Infertility & Angel moms/The Woman and Her Womb

[@refilwemolaba3118]

It took us 4yrs to conceive our first baby. My second baby was not planned. The lesson for me was that I needed to realise that God is in control not me. My wishes have nothing to do with His plans for me. Today, having watched this episode I realise God's grace in my journey of motherhood. It's been nothing but the Grace of God. I can't say there is anything I did different to these ladies. Thanks for making us realise that we don't have kids because we had sex. But that we have been entrusted with precious gifts. It's not an entitlement but a privilege to give both.

[@thobilegwamanda4961]

I have been there,I know the pain ,it cuts right through ones heart,I lost my 1st child ,a baby girl would be 8 this year,I lost her at 7 months,it was such an overwhelming experience,I cried for months,I blamed myself,my husband,I just couldn't stop crying,when I go around town I would see a lot of pregnant women and I would just break down,it's painful but today I'm blessed with a 5 year old handsome little man,he will be turning 6 in October,I didn't think I would have kids anymore but God did it for me,so trust God and never ceaze to pray,He will answer your prayers,at the right time,He is never late,it will happen at the right time sisi.

[@LadyT06]

Sorry hun and God bless you tlhe *BEARHUG* !

[@loveandcandour]

I can't begin to imagine what you must have felt. I hope many stumble upon this testimony and know that there is a God who hears and heals, Christ is His name. May God continue blessing you.

[@glaciousndhlovu2675]

Amen 🙏

[@kristelngami4816]

The God of Sarah and Elizabeth is still seated on the throne

[@ucheokoye6744]

I am one of those women trying to have another baby, after losing four of them. Still hoping on God.

[@buyisthemba9338]

God will bless you hun💖

[@PrecoiuBrown]

My cousin lost two babies a few years ago ,and last year she was blessed with a baby girl last hang in there..

[@SuzetteKhiba]

So sorry. The God that I serve will restore all the years the locusts and caterpillars have eaten.. ❤️🙏🏽 #suzettekeybah

[@kingaustinooo8053]

My parents lost 4 and they were blessed with 6 so God will surely be bless you

[@tracyjoe4749]

God will show up swity

[@beautymellz5600]

Experience has taught me to keep certain news from friends. A family member whom I regarded a close friend once told me that I couldn't have children and that I was barren. She loudly told me " you can't have children, ba go kwetse". How she knew this I don't know but I soon realized that she wasn't happy for me that I had found love. I soon became pregnant and the moment she found out I'd always dreamt that she'd be offering me food in dreams. I lost my baby in the 2nd trimester unfortunately. My advice is keep your good news to yourself . Not everyone celebrates you

[@Siphokazi_Fikeni]

Im so sorry for your loss. So true. I have a friend who hasn't told her mother in law that she's pregnant because everytime she does she loses the baby. As a result she's more advanced in this pregnancy than the rest. We're trusting God for a healthy baby.

[@dimakatsondala9229]

This is sooo true, I almost lost my baby as well I'm forever grateful to have her..sorry for your loss ❤

[@sophia4christ]

Don't only be quiet with the news. When witches and wizards are monitoring your womb, you need to be on fire for Jesus Christ. You will need to constantly be praying and covering yourself and your unborn child in the Blood of Jesus. Make sure you are Holy Ghost-filled because you will need to also pray in tongues against these dreams that poison you and your child. We live in an evil world. Learn how to fight and win in the spiritual dimension to win in the physical. God bless. 🙏🏽

[@bokangseroka848]

My prayers are with all the angel mothers and those praying for a baby,

[@ninahmbatha1890]

Amen 🙏🙌

[@thorotheaxamises8498]

Amen sister 😍😍😍

[@TsmsibiNlc]

Amen

[@missy97]

Amen! 🙏

[@ThatoMavuso]

I know the feeling of people and family asking when are you having a baby? I am also going through my journey that I am documenting on my infertility story. Trust in the Lord and let him be your refuge. When the time is right he will make right.

[@MrsD_2022]

God bless everyone who is trying to conceive, and bless all the men who stand by their women and reassures them that they are not worthless nor less of a woman.

