Tips To Make You More Confident: Elevate Your Look, Control Your Body Language & Train Your Mind

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Hi,
I am Jamila Musayeva, an international social etiquette consultant and the author of the books “Etiquette: the least you need to know” and “Afternoon Tea Etiquette.”
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In this video, I will tell you about 3 important elements of becoming more confident. It all starts with the looks. What we wear and how we feel about what we wear affects our self-impression that, on its turn, affects our self-confidence level. Next, how we carry ourselves- that is the body language that gives away the signs of self-confidence. Pay attention to your body postures. Remember about the power stance, eye contact and do not forget to smile. Finally, always train your mind.
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[@daquytx8139]

My father taught me that if you are having conversation with a group of people, find a topic that everyone can talk about and avoid side conversations or only talk to certain people in that group. That’s etiquette.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Indeed. Also engage in a dialogue, do not make it a monologue.

[@mirelasemanjaku]

Also decency and common sense. Which surprisingly it lacks in many people 🙁

[@glacey4906]

What if one person in the group speaks to you directly (and all others are quiet ie a question?). Do you reply to that one person or involve the others?

[@annacastellano4512]

@@mirelasemanjaku [[

[@IM-uh5tk]

2:22 Looks matter. Look the way you like. 5:12 Train your body. Have an open body posture, a good stance, maintain eye contact, smile more often, mind your hands. 7:52 Educate your mind.

[@sallybabybabybaby]

Thanks

[@rebeccatom2188]

@@sallybabybabybaby bing qiling

[@dh5057]

Letting your daughter choose from 2 appropriate outfits will make her feel like she has choice (it also help her learn to make decisions!) and will make your life easier!

[@sparklelee8730]

I love how u style your outfits .it's elegant literally caught my eyes and u do have a soothing voice

[@Madawi08]

agreeddd

[@momoblood]

I started working in my confidence like a year ago and you couldn't be more right! I have another tip i'd like to share: doing things alone, i found that by doing things alone i was able to become more confident! I wasn't being judged because i know i wasn't judging other people, and that has helped me become a little bit more "fearless" of social interactionsince i struggle with social anxiety and that really boost my self confidence! :')

[@ShivangiNaithani]

Her voice is therapy with education

[@lucaberret5042]

One thing about the smile: although it does communicate friendliness and openness, in some countries such as Russia it may have the opposite effect and cause people to not trust you or think you are odd because it is less socially acceptable to smile at someone you are not close with.

[@B3bita1215]

Really? wow that is crazy. Nice to know, because I am always smiling.

[@CitricAcidBurn]

That's quite not true. People tend smile less at strangers there, but smiling and friendliness are absolutely socially acceptable.

[@thatonellamawhoissoobsesse8138]

What about foreigners visiting Russia? Like What if they're tanner but hold obvious Western foreigner traits? ie. Loud, excited plus the smile?

[@heidiheidi0]

@@CitricAcidBurn As a Russian I can confirm this.

[@heidiheidi0]

@@thatonellamawhoissoobsesse8138 Being tan has nothing to do with anything that has to do with being western. Russia isnt a western country. If someone is loud or excited all the time, they might think they are from the US or UK or, at the very worst, just not very bright. It would be a little weird to smile at a stranger or to smile at a customer who one doesnt know well. It comes off as cheesy or trying too hard. They might be suspicious that you are hiding something.

[@adishreeram380]

It’s important to educate your mind but I believe that at times of you think you cannot contribute to a conversation, you could at least listen and learn something. A confident person is also humble enough to accept that they may not know about something and are open to learn.

[@miskaball1734]

Thank you Jamila for today’s video. I would appreciate if you could teach us how to speak like you, softly, elegantly, with the right speed and intonation . I believe it is also very important piece of self presentation! 😊😊

[@IoIita]

I’m a very shy and private person but thank you so much for these tips on how to be more confident, Jamila.

[@misskm4]

Same here

[@joshuac5074]

I'm in love with the 3rd tip as it is what I'm lacking, curiosity of what other people do is the best way to maintain conversations and to develop

[@mansoor3159]

Tysm Jamila for giving tips on how to become more confident because I am very shy person and I love your videos so much you are my inspiration♥️♥️😍😍🙈🤗☺️🤗🤗

[@mahimakammar7233]

You should always capitalize the first alphabet of anybody's name. That's an etiquette!

