Indian Coaching Industry Ka The END?

[@vedantrusty]

apna coaching centre ka experience share karo chalo! and video like karo, varana algorithm kaise push karega?

[@gaurav_dil_se1006]

Everyone is going after coaching industries, but no one discussing why these coaching centres exist in the first place.....because of inability of our schools to impart quality education needed to reach premier institutes of our country.

[@gaurav_dil_se1006]

There is a great book on this whole topic written by aditya iyer, it is a must read to understand basic problems related to competitive education

[@akashg8655]

@@gaurav_dil_se1006 Hèło☺️bhaiya g😝Iit Bombay😘chala🥳Gaya😂toh👉1 crore package milega na😝,main💸 sundar pichai 🧐 bana 😢 chahta 😮 hu🤩

[@HarishchadPatel]

Video to ek no. Aa Raha hai is samay mee❤

[@parthbhatia12]

mai pichle 6 saal se fiitjee mei enrolled hu and mera bachpan jee ki padhai aur stress ne kha liya . in 10th mera mann bhi nahi tha to opt for non medical and sciences as a field for future but unfortunately mujhe pcm k liye opt krna padha cuz mere mata pitah ne unki haisiyat se badh kar aur apni samajh k according loan leke fiitjee mein 8th k baad re enroll krwaya. kisi tarah maine cheating krke aur apna adha pichadha dimaag laga k 11th mein jhoote tareeke fiitjee k internal exams ko pass krne ki try kri and when 12th came i was blank af. in the end of 12th around november december maine private and individual tuitions k dum pe jaise taise 12th pass kri aur ab ek nihayti barbaad college mein apne agle 4 saal kaat rha hu. fuck fiitjee fuck the educational department fuck morality fuck these laws and everything. if it is upto me i believe jab hume option mein a b c d hii mila tha toh ab aane walo ko yeh e f g h options kyu mil rhi hai . humaare waqt pe reform gaya maa chudane aur naye bachho k liye passenger princess treatment kyu ? iss barbaad lgbtq mental health body positivity aur binn reer ki haddi wali gali hui peedhi ka jab mann krega tab unko woh cheeze laake dene wali mentality humare samajh ki kyu hai. inke liye 10th boards cancel krdiye teachers ki leaniency dedi cbse aadha chudha padha hai aur maiyovon ko ab responsibility value of education aur stress se bhi chhutkara chahiye ??!! wwtf is wrong with this country ??! maa chudaye yeh politics mai nota daba rha hu

[@saifahmad6260]

IIT graduates saying that these coaching centres are bad and later after graduating from IIt they themself join these coaching centres as faculty and pressurize more students.

[@godson200]

well I plan on doing the same after i graduate in 2025. life is a circle. i won't pressurize students but I will try my best to make it easier for students.

[@maddag]

yea cos they never breakout of their iit dream after clearing advance many don't even know what branch they want to choose they're there only for the iit tag. After getting into college they become laid back and don't develop any skill most don't get their dream packages as they were promised by the coaching institutes so the only option they have is to teach in these coachings and their iit tag helps them to get a hefty salary.

[@HimanshuSharma-de8ls]

@@godson200you think that u won’t pressurise students but you will because of the coaching’s head will pressurise you to bring better results and also for increments and etc benefits which faculty gets for bringing rank from students they taught also if you won’t give them results they will ultimately fire u

[@harshitsharma3689]

As a student in a tier 3 private college. The stress is not too much, cause the stress never stops. It'll be much worse if you fail badly like me lol

[@godson200]

@@HimanshuSharma-de8ls bro who said rank cannot be brought by teaching with fun? like masti mazak ke saath teaching ho sakti hai. alakh pandey is the prime example because mene unhi se physics padha tha.. but point being.. ek classroom m kya hora h wo toh m hi decide karunga na. aur dusri cheez.. shayad increment na mile lekin khush hu bhai jitna bhi mile. ye har baar growth growth karke kab tak chalega

[@Mr.Coffee576]

Our Indian education system is flawed. Students decide to become engineers or doctors because society tells them to. They choose that at the age of 16 ? A 16 year old doesn’t know what they want to do in life, and they are given this life changing decision.

[@tushargoel3870]

It is made by Britisher to destroy the India

[@TanmoyDeb]

Solution batao

[@poplu7076]

Yea there's no point in pointing to a problem everyone already knows ... Tell some solution which actually works

[@Mr.Coffee576]

@@poplu7076 The only solution is education reform. Vote for a better education minister who understands these problems.

[@RakshitaJangid]

Right there should be proper career counseling of students and career tests should be taken to make full detailed reports on every student which has suggested career options for the child

[@raghavgovind2580]

As a Student at IITK, who was a coaching student for a lot of time, its better to shut this industry down The stress is too much

[@shabdanandchaturvedi713]

bhai im in kota rn. in 11th. L age hue hain. bhayanak backlogs. help or tips.

[@vedantrusty]

damn

[@skelebro9999]

​@@shabdanandchaturvedi713pehle Mann shant karke backlogs ek ek karke clear karlo. at least thora sa to stress dur hoga.

[@godson200]

i agree as a student of IITH. I was in coaching. for some 4.5 years you can say, but last 1.5years went blank due to covid. i can really say online education is actually really better than bland lectures, and IITs should also adopt this methodology of teaching on smartboards and using interactive examples to teach your concepts instead of boring maths on greenboards.

[@Aman__aok]

@@godson200true but cant really see in competition in online like you experience that in offline..like im in aakash

[@jnjjjb609]

At Aakash institute we have "counsellors" who they show while taking admission turns out they are part of the accounts team. If any student complains or goes to them for any problem they try to scare the student by saying they will call our parents and say we aren't studying. They tried this with me once but my parents are very supportive of me so i didnt back down. These institutes should really end there are a lot of good sources online nowdays.

[@the_girl_from_nowhere]

Wait, really? That's horrible, they really send us messages assuring us that we should book a session if we need help. I was thinking of fixing an appointment with them, well, now I know that I'm definitely not doing that. Thank you for saying this.

[@surjanarayangorai8241]

aaj kl counceiling You tube a6ha de deta hh.. nd ek teacher se a6ha councellor aur koi nhi hota hh

[@prabhjotkaur6867]

Same condition in Allen .

[@rosec_rose6661]

Technically they are your harrassers.

[@zeno7905]

I dropped two years for JEE. Yes JEE ( still didn't clear with good rank). I got into a tier 3 engineering college, knew my passion was programming not cramming and now I'm working at Microsoft. Guys please realise life doesn't end if you don't get a good college. If you are passionate about something fight with your parents for it. Your Parents are just humans, they get scared, they make mistakes. Bachha paida krke bhagwan nahi bn jate wo log. Fight for your dreams aise darke nahi chalega. My parents, my relatives everyone used to look at me like I'm worthless. Now they feel proud of my decisions. And my dream doesn't end here. I've got bigger dreams and I'm willing to take bigger risks. Take risks yr. Do what you are passionate. Ek hi life hai khud ke liye jiyo. Khud khush rahoge tabhi dusro ko khush rkhoge.

[@godson200]

wow. and here I am stuck in an iit knowing that my passion is in physics and mathematics and teaching that, instead of programming, here I am stuck in programming stuff I don't like

[@nitin9817]

@@godson200 can we talk ? I'm also in same condition . what are you doing in coding ? current year?

[@himeshsinghshishodiya]

Bro is a gigachad. W.

[@endzyoutube]

Same condition started preparing for jee in my drop yr couldn't get nit next yr join a state govt college 💀

[@unknownboi9084]

OMG genuinely congratulations to you mann 🎉👏🏻

[@kachireads2528]

Coming from someone who failed neet exam because at the end i realised I don't want this lifestyle (yes I didn't study) I was badly treated at my home specially by relatives and comparison almost killed me, luckily i took a degree that gave me enough time to think about what i want ,tried to get certifications in careers that appealed to me and I finally decided accounting was the one. I didn't give up on my life because I wasn't a part of the overhyped profession that doesn't have a life. Main issue is that you're telling 15-16 year old to decide on a career without having any idea about I think this should be fixed first. Edit: people saying I'm making an excuse for failure, you're the reason why students are afraid to change their minds , because this no plan b shit trend is deeply glorified by coaching industries, MY DREAM IS TO BECOME A CFO ! Why WOULD I PURSUE MEDICAL THEN??? I CAN GET MORE MONEY IN EARLY AGE SOOO??? just get a life

[@ytabhinavmathur]

Bro just an excuse of ur failure. Me too failed JEE. But what path u took u should glorify it.

[@ytabhinavmathur]

Just ask yourself, have you given 100 percent? Your heart will tell you. Don't make stupid excuses. Consider the privilege of choosing a career from the perspective of a lower middle-class family. What do you think about all the government jobs like banking, SSC sector? Some people dream to work in them, while others do not at all. They all prepare tirelessly to secure these positions. Many seek government jobs simply to gain financial stability. Let's discuss the fact that each one of us has talent and passion, yet we can't always pursue them as professions. That's why we often refer to them as hobbies

[@supposedlyhuman]

I hope you're happy with what you're doing. Although i kinda agree with your comment i wanna add that human minds can change at any point of life, i have seen ppl who change career every month. Most of the students who prepare for competitive exams are due to their parents' demands and not their own willl. Some of them really want to pursue a career out of an initial exam. For a 16 y/o is tough to opt for a career while you are confused among different options but you should know too doing btech doesn't really mean you're going to be an engineer for sure and work as, ppl switch it multiple times.