[@ashlenemafokoane7229]

🙏❤

[@minniendabokutya7860]

I’m a angel mom, lost my baby 3 weeks ago and it still feels unreal because I was healthy throughout my pregnancy and she was fine but when I went to give birth they told me they couldn’t find the heartbeat. That was a biggest shock, coming back with her bag only and not her was the most heartbreaking but I’m putting my hope and faith in God🙌🏽

[@modestaavula295]

Your guest is so beautiful 😭😍 and I'm sorry. ❤️

[@noluyolodondashe1262]

I dont like people who ask that question "When are you having a baby?". People do not know nor understand the struggle that we went through in trying to conceive 😭😭😭

[@SarhaXimeliPaulse]

I seconded you 👏👏🏿

[@jennyondablock7016]

Is annoying

[@mithahossain2567]

Is annoying

[@prellalove7652]

So true🗣

[@vhonieverokhanombuya4031]

I agree

[@tiyiselanin]

I’m an angel mom. I only got to spend 14 days with my one only boy. He passed away in arms and I literally felt his little heart stop beating with my own two fingers. Something that I will never ever forget 💔💔💔

[@akhonatshangela2069]

Tiyiselani's world I’m so sorry sis. Sending you love, light and hugs❤️

[@tiyiselanin]

Akhona Tshangela ❤️❤️

[@LadyT06]

May God continue strengthening you and may your lil angel continue resting in peace *BEARHUG* !

[@tiyiselanin]

Lady T Thank you so much 😊

[@phindileyapi8636]

@Tiyiselani’s world I’m sorry you had to go through the experience this loss💔💔 May you find healing. I can personally relate to this type of loss❤️❤️sending hugs

[@dr.celiwereloaded6670]

Iam so sorry to everyone who has went through such a pain. May the Lord comfort you all. ❤️ Kayise you are such a sweetheart for what you are doing

[@kristelngami4816]

*Why isn’t this on National Television?🤔*

[@asiphileni8949]

I am glad that so many couples are speaking out about infertility. Infertility is a chronic disease medical aids should fund it. 9 years in marriage and been having all those questions and more. Lets educate the public.

[@gcobisagiyama8686]

I'm an angel mom. My baby boy passed away after 14 days in hospital. I remember the doctors when they told us to switch off the machine coz the baby is not gonna make it💔💔💔. But God is Good he blessed me with a baby girl❤

[@karabomosia8718]

😭😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@LadyT06]

May your lil angel continue resting in peace. *BEARHUG* !

[@mphomaseko9226]

Our God is Faithful even though we experience loss and heartache. Be comforted G*

[@sibusisiwemazekafortunate2744]

Your episodes sis Kayise are definitely a journey to healing for people. This was a beautiful episode

[@musaaphane1258]

I’m a mom and can’t even begin to imagine how painful it is to go through that. Love and light to all angel moms.

[@nomvulairene4177]

I respect you ntate Zwane for supporting n loving ur beautiful wife.

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

Yes indeed

[@chriseldatebelloshiya2187]

As an angel mom I'm touched, all the memories came back but healing is best to do

[@mphomaseko9226]

I'm alaso an angel mommy. It's been almost 2 years but the pain and trauma is still fresh 😭😭😭

[@mayenziwemakhanya2251]

This episode was so deep. Such a touchy subject. Infertility is definitely one of my greatest fears 💔

[@tebatsotsebe1070]

Same here,but I know God will bless our fruitful wombs. Well he already has ☺

[@loveandcandour]

Nothing is impossible with God.

[@LadyT06]

Lovely episode and praying for all couples who are trying to conceive,for God to meet them at the point of need!May their cries be heard like Hannah!!

[@rodahmuriu782]

I am an angel mum, five years down. I'm glad of that opportunity and I pray the lord will bless me again. Take heart mums, God has got us.

