SHE WALKED OUT ON A DATE BECAUSE HE HAD KIDS | Kelly Stamps

[@KellyStamps]

HULLO

[@maxxamo_tnt]

Did you Dumped a loser, great story!

[@leezykush3357]

guess Aladdin should have saved a wise

[@carmel2029]

How you doin?

[@wintersoule]

the principal of stampede university is here.

[@bonjourtristesse9433]

@@wintersoule The Dean...The Queen!!!

[@gravecode]

If a person says they don’t want kids they most definitely ain’t trying to deal with someone else’s kids.

[@lavenderdc3637]

Exactly! How would that even make sense?

[@coldchillin8382]

Bruh

[@ChadDidNothingWrong]

But maybe they'll change their mind before the date's over. Lol

[@plutotech]

@@ChadDidNothingWrong 3 kids? Naw yo that aint happening. Unless he is brad Pitt on Idris Elba on somebody..

[@icedmocha5264]

@@ChadDidNothingWrong nah. Your kid ain't that special.

[@jasonhenderson3678]

She was just being straight up. That's how woman should be. Good on her!!!

[@Dtzeo503]

Yeah i appreciate that about her!

[@joni1405]

I agree

[@jormungandr4690]

I hope she is not the type of woman , who would shit on a guy for doing the same thing though

[@jahseh8194]

Exactly, i can't be mad at her because it's within her rights, she's entitled to have her preferences

[@phanphan2251]

She has a good chanel, and very funny

[@anthonysantilo928]

I don't date women with children so I'm not going to blame women who don't date men with children

[@FrauMase]

Smart man!

[@lloydndhlovu7985]

You're a King

[@altumurnemtzra2026]

@@lloydndhlovu7985 can we stop with the king thing? it's cringy af

[@lloydndhlovu7985]

@@altumurnemtzra2026 Cringy for you I guess so...Okay?

[@mightygod8295]

@@lloydndhlovu7985 that shit is corny

[@PrettyINCs]

Most child free people don’t want to be bothered with single parents. If you lie about it, you deserve to get left.

[@mallyb132]

If it was their first meet/date, I don’t think that’s considered a lie. They’re actually getting to know each other. Now if it’s after several dates or months, that’s a different story.

[@aislinlindsay3950]

@@mallyb132 kids aren’t a small thing, should’ve told her when they were texting

[@MelaniaRose]

@@mallyb132 Children are a huge deal breaker to some people. Don’t waste someone’s time even before a first date and lie about having kids.

[@Jigpikchu]

@@mallyb132 um it is a lie because he did not disclose on his dating profile that he had kids. doing so is a must because kids are a deal breaker for many people.

[@mallyb132]

@@Jigpikchu maybe. Is not disclosing everything about your life on the first date also a lie?

[@TamLis]

So basically, she rejected him because he was lying about having kids. First he don't tell, then he says, hey I got one kid... and then all the sudden he has three kids? He is in a date for like five seconds and is being dishonest already? Does not sound promising for the future.

[@ChadDidNothingWrong]

Icky

[@coffeepandacat]

Gross seriously. People are so messy

[@MelaniaRose]

He shouldn’t have been targeting a young childfree woman and he would have avoided this mess. He needs to date women with 3 kids also.

[@yaz2928]

I agree with this, too bad people only say this when men pull this shit, but if a woman asks you to pay for her kids she brought on the date and you say no then you're a villain. Especially considering women do this far more often with single moms hiding this bit to boost their chances.

[@astrogirl2675]

@Masada Ta'nisi preach!!

[@richardbaker308]

The only reason I won't date someone with a kid. I dated someone with a 7 year old and got really attached. The kid loved me. Turned out I was pretty good with kids. Something new to me. And I looked forward to being a dad. The mother ended things. I don't want to go through that again.

[@incogcheeto9322]

That's why you don't date single moms.

[@tasneemahmed5821]

Or single dads. If you want to generalize might as well include everyone

[@leticusleviticus8514]

Yeah. You leave the single moms for the single dad's out there. 😂

[@jollygoodgordon5580]

@@tasneemahmed5821 lol *FEMINAZI ALER*

[@jollygoodgordon5580]

LoL single moms and single dads should only date other single moms and dads.

[@jessa9877]

If men are allowed not to want to date women with children, so can women. To each their own.

[@roxxydesign4424]

But the difference is society tells men they should date women with a kid for some reason. Like a chick literally said a good man takes care of another man's child in a bunch of chicks agreed and liked the comment how I've even seen videos on why you should date single mothers so what do you said basically doesn't hold as much weight because women are expected not to date dude with kids

[@jessa9877]

@@roxxydesign4424 Really? It's not because you've seen some video where ppl say that, that it is what society thinks. To each their own. Men and women are both allowed not to want to date ppl who already have children. Simple as that.

[@roxxydesign4424]

@@jessa9877 no no no your STATEMENT does not hold that much weight. Its like me saying oh well women can flake well us men can flake too but most dudes dont get that much play from women for them to o it anyway

[@jessa9877]

@@roxxydesign4424 From your comments I see you're a salty guy. Not having enough game for your taste are you? Got burned by some woman? Nobody expects anyone to take care of other ppl children if they don't want too. That's it, simple. And don't put too much weight on what other ppl say/ think. Dating is all about what you prefer and are ready to deal with. Dealing with someone's else children and baby mama or daddy sure isn't it for a lot of ppl, especially if you don't want children of your own.

[@roxxydesign4424]

@@jessa9877 okay let me just say it blunt. Male and female are different in dating okay what I was trying to say was that if when I do something its not equal if you do the same. also you dont know anything about so please dont make generalizing assumption . Just because we have views does not mean we need to get personal.

[@samanthacovington6556]

It’s literally common sense, if someone says they “don’t want kids”- they don’t want to deal with _your_ kids, and they don’t want to have kids at the moment either.

[@autumnsmith9091]

I don't understand why this is a hard concept to understand.

[@NEWYORKBYLIZ]

Exactly, completely understood your point, it’s good to find people to understand woman like us, some people even do not want kids neither. Respect for those who knows what they really want for their life, there are no many like us. ✊

[@ms.bubs4fun506]

I put "don't want kids" for myself on my old dating app but I was open-minded in dating men with kids. I think there is/or should be an option of "don't want to date a person with kids" on dating apps. Anyway, most men do not read our profiles. They just look at the pics. lol

[@Leprutz]

I might argue and say not true. I for one do not want kids. But I have no problem meeting women with kids. The thing is I do not want to have kids on my own. For now.

[@Leprutz]

@@ms.bubs4fun506 I very agree with you. I am very much word driven so "I don't want kids" for me mean I do not want to have kids on my own. Not that I do not want kids at all in my life.

[@FeedMeJuice]

If it says “DONT WANT KIDS” that means no kids, I don’t want my kids, your kids, adopted kids... nothing. Lmbo and he knew that!

[@traestarz1]

LMAO FACTS

[@ellestylesz]

Yep! No kids period! 😂

[@MelaniaRose]

Single dads always do that to younger women

[@creativityunblocked6816]

🤣🤣

[@MimosaSilk]

@@MelaniaRose They do that because they think they are going to guilt trip their way to free child care.

[@BLAZE45]

Dude lied about having kids too so yeah she was definitely justified in walking out of the date.

[@tellmetubby9910]

Exactly... he lied. He matched with her and other single women knowingly understanding that he has kids and that the women he would meet wouldn’t want that. I’ve had a guy do that to me before and say: “well I wanted to meet you first to see if I could trust you and then I would tell you.” And I looked at him and said: trust me w what???? I’m not taking care of your kids and you didn’t even tell me you had any-I’m good.

