Is there an “ideal” woman that men should look for? No real wives anymore to be found. Here’s WHY.

[@gmansk53]

Real men just want a genuine, caring and trustworthy woman. That is very rare these days. My entire life nearly got destroyed by dating narcissist females

[@MrSamadolfo]

🙂 it was always rare, there never was a time when they were the majority

[@bobbyscalchi4013]

From my own personal experience most of them are somewhat caring but they're not trustworthy. At all

[@orangeandslinky]

Yes, it is just that simple 53. It really is.

[@Steve-mk6rq]

Caring and trustworthy? In a woman? No, don't get married. Don't cohabitate.

[@Dani-it5sy]

What about a woman that likes to be taken properly once in a while? Or is that also not allowed to say nowadays 😂 Only when you pay it's suddenly the easiest and for some the only way to make money. 🥴

[@Yut00bisSUS]

Relationships are all about reciprocity and serving one another. Too many women in America just want a servant.

[@thmphll]

Well funded servant...

[@MrSamadolfo]

she's to serve you, not the other way around

[@bobbyscalchi4013]

This is essentially what they don't understand is that being a servant is not necessarily a bad thing. Even Jesus being a master washed the feet of his own disciples.

[@AndrewFosterSheff69]

They are taught to wait at the finishing line rather than run alongside the man for the entire race!

[@AndrewFosterSheff69]

@@bobbyscalchi4013 The word "minister" means to be a servant, it's why the grubberments around the world are failing, they are no longer SERVING US, not one "Prime Minister" (the head SERVANT) is looking out for MY well-being..

[@user-MGTOWer]

I can clean and cook better than most women so there's no reason I need to risk my wellbeing.

[@DickDatchery]

I can iron with the perfection of a concrete surface finisher. Built a small biz so I can work from home to finish raising my kids during my court-god appointed time. Throw a problem at me, it'll be solved by Tuesday. Meals, laundry, dishes, order, bills, projects, whatever. Biz would likely be bigger, better, faster if someone handled these things instead of nuking the family and bolting to self actuate, I'm good with making what I make until kids are older and need less of me. Not ideal, but better than the previous arrangement.

[@MrSamadolfo]

Excellent 👍

[@thmphll]

That is becoming my view on a lot of things. There is very little I need or want that I can't provide myself with great ease.

[@bobbyscalchi4013]

Most women today have no class and they have no ass and put little to no creativity or zeal or passion into a meal or home or bedroom or a man. They only fill emotional voids with chackees, brands, and debts.

[@AndrewFosterSheff69]

All the best chefs are men. Just saying.

[@limpetcarre1139]

It's funny how modern women think they should not be expected to do anything and yet expect men to pay for dates, provide for them, protect them and financially support them and their children. Another double standard of modern women.

[@MHLivestreams]

Any sign of that, walk away. No explanations, nothing.

[@2Oldcoots]

Just published by Johnathan Haidt "The Anxious Generation" explains why not only aren't there wife material women but there won't be many in the USA for decades. Yes, it's real.

[@jasontandy3357]

Centuries but our civilization will rapidly deteriorate and collapse long before they ever change

[@thekangaroo42]

I want a loyal housewife who homeschools our 4 kids... A single, childless man can dream, I guess.

[@AndrewFosterSheff69]

Maybe during Christ's millennial reign brother. I'm in the same boat. Every single "partner" I've had, I've asked the question "Is she the one I am prepared to spend the rest of my life with?" (my parents were divorced and I know the pain first hand - so I decided I would marry ONCE and forever and only THEN have children) - I am still alone, with no children, at 53 yo, so I guess it's too late for me now.

[@jaynikk758]

​@@AndrewFosterSheff69 That's ok brother, I am content as well with being alone.. Proverbs 21:19-21 New International Version (NIV)Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife. The wise store up choice food and olive oil, but fools gulp theirs down. Whoever pursues righteousness and love finds life, prosperity and honor.

[@MHLivestreams]

Good luck, man. It's possible, but please utilise extreme discernment. Churches are infiltrated with these demons now, everywhere they're lurking, seeking the resources.

[@Dan.50]

Take it from a 50+ year old man that ruined his life... STAY SINGLE! DO NOT COHABITATE and DO NOT DATE.

[@clodismccuien8082]

Damn😅

[@mckeeasdf]

Crooked casinos have better odds.

[@prbmax]

Ditto.

[@jaynikk758]

What if I'm a Christian man looking for a Christian wife? ✝️ God works in ways that surpass our understanding, friend

[@mckeeasdf]

@@jaynikk758 Beware the multitudes of pretenders!

[@tiletec1]

I especially like " a gentle and quiet spirit." I like the wisdom you share, it comes from a God-fearing heart. Keep going.

