Iyanla: Fix My Father With 34 Children: Jay Returns, The Reaction | Full Episode | OWN

Iyanla talks with Jay (who says he fathered 34 children) and a group of men about the obligations of fatherhood -- and has a personal breakthrough in front of the live studio audience. (Original Air Date: October 11, 2014) Watch more of Iyanla Fix My Life on the WatchOWN app and visit: www.oprah.com/app/iyanla-fix-...
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About Iylana Fix My Life : Author and inspirational speaker Iyanla Vanzant goes behind closed doors and deep inside people's lives for emotional conversations. She helps reveal secrets, uncover truth
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Iyanla: Fix My Father With 34 Children: Jay Returns, The Reaction | Full Episode | OWN
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[@brianal7143]

We need this annually at a minimum in the Black community! God bless Ms.Iyanla 🙏🏾

[@taytriggs9065]

Not just the Black community. It’s a problem in every race but especially here in America.

[@Denzelswife-rb7qz]

yesssss

[@ChangedOne4Life]

Agreed, and we need a similar healing session for Black women because we are the ones CHOOSING to have babies with these men. Broken men and broken women having babies 🙏🙏🙏. There is hope.

[@teesmith8448]

We definitely need this! The entire community! Mrs. Iyanla please come out of retirement!

[@lovelysmith1794]

It needs to replace all this she/he/ they talk in the school..

[@b.schannell747]

How we raise our sons will effect the women he meets.

[@FNJ720]

*affect

[@ranger4758]

@@FNJ720 It was a typo, they didn’t need a spelling lesson.

[@SedB101]

@@ranger4758wasn’t a typo lol

[@ranger4758]

@@SedB101 How do you know?

[@SedB101]

@@ranger4758 because one starts with an a and the other with an e .. the commenter.. just like me .. has trouble identifying which form of the word to use.

[@zolambewu63]

Give Iyanla her flowers 💐

[@biddybop8515]

🌺 🧡

[@shainawilliams7185]

Immediately, expeditiously….. 💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐🌺💐💐💐

[@elaine21bok]

This woman is truely walking in her calling ❤

[@JWPhotosanddesigns]

I agree.

[@jessg1345]

YES we need her back on TV

[@KultivateWKah]

Indeed

[@penelopeb1370]

Feb 29, 2024, I'm watching this as I wait for my bus, crying like I've haven't watched this when it aired. This just reminded me to breathe, forgive, open and love.

[@esalaymonae4246]

Yes! This one hits 😢 hard...

[@rhondaroberts7275]

I did the same thing! Whew so powerful.

[@KultivateWKah]

03/11/24 This was powerful even as a 19 year old man this healed something in me

[@proudmganda1159]

@@KultivateWKahsending you lots of love and hugs as a single mother of 2/ 38 and 36. Please don’t give up on yourself and look after your mental health wellbeing. Lots of love from UK

[@KultivateWKah]

@@proudmganda1159 Thank you 🙏🏾 And will do

[@princessdaaahlingamor5798]

Helped me see my own toxic patterns in a generational context and gave me keys to healing… forgiveness, accountability.

[@maylee-ki2yd]

This is two emotional , for me this is the show of the year ,she deserves award for this show

[@sammi8211]

This woman is amazingly blessed.

[@mebasilasekassa4393]

"Discipline your mind" Wow 👏

[@donnahowell1016]

I am 59 year old white lady have 4 children with 4 different fathers my only daughter follow my foot steps I think God for setting me free of all this

[@tracyleesmith781]

Prayers & keep counting ur blessings, queen. Treat ur life like a gift as well of ur children. ❤ from New Orleans

[@tracyleesmith781]

Prayers & treat ur life everyday like it is a gift. Keep counting ur blessings as well as ur children's lives. ❤❤❤❤ from New Orleans. It will be ok as long u r ok, Queen.

[@tracyleesmith781]

And forgive yourself & please know this im not the one to judge u, beautiful & I do not want to waste ur time. But love urself bc honey, nobody is perfect. Love ur children as much as u can bc this life is short. Prayers & blessings. ❤❤❤❤

[@Thereasonyoudontlikeme]

This is long overdue for black men.

