ITS OK TO NOT HAVE FRIENDS

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Skai Jackson

Skai Jackson

Жыл бұрын

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@Celestials1aurora
@Celestials1aurora Жыл бұрын
as someone who literally has no friends and doesn't spend time anyone but myself or parents thank you. Its been over 8 years ( im 19 now ) that I even had a friend. all through middle and high I didn't have friends sadly. Also since I was a kid I always wanted to be friends with Skai lmao-
@nyablicksss8872
@nyablicksss8872 Жыл бұрын
Same love 😭 bout to be 20
@makaylahamilton1940
@makaylahamilton1940 Жыл бұрын
this is so relatable. I get it.
@tanyajoyce7712
@tanyajoyce7712 Жыл бұрын
Me too
@The.Realest.Jade.
@The.Realest.Jade. Жыл бұрын
Same with me. I’m boutta be 19.
@Dee_Dee794
@Dee_Dee794 Жыл бұрын
Let’s be friends 🫶🏿
@katherinepan1
@katherinepan1 Жыл бұрын
It’s really hard making friends nowadays especially as an adult 😩
@angel-fk6rn
@angel-fk6rn Жыл бұрын
it really is, but i’m happy with the few girlfriends i do have. i don’t need anymore because i don’t really trust people like that… i am thankful for my family, spiritual mentors and my very few true friends. 💗
@anyameowie
@anyameowie Жыл бұрын
At least you have more freedom as an adult to go out and possibly meet people. I’m a homeschooled child that has strict parents that restricts me from talking to people.
@angel-fk6rn
@angel-fk6rn Жыл бұрын
@@anyameowie same with me but i made all of my friends online 😂 or at least most of them!
@anyameowie
@anyameowie Жыл бұрын
@🤍 angel 🤍 Its hard to make friends online when your parents are strict about "talking to strangers". The reason I don't have friends is mostly to do with the situation I'm in and the environment I'm in. Its just unfortunate. And its even more annoying going onto KZbin or onto social media seeing other teenagers my age living the highschool life and have a nice supportive friend group. While I'm in my room whole day. Literally. I won't be able to live the average teen high school experiences everyone talks about. And in the future if I have kids I won't have any fun stories to share with them "about my highschool days" because I literally didn't have any.
@angel-fk6rn
@angel-fk6rn Жыл бұрын
@@anyameowie may i ask how old you are? if you don’t feel comfortable sharing just say your age range, maybe i can provide advice based on that? 🥺
@mariajulianalopezsalcedo2107
@mariajulianalopezsalcedo2107 Жыл бұрын
God sent me this video and message at the right time. You’ve no idea how much this resonated with me. Great advice! Will start applying it to my life ❤
@krapsiek6226
@krapsiek6226 Жыл бұрын
Honestly, same here
@Joelle_MJ
@Joelle_MJ Жыл бұрын
Literally same
@its.gabby314
@its.gabby314 Жыл бұрын
EXACTLY
@DiamondPrncess
@DiamondPrncess Жыл бұрын
same
@182non
@182non Жыл бұрын
SAME I feel like I keep thinking about how I have no friend
@sanaaslyfe
@sanaaslyfe Жыл бұрын
That's why I stay to myself, too many negative people. Hell even family ain't ish. You gotta beware of the energies that you allow because you can become that energy. I only had one friend but we don't talk a lot. Also keep em guessing, never tell your business, never be too vulnerable And never be envious! Be safe out there 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷
@dimitrifranck
@dimitrifranck Жыл бұрын
That’s the word!!! Be safe. When I think of people like Shanquella Robinson or Kenneka Jenkins who died at the hands of "friends", I enjoy being alone a little bit more
@tera4603
@tera4603 Жыл бұрын
Too many evil and un genuine energies . I try to protect my energy as much as possible and stay away from negative energy.
@LaughingBoostshorts
@LaughingBoostshorts Жыл бұрын
💯% true that's what I call two faced. And some people be like oh you so quiet theirs a reason why I stay to myself.