[@Sublime_37]

Exactly. Aba is so lame for always hating on women.🤦🏽‍♀️😂

[@GrantAMoody]

She is young and should be enjoying her life, no ties to any responsibilities that aren't her own. They are on different pages in life

[@07citychamp]

Hit a young single mom with that and see how well it goes lol

[@Father_Son_Gaming]

Now, i want you to change the context to young man with no kids and women with 3-5 kids tryna get at him......i can't stand double standards

[@XxSwagGamersxX]

I’m 24 now I got with my gf with 2 kids her youngest being 3 months and now they are 2 years with me and i have no regrets, they push me to be a more responsible person and to go try hard in life to make sure I can provide and give them a good life

[@KshipsinKchups]

It's these weak men talking about double standards for me. Women experience double standard the most.. So stfu

[@sidniesantos8485]

@@KshipsinKchups i just died at this comment LOL!!!

[@mallaryfrierson4326]

She left him because he LIED about having kids.

[@CrystalM1917]

She also said she never would have met him had she known he has kids.

[@CrystalM1917]

@@mumtas4469 yes I agree 100%. I only said that bc the previous poster made it sound like the lying was the dealbreaker....no the fact he HAD kids period was the NON-starter altogether.

[@faebaby89]

I cut a guy loose for lying about his age

[@lavishlovergirl]

Lying and having kids simultaneously.

[@TVwriter23]

Well think if they got married and she later finds out not only about kids, but maybe even having one while dating or in a serious relationship or marriage. That has happened has as well

[@violetembers2532]

I respect her. She doesn’t want it. He’s being insincere by not disclosing.

[@brentgist9322]

And dishonest from saying “I have a kid”, to “well, I have 3 kids”

[@Jewel0612]

@ALX BO exactly

[@juliobrian4757]

@ALX BO That can work.

[@chosenfallen2024]

@ALX BO No woman with kids who date are terrible. They have this whole guilt thing about dating.

[@chosenfallen2024]

@ALX BO You may have seen plenty but there are legit communities of men who say different.

[@OliveVlog]

She’s young and doesn’t have to deal with it.

[@queentinadoire6931]

Rightly said.

[@yeahmhmmrightokaymhmmyeahsure]

Y'all realize they agree with her?

[@Mr_Originality]

@@mre1369 i understand. I got a kid and I still don't date single moms.

[@mareek2007]

@@Mr_Originality Wait, are you a single parent yourself??

[@Mr_Originality]

@@mareek2007 yep

[@samwallaceart288]

It’s weird that the guy was all embarrassed about it. Announce that shit upfront, have some pride.

[@jenniejanine1976]

Exactly. Not claiming kids is lame. Especially for those of us who'd love to have them but can't.😒

[@WildBison74]

Agreed! Those kids did not ask to be put on this earth.

[@ThebigGLRams]

@@jenniejanine1976 I'm sorry 😞. Your baby is on the way

[@MelaniaRose]

@Lexi 93 Single dads shouldn’t be targeting younger childless women seeing as they are not compatible. People are at different life stages , and their first priority is themselves and wanting to their own family unit.

[@CChissel]

@@MelaniaRose You never know, people all have different circumstances. I know people that started up a family right after high school and others that waited, it’s just about finding the right people, but I’m sure statistically less young women want kids than older women. Doesn’t change the fact he can go after who he wants as long as he doesn’t hide anything. You think older single moms shouldn’t go after younger childless guys too?

[@drranger4210]

I mean... he lied. he strategically lied in the hopes of being so irresistible that she would forget her boundaries.

[@sheepdog5799]

More than likely he was lying so he could hit it

[@melaninmoxiellc963]

Pretty much

[@bridgedawg20]

Its so weird when two channels you watch have a cross over episode in real life.

[@samiam5434]

I know! It was weird....I thought hey those are my boys! Hey that’s my girl Kelly!

[@missyjones7141]

Omg yes!

[@missSDW]

I’m new to these guys but A part of the stampede. I like it here🥲

[@bridgedawg20]

@@samiam5434 right! I was worried they were going to come for her😂

[@brittanyb5942]

Yes it's awkward 😂

[@cassandrastewart1391]

Here’s my issue with this. Even if a woman IS ok with dating a man with kids (I am), it would be a massive concern about him as a parent/as a person that he seemed almost ashamed to be honest about having those kids. She had to pull it out of him! What kind of parent isn’t willing to claim their children and be proud of them? I’m not saying he needs to show pics, give details about his kids on the first date that would be dangerous; I just think that a good parent should first and foremost be honest and proud to have their children. If someone doesn’t like it, then they’re not for you, but for this girl it’s a new level of unfair.

[@pavvey1605]

Exactly

[@trence5]

THIS.

[@lilip9814]

Yea it seems like his kid isn’t even his main priority which for me is a big red flag

[@theoverunderthinker]

you know that she is retelling the story, so it is through her POV. We know it wasn't on the profile, but the rest is her recollection. I am not saying that she was lying, just that anyone tells a story, they emphasize some aspects and mute others. This is to say the guy sitting next to them in the cafe might have told the story differently. The point of her story is that the guy hid information, and he likely did to some extent, but the actual exchange may not be a precise retelling.

[@travisspaulding2222]

I would probably assume that when he looked at her profile, he saw the "Don't want kids" part of it, but swiped anyways. His way of thinking was probably that if he could just charm her, maybe she will overlook it. I think this is the tip of the iceberg. When someone immediately shows a pattern of dishonesty, it can't be ignored. It's like Maya Angelou said. "When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time." I think she made the right call because she is young, seems smart, and has her whole life ahead of her. She might have wasted years on this dude just because he is good looking and charming.

[@Whatsgucci]

I wouldn’t be surprised if the guy was not even single and still with the mother of his children.

[@Marco-oe9rt]

Assumptions

[@NachoAE360]

Yep. Beeeeen there

[@osayilois4841]

I believe she said that he was only separated from his wife...

[@nootnootpengui8015]

This, sometimes a simple FB search or Instagram search can expose a lot. A lot of people need to background check other people. Saves you a lot of time.

[@ShanteRoxxane]

@@nootnootpengui8015 Yeah But there are private accounts and some names are common enough that you’d be searching forever.

[@diabolikgamer7929]

Ive dated a single dad and I have no kids and let me tell you.. most stressful, bm drama toxic relationship ever. DONT DO IT!

[@westcoastvibes1193]

So true! never again.

[@dimmn82]

Maybe you just picked the wrong guy. Not all single parents are the same. That's like saying all black people are the same. It isn't fair to prejudge someone.

[@westcoastvibes1193]

@@dimmn82 or a white person. Not all white people are the same

[@sharr630]

Been there done that. Never again.

[@diabolikgamer7929]

@@dimmn82 yh I know. But I prefer not take chances again . Not only did he cheat but he got her pregnant i know won’t ever feel secure one.

[@ZovaBe]

If I don’t want kids, that means I don’t want yours either.

[@obesecheeserat1738]

FACTSSSS

[@SummiIce]

There's no misunderstanding here. Her profile said she doesn't want kids, what would make the guy think she would tolerate his?

[@daneyd8401]

Straight up

[@DC...]

"I don't want kids" = " I don't want any kids" and/or " I do not want to ruin my body with kids however I accept someone else's kids." Poor use of language on both sides got them there. She should show more value in the diction. He should stop trying to hide behind the diction.

