is this "FAD" RUINING the HOBBY? MY REACTION + Wednesday babies feeding/ update!!

[@TomsBigSpiders]

Hey, all! A) Kat, it was NOT about you. I have never said a negative thing about you, even though you've contacted me in the past thinking that I might have been talking about you about certain topics. I'm not sure if you reached out; if you did, I'm sorry. I'm also sorry that you took this to be about you, as you were NOT who I was thinking of, and this wasn't even about one person. If not for you, I wouldn't have people contacting me weekly trying to buy velvet spiders. ;) I haven't had a single person ask me if it was about you, so I had no idea that this was even a thing. B) For all of the folks who are chiming in having not listened to the entire podcast, please give it a listen. I called myself out for being foolish enough to avoid something just because it's popular, and labeled it a character defect. I made no bones about it. I wasn't saying that I was right for thinking that way -- I was saying that I was an idiot. I even called myself an "old fart" at one point. I said that because of that mindset, myself and others are missing out on some truly cool spiders. I pointed out some bad that comes from their popularity, and then spoke about the good that comes from it. As for "gatekeeping", I WANT the hobby to grow...that was one of the pros that I mentioned (I'm not sure if those sound bites are in the video, as I'm typing and it's not over. If not...) C) The husbandry stuff wasn't about you at all. I get links to FB, Instagram, and Tik Tok sent to me daily featuring dangerous setups - none have been yours. D) For those calling me "sexist", the original comment that led to this discussion was made by a younger woman, not me. She was not the only woman who expressed these feelings. I thought that it was an interesting comment and a nice way to segue into talking about the pros and cons of their popularity. E) And for those who didn't or won't bother to listen to the podcast, I NEVER said that people shouldn't keep them or that they were bad for the hobby. I pointed out why some get annoyed, talked about some cons, and then clearly stated that jumpers and velvets were AMAZING and I would have missed out if I kept this attitude. IS THIS FAD RUINING THE HOBBY? No, and I NEVER said that it was. That's all! -Tom (Moran, NOT Patterson)

[@AndrewYeardley]

lol pwned em Tom well done kats are crying 😂

[@roxie10xoxo]

It's not what you said, it's how and the harsh judgement. It's ok to judge people's actions as they can change that readily easily. It's rough when you make strong judgements on people's character. I have autism and it has taken me many years to learn this.

[@ethanmccormack9561]

Fair play Tom. Could I ask what the podcast number/ name is so I can have a listen please mate.

[@sir.tempest5718]

@@FS-qk5uq 🤡

[@sir.tempest5718]

@@AndrewYeardley 🤡

[@tarantulacollective]

I always thought being punk rock or metal wasn't about going against what is popular. It is doing whatever the hell you want despite what is popular or unpopular. Going against something because it is popular is just being a contrarian. Making content against something that is popular is still riding that trend and trying to capitalize on the popularity of the topic, just on the other side of the coin.

[@SnakeTreasures]

I totally agree with this comment. Well said.

[@SnakeTreasures]

I really wish Tom would stick with educating about his spiders and not getting into the drama and downing on others. I don’t like it. It’s disappointing and makes him look bad. Plus he starts this drama and it doesn’t appear that he even talks to anyone or these other tubers first. 😢

[@krisgibbons7008]

well said. completely agree!

[@BillCoz]

🤘

[@ComplacentOtter]

I think he's trying to get at the whole punk rock inventing style aesthetics that become fads but in order to be quitting it because everyone is doing it now you have to be one of the people doing it before it got popular. LOL He TOTALLY comes off as elitist as hell!

[@TerranovasTarantulas]

I think a lot of people need to understand that Kat is not attacking Tom, she’s contributing to a conversation she is passionate about. I wholeheartedly believe that Kat respects Tom and is not looking to start trouble. Adults can disagree and still respect one another and continue to be friends. Tom was able to speak his mind on a topic and Kat is allowed to do the same.

[@SergeantFish]

​@@daniellerichardson6617I agree that Kat shouldn't have to defend herself. Also that Tom is going to face a lot of heat for this since he has a much smaller following. I can get why she made the video though. She's upset for the fact that he's very obviously commenting on her videos and others similar without going about it productivly. He's stirring drama and unrest between keepers in the hobby for seemingly no reason. He just sounds bitter and narrow minded. I don't wish any hate to him but his viewpoint is frustrating. Kat is still being very respectful in the video while trying to steer it into a productive conversation

[@SergeantFish]

​@@daniellerichardson6617At the end of the day though it's just them having a difference of opinion. There shouldn't be any backlash for them on either side since neither have done anything wrong. They're just speaking about issues as they see them

[@SergeantFish]

@@daniellerichardson6617 I felt that way too. I wish I knew the context behind what he was actually thinking about. You can tell that he's referencing specific posts and people but doesn't want to outright say who

[@PinkyJax]

Without healthy debates and conversion nothing is learned. We need conversion and different opinions to further the hobby, and become better keepers as a collective. Thank you both for all you do for this hobby and the knowledge you spread.

[@NorthEastSpiders]

Is Tom's video still up? I can only see one from 3 weeks ago

[@PeculiarPaws]

I think the fact that jumping spiders specifically are given more humanistic characteristics is what helps a lot of people overcome their fear of them. Look at Lucas the spider, for example. People see them as a cute little spider full of personality vs a scary creature they should fear. I can see how some people would find that annoying, but at the same time, I can see with my own children how much it has helped them to not fear spiders and instead learn to appreciate them.

[@DarthIHE]

and it will hopefully stop some of those people killing wild spiders out of fear..

[@mollymarshall5710]

I agree. It’s like folks who get mad about the whole ‘boop’ and snek thing, it brings recognition to the species that so many people fear. I just don’t understand the attitude, almost mad that others are able to keep them without all the fear and difficulties. Anyone who has to be superior somehow disturbs me.