[@jaynikk758]

Amen

[@IBNED]

...is better to live in the wilderness than with an angry and contentious woman

[@dominickcordova4831]

My sister in-law Can't fry an egg, She doesn't watch her kids ( One, Not my brother's, She has two girls from a previous marriage) just got taken away from her and had to go to a mental hospital, She doesn't clean, she is drinking every day and If my brother says anything, she calls the cops and makes up lies. She has a College Master's Degree and is in Dept and works at a hotel and is switching jobs constantly?? She is WORTHLESS!!

[@Sketch_Sesh]

A child-hood buddy is sitting in jail right now because a woman got him caught up in drama.. she also got his arm broken in a previous drama. He also may never be able to work again because of that arm

[@bobbyscalchi4013]

Have you tried an exorcism?

[@smiles7631]

Wow, I would say she needs a lot of therapy. Sounds like she got destroyed by her previous relationship.

[@AndrewFosterSheff69]

She needs Jesus. Sounds like she probably had a hard childhood, those traits fall under the "dissociative" (escapism) heading (abusive/distant parents / SA maybe,) narcissistic abuse (parents are partners) can also result in the same. If you can, it could be worth hinting she get some therapy for C-PTSD. And obvs. lots and lots of prayer.

[@Eric-dd8bk]

​@@smiles7631 And this exactly is why you wmn have no accountability. Soon as a wmn does something wrong, it's a mental illness or a trauma and she's a victim. Reverse the gndr, she'd be in prison for what she did and you'd be praysing the lord for it instead of saying it's mental illness, trauma, or it's his exes' fault.

[@do0ranfrump260]

I didn't need an ideal woman. I needed commited woman. Not a woman with an escape plan.. and no loyalty.

[@orangeandslinky]

That's all I wanted (and thought I had) too. She was done with family after we had our son. Why? I don't have a clue.

[@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485]

@@orangeandslinkymy wife had zero sex with me for ten months the second she got pregnant with our first. Things were never the same again between me and her.

[@orangeandslinky]

@@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485 Yes dr. The internet let men find out that, that happened to all of us. We men just shut up about it back in the day, but we are NOT NOW. Unless this is against the law, we will not get married ever again.

[@2needey1]

Maybe not your kid?

[@orangeandslinky]

@@2needey1 Well, he looks like me. Can I prove he is my kid? No

[@stevesalyards6228]

You are so spot on with how society has changed women and the family unit. Single moms are being created today because there are more financial benefits to not being married and the husband/man is the odd man out, no pun intended.

[@AndrewFosterSheff69]

The devil knows what he is doing... removes the Head of the house (man) and replaces with "the state". The result is that women will do what "the state" says so as to continue to be supported. Combine that with women getting the vote and it is a recipe for endless short term decisions based on pain avoidance, ending in BAD long term outcomes (such as LGHDTV+, abortion and mass illegal immigration of fighting aged men). If men had more of a say, NONE of that would be as prevalent and society would not be in decline and at risk from foreign actors! We need Jesus Christ REALLY BADLY right now!

[@dominickcordova4831]

They leave their families for money.

[@bobbyscalchi4013]

They leave families for money in pursuit of "their truth and their happiness." I say reap what you sow and let fools chase rainbows.

[@John_Wood_]

@@bobbyscalchi4013 Agree, cash and prizes combined with the hope of finding better is enough to make them push the button.

[@lukenielsen8397]

"Ideal"?? Hell, even "Marriageable." Aaron Clarey breaks down the numbers on these issues... It is BLEAK! and YES! It is the Women!

[@mitchellcrow8761]

Many times I'm referred to Proverbs 31 - 10 thru 31..... it is the idealistic woman.... sadly, they can be found no more

[@mckeeasdf]

From western women? Probably less than 1%. Most of the countries that haven't been infected with feminism, yet, are good choices, if you are willing to adapt to their culture.

[@MrSamadolfo]

There is None that Doeth Good, No Not One 🔥

[@creepyrobsta5509]

@@MrSamadolfo So you met every woman in the west...lol

[@MrSamadolfo]

@@creepyrobsta5509 😄👍

[@darkoilic22]

Evil is spreading throughout the world. Sollution is not to run away but fight with God at our side.

[@MrSamadolfo]

@@darkoilic22 give no quarter ask no quarter

[@MichaelMcdonald-zv2bl]

Man submits to God,Woman submits to man not the other way around!

[@IBNED]

NOT going to happen...ever

[@kevindavis4709]

As a 38 year old visually impaired man I’ll say if I can find a woman that’ll except me. Though I don’t have perfect eyesight I found something more valuable than hobbies I love working on God blessed me with. As a visually impaired man I see true colors of some woken though I don’t have perfect eyesight don’t mean I can’t do anything it’s not like I’m sitting around waiting for the death angel nope I’m living life enjoy what God blessed me with. Life’s too enjoyable to worry about whether or not I’m accepted by a woman

[@Cayuse2009]

I have a question for all the church going women out there. When was the last time you can remember your church's pastor preaching a sermon on Proverbs 31? Probably never. I attended Promise keepers years ago when I was married and they pushed men to treat their wives like queens. Guess what. Every man I knew that attended promise keepers went through divorce because when they treated their wives like queens, the wives treated him like her servant. Now churces baby women who divorce their husbands and the churces are closing their doors as the men have quit.

