is it an outfit or is he just *a man*

[@zoeunlimited]

Do you think it’s easier for a man to dress well?

[@annamariyad]

I do but when I have conversations on this topic with men they always say it’s easier for us women because we have more choice! Nonsense 😂

[@blank_line]

​@@annamariyadthe problem is the materials. Yes, we do have more choice, but almost everything made for us, feels like trash in your hands. Men's clothing always had more quality

[@bookbutterfly2408]

Men have so few options, yet they're usually stereotyped as poor dressers.

[@chillblue1650]

Where did this idea even come from? As a guy, it's common consensus among us that girls are the ones who look way better no matter what they wear, even if they're wearing casual clothes that are baggy and oversized. I always thought it was the other way around, so this is news to me. Guys? Looking good in lazy outfits? Really?

[@invisiblerevolution]

​@chillblue1650 Bruh.... *THANK YOU!!!!!!* I don't know how Zoe thinks we GUYS have it easy, we can look good in "lazy outfits"????? For starters..... the guys she's comparing outfits with *ARE SUPER CHADS* in there 20's, who can look good in anything. But the average lookin MAN.... (above the age of 30) has to spend way more MONEY and understand what fits him right, just to look decent lookin!

[@nykiat.n.3350]

"Is it an outfit, or is he just a man" & "is it an outfit, or is she just skinny" is giving similar vibes though

[@themagicknightress7132]

That’s the point

[@nykiat.n.3350]

@themagicknightress7132 yeah, I left the comment to see the comparisons 👀

[@Sweets4mee]

@@themagicknightress7132 if you mean by this video clearly not

[@themagicknightress7132]

@@Sweets4mee you don’t think “is he just a man” came from “is she just skinny?” It’s literally the same thing. Men and skinny women can both wear things that the average or plus sized female would look unkempt in

[@nykiat.n.3350]

@themagicknightress7132 Good gosh if you think a comment is stupid just leave it alone grumpy pants

[@chillblue1650]

As a guy, I'll say fit and silhouette are everything for men's outfits. Tucking in a T-shirt to look well-proportioned goes a long way for us. A lot of clothes for men weren't made with this in mind, so it's harder to get things right. I'm glad more men are starting to understand this. We still have a long way to go, but in my online circles of guys that care about this stuff, we're starting to embrace cropped T-shirts, high-rise flared jeans, and things like that.

[@AmbieAssassin]

Honestly, this is exactly what I was thinking. Even just looking at the first two men and the short of hers that led me to this video, I do think it has a lot to do with fit and silhouette. I personally find tailored clothes to be more attractive, regardless of the person, especially if someone is dressing up. It doesn't have to be skin-tight but everyone has different lines and having the right pieces in the right spots can do so much. I'll also say that sometimes finding complimentary things in your preferred style, like if someone leans more gothic, more preppy, more casual, etc., can also be really hard but I do think that gives people the opportunity to kind of branch out. Good on you and your circle of friends for just exploring. You never know what gold you may find.

[@chillblue1650]

@@AmbieAssassin Thanks for the thoughtful reply. Sometimes it's not "just a T-shirt" or "just a pair of jeans." A cropped T-shirt may look better on you than a T-shirt that's way too long for your torso. Same goes for a high-rise pair of flared jeans vs. a low-rise pair of skinny jeans. The men in this video clearly put in some thought and effort into making sure the clothes flatter their bodies. If a woman wore a simple outfit that is aesthetically pleasing, I'd appreciate it too.

[@eyeofthebeholder_]

Men with cropped tops, bell bottom pants and high boots? The 70s are coming back, baby!

[@louisst-amand9207]

hurray for consumerism!

[@Bamgeutcutiepie]

Confirmed ! Men can absolutely dress well, but the AMOUNT of effort we require to say so that he has good style, requires drastically less 🤡

[@Nikkiberrie3]

Seriously look at Asia, especially China. Those guys can dress 😫

[@chillblue1650]

The same goes for girls too. They could wear the most simple, basic outfits and still look amazing to us guys. Really, it's just girls who are putting all this pressure on each other.

[@Bamgeutcutiepie]

that's true too 😄 girls dress for girls and compete with girls. But would you say that a simple outfit like nice jeans and sweater is going to blow you away as a guy? because that outfit is all it takes for a woman to say a man dresses nicely. @@chillblue1650

[@PoofyisDead]

Ngl in some circumstances i’d agree, but then again putting on a dress is literally 1 item

[@Bamgeutcutiepie]

it's not about how many items, but how you put together a look. how fanciful it is, and women are expected to do a whole lot more than just wear jeans and a fancy sweater. and men often get compliments with such an outfit 😄 @@PoofyisDead

[@Ray03595]

Feel like this only matters if you're a celebrity. Nobody is keeping track of the outfits someone else wears like that.