[@mansoor3159]

@@mahimakammar7233 happy😁👍🏻

[@poulomi3366]

I had a toxic evening, but after watching your video i am honestly feeling so good.. thankyou you are very soothing to mind

[@wormsquish]

I find that it's so soothing to watch your videos. Your voice and demeanour is so relaxing.

[@adhunaparui9408]

I really appreciate your effort for making this video. It helped me a lot. Thank you so much.

[@muhammadzakaria8002]

Thank you, your decency, for recalling the boosting points for future upgradation.

[@ramzaramzan9992]

Thank you for sharing this I wanted this so badly❤️❤️

[@nidhi6028]

The video we've all been waiting for.❤️❤️

[@julyajunglin5110]

Thank you Jamila, after watching some of your videos, I have learned so much and I really feel better and stronger. :) You’re a very beautiful woman

[@farinahmed821]

Thank you for sharing this video.As a teen girl,it is really needed by me.You are so helpful.

[@maryammalik9027]

I loved learnin this , thank you , you’re super polite when u speak and u speak clearly, I liked that

[@wellwellmymichelle]

Jamila you are GOREGEOUS!Thank you so much for your useful videos!!

[@knightblox4280]

Please make a detailed video about how to teach etiquette to the kids. We want more videos about etiquette as this topic is least discussed.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

I will consider that ☺️

[@alejandracontreras5596]

Thank you Jamila for these tips, I really like your videos, you are so sweet and teach me so much 🌺

[@tanisha6406]

I really needed this. Thanks Jamila❤

[@groomistagroomy5437]

Happy Teachers’s Day to all KZbin teachers who works hard to just enlightened our path and help us to clear doubts also thanks to KZbin to provide such a beautiful platform where we can learn, earn, and entertain ourselves 🥰🙏

[@elleari89]

Love you content ❤️ Can you do a video on proper outdoor picnic etiquette? In terms of what is ideal to eat, the picnic basket, cloth and glassware to use? Thank you 🙏

[@rokiashnell5871]

Thank you Ms. It's so calming to listen to you. I love learning things so the last part really rings a bell. It's such a confidence boost to know what people are talking about !

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are welcome

[@tenroses7323]

This topic is all i need for my current situation. Thank you so much it is always relaxing to watch your vedios.

[@TheEmaile]

Hehe, Jamila moping in pajamas! Your mom is so sweet, searching high and low for a copy of Harry Potter for you! These are great tips! After watching your etiquette videos and reading some books on etiquette I started to take the time to present myself well FOR MYSELF. It made such a difference, as I had always been a frump when alone and only dressed up, did nails, hair, etc when with others. For me, the most important aspect of confidence has come from knowing that when I feel good, others pick up on that. Like you said, look good for yourself. Another thing that helps is remembering our uniqueness. That we are each beautiful and interesting individuals in and of ourselves, without anything added. That we owe it to ourselves and all the time and effort that has been invested in creating our being, from birth to adulthood, to recognize our importance and individuality. With this knowledge it's almost impossible to not have confidence. 😊

[@anneliduplessis5748]

Please please please do a video on jewellery etiquette!!! Like how much jewellery is too much, how you wear it, what works for you etc. Please!

[@mahshidbitarafan3249]

Dear Jamila, I was waiting for your new video. When I saw the notification, quickly opened my KZbin. Thank you for all of your lovely and useful videos.

[@jimlims]

She is so polite and modest🤍

[@gwynethsantos8254]

I love the way you speak, it's soothing 🤍🦋🌻

[@SpeakEnglishwithFilms]

Working on my body and mind have helped me in the last couple of years especially in terms of communicating with people. I'm willing to work more on my look at this stage. Thank you. Your energy makes learning easy.