[@dysplasiaanaplasia4128]

Listen you failed it cz your preparation was not upto the mark nd you also know it. You dnt want this lifestyle that has nothing to do with the exam itself. Many people leave after cracking the exam.

[@kachireads2528]

@@dysplasiaanaplasia4128 up to the mark??? I didn't even study

[@tanujam500]

Aunty at 6:35 was absolutely right Rather then putting these restrictions on coaching centre's government should take actions against private schools Private coaching centre's still give quality education what about private schools neither they pay their teachers well nor students get the best . And the fee they charge Government should think themselves why is there a need to get coaching,the answer is simple our schools are lacking in quality

[@gr8india_bst]

yeah i also thik so. I was in motion kota till november 2023 and they clearly take very good care of there droppers when i started coaching there only then i realised what is level of jee and how fuckd my school taught me with respect to competitive examinations.

[@EXAML]

@@gr8india_bst 2024 ? Future aya hain bhai kiya ?

[@flamezz3706]

It is not that the schools don't provide quality education, it is that the parents think only education that can crack competitive exams is quality. Even if the schools taught like coachings that would make no difference as the number of seats won't change and it will just create unnecessary stress for the average student. The parents need to be taught that no matter how much they spend they cannot make their child worthy of those prestigious institute unless the child himself wants to do it and has passion for it. Most of the people that die in suicides are the ones that didn't even care for the exam but where forced to prep for it due to parental pressure.

[@idrisahmed2659]

even private schools are taking in students like herds of sheep in large numbers when i passes out from my school 10 years ago ..... back then education quality in my school was actually pretty good we where only 20 odd studets in the class we alll shared a close bond ....... teachers actually took efforts in teaching us in a hollistic manner .....but now the 10th std has 4 sections with each section having close to 50 studets .....quantity has increased and thus quality has drastically reduced ......teachers just teach for the sake of teaching cant blame them ......also the fees has more than doubled ...... sports activty has reduced .....PT teachers are useless ..... its just sad to see how eduactin in india is just becoming an even bigger mess than it was ....

[@stupid6232]

Bro it's politics private school funds in election campaign...

[@vimleshdcafe]

it is unbelievable how a single person can research and present an social issues. we expect this kind of research and presentation from main stream media.

[@vedantrusty]

Appreciate it but It’s not a single person effort, I’m super grateful for the people I work with!

[@vimleshdcafe]

kudos to you and your team for making such an detailed video. ❤❤❤❤@@vedantrusty

[@pollyaich4559]

tf? thousands of youtubers do this...

[@amaionnest9939]

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[@bobsinhav]

​@@vedantrustyVideo suggestion: How going abroad and spending money on an undergraduate education is mostly not worth it.

[@PiyushLurks]

I am a student studying in one of the biggest coaching for IIT-JEE preparation in Kota. Every point Vedant made is valid, I have been here since the start of my 11th grade and in 4 months I will be giving my JEE Advance exam. Luckily for me, my parents are very supportive in this regard. They often tell me not to worry so much about the result whenever they see me getting stressed but unfortunately not everyone has such luck. In fact, I have many friends who can’t even express their stress and anxiety to their parents which is not very shocking as most parents often take loans to provide the required facilities for their children. And regarding the toppers, yes they actually get a different hostel with all the facilities. Even 24/7 doubt solving faculties, private library, resources and obviously heck ton of money if they get a good rank. Kota can be a hell of a place for some people. In the beginning of my JEE preparation, our teacher told us that maybe only one or two people from our entire batch will end up in IITs, rest all will go home with empty hands.

[@BK_3216]

Hi can I hve your Instagram id I want to know abt coaching as I want to join them

[@supposedlyhuman]

It's actually true, out of millions of students only a few make it to good engineering colleges. And out of a batch only a couple make it to iit, the competition is high, the stress is too much,the environment isn't friendly, not every student is of the same level, and not everyone can rot. Idk what those intelligent people in the world,those toppers do that they crack these exams with a 100%, how do they correctly solve the paper to achieve this.

[@PiyushLurks]

@@BK_3216 I don’t use Instagram actually, you can ask me whatever you want over here.

[@PiyushLurks]

@@supposedlyhuman Yup, sadly that’s the reality for most of us. To be optimistic, I thank this competition to make me value the hard-work so much. Learning to work hard at the age of 16-17 can be a blessing. But again, that’s not applicable for everyone which is the sad part tbh.

[@PiyushLurks]

@@BK_3216 I don’t use Instagram, you can ask me about that here in the comments.

[@pratikjoshi9836]

I believe the guidelines are in favour of students and children! It’s extremely crucial to take healthy and mental sanity of students in perspective And not their parent’s increasing hunger for vanity to maintain a high socioeconomic class. Burden is not at all visible to these parents who believe not getting into good college is end of career, the options are coming out of their micro perspective of life, only important segment is THE JEE/NEET phase.

[@ytabhinavmathur]

Just ask yourself, have you given 100 percent? Your heart will tell you. Don't make stupid excuses. Consider the privilege of choosing a career from the perspective of a lower middle-class family. What do you think about all the government jobs like banking, SSC sector? Some people dream to work in them, while others do not at all. They all prepare tirelessly to secure these positions. Many seek government jobs simply to gain financial stability. Let's discuss the fact that each one of us has talent and passion, yet we can't always pursue them as professions. That's why we often refer to them as hobbies

[@TOXIC-MAIN]

And not just that , coaching helps in building base and in one way or other it's helpful, people saying that pressure isn't good , should also see that without this pressure how would they continue in life ​@@ytabhinavmathur

[@studentaccount1112]

You are right but the inherent nature of life is unfair we all are born unequal in terms of privileges like money, intelligence etc. That doesn't means we should restrict our perspective of life, while I understand that there are some people who don't get to pursue their passion/talents But that doesn't make an excuse for any of us to not *try* to pursue. In simple words all we can do is try till death and don't give up and accept the defeat infront of inherent unfair nature of life @@ytabhinavmathur

[@studentaccount1112]

and also your phrasing *stupid excuses* denotes your ignorance towards someone else challenges, everyone life struggles is different and no one can truly understand other's Struggles until they are put in that shoe

[@rickstube5299]

​@@ytabhinavmathur yes but that still doesn't excuse you from overburdening your child. Your child isnt a get out of poverty free card. You are a poor parent and that's not your child's fault. Do all you can for him/her, and let them decide. Solve your problems yourself if you're poor. Learn stuff and do better. if you can't, accept it and move on. And let your child breathe. If they aren't alive, they won't really be making money.

[@friensta]

Indian education system was just about cramming and the edtech made it worse by doing it on a large scale☠️☠️ Edit- people haven't thought deeply on my comment...I meant to say that due to edtech in the education industry now only major thing in the trend is competitive exams and not preparing for any competitive exams now feels like fomo due to excessive advertisement by big edtech coaching

[@vedantrusty]

indeed, but tech also enables ways to break out of it

[@AdityaJape]

NEP will change everything have patience.

[@sanskarjaiswal6849]

NO ! Edtech is the best !

[@vantour504]

I disagree

[@godson200]

edtech is in the right hands I feel. slowly it can become better. verisatium, 3blue1brown, bluepenblackpen. these kind of science information channels are also Ed tech channels in a way. also, khan academy, mit open course ware, stanford lectures. these are also Ed tech. these are just available for free on KZbin and physics wallah/vedantu charges some 5-10k per year for their content. Ed tech channels can be used in your own way.

[@isha.sharmaaa]

bro i am 18 yr old and due to exam pressure i started having epileptic fits ...from the very begining i didnt like the culture of coaching institues it was so toxic,awful,brain damaging(for me atleast) like i am not saying coachings are bad its great for the people with strong heart ,but for those who are emotionally weak like me its not less then hell...i still remember getting panic attacks in between classes and i had to run to the washroom and just cry there sitting on the floor like many times....and its just not about teachers but fellow students too ..i remember teacher bullying students for not able to answer the questions they used to ask like itna khauf tha khade khade aasu nikal jaate the...i cant describe much but all i can say is every single day felt like a burden to me which i wanted to end by taking my life because i have no percent of courage to tell my parents that how fucked up i am and cant stand by their expectations even though they spent lacs of money in my coachings

[@Perfect_pratik]

Hey i don't know who you are but stay strong 💪, no matter what you have to build up the courage for yourself and live your life in your own way, it may be diffcult a lot times , but we are not going to loose to this system anymore ! all the best from a -fellow aspirant ✌️✌️

[@isha.sharmaaa]

@@Perfect_pratik 😄

[@rohansaini3293]

Please don't end you life i think the same thing too and i know internally I am not dumb i just need to do other things i need to explore and learn in a different way but i can't I am sorry for what happened to you ,and i also had panic attacks sometimes my body shivers and then my breath just increases and it's bad like really bad

[@Maitreya-7777]

Hope you are ok.

[@bluesapphire7548]

Wish you strength. Wish a strata of parents were more open minded instead of blindly following patterns.

[@RaviRanaSingh]

Been to kota in 2006 for iit preparation and returned the very next day upon seeing the condition of coaching centers

[@vedantrusty]

Damn, if it was bad then can’t imagine what it must be now!

[@rajtibarewala8972]

@@vedantrusty i am in Allen kota since past 1.5 year and i didnt feel anything bad humara system ekdam smooth tha classes faculty course

[@RaviRanaSingh]

@@vedantrustyYeah, in reso***ce coaching classes, they had batches category from A to K and each category had a sub-category from 1 to 12 being A-1 the best and K-12 the worst. And each batch had a strength of 150 students packed in a stuffy room which very much resembled a sweatshop.