@DDJReacts
@DDJReacts Жыл бұрын
I mean it depends what kind family you have
@emmanueltembo357
@emmanueltembo357 Жыл бұрын
Could have said it better my self
@Bubblesx
@Bubblesx Жыл бұрын
Thank you for speaking on this because I felt ashamed having 0 friends literally, my childhood friends moved on with their lives so it gets lonely but I know it’s better than having fake friends. Hopefully God will bless me with one genuine friend
@sylvialarose3686
@sylvialarose3686 Жыл бұрын
he will❤
@latonyaroberts8199
@latonyaroberts8199 Жыл бұрын
Let’s be friends 🫶🏽
@keyahninaylor4974
@keyahninaylor4974 Жыл бұрын
He will❤
@ThelifestyleofMissJDene
@ThelifestyleofMissJDene Жыл бұрын
He Will !!✨️
@AgileLily
@AgileLily 3 ай бұрын
Me too girlie, God bless you, you are so cherished & loved! Happy Easter! ✝️🙏🏼😊
@aishabello2923
@aishabello2923 Жыл бұрын
As a teenager, I always felt that you should have a group of friends that get you or understand you. I always felt that not having someone to express your thoughts to was saddening. Better to have no friends than no friends. I really love you, Skai. Thanks for the video.😍😍🥰
@breeayeezy
@breeayeezy Жыл бұрын
Better to have no friends than no friends???
@Girltiktoks
@Girltiktoks Жыл бұрын
???
@icyunvme2400
@icyunvme2400 Жыл бұрын
@@breeayeezy I guess because fake friends aren’t really your friends. Idk I was confused too lol.
@breeayeezy
@breeayeezy Жыл бұрын
@@icyunvme2400 oh I thought she wanted to say “Better to have one friend than no friends” lo 🤷🏽‍♀️🥴idk
@internetuser4759
@internetuser4759 Жыл бұрын
😶??
@kjswish1834
@kjswish1834 Жыл бұрын
the fact that I literally have 2 friends in these 28 years I've been given has shown me that your peace of mind, body, and spirit means waaay more than any material validity a group of energy vampires can give. mane I love your videos.
@kamscott4201
@kamscott4201 Жыл бұрын
Facts
@BeatFuZion
@BeatFuZion Жыл бұрын
Having 1 or 2 loyal friends is always better than having 10 fake ones. My two closest friends is all i need cuz we've been thru lot together and still got each others backs. Be grateful and never forget ur real homies🙌
@Solarenergybby
@Solarenergybby Жыл бұрын
True friendships are formed naturally and come when you're older. You won't find it if you try to look for them. 😊
@OceanicPearlz1
@OceanicPearlz1 Жыл бұрын
Facts beyond facts
@ryanciani3324
@ryanciani3324 Жыл бұрын
i'm 35 and can honestly say its actually the exact opposite. theres no such thing as friend
@tylerharris4392
@tylerharris4392 8 ай бұрын
​@@ryanciani3324yup
@monadejaneiro
@monadejaneiro Жыл бұрын
Loyalty is hard to find these days. Once I turned 20 I started to lose friends at a fast rate. Now that I’m 30 nobody is left. In my opinion it’s just a reflection of growth. Sometimes you just outgrow people and that is okay. If the quality isn’t there count me out.
@liastorm795
@liastorm795 Жыл бұрын
I’m 31 and cheers to that 🥂
@ShesooBreezy
@ShesooBreezy Жыл бұрын
Great advice!!! 💯💯💯
@Beautywithbribri
@Beautywithbribri Жыл бұрын
I've truly found more happiness in being alone. The less friends you have, the better your life will be. When I was younger I had soo many people in my circle and it was always some childish drama or jealousy. 🤮🏃🏾‍♀️
@karissagarcia.
@karissagarcia. Жыл бұрын
Sames 🥺 so draining
@haleywilliams5839
@haleywilliams5839 Жыл бұрын
That’s true. Don’t tell your friends too much about yourself because a friend today could be an enemy tomorrow.
@mariacline35
@mariacline35 Жыл бұрын
You have to know the difference between an acquaintance and a friend! Good advice! Someone that gossips about you behind your back with other people is NOT a real friend!
@LivingforJesusaGodisGood74
@LivingforJesusaGodisGood74 Жыл бұрын
I feel that innocent ish Skai, like you I'm always being accused of acting innocent because I keep to myself and don't share much.