[@katzeflufi1547]

Yes most of the time let's say you wear a bright pink shirt for a month people you see every day will probably notice

[@JFP1306]

as a brazillian woman i get the point of the video BUT since I only encounter man in flip flops bermudas and soccer jerseys i think you guys in the northen hemisfery are still getting some better than us here

[@krisawai]

Well, when it's warm in the country, it's hard to come up with a bunch of combinations of clothes and, moreover, layering)

[@anabert]

Honestly, I absolutely hate crop tops and shorts, and it seems like the norm now in Brazil because of the ridiculously hot climate. I wish we had more cold days so I could use my trousers and lomg sleeve shirts more often. 🫠

[@vivianlopez5202]

Me too, I'm from Nicaragua, saludos 👋.

[@carpezin]

Meu estilo de roupa é totalmente nas estéticas "dark academia/light academia". Mas eu nunca compro esse tipo de roupa pq o clima no Brasil não permite kk

[@Bailey44-g6m]

Well girls don't wear nice fashion clothes in Brazilian they are mostly just naked I really miss that the women can't style in brasil 😢😢😢

[@aelyndorren]

Why can't people just calm down and wear whatever the heck they want... And let others do the same without judgement

[@Airahar]

They can. This video is more of a critique on the double standards in fashion

[@martijnkoning3354]

tbh these vids from guys are the same as attractive women with basic fits and it suddenly being 'fashion'. There is also genuine channels that are high quality in their fit checks. the slippers are a very Korean thing fore those shocked. But lets get this straight, for average people most of this shit does not matter at all, just look presentable eg. clean clothes and its fine

[@chillblue1650]

These trendy people on the Internet will care way more about stuff like this than the average person actually does. In "real life," most people regardless of gender just don't care.

[@streetst4610]

as a genderqueer person fashion is a complicated thing for me, especially when i’m trying to pass as more masculine but i still wanna wear things that i actually like wearing, since so much of “men’s clothing” is so boring LET ME BE MASC AND CUTE PLS GOD

[@octo.p14]

I SECOND THIS

[@bunbun6936]

YES FINALLY SOMEONES SAYING IT

[@ivaneend6242]

YES THANK U MEN'S CLOTHING IS SO BORING LIKE ARE WE ALLOWED COLOURS OUTSIDE OF BLACK, GREEN AND BLUE? 😭

[@sergi0_0]

Honestly I want look good but everything looks the same

[@Grendich]

cis man here, i know that feeling. maybe men would be more interested in fashion if there were some actual options.

[@blank_line]

I honestly feel like we have created this problem ourselves Idk, I personally don't care how people around me dress, as long as they are not naked and smelly Maybe we should stop thinking that how we dress reflects our status

[@chillblue1650]

I agree. As a guy, a lot of us really don't have these incredibly high standards for women's style. We can't even tell the difference most of the time. We won't even notice certain accessories you girls wear.

[@livvlife]

As a girl myself, in my head….dress how you want, everyone can have a personal style. Yea, I definitely see her point as there is double standards about fashion in general and with expectations, but I have personally always just dressed how I wanted, which I will say…has always been more androgynous or in grungey men’s clothes. So that kinda supports her point about men’s clothing, since it is more appealing. I guess it depends what kind of girl, guy, or person you are, but this video definitely made a point with fashion trends.

[@WarTitan888]

Most men don’t care about women’s fashion as much as you think. From what I’ve seen many of the critiques come from other women. The only times I’ve seen men give women shit about clothing is when the topic is revealing clothing.

[@krisawai]

Correction, men criticize women for revealing attire or being too closed. Most people will look at a girl in a dress, and a girl in an oversize will be ignored at best, or they will think that she is a "slob".

[@Mialikesthings]

@@krisawainot really men themselves seem to live street fashion so is very unlikely that women are called ‘slobs’ unless it’s 1. Breaking attire policies 2. She genuinely is wearing dirty clothing 3. The people are me that are snobbish (this is usually the least likely)

[@jessy1982]

Also the "tired" if not wearing makeup issue is something men notice and critize.

[@Nikkiberrie3]

I’m a college student, and I dress very nice to class everyday. But I always look around on campus and the guys just seem to not care. I wish guys would actually care about what they look like

[@Mialikesthings]

Why do they have to care if it’s not necessary,sure there are occasion but if it’s to got to campus off thing then there is literally no reason to fully care of you look fashionable. Mind you all people need is be hygienic and covered,this just seems like 1st world problems.

[@Sweets4mee]

It's college why should they care? Just because you do?

