Is My Deaf Boyfriend Aware of Noises?

[@crayycray8370]

I can read his lips and I could hear some words of him is like he’s whispering

[@chelsey8737]

Yeah this is really common especially from people who grew up in English-speaking households where they learned to speak English and their signing was more signed exact English (SEE) than true ASL. A lot of Deaf people who grow up in those situations are also prone to code switching which is when they change the grammar of their signing to be more english-based if somebody who doesn't sign or doesn't sign well approaches. It's almost entirely unconscious and sometimes they'll even say the words or partially say some of the words as a way to, again, unintentionally help the person that doesn't know sign. Im a first year deaf studies major so what I'm saying is just what I've learned, of course not everyone does this and I'm not an expert.

[@shaylac5095]

Yes I grew up Oral speaking English. But I learned how to sign with a friend at the mainstream school. She is CODA she helped me better understand class. so I was able to experience both Deaf and Hearing world.

[@crayycray8370]

Chelsey Abbott thank you for your valuable info

[@crayycray8370]

Shayla C I’m planning on learning ASL it’s really amazing

[@DaemontheFox6666]

He makes popping sounds when he signs

[@johnathanreyna9919]

When Ryan is making noises it’s actually pretty relaxing not gonna lie...like it reminds me of Inaudible ASMR but I love this couple y’all are the best

[@SignDuoChannel]

Johnathan Reyna 🙏🏻😁

[@sarahrantala1313]

Johnathan Reyna I thought the same thing!

[@aclownstayalsooneofbangcha691]

I know righrt!💜💜😭

[@ryderrjj]

Wtf

[@idkatidk]

you are the nicest person i ever saw on youtube

[@DevI-vl7gp]

I've heard that dogs respond better to hand signs than vocal commands. I'd love to see a video on Java's sign language tricks!

[@nickiemarmolejo8619]

This makes sense! I dont sign but when I trained my dogs i used typical and gestures all the time, pointing when I said "go over there", or palm facing down when saying "lay down." And now sometimes when we have company over, if i just gesture to my dogs - so as not to interrupt out guest talking - the dogs understand what I mean.

[@skatardrummer1]

I trained my dogs with hand signs too. Dogs get a lot of of vocal inflection but hand signs help them understand what we want.

[@Anna-tc6rz]

@@skatardrummer1 I did both when training them so they respond to either unless it's something that requires a hand signal like telling them where i want them to go

[@caramel_rxse3951]

Isn't it cause like they relate the movement to a gesture. Kind of like a word to a movement? EX: If you put your hand up and they lay down. And you do it over and over wouldn't they like, connect "OH This hand gesture means to lay down"

[@espimakenzie]

This is true! My dogs know the sign no very well, and sometimes respond to treat or walk!

[@joshs1879]

My wife says you should label his power tools or loud objects and say "this is LOUD"😂

[@MultiSignlanguage]

😂 that’s funny What about for deaf women like me? I’m loud with cooking and cleaning in the kitchen. Pots and pans and plates make lots of noise too. 😬

[@joshs1879]

@@MultiSignlanguage id never complain knowing a delicious dish of something scrumptious is in the works

[@SignDuoChannel]

@@joshs1879 good answer 😂

[@sanityisrelative]

@@MultiSignlanguage I've got a different yet similar situation. I can hear but my kid has like really sensitive hearing and he'll actually come up to me in the kitchen and scold me for being too loud with the dishes (he's 4, it's kinda cute and kinda like living with a tiny dictator). I have to remember to warn him when I'm going to do something especially loud like use the mixer so he doesn't freak out.