@brinicktv5959
@brinicktv5959 Жыл бұрын
It's definitely okay not to have friends! Nowadays you can't trust anyone not even family! People will only reach out to you if it's dealing with money or if can you do them a favor but it's never a return from them‼️
@lesliekim8292
@lesliekim8292 Жыл бұрын
Sanquella Robinson is a perfect example of this!
@karissagarcia.
@karissagarcia. Жыл бұрын
​@@lesliekim8292 exactly ❤️
@adriana-jc6iv
@adriana-jc6iv Жыл бұрын
the part that you consider yourself as a regular person is so humble of you
@xMissZexiiax
@xMissZexiiax Жыл бұрын
Girl I needed this because it be getting hard sometimes I'm 19 in college with no friends I be lonely never hanging out going to parties with anyone I had 2 best friends but they go to different colleges and we never keep in contact anymore..
@trulykennz
@trulykennz Жыл бұрын
I woke up in the middle of the night and when straight right to prayer because of all the sadness, resentment, confusion, dissatisfaction I felt in my heart. Your video came up and I related to a lot of these things and questioned many of what your stated in my life. God moves people out of your live for a reason to teach you a lesson or others ❤
@Mely365
@Mely365 Жыл бұрын
It is good to have friends but it is not mandatory, if you learn to enjoy being alone you get to learn so much from yourself and that at the end is what truly matter. ♥
@kamscott4201
@kamscott4201 Жыл бұрын
Facts
@julianaxoxo6584
@julianaxoxo6584 Жыл бұрын
yess youre so right.
@xvq8080
@xvq8080 Жыл бұрын
❤❤so true❤❤
@mariamart_0
@mariamart_0 Жыл бұрын
It’s better to have 5 real friends than a bunch of fake ones. People love to hide their true intentions and motives which is why most friendships fall apart
@xvq8080
@xvq8080 Жыл бұрын
@@mariamart_0 facts. And it's true which is scary
@dontrelldurant3450
@dontrelldurant3450 Жыл бұрын
I've never had friends. I thought that i needed them. Spent a years trying to get friends and the pain i went through taught me a valuable lesson..... Stick to your gut and be true to who you are. I never needed friends and once I stopped trying to be friends with people i started to find happiness. I have my dog and that's all I need.
@sablesupremacy888
@sablesupremacy888 Жыл бұрын
Do you struggle to get friends because people are jealous/ shady towards you?
@dontrelldurant3450
@dontrelldurant3450 Жыл бұрын
@@sablesupremacy888 i wouldn't say jealous. Shady? A few times. Mostly it's just that my "friends" would only speak to me if they wanted or needed something from me. Need money? They'd call me up. Need a designated driver? They'd call me up. Need a shoulder to cry on? They'd call me up. Stuff like that. Then the talks behinds my back and trying to make me feel less of myself. I just don't need anyone. It's better to be alone.
@sablesupremacy888
@sablesupremacy888 Жыл бұрын
@@dontrelldurant3450 wow everything you saying I've been through that too! It really is a hurtful feeling. Because when everything is going good with them you don't exist but when things are falling apart that's when they want to call you or acknowledge you. It is so isolating because human beings are social creatures. This is sickening🙁
@billdagoatt
@billdagoatt Жыл бұрын
I’m ngl one thing I realized when I lost all of my closest friends there’s only one who stayed and it just showed me who’s really meant to be in your life
@luckysfirstlove
@luckysfirstlove Жыл бұрын
I'm 31 and I agree. It's not that serious, I was able to appreciate much more valuable time with family members I loved very dearly before they left this earth to be with the Lord. I am thankful for that time, the memories made and the stories shared! Instead of arguing and fighting with so called friends and dealing with manipulation and gas lighting.