[@drain5447]

maybe they want to feel comfortable. maybe they dont need to seek the approval of others that are so judgmental like you. people can dress how they like

[@cranburrey]

School drains people out, so ofc they no longer gaf

[@LunaDarkFall]

@@Mialikesthingsand somehow they still aren’t hygienic

[@Leo-st9ti]

I feel I often as a man am forced to simplify my outfits because I’m simply scared of standing out, this has been reinforced throughout my life as it feels not socially acceptable to make big fits, obviously this is partially just a me thing but I definitely think it has a bigger impact on the whole topic.

[@joudaasad8841]

Or maybe because we as men just don't care

[@Leo-st9ti]

@@joudaasad8841 but I do.

[@Leo-st9ti]

@@joudaasad8841 this is completely illogical, I just said that as a man I want to, so clearly some demographic does and yet it’s not socially acceptable

[@joudaasad8841]

I mean its true in western countries, you try to wear like a Pakistani or Arabic outfit and you will easily stand out and get weird looks everywhere while that doesn't happen as much in arabic african and asian countries. Imo culture has an effect on fashion and how people perceive you aswell so from where i come from we just don't care enough unless you are wearing feminine dresses as a man then we will be like "will thats different"

[@jessy1982]

@@joudaasad8841 Yeah culture is a big deal, look at the kilts in Ireland or gowns in Saudi Arabia, the African colourful fits or native American tribeswear. Men CAN have variety, it's just western style is plain and stiff.

[@thu4061]

It's definitely more 'just a man' making some of these 'outfits'. Being absolutely blunt men get praised for looking even slightly above dishwater basic so most see no point in doing more. But the ones that do branch into true style have their masculinity challenged by their less fashionable peers while also being ignored in fashion resources - making it harder to find a unique style that fits them. That's a LOT of incentive to look garbage tbh so it makes sense imho

[@graveyardmonarch1629]

I feel like... People can wear whatever they want and don't need to fall victim to social norms. I literally only ever think about what my cute to comfort ratio is in the morning.

[@nublock5000]

Loved this episode. While I do 100% think you're onto something with the outfit repetition double standard, I personally enjoy the challenge. Developing a capsule wardrobe has made that infinitely more doable.

[@shongbrl]

ngl shes hella elegant, keep growing and stay at it Zoe!

[@Sweets4mee]

Idk all the guys outfits seemed really good for them it's probably just their style or what they feel comfortable wearing I would have love to seen what you or how you would dress a guy for certain events

[@TB-up1jz]

where are theirs @? weird to use their videos but not giving them “credit”

[@bridgray03]

Girl I feel the same way

[@proxy617]

Can you PLEASE start fashion tips for men?

[@gummy5862]

Men are able to do less and get more positive social feedback, but men are also constricted by social norms. We can’t get too creative or it looks “gay” or try-hardy.

[@cranburrey]

Tell me about it. I doubt anyone gaf about this type of stuff irl compared to online

[@LunaDarkFall]

If my biggest problem would be looking gay or trying to hard I would be so happy

[@gummy5862]

@@LunaDarkFall Girly pop who said that was men’s “biggest” problem? Cry into your $50 g string.

[@cranburrey]

@@LunaDarkFall Because that's just you.

[@tellercamille8080]

they look better without clothes on anyway

[@Wolfiewolf1234]

Lmao 😂

[@beomgrunge768]

As a man who has a very versatile style, I can say that most men can’t dress versatile, most of them stick to only one style, streetstyle, even though it’s not creative and ruining their looks even

[@Peerless_cucumber]

Same. And it's hard to find outfit ideas since every male fashion inspo is streetstyle

[@invisiblerevolution]

Speaking as an African-American brother..... I broke away from URBAN/STREET STYLE back in 2010. The think with street style.... is that every dude, pretty much ends up lookin the same! SKINNY JEANS..... SNEAKERS.... SWEAT SHIRT OR HOODIE...

[@beomgrunge768]

@@Peerless_cucumber fr 💀 all of my fashion inspo are pics of girls

[@jmsnsage]

Can we take a second to appreciate the quality intro!? I appreciate your effort with editing Zoe

[@devkrishanrpurohit5181]

She has an editor...

[@Klexiii03]

Don't wear something twice is a dumb instagram rule. Noone in the real world cares about seeing someone in the same outfit again

[@chillblue1650]

Exactly. If people actually take this rule seriously, they need to get off social and get back to reality.