[@katdixon8390]

@@sanityisrelative I have sensitivity problems (a disorder called Central Sensitization Syndrome), and thank you so much for being considerate of him. As a kid with sensitive hearing it was REALLY tough sometimes-- the vacuum cleaner was awful! Fortunately my parents would warn me too. Unfortunately, my mom has really loud sneezes and she couldn't always warn me about those XD If it helps, sensitivity problems often get less severe with age! I can run the vacuum cleaner myself these days :) I still have pain sensitivity and misophonia, but it's gotten a lot better in general. So it should hopefully get better for him as he gets older! If you need advice from someone with a sensory processing disorder, let me know and I can try to answer any questions you might have :)

[@rina-hw2xe]

hello. I just wanted to thank you guys. We recently found out that my little sister is deaf (or hard of hearing, im not a native speaker so i dont know exactly the right term) and your videos helped us a lot and made us understand this world better. So thank you

[@SignDuoChannel]

Just Bangtan Sonyeondan that’s so great! We’re so happy our videos have helped 🤟☺️

[@Charlie10266]

Learn sign. Teach her. And make her comfortable with both worlds, deaf and hearing.

[@notkaitlyn_]

OK but ur username thought 😂 I bet it's tough for you and ur sister

[@rina-hw2xe]

@@notkaitlyn_ just army things😂 and yeah, it is, but we try our best✊

[@notkaitlyn_]

@@rina-hw2xe Hope she's doing OK I can feel that it's going to be hard for her :c

[@JennaRue1434]

Awww, Ryan's reaction when Java put her paw on his hand to "drive"...so cute! Thanks again for making another great video with super helpful info!

[@SignDuoChannel]

Jenny Rose she seriously melts my heart so easily! I’m typically a tough guy but not with java 😅😂

[@aireyverse]

@@SignDuoChannel Awww

[@hm9610]

*AAAAAAWWWW*

[@nataliarezendemarini9488]

Ryan commenting he's a though guy is melting my heart 💓

[@earothefancy8144]

@@SignDuoChannel I'm 'bout to cry, Ryan is such an amazing and wholesome guy, He's so cute!

[@martori23]

Does Ryan have a inner voice he hears when he’s thinking to himself? Also I just recently found y’alls channel and I have been bingeing on all your videos I love y’all! Java is such a cutie!

[@DanyelleMullins]

Tori Martinez I would say all humans have a conscious

[@zhuzhupetlover6673]

He probably thinks in his first language which is ASL.

[@ryienb3798]

Tori Martinez , I’m an asl student and I find myself thinking in ASL sometimes though I am a hearing student and my first language is english (especially after ASL classes or if I’m extremely tired). So I agree with zhuzhupetlover6673

[@glittery_cucumber]

@@ryienb3798 As someone who is hearing but speaks ASL, can you explain this a bit more maybe? It's just so difficult to imagine if you're used to a voice in your head.

[@imjoshellis]

@@glittery_cucumber I'm hearing and know zero sign, but when I attempted learning Arabic, I would occasionally think using the characters/words/shapes instead of the actual vocalized words because I picked up on the written language faster than oral due to being a primarily visual learner. I imagine it's *something* like that (since almost everyone can read/write their main language) except you've got movement to go with it?

[@franzrogar]

The easy solution is this: buy a sound lever meter. There are ones that will turn on a flashing light so deaf people can see they're making too much noise.

[@harshmnr]

But like...would they have to just have that with them wherever they go? I feel like it's better the way they do it just on a case by case basis, like they said he was using the drill, she tells him the drill is loud, okay next time he won't use the drill at night, problem solved. ~:~

[@kati1063]

Not trying to be offensive at all! But does Ryan vocalize when he laughs? Or are his laughs generally silent?

[@swisstrader]

Kati callahan only his farts are silent 💩

[@kati1063]

@@swisstrader oof poor ellen

[@OfficialKoharu]

That's actually an interesting question I wanna know too

[@marcyslu6523]

In a previous video, I forgot which one, they answer this, saying yes he does. :) Anyway I just found this channel and love it and the community

[@kati1063]

Marcy Slu thank you!!:)

[@RapidObsessor]

"what changed for me is when i saw she loved me" :))))) imma go cry now

[@Alexia-dn3qi]

how did your parents react when they found out you were dating a deaf guy/hearing girl?

