he seems to know the song and lyrics very well
@gdansk1234910 күн бұрын
The type of guys who were drawn to incibus is the reason why they never hit home for me completely. I never understood if they catered to that crowd conciously.
@renatoshima46824 жыл бұрын
Red pants gym guy is a whole life mood inspiration
@edgardomatiasrios59437 ай бұрын
Best Bass Player of History.
@unisfearproductions86886 ай бұрын
What's his name?
@edgardomatiasrios59436 ай бұрын
@@unisfearproductions8688 Alex Katunich
@wallacemedia78177 жыл бұрын
In all-seriousness I'm really disappointed in peoples ignorance within comment section especially considering this amazing song, what is the "Red pants guy" doing which is so wrong? He's just singing a long and enjoying the song, good on him in my opinion we should all see people like that more often and embrace it, and for the record this is my new favorite song and band!
@albertonino26526 жыл бұрын
Just jealous. Represents to them the dude in middle/high school that was a douche, got the babes, and pushed around these guys. And they're even more upset that he likes the band they would go home and blast while writing their dark poems every day after school. Shame they didn't grow up and get over that shit.
@jcacousticaofficial90764 жыл бұрын
Indeed. If i was there i would literally did the same
@pentalway3 жыл бұрын
Wow you guys must be fun at parties.
@adolfomarin20983 жыл бұрын
He's not doing anything wrong! He is the show!
@pash68852 жыл бұрын
Be honest... you’re the red Pants dude aren’t you??
@peteywheatstraws4909 Жыл бұрын
DJ rockin a Michael Jordan "Wizards" jersey.
@kodymcmullen56912 жыл бұрын
The pure joy on people's faces behind him tells you everything their music does to and for people.
@charleskerr84154 ай бұрын
Great song, by a great group.
@kimblez3 жыл бұрын
The red pants guy is the best Chad i have ever seen ..
@gohillinc.21902 жыл бұрын
i dont know what heaven is like all i have is my imagination of it..................i long long for a time to see a lasting miricle in my time.......my sister died and now im giving up up on a promise
@jaytwix24 жыл бұрын
damnn just raw no any autotune and crowds with no smartphones
@gdn865 ай бұрын
Red pants guy is everything the world collectively either love, or hate about Incubus, all in one package.
@chrisdayplays Жыл бұрын
One guy left and they were never the same....
@artriff118 жыл бұрын
Dude in red pants = Person of the Century
@TheSpock233 жыл бұрын
Lol
@Altroburst7 ай бұрын
my first hook to Incubus ! love this band
@aimmaeroy73342 жыл бұрын
Year 2022, still I'm a big fan of this band live or not. Or even the acoustic version of this song Pardon Me that I totally love.. Incubus really rocks! 🤘😉
@williamabbott94373 ай бұрын
Should've kept Alex on Bass. He was the special sauce. They've never been the same since.
@willr48802 жыл бұрын
The first time I heard this it was the summer of 2000. I had just graduated high school and moved to the beach for the summer with my friends. Nostalgia
@ThisIsNotAnExit8610 ай бұрын
I first heard it in the winter of 2000, I had just turned 14. I was walking across the street from babysitting my neighbors kid, and I had it on my walkman hearing it for the 1st time. It was unbelievable. Whenever its cold and I can see my breath and smell chimney smoke I think of Pardon Me
@willr488010 ай бұрын
@@ThisIsNotAnExit86 cool 😎
@Don-cq5fg10 ай бұрын
This song has followed me through the decades. It is comfort food
@Psycriss18 жыл бұрын
the red pants guy ... give him a beer !
@louisnirvana17 жыл бұрын
HAHAHA Give him 2!
@erics3017 жыл бұрын
hell nah, that dude should be at an NSYNC concert
@ninjatv30767 жыл бұрын
louis santiago GIVE HIM A BILLION
@theamazingmrslick13446 жыл бұрын
Nah bro he's already had too Many 🤣😂
@forumknight6 жыл бұрын
Cristian Fuentes he’s clearly a Jack Daniels and coke kinda dude
@Ryansilverman-r7g2 жыл бұрын
Incubus and purl jam need to go on Tour (2023)
@keithabalos8219 жыл бұрын
One of the coolest fan of incubus in this video was the guy wearing red pants. You man! Yes, you're the man here. (Y)
@mistersylliboy2690 Жыл бұрын
The red pants guy is the apitamity of a good host,making sure that everyone is happy and the drinks are flowing 😀