[@bournegod_kiy]

SAY IT AGAIN !!!

[@deathangel523]

Just like aldin, he did not tell Jasmine the truth lol.

[@treacherousjslither6920]

"Do you trust me?"

[@LoneStarWomanInACajunWorld]

Oh good point.

[@theezenriarinze9203]

Message!!!!!

[@erickfuentes7276]

Yeahhhhhh history repeats it self 😝😝😝😝😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@zendayasfruityfrenchfry1784]

Hahahahaha...I love how smart and funny this comment is

[@DaFranchise718]

She is not wrong, that's her preference. He wasn't even upfront about it from the start 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@misha745]

Agreed

[@nateclipps]

Right aba and preach were in the wrong

[@DaFranchise718]

@@nateclipps Huh? What are you talking about? They agreed with her

[@Majestic_Dark_Horse]

What if he screened her? What if he did not like things he heard or saw? (I have kids.) Classic screening strategy Bro'! Body language 101 ~Bachelor I Stand...No 2nd interview.

[@taylorstep1413]

@@Majestic_Dark_Horse bro you have kids you are not a bachelor

[@mcraft1181]

You see plenty of black men telling other men to avoid women with children. She did the right thing. She's taking men's advice. I told my grown daughter with no kids not to date a man with kids too.

[@sirrobertthe3rd392]

Yeah hope u have that same energy if she gets pregnant and her and the guy don't work out

[@mcraft1181]

@@sirrobertthe3rd392 she doesn't want kids

[@ShanteRoxxane]

@@sirrobertthe3rd392 Did you actually watch? She doesn’t even want kids. She’s always said she doesn’t want kids. People should have their preferences. I wouldn’t date anyone with kids either. If two people have kids, they can date each other.

[@kaiiir9312]

@@sirrobertthe3rd392 she don't want kids so that won't happened

[@ajl2232]

Facts! I was thinking the same. No man wants a woman with kids!

[@golden-bear]

I’m with Aba on that. “Don’t want kids” means I def don’t want my date to have kids too... period

[@mariahr8595]

I mean most dating sites aren’t full of people who care about the future they just want a hookup.

[@mjohnson510]

@@mariahr8595 I agree. People act like they're investing in someone's future when more than likely they'll find someone new a week, month, or months from now. It's rare for me to keep talking to someone after a month or 3 months. I've talked to women with kids and no kids. Why? Because these apps are for the moment.

[@alicjaalvena1120]

@@mjohnson510 no, these apps are NOT for the moment. many people find life partner on dating apps. they're not just for hookups, so stop being ignorant. just cause you look for shallow pleasures there, dont make this universal thing.

[@lalaalaaalaaaa]

Right? Like if I say “don’t want kids” as in I don’t want my own, why tf would I want yours? 😂

[@phenomenonnarutokun]

@@alicjaalvena1120 on Tinder? Please

[@doomstarhudnall6188]

I found out a guy I was dating for 3 months had 2 kids. Now when we meet I told him I don’t want kids nor do I deal with men with kids. I only found out by accident. I was so done.

[@jlkailua]

I’m sorry you had your time wasted. That sucks.

[@doomstarhudnall6188]

@Esmè Keaton thanks

[@abawiakin]

Similar thing happened to me.

[@ddandymann]

Even without the kids that level of dishonesty has to be a deal breaker. I'm sorry, I promise us dudes aren't all that bad.

[@michellerichardson3090]

Girl some of these men just lie for no reason. I asked a guy was he married or involved with any women in any way, dating, living with, married, separated, sexual relationship, fwb and he said no. Found out the next day he had a wife.

[@jadanthings]

I'm so glad Kelly is getting the recognition she deserves, SHE'S HILARIOUS.

[@adelb7897]

I wouldn't say she's funny but she is an interesting person nonetheless.

[@225Qc]

I like Kelly. Her dry humor is on point.😁

[@deligreen5811]

@@adelb7897 it’s dry humour. It’s funny because it’s kind of not funny

[@KyleDimetri]

I don’t blame her. I can’t be with a woman who has kids either. No matter how beautiful she is, It’s still a no for me

[@sodagamer8711]

Agreed

[@leahwatkins7025]

That's fair and completely understandable. (And I'm someone who has two beautiful boys.) Better to be honest and upfront from both ends then there are no surprises.

[@stoneychi8648]

🤦🏾‍♀️that's the problem u going for looks when you need to be making sure she is mentally and spiritually GOOD ....KIDS OR NO KIDS

[@ggslife5482]

@@stoneychi8648 everybody has their own preference. Let's be honest, majority seek for beauty and stay for the personality

[@Mae-gl3mk]

@@stoneychi8648 What happens if the kids get attached but they break up? That will hurt the kids more.

[@dragonbane001]

preach literally laughs so hard he loses his balance and falls. It's so beautiful.

[@merailmimi4754]

Remember... Its his job

[@bermsjerms]

Peep the teeth drip! Splash 😁💦

[@Phantom73949]

@The Storm I guess you can say he be trippin

[@constantnipples2428]

His laugh gives me life

[@canofsoda]

@@merailmimi4754 whats its his? his is?

[@dansdojodevotional2419]

Single father here. She is absolutely right.

[@iamlokittyofmeowsgard2934]

When I met my husband and he said he had a teenager my first thought was to run. Not because he was a single dad, I had a 4 year old at the time, but because he had a teenager and I didn't know that I wanted to go from toddler to teenager that quick. But I gave it a chance and we have been together 12 years and married over 8, and still very happy.

[@ashsteepingtea]

@Benj6i lol okay redpiller

[@kevinsmithgaming]

@@iamlokittyofmeowsgard2934 there's a difference here though, you both had kids. So both of you already have experience with the lifestyle. In this case, it's a little more different because you're involving someone who doesn't have or WANT kids. Hope that makes sense..

[@Destinnies]

@Benj6i You saying that doesn't defeat the point of two people being personal. It was between them, if he had the kids... he should say. Wtf you talking about "can't expect that honest from a woman" it's not about their perspective rn

[@rutgerhauser2377]

@@iamlokittyofmeowsgard2934 I think a single mother's most compatible match is with single fathers. He has experience raising a kid, and you can get an idea of what to expect for your own kid's future.

[@Rainjojo]

She’s literally 23 and so intelligent to have her own standards. People who think they can take advantage of the youth and weigh their responsibilities on us should be with people who share their same responsibilities or someone who truly wants to have children. Why target those who are child-free and value that 🤨

[@Nonyah123]

She's almost 25 in 3 days :)

[@synnakae04]

@@Nonyah123, 25 is still young..

[@PyrokineticFire1]

he probably thinks those younger, child-less, women: have more time for him, are more physically attractive, and they still frequently sleep with him anyways. remember, he was hot enough that she chose HIM. he'll see what he can get away with, then move on to the next person, who doesn't know he's full of shit, yet. he's not stopping at 3 kids, he'll collect more baby-mamas if they let him.

[@woodside4life]

@@Nonyah123 25 is young.

[@Nonyah123]

@@woodside4life then I guess I'm a fetus. People really try to make 25 years old come across like 10? I would hope a grown 25 year old adult can do something as simple as "have standards"

[@wintersoule]

As someone who's been watching her for a while, Kelly and Aba seem similar.

[@mmm-ie5ws]

she clearly said in her videos she wants white men.

[@jordanleopold93]

@@mmm-ie5ws ⁉️ Aladdin is white?