[@esthermiller2713]

lexia diaz , I’m quite sure they would react exactly the same regardless of whatever inadequacies he had. Everyone has inadequacies of some kind. But driving a vehicle would certainly have to be denied for anyone who was blind or deaf.

[@rikkirikki4892]

@@esthermiller2713 The number of absolute idiots who think deaf people can't drive is amazing to me lol. Deaf and blind are two VERY different things.

[@esthermiller2713]

Rikki xo , in order to be able to drive safely a person has to be able to hear. Why were vehicles designed with horns? There are times when the use of a horn actually cautions someone. ( I encourage you to refer to people respectfully......even those who do or say something you disagree with ).

[@breluper]

Esther Miller Deaf people can drive lol. my auntie is deaf and drives just fine! deaf people usually have a big long rear view mirror

[@noahburton2729]

@@esthermiller2713 Ryan is also in the driver's seat right now C: They had a video talking about how Deaf people are really good drivers because they are always checking around them

[@ScytherClaimed]

I like it how he clicks his tongue and makes a pop sound when he’s talking

[@atomicjoe3238]

When u guys argue, is it like a scene from naruto where they r mad and doing all their jutsu moves with their hands

[@burritoandsalad4160]

Omg!😂😂😂 It's so funny when I imagine them like that.

[@ranxietyzx7527]

MAD NO JUTSU

[@inumakisenpai8120]

Bruh i- hold up...... *RASENGAN*

[@notalive5442]

I had a deaf friend and we’d argue exactly the same way- 😂 We’d argue a lot and whenever we argue in sign language my dad and mum looks at me and her like we’re some sort of “freaks from some stupid anime” 😂

[@mellchiril]

I told myself 'omg don't laugh at this comment' and about a minute later I'm still giggling my ass off imagining that.

[@shakersam1968]

Just the fact that Ryan was bullied for trying to speak, the fact that he used to be really insecure, it makes me understand how difficult it really can be to grow up in a hearing world. It opened my eyes to difficulties I never thought of. Thank you guys for shedding light on some of that.

[@giharaujo7316]

I'm sorry, but I laughed so much at Java's noises. She's so cute

[@Maztex1970]

OK I'm not sure why KZbin brought me here with these two wonderful people but thank you. This has to get into some sort of educational category. As a person that knows nothing about deaf folks I'm learning tons. Plus you guys are great together (dog too!)

[@kidtrunks2568]

Have no idea what brought me to them but now I'm literally considering learning sign language lmao.

[@magenm507]

Just a tip, IF the whining/crying does bother you, make sure to firmly but kindly correct the behavior. Definitely do not give affection while its happening because that encourages it just like any other reward would. :)

[@loafyu5405]

And by firm that doesn’t mean yelling or hitting your dog!!! Remember that they are basically little kids and you wouldn’t yell and smack a 4 yr old for crying about something no matter how annoying or not worth getting upset over it might be. Trust is a very important thing in any bond and dogs too, i noticed that my dogs are 100 times more trusting and loyal and honestly more obedient for me than my moms dogs are for her(bc when they act out she will smack them as hard as she can and yells at them. When i was really young i remember her making some dogs so afraid they would pee out of fear bc she would get so insane when they were disobedient)

[@loafyu5405]

Sorry i feel that this could be interpreted as me being that awful annoying person that’s like EHHH LET ME CORRECT YOU or whatever i was just adding to it ☺️

[@Widdekuu91]

Also, the 'ahhhHHWHhwhwhhww' makes the dog think you are worried as well.

[@lillatreat]

Widdekuu91 I know this could be directed as just a general advice towards all dog owners but if you are directing this towards Ryan and Ellen: i’m pretty sure Java is deaf so it probably doesn’t make a difference if she coos or not in this particular case.