[@ashlenemafokoane7229]

This made me cry, I know exactly what both of these ladies are going through 😭😭 Yho, the pain. People must just mind their business, yho 💔

[@bavuyilenjomane2025]

Hi sis Kayise.I am one of the few young baby loss mom's in SA in Bloemfontein . 2012 I lost my son at 34 weeks and was rushed to hospital than was told the baby's heartbeat isn't there. 2018 September I was going to be a mom again and excited 38weeks I lost my daughter (second child). Since then I've been scared and suffering depression and scared to try again. But I'm hoping that God restores me because I still cry to God daily.

[@makhananesuprise7546]

Find your purpose my sister, have a conversation wth God... don't beat urslf up

[@zamangibambuyazi2113]

I'm in tears, this journey is different to each and everyone of us, it may be 3 weeks or the labour day.. but to loose that precious soul it will forever remain an open wound.

[@nyambi_m]

This is deep, losing a child is so painful. Thank you for talking abt this sensitive issue. 💕💕💕

[@fiksmayende2571]

Thank you once again Kayise for the good work you are doing May God give you with more strength and a vision that will take your show forward Thank you to your interviewees too for sharing their touching stories. May the Lord give them complete healing and peace that surpasses all understanding Stay blessed

[@nobuhlexulu3685]

I met your Zuko in January and your ability to trust a complete stranger with him is where I saw your strength. You are the village of women you were taught about. 🖤

[@jabumvelase6557]

It hard to be a woman without a baby but God will remember us

[@dianajumah2435]

Kayise, watching you gives me hope that someday I'll be okay.

[@motheowalerato701]

Such a touching episode 😪 May God bless all the angel moms and dads as well as those struggling to conceive 🙏🏾🙌❤

[@jenevahmoagi5438]

Oh my God , this put salt onto the wounds that wont heal..i am an angel mom of 7 and all my babies lost at 6 to 7 weeks of pregnancy and till today i haven't made peace with the loses, the pain , the trauma, the heartbreak that it has left in me.with each miscarriage i lost something within, i chose to stay under that darkness with so much pain and confussion and feeling of unworthyness ..I am here and still trying to live with the pain , i have two daughters now one ( adopted and one biologically concieved i call them my life lines..So ladies you are not alone , you are worthy and take your time to heal and know that nothing lasts forever❤

[@au_badela]

I'm so sorry sis

[@kelebogilemilanzi8379]

7? Yoh 😭

[@jenevahmoagi5438]

@@kelebogilemilanzi8379 yep 7 , weird enough the dr's couldnt even see or find out what was wrong with me..

[@kudziechings8338]

🤗🤗🤗🤗 May you be comforted dear

[@buyisthemba9338]

Sorry my love

[@zamokuhlemashele7232]

Iyhooo Khayise this topic is opening alot of wounds.😭😭😭😭💔💔💔 a angel mom of 4 kids

[@cindymthethwa9926]

Did u have childrens after that? coz I've had 3 miscarriages and i dnt think it will ever happen

[@tselanematuludi2409]

God will bless you ♥️

[@nkhen_c357]

When such episodes are done we must also indicate government offer IVF for couples who fall under economic bracket. As much as IVF it is expensive but it can be affordable through government hospital. And family must know their place and for a wife not to be less of a woman her husband but reassure her. And I strongly believe premarital counseling must include possibility of not having kids

[@ashlenemafokoane7229]

My husband always tells me to stop being so hard on myself by trying to conceive and I must just wait on God's timing. He will make it happen in His time We've also reached a point in telling family or whoever that it's none of their business as to when we're having children

[@nkhen_c357]

@@ashlenemafokoane7229 God must give you peace that when people ask you such questions you reply them to pray for you. No nastiness no nothing

[@nomxhosapekani7966]

@@ashlenemafokoane7229 My dear in this life we are all unique, some who have so many babies which is great don't have what you have. It is the fact of life that not everyone can have kids, or be doctors or any other profession, so we are all unique in that way and have our own way of contributing to society. I know so many with no children but have brought up parentless children and made a difference in their lives.

[@makhananesuprise7546]

@@ashlenemafokoane7229 well u were made out of ur man...ur husband is Godly n u should be grateful for that n find ur purpose in God, not having kids does not make u less of a woman or wife nah..God made us to become helpers of our husbands n celebrate one another....kids are a bonus to marriage

[@lesegorammego6666]

Strength to you family and to everyone who are struggling to conceive. 🤲❤️❤️

[@evangelisttwinky981]

Woow I have been wondering where is this woman, I love her so much very much. Thank God my dear for your life and everything about you.