[@Jaco3688]

Before Social Media, women had but a single source of praise: their husband. The husband was instructed (at places like Promise Keepers) to fulfill the wife’s need for love and adoration. There was a reciprocal balance, as the woman responded positively, with love. After Social Media, the world changed. The entire world is now available to heap praise on a woman: “Oow, baby, you’re so hot!” Etc, etc. A woman’s self-estimation was skewed and she delusionally “ranked” herself as superior to her mate. When her mate heaped the same adulations on his wife, now she saw herself as “deserving” (read: entitled), and him to be stationed LOWER than she. She loses respect for this “simping” slob, because of the hundreds (thousands?) of virtual suitors. She becomes dissatisfied with him, because she fancies herself to be on a plane much higher than he. Ironies of ironies: The only way for a man to combat this modern woman is treat her somewhat callously (yeah, I said it), so she still views him to be superior to her, and she continues to maintain interest in him. Is this screwed up? You bet. But the old modus operandi DOES NOT WORK with today’s modern woman’s inflated view of herself. (Time to take a few arrows for writing this …)

[@off6848]

Its almost funny how terrible these church leaders are at studying their own book or having the balls to preach it

[@Jaco3688]

Interesting. I wrote a 20 minute thoughtful reply - and it was stricken.

[@MrSamadolfo]

most of those marriages should never have taken place

[@AndrewFosterSheff69]

They won't even tell women they should be covering their heads, so they are not going to upset their wives by telling them they need to do better!

[@smiles7631]

I really love how you can decipher these attempts to change how we think. I am a man of few words compared to most. You wouldn't think that with how long my comments are lol. I believe action speaks louder sometimes. I fear that is one of the reasons why I lost my wife. I didn't feed her enough I love yous or your so beautifuls. I know now that women need these things and men don't as much. Anyways, I wish there were more women like you out here that would question the loud ones and not just follow. I know that I need to move out of the city to have a better chance at finding a good woman. The hardest part will be to find one that doesn't need social media to validate her. Its going to be a lottery win if she is out there. Your the best hun, stay strong, you are loved. Can't wait to see you again!

[@griffferguson3039]

I am one of those guys that is highly productive and has a good paying job. Would love to have a woman like this, if she can be found. A nice, sweet, kind, and selfless wife is truly worth more than rubies.

[@yvesgysel9834]

Very interesting. I am not judging. Thanks for the great post. Very much appreciated. Although I do not know you, you are a genuine person and despite your disease, you stay optimistic and smiling. Very inspiring. We need more good strong people to make a change for the better. Starting with ourselves and pass it on to the future generations. Raising our children better. The government is not our friend, cause they want us to become more depending in order to control us in the interest of very few powerful people/families... That's what's really going on.

[@Dragonstalon1001]

Proverbs 31 sets out the 'Standard' for a Wife, so what do 'Modern Women' do?? Modern Woman: "The Standard is too high and I will never meet the Standard....I know let's lower the Standard and Gaslight men into thinking They are the ones not meeting the Standard and we will tell them 'Step Up Men' while doing less an less for them"

[@8trackregalbeagl3]

100%. The devil is a liar.

[@mr.international1861]

Selfless 😅😅😅. Selfish is more accurate...

[@user-mk1dz2ef1o]

They Don't Exist

[@MrSamadolfo]

they are rare, only a few are born from generation to generation, they are the few diamonds among the rolling seas of sand, what we would call Unicorns today

[@orangeandslinky]

Right, this is scripture, but it is a Hebrew poem of a PERFECT woman. This is what a woman can reach for. This woman makes everyone look great, and ends up getting praised by God and men. She doesn't try to be a superstar in the front end, but she ends up being one from God and all humanity. This woman would never say "I don't need no man and my family has paws and fur EVER."

[@tomasom4497]

"Easter" (the fertility godess Ishtar) is a pagan fertility ritual that crept into the church. The tradition of sunrise services is also taken from pagan sun worship. We are supposed to be celebrating Christian Passover in recognition of Christ's sacrifice, and that is next week.

[@Mr.Phoreskin]

I believe God is trying to wake up the ones who will listen. He wants us to be on his calendar and only celebrate his days. He wants to communicate his works and signs with us and we need to be on his calendar to do so. Stop celebrating “holidays” that aren’t apart of God’s plan. The very first commandment: “I am the LORD your God, who brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of bondage. You shall have no other gods before Me”

[@lepotdefleur9906]

Christmas is another pagan ritual that was incorporated and almost all the saints too. They had to or they would have done inquisition all the time.