[@cranburrey]

​@@chillblue1650So many people in this comment section are so chronically online to the point they see someone doing something irl, they have the need to complain about it on the internet. It's tiring atp

[@mayhem875]

I’m in college in an arts program and I dress out everyday cause it’s like a fucking runway in there. The guys dress well too. Even the guys that don’t “show out” still look put together everyday. We don’t even get a pass for finals cause a lot of the time we have shows, concerts, and auditions to dress up for 🥲 but we love it

[@ellingtonlilly]

as someone who gets into the alt/goth scene; men, wear lace tops and corsets more. I promise you can find some flattering ones that accentuate the masculine features you wanna show of

[@jayko4732]

It’s definitely an American thing, cause when I went to Australia to see my relatives… no one there had that “sluggish” style as an outfit. Everyone looked well dressed between the men and women

[@unfortunate6808]

I think the simplicity part may not really be about societal expectations. I typically buy clothes I will wear a lot and am more likely to buy simple clothes. Although, this is a personal anecdote so I don't know how much this applies to other guys.

[@archerestarcher]

The man throwing away the flannel and going for a puffer jacket makes me sob. I'm a pre-transition trans guy who wears flannels and other button ups over hoodies all the time, its like the easiest way to look cute in a masc way.

[@keenandeckel]

I hate that society isn’t more accepting of women and who they are. It seems like society sets standards for us, instead of us doing and looking how we want. Men have so much more freedom, but choose wear a low budget outfit with a stained hoodie and ripped jeans, while women could go out in a simple, long beautiful red dress, and it still wouldn’t be enough. This seriously needs to change, and I’m glad that there is people like you on the internet bringing this to people’s attention, keep it up Zoe!

[@Tomyj9]

Personally I wouldn’t put much stock into evolutionary psychology bc it tends to assume an Inherent patriarchal status quo & a lot of the research seems to equate correlation to equation

[@m0cha.melody]

Double standards are truly exhausting and need more light to be shed on them.

[@nikitatavernitilitvynova]