[@kdhd100]

​@@RaviRanaSingh Resonance has 15000 students!!!! Unbelievable.... This is crazy...... Each student pays 150,000 per year. So gross income per year is 2,250,000,000/- Only from Kota. This industry is huge. This is a brilliant business. Instead of recruiting IITians as teachers. My suggestion is to recruit students who cracked JEE/NEET as teachers. No need for them to complete a rigorous degree. We can offer them great salaries. This industry is not going to fade for the next 25 years..... So let's do this.....

[@kdhd100]

Did you get a refund?

[@Kusalchakraborty5]

Everybody blames on our education system But nobody blame our population

[@Aashiiii29]

True , in 2023 itself there were 23lakh students registered in Neet and don't know how much number will increase in 2024

[@Benzene42]

Jee also had around 1million student 😮

[@redmightyt5331]

Ya truth

[@Kusalchakraborty5]

@@Aashiiii29 pahele bus graduate karne se hi job mil jata tha , but aj compition bohot zayda hay Isiliye sab ek dusre se better banna chahate hay , so har koi is tara ki course me admission le rahe hay .

[@Rick-kb]

Why aren't educational institution are there in proportion to population?

[@redditupdates2024]

If Indian parents are having kids to just put them in coaching Centers and deciding their futures before they can even count,then,I just have to say that majority of these parents shouldn’t be having kids at all.

[@redtints]

I feel lucky to have carefree and understanding parents. My both parents are govt teachers. I was always a below average student. They were just worried about my weakness in maths. I remember night before 12th result my baba said "beta fail hone se sharam mat kariyo, dusri bar try karenge". But instead I got 62% which is called first division in Bengali medium and A+ in English subject. It's an average score to me. But they celebrated like crazy in the colony and they said I can do whatever I can so did I. I picked my desired profession in aviation industry and they are so proud of me. So lucky to have parents who are working for govt itself but they never pressured me for these kinds of exams. But sometimes I feel like maybe they are too carefree. I'm 25 now and they are not even looking for a man for arrange marriage. They are just saying I should do love marriage like they did. I don't know if it's a good thing or bad thing 🥲

[@ayushmankar4100]

Mine too

[@kdjoshi726]

wait what? A love marriage? and both working in govt sector? damn. what a lucky couple. And you too! Don't worry too much, you're one of the luckiest folks

[@pandeygamer584]

+1 i can relate

[@ankitshaw6491]

You life u should take decision na

[@redtints]

​​@@kdjoshi726it's not about luck buddy. It's about my parents had high moral grounds. My Dad is literally a hero. He loved mum with so much dedication when she had no idea about love concept being an innocent teenager. After their marriage he only encouraged and supported my mum to study and go for the exam even though he had lots of responsibility for the joint family and us. He was/ is a head teacher. So he took all the works in his shoulder along with dragging mum into his field. I have a brother and he wanted to go for MBA instead of looking for govt jobs. They encouraged him as well so he got his job in that field and thriving really good over there. He got a girlfriend and my family accepted the girl as our own daughter without making any issue. I don't know if any other parents are like this or not. But they are literally God gifted people. ❤

[@akshatdon4439]

These parents don't know about pressure. These parents are in full glory. If the parents have so much money for coaching and the selection is also around 1 percent, then it is more favorable for the child to go to a private college with higher fees and the colleges easily give the best packages.

[@ayushmankar4100]

Kyunki parents ka idol pados wala Sharma ji ka ladka ya phir ladki hogi 😂😂😂😂

[@akshatsrivastava2580]

IIT ka tag bhi toh chahiye

[@laxmandutt1109]

Bhai, parents ke liye mein sird ek trophy cabinet hoon. taki logo ko dikha sake ki isne ye ye kiya hain. Farak nhi padhta unko, mere parents ke time competition nhi than aur non graduate ko bhi nakuri mil sakti thin. ab ki baat alag hain.

[@eleaevan6416]

because parents only want success but they don't know the process or what to do in order to get that success. Elders in my locality are casually telling me and people in my age group to try and clear UPSC but they don't have an answer when asked how should I go about doing that

[@ayushmankar4100]

@@eleaevan6416 Yup

[@Sahil_9192]

20:45 Indian parents ko parenting schools ki jarurat hai so, Yes Vedant Ji ❤❤

[@small_dropin_the_big_ocean995]

Risking your children's health and life and living in the future instead of staying in present and knowing your kid's ability, health and flaws cannot be justified as good parenting. Teenagers suffering from depression and killing themselves because of such pressure makes me not respect these kind of parents at all. Competition is what we adults create for our own benefit and then push our kids into it saying "outside world is a mess". No, we created this mess collectively, making lives difficult for everyone. Humans are not made like this. Not everyone can be molded in one particular way. We are all different skillwise, experience wise or even financial and opportunity wise. Truly a very well made, well rounded video that shows the grim reality thoroughly.

[@Randomphiles]

After clearing JEE main and advance both, I can understand the stress this students go through. It's hard and sometimes it scars you for life. Not to demotivate anyone but being an IIT student myself I can definitely say that this statement " just get into IIT and it's going to be chill" is a myth. It doesn't get chill anytime , ya... it will be easier than Jee days but not what parents or teachers make it to be. I can give you only one suggestion .....just whatever you do, give your best . Do things for learning even if Jee stuffs are not practicle in daily life. It's just a stage of life and it will pass.

[@harshitsharma3689]

I'm from a private college bro. Ask me how worse the conditions are and how better off you are. You are an IITian you yourself know that the kind of facilities, exposure, companies, contacts and education you get IS SO MUCH BETTER than the rest. This fake humbleness that people show that you know IIT doesn't solve all your problems in life is like the statement that money doesn't bring happiness. Well it's true money doesn't bring happiness but it does reduce the problems which would make your sadness greater it allows to think about other problems in your life like your emotional and mental health. If someone is a daily wage laborer who's getting just enough money to survive do you think he'll have the luxury to say he's depressed? That's the difference. Yes, being in a good college doesn't solve all your problems but it does reduce them. You should motivate people to work hard and be better. The problem with successful people in India is that they either romanticize their struggle so much that it comes off as easy and everyone jumps on it without realizing the consequences and what they'll have to deal with it or they make their struggle sound so hard and the outcome of their efforts so low that it begins to sound demoralizing to anyone listening and makes them think well if you pour in that much effort and still the result is unsatisfactory then what's the point of doing it. Stop dramatizing the facts. PLS. You should tell them the truth

[@karajkot6735]

From another fello IITian I can say I am still not over the human. I am doing good job earning good, but everything else in life is shit. People mostly look jealousy or disrespect making you alone. And other things like personality development and else go to the gutter. I feel I just like Coconut, hollow inside 🙁.

[@Randomphiles]

@@harshitsharma3689 hello Harshit, you are not wrong. College does help you in many ways. And I am in no position to tell that IIT is not what I wanted. I studied really hard and ya I got into the best college in my eyes. But I always find myself in a war whether to tell the truth to young people about big colleges. Many will disagree with me but sweet lies are better than harsh truths. But what I wanted to say is getting into IIT is not everything because 16k out of 10 lakh is a really bad ratio. Take nits around 24k . So around 40k students each year go to these colleges. Like I said after getting into these colleges life gets easier but not what they promised us. None the less, even if it's not up to the expectation , life is balanced. As a fellow college students you can understand the pressure we all have to go thorough because of PORs , competitions which can lead to depression. But life you said, it's true that money can't buy happiness, but I would rather have money. Maybe I am just blabbering one of the perks you get when there's many assignments to solve and the deadline. But I want to tell my brother and sisters, study hard and most importantly find happiness in small things.

[@serrioton1858]

aur 3-4 baar flex kar dia

[@Randomphiles]

@@serrioton1858 😂😂😂

[@ExploringInternet0101]

The biggest reason behind mental stress and pressure is Parents , lack of other options, society But not the coaching or schools

[@ayushmankar4100]

Other options hein per society aur aapka Parents ko sirf doctor aur engineer se matlab hey aur yahi bada problem hey . Aapke Parents ko sirf aapke pados wale Sharma ji engineer ladka / doctor wali ladki ki dekha-dekhi karni ati hey . Aur kuch nahi

[@siddharth1069]

@@ayushmankar4100 agar kisi ka 12th mein bio tha toh kya kya options he unke paas batao.

