James Blunt - Monsters - Vocal Coach Reaction & ANALYSIS - and I'm BAWLING 😭😭😭

[@RoosterDane]

I never understood the James Blunt hate. He served his country. He also has a fantastic voice. Many great songs down the years.

[@morganadyd]

Because it guides you to the shores of self-discovery, where the waves of inner reflection crash against your defenses, leaving you exposed and vulnerable to the tides of emotion and introspection.

[@motoprada]

​@@morganadyddamn, that's a great reply. Salute!

[@monkeytribez]

@@morganadydthat was beautiful

[@OneTap__]

*jealousy for being such a lovling person.... nothing more.*

[@dtruth4969]

He is a talented straight white male. That combination puts a target on your back in today's society.

[@dagmar.6954]

James dad was actually dying from kidney disease & this was his tribute & farewell to his dad. Thankfully his dad received a donor kidney & is doing okay now. If this song doesn't get to you emotionally, there is something wrong with you. This song resonates with me as I was my dad's caregiver for 5 years until he passed away 4 years ago.

[@patriciaalvareztostado8170]

Yes, and the the change in roles, the reverse roles like James sing in this song, chase the monster away, is our time to chase the monsters, to change the dippers, help them walk when they cant, is a great song very emotional

[@elizaleroux9173]

Sorry for your loss.. Yes this song is purely from his heart about his father.

[@asepsaepudin4699]

Cinta dari indonesia kawan🤝♥️🇮🇩

[@chayeso1319]

Yes this was what I was going to comment but imagine being a father and listening to this beautiful song dedicated to you. Well done James

[@FantasticFish72]

Dagmars were you in new Zealand about 15 years ago?

[@eddieboy4667]

There aren’t many songs can bring you to tears. I’m 67, lost my daddy 60 years ago. And I cried like a baby when I first heard this song. Top drawer stuff. Thanks.

[@colintomlinson2946]

You didn't lose your dad as long as he's in you're heart and soul he's never truly gone

[@ajjbs7580]

NIce to read your comment. I am so happy to have found this song, just getting to this emotion when listening to this song is a blessing

[@jeffstevens4262]

From what I can gather, this song was recorded exactly as we all see it. On take and no 'Auto-Tune' because James wanted everything to be 100% real, true and entirely genuine. As a former officer in the British military (like his father) James donated all the proceeds from this song to the UK charity 'Help For Heroes' who do such wonderful work for ex-servicemen and women. I defy anyone to watch this remarkable video and not feel like blubbing. We're all human after all. ❤

[@StellaMoon60]

His producers wanted him to re-record the vocals, and he refused, because his grief was real and he didn't want to pretty it up.

[@kennethjensen5221]

Indeed it was beautiful ❤

[@thomasmacdiarmid8251]

This year on American Idol, a young man named Iam Tongi performed this for the audition, in honor of his father who had passed away months before the auditions. Not a dry eye in the house. Then in the finals, he performed it again in duet with James Blunt; Iam was not holding it together, so James took over as needed, and at the line "You can feel my hand on your arm", he patted Iam's arm reassuringly, and Iam was able to pull it together and sing more. Amazing professionalism and compassion from James, particularly considering how emotional this song is for him. Both performances are worth a look.

[@laureltaylor4535]

James Blunt is an amazing artist and so underrated. This song actually saved his father's life.

[@tomwhite4736]

James blunt is a phenomenal artist so much underated , his dad I'm pleased to say recovered .

[@Danathema]

It is his father. They were both in the British Army which teaches to be very stoic and in control of your emotions. His father was very ill with kidney disease and did not have long left unless they found a doner. They eventually did, a distant relative came forward after hearing the song. After the video, everyone was upset until his father deadpanned “why is everyone crying? I’m still here!”

[@karenstrong8887]

It is hard to sing when you really cry. That was his Dad and at the end everyone in that room was crying except his Dad. He told them he wasn’t dead yet. If James hadn’t released this his Dad would not have found a rare kidney match and he wouldn’t still be here. A first cousins with the same name as Charles and no one knew about was the match. Charles had already donated one of his kidney’s years earlier. I love James’s work and he writes amazing songs. He is really funny in interviews and just a lovely person. I have seen another video of this with James playing the piano after he knew his Dad would live. It has nowhere near the impact of this one. For the first time I wondered how James got through this. I didn’t get to say goodbye to my Dad, he was 51. James wouldn’t allow anything to be added, just one take and no auto tune. Hid Dad did it for him to have. You can’t not feel in this song. Thank you for your reaction, I have watched it countless times and I still need tissues.

