Pansexuals Are Attracted To...

[@nacl4988]

I do not love fryingpans, I love pancakes

[@sofiaboo6739]

as you should

[@that2amvagueexistentialdread]

Big same, hell ye

[@rain3228]

I love paninis

[@kozumekenma3897]

Same lol

[@rocamboleq]

But how do you make a cake out of a pan!? 🤔

[@torispencer7237]

"Just because I can be attracted to everyone doesn't mean I am ever." *Ace pan joke*

[@lilliedawn1715]

Ayyyce, another ace pan!

[@lumintroII]

Demi sexual pan here and I completely agree

[@abdullahrizwan592]

Ace pan?? that makes no sense, that's like me saying that I am a Christian and an atheist.

[@lumintroII]

@@abdullahrizwan592 nope, being asexual just means you don't feel sexual attraction but you can still feel romantic attraction

[@chocolattefeverdreams4228]

I found my other ace pan people ಥ‿ಥ

[@Takumi_Did_Nothing_Wrong]

Too many pansexual jokes are about frying pans, but I hear almost none about the Spanish word for bread or the Greek god Pan. Step👏up👏your👏game👏, pansexuals👏!

[@alonathecreator]

I told two of my Spanish friends I was Pan (since we're all in a Spanish School) and they were laughing with me because one of them said "For a second there, I immediately thought about the bread" and I was joking that I was aroused by bakeries✋😭

[@apollos_kid]

When I found out about the greek god I freaked out

[@lauratroy13]

I always think of the Greek God when i hear pan since the kitchen supply isn't called pan in my language

[@BelleColonD]

My best pan joke is "So are you more of a skillet or a wok person?" Please, hold your applause.

[@alonathecreator]

I will, dear stranger from the Internet 😌

[@bookworm0859]

Meme: "Guys in crop tops" Jammy: *nods in agreement* "Guys in crop tops"

[@weebalert2613]

Crop tops on anyone is really just nice :)

[@Bird-vn2oi]

Frr 👍🏼

[@lemonbread_nat]

Jamie: "guys in crop tops" *guys in crop tops* I felt that spiritually

[@lunaeclipse5486]

Sameeeee

[@milliekultra]

For sure

[@caleighrosebud]

Yesssss

[@NoxietyPrime]

I'm not attracted to men, _but_

[@noxx7637]

Amen

[@mx.benzedrine]

My mom gave me her pansexual genes and she had no idea she was pan until I explained what it was to her. It clicked in her mind, and now I say that she "gave me the gay" whenever it comes up with anybody, lmao.

[@danielleduckett942]

That is so hilarious and wholesome 😂💕💕

[@the_gothic_gazette]

As a pansexual, I feel both shame and pride for laughing at majority of these overused pan jokes 😔 (Omfg why does this have so many likes 😧😧😧??? Tysm ❤️❤️❤️)

[@MidnightBl00dySkies]

Same 😫✋

[@eethvamp]

Me three!

[@hellobye4729]

Moi four

[@artemisx4393]

Me fifth

[@ash_afton12]

Same 😔

[@Just_my_simple_life]

At age 62, and having researched the concept of pan sexual, I realize this represents me even though I have always been in heterosexual relationships.

[@alexterra2626]

If you're pansexual, you're pansexual! I'm 17 (18 in 4 days) and as a pansexual myself, it doesn't matter who you've been in a relationship with, you're pansexual as long as you know you are :)

[@lovelysakurapetalsyt]

As a pansexual, it's funny when a pansexual says it. But if someone who isn't says it, it's annoying. It's so overused it's making me angry seeing it.

[@catwomanbutmakeitgay2803]

oh absolutely yes

[@charlottecomedy8784]

Agreed

[@pandemonium732]

its one of those 'only pan ppl and a few close friends can make x jokes'.

[@MandisF]

Me too

[@Fireberries]

Question: What if your pan friend got you a keyring with a pan frying pan joke on it?

[@Abel-lt5nr]

I like how in english the joke is that pansexuals are atracted to pans, but in spanish people ask if you're attracted to bread 🤣🤣(pan = spanish for bread).

