Ingrid's Mom DETESTS Brian...

[@ifitdontapplydontyoucry]

Brians eagerness and entitlement radiates ick energy. Ingrid feels it, mom feels it. Its a gift from God.

[@bellarina]

He really thought he was going to charm her parents just like that 🤣🤣🤣

[@Christine-ef8wl]

Brain is a guy who seems to play off the fact he is in wheel chair

[@PinoyLuz]

@@Christine-ef8wlyeah he feels because he's in a wheelchair every one should bow down and kiss his behind

[@TheFantasticFox822]

Ingrid’s Mum is running a Masterclass in how to deflect manipulative people who constantly try to encroach over other people’s boundaries. Rudeness can be very effective and necessary sometimes 👍

[@mad_quack]

I like Ingrid’s mom. She isn’t putting up with his BS lmao

[@MarzyGirl86]

I have a feeling Ingrid has told her Mum about what’s happened the past week and she’s already not impressed

[@bellarina]

SO MUCH THIS! it's really giving "too late, I've already told my mom about you" 🤣🤣🤣

[@christiebarnhart4157]

Yes I agree!!

[@lizalauda1903]

Absolutely 💯

[@classiccuneyt]

Women often talk to friends about relationships issues no chance she didn’t tell her mom lol

[@PixelsVerwisselaar]

I cant wait to see the dad and creepy brian in one room 😂😂

[@Foshoko]

Brian has to realize that he cannot push everyone to do what he wants. I hate that on a normal day. He is now blackmailing people by saying like me or you are an ableist. That is awful behaviour. Stop pushing!!!!

[@bellarina]

THIS! The way he immediately says "it's the wheelchair" as if he was such a great person... nope, it's AAAALLL him 😂

[@Trend_Ensemble101]

It’s a common social worry for people in wheelchair to feel judged because of it, so I don’t blame him for saying it 😂

[@faithwilson2112]

@@bellarina

[@2shy1151]

He just barges in and starts talking like he's a close friend and not trying to get to know them. He's trying too hard, and it's painfully obvious that his usual game doesn't work on everyone. He just doesn't get it. He can't fast talk everyone. He's also the same age as the parents, so it's got to be obvious that his behavior is off.

[@cassandra_h]

Exactly! His behavior is inappropriate whether or not he's in a wheelchair. The wheelchair has nothing to do with it.

[@rozeymuthanje]

Mothers know. Her reaction is the personification of Brian’s energy. Also he’s not as good a conversationalist as he thinks he is. He doesn’t interact with people in a genuine way but instead uses charm and connection as a way to manipulate and get his way and he thinks people can’t clock it. He is disingenuous , self centered and petty as hell. At least now he knows someone close to her sees right through him and is not afraid to show it.

[@NatalieRabuzin]

Well said...

[@lauren4078]

Dang.... you nailed it.

[@chrismults1500]

Absolutely on point! This comment frames the entire interaction.

[@tawnygirl2000]

I’d also be concerned about my grandchildren around him. He’s a calculated narcissist and would manipulate them too.

[@happyhed]

It's his personality thats the problem not his disability.

[@Dis_is_fine]

He’s a sex tourist and the mother knows it

[@sdd123]

Brian is an immature brat. Why would anyone want him? He is a pushy old man. I am older btw. He is always crying about something like a baby🙄. I am disabled too and not everyone thinks like he does. He is way too old for her and hem has only one thing on his mind.

[@lilo2373]

He is so creepy. He has no respect for Ingrid’s boundaries and thinks people owe him to do whatever he wants because he’s in a wheelchair.

[@sdd123]

@ exactly!!!!

[@msdemeanour]

@@sdd123 He can't even get hard

[@Arista177]

Brian always wants to say it's the wheelchair that people do not like. That is all you Brian you are icky.

[@mellorose1436]

Thank God for mom.. My grandma was the same way❤ He makes my skin crawl!

[@Nunya520]

If your parents and/or friends don't like your partner, they MIGHT see something that you can't see.

[@andsimina7]

well in this case specifically, they simply don't know him and have misconceptions about him (old, taking her away etc)...so I don't think it's fair You should at least be mature enough and have some respect to sit down at the table

[@KittenIsland]

My inlaws dislike me for not being Jewish. They stated that.