[@BigFanOfManyThings]

I’m English and even this song passed me by yet its a few years old, maybe coz bad stuff was happening in the whole world. This whole video was one take, he sang this song once and once only with his dad listening. The music people wanted to auto tune it, could you believe?? His dad’s life was saved by this song, James quite poetically and literally chased the monsters away ❤ Hugs from England 🫶🏼

[@declaneric]

There's two [arts to this: 1) James Blunt's dad, Charles, had previously donated one of his kidneys. so when he himself got Stage 4 kidney disease, it was terminal for him unless he got a transplant of his own, because it was the only one he had left. 2) James had pleaded for a donor for his dad while doing press for the album on which Monsters was the fourth released single. At some point, an extended family member saw the music video and was so moved that they got tested and confirmed to be a match. So his dad got a kidney, and has been in successful recovery since 2020.

[@art2736]

Just found this song. Lost my dad a little over a month ago. We basically had this conversation. I took him to the hospital thinking it was going to be just like every other time. Instead, 3 days in the doctors told him there was nothing they could do. They gave him 2 to 4 to live upon discharge. They kept him in the hospital long enough for family to come from out of state. He passed 7 days after discharge. I love you dad.

[@death_0_048]

This song is very special not just because of the meaning but for James blunt being able to share and show so much of his emotions. I’m not sure if you know but both James and his father served in the military and as you know the military pretty much tries to erase the emotional expression aspect out of its troops. So for James to be able to share his emotions not just with us but to his father and right in-front of his father (the video is James fathers first reaction to the song) is a huge deal as it was probably something very unnatural for James to do. Ofc the meaning is quite self explanatory but I’m sure you know it by now but just in case. Yes that’s James blunts father, when this video was recorded his father was suffering from kidney failure and didn’t seem like he’d make it in a few months. So james wrote this song for him obviously saying what he needed and saying his goodbyes. Fortunately this song gained massive traction upon its release and a distant cousin heard it and decided to get tested for compatibility. That distant cousin ended up being a match and james father was able to have a healthy kidney donated and is still alive today. So in a way this song that was supposed to be a goodbye and an ending chapter towards james father actually served as the hope and reason behind his father’s miracle. Beautiful story and a happy ending to a beautifully sad song. Great reaction and like most of the people that listened to this song, no need to apologize for expressing the emotion James tried to perceive through the song!

[@chriscarter5720]

Nearly 20 years in the UK military, 20+ years since my dad passed and I've listened to this song many times, yet still it breaks me up every time. A deeply moving and powerful testament to the relationship between father and son.

[@davidpietarila699]

On one hand, I can see absolutely no legitimate reason this song didn’t win every single award in the music industry. On the other hand… I think the filthy music industry is beneath this song and unworthy of judging it.

[@garyfallows1123]

I defy anyone to watch this and not tear up, pure raw emotion

[@5pmevans]

Sincere reaction as always Juliet. This song gets to me because it took me 30 hours to get to my dads bedside (Alberta to the Uk) to spend our last 15 minutes together in 1982, he was 53 years old

[@horstschafer1839]

I heard this song for a 100 times and still cry. Yeah, I'm Hetero and my father is also still alive. He wrote the song while he was thinking, his father will die. So, what better can happen to the artist!?! Fathers still alive and in the video. No sacarsm, my dad gets 84 this year. I feel with him. Never had a real good Relationship to him for the first 35 years. Use every minute, that's left with your parents!!!! M

[@ZKev1]

This song was originally a poem written by James sister for their father, James sang it for their dad and asked if it was OK to release, this is the song that saved Charlie's life as a cousin saw it and got tested and was a match, the lyric, I'm not your son and you're not my father comes from their time in service together where they wouldn't let family ties affect their service and they used to say this

[@t0ddbr0wn731]

In 2020 James dad was diagnosed with stage 4 kidney failure. As time was running out they found a cousin that was a match.

