INFP sense of justice

Hi! I talk about INFP (and autistic) sense of justice, speaking up for our values, supporting the underdogs.
I get quite distracted by the cars, people and motorcycles, but i hope i could make somewhat sense.

[@dulles1969]

motorcycle and music and other people interruptions aside, hearing the birds in the background was absolutely lovely. And the frog hat is, as always fantastic. And yes, it is exhausting to get into confrontation, force conflict or maintain tension... I think an ENTJ is probably not going to understand it, but maybe at least he'll listen and pay attention to these needs. It seems to me even though your job has all these challenges for you, you're doing really well!

[@bufoperiglenes8634]

Hiding in the comments again like a burrowing toad, and wanted to tell you from my burrow that I just watched your video about words and it is excellent. The way you use language is admirable and no, it's never pedantic. Your videos are beautiful and immensely rewatchable. I think we all rely on you to translate our inner world to other types, and your precision with language is your superpower on here. It was also really cool seeing you speak in two languages--there's a theory that bilingual (or tri-lingual?) people tend to have more empathy for others, and that plays out with you and Ingrid (and our friend here sicparvismagna). You are a compelling storyteller and you're also precise and gracious enough in making your case that even ENTPs listen to your logic! I tend to say careless things almost every time I speak or write, so I look up to as a role model when it comes to checking Ne back through Fi for clarity. Sorry for my rambling, and just wanted to tell you again: thank you.

[@dulles1969]

@@bufoperiglenes8634 It's funny (and pretty wonderful) that whenever one of us is thinking of a topic, it seems like someone else in this little KZbin group is doing something similar. The idea about words and language came from some Reddit exchanges and it's been eating at me. Then I saw your wonderful video with thoughts that unlocked ideas about the written word and use of language. It turns out Ingrid is developing some ideas in this area. It wouldn't be a surprise if Dee or Pete, or others just happen to be thinking on similar lines ... synchronicity by odd coincidence seems to work like that. I treasure this kind of loose, ad hoc collaboration, each person tackling this from their own context and perspective.

[@bufoperiglenes8634]

@@dulles1969 yes! The synchronicity going on in this community is astonishing, delightful, and proof that some brains really are wired similarly. I think early on the channel Carm said he owned the t-shirt I was wearing...and once I randomly sent Pete a penguin emoji with no meaning, but then you had a penguin friend with you and I was able to make meaning of the randomness...Jody sent me a dolphin puppet last year, not knowing my sister and I had dolphin memories together and would be talking about our childhood memories a lot in the months to come. As I said early on my youtube journey (quoting Buffy), there are only two things I don't believe in: leprechauns and coincidences.

[@sicparvismagna1294]

Hello Ingrid, Your frog hat is really lovely at first I thought it was like a safari hat. The background was really lovely too with all the birds. I guess the sense of justice with INFPs is quite strong even if there are may be different justices depending on the person value. Nice picture of squarel, I saw one last week in a park. Speaking of reading somehow I finished reading the book I told you about few minutes before you uploaded the video, I know it's not something big but it's has been a very long time since I finished a book maybe it's the one of the rarest things I was able to do as I'm going through a very rough period... About cleaning the house I have similar maybe more serious problem so I can understand little bit. I do fully understand about work. I don't know if I'm autistic but at university or at internship I have somehow ' to mask ' my internal struggles and try to pretend everything is fine while it's the exact opposite but I am obliged to do this to keep this internship or even my studies because it's the only thing I have right now and it has huge implications on my life in many ways especially regarding to administration... So yes it's extremely exhausting and it consumes much energy. I somehow understand about being perceived and sometimes I like to go almost empty places like a corner in the park where there are few people. Thanks for these videos and I do value you as you are. Wishing you a good day Ingrid 😊

[@nerdexproject]

First off, love the frog hat! 😁 It's too cute! ^^ Secondly, hearing about how much it impacts you emotionally really sadens me as well. As an INFJ I do resonate with everything to a degree too but for you it's extra hard, I know. :( Well, you brought your point across and some ppl at your workplace showed affection towards you so that's good and hopefully it will be a step towards change. :)

[@radishraven9]

Thank you, yes i love my hat 🐸 thanks for supporting me and being so kind! 😊

[@gorvo31]

Hey Ingrid, That is a fabulous squirrel...and of course, frog hat. 🐸That sounds like my neighborhood...cars, loud music, yet...birds... 🙂 Yes, in a way healing and working for justice go hand in hand, or in a sense are one in the same...moving towards a better....everything as much as possible. Sounds like you're on that path well enough, and really admire you sticking to it especially in the workplace despite it all. 🙂-Carm

[@radishraven9]

Thanks i love little critters 🐸🐿 hmm interesting how healing and justice can be working together. Thank you, i'm trying my best! 😊✊️

[@kithigginson4649]

I love your analogy of INFPs being the canaries in the coal mine. Take care.

[@radishraven9]

Thank you 😊

[@bufoperiglenes8634]

@@radishraven9 hiding in the comments while watching this wonderful video--everything you've said is so relatable. The motorcycles in my neighborhood are unnerving, and it's nice to know I'm not alone when it comes to being disturbed by traffic. Your whole channel is a great comfort to a lot of us who struggle with the same things. Cars, leaf blowers, air conditioners, even the subtle buzz of power lines--human sounds in general make walking down the street so stressful for me (even without the panic attacks). Nature sounds are always soothing though.Thank you again. I admire you so much for holding down a difficult job and being good to your friends. The unmasking process can be really scary...realizing how hard I had to work in the past to navigate the most basic work and social situations, not knowing that neurotypical people can just do certain things that I can't naturally do without a lot of time and conscious work put into them. This is why I lost the ability to maintain eye contact shortly after leaving the world--even something simple like appropriate eye contact was a skill I'd taught myself over the years, without even realizing. We have to give ourselves a lot of credit for the behind-the-scenes work we did in youth just to get by in a world not built for us. Part of unmasking seems to be cultivating self-compassion. Just wanted to say that the preacher at the memorial (she's known me since I was eight) literally called me the "canary in the coal mine" at the service. The coincidences around here are, again, amazing. INFP psychic powers again.

[@sicparvismagna1294]

​Oh Bufo! Nice to see you in the comments. Yes I guess Ingrid experiences are relatable to us like I said in my comment on this video. With all things that have happened to you I don't think it's a coincidence... Thanks for your presence.

[@bufoperiglenes8634]

@@sicparvismagna1294 thank you for your presence. This little INFP community is blessed to know you. Hope you find moments of peace and hope today through the noise of the outside world. 💚🦋

[@sicparvismagna1294]

You are welcome. Oh ...those words ... They mean the world to me. Thank you very much. Today was a tough one and so were the last days but knowing you and Ingrid make it bearable. Thanks for being you