@@elena.was.hereee are you blind to homoerotic subtext ?
@NixsCavern10 ай бұрын
@@elena.was.hereee Lots of people see it as lesbian due to the kind of relationship Jennifer and Needy have, especially teh mix of platonic and romantic feelings Needy has for Jennifer, and scenes like their kiss scene, etc
@elena.was.hereee10 ай бұрын
ohhhhh ok thx@@NixsCavern
@rita827410 ай бұрын
When I watched the movie years ago I thought it was weird and didn't fully grasp the story it was telling, but thought it was clearly describing what happens to a woman's psyche after SA. As time has passed, I see it a lot more clearly a much larger statement piece on society and how tragedy effects not just the victims but everyone around them. Great video!
@movie.notepad10 ай бұрын
Agreed. Thanks!
@ascende_superius10 ай бұрын
Wow, that is such a nice video, i was really surprised when i saw the number of subscribers. You deserve more!
@movie.notepad10 ай бұрын
Thanks so much! That means a lot to me.
@celinacc505010 ай бұрын
Hope your video will get more attention. It was great!
@movie.notepad10 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@ginnundso10 ай бұрын
I feel more and more anger. I have over 10 different male perpetrators (of crimes by law) since I was only 11, my environment/family tried to press me into the classic housewife roles (except in my part of the country, women work full-time as well but still do ALL the household care, prime example is my mom that did everything and my dad that literally consciously used weaponized incompetence to make her do shit). I can say almost 95% of all men I've had in my life hurt me in one way or another. I am only 21 and becoming more and more angry. I could never do smth physically to someone but I am just fckng sick and tired of men. First I get SA'd or my nudes photographed/made against my consent, then I get victim-blamed by other men. Even a former therapist of mine said if it really happens that often, I should ask myself "what I am sending out that attracts these people". edit: great video. I didn't mean this to be an unasked rant, but at that point where you mentioned what such experiences do to us women I could relate more and more. When I was a little younger and watched this, I still had my SAs and shi behind me, yes. But I wasn't mature enough to process them. I'm now a few years older and it has gone so overboard that I am simply nothing full of bitterness now. When I saw the movie I was only crushing on her, sympathising and then being scared of her but now I feel her in any point.
@movie.notepad10 ай бұрын
Firstly, thank you for sharing this. I appreciate it and I truly hear you. I'm so sorry about everything you've gone through. So many people in your life have failed you. You didn't deserve any of that. I also have a deep anger and resentment towards the world. Far too many people are cruel, manipulative, selfish and outright disgusting. It enrages me and what makes me almost as upset is the lack of empathy people have, it's like I'm angry because not enough people are. Stories like yours are why I'll go down kicking and screaming for feminism and mental health advocacy. I wish I could help you in a more meaningful way, but if you feel comfortable to and would like to talk more, please let me know. You can dm me at my channel's instagram page @movienotepad or email me at movienotepad@gmail.com. I'd give you my personal social media and email address, but I'd rather not blatantly post them here
@ginnundso10 ай бұрын
@@movie.notepad Omg thank you so much for you thorough and empathetic response, I'll make a screenshot of your contact info and handle that when this weekend is over, I'm mentally and physically busy with work this weekend! I too feel your anger and resentment towards the world, honestly I think it's very natural and logical of us to start being more and more frustrated. It was always about time to get to this level of frustration and sadness.
@movie.notepad10 ай бұрын
@@ginnundso Of course! People need to be there for each other
@movie.notepad9 ай бұрын
I'm personally not choosing to be angry, I'm just disappointed with a lot of aspects of the world and people. I also wouldn't even say it's necessarily as simple as "learning the game". Of course, you can try to be able to read people's intentions better and figure out how to protect yourself from certain things, to an extent. But a lot of the time, the pain people are forced to endure is completely out of their control. And to say that you can just outsmart terrible situations and people fails to recognize the situations where people are assaulted or abused when they're young or by trusted friends/family or by others by force. I think everyone should learn how they can protect themselves, but that doesn't make you invulnerable to getting hurt unfairly. I'm interested to read the 48 laws of power though!