[@queenlove6218]

Thank you Jamila 💜

[@alexandraeverafter1015]

Thank you for this outstanding video on how to build confidence. You packed so much in only 13 minutes. Confidence has been my weak spot for as long as I can remember. I have always been perceived as the nervous one, especially when I was younger. People didn’t understand what I was trying to say, and my facial expressions and posture looked inapproachable. Because of my mom and all those videos on elegance, I have been improving. Yes, appearance makes a world of difference, and I feel more confident and productive when I am presentable. I am in my 40s now and firmly believe that education doesn’t stop at your last degree. I naturally learn at work because I am a proofreader. For example, I have been learning about business and culture from the material, and it feels like I am getting paid to learn from some of the most prestigious business schools. 😉 BTW, you look more presentable in your pajamas and hair up in a bun than so many people I see in public. You always look presentable and elegant. Period. 💕😊

[@Nssi._rdg]

Thanks Jamila, I came here after your recommendation. Thanks alot dear❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

My pleasure 😊

[@iamladya_31]

Thank You for sharing Jamila 👋✨

[@pearlslaceandgrace400]

Another enjoyable video, Jamila. A few small adjustments can make such a difference to how you are perceived!

[@violetaturner4998]

Hi Jamila, thank you for your video. It’s a well done & informative !

[@oishisahoo2093]

So much to learn from you. Your videos are therapeutic

[@joanarayapen5369]

Thank You for this video. Always appreciate your videos. God bless.

[@laigisele5879]

Love yr voice I think talk slowly is also a kind of confidence I always talk very quickly and brief when I’m nervous I wish I could talk like u

[@user-hx8hh7rt8x]

Jamila you one of the energy givers in my life ✨

[@tishakataria8391]

Thank you so much Jamila for this video, I always admire confident people now I can also become one, whom others will admire . Btw, your outfit was awesome as always!!

[@Emily_Garcia]

Thanks for all these advices ❤️

[@Bonjour_Lisa]

This video gives a lot of food for thought~ Some of your points of view merge with the common perception, yet I always find yours authentic ✨ It feels like some of them are linked to one: some people would naturally communicate a body language of confidence if they feel beautiful in their overall look, for instance. I would even feel confident when having a certain scent on my body; confidence may be connected to some of our senses being positively triggered. One thing that I agree with and would like to add something to, if I may, is that educating the mind also happens when being involved in a conversation which you lack knowledge about. The example of the Harry Potter book is very relatable… but there exists similar situations where the persons involved would happily educate you on something. Being willing to learn from them would be a sign of confidence; you are aware that you do not know one topic at the moment it is being discussed, and you publicly express it by asking questions. I would often ask questions after presenting a topic I am supposed to know a lot about, because we learn from people. It shows that you want to engage with the person and not just display your knowledge. And you can raise questions that she/he had not thought about; which would encourage her/him to learn more 🙂

[@anujanandan2127]

Thank you Ms. These tips have helped me a lot! I am beyond grateful to you for sharing them.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Welcome 🤗

[@anujanandan2127]

I wanted to say this Ms. , you do look a lot like Audrey Hepburn. Flawless, effortlessly beautiful

[@rimshaarif5867]

I started watching KZbin just to see your videos...Amazing💜❤

[@giftyboakye8554]

Thanks I feel so good now

[@fatihanusrat5584]

I love what you're wearing 🥺❣️

[@sahithipulicherla110]

Perfectly described...

[@Emxo333]

I loved learning that you are a big potter fan, me too! It was so fun waiting for all the books to be released

[@aneesmughal2949]

Treat for my eyes and ears today 🙏

[@DiamondSplendid-yy7dg]

It clashesform what were taught, a a person who was raise with what we have learning to be content for what I wear is accepting but a person who has a range of choosing it becomes more picky in thinking

[@thamiryschuengue125]

I LOVE 💕 your videos about etiquette at the table. It gave me so much more confidence in the meals at work . OBS: sorry about my English if I made some mistake. I'm your fan from Brazil ❤️🇧🇷

[@Lillium1155]

Duas!!

[@nenenopena5742]

Hi Ms. Jamila just now watching your video this is awesome thank you....

[@skyeclara732]

Hey I learnt new things 😊❤ thank you !!!