@serenitylveee_
@serenitylveee_ Жыл бұрын
As you’re talking the Holy Spirit is reminding of ALL the “friends” I previously had’ experiencing all that you have mentioned… But he removed them 🎉☺️ -I pray He blesses me w|A New Set .. & I Agree w|Build Friendship Were We All Can Grow & Learn From Each Other 💛 .. Thanks for this Skai 🤞🏾🦋
@r.a.l.p.h
@r.a.l.p.h Жыл бұрын
My Aries sister fr! I’m learning everyday how to live the balanced and full filing life God put me on this earth to have. I’m so peaceful by myself. As I should
@dailylifewithchrissie4984
@dailylifewithchrissie4984 Жыл бұрын
As someone who literally doesn't have friends, I love this. I spent my whole life being sad cause everyone I had called my friend either betrayed me or wouldn't see me as one of their friends. I finally reached a point where I am okay with not having friends and I stopped thinking that I was the problem. I have my brother who's my best friend and only friend and I love him so much
@kennyslife6883
@kennyslife6883 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Ms. Sky Jackson. I really appreciate it. I was too free hearted. I love your videos and shows. I'm a cross dresser and a free spirit person. I'm turning 43 this Sunday. I get rid of lots of fake friends. I wanna be a better person and man. I had to learn this the hard way. Please make more videos like this. You're inspiring me . Thank you and be blessed peace and Shalom.
@ciamarietv6543
@ciamarietv6543 Жыл бұрын
It really is over the years I’ve learned not to care about having a gang of friends or stopped having the urge to go hang out ppl be so fake n heartless
@BaddieB444
@BaddieB444 Жыл бұрын
Girl 7 is a lot of friends 😂
@centralmidzy
@centralmidzy Жыл бұрын
Finally someone who understands ☁️😭😭😭😭😭 I'm such a big fan skai ily sm ❤️❤️😭😭😭
@isthatjames6523
@isthatjames6523 Жыл бұрын
Glazin
@Shaylanoelle
@Shaylanoelle Жыл бұрын
So young and so wise! Her guidance reminds me of what my Mother warned me about and gave me the same life wisdom. Great video 🤍
@zurimariejordan7706
@zurimariejordan7706 Жыл бұрын
I'm so happy I came across this video. In middle school I had a decent amount of friends until I graduated high school and now I only have one good best friend. I had to learn that it is okay to have one good friend and having a group of friends isn't all that. Not saying there's something wrong with it, but it's just not for me. Especially since I'm now in college, like I'm honestly am just focused on myself and myself only. So thank you Skai for making this video!💜 Btw girl you look so pretty!!😍😍
@dsb5417
@dsb5417 Жыл бұрын
i don’t have many friends but for some reason i still feel left out when i see people having fun even though i enjoy being by myself idk why
@PrinnyAshhh
@PrinnyAshhh Жыл бұрын
thisss
@PrinnyAshhh
@PrinnyAshhh Жыл бұрын
your probably an ambivert like me,someone who enjoys their own company but also likes to go out and socialise sometimes
@dsb5417
@dsb5417 Жыл бұрын
@@PrinnyAshhh really haha i didn’t know that was a thing
@MichelleIsNotWright
@MichelleIsNotWright Жыл бұрын
I’m sure this lesson wasn’t easy to learn lol but I’m glad you received and even greater that your sharing it ❤
@memerawitis
@memerawitis Жыл бұрын
I have no friends, but sometimes it get lonely, then I realize you can’t really trust people. Im just living my life to the fullest and improving myself.
@GorgeouslyJaNya
@GorgeouslyJaNya Жыл бұрын
I do agree, it’s ok to focus on yourself and do right by yourself. It’s ok to distance from people and cut people off to protect your inner peace. Hey… I’m still trying to maintain my inner peace and my relationship with God(John 3:16)But don’t even feel like it’s something wrong with you or it’s a bad thing. All it means is that you value yourself and time.🤍 God bless you all!! Hopefully that helps!!
@kharyzma4u
@kharyzma4u Жыл бұрын
You are so humble and grounded. Your mom did an amazing job 👏🏾 🙌🏾 💗💗💗 Sending love from NYC!!!
@Ilyfb_96
@Ilyfb_96 Жыл бұрын
I’m 18 with no friends and basically spending all senior year alone. Haven’t been to any extracurricular activities. Games, homecoming, nothing and I probably won’t go to prom either. I hope college is different
@simplysummer_
@simplysummer_ Жыл бұрын
i’m in middle school going through a lot. i have moved around a lot, and just came to a new school, and though i had friends. a girl told me that one of my friends talks about how annoying i am and how she was mad i’m wearing the same shirt as her. i know i am at school to learn and that is my new mindset, anyway i go home at the end of the day so that will help me push through. I love u Skai for helping with this
@willbejoyce5936
@willbejoyce5936 Жыл бұрын
They just jealous of you. When someone hate you most of the time they just jealous of you.
