It's Time To Man Up

Patrick Romero and Jesse Budd go to the University of Utah to continue their interviewing.

[@fookard]

step 1. be attractive step 2. don't be unattractive

[@simonsilva250]

hey u there

[@themanhimself436]

forgot the step where u ask them out

[@poziloynazist]

bro, you was blackpilled 10 years ago…

[@What_is_a_freaking_handle_bro]

​@@poziloynazistlmao

[@LOL_MANN]

@@poziloynazist It is not something new lol, prefference for conventionally attractive and tall men is old as humanity itself.

[@lubu523]

Chivalry is dead? Well what about lady like???

[@amzival6654]

🤚👌👌

[@Cola-42]

I don't think any lady like would even wear shorts. So yeah, long gone.

[@shadowstarspammy]

🎯

[@monkeykorns]

"I think guys are just more interested in being friends first and hanging out" Oh, honey...

[@Realtalk2389]

Oh honey, you have no idea about how men are😂😂😂

[@khushichauhan5765]

Tell me what you meannnnn

[@SaraGabrielaAlexandre]

Kkkkkkkk 😂

[@ganjiraja9407]

-"Hey, Amy do you wanna go on a date tonight". -"I actually have stuff that i need to do sooo....".

[@amyl5250]

Invite her in advance 😅

[@vextys9853]

@@amyl5250 nice one

[@greekgod3299]

Ok Amy then I gonna jump alone in my testarosa and go have hummer with spaghettoni while drinking a lambrusco... wish you indeed a nice evening

[@TheGyroBarqusShow]

I think he means you darling, you should go with him, he will be alone forever if you don't.

[@MoizRafay]

Women need to women up too

[@sophiacristina]

Its funny how they charge confidence on men even if they don't have it themselves...

[@Chironex_Fleckeri]

@@sophiacristina 👍 Exactly

[@elumiomerk4013]

@@Chironex_Fleckeri Is it a correct comparison though? I barely know any girls who are as socially challenged as guys, they may be lacking confidence before exams, or presentations or interviews or whatever, but my personal experience is that girls are more at place in social interactions than guys.

[@Realtalk2389]

@@elumiomerk4013 maybe you are right, but the point is even though if a girl likes a guy, she won't make the first move, she just gives the signal to a man that she likes him and expect him to make a first move and ask them out, A man has to make the first move if he likes a girl or a girl likes him both ways, Isn't that unfair, And I think that most of guys aren't asking girls out because they are afraid of rejection, In my opinion if a man likes a girl, and he wants to ask girl for a date he should ask her out, And if a girl likes a boy she should ask him out, and don't waste time on giving him signals that she likes him and wait for him to ask her out

[@delicious_seabass]

A moment of silence for the girl who got asked out zero times...

[@dazednconfused31337]

Shame I think she's cute

[@harrisonjohn4301]

@@dazednconfused31337 same! It made me really sad.

[@ruebene2223]

@D L It's not "probably" a lie. It's a lie.

[@yelezi7950]

It's a lie.

[@petermulinzi1288]

suffering from her cuteness everyone would assume she’s taken

[@TalhaFaisal1]

I think that guys are asking out fewer girls nowadays is because they would rather not risk getting a sexual assault charge on their record.

[@thumbythumb]

Amen brother

[@Jayyy667]

yessir, and Ive been with enough at 35. Women have drastically changed into some weird internet hybrid. Around 2016 and 2017 it was no longer a good idea. Strange and unfortunate with whats being pushed in a supposed modern society. Social engineering to destroy a empire. It's happened to all of them throughout history starngely enough.

[@wolfieplays2wolf199]

Or the fear of rejection

[@HookemHorns972]

What's stopping these women from asking guys out? You wanna date so bad then you ask.

[@XlAnonymousUserlX]

Best comment ITT. If you see a guy you like but he won't come to you? Why don't you come to him? If women are allowed to break traditional female role in this day and age, why can't men break traditional male role by letting girls come to him occasionally.

[@RealityCheck6T9]

@@XlAnonymousUserlX we shouldn't want anyone breaking traditional gender roles. If they want to be asked out, they just need to keep looking as pretty as possible and not be argumentative.