[@palesambhalati5948]

The way Khumo shared her story took me back to the day I was told I had a missed miscarriage, I thought I had healed from that encounter but clearly I'm not

[@TiisetsoShole]

8 weeks beautiful weeks I shared with my angel🥰 but it's sad that I did not get to hear the heartbeat or even know the gender of my baby😔

[@motheowalerato701]

Sorry for your loss dear 😪🙏🏾

[@TiisetsoShole]

Thank you so much👏

[@LadyT06]

May God continue comforting and strengthening you *BEARHUG* !

[@masesioliphant8223]

Strength sis❤ I have been there twice and believe me it still feels like yesterday,tomorrow marks exactly a year since my second miscarriage it hurts ,ho bohloko the pain cut deep 💔💔I'm trying to conceive again hoping for a miracle🙌

[@LadyT06]

@@masesioliphant8223 don't despair nor loose hope as all shall come to pass that God will bless your womb and carry healthy pregnancies in Jesus mighty name... *BEARHUG!*

[@nomondeh6379]

😭😱😰this topic is too deep ey. May God be with all the women who are trying to have a baby.

[@nomzamomweli4056]

I'm sorry Mrs Ngwenya for loosing your baby. God will bless you again, wipe your tears away. Love you sisi ❤

[@dudumahdudumah3279]

I felt that The presenter is rushing the first lady with question. Beautiful interview very emotional.

[@zethembem4837]

That's what we want straight to the point.

[@letlhogonolotiro41]

True.. She was articulating her story very well but she keeps rushing her with questions

[@kelebogilemilanzi8379]

I'm an angel mom too! 🕊️😭 Gave birth at 40 weeks 4 days and was in Labour for 24 hours with broken water, my baby was born on the 5th of June and passed away on the 8th of June 😭... All of these due to medical negligence 💔. It is hard... I don't know if I will ever heal 😩

[@thefacelesslady6425]

Health practicners are careless and we never take them to task. I am an angel mom Dr negligence

[@rulondaful]

I am an angel mom of two been an angel mom for a long long time heard all the questions and comments also has hiv but God blessed me with a baby girl healthy she is now 5 months old love from the states to my angel mothers in Africa and the disporia God is faithful stay in your word

[@nomahthandy]

I lost my twin girls at 24weeks a week ago...the pain is unbearable😭😭😭💔💔💔

[@LeeSibs]

Sorry about that Nomalanga🥺

[@nomvulairene4177]

Askies hle sesi 😭😭

[@gcobisagiyama8686]

Sorry sis ❤

[@zandilentsipho1150]

Ngxesi sisi

[@karabomosia8718]

Yhuuu haa.aa😭💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔 I’m so sorry🥺

[@zanelentloko5528]

Sorry Khumo for your loss, God will bring joy into your life, to the Zwane's my children God is in control of your situation, praying for strength.

[@tanakacherice1879]

Am also an Angel mom & I can relate but the strength u have after all the pain is Amazing & God's grace through it All🙏

[@mmakgetlaneng325]

WOW.... we thank God for all husbands that are there to support their wives through thick and thin. "Hannah-You Are Not Alone"

[@nomxhosapekani7966]

Instead of thanking God, I thank mothers who brought up their boy children to treat their partners with love and respect, and also making their sons know that LOVE is a verb, not a noun!

[@travelwithGomolemo]

I lost two babies. One stillborn and another had hydrocephalus its tough. I hate it when a person ask me when are you having a kid. Cos they don't half of the things i go through

[@chahidastrausskavendjii3658]

Wow wow wow, ....you are so brave. I have 3 kids and had a miscarriage in 2018 it was so difficult to talk about... It hurts😭😭😭😭😭

[@karabomosia8718]

Haah mara some elders are so cruel😭 how can they say that to Karabo😒 This episode was so touching and yet so uplifting because the guests show that not all hope is lost.❤️

[@Miss_Zikhali]

I can feel your pain mommy I'm also an Angel mother of 2 ,firstly it was an ectopic pregnancy in 2016 and this year May I had a miscarriage 💔💔💔💔I'm still not okay but I'm trying to put everything to God

[@refiloekasonga6189]

I am also an angel mom but I was later blessed with a baby boy it's not an easy journey.