[@CiaobellaAmour]

Not all the time

[@Missemeka]

Not always. My parents wasn't thrilled when I met my husband just cos he is nigerian. They assumed he was a scammer. We dated many years long distance n now ben happily.married for 8yrs n he's the most beautiful sweetest and good man anyone coupd ask for

[@Nunya520]

That's why I said MIGHT see something. But you all make good points!

[@k-bar93]

anyone else fed up with this guy constantly blaming peoples negative reactions to him on his wheel chair? Like nahhh I think her mom could sense like the rest of us that you’re a creep is all.

[@alexxC37]

Absolutely! Brian is forgetting that people are the same person standing up or sitting down. The reason he’s having problems has nothing to do with being physically disabled. I do understand why one would be insecure but when a grown man, an older guy, keeps blaming literally EVERYTHING on the chair it is annoying. It’s the way he absolves himself of any guilt and avoids accountability.

[@carrielucas5672]

Exactly!

[@Trend_Ensemble101]

@@alexxC37I completely agree 🤝

[@Kellew78]

Huge shoutout to Ingrids Mum ❤

[@michekids]

Indeed

[@sandytrimble5081]

Brian is an idiot - who looks after Ingrid's children when she goes on vacation? I dont blame her parents for discouraging their relationship - if Ingrid goes to America they lose their daughter and their grandchildren. No parent would be in favor of an ex drug dealer who was shot during a car jacking (sort of) who is confined to a wheelchair who is old enough to be her father hooking up with their daughter. Sooner or later she would have to look after Brian as well as her children and herself.

[@Livinginacardboardbox]

Well said!!

[@carissaluevano]

Bingo

[@EgyptCraft-ky7bj]

💯

[@OGbigbootyjudy]

Not to mention, that's the story he's told... who knows what the actual truth is.

[@Trend_Ensemble101]

I completely agree with you 👏 Btw I think that Ingrid parents are usually the babysitters when ingrid goes out and that is why the mother is a bit annoyed that Ingrid and Brian are going on a vacation together 🤷🏻‍♀️ I don’t believe they would let Ingrid take her children with her to the US, they seem like the type of people to file for full custody and I think it’s for the best because Ingrid will not spend any time with them, she will be working and taking care of Brian 😅

[@This_handle_is_tak3n]

The title should be: passport bro shocked mom doesn’t like passport bros.

[@bethanyyy7695]

What's a passport bro?

[@goddesslivy]

😂😂 good one

[@goddesslivy]

​@@bethanyyy7695 American men who travel to third world countries to look for smex/partners

[@classiccuneyt]

She can’t handle his King Kong 🤭😩

[@lilysagecreates]

I feel like Brian was being too pushy and rushing Ingrid in all aspects.

[@lizlikes405]

I'm sure his age has a lot to with the mothers judgement, he's her father's age.

[@notsureiL]

His daughter is around Ingrids age 😣 Creepy.

[@itisme1328]

Her silence and "difficult attitude" are making him sweat and all his insecurities are coming out.

[@hospitable_ghost]

It's so funny that Brian was offended that Ingrid's dad didn't take a day off of work to come meet him. Not everything is about YOU, Brian! 🙄

[@alcioned1]

i'm glad that mama Ingrid gave him the cold shoulder. that is EXACTLY what a manipulator needs. then he tried to turn ingrid against her mother by quizzing her about her dad.

[@Tomtaylor7337]

0:31 her mother can smell his BS from miles away 😂 she looks like she’s such a amazing mother ❤

[@kerryanne28]

Totally agree… she knows his BS from miles away! I’d have ran him out of the country if that was my daughter….. feel like there is a lot more to the story about how he got into a wheelchair then he’s letting on in my opinion and that’s scary as is so what else will come out 🤔🤔 She’s way too good for him

[@sashaebady9703]

"He is doing well with the child," because the child cant get away.

[@NatalieRabuzin]

Unfortunately he already fooled the child...it doesn't take much once he brought him a toy...