[@wolfieplays2wolf199]

@@RealityCheck6T9 bruuh if they like the person so much why don't they do it because it's traditional that's like saying why don't black people work for white people it was traditional back in the day we don't want to break that traditional role

[@stephenmason9527]

The girl who replied, "lazy" is right... but I think she's right for a different reason than she thinks. It just doesn't require as much effort to do anything anymore, that includes dating interactions. I also don't have to grab my bow and arrows and trek miles out into the wilderness to hunt or trap my dinner each day. Does that mean I'm lazy if I order a pizza delivery online instead OR is it convenient? Social media and other technology has made it a simpler task and there are also cultural considerations, you used to have to know a girl's family to ask her out a few generations ago. So the guy in the video who says he asks girls out by text message and that's he's received many positive responses...there's your answer. Less effort, but same desired result...

[@felipereis8570]

agree

[@y0vrs3lf]

My man, why did you stop making this type of videos!? Imma fly to Utah rn, I'll be the camera guy

[@Imperatorius45]

If the girl likes the guy who is asking her out, it's romantic. If the girl doesn't like the guy who is asking her out, it's harassment. Since we don't know which guy we are until we ask you out we instead ask you to hang out until we can figure out if you want us to ask you out. If you don't like that than you can do one of two things. Stop treating any guy you don't like who asks you out like a sexual harassing predator, or ask the men out yourself. You've turned yourselves into land mines with hair triggers, of course we are terrified to approach you.

[@jonnylewis8304]

Ding, Ding, Ding, we have a winner. You are absolutely right. This is the correct answer to the old aged question.

[@miguelpereida249]

Upload more videos man

[@ilovelamp22]

I really thought the last question of this video was going to be asking the women why don't they ask men out if they feel that way.

[@BudderB0y2222]

How about *you* ask a guy out if you want him. Don't wait for life to happen for you, seize it and take control of it. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

[@modest8930]

Nah guys should ask women out, but women shouldn't reject them, they should give them a chance.

[@Realtalk2389]

@@edwardadams1024 yeah, and women should also learn how to handle rejection

[@jukes4499]

@@modest8930 Do you have any idea how many millions of men would die for the experience of being asked out? And how literally zero of them would take it as harassment? And if the answer's no, 99% of guys know how to politely decline.

[@modest8930]

@@jukes4499 Idk I'm a traditionalist. I believe it should be men that courts women. I know we live in a matriarchal society and the roles have been reversed. However it's natural for men to pursue women, not the other way around. Women are the selectors, not the pursuers. Throughout history it has been this way and for good reason.

[@modest8930]

@Hell's favorite Salty Masshole You sound like a scorn woman. Go lift some weights and stop consuming so much soy.

[@gauravshinde6306]

bruh I was hopeful for a second. Then saw that it was from 2013.

[@brokencircle81]

I would love to see this remade in 2020.

[@64bit-]

it's not that we think we're gonna get rejected it's that we know we're gonna get rejected

[@nxtboyIII]

Hahaha

[@laststop3h]

No thanks ladies. Lose the entitled attitude and treat us like equals just like feminists told you that you should.

[@RealityCheck6T9]

So are you for feminism or against it Mr MGTOW?

[@EndlessVacuum]

Why don't women need to 'woman up'? Why is the onus on men? Whatever happened to equality?

[@amyl5250]

We do need to. Real femininity is getting lost just like chivalry is, sadly

[@PauliesWalnuts]

Because equality is not natural. Women have always had a secondary place in society, at least in successful civilizations.

[@abcde_ghijklmnopqrstuvwyxz2188]

Because women have other expectations.

[@oceanmachine1906]

Exactly

[@petermulinzi1288]

@@abcde_ghijklmnopqrstuvwyxz2188like wat honestly?? what do women do in the initial stages of a relationship to show interest??

[@misterstaple]

my experience is that i cannot merely ask a girl out. She has to be impressed, whether it be through flirting, being funny, or doing something out of the ordinary. I see alot of girls who seem uncomfortable about the idea of dating me most likely it has to do with my first impression (something i'm not very good at). If i ask them to "hang out" they seem alot less fearful (just friends?) and generally say yes to that idea, Giving me a better shot at leaving a better impression.