@simplysummer_
@simplysummer_ Жыл бұрын
@@willbejoyce5936 i realize it now today i went to school with a better mindset
@dianaa3336
@dianaa3336 Жыл бұрын
Keep that mindset!! And remember that they all project. You got this! 💕💕
@Talabata
@Talabata Жыл бұрын
I also think that with the internet, we all have plenty of people to interact with, so imo it's hard to feel lonely when the world is at your fingertips everyday as much as you want. I am introverted, so I have an advantage here, but I'm pretty comfortable not having regular in-person daily contact with people. What I do have is a few good people I enjoy keeping in touch with online. And if we were ever to travel to each other's cities or countries, I think we'd have a good time.
@aliyahsjourney53
@aliyahsjourney53 Жыл бұрын
You are speaking facts sis we need more ppl like you in the world that’s go keep it 💯
@bak3456
@bak3456 Жыл бұрын
It’s ok but having friends it’s good! Don’t overthink it and let it develop gradually, don’t force it and don’t take it too seriously
@bak3456
@bak3456 Жыл бұрын
You’re you own bestie always
@joy_nia
@joy_nia Жыл бұрын
Everyone needs a friend. Not hanging out with anyone at all is not healthy. Don’t use this as an excuse to not build meaningful relationships. Skai has friends, she just doesn’t have MANY. The loneliness epidemic is real. Please put yourself out there in any way you can. Not having any friends may be taking minutes off your life.
@angel-fk6rn
@angel-fk6rn Жыл бұрын
i agree. even if that’s your family, or your pet or something. everyone needs an earth companion. 💕 i’m blessed to have both family and real friends. not a lot, but quality is so much better.
@PrinnyAshhh
@PrinnyAshhh Жыл бұрын
yes i agree
@ar-rumaysaahajar123
@ar-rumaysaahajar123 Жыл бұрын
I agree that not hanging out a friend is not fun, but we have to be careful of what friend we have as well
@e.wilson9613
@e.wilson9613 Жыл бұрын
Amen.
@serenaarcher1842
@serenaarcher1842 Жыл бұрын
im not sure about ( need ) but that person can spend time with family members, find a friend in God, or find a hobby if they have so much time on their hands that they find themselves needing a friend, also meeting new friends sometimes can happen naturally.
@gregorytwerkingtonthethi-sr3dv
@gregorytwerkingtonthethi-sr3dv 11 ай бұрын
Skai is entirely correct! Friends are people children have in their lives but when we reach adulthood we focus on ourselves. Our friends become associates and we no-longer see them in the same perspective that we had as children. That light dies as we enter adulthood transcending from naïveté to realism understanding that it is in our nature to covet one another. Sadly we can only love ourselves😢
@Kalmxcape
@Kalmxcape Жыл бұрын
No literally so glad you said this. I used to go to church and feel like it was so pushed on me to have community, but having the right people around is so important. Thanks for sharing.
@Laylakia_
@Laylakia_ Жыл бұрын
i cut out a toxic friend a couple years ago and I'm way happier now than I've ever been
@unicornzrreal1985
@unicornzrreal1985 Жыл бұрын
Such a doll ♡ I don't have any and I've never been happier. People are so shady. No drama = pure happiness and protection. I love her because she speaks the truth, no sugar coating. I stan this true, raw queen. 💁‍♀️👸
@VaniaVictoria_
@VaniaVictoria_ Жыл бұрын
My best friends are Jesus, my mom, brother and boyfriend. And 1 or 2 sister friends (A FEW) that I know I can reach out too. I’m learning to be okay with that. God sent. It gets harder to make friends, especially when you’re older. I believe God will send them in the right timing.