[@runes5407]

@@loafyu5405 I want your guys' Parents

[@metasaw3067]

3:19 that has to be the biggest donut I've ever seen XD

[@scabbyknee1235]

The introductions are always so cute! Great job! 🥰🥺

[@SignDuoChannel]

CassiSmith thanks Cassi! ☺️

[@annelyceimgrund6884]

Not meaning to be offensive-honestly!-but even being deaf doesn’t mean we don’t need to be aware of what time it is before using power tools late at night. Just saying that I don’t think Ellen is being “ignorant” to run to the garage to quiet the screeching drill at 1 a.m. No one wants sleep-deprived, hostile neighbors, so it’s pretty important not to, like, mow at 6 a.m. or use a power saw at midnight or whatever. We had a neighbor once who didn’t even like our son to shoot hoops after 10 or so (not with friends, just alone). The pound-pound-pound of the dribbling kept him awake. Granted, a tad over-sensitive in our minds, but we did comply b/c the guy was otherwise very kind, he did have to work in the mornings, and we didn’t want tension. Besides, if it bothered him, maybe it bothered others, so hoops stopped at 10.🤷🏻‍♀️

[@itsalexaa5446]

Nice grammar

[@hannahcaldwell5832]

I agree. My husband is deaf and is a contractor. He doesn't hear how loud he is, but just like anything else, when you KNOW it's a loud tool, or if dragging something is loud, courtesy says that when it gets late it's time to stop. I hate it when bad manners is blamed on deafness. Part of that is also growing and maturing.

[@jessicarandall9942]

Couldn’t agree with you more!

[@mlou4444]

I totally thought the same thing. It's completely understandable to not know when you're too loud if you're doing new or different, like not realizing the tv is too loud or dishes are clanging. That's also never going to bother a neighbor. But that particular drill must always be noisy. Just don't use power tools after 10. P.S. Does Ryan fix cars for a living or is just a hobby? He is obviously very passionate about it. I can't imagine doing anything other than sleep at 1am!!

[@bryonyperecat5954]

When I was a kid, one of my older neighbours played solo basketball all the time. As someone who was actually kept awake all the time, thank you for being so considerate of the neighbour! :)

[@roisincarney8208]

The two of you are amazing! You have an amazing understanding of each other and have really heightened my understanding of the deaf community! Happy New Year to you both 🥰🥰

[@SignDuoChannel]

Róisín Carney thank you! We’re happy we could help ☺️ happy new year!

[@SilverFlame819]

I like how open he is about how he used to feel insecure and scared to be himself, but now feels safe with you. That's so sweet. And now he's himself with the world, so EAT IT, bullies!!

[@fightingfox8341]

Ryan looks so happy getting to pick out donuts!!

[@angelamitchinson8439]

Ellen is beautiful, and Ryan is so handsome. What a good-looking, kind-hearted couple ❤

[@rukaiyamustufa6916]

"After sometime i was just like whatever she's not going to eave me anyways" 😂😂😂😂😂 lolll

[@BryerG]

Can Ryan still listen to music? By “listen” I mean feel music. (Example: the bass booming if it’s loud enough)

[@Mariana-rp9rp]

I don't know about Ryan, but I have deaf friends who I met swing dancing. They could feel the beat through the vibrations from the floor. We had two follows and one lead who were deaf, and they were all great dancers who could definitely feel the music.

[@pizzawonderer5024]

When you can literally feel the music...

[@julestatzz]

Well- personally I’m deaf and since I go to some of my dad’s concerts, I feel the music vibrations but I can actually hear with a cochlear and I just feel it and listen at the same time

[@jpegeneral5884]

If he was completely deaf for his whole life, that means that he has no idea what music actually feels like to listen to. Was he deaf for his whole life? Idk, I’m just wondering.