[@hypnoticpeachy]

Off topic, but I love your pfp 🥰 Also that’s a really funny fact!

[@Abel-lt5nr]

@@hypnoticpeachy aww, Thanks 💜! Your Shinso pfp is also adorable ✨

[@hypnoticpeachy]

TYSM! 💜

[@egg-inanutshell1415]

I zoned out for a bit and suddenly I get slapped with “I thought bisexual was when you were attracted to bicycles, well now I’m just confused” me too bud!

[@elleofthewilds]

being pan is occasionally looking around a room and being suddenly struck with the realization that there is nobody in the room you aren't attracted to. it doesn't happen all the time, but it happens at least once to all of us.

[@hellaSwankkyToo]

_“i’m starting to get bored of the pan jokes. i can’t imagine how Pansexual people are feeling.”_ exactly. LOL! every now + then there’s a really good one but…most of them are just… 😑 😐 besides, i prefer the pancakes. 😜 💙💛💖 🖤✊🏾

[@shiryoot]

Telling my pan friend this joke now 💖💛💙

[@charlottecomedy8784]

Guess your partner could say you got some pan-cake- (I am pan myself btw)

[@shiryoot]

@@charlottecomedy8784 BAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHH

[@Tustin2121]

I do enjoy how the subreddit he’s pulling these from apparently has a flair for any posts that are just frying pan jokes, presumably so people can enjoy them only when they want and avoid them when they get tiring.

[@mangaanimefan3089]

Seriously! I don't get this! Why aren't there any pancake jokes? Or at least add pancakes to the pans that Pans like! Jeez!

[@Jordyb33123]

Being bi and taking a long time to realise/come to terms with it, that “everyone is out of my league” one really got me. It’s a huge reason I doubted I was bi for so long believing it was all to get attention for some time. I’m now in the happiest relationship I’ve ever been in with a person that accepts me for who I am and worships the ground I walk on. I met him at aged 31, they are out there, have faith 😘

[@katashworth41]

The pan jokes are awful, but my friend did get a necklace with a frying pan on it to preempt any comments.

[@waytoobiased]

The r/pansexual subreddit did a similar thing

[@fatasiandude412]

um why are you subscribed to second thought- he supported ccp and North Korea on twitter which r very authoritarian and anti lgbt sis I’m just worried a bit-

[@xexpaguette]

ignore above comment^^

[@katashworth41]

@@xexpaguette I wish I’d have gone with don’t call me cis

[@joda7697]

Wait wouldn't that invite more comments about it tho?

[@angelpanda8941]

Me, sitting in the corner as a gender-fluid Pan-romantic Demi-Sexual: “I think I’ll sit this one out 😃”

[@ajaxwillis3962]

Hey new bestie 😸 Transman Pan/demi -romantic/sexual here... if that makes any sense. Imma just leave now

[@Brooke_Corbyn]

The feel when gender is fake

[@GamerSisters]

Welcome to the Oh God, Oh Fuck club as a fellow pansexual demiromantic demi-gal

[@dianaburn2474]

Not just you, but I relate to the feeling. NB Gender-Fluid, Pan Gray/Demi-Sexual. Most people don't get it. But, there are always some that do.

[@sridurkaamiksa2487]

OH MY GOD IM A GENDERFLUID PANROMANTIC DEMISEXUAL AS WELL

[@Blood_Banshee17]

When people ask me if I'm attracted to pans I respond with *"OH YEAH those cast iron skillets really get me goin"*

[@the_apple_of_pines]

🤣That's perfect. I might need to use that one.

[@Blood_Banshee17]

@@the_apple_of_pines You should peoples reactions are priceless 💀

[@the_apple_of_pines]

@@Blood_Banshee17 I bet. XD

[@namjoonswho-wifeimeanwife]

I go like " Yeah specially the non-sticky ones u know? *explicit noises*" Shuts them up real good

[@Blood_Banshee17]

@@namjoonswho-wifeimeanwife lol that great too

[@perhaps7046]

Polyamorous pansexual culture is: “having a crush on someone and their partner at the same time” -my poly pan friend

[@CattyAttie]

As a punsexual--I mean--pansexual, I'm required to both groan and appreciate the pan pun. However, it is entirely too uncreative to be used this much...