[@rooboatdeer22yu51]

YASSSS

[@theezenriarinze9203]

@@mmm-ie5ws What does that have to do with anything that op stated lmaoooo

[@amanuel2135]

@@mmm-ie5ws jumping to conclusions I see.

[@prettymamita]

As someone who also doesn’t want a bf who has kids, I fully agree 100% that mentioning this before a date eases a lot of the awkwardness for everybody 😳

[@SilentHotdog28]

Yeah I don't want to be with a woman who has kids. I've seen first hand what can happen, my dad who had no kids got with my mum who had my 2 older brothers, my dad was dealing with that drama for years, things are good now though.

[@theilladvisedminor4915]

Thank you! Stop normalizing taking other people’s baggage if you don’t want to because they guilt you

[@LoveAndSnapple]

And some people have a LOT of baggage. They have childhood trauma, mental health problems, huge financial debt, the works. But they want people to accept their baggage and take it onto themselves. People never want to share baggage with someone who also has a load. They ALWAYS look for people with their “hands free.” It’s selfish.

[@MelaniaRose]

@Bee Hates You They do have those issues overseas. The difference is those other cultures are too proud to talk about them.

[@Realgenelive100]

@@LoveAndSnapple facts

[@ninarosewood3102]

Louder for the back

[@domotemujin7780]

@@LoveAndSnapple yeah but no 'baggage' compares to children. They don't get 'treated' or 'resolved' and go away. Not saying you don't have narcissists who want it easy, but cmon now. Mental health, childhood trauma or debt doesn't ever compare to children. Nothing is more expensive than children.

[@RukiaBlackBlazer]

*Single parents are for other single parents or folks who really want that family life.* Parenting is not for the weak. That is why I chose to not have any, no regrets thus far.

[@jada7323]

I want a family but I still do not want to nor will I ever date a man who already has kids. Men with kids are for women who have kids that’s it.

[@spaghettismith9528]

#fuckthemkids

[@BattleBladeWarrior]

@@spaghettismith9528 HAHAHA. Coincidentally, #fuckthemkids" sounds like the main hashtag of pedophile rings. :D

[@spaghettismith9528]

Lmao the fact that you thought about it in that way probably means you're a future one of those members

[@BattleBladeWarrior]

@@spaghettismith9528 Oh SHIT :D

[@dalodulo1373]

Yep definite red flag. I don't blame her for walking. I get his reasons, but I say this for the ladies side as well, if you got kids you have to be up front about it. Is it going to cut down the amount of people you meet? Sure, but its better for everyone in the long run. It saves you time, alot of heartache, and you are less likely to scar your child by proximity. I'm not saying its foolproof, but its a solid, and honest, approach.

[@2davivadiva]

The divorce rate is high af. So yes those with kids might be lower in the dating poop but they also literally got their own little pool of divorced ppl with kids

[@DC-bp8sx]

I do understand why women don’t always do it, pedophiles always look for single mothers.

[@StriderXan]

@@DC-bp8sx that’s a weak excuse though. If you don’t say you have kids because of paedophiles, then you can still avoid matching with people whose profiles say “no kids” or “don’t want kids”

[@HerbaMachina]

@@StriderXan yeah, it also assumes that all pedophiles are men (shocker they're not)

[@Becca6]

They think if they can build a connection quick enough, they can push you into dropping your dealbreaker for them. Hence all that bs of ohhh but this has been the best date ever and you're so great! People need to learn to accept boundaries and see themselves out, honestly.

[@thegamingkitchen8429]

If its cool for a dude to not want to date a baby momma then its cool for her not to. If youre single you don't need to deal with that shit.

[@Georgeorwell9260]

Added stress and wahala

[@crystalhodges1634]

More girls should be wise like Kelly

[@hazelbd8201]

Exactly.

[@robert8930]

@@crystalhodges1634 and more men. except women get absolutely mad and say men dont want to take responsibility when they say no to a baby momma. oh well.

[@PaniniWasteland]

@@robert8930 Stop projecting

[@MelissaLona]

I love me some Kelly Stamps. She's young with no kids, she do not need to be with anybody with kids.

[@genevawelch9865]

Yea I agree and I adore her

[@Parisroam]

Facts. Abort mission.return to sender.

[@Parisroam]

@@CategoricalImperative 7 years? The girl is like 20. In 7 years she’ll be even more beautiful and she’ll have the coin to back it up. No one wants a single dad. Sorry sir. Try women in their 40’s maybe, not us young sexy and fine women in our 20’s. You sound single

[@adelb7897]

@@Parisroam LOL which planet do u live on? Girls are the most attractive to men in their early 20s so technically she'll be less attractive in 7 years. You sound hella insecure trying make yourself seem better than the other commenter. Whatever helps u sleep at night though.

[@amourdivin3327]

@@adelb7897 Not true. Men do not necessarily prefer women in their early 20's. They prefer women that are beautiful. If a man have to choose betwin an average 22 years old and a high beauty 29 yo, he will choose the 29 year old. Cause men are first receptive of appealing physical beauty. That is why majority of men will take Kim Kardashian over Kylie Jenner. That is not for nothing she is the most in demand bachelorette right now.

[@yamairad1]

I completely agree with her. I'm well 10 years over her. I married a guy with kids. But, his profile showed pictures of both of them. He spoke about them since the first phone call and I found his honesty and love for them attractive. Clearly, she's in another place in life and she deserves honesty.

[@georgianash6635]

It’s attractive when someone’s is open and unapologetically themselves & also not hiding the fact they have kids because jet love them and are not ashamed but instead proud.Can turn a negative into a positive sometimes.

[@tanatswataruvinga]

The guy in the yellow sweater was right. If someone says that you don’t want kids they also don’t want your kids

[@genlaz1]

Na. Some ppl petty like that. Will say they don't wanna deal with your kids and have several themselves.

[@tanatswataruvinga]

@@genlaz1 I meant it like when a person without kids doesn’t want kids

[@genlaz1]

@@tanatswataruvinga I know. But ppl with kids already say the same thing. It doesn't make sense from a logical standpoint but from a selfish one it does. I have kids. Won't judge someone else that has kids too. But I can understand a person without kids not wanting to deal with someone else's. But.. kids do grow up eventually. Is the person still considered to have kids after they're grown and gone?

[@yolandapaulino5952]

@@tanatswataruvinga some people could genuinely not want to reproduce themselves but aren’t against adopting. So I think def ask what it could mean if you want it to be long term. Short term kids shouldn’t matter

[@c11xitlaly]

@@genlaz1 uuuf thats true ! A lot of single dads are always looking for childess women 😬😬

[@LoneStarWomanInACajunWorld]

Weird when he was writing her them paragraphs he never mentioned his kids.

[@kikinatrone]

Ikr

[@DrBitchcraft.]

It’s a massive red flag that a person can talk a lot about themselves but not disclose that info

[@niles1492]

it's not surprising the guy was desperate

[@FiDonkor]

No. He was talking/texting and asking and answering questions. She is the one who said they should cut it and rather meet in person. He would have told her. Do you think he would have told her on that first date if he had wanted to be deceptive? No

[@DrBitchcraft.]

@@FiDonkor wait what? He was definitely deceptive, the girl had "does not want kids" in her bio and in dating world thats a no brainer that maybe you should disclose you have kids and make sure the other person understands. Secondly, he then proceeds later to say he has A KID and then drops the biggest bomb that no actually he has THREE KIDS. If one has any basic thinking skills, if the date has in their bio that they do not want kids, it usually means they dont want your kids either.