[@ExploringInternet0101]

@@siddharth1069 bilkul sahi bhai BIO walo k paas NEET exam hain nhi to BSC jisse bas Teacher thats all khatam no more options

[@ayushmankar4100]

@@siddharth1069 wo biotech ke line mein bhi ja sakte hein . Aur waise bhi Science wale law , costing aur dusre lines bhi opt karte hein . Jaroori nahi ki sab doctor engineer hi bane . Parents se bolo na

[@jordviral5372]

Hi Sir/Madame.Bpharmacy, pharm D also r options. ​@@ExploringInternet0101

[@sailubora]

in today's world, living your life is the most difficult task... (Especially for the current generation because of competition) My parents has started my private coaching classes since class 8th just to revise the topics which were covered in school {Because i was not that good in studies} I chose Science stream and somehow passed with 56.4%. My Father wanted me to become a Doctor and My Mother wanted me to become An Army Officer but i wanted to become a Software Engineer.. So they cooperated with me... i did one year diploma course in Music Production and MBA (distance), I did work in non-IT Company for past 3.5 years and now i'm changing my career.. My Parents always supported me and they are proud of it.. although i didn't tried something big yet.. but my small achievements makes them happy as well,,

[@yatharthrai4658]

The solution can only be achieved when the government itself puts a FULL STOP. You don't need 6 years to prepare for exams like JEE and NEET. But the problem arises when YOUR COMPETITION IS WITH STUDENTS WHO ARE PREPARING FOR 5-6 YEARS. In that case parents WILL feel "obligated" to do the same for their child taaki "baccha bakiyo se peeche na reh jaaye".So if the coachings are stopped from admitting children before say class 10, it will level the playing field for everyone. There's a reason we are made to choose our streams afet class 10, so how can one justify sending a class 8 child to an engineering coaching? (Typing this on my way back from coaching, while my younger sibling is doing the same)

[@vedantrusty]

that's what the new rules are about, so let's hope that happens

[@Rudra-Raut811]

There are many flaws like coaching too have their school which is Integrated like Sri Chaitanya the most famous school which is actually a coaching centre

[@theuchihaalchemist7629]

​@@vedantrustySir our government released guidelines and guidelines are always ignored

[@hashinasingh3227]

I'd say the fault itself lies within the govt, especially in remote areas I hv seen many students from those areas dreams of getting into iit AIIMS n get's trapped in those coaching centres .. students think they can cope up and make it up to their expectations but once u get into those reputed institutes , u get awestruck teachers only focuses on the students who would give them rank , there's repeatedly 4 tests in one month in those phase students usually forget to work on their perfection n yes after every AIATS there's ptm where parents and teachers altogether scold n demotivate . I'm not saying this hypothetically , I'm a current student from so called reputed institute rn I'm preparing for neet ... The teachers instigate parents to an extent that parents raise theirs hands . If u are absent in ptms they'll call ur parents separately . There u feel like ur life is over ... And especially when u pay lakhs of rupees just for one year and u are unable to score ... It's just so depressing n heart breaking to see wt the world have become once tutions schools werr the places where students used to learn something now it's just a grp of mafia hub who extract money.....

[@dysplasiaanaplasia4128]

If someone is preparing for 5-6 yrs then they deserve to go there but those who dnt are not waste it’s just they will do other things in life.

[@rafathshadab3569]

In a month my 12th will be completed. I wrote some Engineering entrances even though I didn't prepare (my father pushed me to write) .If I say anything he asks for alternatives and damn I don't have any idea. Edit: And don't you think Engineering (especially IT and Computers) is over saturated not only as a degree but also as a skill. Even though it is easy to get a job in the tech field, it's the field where most exploitation of employees happen

[@loseweightusingketo]

BCA or BSc in Computer Application, specializations: AI, Data Science, Machine Learning

[@prajwalshende554]

everyone around me is trying to achieve some future goals but I am not interested in it. Those peoples want materialistic things which they work hard day and night for that and have left happiness behind. I accept that some of those enjoyed in their work but I bet that most of them hate it. I don't Want any materialistic things in my life, I just want Peace. earlier I want to be rich, fame, power, respect, High social status,.. but now when I think about it, I feel that these things are not what I want, those are materialistic, it moh and after u die I doesn't come up with u. I slowly realized that what I realy want to do is bhakti. its the ultimate journey. I want to be close with god. other people in world are always tensed in life about future, they are always running behind success, and when they get old the come up to the light of bhakti for peace in life, but I will achieve that in young age which they get at old age. I don't want success I want peace. I don't care if I die or live I always want to sleep and only sleep and never wake up . I want to get hit by a train , someone shoot my head with shotgun ,I just eat cynide , fall from burj Khalifa, beaded by sword with just one hit, my hear should fail when I am sleeping, eating lots of medicines so that it cause overdose and Finally to death, all I want is painless death as soon as possible. I am tired of life. It all started in winter when I was at Hostel at for my neet prepration. there I was suffering from winter blues or Seasonal affective disorder. and its more than a Year I am till suffering from it. now I am Doing drop as I didn't Qualified last Year. so when I came back to Hostel after Diwali I get too lazy, I was sleeping too much (i even slept 20 hrs some time), not studying at all, watching webseries and movies , i didn't bath for weeks, I orders lots of snacks online from big basket ( as I didn't have to go outside to get it ) , sometimes I cried for my condition , I wanted to get out of this and focused at study again but everytime I try I get to the same situation again and again. My whole routine was waking up , not Bathing, eating breakfast , watching webseries /movies, then eating lunch ( sometimes i Skip lunch and breakfast as I couldn't wakeup due to tiredness) , then again watching webseries/movies or sleep , eating evening snacks, watching webseries and movies, dinner , playing Football at yard, watching webseries and movies till 1 or 2 am then same routine. I was not interested at study at all, when parents asked about study I tell them its going well and tell them false marks in tests. I had became very self destructive. I knew that I am not gonna crack neet so then why should I study, when there were my 12th board exams my mindset was like if I pass its good and if I fail no worries as I don't care about my future , but Luckily my father had given money to the college for cheating and I passed it. Then I gave neet and after that mht CET, I did worst in both. Now I will tell you that why I was not taking exams seriously. I was not depressed or sad but at this Point I feel that why am I living in this world why shouldn't die already , I already made my plan for future, I decided that I will get into Biotech or BSc microbiology through CET and I will enjoy my 4 years of college life , after that I will do suicide in such a way that it look like accident like getting hit by a heavy vehicle, I was not caring about my parents because First is that the pain of loosing me will last for few months, after that everything will be normal, second is that my family is above middle class so there is no problem for money to live decent life for them. My mindset was like I always want to die soon instead of alive, even if I'm happy , if someone gave me a gun, I would shoot myself 😂. I don't think I’m depressed, in fact I'm quite happy with my life. I just don't see the purpose of living.I mean people say that they have inspirations, They want to become like someone having Great personality , want to be rich, etc, but my Point is what at the end, you will be dead in soil. And suppose if you die by Doing Great Works so that people would always remember you as inspiration like our freedom fighters did , but will those things affect you after you die 😂. so this is it. After result my parents didn't get angry at me and I was littl shock, my father was coolest , he said that don't worry if nothing happen I will get your admission in private MBBS collage through Donation, but I didn't wanted that as I had already made my plan to die and even if I get admission through Donation I would have died by guilt of the Donation money. After that I started getting attracted towards bhakti. I am getting amazed by bhakti.I was getting a Super devote of Shree Ram ,Shree Krishna ,Hanumanji And Shiv Ji .I was watching videos of amogh lila prabhu on KZbin, he is the member of iskon who pray lord Krishna especially. I was very impressed by their way of Living , they don't care about anything only they do is just pray, bhajans, dance, live a simple life , no materialistic attractions, they are living in Peace and joy under the light of god. many rich peoples give their everything in daan and become a Devotee. I can bet that Sadhu sants are living a way better life than the people in corporate life. Now I decide to take one last drop for neet, don't know why . I have decided that this would be my last drop and I will not watch any movies or web series till neet 2024. I decided to study online by PW. I also stated going to Hanuman mandir every Saturday . The starting 2 months were going very well , but in august I was tired and started to watch movies and web series. then in September I get into senses and again started studying, then again in October I started watching web series 😫😩 . I was hating myself

[@saptarshipal6743]

@@loseweightusingketo That's not alternatives. That's going to 2nd best option after you failed in a thing. For him it's if not engineering then what he wants to do and he has no clue if not engineering or those subjects then what can he do as in entirely different thing. BCA or Bsc in computer have 80% same engineering subjects. In that case he would have just gone into some private engineering college.

[@siddharth1069]

@@loseweightusingketo everyone is doing BCA and BSc i don't think it's really that worth it. And even if you consider these options , Btech is much better

[@simransucharita5434]

Just follow which stream and what education you really want to do.. there are many fields available except IIT and medical line.. and students of other fields also income very well.

[@Anonymous69.]

Its not the coaching centres which is the problem, its the education system. Taking a step against coaching centres isn't a permanent solution, the only solution is to reform the education system but no one wants to go through the trouble of doing that.

[@meerapoorvi2216]

I recently cracked NEET exam and currently in 1 prof of MBBS. It started with me leaving my small town in 11th class to join AAKASH institute Bhopal. From the get go the pressure you feel and the abandonment from the entire system render you completely alone. I perpetually felt the pressure and the torture I was subjected to is incomparable to anything I have faced in all my short life. We need strong reforms when it comes to these competitive exams or the most important growing years of our children will be wasted in full filling nonsensical requirements by these competitive exams.

[@B-W.]

My sister is in her internship in a Govt College. The pressure is insane. She works multiple 30 hours shifts in a hopsital per week. There are days when she forgets her meals. I noticed there is so much change in her attitude, she is no longer my little sister but someone continuously anxious and edgy. Lack of sleep takes it's toll. :(

[@train_xc]

Preparation for competitive exam prepares you for life . - you now know life is not a bed of roses - you value goals - you’ve sacrificed a lot These learning’s will last lifetime

[@dewandiptoplays7901]

​@@train_xc not necessarily. Keeping those small lifetime lessons aside, the amount of damage it causes can be more than the amount of those life lessons.

[@sambitdash1524]

The fact is parents want the best for their wards and then they go in the money earning mission for securing childs future, meanwhile parents get disconnected from their children. How many parents are sitting with their kids and looking after their studies and everyday activities. Parents in order to make future bright fucks the kids future

[@kartigyaion8918]

One truthful point I would like to add.. Parents should not expect much from their kids.. that my child is studying at India's no. 1 coaching for IIT .. and in order to get him enrolled I spent this much money.. so he/she will definitely clear the exam.. and that's where the pressure arises... And an average student of near 16 year old who is already in an illusion that he understands the world.. keeps on procrastinating initially and when the time remaining is less.. instead of talking to parents or to somebody.. starts thinking of suicide and the main reason is..my father spent a lot of money on my coaching and I couldn't study well.. they've set really high hopes of my success. And only I know my own condition..What if I don't clear my exam .. what'll the relatives say, my friends in my previous school thinking of me as if I'm a genius.. what'll they say.. and there you go.. step taken.. not even thinking slightly to talk to parents or somebody or even trying do best in the time left.. Suicide gets committed even before result..