[@lilyl8927]

She really looks like her mom

[@NatalieRabuzin]

I noticed that too...

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

Me too 😊

[@msdemeanour]

Mother is like... Is this the best she can do? Ugh 😫

[@sharongibson1161]

Brian doesnt LISTEN to Ingrid, or respect what she TOLD him about her parents. He's pushy, obnoxious, and rude ...its NOT the wheelchair, its his personality 😮

[@Nvisibleman]

She has absolutely NO interest in him ....that poor bastard. 😂😂

[@carrielucas5672]

😹😹😹😹😹

[@NatalieRabuzin]

Excellent point 😅😅😅

[@bigwoogc]

Brian is very creepy. Gives me the ick.

[@brb6868]

If her parents knew what the audience knows at this point, their reaction and concerns would be completely justified. I think they're still justified, Brian gives off creeper energy and it has nothing to do with his chair, they could have definitely been more cordial until they learned more about him.

[@tammykelsey7877]

Okay, I am ready to get yelled at, but . . . I only have 1 daughter and I want the VERY best for her in life. I would be wondering, can this man give her a great life? Is he going to hold her back or slow her down in life, will he be able to support her, is he going to move her and my grandchildren away to another country, what will my daughter have to give up to be with him? There are a million questions. I don’t blame her parents!

[@ajheartsong]

I think a lot of us agree!

[@pj2192]

You summed it up perfectly! Arrogant schemer Brian does NOT know how to read the room (ie, let me toss the old biddy a handbag. That’ll keep her in line)😵‍💫🤤

[@pn4640]

I can’t believe that this creep expects Ingrid’s father to not go to work to meet him….wow! Creep the boss 🤦🏾‍♀️. Not everyone is bought by gifts

[@NatalieRabuzin]

Did u forget to say mother...😮😮😮...

[@artoferica]

I think I would have just bought her flowers. Bags/purses are kind of a hit or miss. You never can be sure of one’s style. That being said this whole situation was cringe. 😅

[@NatalieRabuzin]

True...

[@gsz-v1v]

Why does he immediately think it’s his disability? As a mother (and anyone really) I can sense someone’s personality and let alone the age gap. And to think that this guy would take my daughter and grandchildren away, hell no!

[@fenixdanee5308]

Hispanic mothers that are close to their children, just KNOW when someone isn’t right. My mom has called out friendships and relationships that she saw weren’t the best for myself and she was right every single time. She once talked to a guy I was interested in for 10 mins and told me he was bad news. Not even a couple hours later, I found out he was cheating on his girlfriend with me.

[@camilamart114]

This is so right!

[@mijnbook]

No "hispanics" in Brazil, the country was colonised by the Portuguese! 👍

[@ponysalvaje2142]

She isn't a Hispanic mom

[@lilo2373]

@@ponysalvaje2142Latina mom. But the point still stands. We have a very family oriented culture.

[@ponysalvaje2142]

@@lilo2373 Brazilian people family oriented? They are sooo different from Spanish speaking Latin American countries.

[@deborahmayo966]

I like the mom already

[@NinaMina85]

My guess, Ingrid told her mom about some stuff that happend or it his past

[@chezshirecat1872]

If I was the mother, my disapproval would start with his age and then his past, then because he is gross-the wheelchair is not a factor.

[@salieriii]

he had also lied about how much care ingrid would have to provide for him. ingrid has two children under 5, right? so… taking care of a grown man too just isn’t right for her life right now… especially a manipulative weirdo like him

[@nishisalott1839]

How old IS Brian?

[@salieriii]

@ Early 50’s, Ingrid is early 30’s with two children who are toddler age

[@JesseRock76]

He gives off that creepy Big Ed energy. My skin crawls every time he's on the screen. He's just as pushy to her as Ed was when he tried dating Liz in the beginning.

[@ricaivory6571]

If my daughter brought home a man MY AGE, I'd act just like the mom too. You Not goin bring home some OLD MAN after two horrible men resulting in babies. It ain't bout to be an old creep who can give you worms 😒😒😒😒

[@bellajlo4128]

😂😂😂😂😂 I so much love this comment

[@nursetinalouise]

And he called her maam

[@ricaivory6571]

@@nursetinalouise ok? That means absolutely nothing. I've had grandpa aged men calling me ma'am when i was young and pregnant.