[@dreamstar3293]

She doesn’t want that baggage. Good on her

[@QueenOptimist]

Point on 👌🏾

[@rubencastro2247]

So when men say to other men, do not date single mothers. Females should not get all worked up and start ww3 on comments. Lol

[@thatsoundsaboutright7483]

@@rubencastro2247 what's understood doesn't need to be explained.

[@mmc1086]

Being child free is a choice it’s absolutely fine to make. Not wanting kids is fine. But children are a gift. Not ‘baggage’.

[@dreamstar3293]

@@mmc1086 yeah kids are baggage in my opinion and since I made the comment it’s absolutely correct. Maybe you can make your own comment and have your own opinion. 😉

[@tuttbucket]

I'm 78 years old I'm a white woman you guys are hilarious I enjoy your channel so much, I love how you bounce off of each other, Have a nice life both of you

[@a.g.g9995]

I’m with Kelly 100% on this ! He should’ve been honest about that .

[@JanelleNilesComedy]

She was like " I aint gonna be your next baby momma, you clearly don't wrap your shit up"

[@Ms.AshleyHoney]

FACTS💯💯

[@IkesPimpHand]

I wonder if the same thing would be said by you if the genders were reversed

[@purplebanana6420]

@@IkesPimpHand girls dont have anything to wrap

[@JanelleNilesComedy]

@@IkesPimpHand ya it's "Bitch, you said you was on the pill"

[@frummel403]

Seriously I'm with Kelly on this one. For me, I don't want kids. Ever. Not my own, not interested in being involved raising someone else's. People need to be honest and upfront about this shit. Edit: Damn this comment section has gone wild af lmao

[@njmfff]

Well then you need to accept that you're most likely going to be forever alone as well, because not many men want to marry a women who doesn't want kids. There are always cats tho. xD

[@frummel403]

@@njmfff Lol thank you for caring so much about my future. Newsflash: enough people don't want kids. A big part of them is just to scared to admit that because they don't want to fall out of place. But believe whatever you want to believe though.

[@xcobmi]

@@njmfff bullshit. There are plenty of people who don't want children

[@sarahelisa5108]

njmfff Congratulations. You’re fucking daft.

[@njmfff]

​@@frummel403 newsflash: people who want kids are in majority and people who don't want them are minority, because it's one of the most instinctual and natural desires in people.

[@frankalpern4994]

The guy denied his kids to meet someone who was interested in meeting. Denied disclosing he has kids. Guys, do not deny your kids. There's nothing wrong with people wanting to date men/women with kids. Everyone has a preference. Do not deny your kids to meet someone of your interest.

[@preciousf7167]

I was dealing with someone and I asked if they ever had a pregnancy scare ... they said nope . This fool had two kids 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@ms.bubs4fun506]

It's Tinder. He probably just wanted a one-night stand and then ghost her afterwards so there was no need to disclose his personal life to her. Maybe after engaging with her, he liked her and then wanted to come clean?

[@Nah-ah]

@@ms.bubs4fun506 I’m no dating app or tinder expert but can’t you disclose if you are looking to just hook up or interested in dating for a longer period?

[@TuffLuv1984]

@@ms.bubs4fun506 it wasn’t Tinder. It was Bumble. Still lying. Still wrong.

[@MegaGraceiscool]

She's like 20 tho? No one that young should be tied down to another person's kids, male or woman

[@loumiwaters9050]

Tell that to Paige from MAFS S12 who is older and wasn’t getting this idea💯

[@SourStrawberrys]

She said she is 23. Heck no one in their 20's should he tired down with a responsibility that is not theirs.

[@yavenay]

that's what happen to miss celie on the color purple and look what happen to her.........lol.

[@MelaniaRose]

Why are single dads targeting childless women in their 20s is the big question

[@yavenay]

@@MelaniaRose that’s real easy to figure out

[@KayraR1221]

Dating someone with kids is fine but at 23? You're still trying to figure out how to pay rent, unless the other person is undeniably perfect for them, you wanna avoid the responsibilities of having children

[@jamncos]

You should try online dating in the England, 2 in 3 woman have kids. Alot of them already have 3 by 24yo.

[@tevbuff]

@Jamncos Agreed. I’m 26 and live in London most Women in my age bracket have children already. Lots of single Mothers in London.

[@ChinoGreen]

Figuring out how to pay rent? Lol

[@xcobmi]

@@tevbuff oh wow, I'm 26 too and I couldn't imagine being a mother already

[@Omar-kl3xp]

@@jamncos fr I live in England too and half of the women in dating apps have already kids at even earlier then 20 years old

[@solosick4172]

As a single father I always let the girl I'm talking to know my situation up front and if she ain't with it then we're not wasting each others time.. and this dude is wrong for even putting her in that situation smh

[@liamupfah2513]

I don’t wanna date anyone with kids either lol 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@bdlamini9002]

I always tell people men or women that dating someone with kids has more issues than a normal relationship and sometimes it isn't worth it.

[@EleashaD]

I agree, I wouldn't judge someone if they didn't want to continue dating someone with kids

[@Miketsosie13]

I agree, I was with a chick that had a son. Her baby daddy was crazy asf but I knew the repercussions of going into it. She never took action against her baby daddy. She left me for other dudes and it’s her lost but I dodged a bullet 😎

[@stormerz1237]

True, but sometimes there exist a certain 'group' of people that will have that stand but also says the opposite of it if it was a 'guy' being the one who walked away from such a relationship, just saying...😌

[@bdlamini9002]

Sooner or later you will want something real though...

[@maliciousconspiracy1448]

True

[@Tee9156]

She's an excellent storyteller. Impressive.

[@avelplayz4734]

Check her out. Her content is entertaining

[@Anna133199]

Her sense of humour is so dry! I love her channel so much

[@thespadestable]

@T. Yahya - I've watched her channel a few times. Like Anna133199 said, she does have a dry sense of humor, and she's good natured, but she has daddy issues. She's is without child, so she has every right to flick away dudes with children. Had the gender been reversed, I would have agreed with the guy.

[@inhle1688]

@@thespadestable she has an amazing relationship with her father? what do you mean

[@thespadestable]

@@inhle1688 - Yep, you said it with that question mark. Thanks for playing, but you're not our winner.

[@mckirk4766]

Oh he lied big time. Anyone who does this, man or woman, it's an issue. She did get catfished, absolutely.

[@PrincessZaire100]

If you can lie about something that big, you can lie about anything. Even if I was open to dating someone with kids, I would never trust you after that

[@oz_jones]

Kidfished?

[@PrincessZaire100]

@UC-g2nRPL-J38-xSu-gwcd4A have you never heard of lying by omission

[@PrincessZaire100]

@ebony b he’d probably lie about having a job🤦🏾‍♀️😂

[@reecekyle6332]

@@oz_jones lol ffs

[@tushonagriffiths3155]

I'm part of the stampede and just want to say thanks for showing our girl and getting her seen even more. Thanks man

[@wallis69]

I am single and I have one kid. On my dating profile it states as such because I feel like it weeds out the people that type of lifestyle wouldn’t be for. That’s not just my duty as an honest person, that’s my duty as a mom. And I’m stoked on my life so that’s something I don’t hide. Dude was trash LOL

[@mallyb132]

I have two teenage daughters. On my dating filters of my wants and don’t wants, I stay clear from men who do not want childern. However, I don’t disclose I’m a mom until I can get a feel if the guy is a psycho or not. I don’t want to be a target of someone who would sees my girls as an opportunity to abuse them.