[@sibongilegugwini9746]

What is an angel mom?

[@tsholofelomonare9877]

Love and light to all angel mommies.❤️❤️❤️

[@dimakatsondala9229]

😪Nkosiyami duduzika,Askies hle..

[@tshimangadzomavhungu3563]

I do relate I lost my baby girl @ 23weeks and the pain of loosing a baby it's unbearable

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

So painful indeed I'm so sorry cc

[@mmabathodesireemphahlele3408]

My heart goes out to you Khumo ❤️❤️❤️

[@sesethusam9623]

Obvs here already because NOTIFICATION GANG

[@amandasigenu3811]

Both stories are touching 😭😭May God bless these two Families🙏🙇‍♀️

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

Yes Amen 💔💔💔

[@noluthando5802]

Mom to 3 angels. Thanks for this unpopular topic that is so necessary.

[@innomabaso9036]

This is one of the sadist moments i will never wish any women to go through 😭😭💔

[@nkgomotsecynthia5850]

I'm going through that, and I'm hoping for a miracle every day

[@innomabaso9036]

@@nkgomotsecynthia5850 I've been in that situation, i never thought i will survive it but guess what here i am, happy than before, even though you will never look at the world with the same perspective. But hy you have proven you can conceive on your own and you can still do that again . We need to keep faith on God and hope for the best😊❤️🤷‍♀️

[@sophia4christ]

This is such a sad story. I pray for your full recovery and restoration in Jesus' Name. 🙏🏽

[@nomzamomweli4056]

Zwane Family all is well love you❤

[@akhonazulu2194]

Your stories are always interesting

[@tebogomachaba7250]

I had two ectopic pregnancies which led to all my fallopian tubes being removed, I was 27 when my last fallopian tube was removed and I'm 30 now, it's a constant pain in my heart especially when people get to ask when I'm having a baby

[@empresszoe9351]

Sorry for your pain sister. People need to learn to mind their business. There is nothing wrong with you. You are strong. Hugs🤗❤️

[@tshilidzicareneh5829]

Hi dear i have also lost my fallopian tubes due to ectopic pregnancies but i'm now with Steve Biko hospital trying to do IVF, they have quoted us R40,000. Please look into it if you can ❤❤❤

[@tshilidzicareneh5829]

By the way my ectopic pregnancies happened in 2011 and 2020 and now i'm 36 years. God will eventually hear us and bless us with the fruit of the womb.

[@nonhlanhlamakhubu217]

People have no idea what effect the question "when are you having a baby?"has.I had my first baby in 2013 then went on to be an angel mom in 2017 having a miscarriage at 12 weeks.I keep playing that particular night in my head to this day, some days are worse than others.Been trying for a baby for the past 3 years and nothing is happening😔😔😔.

[@loinecechikakuda2553]

I love how the gentlemen says "We" , they are 1.

[@yenziwensele2886]

I love how solid your questions are sthandw ❤️

[@raisingremiandremo]

Thank you to these angel moms for sharing your stories. I'm am drawing so much strength from this. 🙏🏾

[@faithmabasa]

Oh I love that couple Karabo and Jerry Zwane❤️

[@Unkumaj]

Just lovely

[@tshimangadzomavhungu3563]

Very lovey

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

Very lovely ❤️

[@changanikisesa7021]

Its not easy journey been going through the same thing its tough its confusing.You just have to be there then will understand

[@cyndisays]

I wish i could listen to this video but my wounds never healed from the lost of my twins:(

[@imamelenglekalakala]

my friend is an angel mom. She took it really hard , i can literally see the pain through her.