[@alisondorantes-garcia5751]

I honestly want to know what sort of value Brian thinks he adds to another persons life. He is a leach, a pervert, and kind of a loser. He consistently dates much younger women than him because he clearly wants to control others.

[@SportyOtterPop]

I am a mother of a 27 year old daughter, and I would be NO different than Ingrid's mother, if she brought a man home who is as old as Brian is. It has squat all to do with his disability, and everything to do with my daughter deserving her chance to be a young adult, while she IS one! Like Brian had!

[@hi-xf7cj]

One thing no one can ever accuse Ingrid's mom of is being fake.

[@rosebudramirez39]

If her parents do have something against Brian's wheelchair, it maybe more they think he cant provide for her and her kids not necessarily that hes disabled. There are definitely more ressons to hate Brian.

[@bellarina]

I bet Ingrid told her parents all about his colourful past she learned of just days ago AND his real age 🤣 Brian can say "it's because of wheelchair and foreigner" all he wants, but I think it's fully just about what kind of person he is. "too late to apologise now, I've already told my mom what you did" never felt this real 🤣🤣🤣

[@Trend_Ensemble101]

Omg I didn’t think of the fact that Ingrid might have told her parents about his past 😮 That is the most embarrassing part and she doesn’t have a good relationship with her father so I don’t think she would risk it 😂

[@bellarina]

@@Trend_Ensemble101 Tbh yeah her father sounds very strict, but I would absolutely bet she told her mom, even if under that "don't tell dad", and probably why she was so against him meeting the parents, well the mom, because she just freshky told her... and the mom's entire attitude was like "I know what you did" 🤣🤣🤣

[@Trend_Ensemble101]

@@bellarina now it makes sense 😂 It’s really too bad that Ingrid mother didn’t confront Brian about his past and his real intentions with Ingrid because I was hoping for a fight scene 🤪

[@NatalieRabuzin]

In time ingrid will meet the right man...who will truly love her and her children...he is clearly not it...

[@نيشا-د2م]

I totally understand where the mother is coming from. Imagine (in America) your child is being whisked away to another country that you don’t know anything about. You know of the country, but you don’t fully know it b/c you’ve never actually lived there. It’s a scary thought for any parent! Especially since you don’t know how the partner is going to treat them once they’re literally half the world away.

[@ohmytwilight6913M]

I don't like Brian either and it has absolutely nothing to do with his disability since he always thinks that's the problem rather than himself being the problem.

[@bigwoogc]

@@ohmytwilight6913M 💯 !!!

[@Olamerly]

I had a coworker like that. Sensed something was wrong with her and was right (due to a number of reasons which I encountered and based on what other peole told me they experienced with her as well). Still she won't stop bothering me when I clearly avoided and portrayed that I dont want to have a conversation with her. In the end she got mad because of it and even gas lighted me, made me believe everything was my fault. She had this constant need to make everything okay when clearly its okay to know that not everyone feels the same way and its just making them more uncomfortable.

[@memzg9656]

How did you extricate yourself from her?

[@Nadiesalevivo]

What did the co worker do to you? Are you sure it is not mobbing against her? It sounds strange, you're not even specifying whatever she did to you or others at your workplace....

[@Olamerly]

Let's just say majority were unexpected angry outbursts laced with unnecessary personal verbal attacks in public leading to a point where I had to ask my boss to switch me to a different team. As for how I extricate myself from her, I just stopped contact altogether after my contract and took therapy. Best decision I ever made in my life.

[@tinuke-mo1ke]

Ingrid is just playing nice for tv. She’ll dump him as soon as the cameras leave Brazil. He is no prize!!

[@NorthEnd_Andrea]

She’s the best lolol I love her

[@Art_Odyssey93]

I don’t understand how he can be in a wheelchair this long and his arms struggle and be that weak.

[@ohmytwilight6913M]

I was thinking the same. He must've been loathing in dwelling on his own disability than anyone else. He keeps himself a victim and made himself weak physically.

[@lauren4078]

He played professional wheelchair rugby, didn't he?