[@kinglyzard]

​@mollypop6887 Speaking as an enthusiastic dork who keeps fish and Arthropods, I have to concur that anthropomorphizing pets is the wrong approach. And pet fads are the worst! I remember anoles on little gold chains. And hermit crabs, dime store Turtles in those little deathtrap setups. You can be even more passionate about something if you understand it for what it truly is. Research is always important, whether you're getting a dog or a goldfish.

[@kinglyzard]

Jumping Spiders are the perfect gateway bugs for arachniphobes and kids to other spiders, but I cannot stress enough the need for research on any potential pet. Neither can Tom. You can ❤ your pet all day long, just know what it needs and provide it. And your kids should definitely know how to research anything they want to put a name on. "Can I keep it, Mom?"😊

[@kelsey2959]

24:43 i think it’s worthwhile to point out that this character trait is very common for autistic people, which the hobby is absolutely full of. it can be cringe, ridiculous, or whatever, but that’s how a lot of people show their attachment to the little guy.

[@Bree-Z-4]

"If youre just interested in sitting down and learning something accidentally" Exactly this. Your content is fun and not stressful, and not hateful, and real. You even say when you make a mistake or you're nervous or worried. You're just more relatable while also teaching/showing me new things about these tiny creatures. And you also refer us to other channels all the time as well for additional info - I follow a lot of others in this community because you have mentioned them! (Also would love to see a top 10 referral video from you on other KZbinrs you like!) I think you were very mature in your analysis - Expressing where you felt differently, or felt it could be taken as a "turn off" to your content without bashing another KZbinr with a different vibe from you. Your opinion is fair. I dont think he was directly thinking of you, but i do understand the consequences that could have to your content style too and love that you are okay with analyzing how you differ. Love you Kat and your content. Keep creating ❤️

[@naomijones3731]

Kat...if it wasnt for you, Richard, Dave, Alex, Petko AND Tom, I would never have gotten over my phobia of spiders. And now, I am the one that worries about the spider, that is outside in the corner of the window frame, and now I feed it. ALL of you gorgeous and very knowledgeable people, have EDUCATED me...and I am ever so thankful for that. I keep just Tarantula's, but i have learnt so much about other species from you all too. Be it jumpers, velvet, wolf, other true species and Tarantula's...i am now more educated and I will continue to learn about everything. There will always be 'politics' in any hobby, just play nice and keep the peace is what I feel x

[@tarantulakat]

Petko and Tom have gotten me over my phobia too ♥️ I’m happy to be on your list.

[@JD-Defenders]

Kat he ain't talkin bout you honey child...lol. You are golden! He is talking about these people who keep Tarantulas with no substrate, no hide, some cutsie floor design, signs with it's name hung up, pink french provincial furniture and so on. You keep everyone with perfection my dear.

[@tarantulakat]

I haven’t seen that, but if that were the case I wish he talked about that specifically instead.

[@arthurmorgan8231]

⁠@@tarantulakatI think I see what jd-defenders is referring to but I don’t think that it is the issue, sure i do believe that a small minority of keepers are keeping both t’s and jumpers etc. incorrectly because of seeing maybe one or two of these false keepers but I don’t think it’s any reason to call out a large majority of other keepers. For example I’m one for the more naturalistic enclosures for tarantulas, jumpers, other true spiders, but as a fan of your content and you for example put in a little mushroom or something I think that is totally ok and just adds a little flavor without harming or stressing the animal, same with jumpers I think that the cool acorn hides up top and the little faux wood platforms are completely fine and I’m all for it. But I don’t think there’s a reason to call out those people that are decorating to a point, I’m also a fan of Tom Moran, and watch a lot of his care guides but that doesn’t mean I disregard the way say you and others keep them, I partially agree with Tom but just wish he could make it clearer, sorry for the essay😅 Love your content and toms though❤

[@leleprtk]

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that as long as the spider has a hide, substrate and is being taken care of properly.

[@JD-Defenders]

@@leleprtk I don't believe he uses a hide or substrate. At least the one I watched did not.

[@JD-Defenders]

@@tarantulakat He does, he actually mentions the lego enclosure if you listen to it.

[@daynam5199]

I’ve never owned a spider never will, but love your channel. Started watching just to convince my kids that spiders aren’t scary. Don’t forget that you have a bigger audience than “people in the hobby”.

[@kinglyzard]

Welcome to the Arachniphobia Recovery Club!😅

[@stayswampy]

The sibling drama omg their tiny lil arguements is so cute im glad the babies from the second sac are doing well!! ❤

[@karenlee3198]

All support for you Kat, I like how open you are to having a conversation, to agree to disagree with people with different opinions and still encourage and hold respect them for their opinion. There is that fine line as a creative to appeal to others at their level of consciousness and awareness and promoting best practices (which is often not so glamorous). The main thing is learning together as a community. Well done Kat, for modelling courage and civility and conversation. Much 💕.

[@katyann4198]

Omg, the wee babies fighting over that fruit fly was too cute! 😂

[@naomijones3731]

I loved that too. Just too precious for words 🥰🕷

[@kinglyzard]

If you knew exactly what this behavior was, you wouldn't think it was so cute. But Velvet Spiders are still beautiful.

[@lovelyme696969]

You clearly love and care your animals and give them safe, comfortable homes, tailored to their needs basied on the type of spider and you care for them appropriately and give out the information needed for others to do the same. Keep doing what your doing, your brilliant.

[@emilypeck6929]

I like any spider content - jumpers, velvets, wolves, orb-weavers, widows, tarantulas... As long as it's got eight legs, has venom fangs, and some way of making or weaving webs, then I'm happy!

[@Dreamer81300]

I watch all of you for your uniqueness. Richard’s cinematography is *chefs kiss * amazing. Yours is clean, educational while still remaining fun. Tom is educational and uses his edge as a teacher to help us do the research. I’m old, but I can tell you this, a lot of what hes saying is not you at all. You, Dave’s little beasties, Tom Moran and Richard are my absolute favs and I’m old enough to be your and Richard’s mom lol. I feel like a talk needs to be had in private. As an older woman that watches you all for what I do, I think feelings are put into this and everyone might find out, it was never meant to be that way. You’re all amazing. I don’t just think, but I KNOW you’re going to show that leadership that we have all come to enjoy with a private talk and maybe we get to see a podcast/vid discussion after!

[@bellowick]

Jumping and/or Velvet spiders are the perfect gateway into keeping a tarantula. They don't live as long as tarantulas, so you aren't stuck with a female g.pulchra for 20+ years and they have the potential to teach the "defensive not aggressive" mantra. Speaking of, my velvet spider absolutely hates me, every time I get close to the enclosure she slaps her webbing, i'm sure she thinks she's a Chilobrachys velvet spider or something 😂

[@hoibsh21]

We love having you as our Spider Queen. Keep up the great work and tell Bowzer I said hello!

[@tarantulakat]

Lol ty I will

[@SherryBaby2003]

Hey there, just a comment from a person who loves watching random KZbin videos I came across you a couple of days ago and I’m not a spider lover or collector, but I have been finding it all very interesting. But I just wanted to say just from watching you for very short time I can tell that you care very much about these creatures and that you do everything possible to keep them safe and not stressed. Haters will be haters. Every channel has them which I know you know, but I just want to throw my two cents in even though it probably really doesn’t matter. You seem to be very educated, articulate and sweet and I enjoy your content.

[@emmas_creature_corner]

You are the one who showed me velvet spiders for the first time! ❤ love learning from you and appreciate all you have done in the hobby 😊

[@gregwilliams853]

I’m surprised to hear you get a lot of hate comments, you’re so great with the care you show your animals and I find your videos very informative and enjoyable

[@tarantulakat]

I really appreciate that!

[@TerranovasTarantulas]

As a fan of yours as well as Tom Moran’s, I just want to ask Tom: What is the line between being a “PetTuber” and not? In my opinion he is a PetTuber, maybe he does not make money but that does not make him any better, any smarter, any different. He’s a great keeper and so are a lot of the popular “PetTubers” you, Richard, Dave, etc.

[@kiki-drawer2669]

I agree! I'd love to hear his thoughts!

[@r1verman]

I think some define a "PetTuber" as an individual that acquires animals for the primary purpose of getting views. These KZbinrs often don't provide proper husbandry and unless the animal is pulling in views, you may only see it once. I differentiate "PetTubers" from channels like Tarantula Kat and Tom's Big Spiders because they always put the animals and their care first.

[@Phae0610]

Please don’t ever stop selling your merch. My Tarantula Kat shirt is my fave.

[@dkraay68]

I think the more people are exposed to spiders, it benefits the spider. It takes away the fears and probably saves a lot of spiders from being stomped or whacked with a paper! If you do your research and take good care of your spiders, I see nothing wrong with having a channel to showcase them. We love you Kat ❤

[@candyscott489]

In my opinion his ideas are not directed or talking about you so that changes everything he is saying to me. Would have to say I agree with most of his ideas, not all. I have 20 tarantulas & wanted a jumper. When she passes I will get a velvet. Your vids are awesome & I love his too 😊 You definitely care about your animals, sure yours husbandry & hopefully everyone husbandry is growing !! We are learning more every day. I can definitely say I have seen the legos put in tarantulas enclosures

[@MisplacedPixie]

I love Kat and I love Moran and I don't need them to be totally on the same page at all times. I respect them both very much. And I thank then both for making excellent content about all sorts of spiders.

[@stephanieshubert1247]

Kat, I am sorry that there is any tension. We all love watching you all. There is stuff I like about each and everyone of you. Seeing the positive in things is the way to go. Overall you made me continue to watch you and learn about spiders and that's all that matters. And I have to tell you, your outro is AWESOME! I takes me back to October in the 90s watching Disney. I wonderful feeling.

[@stephensarahcarr]

I enjoy and am grateful for the content you and Tom and many of the other Tarantula keepers on KZbin that you mentioned offer. I do feel like I especially connect with your story, being a fellow Mom wanting to find something for "me" again, and realizing that something I loved as a child (all things bugs!) is a legitimate hobby I could return to with fellow adults! I didn't think Tom's podcast was targeted toward you at all, though, like you said, your excitement about jumping spiders and velvet spiders and sharing about them openly likely highly sparked and continues to influence the intense interest! My takeaway was that it is mainly about the issue of getting a pet for the aesthetic value alone vs truly caring for your pet. I think inverts are such an awesome mix of both for so many keepers! But where people like the person who made the comment on Tom's video see cutesy decor and baby talking as the "pure aesthetic" side born from sheer bandwagon popularity, (which I can understand), it's not hard for me to see that same choice or behavior as all part of an intelligent, well-researched keeper enjoying their pets. I think we all agree but might just have different perspectives on where that line is or what strikes us personally as that unprofessional/unscientific/flippant/careless/all for the aesthetic/ignoring the actual creature side. ❤

[@sgdersho]

Ordered Maple for my son's birthday! He is going to be so excited! Thanks for making these; it feels like it might be a good starter spider for a young lad. I had ordered him a spider and canceled my order after watching your videos more. I realized he wasn't ready and it would not be good for spider friend to be in our house at this time. Thanks Kat!

[@lorefables8658]

Every hobbiest has their own way of handling and caring for their critters. I have never had a spider/tarantula, myself, but since finding these content creators, I am finding that I am no longer afraid of the multi-legged creatures and one day, I hope to actually keep them. For now though, I am in love with your, (T-Kat), content, among others, and I hope to continue seeing your content for many more years to come!! Thank you for having a hand in making me, (and others), unafraid of the multi-legged lovelies that inhabit this world with us!

[@jaimem-portillo6781]

Kat, I just got my 1st tarantula in December 2023. And because of watching you, Tom Moran, and several others over the last 4 years has brought me to finally jump into this hobby. It took all of your all's varying styles and information to get me comfortable to get here today. I think it is important to learn from several people, and take the time to learn. I now love this hobby, and no longer fear spiders or tarantulas. We all need to stick together, and try to respect what each other can bring to the table. So thank for trying to tactfully point that out. We all may not 100% agree on everything, but being open to other perspectives will only help strengthen the community and hobby. Thanks Kat and all the others who have helped me get here today.😊

[@SpiderLove70]

Love all your videos 🕷❤🕷 Grateful for you, love Tom and Richard too...(and Dave, Petko, Alex, etc, ) I learn so much. ..You do nothing wrong, don't take what he said personally, and you deserve income, you work very hard and teach us, and entertain us and you are so likable ❤Anyways, those babies were brats fighting over flies 😂

[@tarantulakat]

They are totally brats! Always fighting but it’s unserious lol. Ty

[@lindsay6518]

Jumping spiders were my gateway to tarantulas. Now I prefer my big babies :3 I think some old dudes in the hobby are bitter that tarantulas are being viewed as cute and not scary (taking away their weird goth/metal clout) but adorable and loved pets. Tom M sounds jealous that maybe people are not viewing his content as much? I love your channel Kat. Keep representing the ladies!!! I was in that thread girl, misogyny strikes again.

[@rhyspieces7099]

exactly this. same thing happens in snake communities too. once people, especially women, start loving what was previously considered 'scary' or 'against the norm' suddenly its not cool and its a 'fad'

[@madhokte]

Not an accurate assessment of Tom. Try watching his content first

[@kinglyzard]

FFS. I see NONE of this. What I get is the viewpoint of the _spider_ What is being discussed here is animal husbandry and common stupidity among fad minded people who watch one video and run out and buy a $200 tarantula and base its care upon what they know about jumping spiders. With all respect to Kat, she is an embassidor to anyone considering a spider as a pet. Maybe I'm a stickler for providing natural surroundings, but that is what they need and deserve. No toys or nonsense. I saw nowhere in this entire video any misogyny or triggered toxic masculinity. What I do see is a shitload of projection in your man bashing. People who look for the worst qualities in people sooner or later will find them. Good luck.😢

[@dawnt7950]

I would personally love to hear a podcast on this topic. Being an analytical person, I love to see the scientific stuff that some creators make, but also I love watching your content because you are the one who brings it “home” and highlights the hobby in a more household relatable way, which in my opinion is just as important since many keepers have the spiders in a home with family, other pets, etc. absolutely love your content whether it’s jumpers, velvet, or tarantulas!!!!❤

[@ABigRadWolf]

You make excellent content and care for your animals well. I actually ran into you years ago on a Facebook community about frogs and I was impressed seeing you learning and trying to gather more in-depth information to polish off what you already knew. I’m actually pissed people are slandering you about not knowing and taking care of your animals. You are worthy of your platform and I’m glad you are here and keep bringing a different aspect to the hobby and community of invert keepers.

[@tonydeluna8095]

Love your content Tarantula Kat! Keep it up 👍

[@graveyardmom]

You deserve the love. You are the reason why I love true spiders now. I no longer panic when I find them, I tend to let them be or I catch them and take care of them. Jumping spiders are adorable and help a lot of people get over arcana phobia, this is why they are so popular.

[@madisonbarry4087]

I would like to add as someone who has delved further into the spider keeping hobby because of youtubers like you, Tarantula Collective, & others that keep tarantulas - you have done so many videos differentiating what is good and bad for a tarantula in comparison to jumping spiders. I have avoided handling tarantulas bc I believe I heard you mention in the past how sensitive they are, but I recognize it’s possible with proper care as well. I learned the difference between new worlds and old worlds, how they should be mostly be left alone, etc. I feel like if it weren’t for these videos, as someone who learns VISUALLY and needs these alongside written guides, it’s helped me so much instead of going to an expo and buying one with little knowledge of their actual behavior. So thank you so much for everything you do for us, Tarantula Kat! :) I wish other parts of bug youtube were as saturated as spider youtube, it’s a lovely community to be in.

[@stephaniegalt]

I love your content Kat. I definitely do thorough research before getting any species of spider or animal for that matter.. but something just draws me to your content because it’s fun and light hearted and entertaining but, you do also learn things along the way! Keep being you 🖤

[@Lancashire_Lass]

How boring would it be if all channels did the same. The channels I follow are informative, different and give differing perspectives on caring for their spiders. Yes call out those who don’t do their research, but everyone is entitled to keep what the heck they want. Keep doing what you do Kat, you’ve got this. Xx

[@jackiej.5269]

Older video but I felt I had to tell you how much your channel has helped me. It is 100% exposure therapy for me and having just found it a few days ago, I already feel my intense arachnophobia getting better. I doubt I will ever keep a spider myself but your content is helping me appreciate them nonetheless! 🖤 And I feel like that alone proves there is real merit and worth to content like this.

[@sweetleafills]

You're my favorite spider person. 🙏 I just realized I commented already, but I just want to reiterate that I genuinely appreciate your content so much, and admire your approach. I relate to you a lot in feeling the constant need to create, and love to educate, and it's amazing to see someone I relate to in that sense thriving so much! You're an incredible spider mom, and teacher! Also, total boys club mentality lol. Like honey, girls can be cutesy and smart.

[@SpanglishSpider]

I personally love your videos! I'm obsessed with you and Richard from Tarantula Collective! You guys really make educational content fun to watch. Great personalities. Lotsa love from Florida

[@ashleighgulliver2831]

I think its so beautiful and important to build connections with all living things on this planet. Creating different ways of doing this through a passion and love for it is so inspirational. I am sooo scared of spiders but love looove love all living things. This channel has really helpled me get closer to them without pushing my limits. I can feel the love and the authenticity and it makes me so happy. For us to evolve and create beautiful bonds with spiders and things like that? We need to create the space. I absolutely love this content and think its so cool we are starting to notice that spiders are not just scary...they are so lovely ❤

[@Deathtomondays]

I think what some content creators might be missing is how the creators who they see as keeping differently or have a lot of following don’t tend to have an attitude of gatekeeping. I can’t tell you how many creators I couldn’t watch to learn about tarantulas because they did it in a way that besmirched others, or even me if I made a mistake. I found my comfort in the creators who were welcoming and just wanted to share the love of tarantula keeping to guide me as I learned. If you want to put a message out there, it isn’t impossible to do it while being respectful to those who may not be getting it right and just need to find the right person to show them another way.

[@abbieoffman4105]

Kat, you are the reason I got into spiders. I came here looking for jumping spider info, but ended up getting tarantulas first. I absolutely enjoy your content! I think though, that you might be worrying a bit too much about Tom's podcast/video. I have done my research over many different sources and platforms, and I do not see that your husbandry is different from those other sources at all. You absolutely deserve your piece of the spiderverse :)

[@ElizabethAnneBoleyn]

I consider you to be an educator on the topic of multiple species of spiders. I have learned so much from you. I also did other research thanks to your videos, leading me to get over my arachnophobia, keeping tarantulas and a jumper, and literally just today received my e campestratus spiderling (finally!). If it wasn’t for your videos, I’d still be running and screaming anytime a spider was within 15 feet of me. Now I’ve learned SO much about them that I wouldn’t dream of harming or running from one. I wish I had your creativity when it comes to enclosures, I’m more of a basic keeper (just happy to keep them safe and healthy), but you do not hurt your animals, and give them AMAZING care and lives. Your videos have inspired and helped so many people. Please keep up the amazing work, and don’t let criticism meant or not meant for you discourage you. You are incredible. Thank you for all you do.

[@tarantulakat]

I appreciate that 🙏

[@palespoon1673]

I think maybe you’re taking his comments a little too personally? You are not doing ANYTHING wrong and the fact that you are feeling attacked is confusing me a little bit. I feel like you do not belong to the group of people he is talking about. That group being people who handle their animals too much and show them off in an irresponsible way, house them improperly, etc -That’s not you. You are the person who helps people get over their fears and hypes up species that deserve more love. You share your passion and commitment with your audience and I think that’s beautiful. Don’t let them make you think you’re not giving it your absolute all and don’t make them doubt your own expertise. You know what you’re doing.

[@brendaking2362]

Honestly because of finding your channel, I have done more research on the spiders I love and the spiders I find. Thanks to all of this, I have caught spiders in my home and know where to release them outside of my home. I have taught my daughters all about different breads. Thank you for a safe space to appreciate the beauty of spiders and a resource to learn.

[@tarantulakat]

That’s awesome!

[@kennybolt4337]

The thing with "click baity" video titles is that they are the only way to get anyone to recognize your videos in the first place. Unless you are already an established youtuber, your videos won't show up in algorithms unless you use click bait titles and flashy thumbnails. So that's not really the keeper's fault there. That's youtube and social media as a whole

[@tarantulakat]

Yes but I do like to use this to my advantage and NOT to the spiders disadvantage. What I mean is, it’s true, but implied something might go bad and when it doesn’t (which it usually doesn’t) it shows how not scary it actually is.

[@conniesuehalvorsen7926]

I love your channel to start. I am a tarantula keeper and always do the research on them and the jumping spiders.

[@cheyannarayburn4480]

I absolutely love your channel. I feel like it’s definitely entertaining but also super educational. I love to put on your videos for my little cousins and my younger siblings.

[@rexcatlover]

I love your shows. You are entertaining as well as informative.

[@tonimarquis6565]

Hello beautiful human, Kat! I'm sorry that you have to deal with hate messages and assumptions, you do not deserve that. I love your content and perspectives, keep up the inspirational work! ❤

[@mollymarshall5710]

I love your content and have learned loads from you! Everyone learns differently and your way just works for my brain. And I think it’s awesome you earn money from your channel.

[@amandaschell]

Appreciate your content. It's authentic, informative, AND entertaining. Exactly the sort of animal videos I seek out. ❤

[@SquirrelDarling1]

You do you. You’ve helped me get over my fear of spiders. I was able to hold a tarantula without fear. I love jumping spiders now where before I was terrified of them. I get it now.

[@kristenerwin2518]

I over research everything I have to know everything I can know. I watched tarantula videos for 2 years before I got my first one. I appreciate you guys and the info we learn

[@sandynix5268]

I really don’t think that Tom is talking about you, Kat. You have a wide range of knowledge, combined with your passion and experience makes you a fantastic KZbinr. Of course it’s necessary over the years to get paid for this bc it’s a full time job. It’s not just entertainment, it’s teaching, sharing your knowledge - beside the work behind the camera, which takes much more time than filming, I would assume. People love you and your content and what is better to be able to have the opportunity to give your subscribers/followers/fans - how ever you wanna call it - a little piece of you in form of a plushie! Everyone loves -and needs! - to make some extra money, nothing bad about that. Stay real as you always do. Much much love and respect from Germany.🥰🕸️🧡🖤🕷️🇩🇪

[@irene_in_progress]

Just past the bit where tom read the comment he recieved about spider care. Its giving territorial over a hobby. I can understand their passion but more people means more mistakes, more learning and education opportunities. I hope you are able to connect with Tom about these issues. Keeping animals safe and making the hobby inclusive for all sorts and tastes can't be wrong right? Thanks for your kind approach to tough discourse. Thanks for the work you do here Kat 🕷 Eta: as someone thats new to non mamailian pets; the whole jumper care is not equal to tarantula care reminds me so much about how people thing dog and cat care should be transferrable animal to animal and it's just not the case.

[@ceciliafernandez9376]

I watch various channels & go to different channels to learn specific care, entertainment, creativity. I also do my own research online. I love your channel! If all channels were strictly educational it’ll be kind of bleh ( variety is the spice of life lol ) I honestly think it comes down to the individual person to do their research from multiple sources, KZbinrs shouldn’t be accountable for lazy irresponsible people unless they’re actually endangering animals and giving false information. Keep doing your thing Kat! ❤🕷️Oh, and no one is an expert, some are just more experienced & informed.

[@nickyjadee2519]

I got my jumping spiders 16 months ago and I started getting more and then got turantulas and stuff after over coming my fear of spiders with my first 2 jumpers moa and mini one female and one male. I didn't do it as a fad but because I genuinely feared spiders I didn't know why and I think it was mostly a dear inherited by my mom. I realised I was pretty ignorant and didn't know what I know know after tons of research and husbandry videos from turantula collective and watching you kat and micro wilderness and others it made me have pretty much hardly any losses made me become more confident and comfortable and knowing of spiders. I now help others who fear them and my family and kids in my family who fear them to see they arnt so bad. I never tell them to get one but to respect that they are not scary they do have minds and to not kill them ❤

[@zeerofuxx]

Heya TK... I just wanna say I luv your yt style! 🥰 You're more about spider *SNUGGLES* than in depth step by step "how to" tutorials. Your luvable, warm fuzzy feelings towards your web babies has helped me see the *cutesy* side of spiders & see their adorable-ness. lolz... I've *ALWAYS* been on the border of fear/fascination with spiders... since watching your videos I've crossed over to luv & respect for our weaver buddies. 🥰 Hugs-n- Smooches oh... I like @TomsBigSpiders too! 😁 I luv his spider ASMR videos. hee hee

[@rhyskuhl928]

I was a tarantula keeper long before I discovered your channel. I enjoy your videos. I am also a therapist who works primarily with adolescents and teens. Several of my clients get excited when I tell them that I have tarantulas because they have watched your videos. You make fun and engaging videos which encourage children and adults to look past whatever fears they may have had about spiders in the past and approach learning about them with curious and open minds. Ignore the haters and keep doing what you’re doing.

[@sadpostrayne]

I've watched your content off and on for years. I've always loved spiders including T's despite having arachnophobia. Your content IS very entertaining, but it also has good information in it. I can see your love and care and you explain everything happening. I can learn hard facts from a lot of spider KZbinrs, but what I learn from you is what actual care looks in action. You are also not afraid to admit what you don't know and research it. Your videos on black widows along with one from Clint led me to adopting a black widow I found behind my toilet. It was winter and putting and I do not know if she would have survived being placed outside. Caring for her has turned a phobia into a healthy amount of respect. I have always wanted to replace my fear with love and thanks to channels like yours I have accomplished this. I have been fascinated by spider since childhood (turning the pages of my favorite book with a stick because even touching an image used to freak me out), but now I can finally enjoy them as a pet. I just got my first T recently and they have completed their first molt. Your video on the pink toe where you brought everyone together was super helpful in filling the gaps I had in how to provide Ideal care for such a beautiful creature. I know my T can never love me back the way I love them, but that's ok. Just seeing them in their enclosure living a healthy life is all I want from them. Thank you again for help me over come my fear of spiders.

[@Violablacks]

I think you are totally right about people identifying with content that resonates with them, I have SEVERE arachnophobia and I found you as a way to help that because you started keeping spiders for that reason and you have absolutely helped me start to get over this fear. Through you I've also found Dark Den and Tarantula Collective who are also incredible keepers.

[@kashmereart9330]

I always loved your content, even if it might be as science-y as you say yourself! I did get a velvet because of your content, never heard of them before! But then I went ahead and did some research and watched other people who have own Your content is just lovely because it is low-key and it's just fun to watch

[@xortel4725]

I got an Eresus balcanicus on the way and am so excited for my first spider, excluding all the tarantulas I would find outside and keep for like a month as a kid. Thanks for showing me this thicc gothic tic lol!

[@DMcC]

I don't understand the controversy here. Tom Moran is a very down to earth and serious keeper who will always tell you what he thinks and I actually love that he does. I don't like to be lied to. If I wasn't getting what I need from what he's telling me, I'd just move on. I love Tarantula Kat content, I love Tarantula Collective content, and I love Tom Moran content. I see no controversy...you're 3 different people, doing what you do. I appreciate that you do it as I get something from all of you (I even watch some Petko content even though I agree with less of his opinions...doesn't stop me learning from him anyway).

[@renaeblocker1701]

I also Watch Tarantula Collective, TK and Tom Moran

[@cb3391]

I love your channel, don't change a thing. Love the "hanging out vibe". Sounds like dude is a little jealous.

[@Flipperwi715]

You're amazing. I never doubted it for a second. You bring giggles (sometimes at your expense) and education. I don't zone out with your work. I.e. you're appreciated for sure.

[@Aporter617]

Some of us have a very large collection and we dont post much on social media. What works for one animal may not work for another. Example : i have 1 specific Brachypelma Boehmei that wouldnt eat when it hit the 3 inch mark. Being kept in an enclosure thats typical and smaller, the moment i tried something different and moved it into a larger space ,Now it seems that it wont stop eating! If i was to post it in a larger enclosure people would question me and lose their minds! what works for me may not work for another. All we can do is try to help each other in the hobby, and let the chips fall where they may. We all appreciate you Kat!

[@HannahTheHorrible]

You never need to defend making money off your KZbin channel. I guess I’m bias because I’m also a creator but dude you should be getting paid for all the work you put in.

[@jayelann6131]

you are the reason i got my jumper and now love him so much, never be discouraged you're a great contribution to the hobby!

[@starfirex7913]

Rock on kitty kat!!! ❤ You!!! I totally agree with you! Your just all around , such a great KZbinr! Don't let those troll's opinions bother you, cause that's all they are is "opinions" and they aren't talking about you, at least it don't sound like they are targeting you! We ❤ you you Kat , and we have your back girlie!!!

[@samanthab4631]

You provide beautiful information and care! I don’t think those negative opinions apply to you! I love your content and art!

[@wileytheacmesalesman7760]

It would be so boring if all the T channels were all the same. I watch you Kat, Richard, and Tom Moran. I love all the different things each of you do. Keep up the good work!

[@MentulPanda]

As long as you are not forcing handling onto animals or not setting up a proper enviornment for your animals you can talk to em however you friggin please. Even if you aren't, people can learn and grow as keepers, nobody is perfect. We can all follow in Bryan's steps in always learning/teaching and striving to be the best keepers we can. Edit: I implore people to look into choice handling for all animals. Lori Toreni is an excellent resource.

[@kismets685]

I've been looking into getting a spider for a little over a year. I've have still yet to pull the trigger on that commitment. I have kept reptiles for decades though. I do agree the mixing of animals in general with social media presence is, a space to cause concern. It is very trend driven and attracts people who I think Tom has correctly identified (Collectively ambiguous) as not having that animals best in mind over the viewer ship. I doubt he was intending anything toward Kat though. I see Kat a positive voice in this space. Trying to pull a positive out of this; One thing I've heard alot of T KZbinrs say is T keepers tend to avoid the dwarf Ts, which in my mind I guess I could see Jumping/ Velvet Spider keepers not being discouraged by size to keep those Dwarf Ts which would be good for the community. As Someone new to the spider hobby, not even really in the water yet. The whole situation is scary.

[@Sebastianfnc]

You don’t worry to mutch everyone who watched your channel know that you love your animals and take good care of them This is a big part of your life and you do not have to justify it to anyone I enjoy your channel in all its diversity do your thing and leave the haters behind

[@kentvikman1086]

As a fairly new keeper I tend to watch a lot of videos to get pointers on how to keep my Tarantulas "happy", along with other research. In the end, though, I try to read my animal and do what's best for that particular individual as in what they do respond to. If I do anthropomorphize I do so to speak in words that most people can understand. I know that my Tarantula doesn't love me, but "look how cute she is when she" does whatever she does. On handling then, I never handle my T's on purpose. If one of them bolt and end up on me surely I'll enjoy that moment of shared space. You are a huge inspiration to me, Kat. Along with Brian Barczyk (RIP) you are the reason for my keeping Tarantulas. Both of you made the idea accesible to me. Stay safe and take care👍.

[@lizswank7239]

🫶 love you and your content! I'm happy for you that you are doing what you love and it make you happy ❤ keep the velvet content coming!!!!! 🕷

[@rothstarr1703]

Maybe I missed it, but I don’t really see a problem here. He probably could have said it better, but the way I heard this is like with owning certain types of dogs. Viewers see influencers owning working breeds, then they go buy them because they like the tricks or the obedience but they don’t realize the amount of work that requires, or that maybe an apartment isn’t the best place for a dog that’s going to get bored and destroy the place. He even says “as long as they’re keeping them correctly, I don’t care”. He does seem salty that that he doesn’t want things to become a trend which seems like gatekeeping. There certainly are creators who show improper care for their spiders (or dogs in my example), and use them more as props for views and money and they should be called out for that. But there is absolutely something to be said for the hate that creators unfairly get when they are doing things properly. My take away overall was that he’s upset at the commodification and the trend vs actual care of the hobby, but the way he said that created issues that didn’t need to be created

[@nataliealvarez1072]

I started out with jumpers and now I have tarantulas and because of you and this community and doing my research I know how to care for tarantulas

[@LeslyePatino.]

I’m a very casual viewer, I don’t own any spiders and don’t plant to, but i love watching your videos! To me it sounds like he is jealous or salty that there are so many new creatures doing new and better things than him and he’s mad about change and that he’s not as popular even though he’s been doing it for years. Just what I got from hearing of him for the first time. Keep doing you Kat, you can tell you love your spiders and are passionate and that is what matters

[@anthonymaier7179]

Hi Kat.! new in the hobbie well nearly a year love your episodes! Hello from Australia!!

[@gamergirlbinx3742]

Kat, you have gotten me over my arachnophobia... I love your content. I still haven't decided whether I should get a spider yet or not. I have cats. If I did decide to get a spider, I would start with a jumping spider because they seem like an easier arachnid to keep rather than a big tarantula but in the future maybe I was thinking that a pink toe would be cute, but I do as a viewer realize that they are completely different. Ne ways, I like I said do love your content and am always looking forward to watching it because it is fascinating, and I feel it does give a good and cute perspective on an animal that otherwise would be killed due to fear.

[@LukeMcGuireoides]

I didn't get the idea that he was alluding to you. If you think it sends flak your way, I would suggest that those are most likely snobby disrespectful dickheads that already didn't like you. It's good that he speaks his mind. He has many important legit things to say. It's important that we have hobbyists of a variety of styles. People are gonna do what people are gonna do. You can't have a hobby without some shameless people trying to make a buck or cringe people who get it all wrong and are irresponsible. I feel like he's speaking out against that in a reasonable and respectful way. This was a good video. It's important that mature experienced conscientious hobbyists with influence be outspoken. You're definitely an amazing advocate for exotic pet keeping. I watch you, Petko, and my main man Dave, and sometimes Tarantula Collective. All of you are shining examples of everything that's great about keeping spiders.

[@su3stantial128]

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[@ethanmccormack9561]

Right kat im going to be 100% honest. I dont watch your content for the knowledge, im not watching to learn all the latin names and what the perfect husbandry for them is because people like Dave Fisher and Richard have so much knowledge because of the massive amount of experience they have. The reasons I watch you is because your are so relaxed and chill it genuinely feels like im watching a friend not a youtuber, you like everyone else in the hobby makes mistakes but you admit them and learn from them and that is something I have massive respect for, you can clearly see you care for every single animal you have and I for one can safely say if I was reincarnated as a tarantula I would want an owner like you. Another reason I watch your content is because of how you setup enclosures, honestly you make them look so good and you even beat Richard. Please dont worry about what others say, anyone with a pair of eyes can see you look after all your animals well. At the end of the day the main thing is if all of our animals are getting the proper care they need, so long as you can say yes to that then there shouldnt be a problem. Just because you do things different doesnt make it wrong.

[@cheekianne1595]

We love you and your content Kat x I don’t keep spiders but I love watching you and finding out more about them ❤

[@Heartshackles]

I absolutely agree with each species requiring their own care although I only recently got my first jumping spider, I looked into them and made her a bioactive enclosure because that was my personal comfort zone as a plant lady. I actually saw on a video that it's not advisable to make a bioactive enclosure, which was pure insanity to me fairly. Coco coir or moss as substrate is a must for keeping humidity in my humble opinion, even if you like your decor plastic and weird... I think I personally like the "little bit of both" club, I don't need to see spiders living in straight up doll houses. I will be getting more spiders and different types in the future, but with each I will give the same attention to looking into them because I want them to thrive. The enclosure is for the pet, not me. I'm not against some resin decor, but of course we have to remember the decor being safe for the pet whichever pet it is. I guess each pet "culture" has their own things, some more problematic than others. In the end, it should be about the animal's well-being and what's harmful and what's not like was said. I think it's best to always look at multiple sources, which is one reason I ended up in Kat's videos and actually ended up watching even all the tarantula content and going into liking them from saying "I'd never own one" haha. I love how Kat sets up her tarantula enclosures and if I ever end up getting one I will take the pointers for sure. One of my peeves about the jumping spider people is that there are no decor creators in EU! All the cute little things I see are far with humongous shipping and it's saddening because I adore all the walnut hides and other things I've seen here. If the shipping ever becomes more affordable I'm going to be all over the walnut hides and wooden platforms. Actually, in my country it's relatively difficult to find affordable acrylic enclosures as well. Might explain why there is no decor creators, since they don't stick to glass with the magnets very well to my understanding.

[@BananaRussell]

I used to catch spiders and bugs when I was little… literally spent hours collecting lady bugs, isopods, spiders and putting them in my little acrylic enclosures and tried my best to keep them alive and healthy. Your channel had caught my attention and encouraged me to keep spiders in my adult years but with the proper care of course! My velvet and jumping spider has all the proper conditions because of your help so thank you! My husband doesn’t want tarantulas just yet but maybe in a few years he will let me bring one home.

[@ashleighdepalma5501]

I’m a mental health therapist and I initially kept only a jumping spider in my office. Having her there has changed the opinions of more people than I’d ever be able to count. There are different ways of educating others about the hobby. My personal approach is to make it fun! Juniper opened the door for me to have the privilege of introducing my clients to tarantulas! Including Stella. A big hairy Brachypelma who enjoys kicking butt hairs and leaving balls of dead insect parts strewn about her enclosure. I believe you can pair cute with education and have the same outcome: less fear, more respect, and curiosity! The cute hats, name plates, and plushies put out by influencers starts conversations and spins different perspectives on creatures that arguably most people are conditioned to fear. It brings me joy every time one of my clients comes into my office and proudly tells me that they safely relocated a spider in their classroom. Or told a loved one to use a catch cup instead of a newspaper. I even had a little girl tell me today that she would like a tarantula of her own! And this is a child who a year ago, slept on the sofa because she found a spider in her room. Tarantula Kat is one of the first creators that I direct curious clients to, because she makes it informative, relatable, and fun!

[@hippybag]

I think Tom isn't vilifying all other youtubers, I feel that he has a need to denote that he has no reason to tell things anything but exactly as they are, or as he sees them. No stakes, just 100% honesty. Whether he has 1M viewers or 1, he's going to make educational real content on husbandry for the sake of it alone.

[@ryanpoliakoff6585]

I watch and listen to Tom constantly, and I feel very confident Tom's not talking about you. You must not be watching some of the really awful stuff that's out there. You don't do the same thing exactly, but you're definitely not the problem he's talking about.

[@lil.ghost.spooky]

anyone know where i can find the youtuber kat calls as dion (idk is that’s how it’s actually spelt)in Canada, im located in canada and always have a bit of hard time finding info on canada native jumpers, so if anyone knows please let me know. thank you 💖💖

[@renaeblocker1701]

Reptiliatus- he’s great! (Sorry if I misspelled his name)

[@lil.ghost.spooky]

@@renaeblocker1701 aww thank you so much 💖💖

[@mehalla451]

I love spiders, I have a rosy-haired tarantula. This is the only arachnid I own, but I love her and I enjoy watching Kat interact with her spiders.

[@BloodsailKraken]

He just sounds really insecure and threatened by the cutesy spider people, like toxic masculinity to the fullest. Like theyve broken his boys club and demasculinised the hobby. As someone who doesnt know the guy or have any background of his personality thats what I took away from his perspective and how he came across.

[@ikindred]

I don't even keep spiders and I love watching your content because it's interesting and to be honest, it's very therapeutic. Jumping spider content is my favorite!

[@karlytheresa]

I'm SUPER new to spider keeping and only have really researched jumpers - I've done the general deep Google of Velvets and watched a few vids... I thought velvet babies always ate their moms or that once a velvet lays a sac, they start to liquify their own organs for their young. Is Wednesday a different kind of velvet? How has she laid multiple ?! She's beautiful and I love her

[@karlytheresa]

(Also, thanks for your content ! As a newbie, I've been binging and it's so informative and digestible

[@janegrass6735]

I keep (& produce) jumping spiders and I also have some velvets and one tarantula. I love your content, as well as both Toms, Petko (sp?), and Dave’s Little Beasties, along with others as I have learned SO MUCH! Because I’m new in the hobby & probably won’t ever become a content creator, I respect & absorb all the content from which I can learn to create safe environments for my pets. My thought process is, if they’re happy & healthy, then I’m happy. Thanks to all of you for ALL you do!