[@MrSamadolfo]

You can celebrate Passover any day you see fit, the Roman Calendar that the world observes is irelevant

[@tomasom4497]

@@MrSamadolfo We don't use the modern calendar to calculate it. It falls 14 days after the spring equinox every year, using the old way the Hebrews calculated it. Not hard to understand. He did call on us to observe it and on what day to do so. The month of Abib started at the spring equinox and then count 14 days from there. God’s instructions concerning passover were very simple. God told Moses, the first month of the year for the Israelites was Abib. On the fourteenth day of that month, in the evening, was passover, (Deut 16:1, Exo 12:2, Lev 23:5)

[@bobbyscalchi4013]

You are absolutely and historically accurate and correct. Constantine introduced the pagan rituals and holidays into the Catholic Church around 500 A.D. Christmas is also a Pagan Holiday in Roman times also known as Saturnalia with the gift giving, and the evergreens, Holly, and eggnog.

[@Scotty_Bo0m]

I am a millenial guy. I usually tell ppl why they are wrong, but your take on how we thought it would go with the women is bang on. We were or are prepared to figure it out & they are not. Now im stuck chasing Zoomer chicks & they are an entirely different problem! In any case you dont have be so humble. You seem like one of the few non grifter women in the whole world, your logic is sound, & i think you earned the right to talk. We as men dont get offended by womansplainning or venting or pontificating lol its fine. Good stuff...!

[@Sketch_Sesh]

What I saw and experienced in the 90s & 00s made me never want to get married to a modern western woman… sad to say but it is what it is

[@sunfish4095]

Mid 2000's was horrific.

[@Sketch_Sesh]

@@sunfish4095 it was… they were “experimenting” with everything and everyone while still expecting men to take them seriously

[@stevenbaumann5911]

I don't doubt there are guys willing to work more than 2 jobs in order to keep his wife home. But then the complaint is, he doesn't spend enough time with me. When he tries to cut back on work to spend time with her, then she complains about needing more money. Unless a man is already filthy rich, he can't win.

[@jaynikk758]

In this society, if a guy doesn't make boat loads of money.. he will likely remain single as an average man.. it's truly sad, because an average man could have found a house-wife much easier in the 50s and 60s

[@stevenbaumann5911]

@jaynikk758 Is really that sad? I mean, look how modern women act. Would you really want to subject yourself to that torture?

[@jaynikk758]

@@stevenbaumann5911 Thats my point..that's all thats available nowadays

[@crystalandmarkvrb]

I make $11 an hour full time. My wife stays home and takes care of our farm and 5 children. Our house and 3 cars are paid for. It can be done. People aren't willing to give up their keeping up with the Jones' brainwashed American dream. You DO NOT have to be rich. You have to stop living the American idiot lifestyle. I am saying this as a 39 year old not some guy who had a great job for 30 years. I didn't even have an income during the "pandemic." We said no to the evil government "mandates" and God worked miracles. If you live by faith God makes the ends meet, not you. It's not a logical dollars in dollars out scenario. It's a do the right thing first without worrying about money and God takes care of you scenario. (Matthew 6:33) Everyone does the exact opposite of what Jesus said and worries about the "things" he referenced FIRST. God says righteousness FIRST, things SECOND... Actually He doesn't. He says don't worry about the THINGS at all. He says the things will come as a result of obedience by faith. Compare our current life with our life 5 years ago. We only had 2 children then. We had the quintessential beautiful suburban 5 bed 3 bath house on a hill with manicured front yard and 2 car attached garage, bonus room, and short commute to work.. I made a lot more money then... yet we were less happy, more stressed. The key is to stop living like a typical American idiot. Stop being a slave to the bank. Make sacrifices. Find a woman who isn't a covetous idiot who can deal with that. Find a man who leads by faith not finances. My wife and I's siblings all make more income and live unhappy lives in their beautiful middle class American dream nightmare because that's what everyone is told to do and they obey. 3 out of 6 of them are divorced. They put in the hard work at their careers instead of their households and they paid the price of a broken home for chasing the American nightmare. Choose to not be an American idiot.

[@Hectorszenshopedc]

Happy Easter... you are doing great in your SOCIAL STUDIES. from private society

[@jamesedwards.1069]

Eve was tempted by the fruit of the tree in the midst of the Garden, because it was good for food, and pleasing to the eyes, and a tree to be desired to make one wise. Adam, on the other hand, was tempted by Eve, because she was a smokin' hot babe, and he was madly in love with her, and couldn't bear the thought of losing her.

[@AndrewFosterSheff69]

I try to remind people of this. The bible clearly states it was Eve that was beguiled, Adam was 🐱struck and was thinking with his little head.

[@bpattontx]

The Wisdom literature is Psalms, Ecclesiastes and Job. Thank you for the video.

[@dystopia-usa]

I value my autonomy/independence & peace too much to ever get into another relationship or get married. I wish that I would have come to that revelation a lot sooner in life than I did.