[@saraholive1387]

thank you very much, I really appreciate your effort ♥️♥️

[@muhdabdullah8720]

when i see your style i also got confidenece 💕😍😍😍😍 stay blessdddd

[@xfaroutzx3637]

I believe any situation whether a topic of conversation arises that I am not knowledgeable on is an opportunity to learn. If I do not know about the subject, I state that I do not know about that and I will ask questions out of curiosity to learn more. I think people greatly appreciate it and feel that you're genuinely interested, it is not necessary to always know something about everything to be able to converse and be part of a conversation.

[@vmoney7857]

thank you for all of these . also I love your voice

[@danepukhomai4384]

🤗💕 you are my inspiration..... thank you so much for your good advice 😁💕

[@amelblossom4160]

Ur voice is therapy , I love the way you talk and the way u sit . Ur so elegant ☕🍁

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you 😊

[@addyramirez709]

She is so amazing:,)

[@salmaou9110]

Her vooicee is soo caaalmm !!!!!! DAAAAMMNNNN

[@fynssp]

I think the idea of an Etiquette Movie club sounds great! Most of how I speak and think is influenced by movies (and books too! I also felt out of place back then because I haven't read Harry Potter haha)

[@memorycelle]

Great advice - thank you! So true about the smiling more and having hands occupied. I wonder what the psychology behind having hands occupied means, because it does make me feel more comfortable when I do that.

[@vahid_bs1350]

Mrs jamila, your video is useful and interesting. İ love

[@tracycameron5099]

Excellent advice!

[@jarcialeite3026]

I love your channel! It has expanded my knowledge so much!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@charlesdickens3810]

Hello Jamila, Can you make a video on how to become and stay fit please? Thank you so much. This channel has helped me so much with my confidence and overall personality.

[@sayma6575]

This is the video I needed.

[@dianachka100]

love the french vibe in your clothes and furniture.

[@rittikamallick2696]

Amazing you are the knowledge part is so true..we are lucky to get this for free

[@subhanshisingh3018]

You are a beautiful personality . I am enjoying learning from your videos, keep it up.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@ainnurzafirah4636]

your voice is so calm & soothing. do tell me can someone without patience do this, i mean the well etiquette? you look so proper. i really need your patience & calmness

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you 🙏🏻

[@ladyjennifermathews5096]

I love thisss!

[@filomenaalviar9311]

Thanks for all you do!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Welcome!

[@aidaidzhailoeva4770]

Thanks a lot! That's really useful video for ladies 💖

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are welcome

[@user-fj2se2bv1j]

You are looking great!!

[@arkanghelkerubin1980]

Hi, miss Jamila. I'm new here, greetings from Philippines! 💞 Thank you for the tips and knowledge!😇❤️

[@isabellagiammanco1558]

Omg I am loving you channel…. Thank you so much. Xx

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are welcome

[@aishaseckan7037]

I love ur video and I also learn from it ❤

[@sapphire3141]

I’d love to know where you shop your outfits. So elegant and effortless ❤️

[@sanskritiyadav6007]

I learn so much from you💗🥰Thank you

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@nehaboss31]

Jamila mam, i really appritiate your efforts.. but the way you dress up yourself is super cool and beyond words, i mean how can someone be so perfect❤👀 you are soo pretty 🤞🏼

[@emilianicheva]

Can you please do a video about how to look clean and put together and smell nice all the time? I would love to see your recommendations ☺️

[@classygirls3301]

Hi I am from Iraq 🇮🇶 I like your video 📹♥ Thank you 😊

[@sofiamurtazalieva2093]

Thank you so much for your videos ♥️

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are welcome

[@_bravegirljessica_]

Thank you

[@suhilaelnagar7426]

U're such a beautiful kind of friend Jamila ❤️

[@muhaumuhau5426]

Thank you 💖😊

[@nadia5574]

Thank you for this 🥰

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are welcome

[@MsAreejali]

Very informative video .

[@shreyabadakh8961]

Thank you for Wonderful video.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are welcome

[@gurpreetsohal6657]

Make a video on your self makeup tutorial

[@Bangtanarmygirl]

Mənə güven haqqında danışdığınız üçün teşekkür edirəm,indi daha da artdı. Thank you for telling me about confidence,now it's increased a more.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Cox sag olun 🙏🏻

[@Bangtanarmygirl]

@@JamilaMusayeva çox xoş gəldin canim ♥️💗♥️.

[@boifavour1720]

Am learning something