[@carbine5378]

The wonderful thing about this song is that after it was released, a distant relative discovered the history behind it and as a result came forward to see if his kidney was suitable to transplant. It was and James’ father is alive and well today.

[@1031irishqueen]

Whenever James or his Father were deployed, they would say the line in the song to each other," I'm not your son, you're not my father, we're just two grown men saying good-bye"

[@jameslalley3787]

That’s his dad and he was dying from kidney failure! Because of that song a distant relative heard and stepped in to donate a kidney which resulted in saving his father’s life! But that is pure emotion right there in front of us ! A son probably saying goodbye to his father!

[@minneyruth]

This is really his dad. He had stage 4 kidney disease, after this song came out a relative came forward and gave him a kidney. Hope i got that right lol

[@richeswebcraft]

Phew, thanks for giving us that good news

[@glastonbury4304]

​@richeswebcraft ...sadly though he's not doing so well at the moment..😢

[@minneyruth]

@@richeswebcraft ❤️❤️

[@minneyruth]

@glastonbury4304 oh no! 😕 that's sad to hear 😢

[@103mrg]

minney It should be noted that dad only had one kidney, having previously donated the other.

[@petersconrad3917]

Awesome reaction. James wrote this song for his dad, because his dad was diagnosed with kidney disease but he had a kidney transplant matching his, so he's still alive. That's his dad on the video. Happy ending. 😥😥😥

[@joncalman8180]

This was a poem his sister wrote. James didn’t write this. He transposed and re organized it and turned it into a song but he did not write the meat of this song

[@DaGoooaat]

It's totally fine sometimes we should not hold our emotions and we should let it flow .❤❤❤

[@matthewgoodA1206]

One of the most emotional videos available on KZbin. Fits in with a tiny group of clips that can just knock the wind out of your heart.

[@ntracefan]

James’s father was a previous kidney donor and then his remaining kidney was failing. When this video was done he was in stage 4 kidney disease but a match could not be found. After this video was released a distant cousin came forward and was a match. He donated a kidney and James’s father is doing well. The man in the video is James father

[@perrywilliams5407]

A book could be written analyzing the lyrics of this song, but the phrase "I've folded your clothes on the chair" hits deeply for me. It is such a tender, loving act, prosaic on its surface but profound in its intimate connection. This is what my wife and I do when we have our granddaughters by us. After we bath them and put them in their pajamas, we fold their play clothes and put them on the nightstands beside their bed.

[@mburkitt7678]

The core message I get from the lyrics and this performance is a child saying to the parent "It's OK to relax, you did your job well so now it's my turn". James and his father were both officers in the military. The phrase "We're just two grown men saying goodbye" was what his father said to him when they deployed to different parts of the world. It was his father's way of acknowledging the fact his son was now a man. James has turned it around to reassure the parent that he is accepting that role.

[@jeffstevens4262]

Well said.

[@jeffstevens4262]

Sorry Juliet, forgot to say what a beautiful reaction you made to this amazing video. 🙋‍♂

[@richeswebcraft]

😪 Juliet, I've seen this video before and was very moved - your reaction, though, did have me in tears. I'm amazed how you still managed to give your usual excellent analysis while being so emotional 👏 I saw a quote recently which said something like "authenticity always beats quality", which ties in with what you said about his focus on expressing the emotion of the song rather than the technical delivery. There is a young UK artist called Ren Gill who is gaining recognition for his impactful performances and videos which demand the audience's attention. It would be great to get your reaction to his work. His breakthrough piece is called "Hi Ren" where he bravely delivers his mental struggles for the world to see and gives a powerful, sympathetic message. Don't worry, it won't make you cry like this one 😁. Even if you choose not to react to it on your channel, I'm sure you would find it very interesting and inspiring.

[@ianhislop6782]

Everyone should listen to Hi Ren. ❤

[@shakysenior]

Also they were both Army officers, probably didn’t show much emotion to each other over the years. Apparently this was a single take recording (vocals at least), James and the recording crew were in bits afterward but his father wanted to know why everybody was upset. Great video.