[@MrSamadolfo]

it's not your fault, we were all brainwashed from childhood

[@AndrewFosterSheff69]

I would have bought a house sooner. At the time it felt like a huge commitment on such a low wage, but long term, it would have been the better choice I think.

[@darrellbarker211]

God bless you! Hello and God bless you also. I'm a newbie TV channel subscriber. I want to thank you first and foremost for your very honest approach on what I have seen in my life. I want to explain to you the issues. I truly believe a real understanding what is going on in our country. I am currently planning on traveling to the Philippines to Mary for the second time in my life. 2 possibly marry my companionship partner, however as of yet I have not done that. I do appreciate your thoughts on American Woman, yes I have experienced very troubled experiences over the last 15-20 years with my relationships. I am sending this comment to keep you continuing on your blog. Thanks again

[@rjc7289]

Also had to add regarding something you said at around the 12:15 mark. Expectation is one thing. Whether or not the woman has the capability to deliver on those expectations is quite another, and that's where women fall short. That's the point where men get disgusted and check out.

[@dominickcordova4831]

They need to learn Empathy!!

[@MrSamadolfo]

thats not something you can learn, it has to come naturally

[@bobbyscalchi4013]

Many have feaux empathy. Some display it well at first. But only to the relation to their traumas and victimhood. What most don't have is loyalty.

[@totwallybaba]

Seems the only thing preachers do is lead young men down the path of destruction with hollow vows and empty promises while the invisible diety eats his popcorn.

[@MrSamadolfo]

😇 Happy Easter 🙏

[@Prince20k-es4xl]

Happy Easter 🌹

[@LesterBurnham1978]

Solipsism is a hell of a drug...

[@MrSamadolfo]

good one =)

[@svartvist]

Yes, and she's mine, mine, mine, mine! She's been faithful through two homeless periods, and has helped with divorce damage control. She had her problems with her kids, which thankfully all graduated 20 yrs ago. But the daughters.... Only one out of four followed in their mother's footsteps.

[@MaduroMan]

The only woman that meets those prerequisites require at least $50,000 for the immigration lawyers. ;D

[@CorvetteTrev]

Awesome, shared on my FB wall 🧱

[@GaryBentlage]

Hi Happy Easter if there were proverbs 31 women today the world would be better off!!

[@snowyowlz5992]

FFE to me the Proverbs 31 woman described strikes me as one that has mental clarity of mind, has full physical ability, dexterity, range of motion, devoted to her G-d, husband, and children, cares for others, and has no impairment. All well and good. I hate this word “However”; “curve balls” of assorted types and flavors seek to diminish, incapacitate, the unknowns with no answers, traumatize her, her husband, their marriage. How do they handle it together. Hard lessons from my own marriage. Many were the times I wished I could step out of time due to the complexities that confronted us, so I could calm down, look at the problems from various perspectives, find the best solutions, then enter back into time and do the right thing. Yeah MGTOW now.

[@MrSamadolfo]

don't beat urself up, theres nothing you could have done, it was inevitable, instead be at peace

[@darkoilic22]

Ideal woman is a Godly woman for each man and for the woman herself. When modern women (Eve from the Bible) who are deceived by the occult feminism (snake from the Bible) suffer enough they will turn to God.

[@shanehester5317]

i can almost hear the feminist seething now

[@ruckanitepreacher5618]

First time to watch one of your videos. Found it from bro. David Daniels ' website. Enjoyed it very much!!! You are a doll.

[@bengraffam1111]

Titus 2 outlines the primary role of women in the church. That role is for the older women to teach the younger women how to be wives and mothers. If churches were applying this commandment diligently feminism wouldn't have had the impact on church culture that it has had. Thank you for acknowledging that vows before God are what matters most, not a piece of paper from the state.

[@Eric-dd8bk]

Yet feminism began with a few women trying to break up the family unit through propaganda and terrorism. Neither are they good in that regard at all.

[@markymarknj]

I don't have MS, yet I have brain malfunctions; they seem to happen more often the older I get. When I was younger, we used the expression of "getting lucky" to mean having BR fun; nowadays, my idea of "getting lucky" is walking into a room and remembering WHY I walked in there! As for the church, I was going to return in the Before Time; I was looking for a church before COVID. Unfortunately, no church within an hour or so drive of me pushed back against the governor's mandates. Even when I attended church, the vast majority of women were CINOs, or Christians in Name Only; from my POV, there was little difference between most church women and those of the world. The vast majority of "Christian" women had the Jezebel spirit; shoot, they WERE Jezebel! I saw few or no fruits of Christianity in them. As for the Amish and their shunning of technology, David Knight explained where they draw the line. They ask themselves if, by adopting X, will they still be self sufficient? Will they have to depend on the outside world? That's why they still use the horse and buggy; they can make and repair them totally themselves and not depend on anyone in the outside world to help them.

[@SDsc0rch]

ooh.. just in time!