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

Yeah so touching story wishing her and his hubby a great success

[@sejengnoge5078]

Amazing content...every heartfelt

[@otlotlengmomphi7107]

Love and light to all angel moms❤️🕯. S/O to the Zwane’s

[@nomvulairene4177]

❤️❤️❤️

[@Miss_imanifaith]

I came across this video today, I lost my daughter last year as a first time mom i almost went crazy💔 still on a healing process. I'm 27years old and I'm thinking of trying again but I'm very scared.

[@yamkelajombile4185]

So sorry these ladies have to experience such pain. I will sound insensitive by saying that Khumo Ngwenya’s healing needs to go deeper into understanding and accepting that ‘inevitable miscarriage’ means that no one not even a specialist obstetrician can stop a cervix that is opened and expelling a fetus. The sacs surrounding a baby when broken cannot mend again. All the best with her healing journey.

[@kristelngami4816]

Yo I commend this couple and especially this man

[@juliajonas8067]

It’s an episode and a half. Very touching indeed

[@healingspaceswithflorencen3482]

😭😭😭😭💔 This is heartbreaking. I went through a similar situation last year, but my doctor fought for me until I gave birth at 26 weeks my boy is is now 18 months old. No woman deserves to go through this.

[@babalwa1607]

Thank u Kayise for this.

[@thelmahmphulo660]

Superlife STC30 helps with infertility issues. I wish that couples can try that product and see how it will assist them.IT REALLY WORKS.

[@nkolopk]

Loss is such a painful thing, still gathering strength to speak about my Twins passing in my channel. Its hard😭💔

[@thantaswasithetho8583]

😥😥😥the sudden of excitement that leaves you wth soo much pain.

[@bopanerampeta3569]

I love this husband...

[@ntombozukomqikela2883]

I think the community needs to be educated about the experience because they lack it and dont understand. The question of when, I you going to have babe? it sickening me

[@kristelngami4816]

*Did the couple consider surrogacy?*

[@NoloM-de4zh]

To think I experienced a similar miscarriage 🥺🥺

[@ejohhenrientta6976]

I fear infertility with everything in me

[@thategomagane8838]

Same here 💔

[@sophia4christ]

2 Timothy 1:7: For God has not given us a spirit of fear but one of power, love, and a sound mind. DO NOT FEAR! SPEAK FAITH! EXPECT YOUR BLESSINGS! 🙏🏽

[@Bee24ification]

I've lost my first son on the 26.09.2017 at 25 weeks, and my second one on the 16.09.2019. I recently lost my babygirl on the 06.07.2020 and it still hurts as a result I sometimes cry and i'm having difficulties to sleep at night. I was suppose to be givinh birth on the 30.08.2020💔💔💔😭😭😭

[@buyisthemba9338]

Sorry my Love.Sending you lots of love💖💖💖💖💖💖💖❤

[@Bee24ification]

@@buyisthemba9338 thank you so much 😘🌺

[@bongiwezaca2721]

Sending you love and hugs sisi..hang in there kuzolunga 💞💕

[@christinetinah7076]

Ooh dear, may the Lord strength you and answer your prayers

[@rolivhuwamakananisa5625]

Sorry for your loss dear

[@esterndemumana6290]

That infertility is really, my big cousin experienced that. And really hart

[@onkgopotsemalele2885]

16 weeks 😭 I relate

[@LadyT06]

Sorry hun *BEARHUG* !

[@mandisaphakathi2801]

what allergic reaction where you having i suffer from hives just wondering if they will affect my fertility.

[@hlophekiletsita1684]

The couple jokingly said get a dog... I felt it. I got a cat and it somehow helped with my healing

[@brandtestandtaste9717]

I know 2 ppl in my family they hd the same problem both hd 3 miscarriages each person they hd to stopped attending privite hospital... After they hd about this public hospital(it R... something hospital) in Durban that hospital is very good on stopping the miscarriage by sort of stitching the womb immediately thn when it a proper time for u to give birth they can open those stitches they both hd 2 children each person as we speak but they hd to under go through same procedure for their second children because, it much better if u can conceive.

[@joymogedi7729]

Shuuu😭😭😭 💔💔

[@attysibs8921]

Sorry😭😭🥺😭😭

[@ThatoMavuso]

😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@nonhlanhlamakhombothi3719]

I relate 😭😭