[@pran_kay]

Need the followup video on the parenting style and stuff. I think the points mentioned are absolutely insightful, and I understand the solutions to this are not straight forward. But I will urge you to make the follow up video on this because you have the right resources and maybe a research team (I'm guessing, but if you don't, I respect you even more). Moreover I respect your opinion as would majority of your audience because you look at things from all angles and that's all I can ask for. Keep up the good work!

[@akshatdon4439]

10:27 this timestamp is the one and only reality of dark coaching. and all parents must watch this clip to understand the truth.

[@skelebro9999]

I'm super thankful to my parents and teachers for providing me a sane coaching experience. Who knows what steps I would have taken if I were in one of the centres shown in this video. Condolences to those who have lost their sons/daughters. May they rest in eternal peace.

[@vedantpatil6934]

Sallo ho gaye ye account dekhe huve🤓

[@hlentertainer3652]

as a student of kota , i 100% percent agreed ki jee, neet nikalne ka bht pressure hota hai but at the same time we learn so many new things and reality check jaldi mill jata hai, bht tareke ke logg dehkne ko millte hai unse deal krna aata hai and surely students ko proper mentorship millni chaiye taaki vo aur stornger and bold ho jae and baad mein jab reality dehke tho usko face krne ki himmat rahke........... LJ :)

[@kizryuver]

For those that really want to do it it can be a good pro. but for those who don't truly, you can get reality checks since childhood easily if you're observant enough + parents communicate without the excessive self-destruction & abuse, destroying mental health, neglecting physical health & relationships and a lot more too. • & Today internet (when people have the ability to think for themselves, self-improve/educate & know how to research/working part time right places + talking to professionals in spaces like linkedin etc online can get you a reality check too. Also from seeing people talk about people from kota, I'd say people are more likely to go into depression after meeting only such kinds of people than get stronger/normalize this behaviour/presume they should do the same etc. • a main comment said most people only care to be friends if your grades are high & that's the first thing many ask. • imo if the exams harder, it's the culture that makes it 100X worse as it assaults your mental health necessary to study & crack for exams. Unless you're lucky to not be in that culture somehow.

[@gopalupadhyay2888]

1. Coaching centers aren't the sole culprits; scrutiny should extend to the school education system's shortcomings in preparing students for competitive exams like JEE or NEET. 2. Accountability must be assigned to those crafting exam papers, questioning why they design papers so challenging that even graduates find them difficult within the stipulated time frame. 3. Specifically focusing on JEE, holding both educational institutions and exam setters accountable could effectively address the monopoly and unethical practices prevalent in the coaching industry.

[@Mranshumansinghr]

I joined Allen Kota in 1993. I did my Engineering Graduation in 1999. I never knew things will get so bad. Thank you for bringing out the dark side of Coaching. By the way the person calling himself Don taught me Mathematics. He is amazing at it. Something needs to be done. This is very bad for our future generation.

[@rowanatikson3947]

I feel very blessed that my parents never forced me to study and never sent me to coaching/tuition saying "it's your choice if you think you need it tell us we will set you up if you think you don't need it it's fine." I was an average student (family's income was 4 LPA (we did have my 2 uncles and their kids)), I did fail once in half-yearly exam and once in one subject in one semester of BE CSE, but now I'm fine. I'm earning 18 LPA my father is in pension now.

[@thunderpokemon2456]

Bro you are privillaged 🥲🙌

[@KyaKarogeJaanKe54]

I study in a renowned institute of my city (for jee) and i can say that they never pressurize us. Their teaching is excellent(value for money), low batch size, talk with us frequently, and i can say i made a very good decision to join them(no regrets).

[@apba2240]

Schools are worst in providing higher level education.. ..best is self coaching 😂

[@ecstacy745]

school or tumahri education ka koi lena dena nhi ha tumhare kam marks aa rhe ha iska matlab tumhara mental level low ha , you are the problem and you are blaming it on others failure in other words

[@HrithikAhari29]

@@ecstacy745na indian education is behind compares to rest of world, syllabus he update nhi hua hai abhi tak, foriegn country main jake dekhna ya youtube pe search karke kitna piche hai indian education system

[@BinodiniMahapatra-pz7vv]

​@@ecstacy745School hi problem hai. Topper apne dum pe banta hai school kuch nhi sikhata hai. Yaha pe to school teacher dusro ko tuition krne ke chakkar main hain bas baccho ko dara dhamke zyada paise kamane chahte hai. Syllabus complete krdete hai aur marks ke tuition unke paas jaana padta hai. Tum toh jeevan bhar teacher ke chamche rahe ho kya janoge dusro ka problem? Main khud ek topper tha speaking from experience. Education system is itself responsible for bright students losing their sparks.

[@apba2240]

....there was an incident with me in class were teachers of 11th told us do not go to tuitions school is enough(incase they bother to teach us effectively).... and in tuitions I see lot of students struggle to score above then average.....even if the person got 95% in metric But I had some girls who neither take any couching.......they use to study all by themselves and got highest marks above all .............even in couching centre once I heard teacher saying that "jo topper bache hotei woh tution time pass kerne and practice kerne aate hai.padai woh pehele he kerlete....and school attendance ke liye jaate hai😅🤣" So no matter what you got 94 or 95 % at 10th..... khud se padna ie self couching is best..... ab unki akal kitni bhi ho .....low ya high...ye baat hai ki woh khud se pad rahe🗿

[@apba2240]

@@ecstacy745 right .... though I could say.....schools are effective in providing primary and secondary level education ....except few It's very wrong to say ...that ..schools ka lena dena nahi education se...school hote he hai education provide karane...blame kerne ki baat he nahi.... There is lack of quality education

[@DhananjaySingh-cu1pq]

Potential Solution to all this BS: 1. Instead of a Child's interview to get into a school, parents should interview the school staff. Hum kyu apne bache ko aapke paas bheje? These teachers should be interviewed because the child has to spend about 6 hours at school. So what is the guarantee for a better education (both moral and academic) ? 2. Interest dekho bache ka. There are signs that a child gives about his/her talents. Parents are sometimes too ignorant to notice. 3. Pados ke sharma ji should keep his mouth shut. Better if parents don't listen to his verbal vomit. 4. Coaching join karna is ok as long as the child is absolutely clear of his/her interests in life. Shoving it down the throat because of societal pressure is just plain nonsense.

[@arnavmahajan5710]

hello, an 11th grader jee aspirant here, the thing with these exams is that it requires you to dedicate hell lot of EXTRA time in studies to crack them because of which students like me decide to go to non-attending (dummy) schools and it does affect you, I used to win Youth Parliaments but now I STUTTER when asked to speak/converse. In short no development in any co-curricular and lack of friends which we had in school cause earlier everyone was friend but now making friends who you can trust is very tough. These exams asks shit which are not even in NCERTs, while the whole syllabus is supposedly BASED on NCERT. In coaching they are in a freaking hurry to complete syllabus on god. I used to like physics as I found it practical but this whole system just killed my curiosity to think and wonder. People think that NEP is going to help to go away with these streams and stuff, but when the college upfront asks you to score good in 3/4 particular subjects then how does NEP help i dont understand. the government is taking these decision like putting spring in fans. SPRINGS!! bc woh bande ne 30 lectures current electricity ke padhe hai, tumhare saamne poora pankha khol ke rakh dega and not allowing students under the age of 16 to take admission is just like putting band-aid on a completely annihilated hand. They should device a whole new system of college admission and exams related to same. I know this is also not possible thanks to 1.4 Billion population, China also has the dreadful exam named " gaokhao " but atleast they have enough infrastructure hamare paas toh woh bhi nahi hai. You have to sacrifice your whole 11-12th ka school life and study ghis ghis ke and then if you pass all the hurdles like " exploited " reservation system you get into a college (in the best case) which gets a ranking of 150 in the whole world and even after going into the college life is not chill, evident by the no. of suicides happening in IITs. So yeah this whole system is good for nothing. at last its just an opinion of a frustrated 11th grader who could have the most out of his school life but didn't and is very naive to comment on all these things. but yeah itna toh clear that I will force my children to NOT take my route.

[@avi56..]

In JEE maths nothing is from NCERT [20%] and 80% topics are from engineering maths like in conics- tangent and normal which are extremely hard as compared to NCERT are from BTech syllabus same with all chapters

[@arnavmahajan5710]

@@avi56..bhaiya mat yaad dilao abhi parabola karke utha hu 🥲

[@Prishaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa]

Non attending people completely sacrifice their friendships, school experiences especially this after covid batch imagine attending school only till 8th and then online and after that you’re forced to leave school miss school functions, your own farewell it’s just crazy

[@Perfect_pratik]

Bro kya kahu yaar sahi mein tumne coaching ko REAL expose mara hai bhai!!!, i am to an class 11th jee asp , and i can saay that wtf we all are literally in the same boat even we are not like we are still divided by the intelligence and all that stuff but shit man this coachings literally destroyed my curiosity in physics i was liking it too in the start, then all this pressure gathering up together, like i am in dummy school and i don't even go to school for ofcorse reasons but bro i need to give the full syllabus final exams of class 11th then need to cover all the plenty of head of backlogs then start 12th then everything will eventually take place , i will also force my brother and my childern to not take jee and competitive exams !!!!!