[@bumpercoach]

Imagine a woman who so honors her man while also purposely limiting her children and denying her man so that all she has is worldly praise ... Total hypocrite

[@shannjones]

Yeah, I did working the 2-4 jobs at a time for 22 of the 25 years of my first marriage. My wife at the time was still an ungrateful, dissatisfied, hyper-critical, SAHM who refused to do the things necessary to make a non-chaotic home.

[@TSoneonetwo]

imho...no, there is no "ideal" woman. the question that used to guide my mind, and what I did. is now seen as a complete waste of mental energy. will only assure me of suffering and misery.

[@AndrewTheFrank]

Most of the work the proverbs woman does is work for her husband, household and the image of both. Much of what she does is charity in that regard.

[@villanousvic323]

If women want men this is the thing, we want wives, in most based and non brainwashed men's minds it's this and it's so simple that any woman could do it, Wait till marriage, not sleep around once and think it doesn't matter, we want virgins, Loyal as in don't think about selling your loyalty for anything and stand with us through it all, Fit as in maintain your weight and figure, feminine not feminist, this means don't think your strong and independent, you're not, think about it like this, if you and a man were in the wilderness what would your role be in such a dynamic, that's feminine, friendly as in be kind, understanding and treat us like a person as in treat us properly we have emotions we just control them better, just cause we're logical doesn't mean we don't have feelings. Appeal to our masculine nature and don't try to change it, you won't.

[@user-xo4pn4eg2s]

Unfortunately, finding a Proverbs 31 woman today, would be like hunting for unicorns.

[@alfredspic481]

Over it

[@rickyfargason8859]

The housewife was taught home economics. Keep up the house in every way and educate the children. Not an easy task at all. It was her job, her duty just like the duty of the man to protect and provide. It was an essential role for the family to even exist. Now that role has been discarded as old fashioned and it's our that suffer for it.

[@Dani-it5sy]

One can always hope. There are also people that win millions in lotteries.

[@harrybrown4815]

There we go, she said it. Her worth is far beyond Rubie's...in her mind. She feels.......right now and this is the issue with modern women to many emotional ambulances... Me me me me me me.

[@jjoo6229]

Amen mama.

[@thedumbassspeaks]

“Housewife” and “lazy” should never be used in the same sentence. “Homemaker” or “Keeper of the Home” is a more accurate label; and it does take work!

[@dukeofnukenham]

I always tell my wife, a real proverbs 31, that Proverbs Chapter 31 was written to men and not woman. So use as a cheat sheet, which is what the church is doing today, is skipping the steps that a woman should take to be that ideal.

[@johnnydiscover2838]

A good wife is one who takes care of a good man!!

[@roflzmycopter]

I'm one of those millennial men who thought that is what would happen. In a way I am happy I never proposed knowing what I know now.

[@2needey1]

I’ve never met a woman ever that has opened a bible or has been to a church. I’m 42

[@off6848]

Truly? I have but they were mostly older. One I was renovating her house for her at first I thought she was trying the cougar moves on me but it turned out that her line of question was prodding me about Biblical knowledge and I have to say that old lady was first woman I ever met who I thought may have been wiser than myself. Intelligent women are less rare 50/50 but WISE women are pretty scarce.

[@knowsstuff988]

Acts 18:26 "this man therefore began to speak boldly in the synagogue. Whom when Priscilla and Aquila heard, they took him to them, and expounded to him the way of the Lord more diligently". Aquila was Priscilla's husband and she would have not spoken since it was not proper for woman to speak in public or in the synagogues at that time, her husband was with her. Funny how this woman who wrote the article didnt mention the husband Aquila.

[@lostboi3974]

Happy Trans day from Joe Biden

[@AndrewTheFrank]

If I am not mistaken nowhere in the bible is a man prescribed to trust a woman, let alone his wife. However, in the passage read it does say such a woman is one a husband would trust. It balances out his trust in her with her being good to him. So let that sink in. If a woman wants her man to trust her she needs to be good to him. It is not something owed her. It is something she earns.

[@Eric-dd8bk]

Yap exactly. Adam's punishment was because he listened to the wmn and of course, ate the fruit.

[@ghostcog]

X/millennial border. But I would say I expected a split of tasks based on what makes sense... laundry wasn't a woman's job, but if I was doing it she would be changing the oil or mowing the lawn. What actually happened was I started doing half the shit she was expected to do and left to do all the "male" shit or it wouldn't get done. So I had 75% of the house work and was the sole breadwinner on top of it. Don't fall for it men, you will burn out and lose half your shit... being blamed for the failure.

[@saltyoperator7435]

Soooooo…. Proverbs is a daily read. Meaning you read proverbs 1 on the 1st day of the month. And so on and so on. It’s not a mistake that the T thing was given for 3/31. If you are not right w GOD by excepting Jesus and have not read or know the BIBLE then I suggest you start today. It’s better to believe and be proven right then to not believe and proven wrong. If you don’t believe this as spiritual war we are living then you are not right w the lord. Ever wonder why THEY atttack CHRISTIANS and the BIBLE so much? Then go read it and learn what it teaches us.