[@Ipetam]

He has some nerve damage and cant feel parts of his arms.

[@princesabonita79]

people are entitle to dislike others, for whatever reason. No one should be forced to like anyone. Just because brian is in a wheelchair, doesnt mean they have to like or approve of him.

[@thatchick1433]

He’s so immature at his age and creepy it’s not his disability it’s his behavior!!! 🤢

[@hardshell9236]

Why does he need her to move to US? He is disabled anyways and lives off disability benefits. He also speaks her language, shouldn’t have a problem living in Brazil.

[@NatalieRabuzin]

And he supplements his income with uber...but if he moves to her country he loses those government benefits...

[@sophiecat5713]

Brian can not fathom people that don’t like him isn’t because of his disability, infact most people see beyond a wheel chair he’s not the only person with one, people don’t like him because of HIM! But he won’t accept that, instead he pulls the sympathy card using his chair to full advantage. As a person from what I’ve seen, he’s gross

[@my5722]

Brian is a creep. Her parent's can see it. That's all.

[@Grannysbaby81]

Hahahaah

[@joannharrington2279]

Brian gives off " used car saleman" vibe. Don't trust him. I always feel like he is trying to sell me something. Ick!!!

[@amongles]

i usually don’t watch brian and ingrid because i also hate brian, so when i read the title i knew i had to watch

[@ranctil3]

Im assuming ingrid is putting up with brian because she hopes for a better life in the USA for herself and kids. Good luck with that.

[@ELLOBOking-ro6hs]

Yes ,you are right ,as a Brazilian i'd like to have a chance to go to a better place with good situation ,i assume this is her idea as well.

[@ELLOBOking-ro6hs]

Yes ,you are right ,as a Brazilian i'd like to have a chance to go to a better place with good situation ,i assume this is her idea as well.

[@lauren4078]

Isn't there a funny movie where there's a guy in a wheelchair and he blames the wheelchair for girls not wanting him?? Is it Scary Movie?? "It’s the chair, Isn't it?" Reminds me so much of Brian. 😂😂

[@jacobtravis1270]

dawg this dude blames so much on his chair

[@Grannysbaby81]

1:11 wait until her parents watch the show!!! Oooweee hahahahaah

[@briahthompson]

What is it with 90 day fiancée and sex addiction each season there is a woman or man who can’t take no for an answer like it’s so uncomfortable and actually very hard to watch

[@emilyndu338]

Brian got people to bow to him with money, then manipulated them with his disability. He insisted to meet her parents when she said its not a good idea. Now, he doesn't know what to do with people he can't manipulate other than crying the victim

[@kathyw1710]

Brian is weird mom is right. Why does he keep going to Brazil? Is it because he knows many woman want to come to the United States?

[@ELLOBOking-ro6hs]

I guess so

[@dav0n]

Brian- Little Author didn’t like the toy I bought him. Idk if it’s my wheelchair?

[@gram1976]

He probably said this to the last parents of the woman he is married to in Brazil

[@NatalieRabuzin]

Guaranteed...and he meant it as much last time like the current one😂😂😂😂😂😂......

[@PeliQuaker]

The mom looks so much younger than Brian

[@NatalieRabuzin]

No...

[@lesmokealotesquair8288]

My wife realized that she referred to Brian as tio in Spanish that's uncle...so she's telling her son that's her uncle like what?? Haven't notice anyone say anything about that one...

[@_LadyOfCrowns_]

In Brazil we often call people tio/tia as a term of endearment even if they’re not related to us. Children also call people like that as a more casual way of saying sir/ma’am and they can’t remember that adult’s name. I think I called my teachers tio/tia until about 4th grade lol (And it’s Portuguese in this case)

[@jonathanjcp]

For those who don't know, that's a high level typical Brazilian mother. You can't imagine the power level required to be a mother here.

[@danferraro3598]

Ingrid is a baddie. She deserves better.

[@SilkStockings949]

I would not want my daughter with this man period.

[@charlotteburroughs7394]

I love how early I am great recap 🙌🏾

[@NatalieRabuzin]

Naw...she doesn't detest him...SHE JUST WANTS HIM NO WHERE NEAR HER DAUGHTER...

