Infidelity Recovery Work: 3 Choices We Have While in Crisis

[@Valeria-th3ms]

this channel is the only thing keeping me sane during the darkest time of my life

[@dianeeddings5034]

I liken this healing to an hourglass that's been flipped over to restart again, grain after grain and in time there will be a new life built up. Same sand, just had to move from one place to the next . Thank you for this video.💜

[@jenna.w.9041]

My heart continues to be broken. Its been 9 months and my mind/thoughts continue to go back to the events of betrayal. Excruciating.

[@dianeeddings5034]

I am 10 months out, counseling has helped, but I believe you will go thru such a heartbreak deep inside you are gonna have to change things in your life to simply fill in time so you don't focus on the pain. I'm feeling you so entirely, still fighting it weekly. No longer daily as life changes and keeps moving. Pray for comfort and peace...it will come!💜

[@zeinabessam8457]

Thank you Samuel for being there for us . Your talks is like the light in our healing path.

[@samshealingpodcast]

such an honor. thank you.

[@dianaivonne813]

Your videos have gotten me through some of the hardest times of my life. You have made such a difference.

[@samshealingpodcast]

that's one of the reasons I make them. i'm honored that I can help in some way. thank you for sharing that. comments like that make it all worth it.

[@forensicbadassprofiling]

Thos is wonderful inspiration for all those whove been discarded and ghosted as survivors of narcissistic abuse - domestic abuse. Thank you Sam. I call myself a shadow worker to learn that dark pain. To face thrse changes. And encourage ALL that in the darkness you will ALWAYS find the light in yourself.

[@samshealingpodcast]

thank you. i call it shadow boxing....doing the work to get into our own shadows and heal ourselves. so glad it's helped you.

[@evandegenfelder4554]

Samuel, I don't have words to describe the solace you've brought, the sense of truly understanding the pain of the betrayed. We are 10 weeks past D-day and without Affair Recovery, you and all the people involved, I think I might have either be dead or in a mental hospital. My husband and I are just weeks from our 39th anniversary and this discovery (made accidentally) has lain waste to 30+ of those years. We have worked your "Boot Camp" and found everything we could about our particular situation. We don't live anywhere near a qualified specialist, and couldn't afford it if we did. I just want to thank you, because your videos have helped us both tremendously. Week one, I thought I had completely lost my mind. Week ten. . . well, I'm still devastated, but I believe we will heal. Eventually.

[@BrendaDup1]

Samuel My husband and I just wanted to let you and Affair Recovery know that without your videos and God ,I don't think we would have made it. For me as a betrayed it's still a painful journey but getting better everyday.

[@samshealingpodcast]

im honored i could help you in some small way. thank you for reaching out and sharing the encouragement.

[@conservativetaxpayer]

So proud of the pain….not something we are taught and then I thought, “just like the day our children were born!” I get Samuel. Thank you for this reminder

[@samshealingpodcast]

thank you my friend. so glad it helped.

[@jerryanddiannedennison5644]

Thank you, God, for Samuel and Affair Recovery. True warriors of God, are they!

[@sallyooko1464]

Thank you Samuel.You are a blessing

[@samshealingpodcast]

honored to be of help.

[@katherinezimmer5172]

Thank you Samuel, this was very timely for me!

[@samshealingpodcast]

i'm so glad, i always hope and pray that these videos are timely for those who are watching.

[@marianaoctubre]

Needed this today. Thank you.

[@samshealingpodcast]

so glad. thank you for sharing.

[@colterthompson6846]

Thanks for this. I'll take the third option, to stay. What troubles me is that I am still uncertain that the causes of why I did what I did will ever go away. While I regret the decimation I wrought I don't know if I can ever have faith in the way that I so badly desire. This mask of uncertainty and doubt in my relationship shrouds over me and I can't tell if that's a state that's enveloping my natural happy/confident state, or if my natural insecure state is occasionally muffled by brief bouts of happiness and confidence.

[@samshealingpodcast]

i get it. stay with it. get help, do your work and take it one day at a time.

[@melodykubiak5850]

I'd like to see a video about what the terms "healthy" and "unhealthy" mean. If the unfaithful spouse is unhealthy, what does that mean exactly, or at least several possibilities of characteristics of unhealthiness? Also the term "sober." ....In an older post you mentioned writing a book. Did you ever finish and publish it? If so, where is it available?

[@samshealingpodcast]

hi there. thank you for the suggestion. book is mid-draft. long process but thank you for asking.

[@IVYMIKE2able]

What to do when the unfaithfull seems to be really regretfull but refuses to tell the truth because of shame or wathever?

[@samshealingpodcast]

if you don't know the truth, it's really challenging to heal unless you don't want the truth. typically finding third party help to walk you through the process is key as it's vital to know what you're living with, forgiving and choosing to embrace. this article will help more: www.affairrecovery.com/newsletter/founder/survive-an-affair-how-much-to-tell