[@davidricks7128]

James wanted this to be 100% real and authentic. It is his father This was the first time he'd sung it to his dad, who had only recently been diagnosed with stage 4 kidney cancer and was not expected to survive, although they did eventually find a donor and he made it. Both James and his dad are former officers in the British military. First time I heard this was 3 days after my Dad passed away and it broke me I lost my Dad 4 years ago this August after he fell and hit his head sadly he didn't survive it caused a bleed on his brain I sadly never had the chance to tell him I loved him and that hurts but i know he is at peace now.

[@Remnants100]

Such a beautiful and empathetic reaction to James' tribute. Both insightful and informative in regard to His performance. Thank you.

[@brblanch7]

Thank you so much, Juliet, for a reaction that is beyond stellar for this massively powerful song. James is amazing and has truly blessed so many with his unbeatable level of talent.

[@sallymorehouse3179]

That is a beautiful but sad song. It's hard not to get emotional watching and listening to that

[@xonnadarkangel]

never stop your self from crying, it the best stress release you can do for your body, this song had to be done in one take because it was so hard on him & the crew.😢

[@KevinSmith-up1qo]

If you don’t tear up hearing this, no matter who you are, then you have no soul. If listeners still have an opportunity to tell their parents that they love them then do it now…

[@andrewmicklos4300]

Lost my dad in July 2023 first heard on American idol. Was not there to tell him goodbye😢. Depending on day emotions can run very sad to bright happy memories. Towards the end we had this reverse of our roles from dad to son ,son to dad. It was incredible.

[@lct08]

❤

[@horstschafer1839]

Never be ashamed for shade a tear when it's worth it!💋

[@creativocartolina7485]

I heard this song for the first time and i'm crying like crazy now.... 😢😢😢 my mom has dementia, and the words of the song could be mine!!! Saying goodbye to a loved one who fades away slowly is so hard... so it's my turn to chase all the monsters away, because my mom isn't able to anymore...

[@KeyBored101]

This song is just amazing and very emotional for me, I spoke to my dad one day and the next day he was gone, we don't always get to say goodbye

[@vacayooper4728]

I missed my dads death by maybe 30 minutes. But I was there when my mom said to me, "dad feels cold". So I checked and indeed he was gone. At least I was there to help her and notify the family. I stayed strong, didn't shed many tears. Went down to the river where he and I used to fish and lost my shit in private.

[@robertsistrunk6631]

His father was diagnosed with stage 4 kidney disease. James' sister wrote a poem and this song is the result from it.

[@ronniehunter1984]

When his Dad was sick and dying, James's sister actually wrote this as a poem, and then he turned it into a song.

[@darrensmith2753]

What a awesome song 😢😢❤

[@luannelantz9516]

Beautiful reaction video to this song! Tears and all! Love your videos, so honest, heartfelt and authentic!!

[@JeromeB.21]

Thank you for this! I'm a James Blunt fan

[@Felicisimo77]

James was teary -eyed when he was singing to his dad with chronic kidney disease , who was a donor himself and in need of kidney transplant ...Helpless ,a miracle happened , a match donor came by and until now his dad is still alive and doing well ...There's no conflict between him and his dad ..Both of them were retired from the British Army .. I admire James so much ,for being a good professional singer , but until now so underrated ... Thanks !!!❤🤞

[@shanedivix9306]

I'm sure other dads have already said it, but here goes: Your connection, as a daughter and mother, is real, and you relate because you are human and someone else's sadness is haunting. However, as a son and father, the connection speaks to what every boy, either consciously or unconsciously hopes for in life...the approval and pride of their father and it also makes the connection for every father who desires to leave such progeny in the world which honors him for a job well done. Great video, thank you, and I send my love to you!

[@larrystorey1964]

I just found your channel because of this song. This one is is "near and dear" to my heart, and I've watched quite a few reactions. Yours though, was special!! It was so very dang authentic, and was so amazing!! Thank you!!

[@larrystorey1964]

"We wanna feel something".....yes indeed! This one makes us feel something!! Dang your reaction is so awesome! "Breaking the emotional intensity"....was a pretty dang cool moment in your reaction!

[@larrystorey1964]

"Life isn't all roses and unicorns"......so well said!!