[@sachingahrana310]

Guys are intersted in being friends first. Lol

[@ImSemtex]

1:44 W R O N G

[@Jacob1Jacob2]

@digital1911 lol fr

[@DustinLeroy]

can't say this guy isn't doing a good job there

[@loredelamore]

Yes he is being a good little simp white Knight.

[@jaypritchett6846]

My husband and I met online (him Washington and me California) so we sorta text each other if we wanted to go out (come for a visit)One thing that got me was when he asked me to marry him lolWe were dating for a year and a half, but he was still really nervous. I told him he already knew I’d say yes so why was he so scared. He told me “I don’t know... I guess it’s guy thing” lol

[@alexsheppard8331]

@Hell's favorite NPC #69OU812 . exe Keep telling yourself that

[@squattingheads]

"has a man ever texted you to ask you out" -"yeah and it is awful" gillette: shows man approaching woman on street, women say "yeah thats not cool, thats harassment" ... ... what are we supposed to do then?

[@mohammadabdullah2848]

Stare at her 😂

[@dgbd9030]

work on ourselves. then we get asked out

[@zm4522]

We don’t have this problem in my country.. If I like a girl I will ask for her hand from her father to set up a first date this means I am serious about my intentions then if she likes me back we get engaged and that’s it

[@dgbd9030]

@@zm4522 what country? genuinely interested if i can marry my religion there holy shit.

[@zm4522]

pickelrick 1 what u mean marry your religion

[@Thanason1c]

that's nature not equality bro. the key is moving to the lock, not the lock to the key ( if you got imagination you can guess what i am talking about )

[@MrJigarparmar]

Thanason1c excellent analogy bro

[@EndlessVacuum]

I see. So nature and evolution mean that exact 1:1 equality is not actually viable or possible? Interesting.

[@SAVSAV1212]

double standarts at it best

[@bhanujchaudhary6969]

This video was recorded in 2013!

[@youtubevids9449]

They want you to ask them in public so that they feel much better rejecting you in front of people. If Brad Pitt asked them on Facebook inbox they wouldn't consider it lame.

[@harrisonjohn4301]

A fellow art of manliness reader I see. So true

[@jonnylewis8304]

This is true for some girls. I see guys ask girls out and the girl would turn to her friend and laugh and say he just ask me out. Like as if.

[@maniadoc1]

Traditionally that has been the case. Girl are shy to be the first one to ask, no matter how advanced society has become but still one cannot change the inbuilt psychology.

[@amensbuildingjourney]

imagine him doing these videos in 2023

[@orangemancometh]

Lesson learned: what is easy is what usually should be avoided.

[@kenklein9120]

It's always been the guy's thing to ask the woman out. When I was still dating (a while back) I did have a few women ask me out, but that was still rare. If men want to date women, then ask them out. If you're a woman and you want to date a guy, then you might have to show a little interest to prod him.

[@Zykena]

Fantastic work, my friend! Keep the videos coming, they're always extremely insightful.

[@Hyenak]

When they want equality of rights... there is no such thing like your responsibility. Deal with it... they want compliments much more than dates.

[@nonammmmme]

...I thought its always hang out first, get a coffee and getting know each other. If its going well, then should be a date??! Or just ask for the date when u only know her name?

[@behems007]

I don't get what's the problem with just simply hanging out. I mean i'll hang out with girls that i have a good impression of and she might be like someone i could date. But first i got to know the girl more or less. I mean become sort of friends, but also interested. And then i ask her out if i like her. It's just the thing i don't ask every girl out on a date, when i don't know her.

[@gongoozleriam9783]

Lol I think she should have learned that from his other video about why guys and girls can't be just friends lol :)

[@FateNightroad]

1:27 Very astute woman. And very true. Although in my case it's more like, I don't have a good reason to ask.

[@voyageavecmoi6024]

2:10 "girls are Intimidating" Oh honey, you couldn't have guessed it more properly

[@Nykoooo1]

i was waiting for the part where you ask them "do you ask guys to go on a date or do you just wait for them to show up?"

[@meirsolomon5626]

The reason why the guys are not asking women out on dates is because they don't want the cops showing up at their door the morning after because the girl accused him of rape.

[@ananyabhagat7052]

Ah just America 8 years ago.

[@robotttts]

But what if guys also want to be asked out more?