[@Isac_C7]

He cant hear He can feel

[@monicagracee]

has answering these questions changed/improved your guys' relationship or communication at all? what have been some of your favorite questions so far? :)

[@ChrissyDlr]

bruh my eyes started overflowing when he got to talking about how he feels secure with you 😭😭💕

[@MarleyMar-ke3qw]

Okay when Ryan vocally said “calm down” to Java, it was absolutely ADORABLE

[@brianpickford3031]

When they said first video of 2020 I immediately said; oh you poor dears. They had no idea.

[@lucy4279]

Hi! I’m currently learning how to drive (in the UK) and I was wondering how Ryan’s experience of learning to drive whilst being deaf was different to Ellen’s hearing experience. What was it like? Keep making videos and spreading awareness! 💗

[@awesomemindboyd9930]

Ryan's mouth movement's noises when he's sign language is better than a professional beat boxer's carrier. I'm vibing hard to his mouth noises.

[@Fred-h4p]

I really appreciate your honesty. As HH,I know what it's like to grow up with those insecurities. You being open about yours in the past is very validating.

[@Cosmosisification]

I think a really good way to fix this problem (if you're determined to), is to install a variable noise-reactive light that flashes when it hits its limit. You could even plug it in with a power switch timer, so it powers on automatically after 10 PM. A red one would probably be best. So as the noise gets louder, the light gets more red. When it reaches a certain threshhold, it'd start flashing.

[@djmastertrej727]

Are Ryan's parents deaf? Do all of his siblings and extended family know ASL? I'd love to know more about his upbringing, how quickly did his parents decide to learn ASL? Etc. I know that most deaf children are born to hearing parents and that these things can be a struggle.

[@gjfjejxkvr9490]

I love how he eat in every video 😂😂

[@nikitasantamaria]

Going through a rough time lately but then I see this notification and wow my whole world is made ❤️❤️

[@gloooooorr]

This honestly made me cry 😭yall are one of the sweetest couples ever! im learning ASL at the moment so i know a little bit of the basics! these videos honestly help to to try and correct what i'm doing😄 ryan honestly seems so sweet! well yall both do

[@jmetreksmiles]

for the “loud noises at 1am” dilemma, ellen have you ever thought of labeling loud things? ex: (drill, blender, etc) it might help!

[@jmetreksmiles]

Bree Phoenix understandable! i’m curious if it would work for ellen and ryan since it seems like there’s a pattern of things he does that late at night (working on the car), you know? great to hear another’s perspective! thanks!! 😁

[@s_rofbear]

Bree Phoenix - I think Jamie was suggesting labeling just the things that make really loud noises (the kind of things you’ll disturb housemates or neighbours with if you’re using them at 1am - like power tools, vacuum cleaner, powerful kitchen blender).

[@taylor3950]

@@breephoenix111 no one is criticising you

[@jmetreksmiles]

Sarah P i was, thank you! 🙏🏻

[@ayyac--]

Bree Phoenix You’re honestly blowing a simple, polite suggestion way out of proportion. No one is forcing you to do these labels. You’re getting extremely offended over this. This channel is about educating people, not belittling them. Your situation is YOUR situation. She’s referring to Ryan and Ellen. If they want to answer her and say why that wouldn’t work for them, they can. Otherwise, this isn’t about you.

[@jennaoreo]

Since Ryan is deaf, has he ever gotten scared from someone tapping him on his shoulder? For example, if I'm in the zone listening to music or a video and don't notice someone is tapping my shoulder it can scare me. Is Ryan used to it so it doesn't bother him as much or can it still scare him if he is in the zone say working on his car?

[@tsunami1161]

He can't listen to music He deaf

[@tsunami1161]

So idk tbh

[@tsunami1161]

But I would be

[@jennaoreo]

@@tsunami1161 My questions isn't if he listens to music, it's if someone taps him on the shoulder does it startle him or has he gotten used to it for when people need to get his attention. I do understand that he can't listen to music.

[@tsunami1161]

Yee but I'm just stupid so yee yee

[@maxjoss3036]

I really love your relationship guys! Its so pure, and It really shows the way true love works! Its like, both of you support each other in the little weaknesses each of you have! So complementary! Please keep making videos!