[@wadilotus]

Loving watching these men express their feelings and emotions in a safe and supportive space. I wish our men continued healing ❤️🖤💚

[@vanessaurshleyjaffray1625]

Am from Zambia..This has made me understand my mum more she’s from a family of 54 children, all sharing one father.

[@LatashaWashington-vt7xj]

Wow God bless your family 🎉❤

[@CW-pf3zh]

“You’re not a stud in the field making babies for the master to sell.” Profound.

[@fitnessfocused]

It isn’t profound. This point has been made time after time, but it shows the men and women involved lack discernment to recognize their pattern.

[@walkinthewoods981]

But they are making children for the prison industry

[@KultivateWKah]

@@fitnessfocusedand if you don’t share the same fight as melanated beings then don’t comment cause you can’t fathom the war on us

[@KultivateWKah]

@@fitnessfocusedit’s very profound due to the fact trauma lives through us

[@squarebear619]

​​@@fitnessfocusedIt is profound because not every Blck person knows especially Our REAL Humanstory because Propaganda is what the majority of Us are being taught in one way or another. Just because YOU know something doesn't mean everyone does and that the info isn't profound or rendered useless. There was a time when you didn't know what you know. That chip on your shoulder is also a part of Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome and rooted in antiblckness with a touch of superiority complex when you are not superior to anyone nor anybody to say what is or isn't profound. Yours is simply an opinion and opinions are like bootyholes, everyone has one, and most stink.

[@Shazzyhtown]

Bring back Iyanla!!! 😎

[@drknow1997]

I am soooo proud of Jay for doing this. Such a good soul for sharing his story with the world. He was ready for change. Bless Jay and all these men and women who have let us see their souls for our own healing. Bless.

[@shani1763]

Our men are so broken and we are stuck in this cycle of broken men creating more broken men 😢

[@ThreeMinutesAday]

When Iyanla goes EPIC, everybody gets a healing! Thank you, Iyanla!! Blessing errrybody! Now breathe. ❤ 😊

[@user-up4nt3sx1i]

Everyone should watch this

[@msthang219]

I really miss this show!

[@NinJahBaeLLC]

Yes ❤

[@miraclesblessings5044]

Oh how i wish that we could get an update on these people now!

[@ladyteka2430]

This is what I’m thinking. This was so powerful. I’m praying everyone has progressed in some way.

[@GoldenToun]

I think Nick Cannon should have been brought to this show..... 😅

[@brandilatham7047]

He ane Iyanla had a conversation on his podcast. It was really good. It's on YT

[@cocoa_goddess6101]

Post the link plz

[@Mz_Ak47]

And young boy😵‍💫

[@Nille0212]

@@Mz_Ak47especially YB!!!

[@elaine21bok]

Absolutely!! 😢❤

[@Cee354]

Iyana is bringing to light something that been needed.

[@lottabailey9904]

That’s powerful a broken one who laid with a broken man❤

[@argentinacange-sanon444]

She needs one with mothers as well with multiple men! She may have but I missed it.

[@krimezofkolor4683]

Yesss this the one .!

[@Neacyl95]

And teen mothers as well

[@ravenna9969]

Esp this KZbinr ones like strong momma Chrissie

[@LatashaWashington-vt7xj]

My Mom definitely need to be on here. She has 8 other baby daddies besides my dad.

[@adoreivette7373]

Sad part is it won't go down the same. Just as she said they came for the women in the original airing they will do the same. The men get grace the women or woman won't. Because for us there is no excuse according to society be it childhood traumas or not. You see how the women and men both empathize with the men eventually, they will never empathize with a woman with a bunch of baby daddies, and she will be dragged by women.

[@queengodbodyqueengodbody1243]

She is walking in her calling so beautiful. Shine ✨ Iyanla heal heal heal✊🏽👊🏽🌹🌹🙏🏽👑👑

[@lavernemusic]

And they keep uploading I cant even study or work OMG😅❤❤❤

[@another8125]

lol just go on welfare get yourself some delicious meals on EBT, devour meals, pot pies etc.