[@arnavmahajan5710]

@@Perfect_pratik us.

[@dinkarfowkar999]

Im grateful for my parents that they didn't enroll me in tuitions at all until I entered 9th grade. That too only for maths. I should mention tho that I am not an avg student and im used to self studying

[@ayushmankar4100]

Mera bhi same hey

[@ShibamMalakar-fh5ys]

To be honest a majority of people of our country has not enough money. They can't afford expensive things for their children. Cause in our country other carrier options are available but volatile so a parent who has not enough money to keep their family balanced can't afford to take risk on these things like sports, arts, creativity of children, puplic speaking etc. so what's rest......every parents hope that after 12 th their children will participate in any national level competition and hopefully will crack a decent govt. College as their fees is lower than private collages. That's why they hope that after getting into a good profesion they will carry the financial condition of their family.

[@58prayagpomaje42]

I have failed 10th board once and 12th board once as well . Completed my Btech in Computer Science in 2022 in a tier 3 college and i have a 18 LPA job now. I just want to say that these marks will not promise you good life. And please dont end your life under the pressure.

[@vanshpratapsingh3012]

Bruh, you are a great inspiration to many others. Respect +

[@Maxgyanshubh]

Really?

[@58prayagpomaje42]

@@Maxgyanshubh Its the truth. I can give you the seat number of my exam check them 😅.

[@Maxgyanshubh]

@@58prayagpomaje42 no sir i am class 11 going to class 12 my situation is like you i am depressed very much that why i was asking

[@58prayagpomaje42]

@@Maxgyanshubh look I am your friend. If your family is financially good or fine then don't worry. Just pass the exam. Please talk with your teacher and friends about your difficulties in the study.

[@DauDaGamer]

When children are sent to coaching/tution, they become numb and they can't feel seriousness and energy gets exhausted, I am experiencing this.

[@thunderpokemon2456]

Same

[@studio9mviews628]

We continuously put emphasis on India's "demographic dividend", that we have the advantage of the most youngest population and we are in our golden period of growth...may be yeah, India will grow....but, here's a bitter truth, if India somehow solved this education system problem, there's nothing that can stop us....otherwise "India will get old before it gets rich" because most our youth is wasting their precious productive time in preparing for competitive exams, and not only preparing but many of them take a gap and repeat and waste even more time.... Creating some new education policies won't help, cause problem is not the education system, I repeat "problem is not the education system". It's deep rooted in the whole ecosystem and the societal thinking, because there is a lack of awareness about other career options but also that other career options don't provide the desired salaries... Even in engineering, mechanical and civil guys wants to get placed in IT, because there are not many jobs in other sectors and if there are some, they don't offer the desired salary and low growth prospects. Because we failed to build an ecosystem where other sectors could thrive, we didn't focus on manufacturing and jumped into service sectors, which also will show a slowdown in a decade. And now most importantly the problem of societal thinking, we respect and judge people based on the work they do and how much they earn, our youth lacks the hunger and tries to play it safe...cause just getting a job is a bigger deal for most of the people, cause most of our youth lacks the guidance and resources and hence the resistance to take the risks. Everyday a new video on KZbin comes up which talks about our education system and coaching industry, and nothing happens, we just blame it on the system amd move on... Let's change it.... It's hard but it has to change now....

[@AnimeStore2384]

Vedant Bhaiya Thumbnails Are Seriously damn Good I don't Know Why He Has 200K Subs. the Variety and Knowledge he Knew About Different Topics is Tremendous and Applausable ❤

[@vedantrusty]

Thank you my friend!

[@Past_is_part_of_you]

We want gurukuls back they were the besstesstt education system. There was discipline, strength mentally and physically. There wasso much knowledge in those grunths. Also teachers and students has the best relationship back then

[@every67]

Mere Dil ki baat kardi Bhai tumne ❤

[@siddharthchopda4669]

I see your videos and the quality and depth of them. Then I look at your subscriber count !! Man you need to be in mainstream media 💯

[@vedantrusty]

I appreciate that!

[@amitchauhanktu]

शानदार विश्लेषण। शोधपरक वीडियो। टॉप क्लास कंटेंट। बधाई एवं शुभकामनाएँ

[@Quickclips403]

Coaching exists because High stake competetive exams exist. Jab tak high stake exams hai stress isnt going anywhere.

[@Raj_bhadani]

Brother understand the population of India Why Competitive Exams are taken

[@laxmandutt1109]

Bhai kyan sahi mein har saal 10 lakh + baccho ko engineer banna hain, jo india mein haad se zyada pehle hi hain? most baje toh forcefully preparation karte hain, mein bhi

[@Belgique07]

It might appear rough..but it's extremely important parents are educated as well. It gets tough to guide after 10th but below 10th that's 16 years, the parents should be educationally enlightened to home tutor their kids. It breaks my heart to see little ones like 8-9 year olds going for tution.

[@aksharasrinivasan8183]

The 1st and the most important thing to do is BAN all type of advertisements given by coaching centres through paper, tv social media by publishing the photograph with percentage of Marks. This creates a lot of disturbance in the mind of parents and as well as students. This is the MOST MOST MOST MOST IMPORTANT THING

[@apradhee0184]

This desire to get a safe job came from Colonial trauma India has suffered. This will take time to heal and change the mindset of people✌

[@vedantrusty]

hmmmm

[@godson200]

answer me one thing just. this is my personal question. no offence. I am 20. will graduate in 1 year from an engineering college. The probability of getting a job is really less. I have no siblings. My parents are getting old, about to hit 50s. Do you think I should depend on them for monetary stuff? Do you think I should just stay in their home for next 5-10 years and follow my so called "passion"? or Should I take the stress grind and get a job?

[@0Superman__clips]

Get job aur sarkari job me antar hota hai

[@asquad4525]

​@@godson200 if you are already saying that you probability of getting job is really less than why did you destroy lakhs of money of your parents and wasted your precious time , you could use that time to follow, what you say , your so called " passion " . It would be better

[@godson200]

@@asquad4525 bro I don't have a time machine. time happens in a linear path. come in my shoes for one day, you will realise why I did what I did.

[@aniketsamanta]

Great video vedant vai ❤ and congratulations for200k

[@manitshukla568]

As a student who is about to jump into this hellhole, its actually terrifying. I want to persue engineering cause i am genuinely in life with with electronics and software. Lets see how this goes

[@alexei6604]

What people fail to understand is that the issue lies not within the coaching centers, but with Indian parenting at large

[@kizryuver]

That but it's a multi-factorial issue? As parents are shamed & manipulated by social comparison/brainwashing about what"best" thing is which other parents,relatives and people do too. When they all know 0 thing about current job/career market Because their time of job hunting is gone. • one thing enables another creating a chain reaction so much that I could make a mind map of how what affects what. • i.e grandparents,relatives,friends,aquaintainces brainwash parents + their own experiences> pressure on students + 0 communication > • Parents & society demanding certain education than improvement > Coaching & education system see parents dancing to their whims & don't change or don't take 1-2 parents feedback > keep getting greedy/raising prices with same outdated teaching. > Students lack real world skills/confidence/ability to self-educate/take their own decisions/job hunt > companies find them unemployable due to lack of skills > students end up unemployed > shamed by parents/relatives with no moral support & depression > some find inspiration from KZbin videos/blogs/internet/self-improvement & self-educate & build freelance career/get a job/some give up till they find something inspirational or sadly end their life. • Blaming one thing will never solve the problem. We as a society have to address it all factors, multiple root causes and change our behaviour & speak up against problematic things we see around us. • there's also outdated education system that doesn't teach how to study/learn at all or things necessary to live happy,safe,healthy lives while you study which cause burn outs too.

[@midochan24]

Well well well JEE is given by almost 11-12 lakhs students per year.. And in a survey it shows only 1lakh 45 thousand students bring 90 marks or more than above... It means that most of the students do really wanna do JEE. Either they are pressurized by family, self made blunder, finding no other choice... Ache students kar lete hai yar.. Padai k sath masti.. Mere jaise avg atak jate hai.. We do hard work, no games, no sports nothing.. Yet we lag behind them..+ some of them were taking coaching from class 9 ...

[@Womendeservebetter1]

Bcuz of privileged parents

[@redmightyt5331]

As a kota student I want to clarify that sirf coaching ka hi pressure nhi h sab log sirf ccg industry ko expose kar rhe h population ko kon karega jiske karan hum log Bihar UP me 600 aane par bhi medical college nhi le skte 😢

[@AyushGupta-z8s]

the problem is that the teaching level of school is not capable enough to train students for competitive exams like iit jee or neet

[@nehamamsarmyy]

If we are going to school,then why is the education level not upto the limit in school?If schools provide quality education then coachings are not needed.Not only govt schools but most of the private schools as well. Coachings were earlier meant for weak students only. And now toppers go to coachings as well as if its a trend

[@Professional-Hater]

Mere mom da ko toh IITian banwana tha mujhe, but mai toh bilkul nahi suna unka, ab aaramse I'm doing what I love, which is Pure Mathematics

[@Professional-Hater]

@Naman_1208 12th

[@Professional-Hater]

@Naman_1208 yeah, but it's too late rn for any of those and my parents aren't letting me go for ISI CMI for political reasons, I'll probably do BS Math and Stat from Mumbai University and then Masters in financial engineering from any good college abroad

[@jyotiradityasinghchauhan8865]

​@@Professional-Haterthat's soo nice ngl. We need more pure fields for research to make our country develop. 😊

[@THEDIY777]

intna topper hone k bad v ajj tak after independent science me kisi ko v Nobel prize nehi mela..