[@1224w]

@@mallyb132 Very true. We have to be extremely careful who comes around our children. Have you seen the movie Lolita? Sick

[@mallyb132]

@@1224w I haven’t but there’s so many creepy stories out there!

[@mallyb132]

@port nut 100% respectable

[@mallyb132]

@port nut 100% respectable

[@theodore9668]

I’m not hating at all on this woman. Love her straight to the point ways

[@AxxLAfriku]

i love my 2 yt gfs

[@clydewill2340]

I agree. She knows what she wants and she's up front about it, the guy on the other hand was throwing up some red flags by not only hiding the fact that he had kids, but first lying and saying he only had one at first

[@MissTeaq]

Say it again class... “Deception by omission.”

[@alexgear959]

@M Inc. this, she wasn't attracted to his personality and voice, you think she wouldn't fuck a man with kids with a deep voice and a nice personality? Bruh

[@SirSharpec]

@M Inc. Err no dude. If you have kids it is your responsibility to disclose that. 100%, no exception.

[@biggsydaboss3410]

Too blanket a term to use in every situation. However in this particular situation I think that is likely what was happening. However not every omission is necessarily a lie. Sometimes you forget. However forgetting to mention you have kids. Yeah err no.

[@PEZ1514]

CNN has left the chat

[@SirSharpec]

@@alexgear959 Not this. His comment is dumb. Yours displays a luke warm IQ.

[@Nlb2316]

He had 3 kids how old was he? He sounds like he may still be married and going for a young woman who won’t question things. Screams married!

[@jarrusjenkins]

If he wanted a "side chick" then he wouldn't have bought up the kids. I ain't saying it's right... not at all but realistically theres better ways to do things like that...

[@eo4345]

Nah cuz he said he was married and said he was “separated” not divorced

[@ms.bubs4fun506]

@@eo4345 I've dated many times on dating apps and BEWARE of any man that says "separated." That is always code word for "still married but unhappy."

[@OmniMale]

@@ms.bubs4fun506 not true. Do you just come on KZbin ton sprout nonsense

[@LadyEmjay]

@@OmniMale it’s pretty close to true , separated is not divorced . I refuse to date a married man often they are still entangled with their wife and not truly done and are back and forth . Until they sign those papers and are 100% legally divorced leave that all alone and save yourself the headache .

[@Hannah-qe9si]

I never thought I would see Aba & Preach reacting to Kelly Stamps lmfaooo

[@orlanzo2621]

Yea me either, lol.

[@dboyedoe]

Luckily the comment section got her back tho (the top comments at least).

[@Ash_Wen-li]

@@dboyedoe They agree with her 🙄

[@XanStephP]

Two of my favourites!

[@Hannah-qe9si]

Ash as they should 😌

[@comprehendeth92]

I think the mindset, "every date is a potential mate" solves a lot of problem relationships. If there is a deal breaker, let it break the deal right from the start.

[@Selvarin]

Deception through omission. She has a point, no faulting her. The guy has baggage but I hope they both find someone who accepts who they are and where they're currently at in Life.

[@SilentHotdog28]

I wouldn't care if a chick just didn't tell me, but if I asked and she lied, then I'd be pissed.

[@bebop2523]

He’s not going to find anybody who excepts where he is if he isn’t honest about his situation

[@kwashaburts933]

I understand her preference but what disgusts me is when people WITH kids don't want to date people WITH kids. Stay humble.

[@ms.bubs4fun506]

MEN. Men with kids usually still feel entitled to a single woman with no kids. In general, men are unrealistic. I've seen short, fat, old, BROKE, ugly, and balding men felt they deserved a woman that looked like a Victoria Secret model. lol

[@malaikasdurbin8960]

That’s because they may not have drama. And the other person may have drama. OR they may be bad parents and don’t eat their own kids. Sometimes when people exclude you, it’s for your benefit. TRUST!!

[@iadesigns]

After dealing with psychotic baby mamas while the guys were pretty normal, I as a bm myself prefer not to. My ex and I haven’t been together in 12 years and there is 0 drama. It’s a case by case thing for me, there are too many petty situations when it comes to people with kids. I also completely understand men who aren’t interested because I’m a parent. To each their own.

[@kikialeaki1850]

I mean you’d also have to consider, not only your kids liking your partner, but also your kids liking your partner’s kids. Assuming they’re young/going to live together.

[@sdbzfan1]

@@kikialeaki1850 to me it just looks more sus, if you wouldn't date someone with kids don't you think someone not wanting to date you who has kids are thinking like you like people think everyone else is the problem but if you ask them would they date someone else like them they say hell no but I'm different

[@KairoK]

No Kelly Envelope slander will be tolerated! She is off-limits

[@Clockwork_999]

I see the stampede is here in correct form.

[@KairoK]

@@Clockwork_999 Posted up!

[@le_chiyu]

😤✊

[@jahnoii]

Straight like that

[@Achanceywill]

Me too. Waiting to hear any slander and these hands gon be given out

[@1byte4]

The problem is not so much the kids, she would be also owning half of the debt from his past failures if they got married. Very hard to start a new family while your paying off your previous one.

[@coldchillin8382]

Facts

[@namaste348]

YES! THIS!! Single fathers don't understand this financial part.

[@notanotheryoutubechannel777]

Bro women expect that from a single guy. This is facts but it's the other way around all of a sudden it's not okay

[@iamthesenate8510]

@@namaste348 bruh you do realize most of the times it's the other way around... people like you always bash men that don't wanna date single mothers gtfo

[@ChicagoT3d]

@@namaste348 Except, you know, men are expected to "man up" and take care of another mans' bastard child when the single mother demands it.

[@soosterling]

My girl Kelly Stamps! The stampede is here....🙃

[@msladypmodel]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤me tooooooo

[@lizatizitagobey4747]

Hopefully, they react more to her videos, she makes relevant points.

[@francescaa8220]

Thanks for dropping her name she’s literall me bar the confidence atm! deffo subscribing 😍

[@Chuck.Mast3r]

Facts i remember when her channel was under 20k

[@francescaa8220]

@@Chuck.Mast3r hope she gets super famous/successful she seems like a good girl

[@IamBriannasimone]

I don’t date men who have kids. Avoid the headache and the heartbreak. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@80skid83]

That's why he probably kept it secret. However I'm with the girl 100% for bailing out

[@KP-us5pq]

When I was a single mom I always told people before a date or early on in a conversation. I met my husband when I was out with a friend and I told him in our first conversation. I think it’s important thing to disclose.

[@justin3kub]

ThAt awesome that how it should be Happy for you @ K P

[@NoName-sp5dp]

@Nitro Makin incel

[@thetiredworm2100]

@Nitro Makin Ya cuz y’all r hella annoying, u can’t stop blabbing about how u hate women and this and that about how it sucks to be around women lmaooo

[@IkesPimpHand]

@@NoName-sp5dp T hot,

[@thetiredworm2100]

@SimmyJai 😂

[@yulee5997]

Kelly is doing JUST fine without Prince Ali, she is thriving 😂

[@roddrickcarter2805]

Lol, she surviving!

[@yana6118]

PErIodt . sis is living her best life ✨✨✨

[@taylorstep1413]

@Darren Munsell her channel is doing well she probably making more 6 figures a year.

[@taylorstep1413]

@@roddrickcarter2805 watch her channel.