[@alexandria3994]

A mother can heal your heart, the father fathers

[@nokuthulambele8838]

I humbly call her the Priestess of the Most High,,she interprets Gods messages and work with a mindful accuracy...reverence and with LOVE....a pillar any society would love to lean on.....keep RISING Mme🌹🌹🌹

[@rogueacademic]

seeing greatness in deadbeats

[@ritawilliams7230]

This brings tears to my eyes it is one of the best show i ever watch

[@beckyhauk5248]

I cried so much on the previous episode….our communities ALL communities need this type of tough love therapy everywhere

[@chiquitaowens2140]

One of THE MOST POWERFUL shows I've seen in a minute! I can only speak for myself when I say THIS opens up a whole new conversation for me and my children.🙌🏾💪🏾

[@another8125]

are you being sarcastic?

[@aprilatkinson473]

THIS!!! WHEW!!! We need this in the black community! I have 3 nephews and they need to watch this. It should be viewed by the whole black community. There is so much pain and hurt in our culture and we ALL need each other. ♥

[@teeteeme5752]

So many broken men and broken homes. When a man is broken, how can he heal a home. How can he be the protector and guider of a home?

[@ShredderTainment]

This series is helping every single human of every color who is lucky enough to see this. Thank you Ms. Iyanla. It takes a huge amount of courage to do what you do…helping others find their courage.

[@sharonjones8323]

Thanks to everyone sharing this life altering information. So many men, boys ,women, girls. need to see these videos and allowing necessary changes in their lives to take place now

[@toshistokes9277]

This was POWERFUL!

[@ashleylewis1047]

This made me cry. 🙏🏽

[@lottabailey9904]

Facts

[@donnahowell1016]

We as women need to respect ourselves before we even keep bringing children into this world not knowing what they will expect

[@bryanoaitse1547]

Powerful conversation in black community Love it 🖤🖤🖤❤️❤️❤️

[@merkefamily]

This segment was necessary and very powerful.

[@sharonmiller271]

Ms. Iyanla you need a show like this for the young women’s!!! How to stand up to some of these broken men’s who are bearing these babies.

[@NenyeEzeuka]

Iyanla is healing the hearts of all of us....God bless her for working with the mantle the Lord gave her.

[@lysec9672]

This is fellowship! This is missing in church!

[@laraoneal7284]

Women need to look at themselves also for being so willing to comply with any & every male.

[@GenZTruckr]

As a black man this was powerful! But, would make history is she brought several broken and “broken child syndrome” i.e (child abuse) survivors on the show to tell their story and how they are doing! I’d love to come and share my story!

[@reneeholley1891]

Jay look what you started in the Community. Thank you to all the men who were vulnerable enough to come on the show to tell the world your truth!! 👏🏽👏🏽 great Job!! 💯🙏🏽

[@juliusmoore2176]

I’m so thankful that my father showed how to be a man and how to take care of his responsibilities and family. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@ms.faiththomas4372]

We miss you Iyanla

[@bonnieblancho7381]

Okkkk Thx Own I almost broke my finger on the play button 👌🏽💜

[@elaine21bok]

Me too😂😂😂😂

[@nontembekokunene6548]

Beautiful program for all of in the world, I am South African, this helped me understand my brokenness andmy family being broken. God is our Refuge❤. Thank you Miss Iyanla

[@justylezyourownway4340]

Absolutely amazing series! Hands down the most impactful to all!!!!!❤

[@leilanibiscette7761]

Hi am rose from st Lucia this man mark me cry because my father was not in my life and I am 59 years old and I never forgive him

[@marvinkasongo505]

This is necessary. This show is deep and meaningful. God bless Iyanla.

[@GETYOBAGMONIQUE]

Yes men it is ok to cry 😢

[@amayzinvibzjonez]

U should do this every three months

[@OyaRevolutionary]

I love this series and tackling the serious divisions in black families. Iyanla (Yoruba for big mama) is the one.

[@alexandramuradas4619]

This programme should be translated for the Latin community too. This programme is do educational and actually it helps you to break the pattern. Thank you so much. Please come to London. ❤

[@frankieroberson3398]

Somebody call, Iyanla and get her back on TV!!! (Quick, Fast & In a Hurry; ) Getting rid of the Help; isn't helpful at all!!!

[@Shonda-vj7qb]

Dear Men, I can’t say it enough, we need you! We all need each other!