[@scopezraiden1877]

"I always run" that is one hell of a video game char. because in video games you also always running (if you can). Nobody walks in video games

[@dragonblood7621]

Java: They see me rolling, they hatin’ But Java is SOOOOO adorable and I love how you guys are so supportive of each other

[@cainoble]

I love how he sounds sometimes like he is vocally "clicking" and "popping" like certain tribes do in their languages all over the world.

[@Darmeka45]

Idea: he could get a decibel meter with him after 10pm so he knows not to go over a certain value so he’s not too loud to whoever’s sleeping

[@stuartnickolas503]

It's actually interesting cause he doesn't realize how distracting/interrupting a dog is with their whines, growls & barks lol

[@carlossantaella16]

Protective Java mode: ON

[@HyeinsBayonettaGlasses]

Whoever bully you with trying to talk.....they need to understand the word FEELINGS.you tried...........but it's just mean.... people shouldn't bully you for trying............they don't understand what you feel....what you trying to fit in.........but it's ok.....as long as you believe in yourself and love yourself.....you don't have to fit in....you are really unique ryan.......and thanks Ellen for loving him....and taking care of him.........we love you guys for making people realize how difficult being deaf and different......... Love from Malaysia

[@lensuet8399]

I automatically think about the meme when Ryan said why are you running. Gread video 👍

[@Monica-vl9ek]

Their relationship is so cute 🥺💖 they get each other so well & look so comfortable around each other. It honestly warms my heart the effort they both make to be respectful & understand how the other feels when it comes to situations like these.. how she was saying that you’re used to hearing so if you hear a loud noise you assume everyone hears it... I felt that.

[@Megasunkiss]

Laying in bed and when Java cries my dog Eli sits up and looks for her 😂

[@nvrslps]

Seeing the care and respect you two have for each other warms my heart. Thanks for continuing to make these videos. I've learned so much about deafness and deaf culture. including things I wouldn't have thought to ask about.

[@SignDuoChannel]

Of course! Thanks for the warm words and support victor!

[@iqcreator1358]

This might be the kindest channel in the world

[@sleeper6364]

I love seeing deaf people being happy!!!!! Imma subcribe!

[@CharmednReady03]

Just recently found your channel and I’m obsessed! You guys are the sweetest couple and I think you are raising so much awareness! Is there any films etc that you think are representative for deaf culture? ‘Hush’ and ‘A quite place’ are some of the only movies I can think of with a deaf character/actor but feels like there’s not to much exposure really at all for the deaf community in films x

[@alex7344]

You guys are so introspective about yourselves and each other. You're so comfortable talking about this stuff for your vlogs and it honestly shows what a REAL relationship is like! Arguing is a normal part of a relationship, but the important part is AFTER the argument when you talk about each others perspectives and gain understanding! You guys rock!!!

[@omar-oj8rm]

Ryans story of gettin bullied broke my heart

[@ore0hn0]

Oh my goodness y'all are so sweet together and with each other. And when Ryan was sharing about how he felt safe with you know 😭😭😍😭 I only found this channel last night but I love y'all!

[@Alice-yv5hm]

I wish someday I'll get a man like Ryan. Like having a relationship like yours. You are so cute🥰 There are PSE classes (not online)?

[@louisteodoro3092]

I wish someday I'll get a girl like Ellen

[@trinitysnow2245]

I love that something so little and taken for granted as sound is so appreciated and talked about in their relationship 😊

[@subtogrxnt272]

I MISSED IT!!!!! THIS IS MY FAVORITE CHANNEL!!!😭😭😭

[@momaal8633]

I just found this channel and immediately fell in love with it! Growing up, our family had several deaf friends... I just realized how much sign language I have forgotten over the years... time to get to relearning. Thank you guys!!!!

