Interview with Love Guru Stephan Labossiere

[@RobBKowalski]

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[@junesimba]

Stephan this man is so at peace and self-assured/secure that you can see men who don’t know who they really are deep down & their insecurities squirm in their seat - and try to fake cool & collectedness. His strength is so authentic

[@emiliam3342]

Great interview again. I can not get enough of interviews with Stephan.

[@Abundance26]

Don't matter whether you're single or not, married or not Stephan, you're always dropping some gems and you have some great insights. I've had many AHA moments throughout this video, thanks! Great questions Rob.

[@nikkileeburrell1541]

Had the opportunity to see him in Pittsburgh,PA, He is blessed and humble . alot of truth in his words and alot to reflect n and choose what is best for you.

[@victoriousayesha825]

Stephan has A Beautiful Smile, It inspires mine.💝

[@EbonyCOliver]

I love when interviewers ask questions to get the guest to open up differently than in any other interview. #greatjob

[@RobBKowalski]

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[@tavonsanders8298]

Excellent! Gentlemen!

[@RobBKowalski]

Thank you kindly!

[@normabarros3124]

This is so awesome all three of you are bringing truth to the circle. It's hard to hear you guy's, your mic is a low. ....God bless

[@twinny12009]

Shame about the sound quality. Thanks for the vid.

[@MrDomonique3]

Great interview! It's was good to hear things from a practical, male, godly perspective. In the future you might want to have more than one mic. It was difficulty to hear.

[@trafficcontrol2420]

Stephan is undeniable.

[@Coolct]

This was great and I’m proud to say I’d love to have a man like Stephan I want a good man that treats me nice all the time with swag my parents made sure I didn’t get damaged lol . 🙏🏾

[@victoriousayesha825]

A man's heart can plan his way, but The Lord directs his steps. Proverbs 16:9

[@tamarawelch2712]

You Men are refreshing!

[@DianaArletPadilla]

I found it interesting how this conversation carried on. I value the perspective on where attraction starts, I did notice that it was said often that for men attraction is physical. I do see that yes Worldy relationships currently do make it a priority to be first Physical, but in order for us to transform that inadequate way of connecting and being In a loving committed relationship one must be willing to seek internally, be broken and molded by God as who we really are and have been created to be. In my experience I don't relate to what Stephan mentioned that women lower their expectations, they date not so attractive, they might even lower their standards in regards to who they are with (correct me if I am paraphrasing incorrectly). Not all women buy into this way of being or seeking a relationship. Some men do not know how to be with a confident, intelligent, loving women who her attractiveness is beyond physical it is a reflection of her essence and her knowing who she is and who God has created her to be. Most men feel intimidated by women modest yet powerful. We are really trying to swim in the ocean where men/women are still acting like sharks seeking a prey. We really need to create an environment of evolution, where they need to change the chase and stand tall as women/men and live up to the Divine purpose for which we have been created for... We have been created for love. If we start taking all who seek a relationship and fellowship and guided their approach towards love. One must seek to know ourselves first, this will create a breakthrough in each one of us. We have to be willing to strip down all the ideals the world has told us and start the vulnerability of being first with ourselves the one in the mirror. Then only then can we be love for others. I can speak from experience that by God's grace I have been able to know who I am in the eye of true love, that is God's love. I have been courted by good men, Worldy successful, but when I would be up front with my values and that only married I would be with them (intimately). The intent of dating would die down fast. Most men do not know how to be in a relationship like this. Most men think it's ok to say well she's marriage material so I'll have my fun elsewhere and when I'm ready to settle down I'll look for a woman that is meek and modest and waiting until marriage. Yet some men/women don't even try to live a courtship where sex and physical interaction don't happen, be it they are afraid, don't know how to carry a relationship like this, or simply fear being vulnerable and get bored in uncharted territory. This is what really should be addressed and where I find many are being stuck and navigate through life either not preparing themselves like you men have, by changing your lives and waiting, healing and restoring the dignity of life and love. The mindset of what is attractive has to change, it is not by physical Attraction that love is found but by surrendering our desires to what it should look like and allowing our soul to seek from within others. Gentlemen I am blessed to be single, to have known since I can remember my self worth and to expect from any man high standards of respecting who I am and the values that I live by, I teach youth and young adults this, and see that men of honor need to foster relationship with other men and transform the whole idea of attraction and beauty. We all really need to start treating one another as who we are... For we are a soul, a spirit living in a body a human experience in which our journey takes us to seek a Divine destiny. Not that we are our bodies living a human experience. For our body is of flesh and bone that will one day die yet our soul, our spirit has eternal life. I will be praying for you men, and for the projects God has for you all. Loved that Stephan said the truth in regards to his plans five years from now, they really are God's plans. Thank you Rob for creating this platform. It has been a unique Godcident (coincident God created) coming across your KZbin channel. Hope you all many blessings. I do hope in the future some of your videos do have a round table with woman and men on these topics. God be with you guys. For all who know God know; that true love is in laying down ones life for the sake of a friend. It does restore faith in humanity to see men like you guys seeking truth in love and sharing it with others.