@phoenixshelton4758
@phoenixshelton4758 Жыл бұрын
Bless you Skai, I had been so hurt recently on a girl who randomly decided to cut and shut me out and claim I did nothing and I had been so bitter for a while since that happened because similar things happened only I felt there was something wrong with me for thinking they were friends and giving them chances. You truly have opened my eyes, I'm now going to apply these tips to how I handle everything with my relationships with others and people who I KNOW for a fact are my friends. But thank you again, you truly helped me feel a lot better mentally and how I can handle who I surround myself with💟😁
@KennJanae15
@KennJanae15 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video Skai ❤️ First let me just say I love your work ever since I was little I’ve been watching you and you get amazing and more amazing every time I watch. It’s crazy because I’ve been dealing with weather I have real friends it’s been bothering me because it turns out one of my closest friends for years was being fake to me the whole time and finding that out it was hard but at the same time I learned a lesson and I learned from you too thank you so much girl ❤️❤️
@khaty9045
@khaty9045 Жыл бұрын
I have a saying now and it goes like this (the lass friends we have the lass drama we have in our lives the more peaceful we are with ourselves, the more we're Happer with our selves in life) And you know what, those who are Christians I want to let all of you know that God is your friend also, God will never forsake you and he will never leave you, because that's who God really is.
@Baim2x
@Baim2x Жыл бұрын
Thank you Ski the way you said you talking bad about me but you stole my personality traits you spoke the truth mad respect for you 🫶🏽
@chelskaf
@chelskaf Жыл бұрын
the thing i just find disrespectful about most people chanting "i have no friends i have no one bla bla bla" is that they DO actually have friends who genuinely care about them and speak to them everyday but they still go around saying i have no friends
@FrancescaFarah
@FrancescaFarah Жыл бұрын
We love your vids skai! Keep the vids coming!
@SkaiJackson
@SkaiJackson Жыл бұрын
Always!
@ann-ishkapuranda2069
@ann-ishkapuranda2069 Жыл бұрын
Me too
@Jaygame28
@Jaygame28 Жыл бұрын
​@@SkaiJacksonOne thing I will say is that I show love to alot of people in my life in those people always talk about me behind my back for no reason. They were also telling lies on me trying to start a fight. So after that I said to myself I can't deal with these people no more because they just want some intention. Years go by now they begging me to be they friend again but I'm not finna put myself back in that situation again.
@sonikboom6657
@sonikboom6657 Жыл бұрын
Beautifully spoken and straight facts! 💯❤️
@lorettarambow2110
@lorettarambow2110 Жыл бұрын
💞 this made me understand what boundaries are and how to do it smart. Thank you for helping me out and thousands of others from understanding what’s actually happening when we are “trying to be nice”
@GanjaxMan
@GanjaxMan Жыл бұрын
This Video Was Much Needed Skai💯💯 You speaking Faxxx You Gotta Watch Who You Trust Cause "Friends" Can act fake with you and use you for anything..
@tezellifranklin
@tezellifranklin Жыл бұрын
watching this video really said so much to me. it shows me that i really need to watch who i surround myself with , not to let everyone around me. the most important thing you said was to not tell everyone your business , even if it's not business and it's something as simple as a goal or an accomplishment that you made or that you have, not everyone needs to know everything about you. some stuff you should just keep to yourself. i love that part the most im literally learning so much from this video. please keep up with the videos cause we really be needing to hear stuff like this ,thanks💘
@farahhjackson1018
@farahhjackson1018 Жыл бұрын
I really needed to hear this Skai because someone who I recently for 2 years thought was best friend snaked me over money and my health. She needed to go. That’s just 1 out 3 ppl who I felt wronged me that I’ve called my close circle ⭕️ so thank you for this ❤
@heavenlumpkin8477
@heavenlumpkin8477 Жыл бұрын
she’s soo genuine, always been a true inspiration ! 💗💗💗💗
@CyanMacaroon
@CyanMacaroon Жыл бұрын
Should have seen her three years ago.
@kylajohnson8864
@kylajohnson8864 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Skai
@girlwomen4685
@girlwomen4685 Жыл бұрын
You’re wise! At 20 I was a messss! I needed all this advice back then 😅.. I’m 25 now
@makaylahamilton1940
@makaylahamilton1940 Жыл бұрын
thank you for sharing this because it’s so important and personally I find it very helpful ❤
@asamabry
@asamabry Жыл бұрын
thank you for this video. i was a bad friend last year and i regret it. i didnt respect myself either at that time. you've inspired me to reach out again and give one last apology..thank you
@SunFiveEyeB
@SunFiveEyeB Жыл бұрын
Skai being consistent with these vids 💯 And definitely agree 100% Looking forward on your first stream with Kai. Until then keep doing your thang mahogany 🤎
@HaggithGraceGaming
@HaggithGraceGaming Жыл бұрын
Preach girlie! You were right when you said to stop giving chances to people that don't deserve it because I noticed those type of people are manipulative and only wants you to satisfy their needs.