[@realhousewifeoftransylvania1.0]

You shouldn't ASSUME the parents "don't like him" because of the wheelchair. That would be ridiculous. Maybe they just think it's a struggle for the daughter and she's already a single mom and its just going to make life MORE of a struggle for her and as parents that is totally understandable. You have no idea and shouldnt just say if they dont like him because of that its unacceptable. Thats a ridiculous assumption.

[@pippipankau]

You can dislike somebody for whatever reason you want. Period.

[@swedishpiggi]

Finaly "Blueball Brian" got a reality check.

[@lenakalou1750]

Ingrid’s mum wants the best for her daughter

[@angellight9500]

how could he possibly think her parents would want him to be their daughter's husband? He's way older than she is. He's been put in a wheelchair as a result of a drug deal gone bad. He's had multiple marriages and is still married to his last wife because he's being difficult about the divorce. Wouldn't we all just love him to be our son in law?

[@DorisBrandl]

Ich feier die Mutter 🎉

[@NatalieRabuzin]

Thankfully she got his number quickly 😮😮😮😮😮😮.....

[@AngelSantana-xd6yq]

Ingrid shouldn't have to look after another kid! She deserves better!

[@ziziflor9019]

Her mom has good instincts. This guy has such a huge ego and sense of entitlement.

[@StephieD42]

Has nothing to do w his wheelchair no one care but him. He’s her husbands age that’s weird

[@HyogaX9]

the question is did ingrid's mom take the bag? if she did then she is as shitty person. any person with integrity wouldn't take a gift from someone they don't like.

[@girlwiththetattoo11]

The thing is, Ingrid KNOWS that Brian is a charmer and even if she’s “giving him a chance”, she definitely is necessarily cautious.

[@debbieangel9376]

Ingrid wants greener pastures for her and her kids, can't really blame her

[@jovannacedeno8178]

Mom knows best 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@YaLittleFriend]

Bruh just leave. When moms don’t like you as a man….and she’s close with that daughter……you’re pretty much done. 😅

[@animationalliance8550]

0:10 - 0:14 i'm going to hell for laughing at his thigh flapping in the wind like a dank fart 🤣 that had my rolling and got tea coming out my nose so fast. yep yep I'm going to hell for that giggle fest

[@leonb3138]

#Fish hands Brian 😂😂

[@elexcyuskramble6681]

They dont like him because of his age. Hes the same age as her dad.... how u feel if ur child comes to u amd tells u their dating someone ur exact age....

[@yendaaaa]

i think its a mix of age, the wheelchair, the online dating, hes american….chile😂 its a lot. I get it.

[@elexcyuskramble6681]

@yendaaaa yes for sure, and the gross vibe he gives off

[@MarvinaBigby]

I don't care for Brian I wouldn't want him.around my daughter either

[@TaterTots380]

"Present or hug first?" - She should have rolled him through the front door and locked it.

[@Grannysbaby81]

Hahahah

[@tucoachemma]

Even though none of us liked Brian’s behavior with this girl so far, his mother could have used that lunch to give him a chance and actually talk to him. I had a similar experience years ago. My partner at the time insisted we go meet his parents in the Netherlands and stay at their house. His mother was awful to me-she ignored me, didn’t speak to me, and made me feel unwelcome from day one without ever giving me a chance. Later, I found out she blamed me for her son’s breakup with his ex, even though I had nothing to do with it. She also didn’t like that I was divorced and had children. It was really painful and unfair for me

[@Nadiesalevivo]

To me the mom looks disrespectful and mean herself.

[@CiaobellaAmour]

I think the bottom line is that she's just not into Brian like that @ all & saw this as an "opportunity" as well as resources 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@vivan-q7k]

This guy is one of a kind self-centered, and wired. 🤮 It's all about his needs and his too quick to meet up with her parents.

[@MA1.5]

Why would her parents be chomping at the bit to meet some entitled American passport bro who is the same age as theirs?

[@difrancomaria]

Ele acha que ela é uma qualquer , quando ele viu que ela tem familia e os truques dele não funcionaram com a senhora.