[@KeepSmiling447]

To all my brothers I am so proud of you. One day at a time, maybe even one minute at a time. Have faith that you can grow and this too shall pass, if you do the work. Peace and Blessings!🙏🏽

[@another8125]

hate that term "do the work" bruh its so arbitory and this documentary made black people look DUMB

[@KeeKee_X]

This was so powerful! I wish the UK had this from us women and men

[@rogueacademic]

that fool with the bowtie is doing the same tricks.

[@MegTelevised]

His demeanor is off

[@Denzelswife-rb7qz]

I'm loving this series !! we need this for our blk community !!

[@purplepeopleeater6880]

The sins of the father will be visited on the child. That one hits hard. If we don't sort our business out it will effect our children. My father abandoned his first family and many years later I became the first wife who was abandoned under very similar circumstances.

[@angelathomas3337]

Iyanla you are Amazing! You truly are walking in your calling.

[@fitnessfocused]

Sexual discipline. In a hyper sexualized society it seems this concept has been lost.

[@candacebutler7011]

This is beyond powerful😢

[@imaniellis1905]

Share, share and share again to all your platforms and pages.

[@donnahowell1016]

This is also a Latin man issue and us as women we need to be help accountability for our actions 🙏🙏

[@clairvoyance1849]

Iyanna is powerful

[@msgemsgems]

This is exactly whats needed in our community. Across the board in every Black Community. Thank you Iyanla! I wish this could be implemented seriously to our Men. Its needed. All the other toxic mess needs to be removed.

[@GETYOBAGMONIQUE]

That man that spoke is right men love getting that validation from a woman who can be that motherly figure they are seeking 😢

[@leeanneg7247]

What a powerful reckoning! ❤

[@nattyb2924]

The container for rage did resound with mothers all over the world!

[@glencro]

This is POWERFUL

[@pecan361]

This is called generation trauma

[@hpz1560]

Jay walking in this calling now

[@brittanystanley7399]

Iyana you are a incredible woman with a life changing life tv show I love watching you Mrs Iyana ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️keep on shining superstar ❤️

[@gwenvernon]

Fantastic show to see black men atoning basically expressing themself

[@gloversamuels]

Yea we need her back

[@hpz1560]

PLEASE TAKE THIS ON THE ROAD PLZ YOU HELPED ME I TOLD MY SON'S THIS BUT NO MANN EVERY TOLD HIM . JAY AMAZING STRONG YOUR STRUGGLES EXPERIENCE. AWARENESS CONSCIOUSNESS AND BRAVERY ASE' JAY AN ASE' QUEEN ❤️💛💚🖤✌🏾💪🏾☝🏾🙏🏾

[@millicentthomas870]

I follow this from the start am amazed .

[@dunlapchantel]

We need to revisit this !!!

[@donnahowell1016]

We need to knowledge of our identity 🙏🙏

[@TheVirgo92083]

Good show I just wish she would’ve let them finish their sentences

[@user-jf1dy5fs8g]

I really like this

[@tiffanycarroll9439]

Need this for mothers and daughters I would definitely participate in that as being the oldest of five I'm trying to heal my family so we can get along better it's a lot of distance between us because of a family Secret

[@user-uw1de3in3g]

We need it weekly, on Saturday..... I Call It Help A Brother Out.... Less booze more positive forums. . . . Then we hang out, eat travel together, to help out the next group up. . .Am I my brother s keeper?"

[@TheDajajones]

My ex needs to hear this he got 14 kids supposedly but my cousin her fiancé got 20 kids too damn many

[@fitnessfocused]

Hopefully you and your cousin were mother number 1 for these men. Otherwise you enabled the multi mothers behavior.

[@sixteen.candles.4644]

Nah i disagree. ​@cocoa_goddess6101

[@theonerealestatesecret]

It takes a village, ........

[@Camie.in.Philly]

Best I've ever seen

[@mauraramsay415]

One of my fav people

[@genekeduncan4028]

I love you Jay

[@inezreynolds1281]

Lovely

[@marquise2383]

Am I the only one who thinks Ryan resembles Giannis from the Milwaukee Bucks

[@KiaFlow]

I think this is low-key a response to everybody who said that iyanla didn't hold Nick Canon accountable. "Check your records, I held all men accountable years ago!"

[@suebridgett1520]

I am learning to be accountable for things I have put my children through, and to protect their future be the safe haven for them. Lead by example.