[@shirazzza]

I've only just found this song so it's directing me to reactions. My dad is currently really ill, they don't know why or how to help. So he's at home, trying to get on with things as 83 year olds tend to. I'm nowhere ready for saying goodbye but I have to prepare. Every morning I wake up to think mum will call me to say he's gone overnight. Having a big big cry today. Marko from nightwish fame did "the voice of my father" & that one got me even before dad was really unwell.

[@whatsinaname5828]

James Blunt's voice is so distinct. I can almost hear him singing, "you're beautiful, it's true!" My first time listening to this song. I just remembered my dad, who passed away two years ago.😭😭😭

[@RosemaryUnterseher]

Thank you for being authentic.

[@Heathen.Deity.]

The “don’t be afraid, it’s my time to chase the monsters away” gets me every time. It’s a parent’s role to care and protect their child, but now the roles are reversed at a deeply sad time. Whats even more touching is how he preceded that by calling him “Daddy”. It’s so often seen as a bit juvenile for an adult to call a parent that, but it subtly shows how he’s still sees himself as the son he always has been.

[@hannahjames2252]

Its the process of loss with a parent when they come full circle. When they need to be cared for like he did as a child. He is saying he is putting his dad to bed for what might be that last sleep. (this was what was expected at the time due to medical issues for his dad) He is saying he is a man now and will chase the mosters away so his dad can "sleep." The short sentences make it easier to follow but they are also how kids talk. And how one speaks to a kid. Sooooo many layers to this song!

[@robert3345erickson]

His father who appeared in the video needed a kidney transplant and while he was in the hospital James’ sister wrote a poem and when James read it he wanted to make a song about it changing a few words to portray it as though it was from James’ prospective also the video was done in one take and James also refused to have auto tune so you can hear all the imperfections and raw emotion in his voice

[@Scaredycat55]

Thank you great job its cool to be able to see real feelings and connect with this in some small way sadly you were correct they are going through the final moments of a good Father and Son moments in real time very very cool but the gravity is incredible

[@projectoldman3383]

You have been defeated by the Blunt emotional tank that is this song.

[@AMentorway4u]

You were fantastic. No need to have a moment because the truth speaks for itself. Fantastic job you did here Love is the most powerful force we can ever experience. Bravo.

[@stevengeller829]

Listening to this song gets you. My father is getting older and listening to this song makes me want to treasure every moment I get with him. Love your reaction and your comment about the bravery and sharing your truth. If you want more of that, try most of the artist Ren’s catalogue. Much of it is heavy as is his back story. For as much as he has suffered in his life and the tragedies he has lived with, he has kept his souls good and kind.

[@LaziUK]

I'm so glad James Blunt is getting the recognition he deserves...he's a bloody damn good bloke.

[@Barney59]

This song always makes me Cry. Ironically this song reached a distant donor who was a distant relative of James. Saved his dad

[@jennifersimpson1448]

American Idol winner Iam Tongi did this song for his audition in honor of his dad passing away just a couple months before his American Idol journey and James sang live with him and this song on last performances of Idol and was very emotional but you need to hear Iams voice.

[@brownbaschannel136]

Iam tongi is very touching, but Cakra Khan's version is very emotional in this song,,,, very poignant

[@elainedixon1954]

I cried every time I played it, which was constant. I was a sucker cause I knew I was going to cry. He's cockney his accent is beautiful.

[@jcos7008]

Thank you for such a genuine and heartfelt reaction

[@overtheedgeministries6141]

Your reaction is beautiful ❤

[@melaniematurano4817]

I have watched a lot of reaction videos to this song. I think I cried the hardest when you started talking about how we never get that chance to say goodbye.😢

[@penetroll]

James Blunt's father (Colonel Charles Blunt) was dying of stage 4 kidney failure and they were not finding a donor. James (who also served in the military as a Captain) wrote this as a goodbye. The "I'm not your son, you're not my father" part was something he and his Dad would say to each other whenever they had to deploy. (think British Military / stiff upper lip mindset) BTW... James Blunt donated the proceeds from this to "Hope for Heros" a veteran's charity. Because of this song, a distant relative of theirs got tested and turned out to be as match for Charles Blunt and he is alive and well now.