[@amakaedde]

wonderful piece

[@sapphiremay4694]

such a brilliant interview, but i do wonder you put so much into this, and the sound is so crap at the same time..? any way, great informative info as always from the awesome Stephan Speaks!

[@Suz562]

I agree that the vast majority of people are broken. When you are a quality man or woman and especially a godly man or woman it is difficult to find a godly, higher quality relationship partner. I see that men are doing what he says women are doing. Men will disappear when you think everything is good. I do agree that most women date down because most men out there are just average. Most better looking men are mean and fake to women. Same with women. The better looking ones are mean and fake. Online dating is horrible. The men are mean, sexually motivated, and low quality. Men don't smile and most profiles are fake. Too many not serious people who just want sex or boost their ego. I agree with Rob. Most men are online looking for hook ups and most women want a committed relationship. We both are not finding what we want online.

[@teannaabraham9090]

Wonderful analysis. Thank you.

[@jessiwise9908]

Loved this but it was really hard to hear. Thank you guys for leading by example a

[@jessiwise9908]

I enjoyed listening, the sound was low so it was hard to hear, the content was not hard to listen to though! So good. Make sense?

[@Nonyabizz690]

Yes! Connection I love it. So true

[@j.i.l2167]

Good video interesting 👍 to see men sharing their point of view. Sound very low.

[@RobBKowalski]

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[@tamarawelch2712]

Level up,Girls!

[@victoriousayesha825]

Many folk who appear to be, and exposes themselves as high maintenance, turn out to be high gloss and cheap material. They want a guy to do things that 1, they aren't willing to do themselves; and 2, they won't do for themselves that of which they ask for from guys. Me personally, I'm a High Standard of Being A 1 Kind Of Woman/Queen of God's Kingdom. I love on sale items, and hate disorder. I truly enjoy Gleaning from his heart/Passion.

[@KM-fe2cq]

Rob!!! Y’all did such a fantastic job...you asked really great questions!! Can you Hook me up with this Fine Guy😌😇

[@RobBKowalski]

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[@goricaatanasova8183]

the sound sucks!

[@tamarawelch2712]

You make a woman crave to be a woman

[@evearcana2392]

A close up microphone would have been smart

[@Nonyabizz690]

Same when I came to except Jesus in my life. When I hit my brake I was looking for him myself

[@ladylyga]

Awesome interview. If a may give you guys a tip is to invest in those small mikes that you clip on someone's clothing, because certain moments i couldn't really hear what was being said. Keep shining!!!

[@victoriousayesha825]

Wow.... I basically said these Spiritual things in my video done today...

[@RobBKowalski]

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[@victoriousayesha825]

Rob B Kowalski, I sent the request

[@treg6848]

Thanks for sharing . If a guy doesn't have any pics smiling. I don't feel comfortable talking to him. Many men look so mean on their profile's.

[@AsTheSunRises]

Yes, they can come across aa mean, uptight or creepy when they are not smiling in any of their pics.

[@myasfirejourney2045]

Yooooo #stephanspeaks is lit!!! I have never had so many aha moments like I’m havin now! I agree wit everything this man is sayin it’s just facts yo he is very wise I love it! I had to apologize to my man cuz I realized I had been sabotaging our relationship without even knowin it. Man I’m so thankful that’s these videos have crossed my timeline. Blessings to u king

[@christenandebrown]

In all the videos I’ve seen so far, no one has pronounced his name correctly on the first go yet!