[@dominickcordova4831]

B.I.B.L.E. Basic Instructions Before Leaving Earth.

[@Uncle_Neil]

Hey Erin, just noticed that on your thumbnails for the vids that those videos that have "Men...." in the title do pretty well. Those vids that have "Women or Girls...." in the title do not get the same number of views, actually it is not even close. Clearly your audience is filtering out one over the other. Thanks.

[@RicansForTrump]

Marriage is not a government institution. The scripture refers to paying taxes and being law abiding. Mans law is followed so long as it doesn't come into opposition to God's law.

[@tonyandreotti7830]

It also says marriage is between a man and a woman, and is a bond before God forever not just until to decide you don't want to be married anymore. And the government decide to include its self in marriage a long time ago. Now a wife can leave for any reason and leave with the house, kids, and cash and prizes. Do you live under a rock

[@jamespfp]

44:55 -- RE: The Amish and the Anabaptists; It is funny you mention them, because I frequently also think about how beautiful their culture is in terms of applying Gospel teachings to everyday situations, and at the same time I see how I would have trouble submitting myself entirely as a potential "bride" of that Body. They are Pacifists, but even so, they never let the Sun go down on their anger, either. How long has it been since you saw the film "Witness" (1985)? No, it isn't particularly religious, but it does give one heck of a decent image of how the Gospel is Applied for daily living and it isn't undesirable to many of us, Secularists included. Full disclosure -- I started out with a religious upbringing mostly with the encouragement of my Mother, and after university I swung harder to the Secularist side. I took the time to struggle with my faith as an adolescent and a young adult, and perhaps it was just as well I didn't stay "Fanatical" for the decades since, because I knew before I left "my church" there would sooner or later not be a place in it for me, anyway, because of the Lobbyists and the Agendas and the lack of Faith in the principles. In other words, "Fanaticism" doesn't sit well with some people, and some fanatics don't make it any easier on themselves, either, by refusing to acknowledge the doings of the Holy Spirit in the here and the now.

[@jamespfp]

31:45 -- RE: What Wisdom Literature is she referring to?; The Torah is divided into categories of writing. There are books on the Law, and there are decidedly more philosophical texts as well, such as Psalms (which we presume are liturgical in nature, types of poems and songs which can serve a function within worship), the book of Proverbs (which reads like Aphorisms to my modern eyes), the Song of Solomon, the book of Ecclesiastes, and others. These are called the Wisdom books, because as I said below, they are Positive in nature, *Not* Proscription.

[@jamespfp]

^^ I think you're still right about it being a secret feminist writing for the Dot Com, by the way. What I'm ultimately judging, though, is that the secret feminist is very likely to use partial Truth in order to Lie by Omission. It *Is* true, Proverbs has to do with Wisdom literature; that doesn't remove its validity or make it "hand-wave-able".

[@gregorytremain4086]

The Torah are the first five books of the Old Testament, proverbs are a part of the Old Testament called the ketuvim,

[@khaliffoster3777]

Ok, at 16:27 to 17:30 or so, there is no closed caption so can fix it, so all CC is there. Check all time of video and other video is can so to be sure all CC is there, so no missing.

[@tomyoung8563]

I married what church folks etc would say is the perfect wife candidate Didn’t work out so well and now I have lifetime alimony payments Pass on all of them until laws are changed

[@jamespfp]

42:15 -- RE: "They're erasing Roles, right in front of our face."; Oh I dunno about that. The Rarity of Good Women does not make it the Rule, or even the Standard, or the necessary pattern which serves a particular Function. I also think that it is mistaken to use *Early* Christian analysis of the analogy between Husband and Wife with Christ and the Church as being some form of explanation or Rule Book for how women should behave before they even have a husband. The Wisdom in Proverbs 31 is to describe an Ideal which isn't Transcendent, as in, we do see and marry such women from time to time.

[@jamespfp]

^^ And, I have enjoyed listening to your video to the very end. Well done, thou good and faithful servant! (as the Parable goes...)

[@MaxIgnoramus]

The truth is most men won't set up defined roles because he automatically defers all authority to the woman. He does this because the implicit threat is understood by society, that she will blow up the relationship at any moment if her feminist conditioning is triggered. The problems with relationships start and end there.

[@MaxIgnoramus]

In this way the woman arrests the society and actively works to prevent mortality, truth and justice.