As a skinny woman myself with a slightly different style that isn't always hyper feminine I'd like to rate each outfit. I'll update as I keep watching the video. Outfit one is actually really cute on me. I did change some things. The cargo pants are jeans and they're a dark gray almost black acid wash denim. They do look really similar. The hoodie isn't as puffy and big. I don't wear that many hoodies anymore and the closest one I had with a hood is pretty thin and not as fuzzy. The layering top was almost the same colour as the jeans because I couldn't be bothered to find a white one that was long and boxy. And I threw on my leather chunky sneakers because I don't have air force one looking shoes. And mine have that thick faux leather sneaker look whilst my other sneakers are mainly canvas. And I tried all my puffer jackets. One was too big and poufy, the other looked a bit frumpy. But it's still serves its purpose. And the cream coloured puffer vest looked stunning with the cream coloured sweatshirt. Overall I'd give this look a 10/10 for when I want to look boyish. Second outfit is also good. It's a classic one for me. I couldn't find my Adidas slides so I went for my crab sandals as my other slides are really girly and put together with gold accents and gems. The backpack was too big because my other ones are either too small and put together or too sporty. Like going trekking kind of sporty. Overall very basic and solid 8/10. Outfit three is really cute too. But there were many alterations. I couldn't do my linen pants as they have paperbag elastic waistband and are striped. My sand pants were a close match. I wore a mustard yellow v-neck cotton sweater but it has its downs. It's super bulky not as thin and its really long. So it was hard to tuck in. For the shoes I tried two options. My chuncky black loafers or my more elegant flat shoes. Like the businnes man type shoe. The loafers looked better because most of my pants are full length and almost drag with thin shoes. And made me look frumpy. But the loafers with the gold chunky chains did not! And I threw on my faux leather coat in blue. I have a faux leather cropped jacket but it's a tan colour. The muded grayed out electric blue was a good combo with the nude and yellow pop. I'd give it a 8,5/10. Not something I'd reach for or think about myself but still really good. Also the coat is really long. Like past my knees long. I can't do outfit four at all. All my boots are black and pretty loose. I don't have a shirt that is tight and long and has an open detail and the outfit is so uninspiring to me. 0/10. Fifth outfit. It reminds me a lot of how my brother dresses. And it looks very boyish. Which is awesome for that gender breaking norm. I should go get a black hoodie now. Anyways. I threw on some black cargo pants that don't have excessive pockets but have a chain on one side. My highschool branded sweatshirt that doesn't have a hood but has a white graphic logo. And I cheated on two things. I went for a blend between a chelesa and combat boot that have a chunky orange/yellow tread as I didn't want to go for chain on chain with my chained boots. And I threw on a fisherman's hat in pink because I don't have a black beanie. I tired my mom's sand coloured beanie and it wasn't as good as it's one of those infinitely tall beanies. But mine is really short. The jacket was a miss because I don't really like that jacket. I mainly bought it for utility rather than style. It keeps me warm and dry which is really good. But is really boxy and not thick but a thin puffer material. Without the jacket I'd give the fit a 9/10. Even a 10/10 if it was more on theme. With the jacket a 7/10. Outfit 6. Jesus Christ what the hell is this? It looks horrible! I don't have sweatpant shorts that are that long. I mean I kind of do but they're neon green and I have no idea where they are so I went for my super short gray ones. The sweatshirt I found is hedious with the fit. At least it's a similar gray. But it has a print of a stamp with a dog fishing a bomb. Sorry but it was a gift that came from Ukraine hence why it's a bit random with was messaging. The hat is a tie dye lilac and white with a handmade embroidery of a cat and the word autistic pointing the cat and various cat pins. I made the embroidery. Yes I'm autistic. I threw on some mixed matched white socks. One looks dirtier than the other I have no idea why. And my short converse. I'm cold and I hate this. 0/10. I don't need to test outfit 7 because it's basically the same foundation as outfit 2 but with a jacket and sneakers and a hat. Very low effort in my mind so I'd give it a 7/10. I don't have everything for outfit 8 but I've worn iterations of it with the same sweater from earlier. The v-neck orange yellow cotton one and the same pants or a similar pair made of wool I sew earlier this year. I don't have a sweater vest of any kind. It's cute a and simple outfit. It's solid but nothing special that wows me. It's my "I want to look put together outfit but I'm too lazy" outfit. I'd say it's a solid 7,5/10. I will not leave my glasses on there though because I need to be able to see the fit. I didn't even bother trying this fit on as my living room is a mess and I want to be done with this so I can go eat. I'm having lots of fun though. Outfit nine I'm not going to wear because I wore it already recently. I was looking for a graduation outfit for uni. And I threw on my leather culotte pants, my pointy stiletto heels with a strap on the front. A black turtle neck and my cream coloured floral oversized blazer from h&m. Now I know it's not the same thing. But the vibe is totally in the same direction. And I think the vibe was classy high fashion but wearable. The high fashion statement is the blazer. It's oversized. It has a dusty purple floral print all over. It's chic. And the turtle neck breaks it apart quite nicely. It's not your shirt and blazer combo. It's more modern and daring. Because old school fashion would forbid anyone from wearing a regular top with an all elegant fit. It makes it weird. It's not the same as throwing a blazer on to make a fit more classy. But it's the act of adding a casual piece to a super classy fit. The outfit gets a 9/10 for me just because of the blazer. It was the best purchase I made last year. The best b-day gift ever. Better than the bright pink suit I was looking for. This blazer is stunning. Anyways thank you whoever decides to read all this. Now you have the opinion of a gender breaking outfit lover. I'd like to add that even though it seems I have loads of clothes expecially shoes most of them are not new. I'm known for wearing clothes until they fall apart. Like there are holes in them and look old and crusty. Most of the clothes I wore are one year old or even older. I believe the black cargo pants were bough when I was 16/17. That was 5/6 years ago. I also have loads because I sew some myself and they're generally really cheap clothes. I have the occasional designer item like my Tommy Jeans or a Tommy Hilfigher top. But most of my clothes are from Mango, Bershka, Stradivarious, Pull & Bear and h&m. Because I'm poor. And I need options. But options come at a big price tag when shopping sustainably. I also recycle the old clothes in the proper bins. The bottom line is I have a lot but I also keep a lot. I buy things I don't already have (I hate doing that.) because I don't want to spend 45 euros on pants that I already own in a different colour when I can get a pair I don't have for the same money.

[@Ceres_Monte1]

I don’t really see a lot of men commenting on women’s post about them wearing the same outfit but idk everyone’s online experiences are curated for them 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@tanatswamhandire5604]

I hate it so much when I can’t see a shirt from underneath a hoodie

[@LordPhantomWolfe]

As a man who's working on expanding his sense of fashion for 2024. It is very weird seeing men wear the same normal clothes that I wear everyday and passing it off as fashion. I'm trying to expand my looks of course I'm starting simple and neutral with what I am trying but I am looking to expand into a different aesthetic. Seeing people put on what I literally am wearing while at home watching the video and saying it's for a semi fancy date is super weird to me. The outfits look good but they don't feel different. They don't tap into that broadened horizon. A t-shirt and jeans is a t-shirt and jeans. Styling them can make them better. But just because you paid 10 times more for a white t-shirt doesn't make it fashion in my eyes. Doing something with that shirt is. If there is no styling in your style you just look like you're wearing the same outfit as I am, you just paid more for it. I'm at home after work the price of my clothes don't matter. My style doesn't matter. But you're going out and you're wearing the same thing as me with a higher price tag.