[@IamINERT]

I am losing testosterones watching this

[@EliVanFleet]

That one blond girl with the red backpack is absolutely gorgeous.

[@amyl5250]

Why does the microphone look like a little mop?

[@death710]

Equal rights equal fights 😳

[@kNowFixx]

😳😳😳😳😳😳

[@gongoozleriam9783]

"Do nothing," I beg to differ. If you saw how big an effort most girls make to look and be good so they can be the type of girl guys would want to date you'd be shocked. Often when a girl is making this effort to be noticed or wanted/to "get a date," and they aren't getting asked they may wonder "Well what's wrong with me?" & this isn't at all the guys fault or anything it's just how many girls feel. So whether it's right or wrong that's probably 1 reason why the girls in the video are upset.

[@Aerational]

Yeah of fucking course the people who have like zero fucking risk of getting their heart ripped out and smashed in front of their face think that it's "wussy".

[@LutianoEryckson]

You were ahead of your time and why yt recommended this now? (Btw, thanks for the piece of advice)

[@Salaf_513]

If women love Masculine men, who takes charge ... Then men also love Women who Are feminine, and not that dominant as most girls in the West these days.... Man should man up and women should embrace femininity

[@aguineapig1]

Im finna text her up and say "hey, I was wondering if we could get together sometime, because i wanna ask you out but I wanna do it in person.... Then we can go from there."

[@alexsheppard8331]

1:11 LIAR LIAR PANTS ON FIRE!

[@twiston43]

15 guys!?! Wow, Latinas are popular in Utah. Or it might just be Latino modesty...

[@SAIL3NTAS]

do more of these kinds of vids:)

[@davehedric1543]

It's amazing how clueless they are about the real reasons. or they are gaslighting themselves

[@Tililweet]

how do you turn a gameboy into a microphone

[@LararenDaniel]

A technical question; why is there so much wind noise in the video if he is using a deadcat?

[@alliroggorilla]

I'd agree with Arcon, girls wanted euqality, so why do they still think there need to be the classic rules when it comes to dates relationships etc :D

[@christianlassen1577]

Get to know people face to face so you can ask them out face to face. IE, be social in person

[@craftycrafter6595]

"girls want you to ask them out".....so what, don't have to do what they want. If the women want to go on more dates then WOMAN up and do the asking. The real reason they r getting asked in less dates??? Unatractive, old, snobby, unfriendly, uninteresting, HES JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU!!!

[@panwu6602]

Wow, these girls seem so normal compared to the weirdos of today. So pretty too

[@pratikpagare7877]

Why the fuck I am getting recommendations to this now

[@stasarmandox]

15... yeah .. right...

[@Johnixreal]

sure, women want men to man up and date them, but only attractive ones.

[@krystofcisar469]

So you´d like to date a unnatractiove woman? :D

[@ari-athbadminton0301]

And peoples are surprised why the confident chad or the bad boys get the pretty girls.. they come to girls with an approach that is rare to find, this de facto impresses them. That doesn't make them good partners tho, they're skilled in the first step and some even put all their charisma points into initiation.

[@Pemberdeer]

Girls want to be asked out.... just not by You... :/

[@wusenrob]

should have asked the men how many women asked them out

[@kamalkumar7978]

Man does man-up. #meetoo intensifies.

[@tycho8571]

Because they're getting older

[@jackfavvv0280]

This is 2018, do women still think you're lazy if you're not the one asking them out?

[@stephenmason9527]

jack favvv02 absolutely yes. The reason that women like for men to be the ones to 'make the move' is because it leaves them with the power in that particular moment. Once you declare your interest in someone by asking them out you are just left hanging on their response. It's a frightening feeling which every guy in this video acknowledged, you have to be willing to face rejection. Women don't want to ask so they don't get rejected. They feel as if they bide their time, they'll eventually get asked out. Considering every girl in the video, save one, was asked out within the last year...it's seems women can wait for the right moment instead of making it happen. Ask yourself this, how many guys, even really popular attractive successful guys do you know that women have asked out? It doesn't happen. Women will flirt and they have other ways to get a guy's attention, but they don't just ask.