[@julianfarnfield-sykes1372]

An honest reaction to a beautiful song ❤

[@Wrathlon]

The fact thats actually his Dad and the situation here I honestly dont know how he held it together and was able to actually perform this.

[@denisbryce8746]

Something else too, it was all done in one take as James wanted the complete raw emotion & at the end as you can imagine, the whole place was full of crying sobbing people. Charles looked up & said, "hey, what's with the tears, I'm still here". Hahaha

[@karenwalker3770]

For those of us who've lost their parents like me, this song ALWAYS leaves me in floods of tears! They were both in the service, both pilots. When he says "I'm not your son, you're not my father....it's because you have to have a "separation " of family really. Thankfully his father allowed him to release this song, because it saved his life! A cousin got tested & was a match for a kidney transplant!!! He truly was dying, so the emotion is VERY REAL. And yes, that's his dad!!

[@YourOnlineSingingCoach]

Such a touching song and an incredible story! ❤️

[@karenwalker3770]

@@YourOnlineSingingCoach I don't know if you watch American Idol or not, but Iam Tongi, the winner sang this song for his audition & his father really HAD died. Just a couple months before the audition in fact!! So he was AWESOME throughout the whole competition, & at the finale, he chose to sing it. So he started the song, when suddenly someone else is singing.... James actually came to sing it with him!! Iam was very emotional, & was at a point where he wasn't able to sing since he was crying, so James was lovely in helping him out, & even just moving closer to him and putting his hand on Iam's shoulder. It's INCREDIBLE!!

[@christinesanchez2141]

Actually I wish I grew up with my dad unfortunately he moved to America while I was left behind in Belize but when I met him I fell in love immediately. He pass very fast and I tried but lived in Dallas but spent a time like this before he died. Thank you Mr. Blunt it tear me up because I understand

[@Duskblaze]

My cousin was playing this on his ukulele, and when i heard him play, it made me cry. I love this song. It reminds me of my grandfathers who I lost 2 years ago and my dad who I love so much.

[@jjlove4834]

Ur reaction is genuine and that’s what we want a real reaction like yours

[@DDLovett]

I literally cannot think of a single other song that effects me like this. When he says Daddy, my breath catches in my chest and i just start sobbing. And im a 53yo truck driver. I honestly cant explain it. Monsters just hits me right in the heart.

[@Tom-ed-w]

The British always have a connection to the people , from the beatles and on. They have this mellow related music. Their geniuses when it comes to music

[@shawn9705]

It is ok to cry. Never hold back or apologize for your tears, wear your tears like jewelry because they are what is you and you are what makes them beautiful. ❤️

[@johnbshannon]

have watched many reactions to this video, at least 40.........I love the song even though it leaves me in tears every time, but your reaction is the most honest and heartwarming I have seen, his dad is ok and yes it was him in video, thank you

[@jeffstevens4262]

Please react to one of James's earlier hits 'You're Beautiful' it's so sweet, and not so much of a tear-jerker lol

[@victorr460]

Both Blunt and his father served in the military and when James's was sent to Kosovo it has been reported that when his father said goodbye, his dad said, "you are not my son and I am not your father, we are just two grown men saying goodbye ".

[@marshawolfe2948]

This is one of the most saddest songs that I've ever heard. I could barely get through it. I lost my dad in 2021 from covid😢😢😢😢😢

[@MrcPl-ut3vx]

Sorry to hear

[@ryanallen8172]

Great reaction. Thank you.

[@GrimlarLex]

I believe that the line in the chorus "I'm not your son, you're not my father, we're just two grown men saying goodbye," is a reworded version of the farewell James father said to him when James went to serve in the NATO Peacekeeping forces in Kosovo. I think this speaks volumes about the 'stiff upper lip' and army sense of reserve about life threatening danger that they both shared, perhaps part of the 'mistakes' mentioned in the song. Which I guess leads me to recommend the songs 'No bravery' and 'Carry you home,' (don't be confused by this one, the lyrics and the video tell two different but thematically similar stories, both sad)

[@GrimlarLex]

You should also definitely react to Paulo Nutini 'Iron Sky' The abbey road live session. A masterpiece.