[@lisacupcake5777]

Feel free to disagree, I feel like it’s mostly woman competing with woman. Like in fashion, woman hate on other woman for wearing the same outfit. This is just what I have seen as a woman, I am open to listen :))

[@cranburrey]

I think it's more of an online thing because I rarely meet any woman who acts like that outside of the internet

[@Anonymous__S]

No joke i do wonder how the "Two women can't wear the same outfit" came from? I don't hate other girls for wearing the same thing as me (I want to think that was just America's TV shows exaggerations+Im not american) but I might feel its kind of a bummer depending on how much effort I put in (like, I want to feel original don't judge me). I don't know where I got it from tho, just kinda imprinted on me.

[@chillblue1650]

Where did this idea come from? I thought it was the other way around. Girls look way better a whole plethora of clothes, including guys' clothes. They can wear loose-fitting or poorly fitting clothing and still look good. I'm sure factors such as fitness, skincare, and hairstyle also contribute to this.

[@Jae-fk9vn]

My wardrobe rule: “4 of each 4 items per 'fit = 4^4 = 256” There's no need to get the newest best fit on the market, with a bit of creative ingenuity you could literally mix...even with as little as 4 tees, 4 jackets, 4 pants and 4 shoes you've got 256 different outfits. Thats almost an entire year. And no doubt, as everyone does you'll add to the wardrobe at least 3 times in that year. 😉 Happy Styling. 💖

[@KamronMardonov]

I love this girl😂❤

[@sknk.hunt42]

This has been bothering me for YEARS. Like in 2020 a dude would just have to paint his nails, wear a chain or a pearl necklace and suddenly he’ll be a “fashion icon”

[@cranburrey]

You'll be alright

[@GearZNet]

If this is bothering you for years you live a very good life. Good on you. 😂

[@InstruMLPchannel]

These guys are just, amen. If I would dress like a homeless dude on the street I would be called out for being shit in school

[@hikuninza]

I started following you because of this series! ❤

[@Pixl8dwhmsy]

You getting too famous 💫 friend. 💕 Stay safe out there!

[@jams_1013]

Girl…. You need to do a series including men in kpop cuz that’s a whole different conversation 😭

[@dailyn9121]

Some of this guys a comedy 😂 just hilarious Zoe , love it

[@muirenoleander]

it's easier for us to dress but we dont have that much option too 😭😭😭😭 it's boring honestly

[@michaelmcclure9259]

Speaking as a male: I kinda get where she's coming from but I don't really notice if people wear the same outfit more than once- male or female. To me that signifies being more responsible with money (yes it's a stretch but idk that's just how my brain works). Wear whatever you want, ladies- just please wear clothes :) (gents you too- if you don't look like Chris Hemsworth put a shirt on in the supermarket)

[@hoshiya-g8v]

the last outfit whas so fucking good the black jst AAAAHH

[@yaB0i_Hawkx]

Haha yeah, i remember when i was vacationing in china i saw a couple. The girl had an absolutely adorable fit, white vibes, cute jacket, a dress, a cute fluffy hat, absolutely beautiful, while the dude was just wearing a tshirt and pants that look like the pantsierst of pants. Ive seen alot of couples with the dynamic. Ive seen the man under dressing, but in rare cases where both dress well, but i have never seen a case, where the women is underdressed.

[@myriamtouil3347]

Lmao "dress better " 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Patroclus27]

Not sure if this is a western culture thing? Cause I don’t think there is such a pressure where I’m from in Asia.

[@catalinapinzaru9788]

Ok, but why did you really fu*ked the first outfits on purpose? It is hard to believe you did not have more similar things in you closet to do this outfit in a proper way 3:11

[@cranburrey]

Especially this one at 4:26. The guy tucked in his shirt while she tied it up

[@feedbacker.pt.2]

when i changed schools in 10th grade (equivalent tosophomore year ig?) many students AND teachers thought i was lesbian (which is not a big problem for me, i indeed am bisexual but it does feel bad when your male crush doesn't even think of you as a possible romantic interest or popular girls avoid you cause they think you're interested in them or something??). i wore and i still do wear baggy and oversized clothes, and i shop from the men's section most of the time since i like the way they fit me more than the ones in women's section. but i wear anything that i feel good and pretty in, regardless of the gender. and being labeled thru such simple thing was heartbreaking since it made me feel alienated from the others. but i do wear my favorite t-shirt a few times a week if it's clean and wearable, and i got called out for that too💀 so overall i was really happy to see zoe making such video hehe. and can we just let people wear stuff they feel comfortable in?

[@KinoKoenigin]

As a queer man I have been finding all these “men’s fits” so boring. Thank you for this

[@Klexiii03]

Soooo, I dress like a man. And i dont care. Dont have time to think about special outfits every day

[@ineedgoldenretriever]

So what do you trade your time for? To watch a video about fashion on KZbin? 😂

[@cranburrey]

​​@@ineedgoldenretrieverDoing other things

[@Yanel5795]

Men dont care either

[@just_swiftly_shake_it_off_1989]

12:20 she just went through my Pinterest boards basically 😂😂

[@davidr.3888]

as a man I am always jealous how much choice women have in relation to the selection of their clothes - men's fashion is SOOO boring

[@InstruMLPchannel]

Totally agree. Girls can search the internet for badass masculine clothing for girls. But boys can’t quite search up cute feminine clothing for boys. Or is outside society standards.