[@RobBKowalski]

Lol it's a hard one

[@sh-rt5dq]

I am sitting here listening to King Stephan talk about its so much harder when you are a balanced,healthy,and driven Person. That is my struggle everyday I get so many men who will literally watch me in a store,restuarant,clothing store,boutiques,car wash,football game,etc.. They will look at me,stare,and flirt but they will not say anything to me even when I say Hello. They will say hello and have the right words and approaches,give me the compliments etc.. and not finish the approach with asking for a date. So I ABSOLUTELY know that to be true,I have literally every ex always trying to come back I dont care if its 3 monthe,year,2 years even 20 years later saying I just couldn't accept the GENUINELY, AUTHENTIC Love you give. AND IT USE TO LITERALLY DRIVE ME CRAZY until abt 12 yrs ago when GOD made it all clear to me that THAT'S HIS DIVINE PROTECTION AND HE HAS NOT FORGOTTEN ABOUT ME EVEN NOW. I have found such richness in who GOD is,and have such a intimate and real relationship with GOD since. I am in such a content place with my singleness and ITS SUCH A AMAZING PLACE TO BE I LOVE IT HERE. I am a WOMAN WHO KNOWS WHOSE SHE IS AND WHO SHE IS,so I just position myself to be choosen is my job its his job to find,and seek. We are so COMPATIBLE Mr.Labossiere and do so much of the same work and assignment I would love to have you on a panel discussion with me in 2019 my email is [e-mail]. i look forward to hearing from you or your team sooner than later.

[@avlivinggolden]

He lost me at 21:00. Good question asking him where do you see yourself in 5 year.

[@carmendevotta6967]

What if he loses connection....? Does that mean it's the end.....?

[@timmieliew2450]

The point about a hot / an attractive woman dating a “no.2 guy” or less desirable so to speak because it’s easier - I’d say it applies to men too. I observe that men has the proclivity to do the same.

[@opient23]

Everything he says sounds good on paper and makes logical sense, but he is not married or in a relationship, so how do we trust his information.

[@Coolct]

fabmygoodness I’d say try it and what he says is not harmful if it gets you closer to being married 🤙🏾

[@ProfessorCDO]

I mean does him not being in a relationship not make this valid ? He has the outsiders standpoint and I’m sure he had history with women

[@GoldenGraham25]

To be honest, he's speaking wisdom that is applicable to many life situations across the board. Wisdom comes from God.

[@vaniathomas8859]

I had a guy at my house I was intimate with often. While we were watching a movie he would take his phone out and go on tinder and swipe left or right. Talk about emotionally unavailable bastards.

[@vaniathomas8859]

What about the guys that become uninterested before sex. But when they met you they were so interested then .

[@tracywebb8346]

let it go..cause if there is NO CONNECTION, mentally or emotionally. it's a waste of time..time is something that is too precious to just give away

[@vaniathomas8859]

@@tracywebb8346 I agree completely

[@authenticityisrare7144]

You guys seem so distracted in your interviews lol it’s weird

[@jataefarrar-royal1237]

Saying No Homo is NEVER appropriate..... it’s rather homophobic 🙂

[@chassidywilkerson7064]

I definetly dont want a BOAZ, he was Ruths Uncle by marriage her Dead Husbands Uncle, Naomi brother ill pass on that. And he was twice her age,and died not to long after he got her off the market. I dont want anyone related to me on any side ijs.

[@WoahSoSa]

Chassidy Wilkerson It’s not literal it’s about the theme of the story not the specific details such as that ... Use discernment

[@GoldenGraham25]

@@WoahSoSa 👏

[@jeanhennessy8606]

Although I am Extremely Grateful to see any man come to a Good place and Honor God. It is without fail, that the truth is that all these men were men ho's in the past. What about all the women you damaged throughout many years of using women? Please start to Teach young men to Not do this. It is devastating to society as a whole. Please stop reinforcing that men are "visual"....it keeps reinforcing the Wrong message about women. What do you think women are Blind??? No, we just know that looks are not what Makes a person. That takes intelligence to understand. I see how the world has gotten progressively worse in the dating arena. It is so very sad and depressing. Women take control and Educate themselves. We have to start Educating men from a young age (or at Any age) somehow. So few people have examples of Great Relationships at home. Please find a clever way to start drawing men of any age into the Learning process. I think All women would Greatly Appreciate that! THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU!