It's Time for a Change 😌

[@ModaMisfit]

Thank you for watching! Any thoughts? 💕

[@_.la.canela._]

i'm glad that you are breaking out of a creative rut! 💕 you clearly know how to appreciate your space in the world so topics like self care, simple comforts, things of that nature would be interesting imo.

[@shaynecoventry8894]

Sorry btw for multiple responses I'm just proud of you for doing this. Witch esthetic is good! Bring it back. Maybe add some of what inspired you to do Your videos. I think also if You made a Helo corner might even be cute. I like seeing You guys. It gives Me something to look forward to and as bad as I want to sign up for Your school I just can't afford it yet so these videos help until I get there! Thank you. Oh and more food recommendations.

[@vaderladyl]

I also prefer longer videos but if you need to do short ones as well, that is still wonderful to watch. Yeah those witchy videos are the most controversial and stir up a lot of feedback but hey, that is also pretty good for the algorithm and your channel growth, just work on not giving a shoot and answer with diplomacy and reaffirming your stance.

[@jacquig1939]

I love your witchy& whimsigoth videos (I saw the comments so I get why you stopped), but also your how to live cosy. Maybe videos on how you're trying to get inspired, I've been creatively blocked for a while myself. I think you did a shopping vlog once which was fun. I'd watch whatever because I definitely put on playlists to hangout even if I don't care about the topic.

[@lynnedaub4878]

Can't wait for more. I would love to know who u watch. I'll keep watching!

[@wenDesigner]

Steffi, here’s the thing, I found your channel a month or so ago. In that time, my sister has decided to move on from her giant house and move into a senior apartment. To say she is downsizing isn’t even half the story. I showed her your channel to empower her and calm her anxieties about moving to a small rental. Invaluable to us! Girl… we get it, make yourself at home, express yourself, you are a comfort, a friend, a fellow girl power female. Thanks for being there, being honest and raw. ❤😊❤

[@rocioiribe5841]

Aw 🥹

[@janetmccausland8953]

My husband passed away 3 weeks ago after 6 yr battle with cancer. I was his sole caregiver. So now I need to embrace the changes and move on. I'm all for switching things up and learning tips for moving forward. I also had cancer and my oncologist always asked "Have you joyed yourself today?" And isn't that just the whole ball in a nutshell?!" LOL 😀 BTW love your channel whatever the format.

[@quentin-_-99]

My condolences 🌹

[@HeronCoyote1234]

Oh honey. Be gentle to yourself. Do what you want and need to do for you, the heck with everyone else. I promise you there will come a time when you’ll see or hear something, and think of your husband with joy. For me, about a month after my mom passed, I was watching Black Adder, and heard her laughing right with me (not literally heard her, but knew she’d enjoy what I was watching).

[@elizabethkristjansson36]

My heart goes out to you. I hope your road to healing is as smooth as possible.

[@janetmccausland8953]

@@HeronCoyote1234 Thank you! I made Craig promise if it is possible that he would come back to haunt me! I know! We laughed at the silliness of it.

[@aprilsunflower7440]

I'm sorry for your loss.

[@Florydieguez]

What?! Witch Aesthetic! Im here for it 🙌🏼

[@bellewill9748]

Good for you. Be you. Don’t hold back.

[@hesherette]

I found your channel bc of the aesthetics but have stayed bc of Steffi (and Hilo of course)! It’s so nice to see you growing & finding what serves YOU. Letting go of that desire for perfection/ people pleasing shows that you are growing & letting go of that natural insecurity/ trauma response. A lot of us, especially women, have been bullied or shamed into wanting to be “smaller” in order to be accepted- that we should take up less space to be more likable. We all want to be accepted & liked, but the truth is that there will always be jerks out there, especially toward people brave/ creative enough to put their intimate lives online like you do. so might as well put yourself first + be your lovely self as you want to be :) I’m excited for your changes! I would love to see some thrifting/ vintage shopping videos from you if you’re up for it, the PNW is so gorgeous & full of amazing unique places that would be fun to see while getting decor inspo/ tips in the process. maybe some style/ fashion inspo bc you have such great style too!

[@lesliebroderick7849]

I don’t think you could make a boring video. You have a great sense of style and sense of humor. What ever content you use will be great. Thank you for the videos

[@diyac9554]

I like that you keep me company. And I like your background music, voice, the candles, the cat, and your calming, pretty face. Who cares what mean people think?! You do you. I’ll be here, and I’m sure others will be too.

[@angelalong6740]

Be you. That is why I watch you. I love the way you incorporate a dark aesthetic and exploring colors that work with it. Hatters are unhappy so they don't mind spreading the unhappiness. God bless ❤

[@bellewill9748]

Love your videos. Binge watched almost all in a couple of hours. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️

[@shannoniversen6123]

Yes! 👏 Here for it!!

[@rayoreyo]

As a single introvert in her 30’s living alone with her cat who has no friends to hang out with as they’re all busy making babies (no hate, just facts of what literally ALL my friends are doing), I completely understand about loving longer videos as I feel like the KZbinrs are keeping me company! So I am all FOR longer videos, and for you to talk about what you like, whether it is just about music or video games you’re into recently! ❤ Also, thank you for reminding me to not be so hard on myself and for not caring about what people think. I struggle with that a lot 🥲 Happy for you and your positive changes ✨✨

[@lomiju]

I love the changes that you're interpreting😊 You can also add in a little fashion/jewelry haul (I love the necklace you have on right now). Another tip is that you can show us how you edit, stuff like that. We'll love/enjoy that.❤ Have a great Sunday love.😊

[@rocioiribe5841]

Yesss fashion/jewelry. This top/necklace combo was so good

[@BudgetingwithFalyssa]

I think that commenter is just a high school mean girl that never grew out of that bitchy stage. I love that you are being personable. In fact, I plan to incorporate your styling tips as inspiration for my apartment when I get one. Probably looking at another year or so before I feel like I'm financially stable enough for that. You are real. I prefer you being real.

[@vaderladyl]

It was a lot of deluded ultra religious people calling her a bad person for liking something they think is demonic.

[@BudgetingwithFalyssa]

@@vaderladyl The ultra religious can go watch the Utah moms. Leave Steffi outta it lol.

[@alyciabermea1422]

Steffi, I immediately got hooked on your videos because of your great personality and sense of style. I binge your videos whenever I need inspiration for my apartment. I think it's wonderful that you are empowering yourself to be even more creative with your content so that you find more joy in what you do.

[@vandal280]

I wanna see your hair styling routine, it's always so pretty and I'm completely hair-challenged

[@sharakate]

I would honestly say if you aren’t having fun, we won’t either, right? People are here because they like you, or your style or both. So things like places you enjoy going in Seattle (or beyond), shopping hauls (because I for one like a lot of your style. Clothing. Jewelry. Decor. Etc). Things you do. Places you visit maybe. Some of my favorite KZbinrs are vlog channels where you get a little bit of everything. I am sure there will be people who come only for styling and that’s where playlists can come in handy, but I like all sorts of things so I look forward to you branching out! 😊

[@kikiromiii]

Came for the aesthetic but stayed for you! You’re one of my comfort KZbinrs that I love watching to relax :) Can’t wait to see even more of your personality and creativity!! 💖

[@kikiromiii]

Also MOOOORE WITCHY AESTHETIC CONTENT! That video is how I found your channel!

[@ModaMisfit]

Wow, thank you!

[@ModaMisfit]

I'm thinking about doing a witch aesthetic video sometime in the near future! Do you have anything you'd want me to cover? Any questions or ideas about the witch aesthetic? I'm all ears!

[@daisyv2523]

Yes, I agree. Going forward let’s have fun! I really enjoyed watching your comfort food video. I’m planning on making it myself. So I think, if you can do so, add a little cooking inspo/segment. Something quick and easy that you like making for yourself. Like you, i now live alone and struggle cooking for myself. What are your favorite easy go to recipes? Decor and food always goes well together. It adds a little flavor to your story. You are so awesome and talented. Love watching your videos. Keep them coming.

[@vickyroberson2441]

You go girl!!!! Excited to see your new found boldness!!!

[@conita9837]

1st of all I absolutely love your videos every part of it and I actually miss your witchy vibe videos. Please don't listen to the negative comments. You are a wonderful person and I love your style and I'm not just talking about your decor style. I'm talking about YOU.

[@Zaphyrochan]

OMG this is an amazing idea✨ I really love your videos and watching since the studio apartment it's an organic evolution ✨ you inspire me in All sorts of ways, not only with decor it's cosy and wholesome content ✨ I'm looking forward to seeing your videos ✨

[@fungifawn]

I am all on board for longer content. It has definitely felt like you're a friend that I'm so excited to see but is quickly gone. Give us more of your thoughts on anything, and let us be a bit of a diary! This definitely doesn't just have to be a home styling channel. It's your channel! Show us what you love! I'm so excited that you're looking forward to moving your channel in this new direction. I hope it sparks your creativity and lets your chains loose. I know how creatives can really lock themselves up. I'm here for whatever way you want to express yourself on your channel! ♥️

[@crisptater]

I’ve really enjoyed your channel ,all the seasons , the ups and sideways….Steffi….this is your Space and I’m here for it!

[@shaynecoventry8894]

Yay! Steffi's here! ❤. This is a good thing My decor Yoda. You are awesome. This is gonna be good. Your tips are amazing too.

[@leslovesliberty1776]

Steffi, I've been watching since back in your 1st studio & will watch no matter what you talk about! This sounds like a great idea, just have fun with it & bring us along for the ride!! ❤️🏠🥳

[@beatrizandreaortizfernande8442]

Hey Steffi, just wanted to drop in here and say I am genuinely so excited about the new format! I’ve loved your channel for a long time, but I also love freeform lifestyle videos, so this is all very exciting! And just for the record, I really enjoyed your witch aesthetic videos. The haters can go touch grass.

[@e1985-]

This video was such a breath of fresh air! I really appreciate your honesty, and I'm so excited for your upcoming channel changes! 💕 I'd love to hear more of whatever you're passionate about -- your videos are always so enjoyable to see!

[@sharonmcbride2374]

I found you because of the witchy, dark décor. I have never found you boring. Idea: I lived in Seattle(Queen Anne) for many years. Now, on the other side of the mountains in Richland. Could you talk about what it's like to live in this dense urban area, the good and the bad. I really look forward to your videos.

[@Owlsonix]

Yay! I'm looking forward to your new content, but I appreciate what you've already done. I love your style. Can you share a video about your unique necklaces?

[@zanazen888]

Always loved your channel. Please do what you like and post what you like. Don't let those haters hold you back. I'm looking forward to your evolution :)

[@rocioiribe5841]

So happy for you! This is energy I'm embracing this year as well! Have you ever thought about also including more lifestyle videos? Your style is so cool and you have great taste in music. Rock on 🤘

[@j.p.regalado]

First off props for putting yourself out there. As a creative you need to constantly evolve. Algorithms inform, but don't necessarily dictate what you should creative. You do YOU and the people who support that will stick around. Keep up the good work and excited to see what this next chapter unfolds for you and this channel!

[@jacquig1939]

Last year was life shatteringly rough so this year I'm focused on trying to figure things out, find what makes me happy. 24 is for change, healing, and rebuilding. Have fun trying new things (but I do miss the Sassy group meetups)

[@InTheGlow135]

I think this is a great idea. I completely get the whole life turning upside down thing. My Mom passed away in December and I had been taking care of her for the last 3 years by myself. Now that she’s gone, I’m slowly getting back to being me, someone new and different from before. Bringing back some of the things I lost over the last three years and creating some new things. Everything is so different now but I’m up to the challenge.

[@donnaridley7232]

Love, love, LOVE the idea Steffi … I’m really looking forward to the new format. You go girl 😊

[@michelledee2586]

Fun is a great topic. Since you live in Seattle and I’ve never been there, maybe some outings in your town. Coffee shops, restaurants, dating again and getting out there. Take Hilo out in a stroller, that’s always a good time, maybe you”ll meet someone. LOL

[@sunnyday4589]

The changes sound great! You could never be boring. I can’t wait! 💕

[@soysamyoun6532]

Nice!! I love your videos not just for decor tips, your videos have some sort of cozy aura, and Helo, and music, no offense but having you even on the BG is very relaxing ❤

[@alvitajackson5306]

I have to say, I Love ALL of your content!!♥️ When I discovered your channel, I absolutely looked forward to all of the videos you put out and when I didn’t see a new one coming, I went searching for it🥰 You have a very witty humor and have an Amazing channel and have helped me look at designing my apartment in a more positive and different way. You’ve also inspired me with some positive habit changes💖People who are deliberately mean, have nothing else better to do than to berate others. They have the issue, you don’t. This is your channel and you should run it the way you want to. Whatever you discuss that you are passionate about on the days you record will be something that is always worth listening to💖🥰🌺 Keep doing what you love in the way you want to. You are doing Great🤗

[@rachelvantreuren1124]

Let me just say that I love your channel. I’ve binged your videos on multiple occasions and I love your style and decorating sensibilities. Not to mention your charm and sense of humor. I think it’s great that you are expanding into a longer format. I too use KZbin as company while doing housework or gaming, and I would totally watch videos of you just chewing the fat. Don’t mind the trolls. Haters gonna hate right? Just be yourself and your audience will follow. 👍 PS. Keep the witch aesthetic content coming girl. I’m here for it! 😁✨🦋

[@katherineharris9976]

I am so happy you have realized this change. You sound like you are finally morphing into the butterfly! You can soar! Let go and you just be you! A beautiful butterfly! We will take away from your vids what we need and leave the rest. You can let all that stuff go. No more. You are the phoenix rising above her ashes! I am so happy your spirit is soaring. Do what brings you joy! Bottom line, you got this! Love you! Kat

[@AngelaNortonTyler]

This is good advice for content creators! :)

[@heatherparker9820]

I am sorry someone was so rude to you. Hurting people hurt people is a great concept (and I am a counselor) but it is hard to handle when you cannot imagine ever treating another person like that. Go be miserable somewhere else please lol. I have told you several times that I have watched all your videos. I think bc you are so authentically you is why it feels off when you try to fit a mold. Do whatever you want to do with YOUR channel and people can leave or stay. I hope you do feel more comfortable with sharing more personal stuff. We will be here for you.

[@vaderladyl]

Ir t was a bunch of religious people critiquing her witchy stuff

[@heatherparker9820]

@@vaderladyl really? That is weird because why would they want close ups of the décor pictures and be mad about her showing herself too much? I am religious and I hate when people use it as an excuse to be judgmental and hateful. Thank you for clarifying what happened.

[@vaderladyl]

It is weird. They heard or saw the word "witch" in it and went bananas. Don't get me wrong, nothing wrong with being religious, but these people were a bit on the fanatic side and were very judgmental and hateful indeed@@heatherparker9820

[@authorkaterinadennison]

Great video and I'm here for all the changes because I like hanging out with you. I love that video magazine idea. That makes so much sense! Definitely looking forward to that. My favorite videos to watch are cozy vlogs, some silent ones, others softly narrated. I'd love to do those myself but I always fear I'm not 'aesthetic' enough. So maybe someday I'll stop caring what other people think and share my cozy writer cat lady life with people.

[@pearl5016]

Thank you Steffi, watching you grow and transform and heal is like such an amazing gem to see right now. Like sending you lots of love and appreciation. I am happy to be a part of your journey. And even for my slightly brooding nature ...I do appreciate this new theme of having fun. Also witch asethetic and that kind of journey and cozy living talks totally would love to hear more of. As well as what your heart wants to talk about. 🎉❤ wishing you much success to your changes and new beginnings.

[@valeriestilwell1479]

Hi Steffi. Your story feels so familiar to me. Listening to your journey over the last year was taking a page from my own journal. The greatest thing I picked up from you so far is that being in my space, BY MYSELF, is okay! In fact, it feels so good! And I realized my small condo is everyone but me. Thank you for sharing your journey and the fabulous tips! Empowering!! ❤

[@quentin-_-99]

Im glad youll be making longer videos. I really enjoy your content 🌹

[@jeanniennolan]

Fun sounds good - thankyou for all you have shared with us! Warmest Regards Moda GIrl!!

[@drmissy0811]

Wow, Steffi….what a timely message for me! Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings here. I, too, need to get brave and get on with what I’ve set out to do for myself as well. You’ve given me a surprising but needed kick in the pants. You GO, girl!!!

[@tracy11115]

Sounds like your going through some personal growth 👍 I’ll still be tuning in no matter the format 😊

[@larasoohon207]

I cant wait to see the new changes on your channel. I absolutely love all your videos and i look forward every time to get great ideas and tips. Keep up the great job steffi.❤❤

[@katecarnac1440]

I LOVE THIS idea ! I think what many viewers love about you is your sharing of everyday life! you have an awkwardness that is so adorable and relatable ! I love seeing your design inspiration but i'd love to see more of life in the city you live in, recipes, fashion, etc. more like a vlog. And to that person who made that comment .... screw them! Focus on the lovers not the haters.. you are lovely and inspiring. DO you and be yourself. I feel like you are a girlfriend i love to check in with weekly. I love seeing your evolution and healing... totally inspiring me to do the same :) thanks Steffi and please keep on keepin' on.

[@Cyndis865]

❤❤❤ I totally agree with you 100 percent!! I think everybody has lost sight of self respect for themselves self-love for themselves and self-care for themselves if we all step back and look at ourselves in the mirror and fix those things we don't like about ourselves then we can move forward to help other. I personally enjoy your videos in the contents of your videos. I will still watch no matter what!

[@Yosoy919]

Its your channel do what u wish and remember u do not have to reply to any negative comments. The more u do the more ppl will continue to attack u. Ur channel is different i love it so much. U r funny and relatable .. ur face is beautiful to me and kind ! Be you. U r unique.

[@PandorasExecutioner]

Hi Steffi! I'm actually so excited for this evolution. You're so right, some of my favorite videos are the ones with lots of time stamps, where I can listen to it while I do dishes. Maybe I haven't been around decor-tube enough, but you and Caroline Winkler are my favorite decor youtubers because your styles are so unique and don't fall under a specific genre like "midcentury" or beige girlie. I love that you're cozy but in different color palettes than just plants and neutrals. I love plants and neutrals, but I'm trying to be witchy, geeky and cozy, and it's such a hard mix to find inspo for lol. And then to somehow also be compatible with my partner's style preference for vivid bold colors, which I like in doses. Veda is the only other youtuber I can think of who specifically shows off her dark decor. I've started to watch home organizer youtube just to see more eclectic styles. Just in case it helps, I am one vote FOR witchy aesthetic and more talking head moments. It really sucks how some haters get under our skin, even when you know how out-of-line they're being. some criticisms really are just someone's preference, and not about anything being broken. I like thinking of the counterexample, "what if someone LOVES this kind of stuff? What are they like? what are the kind of people who HATE this?" It's like asmr. some people find it so grating, but others seek it out on-repeat. people gotta just find what they like elsewhere, instead of trying to squeeze it out of you. I finally have more time so I'm going to catch up on some of your past stuff. :3

[@stephanieellwood4979]

I am so happy with the growth and new content of yourself and your channel. I would love to see maybe some cooking videos (I like the one you shared the pasta recipe) and maybe some book recommendations and reviews. Something pertaining to how you make your life cozy, outside of decor.

[@pinkskiestoday]

Steffi, if you make a video with just your face (full frame) talking about decor, or anything else for that matter, I will watch it.

[@foxfire9320]

Love everything about this. Looking forward to this new era! And I for one would love more witchy aesthetic content ✨

[@rocioiribe5841]

Ideas: how often to you change decor and what's the process? How do you upkeep keeping your home so clean and looking good? Do you ever get rid of old decor? Do you ever find things vintage ect? Have you ever made decor yourself?

[@tinalundy7858]

Hey lady you are so right about keeping someone company right now every aspect of my life is a mess and I watch and or listen to you work on changing my little house and I can atleast get a lil peace and control were everywhere eles things are out of my hands so from the heart thank you for being out there!

[@indiasimone6645]

Hi Steffi and Hilo, I'm looking forward to your new plans for your channel. This is your channel and I i enjoy it so much. Thank you for sharing 💚

[@cathrinezaccaginini2626]

I have never had not regret on what ever aI have done.I loved how you are you

[@bambinalwmbsb3045]

i love your witchy videos a lot. I wish You make more of then. and yes more longer videos the Best idea ever...❤

[@CeliaAWhite]

Thank you for this deep dive. Any videos you make will be great because you are YOU. I love your witchy aesthetic and welcome more of that if you are able.

[@samanthatannous440]

U are magnificent! Ur real. Keep being u! Love ya ❤😍😍😍

[@dakotahtarot3082]

I enjoy watching your content! Looking forward to the longer video's with hopefully some witchy and cozy related topics too🙂 Have fun creating!

[@bree8150]

Excited to see you grow your content this way! 💖. I’d love to see more of your recipes!

[@LadyLeoneLocks]

Awesome. Love it. Love everything about it.

[@floofymuffin]

So excited for your new format! GO YOU

[@margueritehardin3763]

I love watching your videos and I'm sure your new format will be great! I began watching you when my husband and I decided to downsize. We had planned to sell our home and move to a condo. Initially, I was led to your witchy content and proceeded to decorate my new living room in the Dark Academia style. Everyone who enters our home seems to love it. After we moved, I found that I appreciated your videos so much that I continued to follow your channel. Although we are of different generations, you and I have much in common. We have many of the same interests. I do think that sensitivity is a part of the nature of creative people, and it allows us to be empathetic towards others. The rare and unnecessary negative comment is usually meant to draw you into someone's drama. Leaving it alone will encourage them to simply move on. Instead, reread all the positive and uplifting comments! I'm thrilled that you have set goals for yourself to speak about the topics that YOU'D like to mention. That's how friends exchange thoughts. We share with each other what is on our minds in turn. One of my favorite quotes is "Friendship is the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person, having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words"--George Eliot. It has always been true for TV personalities and celebrities, and now also for KZbinrs, that the viewers tend to form a virtual "bond" with the presenter or characters. We watch you from the comfort of our homes, we share your ups and downs, and the vast majority of us care about your feelings and the effort you put into each online "meeting". Please don't hesitate to just be Steffi. We are more than fine with the witchy content. We like you as you are! I am truly looking forward to the new longer format.

[@laurarobbins5155]

I'm here for it all! xo

[@joycerobinson855]

I happened on your channel while looking at other youtubers. I no longer follow them, but love your channel! Keep doing you! Until next time, 😘

[@nettiekat6336]

Found your channel last year. I've always wondered about your wardrobe. You always look great in your surroundings. Especially that gorgeous necklace. Looking forward to this new year of videos.

[@elizabethkristjansson36]

Love your channel, love the new ideas. Rock it out, lady!

[@danirenee85]

I like your idea for the new format and I'm excited to see what you come up with going forward. Also, please try not to let jerks get you down. You're fantastic! ❤ They can go elsewhere if they don't like your content.

[@mercedesleorasargeant-thor7562]

Ok I have to comment to this hateful person and to you Steffi. No one in your arena will say such hateful things. Your video are so helpful and insightful. Thank you. Only someone who is below your level of elevation will even think those thoughts and say it. Haters gonna hate as that is their job and they will find someone to hate. Keep rising 💕💕🥰💕what does your mom and dad think of this looser.

[@vaderladyl]

It was more than one person, they were really mean.

[@mercedesleorasargeant-thor7562]

YEAAAAH BRING ON THE #BOLDIN24 😂😂👏👏👏👏

[@elnawagg6352]

Steffi, I love you just the way you are. Good tips for a perfectionist like me.

[@mistyjohnson302]

You ask, “can we just be nicer to ourselves?“. From what you are saying, and what I am personally experiencing, my question is “can we just be nicer to each other!“? I am certainly down with you talking about whenever, and just hanging out with you. Would love to do that. I love that you recommended ALT - J. I just went out to iTunes to check them out. I have to admit, I don’t get most of their songs, but I do like “left hand free” and just purchased it :-) so thank you for that. Love music recommendations as well as decorating tips, and hanging out, And seeing sweet Hilo wind around you. It’s all good, you go girl, and all that Lovely stuff. Off to a great 2024.

[@mistyjohnson302]

PS, love your necklace :-)

[@lunarazelle]

Does this mean you may do more witch aesthetic videos? That’s how I found you. I love your style!

[@mollierocket705]

You’re lovely

[@nonamenojane]

Love that black table behind you!!! 😍🖤 You're so well spoken on the difficult experiences you've had and I like to get to know the creators of channels I like. I can't wait to see the videos you create while enjoying creating them! The work that creatives make while enjoying the process is the best. I'd love to see the content you want to create outside of home decor. I'd totally hang out with you on KZbin any day of the week, decor or not! 😊 As a creative, I can confidently say that we go through evolutions in our work. It can feel really weird or risky to embrace but it IS a good thing. Creating shouldn't be a chore. It sometimes becomes that and needs to shift. People grow and change, so does our work. And as an online creator, being the face of your work is a good thing. People like to know the creator! That commenter is a 💩 The strong impact of the negative comments is valid even if it's infrequent. I have some advice for that- keep a document on your computer where you copy paste your most positive viewer comments. Put all the ones you can find, give yourself a long read of actual words people have said about your work. When a negative comment gets to you, go read it. I also really enjoy long form videos. I'd love to see home decor trend videos. This will be a horrendous, terrible description of what I mean- but I would like to see something like how to include a trend without spending a ton of money and also how to achieve a look/trend with items from a certain store like "how to get ___ style for under $___ at _(store_)." If that makes any flipping sense at all...

[@dlonknox7345]

I love your videos and have received so much inspiration from you! Day-to-day life is already hard enough without people being mean. 😊❤️

[@andreaortiz7895]

May I ask about the black table in the living room? What is the style of table called? I can't seem to find it online 😭

[@Zaphyrochan]

About to watch it ❤

[@annie_100]

❤❤❤

[@luisagarcia9482]

I love your videos. Do not pay attention to the trolls.

[@marylincherie1806]

more witches please ❤

[@quinnm.3127]

🌬🍃🍃🍃🤸‍♂🤸‍♂

[@shaynecoventry8894]

Tell the negative nancies to this to the wind blow Steffi. Your videos are enjoyable because you make yourself known.

[@lisacamilleri211]

First of all, there are horrible people that apparently live to just make other people feel shitty and write awful stuff about someone they don't even know. Alexandra Gater got a comment once that said something like, "You wouldn't know design if you ate a design sandwich". You will not please everyone and it's easy to fixate on the few comments that are hurtful in a sea of hundreds that are not. That said, there are a whole lot of us that love your videos and think you are anything but boring and feel that you have a lot of valuable expertise to impart. Know that we are the ones that really matter because we keep coming back. Hopefully those other shallow hurtful idiots will choose to stay away. And I don't think we have a problem seeing your face. I doubt we'd want a video where we don't see the person we've tuned in for. I've gotten a lot of great information and tips from you over the past 3 of 4 years that I've been watching you. I hope the tips don't go away completely. I also really liked the witch aesthetic stuff - sorry people might have read super negative stuff into it. Anyway, as one of your biggest fans, I've loved your videos and have never once felt they were what you're afraid they were becoming. And while I really hope that you keep some of the "old" Steffi, I am looking forward to seeing what what the new vids will be like.

[@mistyjohnson302]

How about? Chat about whatever moves you, but in each video, recommend one song, or one band, recommend one food item - doesn’t have to be a full recipe or anything, could be a coffee/coffee concoction, recommend one item like a simple candle, whatever, or any of it just occasionally

[@joalyng]

Thifting videos? decor, clothes, whatever strikes your fancy. If you like thrifting.

[@vandal280]

Jesus fuck, who the heck is that rude person. I like not having a lot of visuals to look at because most of what I listen to is while I'm driving, so I almost exclusively watch videos where it's just a person on camera talking. You're only human, so it's natural to internalize the 0.001% of negative feedback. But your videos are an expression of yourself, and no one is for everyone.

[@Cyndis865]

The difference between different styles and different techniques. And the outcome would be about the same. Let's say you have your house Bohemian country. Does that mean you're fashion statement is Bohemian country? Where is your house just full of mismatched items and really nothing matches and and you don't know what your style is?