[@Oliver.Angel.]

Not me freaking out over your vest and ribbon bow tie thing the entire time 😂

[@PoofyisDead]

The more I think about it, I don’t think it’s much harder to to dress as a women, rather it’s more socially acceptable to dress poorly as a man.

[@GearZNet]

Bingo. Men don't care. Women really care and seem to be projecting their beliefs on men. Fashion is far more an intrasexual battle ground (i.e. women are squabbling amongst each other and men are catching strays because women are projecting).

[@DudeNamedPear]

I totally see your points, but in my experience men's fashion exist in 4 quadrants(Skinny-draped, colors-neutral) and just shifts across the graph. Women's fashion is just so diverse that the taste needed to find your style is insane. I tell guys to dress like cartoon characters, find the colors you like/bring out something about you, and find the silhouette(s) that fit you. Also even men's formal is comfy as FUCK. Wool flow-y pants and layers. Anyone complaining that a suit is uncomfortable didn't even try it on or check their measurements

[@burgersuperking]

try Dior Homme suit and see how 'comfortable' it is

[@HeyArlo]

Second one looked like he was going to announce the next computer software at some con lmao

[@mintallylost222]

Girl, give us the link to the original video. Or at least put their @

[@elkedekievit732]

Woman put these pressures up on themselves 90% of the time also ofcourse the men outfits dont look as good to you because you are not a men and it fits different. This gives off victim mentality a little bit tbh

[@black-cat.13.]

They like to cry for everything😅 hh lmao

[@philjones9356]

Great video, thx for doing it, I really enjoyed it.

[@KaleidoSaurus]

I never knew this was a series I needed, but I did. I do. They just men.

[@damroll]

Funny thing, most of those people giving women had time for not putting in effort, is in fact other women, not men.

[@ockarstil3708]

i completely agree that ur points are correct but i think another important factor for the double standard are women, in my social proximity its rare for males to judge women's outfit and its usually women judging other women's outfit and especially if they wear the same thing twice (as most men are too unnoticing for it) and most of the toxicity and double standard stand from women towards women, which as a male i dont fucking understand why they do it (ofc except placing themselfs on a podium but i dont think all women do it for that reason)

[@abhishekgrewal8906]

In our defense… it’s hard to dress unique without sacrificing quality. Most reasonable priced brands sell the same kinda stuff and if you need something unique with quality you’d have to end up splurging.

[@kyaroriina2023]

Has anyone else, like me, noticed that only men’s jackets have a secret inside pocket!!!! Why can’t I have it too!! I need to too!!! 😤😤😤 (Very few women’s jacket have it, I only found it in my Levi’s jeans jacket)

[@zubatski]

I had jackets before and they had inside pockets. You just need to know brands that do this kind of thing and you are good to go.

[@cranburrey]

Highly depends on the brands because I wear women sized jackets and they have inside pockets

[@ruth3082]

While I really love your drastic comparison, I'm thinking of the flipside of the coin: Men don't have the amount of options women have, and it starts with clothes for baby boys. You don't get the same amount of cute clothes for your baby boy. Look into any H&M, what can you actually find to dress a man in an interesting way? No chance almost to find anything suitable for a man at a thrift store. Also, look at what politicians wear. Men are condemned to wear uncomfortable suits, whereas women (at least in my country) wear classy yet comfortable clothes including knits. So amidst all of that a man finally decides to sew his own clothes. He is lucky to even find one book "for men", whereas women have so many magazines and patterns online and books to choose from! - My conclusion: Discrimination really works both ways ...

[@pika3094]

I think the problem is not that woman are expected to follow trends. I think the problem is that they do. I never cared about trends or what other people think is pretty. I have my own style that I like and I try to find clothes that fit me, are compy and I find beautiful and it was never a big problem. Yeah, some people might ask you why you dress a certain way or tell you that you should try something else, but you don't need to listen.

[@apple-de8tx]

The first cut had my mouth wide open 😮

[@Anonymous__S]

But pink is a feminine color. Feminine does not equal woman and it's not opposiet of man. Feminine and masculine are concepts that define style in more things aside from clothing, and it's not an all or nothing (those men wearing pink suits, the color is pink, feminine, but the silhouette is masculine becauseof size and proportions), same way you don't go monocolor and how you can mix styles. The wrong isn't the concept, the wrong is assigning femininity or masculinity to genders (which you accidentally just did).

