Sage Dolan-Sandrino speaks with Chella Man and Aaron Rose Philip about dating in the trans community

[@remnotrem9962]

I'm seriously in love with these conversations

[@dc-hx5kh]

only 556 views...only 3 comments. I feel early but I'm not, I'm posting this comment on the 1st of September. strange how this video didn't get much attention bc this is an important topic.

[@franknstein5376]

I agree, these conversations are so important. It would be amazing if they had more visibility

[@-streaminadream-5356]

this just goes back to q ueer freindships being everything

[@marsandrade1120]

I really need more queer friends most people in my life are just taking room because they don’t really see me…

[@piusnomen233]

This honestly heartbreaking. It’s sad the world we live in praying for my disabled trans women sister that the right person falls into her laps

[@chikambiliidaboh6029]

Love Love Love Love it😍😍😍

[@jooemm-pc9ev]

What happen between you and mary v 😭😭

[@xbeauxyeux]

I love Chella

[@theanikakyngshow]

Everything, thank you ❣️.

[@sensign998]

I effin love you

[@goodluckwiththatonelol]

Chella Man was actually really cute as a female, but I can understand why she may have felt uncomfortable in her skin - while I found her sharp jawline appealing, she may have felt that it was too masculine, which in turn encouraged her transition. Generally what I've noticed is these women that transition were not comfortable in their original skin because they didn't feel feminine enough. Thus, they feel confused and end up transitioning. An example is pinkmantaray, who while attractive as a female, was a bit taller than average woman and very athletic with broader shoulders - still very pretty, but I can understand why she felt uncomfortable. You rarely see very prototypically feminine women transitioning. The sad part is that whereas 20 years ago these women may have eventually found themselves and became comfortable with their bodies, now they have the option to simply transition. It's too sad really. When I have a daughter I will make sure she know she is beautiful and feminine no matter what she does or looks like. Likewise I will tell my son that masculinity comes in many flavors and you don't need to look or act like Arnold Schwarzenegger to be a man - with that knowledge I would hope they accept how they are and fight any urge to transition, because again, that is simply a cop out move.

[@mylittleflower7037]

😭 WTF is this garbage lmfaooo

[@Pleunpleun]

From this comment I read you don't understand the trans experience at all. Things you do not personally feel can exist in other people. You are making the lives of others harder and hurting people by misgendering them. Do not let your lack of understanding lead to cruelty.

[@ShockResistor]

People being trans is not new. Look at history.

[@ShockResistor]

About 20 yrs ago people who were trans dealt with it alone and offed themselves.

[@Youutterwasteof]

Chella is not a woman pls stop calling them one 😬😬