[@GrimlarLex]

James is a master of the sad song and unfortunately many of them are based on James real life. Goodbye my lover, No bravery, carry you home and most recently The girl that never was can all bring a tear to my eye. James has said that the songs are a form of therapy for him, and I have to be honest, its the only thing that makes sense to me, when you consider him touring to promote the album and singing these songs pretty much every night. Best wishes to you for your reaction and to James for having to through this syuff in the first place.

[@soundofnellody262]

This is such an emotional and sad song. But it hits even harder when you already lost a parent. I lost my father on 13. December 2018 when he lost a painful and torturous battle against cancer. When I heard this song for the first time all the feelings of grief hit me again.. 😪

[@jimjohns9051]

Lost my dad at 25, I was too young to understand it. This song makes me too emotional. I love it. Miss my dad

[@ShaunComnerley-zi3xr]

God bless James's dad and God bless chains for giving us his beautiful song

[@phils866]

This is the first time I have been able to watch this video the whole way through. The fact that I now know his father survived made it easier to watch, but not much! This is right up there with Johnny Cash's 'Hurt', and Sinead O'Connor's 'Nothing Compares to You', for raw emotion. James is actually a very affable, pleasant, self-effacing and personable fella in real life. But this shows his power to perform from the heart.

[@rac4]

Sometimes we need reaction like this😂😂😂,nonstop tear drops😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@Shadow_1984_]

🥰🫶🏻 You should never apologize for tears. It is a normal reaction of the body to something painful or very beautiful. So please do not apologize for it.

[@4464badge]

I cry every time I see this video! There is another video that will break your heart. Martina Mcbrides concrete angel!! Bring a box of tissues to watch this video!!!

[@chaddalziel8524]

I'm 50 and never recall my parents ever saying I love you.

[@utubesucks2k8]

U had me crying when u broke dwn about wanting to say things to ppl that u don't get a chance too. You are so beautiful ur personality is amazing so happy I random came across ur vid. I wish u all the best luck in life u dservere greatness x

[@jerryclukey3044]

My first time hearing this artist and song. Very unique voice, very emotional, sad song, and impressive performance. Great reaction!

[@darthjayder2927]

Just look at the emotion in his eyes. Powerful

[@helenmick5053]

I heard that his dad was diagnosed with a terminal illness and needed a donor that they couldn't find. That was the situation when they filmed this. That was his dad hearing this for the first time live. The song was released and a distant relative came forward after hearing it and was a donor match so the song saved his life.

[@stephaniekeplinger7625]

yes this is true

[@stephaniekeplinger7625]

i believe it was terminal kidney failure and yes a distant relative did see the video and donated the kidney and his father lived on

[@williamrust5922]

Your reaction was au point. It proves you have a loving heart. I am about the same age as James’ dad with kidney disease so this is poignant to me. Bless you for sharing your emotion.

[@gwmoore3134]

What kills me is how he and his dad are changing places and he will take care of his dad instead of his dad taking care of him. But, clearly, he isn't ready to state it like father/son but rather just takes the two grown men position. ""I'm not your son and you're not my father, we're just two men...." You chased the monsters away when I was a kid and now you may fear the coming end as if death itself was the monster. But it's my turn to chase the monsters away"

[@lithiumx9371]

great reaction. Cried my heart out too .My dad died a few years ago, and he wasn't a good person. Still miss him tho

[@487shawntower4]

I lose it everytime the father who is dying reaches out and comforts his son!!

[@Jinty92]

James' father was dying with stage 4 kidney cancer and when the video dropped a very distant relation on the other side of the world got tested and was a match. His father survived. His sister wrote some of the lyrics, from a poem. James and his father were both British Military Officers and when James was stationed to Kosovo, his father said we're just two grown men saying goodbye phrase. It was their thing. The record company wanted James to use autotune but he refused as he wanted it to be real, raw and authentic. A fitting tribute to his father. It says a lot for James, having been in the military and the old British stiff upper lip, that he was so open and vulnerable with his emotions. Apparently, the video was filmed in one take and at the end all the crew were in tears and James' dad showing the traditional British stiff upper lip and dry wit, said "why's everyone crying, I'm not dead yet"

[@edwardabrams4972]

This song rips at your very Soul if you have any LOVE in your heart😢❤