[@XD_ZILLA]

It is in fact easier for men to dress compared to women. Both genders have beauty standards, but I feel like women habe wayyyy more.

[@saraz2189]

The stretches lmao

[@missmalyadatheenby]

Dressing to play a guy at tye school play , This is actually helpful.

[@lisacupcake5777]

4:52 is actual cute ❤️

[@elh7149]

I disagree with many of this videos' takes. My reasoning: I am lesbian. I have a lot of gay friends and I have discussed this with them and we all agree: all these outfits look way better on women. Why? Because we are attracted to women. To us, the outfits looked rightfully shitty on men fron the get-go. I don't care how many times a woman wears an outfit, how casual she looks, how simple... A lot of these "societal rules" are not so widespread in non-mainstream cultures. I'd rather see a woman in a sweatshirt and jeans than a fancy dress, just on personal taste. And I think within the LGBTQ+ circles there is a lot more variety in what is seen as a fit, simply because when you reject one social norm, it's much easier to be free from others as well. So instead I propose: Is it an outfit, or am I just really attracted to this person's gender? or, more simply and specifically: is it an outfit, or am I just straight? And maybe when I see this and other female fashion people, I need to consider for myself: Is it an outfit, or am I just gay?

[@cassiopaia3153]

I´m studying fashion design and being able to interact with people that share my passion for fashion in a professional way helped me so much to just do what I want.

[@sqtisfy]

Idk how to put this, but I have a female friend that I think dress very cool, and I have seen almost all of her clothes but I don’t think that repeating an outfit it’s bad, or wearing something comfortable is seen as lazy

[@salemthewitch7]

the signature piece? how about color.... me who hasn't gone a day without wearing lavender in the last year cause idk i like it :P

[@BruteZ7957]

Why's this so entertaining? i don't even watch any fashion stuff on yt

[@Phd366]

How to you adjust skirts when you are skinny? Asking because I always have that issue 😅

[@cranburrey]

I think she pins them or something. Mines always slide down whenever i attempt to tuck anything in or make them shorter

[@Kendricklamar-real]

I love this video

[@Priya24-n1z]

Tho to be honest what you wear doesn't much get cared rather than you are a public figure but still I feel like if somebody is looking good or wearing a good style statement then that person do gives the impression to the others so I feel it's important for everyone rather it's a women or men everyone to dress better ❤ And I do feel that guys need to put some effort I know guys can also look good and can do a better fashion but they don't want to put effort but what every girl should die for them.... 🤡

[@kimkwan-]

First time early ❤ I love your channel

[@kimkwan-]

@NotVille_ wdym

[@windfavored2291]

WHO IS HE IM IN LOVE

[@SM-ys8lw]

i promise you, very few men care if you wear the same outfit or dress twice, in fact most of us probably wont even notice(dress more so then outfit) thats yalls thing

[@LunaDarkFall]

We should talk about that evolutionary theory being disproven tho

[@Defendini]

This video is a bit delulu, thought i was gonna be educated or at least entertained. Sadly no... The short was better than the actual video tho, thats interesting.

[@alphenhousplaysgames4565]

is square puffy doesn't own an iron shape like in right now? i have always dressed in what's basically very sharp, edged fashion(dress shirts, bottle pants, sharp sleek shoes, everything fits near perfect). is it out of fashion to look like a lambo or a supra? is it more in fashion to look like what a suv feels like?

[@abdo77066]

It's simple. The difference between men's and women's style is that men's style focuses more on comfort and practicality, unlike women's style, which focuses more on beauty and uniqueness.

[@lebonemasemola6887]

I feel like the double standards are created and emphasised more by women than men. While it seems that women face more criticism on their looks, men do too. Women find men more attractive if they look more athletic or more money or even social status. Yes it's different, but still criticism against men and pressure on them. I don't agree at all with Zoe on this. The research is very one-sided, not rational or even thorough. It's giving "pop psychology".

[@DaddyKonig]

Totally different from my series, “Is he a man, or is it just an outfit.”

[@ThatGilbert]

Give him his credit. Dont just stole his content for views. No one will watch u, we are here just for that handsome man

[@victorlarryesmenda2805]

Maybe she did

[@cranburrey]

@@victorlarryesmenda2805 She didn't at all. Never gave any of the guys credit for using their videos

[@Eniramoi]

Does anyone know where the beige jacket she wears in the intro is from? I think I'm in love About the outfit repetition thing, sometimes when I find an outfit I love I just can't wait to wear it again. I think you don't like your clothes enough if you can't bear wearing the same outfit again

[@andresmunoz1602]

All I learned from this video is that I do t understand fashion

[@queenofyasrabien]

832 "he's giving a lot of german vibes idk" as in having absolutely zero drip and letting the mainstream dictate how you have to look? agree