[@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485]

Only fools that’s funny

[@l.3626]

first off all, every woman wants children, so have atleast some money, depending on which country and area of course, child support is an issurance that costs 200k, each woman needs 200k, maybe less, maybe just 50k idk the price, all I know most woman cant pay that but still want the insurance of child support, so most woman are not qualified in the first place, since all woman want children, which is ofc a legit demand Everything else just comes after, feminism put a forced insurance called child support on all men, decided by woman and this is now the price, all created by woman, just ask a woman, should a man allowed to pay not anymore for children if he doesnt, and most woman will say he is not allowed, so they see it as insurance, so let them pay for the insurance

[@derektomlinson6514]

Here is my intel for every man get a pre -nup If you cheat you have zero claim , she don't accept walk.

[@SoundsFromBeyond]

Don't even do that. Pre-nups can be thrown out by a divorce judge if they deem the outcome "unconscionable". No cohabitation. No marriage. No intermingling of finances. Be smart.

[@derektomlinson6514]

@@SoundsFromBeyond true. lol

[@Big_Easy]

Where did the women from the 1900s go? I still remember my grandparents

[@user-wo1en8ip3s]

Religious arguments aside, probably a woman with a paid-off house and few debts. Since she is likely to be beyond childbearing age, no chance of trapping a man with babies. Of course she would be a bad choice for a man wanting to start a family!

[@BryJamie]

If I could afford a housewife, maybe I’d be interested, but I can’t so that’s off the table.

[@nickblack8350]

its a catch 22 isnt it, if i could afford a house wife i would never risk having one!

[@BryJamie]

@@nickblack8350 I hear you on that one

[@michaeloppenheimer2582]

I seriously doubt that the freedom.That's why has any clues to what a proverb thirty one woman is, Or even knows, but that is Old Testament law.That's not applied to us today.

[@anielyantra1]

My understanding is that Jesus said,' Praise the message not the messenger'. That would imply all Christians' are violating Jesus' command. I practice as an Essene. I follow the religion OF Jesus NOT the religion IN Jesus.

[@pmcclaren1]

To your mind help me understand the difference between 'of' &'in'--thank you--

[@standard74521]

I've got to have you.

[@user-hs1vx6iw6e]

That women in bible had many talents on bible you know she was good

[@stoogemcduck8594]

Hope you had a great Easter weekend!

[@dondarkblade1460]

western women are done for im off to retire and enjoy my life in S.E. Asia.

[@dbenson3114]

"Im certainly not an ideal man, i have no money and i have AIDS, I think i just pooped my pants!" This is my new pickup line.

[@lucchasse2413]

Happy 🐰

[@AndrewFosterSheff69]

Oh I'm sure they are out there, but they are so few and far between, they have already been snapped up by good discerning men. The result is that there are STILL not enough to go around anymore. The conclusion is that it is not worth wasting time looking anymore. InCel? Yes, cos the pickings are so desperately poor, not because I am a bad person!

[@anielyantra1]

I have respect and I honor my God, but fear does not enter into the picture. How do you justify loving a God you also fear? Fear and love are mutually exclusive.

[@snowyowlz5992]

How about a reverential fear? Not a fear of being beaten but simply knowing and realizing He is our Creator who called each of us into existence to be in relationship with Him. I’m still making that change after almost 70 years.

[@off6848]

Then you're a fool. "The beginning of wisdom is the fear of the Lord" If you've lived through any tragedies that you know were your fault you hold fear remembering all the times the Lord saved you from your consequences

[@nickblack8350]

can a child fear the father he loves? i love my God but i promise you if he turned his full attention to me i would tremble in fear.

[@IBNED]

Fear In The Bible means respect and humility before God not 'fear' as in being afraid

[@KalaAltheaBalik]

Nobody who pays taxes or live on taxes are independed. Individualism is a scam. You can build your individuality and independence only if you have a strong family and legacy.

[@KalaAltheaBalik]

Homeschooling is the most important job of housewife, especially today. If I would find a woman who knows what I know, and she wants to homeschool her children. It would be an instant deal. But she would have to tell me all this without me revealing I want it.

[@nickblack8350]

i find that alot of new mothers talk a big game of homeschooling when the kid is still a baby but they sing a different tune when it comes time to do the work.

[@KalaAltheaBalik]

@@nickblack8350 yeah, it needs to be deeper awakening or it will not work. "Why" behind the thinking matters.

[@tomkelsey6221]

First off...you have a very pretty smile and are very sharp. I am an older male who has lost his wife. The problem with women and relationships will go on for at least a generation, this wont be a 5 or 10 year fix. Since my wife's death I have been keel hauled by women...one slapped me in the face because I opened a door in a fast food place for her. I value the days when I have nothing to do with women, I think the problems are deeper than they appear. The using and abusing women do only gets worse as they get older (mental abuse). Their self centeredness in public is amusing and sometimes I can't keep from laughing out loud. Most of them need to see a shrink and establish some personal identity, which most of them are lacking. It only gets worse as they get older.

[@lepotdefleur9906]

The slapping in the face I find weird, is it only in big cities or is it an cultural thing? I did get some weird look but never been slapped for opening doors on women or men, usually get a thank you and maybe a smile.