[@midnight0622]

2 questions. I’ve noticed in your videos that if you’re holding something in one hand (camera, food, whatever) you still sign with the other hand. How do you modify them (if at all) to make them understandable? Also, do you guys ever feel judged or like people are staring in public because you’re signing? And if so how do you deal with this? Love you guys!! ❤️

[@cashakozlov3104]

I'm hearing but sign a lot with my friends and whenever I/we are holding something, first as deaf culture its more appropriate to put the object down-similar to not talking with food in your mouth. but if you can't @ashtynX is right, you usually sign with the dominant hand. if you can still move the hand but not make hand shapes you just move the hand to the location for the sign and usually its still understandable. There isn't a huge amount of signs in ASL (different in other sign languages) that need both hands or else it doesnt make sense. if it is more complex statement and you need both hands to explain then you just have to put the object down. but many signs that use two hands the hands are mirroring each other so one hand is usually, although maybe awkward, adequate to get the point across.

[@BookishDark]

Find someone who looks at you the way he looks at her - my goodness, you can see how much he adores her!

[@stephaniesbooksandlooks]

Hey Ryan, Ellen and Java!!! I'm glad you brought up the "Shhh" gesture. I would have never taken that to be offense, now I know that it is. I have to watch again, so that I can pick up what you were saying for the correct way to inform someone whose Deaf that they are being loud. Thanks for teaching me proper etiquette.😊

[@gc.5]

I just found this channel earlier today and I've been binge watching your videos nonstop. They make me so happy, and you guys look so happy together with your pup too and it's just good vibes man, so wholesome.

[@AJ-xc4nm]

Lmao I always forget to turn on caption so I never know what Ryan is saying but just watching yall sign is so entertaining I get through half the video before realizing I dont have captions on.

[@estelaribas399]

You are so cute. Your love seems so innocent and pure . I love it. I loved discovering your channel, I wish you all the best

[@galgreen3749]

Yeap their love is so genuine and innocent

[@HeyLebo]

Could you break down how to say "you're making a lot of noise could you please keep it down"? I feel like for hearing people a finger on your lips is the universal gesture for quiet, so it's good to know that's offensive to deaf people, but alternative gestures would be appreciated!

[@doughboyandpie]

Maybe tapping your ear then gesturing downwards with your palms facing down would be good? :)

[@PeaceMeBish]

I’m new to your channel and I just wanted to say that I really applaud you guys. Relationships are difficult enough, especially when it comes to communication. It’s amazing to see a great example of a couple who are making it work by compromising and learning about each other. It just goes to show how far things can go when you have a positive attitude and commit to each other. This is what LOVE looks like! Thank you for being such positive role models.

[@cere4lmilk]

12:12 the way he reacted tho awwwww

[@ianaliciaperry5243]

You're candidness is always so lovely. Thank you for sharing it with us!

[@chaeyoungsstrawberryfarm3327]

Did he get told that farts make a sound??😂

[@TheYussef3]

Most likely.. Deaf/deaf people are usually extremely aware of the hearing world.

[@libbylambert5631]

I just want you to know how happy I am to have discovered your channel. My husband is deaf, and I see a lot of our situation in yours. Thank you for sharing your life with us!

[@PrincessTiona]

Yay I missed you guys!❤️❤️

[@txrt6012]

Nothing like seeing a popular interracial couple with a successful yt channel

[@queenjae4516]

i teach my one year old niece the signs ik and she can sign them accurately when she needs something and the few word she knows how to say verbally she signs at the same time! I’m so proud of her 😊

[@spiritwolf7712]

U inspire me because of how u dont care what others think, and u don't get bothered by others not knowing ur deaf

[@zoee4737]

idk if u both have ever answered this question but i was wondering what the biggest struggle was in your guys’ relationship

[@fievelmousekewitz3398]

I think it was the time Ryan took the chocolate donut that Ellen wanted to eat :P

[@s_rofbear]

zoe e - They’ve made whole videos on that topic. They’re worth checking out. :)

[@SignDuoChannel]

Watch some of our older videos, we have a few :D

[@kidtrunks2568]

Bullying is such a difficult thing to overcome. But in my experience, overcoming childhood bullying makes you more empathic and understanding of others. No wonder Ryan is such a nice guy!