@Mochi-ni2uu
@Mochi-ni2uu Жыл бұрын
Amen Skai! God has done this in my life too.
@kekekong9
@kekekong9 Жыл бұрын
I needed this!! I have like 2 solid friends and I was so insecure about it.💕
@Tyrese68549
@Tyrese68549 Жыл бұрын
I love your energy Skai love the channel your words are so encouraging and I think your a beautiful soul
@ar-rumaysaahajar123
@ar-rumaysaahajar123 Жыл бұрын
I actually agree with everything that Skai is saying because there are friends who say they are your friends, but then they end up being something else, which is not good. That's why we should have friends who are trustworthy. I especially agree about telling friends your business. We should not tell everyone about everything
@urfavsh1teditor
@urfavsh1teditor Жыл бұрын
You are such a good role model Skai thank you for making this ❤️ 💖
@Dollydollface
@Dollydollface Жыл бұрын
So true. I have dealt with this in life as well especially when you spoke on the clone friend you are so right! Definitely hit some great points ❤
@israelsworld
@israelsworld Жыл бұрын
This is a great video Skai, you are a intelligent person, also a great actress, very talented, This is so true about fake friends 💯
@heyitslala36
@heyitslala36 Жыл бұрын
Energy IS everything🤞🏾…love these kind of videos love💞
@legendary_eman
@legendary_eman Жыл бұрын
Nice video @Skai Jackson, and I agree with everything you said. One quote I live by when it comes to friends is that “You only get a couple of loyal friends in your lifetime. Everyone is not your friend remember that, learn how to keep your distance and stay in your own lane.”💯🌟👍
@sanestina
@sanestina Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing! This is so healing. I have no friends for this same reason. But I know better are coming 🎉
@ItsMarswrldxxx
@ItsMarswrldxxx Жыл бұрын
I needed this! Thank you Ski 💕
@ShadedByJade
@ShadedByJade Жыл бұрын
Yess the less friends more peace. I prefer to making friendships with substance now 💖
@KWOODZ_
@KWOODZ_ Жыл бұрын
Good video a lot of ppl need to take note of that, good advice and good content 💯
@krilla6036
@krilla6036 Жыл бұрын
Humans are social creatures. I hope in the future people can stop caring toooo much about “accomplishments” to the point they feel envy and put that over RELATIONSHIPS ❤️
@sonicyvan7492
@sonicyvan7492 Жыл бұрын
Skai you're a Queen omg ! Never change
@sarahwithines
@sarahwithines Жыл бұрын
Thank you for talking about it, it's reassuring to deal with something so common but at the same time so forbidden. Let's just say that I often feel alone, even if I have "friends" (on the surface, but they are not) but I just try to live with it lmao Anyway, your videos are super inspiring, ily
@lexiilexy4188
@lexiilexy4188 Жыл бұрын
I love her energy and she so positive ✨️ 💛 I love it
@elieserdiaz1633
@elieserdiaz1633 Жыл бұрын
this was perfect timing, i left my old childhood friend group cause i outgrew them. plus their morals, ethics, and boundaries did not match mine whatsoever. very judgmental people who did not know how to be vulnerable or aware of themselves. i feel way better without them and have found comfort in my own self. i enjoy my own company. i’ve become hella picky with the people i surround myself with too now.
@AfroTae
@AfroTae Жыл бұрын
No we need accoutnablitiy, its okay short term but Humans are social beings and you need someone, if not friends, at least family you can count on like friends. While you don't have no friends you can work on yourself but as you do you'll attract and be blessed with good friends, who can hold you accountable and help you grow and help you walk in your purpose. Don't be afraid to let people good who no longer serve you, but look to surround yourself with those who will. Having a good support system is good and essential for good mental health.