[@thunderpokemon2456]

Right bro 😐

[@AnalyticalAyush]

Very apt! I always had this opinon about coaching industry. Though I admire Alakh sir, but the claim to revolutionize education is just farce; the only thing it does is increasing the competition. Like there's no point in reducing the fees or even giving free education if the sole purpose of that education is to clear an exam; coaching free hai, but seats to utni hi haina (demand and supply)

[@sangramraje5667]

Most student don't understand this, even Alakh Pandey himself has said all material is freely available on internet. And then he himself start classes.

[@krox477]

Paisa is everything

[@thiswhoweare1949]

Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child. Most of these parents are narcissistic and abusive. They put so much pressure on that child since they were very young and by the time they are teenager , they have Anxiety and depression and unable to handle life or the pressure or grasp whats happening so end up killing themselves and people say he was weak so killed himself. Our society lacks Apathy and emotional intelligence.

[@abhisvines9478]

The society is infamous for many things, the dream of engineering and doctor is one of them. One thing that can change all these is the perspective of parents if they start understanding that jee and neet aren't the only things that are available then there will be lesser suicides.... Although i gave an opinion its just temporary solution the main thing we need to do is improving the education system where we teach children, social skills, physical activities, skills important in today's job market, if we slowly manage to make this into reality India will truly change. Because the only problem in India's education system is that it lacks the education and the system.

[@Gdhdjejgfsbh]

Stress management is the key . It includes : 1) Spirituality 2) Physical exercise 3) relaxation

[@mohammadarshadkhan6756]

For implementing the guidelines, only the States/UT governments are competent. Until they notify the rules/regulations in Gazette or some other ways, the coaching centres need not bother.

[@tarunonyt]

Hi Vedant, great video as usual! And yes, we'd love to see a well researched video on how to raise a child. Thanks 😊

[@vedantkshirsagar9347]

I think although the guidelines have been put into words, the coaching centers will take it just as a suggestion and continue ignoring them. Possibly even finding loopholes.

[@pratik3313]

Early joining of coaching is the prime example of bad parenting i prepared for iit 1 yr only and is done in low stresss it is quite achieveable i am in iit with a quite decent rank so yeah my parents never forced me for coaching

[@vedantrusty]

interesting, your experience actually might be the outlier

[@BK_3216]

U were a dropper?from which coaching u prepared

[@pratik3313]

@@BK_3216 i prepeared from allen but not from kota i preped from my home town only as it is much less chaos here and the materials are sufficient'

[@laxmandutt1109]

@@pratik3313 Bro, i am in 12th and gave me JEE MAINS, i studied in fittjee delhi and our classes only had 30-40 students, waha ka atmosphere sahi hain aur kam stress hain, paper decent than lekin selection nhi hoga. i will do better in paper 2

[@Purav.jha_edits]

💔as a neet student in clc sikar I went to coaching from 11th till 2.5 years and I had depression for almost 3 months and coaching walo ko koi Matlab hi nhi h average macho de undone ek alag hi toppers ka batch banaya or hame bahut hi low teachers diye or ek hi batch me 400 students ......I am so depressed with this coaching industry....so I went to my home and start self studying through KZbin and I have to face extreme difficulties in all the subjects and now I am totally broken .....💔

[@Purav.jha_edits]

can u relate?

[@shreyayadav..3453]

Absolutely right 😢

[@M1551NGN0]

3:35 I feel that this is totally unfair to those of us who traditionally join coachings in class 11th. I personally loved studying science since the smaller classes and i even knew about coaching centres having programmes for classes 6-8 which I really wanted to join but didn't really care because i saw that as tuition and i didn't really need tuition because i was still really doing well in school. It was in class 11th that I was too late to realise that i should have joined coaching because my parents were too obsessed with the fact that I got only 90.8% marks in class 10th and I could not maintain the top rank unlike previous years, and I nearly ended myself a couple of times throughout the year 2022 without anyone noticing, more so because of the fact that I was getting bullied in class. Then I joined coaching in class 12th in a one year batch in 2023, guess what? I felt double the pressure, felt like quitting this nasty life a couple of times even though my conditions at school were improving. Teachers still had expectations. So I felt let's give myself more chances. Now I just gave JEE mains this 27th and I'm expecting a good result but if I don't get it, well yeah I guess I will just study for boards. I genuinely think this is the first correct step in correcting these coaching centres. The race is made much more unfair if students from class 6th to 8th just because "early bird benefits" like shut the f*** up dude are we stupid who are enrolling in class 11th or 12th? 11:13 Not only these JEE and NEET exams, but there are also International Olympiads (not the SOF ones) that are conducted in almost all countries and then they form teams for the final level, just like in Olympics. These olympiads are the main reason that children join coaching institutes at a very young age because that's where the preparation of these olympiads are done. Our country India has won a ton of medals at these olympiads and that's what students like us also wanted to. These subject specific olympiads contain questions that even IIT won't put in the JEE syllabus and the ONLY place to study them would be these coaching centres because schools are shit. I had always had a fanatic interest in astronomy since the childhood, and I really want to pursue a career in it so I thought that the INAO exam would be the perfect choice for this. But when I started its preparation, it turns out that those children who join in 6th were already preparing for it, and olympiads have much less success rates but much higher prestige than JEE exams because you get direct admission to Western universities with much better faculties than IITs. Indian universities currently don't favour research, most of them train you to become company CEOs and earn money. This is what encourages people to join IIT and for that join coaching centres. Indian education system needs to understand that money earning jobs are not everything. There's the research sector as well, India needs scientists too just like the pre independence era. We need to retain the research oriented students in India so that they don't go to dangerous places like America where racism and crime take the centre stage. There should be more opportunities for students in India who want to pursue research. I want to pursue research, but I had to enter this rat race of JEE only because the government closed down the KVPY exam just at the right time when I got into class 11th. Now we don't even know when they are going to implement that so called INSPIRE exam which they were going to replace KVPY with. My school never notified us about when the exam was going to be conducted because no school has been notified yet. Our country needs more opportunities for those who want to pursue research.

[@prathatiwari7245]

for the parents saying ki bachche nhi pdh payenge (they want their child to be traumtised) unki councelling un parents se karao jinhone ne apne bachche khoye hai

[@anushka_hahah]

So here's how my two years experience is I was enrolled in local coaching and it was obviously Akaash Institute (sabse zyada kaata hai inhone bachho ka) Mujhe nahi pata tha ki konsa coaching join karna chahiye as I was new and had no one to guide Mere papa ne newspapers ke advertisements se ye decide kiya ki mera admission bhi wahi hoga kyuki unhone guaranteed selection likh rakha tha apne advertisement mein. I got enrolled kuch din hue class but fir lockdown and then everything messed up Teachers jo mile the they were okayish Not alot good hut thik hi the Unhone 12th ke last mein apna ek toppers batch banaya tha and as much as I know sab coaching mein banate hai Un toppers bachho ko sab facilities milte the Hum sabse alag modules, alag teachers aur alag test papers bhi Unko sabse achhe teachers mile the aur humko jo uss batch mein nahi the unhe kuch nahi mila aisa Aur hairani ke baat ye hai ki unhone jo bachhe select hogaye exam mein un sabko kashmir ki trip di thi Aur unke sath sath unko kuch lacs of rupees bhi mile Unko sab teachers aur staff ke sath dinner pe bhi leke gaye Agar ye paise return karne wala rule mere time pe aata toh mai do mahine mein Nikal jaati kyuki kuch fayda toh hua nahi udhr jaake Mental pressure, toxic competition aur anxiety dedi ki ye exam nahi toh aur kuch nahi If anyone ask what's my biggest mistake of my life is getting enrolled in aakash Institute

[@adityasinghtxc]

As someone who was in a topper batch in Allen i can tell ki ye different modules utne matter ni krte, its basically a book with more complicated and advanced questions jo ki exams me utne jyada matter ni krte, its like ki if u r topper tumne already sab padh rakha hai to time bacha hai to aur padh lo, like selection ke liye to hogya but ab rank lane ke liye padh lo and about teachers, yes they matter a lot, my teachers were the best of best, but some fked up real bad in the end. Don't think much about the toppers batch, these batches are created for creating rankers unlike normal batches which are created for just cracking the exams.

[@shivamrathour2232]

Parenting should be blamed as much as the coaching industry. How did coaching industry become so vicious and exploiting in nature? It's because we, the common people went mad over IITs, NITs, and top medical colleges. The obsession of middle class for the top institutes is being exploited by the coaching industry. Nothing is important than the life itself but nowadays, kids see the flashy lifestyle of the highly achieving people and they put themselves under the pressure to achieve the same. Another reason is peer pressure. These all things should be understood by the parents and kids should be taught that failure in an exam doesn't make his/her life meaningless. Sadly, it's a vicious cycle that starts from obsession of parents for engg. and medical colleges followed by the exploitation done by the coaching industry and eventually leading the students into a stressful environment. MY EXPERIENCE: I too failed in JEE Advanced. I experienced stress during my preparation phase, scored poorly in tests but I knew I'm lacking somewhere. During all this, I never thought of commiting suicide even though I come from lower middle class and there used to be a lot of financial turbulence in those days. My parents never gave me a talk on stress, suicide, and all these negativities, still I never thought of it because I grew up in a 'never give up' environment. All we need is a positive outlook towards life and of course a better education system. Better eduaction system brings opportunities other than engineering and medical. :)

[@diamonddust7018]

The amount of competition their is in these competitive exams that it is literally impossible to study in healthy way and get selected Dosti vgera sabh bhul jao literally said by one of Akash’s coaching teacher where i studied to get selected in neet In school I was topper but when I joined Akash after 10th my confidence shattered I was in the lowest batch still could not compete with the students who i studied with started to hide the results of practice tests from parents tried to study hard but came to conclusion after 6 months that I am an average student and decided to leave my dream of becoming a doctor 2 years still consider myself average failure who just wasted parents money because of my shallow confidence

[@laxmandutt1109]

Yehi toh baat hain, parents ko lagta hain ki aaram se padhunga do selection hoga, which is false. Jabtak mein apni health, relations or sab kuch nhi tyag do, exam nhi clear hoga. Parents chahate hain ki mein 12 ghnate padho lekin ghar ke kaam bhi karo, maze bhi karo aur theek se sojaou, which iis impossible.