[@roddrickcarter2805]

@@taylorstep1413 been watching her channel since she was in California and moved to New York and then to Boston...... she's surviving

[@jlntvgt]

Yeah I don't blame her at all. I once started talking to this guy and every time I talked to him I counted more kids he mentioned, finally I asked him how many kids he has and he tells me 7, I started laughing and hung up. Originally he said he had 1.

[@jlntvgt]

@starving artist I know right!?!? Was he really thinking he could get away with saying he only has one to bait someone in and then they will fall in love and it won't matter when he reveals that he has 7?

[@jlntvgt]

@starving artist many will say this comment is racist in some way but in my experience with dating I have learned that it's actually very common for black men to have a bunch of kids with different women. Now the first thing I ask about are how many kids and with how many women.

[@daniellalove143]

Omgggg that’s ridiculous

[@synthiaspeaks7885]

@@jlntvgt No, it’s not racist at all girl, as a black woman I 100% agree!

[@jellybean7283]

@@jlntvgt yeeeaaaahhhhh..... that's not racist. That's a fact. And to mention he has 7 kids, he probably has some more he doesn't know about

[@SilientShadow]

This girl is overflowing with personality and I love it.

[@ragejinraver]

Kelly Stamps is literally the dream girl guys look for.

[@sandyg.8318]

Kelly Stamps is amazing.

[@nisuperman]

She has great sense of humor. Quite eccentric and really smart girl. I like her content.

[@doyouknowdaway65]

At first i was thinking maybe the one kid wasn't a big issue. It wasn't a deal breaker, just an inconvenience maybe but when i heard the 3 kids part i was like ......Bruh. Now you fr fr lying.

[@triplemoyagames4195]

nah even the one kid, you need to be updront bruh

[@dark3rthanshadows]

man drops a paragraphs about his life and doesn't mention he had 3 kids hahahaha

[@S_NRIO]

@@dark3rthanshadows RIGHT LMAO LIKE WTFFF

[@doyouknowdaway65]

@@triplemoyagames4195 I mean 4 me it not a like a big deal. One kid to isn't a total deal breaker. But 3...yea

[@krystanicoleeee6022]

I love Kelly Stamps her vibe is so great! Its nice to see someone around my age who doesn't have a kid and does not put up with others bs! If you watch some of her videos she is so confident and knows her worth! I love to see it! (she is 23 and I am 24 and sometimes I feel so alone being young with no kids, single, and does not put up with the bs so it is nice coming across someone like Kelly!)

[@holtenwidmar2832]

I've had dating profiles in the past and would state on my profile i was disabled and walk with a crutch because obviously if I were to meet someone in person in wouldn't come as a total shock to them. Majority of the people online are so fake and conscious, same as just in person. My advice is to just do you. Good things come people who are patient.

[@holtenwidmar2832]

@Zachary Hunter i am a big people person, but I'm not meeting any women in my town of 825 :P What a shame.. as soon as I'm out of this small town, I'd be picking up bitches on the scooter!

[@DawnWilsonVideos]

From experience, if someone doesn’t include the “kids” question on Bumble, typically that means they have kids. Sad but true.

[@Ash_Wen-li]

Oh shit, when I was on Bumble I just avoided it because I'm ambivalent on having kids in the future

Wow that's gross

[@Unwoken_European]

Women do that as well. Nobody sane wants to have instant family and responsibility.

[@DawnWilsonVideos]

@@Unwoken_European Yeah I think its done by both men and women.

[@arp5546]

@@DawnWilsonVideos yes, also because they are not looking for anything serious, only to F like those half empty profiles.

[@VinMilaje]

When I was her age, I didn't want to date guys with kids either and for the exact same reason. No one wants to deal with baby parent drama.

[@lasirena_]

No she doesn’t want anyone else’s kids…period. Men with children who aren’t with the mother are a huge problem.

[@olivia7649]

As a single parent I was always upfront with having kids. There were still plenty of potential partners. There is simply no need to judge someone for not wanting to be in that situation. Accept it and move on.

[@teachertx]

Exactly!! 👏👏👏👏👏

[@wu-weisigma3300]

That's a smart girl. She's got a great personality she'll be aight.

[@PutsOnLoafers]

I found her profile, wish me luck cause amma TOE DAT UP !

[@janninmarie8385]

Yup she's awesome.

[@orlanzo2621]

@@PutsOnLoafers She's a fairly popular youtuber.

[@PutsOnLoafers]

@@orlanzo2621 yup, and i got her cell phone number one foot in the door hah!

[@EmptyAltruism]

@@PutsOnLoafers shes gorgeous, gl. Dont be a scumbag

[@sidniesantos8485]

I am 24 years old and am in no position to be a step mother or caretaker of another man's children. I have no kids myself. It is a very big responsibility and for young people, you are just discovering yourself. I would never involve children in my whirlwind of finding oneself. So glad people are understanding of this. I was worried.

[@ScottieDPOYY]

Literally everyone thinks this lol. You were worried about it when the overwhelming majority think that way. Now all you have a accomplished is adding to the stigma of it all thus making it harder for a single mother or father who may actually be deserving. Everyone keeps bashing it and what you think everyone is gonna see? Its same as finding racism where racism is not. You just adding to the stigma and creating resentment. Glad you feel the way everyone feels, now lets shit on single parents some more !

[@SpottedTiger89]

Pay no mind to Cody. Plenty of single parents date. 🙄 You have every right to feel this way and make the choice to not date a single parent.

[@ScottieDPOYY]

@@SpottedTiger89 and your another person who cant read. I never said otherwise to either of those things

[@thatdude123]

@@ScottieDPOYY what?

[@ghariiscool]

@@ScottieDPOYY stop it

[@ashleiallison4310]

I’m 21 years old and my friends used to ask me why do I date guys with kids... I saw no issues with it until I realized there’s drama that comes with it.. she’s smart lol

[@christianmbabazi9722]

Being a single parent and dating is already hard enough sending mixed signals that just adds on to the confusion

[@reejajoshi8717]

When you vibe with Aba and preach and you vibe with Kelly stamps and then you find out that Aba and preach vibes with Kelly.....that is a reassurance in your taste👻

[@imtheleadsheepinchina6448]

Hell yesse

[@leeroysaenz1774]

Be your own person

[@FaithsStardust]

What about ‘Sneako’?

[@F.R.A.N.K.I.E]

Truth.

[@janestone1849]

@@FaithsStardust lol Him too. I feel like this is all coming full circle with m favorite youtubers.

[@zade1613]

Lying by omission about the one kid is scummy but then lying about having 3 is as big a red flag as you can get

[@SpottedTiger89]

Yup! Exactly! Kelly is a smart cookie.

[@galaxywanderer5508]

If I'm gonna mother kids, they will be my own. I don't care how great a guy is, having kids already is a major dealbreaker.

[@jacks4009]

Mine as well.

[@kanikagaral7637]

U can mother kids u didn't brith to but lot of these cases they already have a mother who won't like u being more involved the kids life or discipline them at all. So u will be dealing with lot of shit and u won't be able to control anything.

[@kayyjohnathan6947]

At the end of the day, everyone has a choice to make. If she rejected him because he has kids, that's fine. That's her choice. I wouldn't date a woman who has kids, so I understand why she bailed.

[@squeezerD]

True but if it was the other way around she would throw a fit when guy refuses to date her because she has a kid.

[@bionmccool]

@@squeezerD how'd you know? Maybe she recognizes that kids is too much of a burden and wouldn't judge men acting the same.

