Is Complaining Holding You Back?

[@shawnbstoll]

I was sitting at a big table full of people in a house on a beach and they were all complaining. I said to them, we are sitting in a house on a beach in Florida don’t you all have something to be grateful for! That changed the energy quick. I agree and found that complaining is contagious.

[@dianamalik3599]

I realized years ago that worry and complaining seen to go together. When I read that worry is a meditation on the negative, I have tried harder to be positive. Then I realize I was not complaining any more!😊 Thanks Nancy!❤

[@deborahonenow]

It's great to understand better what's going on energetically when we complain. And, I love that you help us more compassionately understand why people do this so often. Thank you! Namaste

[@kristisanders3597]

I have a strong truth streak, autistic too. Fake emotions don't work, speaking about what's going on that I need help with was punishment from mother. I had to go through a period of speaking whatever I was feeling & have evolved that. But I feel like shutting people down is contrary to truth

[@violetflame88]

Thank you, thank you , thank you, Nancy. This is an energy that comes up at work constantly and I have been both the complainer and the listener. I am just at the end of my holidays and when I return next week I feel more prepared to avoid being either one . Bless you for what you bring to us. Your messages lift me up and keep me aware of my frequency. They are also very hopeful. Much love to you. ❤

[@nemacarrot]

❤❤❤❤❤ was just verbalizing this to my guides this week... i am surrounded My super poliana ness adds calm however the negativity is getting me.... i crave peace and yet, my calm would not be a help... so i sit and shine my light

[@SallieRitcheyCullerMFSBAIDMRei]

Holy Moly Nancy this is super helpful as I am a complainer but, it’s my self talk. I feel that since (1:5) years with my hip, deterioration, gaining all the weight back I so diligently lost in 2019 has me w/o my Faith. It was my strongest component raising a daughter as a single parent. My sincere of Hope has been shaken. I have made many physical changes such as no more CBD for pain and alcohol for ‘fun’. I now can see and feel how important it is to do my daily meditations and specifically what to target. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you. Being in Your PM1, has also been a huge help for me. I can feel and see the shifts within. Grateful, 🙏🏼🌻🧡 I’m eating the cake ! 🎂👍🏼😅

[@rturney6376]

I live in California. I tried getting out. Honestly, I tend to complain, BECAUSE I often don’t feel connected. When I do feel connected, I am happy 😊 and content. GOOD 👍 ONE ☝️!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤

[@larisal1500]

Complaining has a different energy for me than being the devil's advocate or even pessimism. I live in a senior residence that the owner is running into the ground to save $$ (filthy hall carpets never cleaned/huge potholes in driveway creating a safety hazard). I pointed this out (complaining??) to the new mgr. where others told me they didn't want to "complain"! Very soon the carpets were cleaned & potholes filled! Friend spent 16 yrs w/ spouse who emotionally abused her daily & to this day wears it like a badge of courage since she didn't want to "complain." Women are taught to be nice regardless of the situation!

[@jubalriddle1975]

My wife works at a senior residence and I have in the past. We actually worked at the same one for 5 years. I understand completely what you are saying. My wife is absolutely amazing in the love and care she gives. Her heart is so open to the residents there. She is a voice to management about the things you speak of. But not an angry voice just a voice of truth. Have a fantastic day.

[@rturney6376]

❤Very Well Said. There is a HUGE difference between speaking up once or twice vs nagging. ❤❤❤

[@nancyyoung2706]

OMG!!! Someone in the family who is who you’re talking about has tried to latch on to me. After a few weeks, I couldn’t listen anymore. Yes, it’s draining. Because I’m in a caregiver situation, I’ve been able to put her off and keep her at arm’s length. Thanks! Yes, she is a butterscotch! 😂

[@fotinotita7022]

I totally agree… constant complaining is negative energy … thanks Nancy ♾️🔆❤️

[@lauravandenbosch]

I agree. thanks

[@KatheTipton-gy4mp]

Hi Nancy Rebecca! This is a very good reminder! I try to be positive but pick up these negative vibes and sometimes it seems overwhelming. Yesterday and today this has happened. Also, I have people in my life that complain and I have too. So now that I know it’s a disconnection from Spirit and the earth I can see that and get reconnected again. I love the idea of sending the complaints to the complaint department in the earth which I will start doing now. Thank you so much 😄

[@marjoriehall9984]

Oh yes. I have someone in my life that will assume the place we want to go is closed, or the store won't have what we want, or there won't be any place to park, etc. I think of this person as an Eyeore who has a dark cloud over him everywhere. I like to keep my air space clear and sunny if possible! Still, Eyeore does have some good ideas sometimes and especially lately, it seems the cloud is lessening.

[@jubalriddle1975]

If there is a parking lot vs the street, and they are able to walk a bit, there is always parking in the back part of lot furthest from store.. Always a great spot as soon as you drive in. No worries at all. Easy to find you car when you leave, no bumps and scrapes from other car doors and a little walking for their health.