[@j-gm5uf]

Before doing this government shuld raise the raise the standard of cbse and make syallubs that develop childs creative,imaginative and critical thinking skill this can be achived by introducing chess to kids and distribution of class 11 and 12 to junior class i.e10,9,8

[@truedivyansh]

And those who often say IIT's are the best institutes, but they ignore the fact that the entry barrier of IIT is too high and who secure his seat there is already extra ordinary...

[@laxmandutt1109]

And IITs are not even in the top 100 universities in the world.

[@ananyanair2182]

I remember when I was preparing for NEET, I was doing so well in the first 7-8 months but as time passed by the teachers in our coaching institute used to emphasize more on the number of hours we study. They used to say " yeh abhi golden period hai use it wisely, we should study for at-least 12-15 hours a day, give up on everything that will distract you i.e friends family. So much so that one day one of the sir during the lecture told us to give it our all for a few months and to DESTROY OURSELVES ". That messed with my mind so much so that I tried studying those many hours for around 2 months without talking to anyone just cooped up in my room studying with no physical movement at all and after that my brain couldn't take it anymore. The amount of pressure the teachers used to put us through in the last few months saying that this exam will decide how you'll lead your life. With so many things going on i couldn't do well in the last few months of my preparation which led to me not being able to clear the cut off.

[@kotXbit]

Schools ,for a part, make institutions like IITs more exclusive by not being adequate in their education standards - the same applies for boards like CBSE. Schools and coaching centers in India are overpriced. With fees soaring, like the 2 lakhs INR for JEE tuition and 3 lakh per annum school fee my family faces, it's clear traditional schooling needs a rethink. The NCERT syllabus feels inadequate compared to freely available online resources. It's high time to shift to supportive roles for schools, promoting open schooling and self-study as viable alternatives for more effective and affordable education.

[@ninjaoffcialyt4845]

seeing so many views the worst come from the elders apparently who are thinking on purely logistics and greed and even worse comes from people who are giving general advise. I support government decision on this one but i would also like to see some these restrictions put on schools as well like qualification and background check of teacher and also limiting the number of students per class the school (i am studying has 60 students/section) to 20 to 25 (this change would also increase the employment rate but the downside is building of infrasture but that would help in the long run)

[@Marcofernandez12]

Much appreciated video 🙌🏾

[@SovereignOnyx]

Feeling happy that I cancelled my Akash subscription in first month and now studying from YTube , Pw , apni kaksha . No pressure no tension … getting good % since 11 + jee main 1st attempt was also very good , just waiting for results then advance. No tension at all ,,,

[@inziify]

3:38 "agar bacha chote me nahi pad payenge....." WTF. SCHOOLS ARE THERE EXACTLY FOR THIS REASON.

[@adimishra066]

School m kitni phadhai hoti h subko pata h 😂😂

[@laxmandutt1109]

Bhai khali high class priavte schools mein padhai sahi hoti hain, aur waha pein bakchodi bhi hoti hain jisse man bana rahta hain

[@deepaksingh0777]

​@@laxmandutt1109kahi bhi padhai nahi hoti bro tum ghanta kuch ni ukhaad sakte school se padhke even I am from good cbse school state boards ka toh pucho hi mat ha cbse ke bacche smart hote hai acha environment milta hai lekin padhai ka kuch lena dena nahi hai.

[@YashwantBangar]

​@@adimishra066school to bas fees lete hai aur apke cerficate banate baki padha fe bilkul bhi nhi yeh nhi dekhte ki bacho ko samaj aaraha hai ya nhi (it also happens in coachings). Dono hi apna syllabus complete karwa dete jaise tese.

[@atharvkulkarni534]

I feel more than any external measures such as guidelines for coaching and all, focus should be on mental health of students.

[@vedantrusty]

mental health + holistic personality development

[@skelebro9999]

most parents don't even know what's mental health. they are from a time when it wasn't an issue.

[@laxmandutt1109]

@@skelebro9999 They are from a time where a non graduate could get a good job, jab ek setting se sarkari naukri lag jaye. Agar woh is zamane mein jeete as a teenager, unki esi tesi hojaye

[@hannahguptakaaklm1325]

i am a neet aspirant and I feel like that this video need to be shown to every single parent whoes kids are preparing for competative exams

[@Abhishek-g1c4n]

I saw that boy who fall from building to take away his Life.. Very fearful seen i saw.

[@singh_maurya]

I am suffering from same situation, stress depression next level, I am crying lots every day trying lot but fail failed, most of the time to think that that give up 😢why I am doing this, tomorrow my physics board exam this my improvement exam bcz of 75 percent, I didn't know my frustration make mistakes in exam time silly mistake happens lots that time, I am know all the answers but still my doing same mistake bcz of stress fear to something bad, people bullied me everyone laugh, I don't know but 😢 I am wasted 11 th 12 th bcz of lots of confusion , lots of problems,

[@kizryuver]

Focus on mental health>learn to actually study>research about different professions to know what you want>know that people fail yet they get up back again who ever bullies you won't be in your life forever so if possible speak up,if not focus on yourself. All the solutions to taking step above are on KZbin/audible/Spotify/Google given that you use the search bar and keywords well. Wish you luck!

[@s_cube4200]

I am a student of 12th and I just gave my English Exam today. There are millions of students like me who wrote an article about spreading AWARENESS about health and hygiene in rural areas. Now you might think why I am talking about this... What I want to highlight that we have failed as a society to create AWARENESS about children's mental health in parents. They simply are in the misconception that only studying is what can give their children stability. Creating awareness in newer generation of parents and also explaining your parents to make your younger sibling's lives better is all that's left to do.

[@anshika3466]

Aunty was absolutely right, qki private schools mei jab achi education nhi milegi toh baccho ko toh coaching ka sahara lena padega na, I really want ki govt. inn private schls ka bhi kuch kare jo itni fee lekar bhi baccho ko na toh sahi education de pa rahe hai aur na hi overall development par focus kar rhe hai, tbh sirf coaching hi nhi schls ne bhi education ko business bana dia h. Agar Hamen schools Mein Hi acche se padhaya Jaaye aur overall development par focus kia Jaaye to koi bhi student Nahin chahega Ki vah Apna Itna Sara Samay coaching Mein waste kare aur ek machine Ki Tarah kam karte hue Rah Jaaye. ine sab ki vajah Se hi students are missing so much on their lives yah sochkar ke bad mein everything will be worth it voh apni mental health ko bhi ignore kar dete Hain😔

[@krishnavashu]

This consistency ❤! Keep the this good work bhaiya. Your videos are so good i love watching your videos

[@vedantrusty]

yes sir!

[@50UpRider]

Its due to high population ... not due to the coaching center .... Govt should take necessary steps to reduce population thus reducing the competition.

[@omsthakar8486]

Ask child whther he really needs coaching. Coaching should be for someone who is Below average but not for Toppers . Even the coaching classes favour toppers for their reputation and ignore the less bright student even the ones who can do good but just require more attention. They only want toppers who dont need much teaching and already are smart enough.

[@kdjoshi726]

this is a lot true. I studied from a govt school & I saw how my topper friend was being treated differently ngl. I saw the partiality in the teacher's behavior. Topper kids really are treated differently

[@sarakezar1149]

Very informative! And yes, you should definitely make a video regarding how a child should be raised and how an ideal parent - child relationship should be.

[@SanshubhGupta]

I was wondering from many days why many creators are ignoring this and here is Vedant with what we wanted...truly fabulous video❤

[@learner6233]

The core problem is the lack of jobs in all the domains.

[@Raj_bhadani]

Man Legit thing is Everyone is in a Line to Blame Education System but no one wants to point about our increasing Population :) & then people compare our education system with Small population countries Try to understand this if something works for them doesn't mean it will work for Us too

[@laxmandutt1109]

Bro, my biggest mistake in life was to take birth in india

[@farhan__.44]

Student's biggest problem ---------> Indian education system 😢

[@laxmandutt1109]

bhai parents bhi bekar hain

[@harshitsharma3689]

Ok this is coming from a student who failed JEE and is in a 3 tier college. The competition which everyone is scared of. That is real. Whether you like to believe it or not but yes that cut throat competition is actually real and people are pouring in everything to get into a good college. And some people might say that you know it's just a paper and all but let me tell you YOU ARE WRONG. It's the next 4 years of your life, what kind of environment and opportunities you'll get are decided by where you study. The better college you get into you actually get more time and chances to be innovative and find your passion elsewhere if you feel like you don't belong in your current line of education. STUDY. OR YOU WILL REGRET IT. The world is not a bed of roses. I'd like things to be better, for everything to be less stress inducing and people to be more understanding towards mental health but even if that were the case the cut throat competition wont disappear.