@josphmiguel7395
@josphmiguel7395 Жыл бұрын
from a young man’s perspective, you right fr. i dont got no friends, but im cool with it cause i can just be myself
@queenproduction.
@queenproduction. Жыл бұрын
Thank you Skai, so relatable
@valencorpancho672
@valencorpancho672 Жыл бұрын
I never realized skai was such a fact speaking vibe like ok humble queen we see you, i just subscribed cause her way of thinking and the way she articulates ... i fw it. You go girl, tell em! Also i feel so glad that someone pretty and liked like her actually spoke about this like... i don't feel so alone in this anymore. All we see in tv shows and movies is girls and woman having a ride or die friend group... but truth is , especially as an adult it's not usually like that.
@jujubee6030
@jujubee6030 Жыл бұрын
I used to have quite a few friends but they either moved away or we fell out with each other. I didn't keep in contact with them so I ended up not having any. As I get older its harder to make friends and find time to hang out with them.
@thatgirl.DaiciaD
@thatgirl.DaiciaD Жыл бұрын
energy is everything for real !!! i have like 5 good friends. you are so down to earth i wish we could become friends we are so much alike!! keep doing u
@ashlynnnicole7772
@ashlynnnicole7772 Жыл бұрын
Well said Skai! I love the advice you gave and I didn’t know I needed to hear this until now💜
@aa.mariie7812
@aa.mariie7812 Жыл бұрын
I can tell skai is real and a no nonsense kind of person but she’s sweet and don’t really wanna turn up but she will. I wish we could be friends irl just based off her mindset she sounds just like me but my mistake is I overshare once I do feel comfortable 😭 sometimes I think I’m crazy for the standards I have when it comes to friends and family but this video makes me feel seen. Because it’s usually the ones closest to you that betray you
@sunshinentts4u
@sunshinentts4u Жыл бұрын
i was literrally rewatching bunk'd a month ago and i rembered thinking you were my favorite charachter! And now to see your yt channel its so much fun!
@SKYYLOVE
@SKYYLOVE Жыл бұрын
*this is so well-worded* 💗
@TheAriellXO
@TheAriellXO Жыл бұрын
Okay ma'am coming through with a word and it's just aligned perfectly for a lot of us, thank you!
@gammyrants9775
@gammyrants9775 Жыл бұрын
Still too many friends. The older you get the less people you will or even should have around you ❤
@sefakorkassah1402
@sefakorkassah1402 Жыл бұрын
As a friend I always give my all, and i am learning to give the same energy to people that they give to me. Or just diasociate if it hurts me or it's toxic
@samanthabere6586
@samanthabere6586 Жыл бұрын
I do not have friends and i am 20 . I just have my best friend with me . Honestly i am happy as i am . I really thought about this a few years back and i realized that my life would probably be more chaotic if i had so many friends to entertain. Keeping my one true friend is so stress free. It gives me time to work on myself and discover who i really want to be without the influence of “ friends “ . Yes i talk to other people but I have strong boundaries. I don’t allow things to cross the line 😂 My life is drama free and i love it as it is .
@tutujohnson7356
@tutujohnson7356 Жыл бұрын
I go to community college and just counting the days until I transfer and it ca be so lonely on the weekends this video was sign and it came at the right time thank you.
@maxraine643
@maxraine643 Жыл бұрын
I've always adored Skai But this made me loved her even more I'm at the stage of my life where i currently have 3 genuine friends that wants the best for me, my mom and boyfriend are two of them, I've had a lot of experiences that i don't regret because I've learnt a lot from it from people I used to call friends, I'm way passed that now.. I've prioritized my peace since then, kept my circle so small and have been happier Its totally okay to have no friends, bcoz 99% of the crowd most of y'all call friends are enemies who don't want your progress (cos they feel you're better than em' prettier, or wealthier) and would kill you if they had the chance to
@erickaallen8733
@erickaallen8733 Жыл бұрын
Round of applause..Omg.. you're absolutely Right..#💯👏🏾👏🏾 (I accidentally stumbled across your page I have to say it was a genuinely great experience)thank you 🙂
@elenarowe3642
@elenarowe3642 Жыл бұрын
Love this Skai!! Keep it real🙌🙌
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