[@66marlene]

I identify myself as a complainer😢. What you said has resonated with me, it’s a kind of disconnection with the soul. That is what a therapist told me during a constellation session 😮

[@FranceneShed]

Thank you Nancy ❤🎉❤🎉

[@lettyriding9160]

Loved it! Especially the blue light showing up in your glasses every time you looked up 🙂😍

[@KathyStahl-b5i]

You make me laugh!!! As I was listening , I was thinking-so what to do if you live with a complainer, and you are trying to stay connected, and it just builds up. You try to ignore it, etc. Then YOU begin complaining about the complainer!!!!😂

[@nancyrebecca]

@@KathyStahl-b5i omg 😳 perfect 👍🏼

[@MelissaRebecca123]

❤❤❤

[@krisriordan5366]

Yup!🙋

[@DJInDa-jc9wt]

If you are not happy with the environment - then take yourself out of that environment and go within for the answers.

[@MarciaCarter-i9n]

Yes, so right 🤣

[@akschlosser]

Thank you for sharing this.❤

[@mannie2075]

😂😂👌 I have a big smiley on my face when I heard this- I have recently been in this energies 😂💪🏼 Such a beautiful video and message Thank you so very very much ❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️♊️much love from Sweden and we are doing this together ❤🇸🇪💕🌏🤩🦋 YES I CAN RELATE TO THIS! Bombplanes 🙃🙃🙃😔 Too hard to handle..

[@jubalriddle1975]

Yes we are all doing this together!! Fantastic!! Amazing joy!!

[@poppete]

There has been plenty of - Eeyore - moments in need of transmuting.

[@user-if2pt5gc6y]

Thank you, Nancy! Helpful info. and reminders for us all! I can relate. It’s getting harder and harder for me to be around complaining (my own included). What if the complainer was once very optimistic and connected, but went down levels in consciousness to not be always so alone and because others wouldn’t listen to them at the higher level? (Many of us are here on a mission to raise the consciousness, but we haven’t been taught the correct way to do it.) I can relate to that. Of course when I lower my consciousness (and engage in sentimentality, which is not Divine Compassion), I lose my awareness of Universal Loving Intelligence / Divine Consciousness / “Spirit” being within, around, and transcendant to me, providing for my every need on my soul’s evolutionary journey (through this world in order to transcend my self / ego and eventually express the Universal 😉). Now, since I’ve been studying the Truth of Existence as is taught by the masters of consciousness in Christ’s Letters (from Christ’s Way), I complain less and less and catch myself faster. But I still have old patterns to work through and things that I have already created for myself to yet experience and put into in the unseen with my electro-magnetic ego. So, it can be a bit of a seesaw until I’ve cleansed my consciousness sufficiently to feel that “Spirit” is living me. Thanks for all that you do! You’re so wonderful. 💖

[@jubalriddle1975]

I went down that very path, but it was a path or learning and don’t regret it. I am now… well not finding my way back to that person 25 years ago but finding that me in the now and it’s fantastic. We are all in this together and we are all doing it. It’s awesome!!

[@ingridstijsiger7059]

Thank you for this explanation. Love it😉

[@tiabiamama]

I just went down the list with my bf of all the reasons I had a bad day just now. I think it is just my way of pointing out I am not happy with my life with him, and the only problem is that I am not acting to become independent of him when I know I ought to. I am not normally a complainer- when I am independent I am quite stoic. I am just scared to move out on my own while overseas.

[@lindabuchanan4416]

Yes

[@lindabuchanan4416]

Agree

[@michellejaraczewski1520]

Many blessings 🙏🏼

[@artgirl1339]

Oooh you mean people who have constant pessimistic outlooks on everyone and everything. I thought i was a complainer but i only do it when someone does something to me that I'm unhappy with. I have no issues with people making choices for themselves that i wouldn't agree with. I always try and have a positive outlook on things even if things don't seem good at the time. Little things like seeing a beautiful flower or a butterfly or whatever. But I've lived my entire life around constant complainers so it's been a conscious effort to learn to live the way i do. And even though i panic easily, I would still never tell someone that their fur baby would die in surgery just because i have no hope. Just the little hope that they may live is good enough for me. I'm a always have hope no matter what kinda person. No matter how small of a sliver of hope it is.

[@jubalriddle1975]

Hope springs eternal and is ever present. Could not live my life without it!

[@lindabuchanan4416]

Hola Nancy 💎

[@neetuh4850]

I complain about things like the litter, people littering, bad manners, and someone who behaved badly, but I also appreciate things and people and am grateful. I think that's normal. I just dont understand why some people dont want to live in harmony and respect with nature and others. How do you know if you're complaining too much? I would definitely avoid people who are always complaining though. I have met that kind of person that no matter what you say, they just have a negative view.

[@jubalriddle1975]

I understand about the liter and the behavior of others but I have come to accept that it is their path and they are learning just as I am and that they will get there too. In fact who would I be without them, I have learned to be great full for their contribution to me. One thing I learned recently that has helped me is that it’s just none of my business why they behave they way they do and don’t worry about it, it all serves. Also I go around a pick up liter all the time and love the service aspect of it. Feels good to do something about it with love and acceptance in my heart. Have a great day.

[@neetuh4850]

@@jubalriddle1975 Thank you. I understand what you're saying. It's really hard to just accept cruelty though. I hope have high expectations and standards for myself, which means, also of others, even if not as high as for myself. I accept who I am and love this about me though. I also pick up garbage sometimes.

[@lauravandenbosch]

you're adorable😀

[@Kayenne54]

Are you....complaining about complainers? Lol. Hang on, just let me complain about this video topic...ha ha.