[@laternpoop9397]

Surely theres some kind of device that lights up when noise goes over a certain level

[@kczmonkey03]

Latern Poop where where where

[@alexiswiese4591]

y’all are adorable i love y’all so much i love that there’s a place to see someone who is deaf & just observe so that everyone can be famillair with it

[@Torrboar]

I love you guys so much! I've noticed for a long time that everywhere you guys go are super near where I live!! Try out Sidecar Doughnuts if you haven't, I really liked their donuts!! :D

[@Charlie10266]

I love that you guys are always with Java and ALWAYS eating for the Q & A videos. You’re such a beautiful family. 🤗

[@lucianodevora__]

Guys he can read her lips, so if she isn’t signing don’t get mad he’ll still understand what she’s saying

[@imatheistbut5789]

@Greta Saylor he knows her very well so he's probably better with her

[@velynnec]

and some words have a similar pronunciation. i guess you can still tell what theyre saying by looking at the context but i imagine its still very hard to tell at times.

[@kittypipkin]

When he says aww at the end because of Java:))) that’s so cute, she is a beautiful dog!!!!! You three make a lovely family:))

[@rheagalarneau1366]

First upload I’ve ever caught. I’ve watched a lot of your older stuff i the past 2 weeks though.

[@FkD814]

Welcome to the family. I look forward to these videos so much!

[@laurawootan9867]

Same!!

[@raymondbailey8732]

You can tell this a real couple

[@truepearl3217]

I’m curious, if you were to fall, or faint, or be short of breath to the point you can’t speak in another room where Ryan can’t see you, how would he know what’s happening? Like is there a way for him to know if something bad has happened in another room?

[@fitmor_til_4]

I once dated a deaf guy once. He could feel and was aware of a lot of small vibrations and stuff like that. In the floor for example

[@no-wt7me]

@@fitmor_til_4 oh wow

[@vinniesaccount]

Even if you‘re deaf you should be aware of whats making noises and whats not. So when its night time and your using electric machines its simply disrespectful. He wants to be respected as well, so he should be respectful himself.

[@mysteryghoulplayz813]

.,. Me seeing Donuts me wanting someone to YEET donuts to me

[@haylee7951]

You guys are more open and communicative than most relationships I see. Not even in LITERAL communication. I just mean.. Like. You both seem so open and trusting of each other and that’s beautiful to see. I have a hard time opening up to people so seeing you both be honest and open with each other really hits home with me. Sorry I know this isn’t the topic of the video, I just really felt like sharing that with you both.

[@lavendereyes1533]

omg Java is so cute I love her

[@mramirez5239]

Awww Java! 🥰 Thanks for the no "shhh" tip, even if done sweetly-which is how I grew up in a hearing home, a quick shh with a wink *was* the nice/right way of saying it. Noted: not ok when communicating with the deaf community. ❤️

[@ITSMERlVER]

Isn’t Java deaf? I find it funny when Ellen tries to talk to Java, especially in a high pitched voice

[@macybell3222]

I really appreciate how you guys talk about the rough times as well as bad such as arguments. Thank you for showing your reality :)

[@miahelms5023]

I’m new subscriber I really love watching y’all ❤️

[@soggybread1849]

It’s cool how you guys are so honest and open with each other

[@raven-px6zy]

If I had one wish I would get Ryan’s hearing back

[@lvjmnz4016]

Me too bruv

[@chtulurr]

If you think about it, that's not necessarily a good idea

[@kczmonkey03]

If i had one wish I would have everybody learning sign language and love Deaf people for the way they are

[@Cozysleep_24]

These are the calmest people I’ve seen on KZbin they made me a calm person