[@radiocorrective]

@@squeezerD Can you guys stop triggering yourselves over scenarios you made up? I notice this phenomenon more and more... do you like being offended THAT much?

[@sherrylynn3304]

Another issue is that he didnt disclose this upfront.

[@travisspaulding2222]

@@radiocorrective Lol, this is what happens when you don't actually interact with women, but instead watch KZbin videos of women, or about women, lol.

[@faith6575]

She was honest and I totally appreciate that. Plenty of men out there refuse to date single mothers and that's their preference and prerogative, so the same goes for a young woman with the same preference. Someone this young without children are entitled to their "no kids" preference because they're just trying to enjoy dating and life experiences without the extra "drama." What's faulty is when you have childre(n) and then demand to date people with no children. Get your head checked for that one.

[@JTCLAN1]

Very well said. 🙌🏽

[@tyat4958]

While I agree for what you said I’m just curious about () around the n. Childre isn’t a word so you didn’t need it.

[@Moonbaby001]

Im in my 30s and still wont date a single father.

[@biggsydaboss3410]

Yeah. I've not met many men with that attitude, but it does exist amongst women. Not as bad as when I was younger mind you. I guess when you're hitting 40. Common sense kicks in & you know there will be a very large percentage of singles who come with kids. Having a "no kids" requirement is very limiting.

[@biggsydaboss3410]

@@ghostendgame Not always as clean cut as that. Personally myself, I didn't choose to get cheated on & fucked over. However, as in all things, we make choices as individuals. If you don't want to date someone with kids. That entirely your right. However as you get older. You will be deing with an ever shrinking dating pool.

[@kaminariyoung]

When someone states clearly in their profile that they don't want kids, it pretty much essentially means they don't want a partner with kids either, because they know that getting a partner who's got kids inevitably requires them to have to deal with their partner's kids.

[@corners3755]

but what if its people in their 30's and 40's and they have kids already? I always figured " dont want kids" means you don't want to make more kids

[@kaminariyoung]

@@corners3755 No, not really, because if that's the case they would just not say they don't want kids in their profile. As in, even if they meet someone with kids it's not a problem.

[@alicjaalvena1120]

@@corners3755 lots of people in 30s and 40s dont have kids and dont want any either. dont want kids = you dont want to deal with ANY kids. if u want something more specific, you need to specify this yourself.

[@mosaramatsie3375]

I feel like Aba is low-key shooting his shot

[@jaylaav1166]

Girl right, he wassss .. “ my kinda of girl “

[@TheFearOfArt]

frrr

[@IzzyBizzyBooBoo]

I'd say kinda mid-key shooting it.

[@KennyBucketz]

Women really do like murder documentaries. The amount of women I’ve met who say “I’m watching such and such. It’s a murder mystery.” Aba is right. It’s a pattern

[@KennyBucketz]

@LK 6767 not only that, but serial killers always have women dying to be with them (no pun intended). These guys have women sending them fan mail, visiting them in prison, marrying them while they’re in prison. It’s interesting. I don’t know if there’s a connection between that behavior and women who are obsessed with murder documentaries/murder mysteries, but it is interesting.

[@TheDorianTube]

Dude, my ex also watches that sheet. Why the hell is it like that? Are we going to die or something? lmao

[@TallicaMan1986]

I've noticed this too. My cousins mom is always watching crime drama and thrillers, my ex loved it. I know some friends moms that are into it as well. And when you look at scary stories and stuff here on KZbin. The woman demographic is rather large. And look at CorpseHusbands fan base.

[@truthseeker4298]

Training

[@pikachu-cs8gh]

just cause women like to watch true crime doesn't mean y'all gonna die bro what 👁️👁️

[@RoseRose-to4vq]

I saw the thumbnail and thought "oh no NOT MY GIRL KELLY STAMPS" i thought y'all would clown her

[@justinaacorn5721]

Me too! Lol, I was triggered 😤

[@Nothingatall1984]

I knew they wouldn’t, that story is too good😂

[@captainsisko7629]

Naw guys are more fair, unlike women , single women shouldn't date single dads , guys no out rage guys don't want date singles mother hate speech shadow band.

[@lapittualyoung]

No. Aba & Preach isn't like that. It's one of the top reasons why I like them. They usually are pretty balanced on majority of their topics. 😁😁

[@RoseRose-to4vq]

@@captainsisko7629 true

[@kaynine9]

Some people want to start their own family from scratch, meaning they don’t want to blend families. Nothing wrong with that

[@beewest5704]

They are often the once who get divorced still don't want a partner with kids. Then get upset when the other person feels the same.

[@deathrager2404]

untill a man says this. then he needs to man up and take care of children that aint his.

[@mashamitchell9574]

"I don't want kids" means any kids. I don't want kids of my own and I don't want to deal with your kids. And I don't want to deal with the financial implications.

[@giselleverde]

As she should. If I don’t have kids I don’t need a man that’s has someone else’s baggage either. 🥱 he’s need to be with his bm not me ?next.

[@tubester4567]

I agree. For both genders. If men say that they usually get criticized but If there are kids theres always a connection to the other parent.

[@brandonkelly5209]

I was going to say the same thing. If a guy said this to a women they would be pos

[@SpookyJuice]

His bm is the last woman he should be with. Obviously that relationship wasn’t functioning.

[@MelaniaRose]

It still doesn’t stop single dads from lying to younger women.

[@WillianyAmill]

Look, she's young and not stupid. Y'all can't appreciate when a girl comes with both simultaneously. He got kids, he has to prioritize his wallet for them. She knows what she doing better than him

[@ShaunHensley]

Because she should have access to his wallet?

[@Emmytm16]

@@ShaunHensley nah bc when you come together in a relationship you are pooling your finances and by omitting the fact that he has three children that he is likely going broke to pay for child support, he might be looking for someone to fund HIM🤣

[@WillianyAmill]

@@ShaunHensley let me iriterate, no women or man is entitled to the finances of someone who has children with another individual. Me personally, I do not mind hooking up with a man or woman who has kids. But they HAVE to prioritize the kids, and the resources of thier kids. I'm not a greedy oppertunist, I don't trust a man or woman ready to take me out to eat and they don't even know if the kids ate. They are not taking me out to shop for underwear if the kids have no clean clothes, we are not going to no movies or concert if the kids can't sell enough candy bars to fund thier field trip.

[@teneleven2818]

@mesmerizingDST or possibly support for their future kids

[@MelaniaRose]

@@ShaunHensley It’s the other way around. He targeted a younger woman with no kids because she most likely has money and resources. Single dads with kids are broke from child support.

[@BennettParsons1]

They need to start “Bumble with baggage” for the single parents.

[@antereaw6178]

yes. Please give these people their own platform...

[@trichmomma]

Excellent idea!

[@Achinxoi]

The problem is, many of them don't want to date other single parents. They want someone with no baggage.

[@andrearich7351]

My husband and I both said we would never want to remarry someone with no kids. Like if one of us dies young. I would want to find another parent because they are the only person who would understand how to treat my children. Why do parents date people with no kids?! I could never

[@mbloom2275]

Lmao!

[@gabriellarose6740]

there are men that don’t want women who have kids. “Sloppy seconds” I guess.I think maybe it’s important to address you have kids upfront. A man or woman may not be ready for that responsibility or emotionally mature enough which is fine. Some adults don’t even want kids. That’s fine for a man or woman as long as they’re honest. However, it’s usually men that make it about a sexual thing