[@jackfavvv0280]

So women want men to, 'make the move' because it leaves them with power. But if you think it about carefully, that's more like the absence of power because it pretty much indicates that they "won't" be able to do it due to there gender. And where as men, can. Women can wait, but there's no guarantee that it will happen. With technology on the rise(mainly dolls and "special" robots), men will find less and less reasons to ask a woman out. I wonder if by then women will change their way of thinking.

[@stephenmason9527]

jack favvv02 I wouldn't underestimate women if I were you. They know how to get a guy's attention without just asking, they're certainly not powerless. In fact, my point is that they have final say 'yes/no' when a guy does ask. And I personally don't think robots or anything like that is even a threat at all to women, for me there is no comparison to the real thing.

[@jackfavvv0280]

Like the women said in video, men are asking more and more vie text. Not sure how effectively they'll be able to do that like they can in person(getting a guys attention). Remember, social interaction has severely declined due to social media. So I wouldn't underestimate our technology that's inversely proportional to us being more and more lazy if I were you. I'd give it twenty more years.

[@stephenmason9527]

jack favvv02 I'd rather be the one underestimating some kind of technological sex robot revolution than the one underestimating 300,000 years of evolution and interpersonal romantic relationships...but that's just me.

[@BinanceUSD]

Face to face means buy them dinner, drinks then 💀

[@GunTech]

Yep, it's time for women to man up and ask men on dates. Agree 100%

[@kirillfedtsov]

So weird to listen to this in 2024

[@Born2neverdie]

lol man uo and leave the gamer chair

[@jdr956]

People are their worst problem

[@NikkexD]

Man, you gotta do this shit more often! Love it :)

[@eauwasser9137]

it's easy to say when you're not the one humiliated when the answer is no

[@jukes4499]

I hate the phrase "man up"

[@wotdoesthisbuttondo]

Good bit of the old lifestyle guru routine going here without any overtouchy russell brand style yoga mats needed, nice one, should've asked the women how many of the guys creepily texting them were teachers/staff at the university?

[@Lenny-zn8hn]

I definitely wanna be friend first lmao. Not had good experience with this masterful strategy

[@Milan-mh4nc]

hurr durr just man up

[@StevenBriggs]

This video is nowhere near comprehensive enough. Simply put, girls are now just as intimidated by the word "date" as any man ever has been. If you phrase it as, "Let's hang out", it's somehow less so to the girls. They've encouraged this behavior, or at least, that's my experience. Bottom line: Everybody, men AND women, need to sack up and stop being so stupid about confronting that scary one-on-one date.

[@KodiakGamingOfficial]

Why don't guys ask out girls out as much anymore? - "pornhub"

[@buddypatzbudpat5760]

I think that asking girls out over a text just spares yourself the humiliation in front of others. Well at least for me I would rather keep it between both of us

[@nedmzad]

I think it's time to turn the table, not for some gender role shit reason. Obviously guys want it, and girls are more confident to do it, so why not?

[@TheRespectableMan]

This is fascinating, you guys do good work. I feel like with the rise of feminine equality guy-girl relations are in a weird flux because guys (evolutionary used to having social superiority) are intimidated by girls because society is doing away with sexism and we don't feel that confident surge that comes with being "a man". Meanwhile, girls are still bound to be attracted to the confident "alpha" male. That's what this guy thinks anyway.

[@krystofcisar469]

I think nature handled it prety well, we just need to stop messing it up :D

[@booldawg]

Blessed are the men who these women decide to bestow their attentions upon, dishing out the right to date them like it's the Gold Standard lol!

[@jamaloewenhertz5605]

King

[@benimo6]

@DenALTV true talk man and @patvicious1 PLEASE do more videos they are so interesting!!!

[@erskoo]

I would like to know how many guys these girls have asked out on a date. Equality goes both ways.

[@gmx1100]

It's up to you to hold her attention bro. People have a right to get bored

[@YouDunnKnowTV]

Wow, genius.

[@m4d_al3x]

i would totally ask these girls out, but i only know ones that are sooooo boring.

[@minichanz]

"Call"? ... were you not listening?

[@Mik3Johnson]

Uh? Serious? Man up bro, it's your responsibility... just is.

[@chriscodling6573]

Disrespecting men is only gonna make resent you more

[@vasz123]

make more videos or i will burn a forest down!!! choice is up to you.

[@wolfferoni]

Referring to the way guys act rather than what they wear.