[@loztandfound2708]

That was very Watts the Safeword! 😂

[@w1nterdays]

True. There should be more pancake and bread(pan is bread is Spanish) jokes.

[@ChattieTheMadChatter]

I really appreciate the "punsexual" comment 😆

[@sam_597]

@@w1nterdays also the Greek god jokes 😁😁 it's confirmed all pansexual people are nature deities 😅

[@Moon_Thief_420]

Oh, lordy... Punsexual... 😂😂😂😎

[@BoredSoprano]

Depends who is making the pan jokes, if it’s my bestie making a comment about why they don’t let me in the kitchen I will always laugh, if it’s some rando with the classic “pansexual? hahaha so you fancy pans then” there will be a withering stare and I will be plotting the demise of the person who uttered it.

[@peepeepoopoodoodoohead]

@@draculaslapdog3133 it's not a joke if a straight person or someone they haven't allowed to make jokes like that says it. then it's oppression.

[@joda7697]

It always comes down to the intent. It's either having fun _with_ someone or making fun _of_ them. And this phenomenon is much broader than just the pan community. Just ask aromantics if they're tired of archery jokes. (aro sounds like arrow, hahaha) Or asexuals if they like the alphabet. (haha, attraction to the letter A) Or bisexuals/biromantics if they like cycling. You get the idea. (For the record, i'm aro and i think the archery jokes are hilarious.)

[@gergyta9211]

I get that, if I know someone who’s pansexual and we’ve been friends for a while I will make an occasional joke but I’d never make a joke to a stranger or someone that I’m not amazing friends with

[@ilikedarknes3351]

there is a difference between joking with yourself and telling it to others and joking with your friends joking with yourself is saying that a pansexual is attracted to pans and the pansexual not being in on the joke joking with your friends is like your friend not letting you in the kitchen because you're pansexual

[@bx3326]

The first time I received the attracted to pans joke the guy was just someone from my class I never talked too "so do you shove the pan handle up there?" was what he said, I wanted to punch him so much

[@sienatellis5078]

3:50 Wrong, I can confirm- as a lesbian myself- that lesbians are citizens of not Libanon but the Greek island of Lesbos.

[@JazzyKitsune]

I'm pansexual and i thrive on the kitchenware jokes it gives me life

[@dayshadows5021]

Yes. This. XD

[@crazcatladeestudios9956]

I mean kinda same

[@cosplaymemories1487]

Don't you mean.... "it gives me 'knife'? XP I'm not sorry....

[@macwafflesqwq4886]

@@cosplaymemories1487 I..I'm ashamed to admit it, but, I did infact laugh 😔

[@partymustdie]

Same lmao

[@the.corvidian]

Yo Jammiiiii- I know you won't see all the comments, but I wanted to stop by and tell you anyways: I started testosterone! Your videos helped inform me while I was still considering, I've been watching your for vids for years :) We actually look alike at least a little so it was really easy for me to identify with you and imagine myself in your shoes. Anyways! Thanks for being yourself 🙋‍♂️

[@hellaSwankkyToo]

my fav: _“i’m pansexual + still not into you.”_ b|c facts, i might think you’re attractive + might even be attracted to you, still doesn’t mean i’m into you or that i want you. 🤷🏽‍♂️💁🏾‍♀️

[@caleb7551]

@@krimsonkatt I think it's "because"

[@rachelkim6134]

@@krimsonkatt but you understood, didn't you? Stop being such a negative nancy and just live your life. If you come across a comment you don't fully understand, move on instead of complaining to the person who just wanted to make a lighthearted youtube comment.

[@eleruces7722]

@@rachelkim6134 hi, shrt frm txt cn b dif 4 sum 2 no, dis mit b bc v esl, lw IQ or lak v diy 4t. Sme hlp frm faqs in f2f imo, or a kiss mthd, aka ted. Yle acs r pans thr prty dif. T my cm all fubar w/o cmkn. Lmn if u gt dis, 1 hpe u rnt 2 likl 2 no wht sme v acs mean, AFAIK u my hv povs. Nyws bbiab im agk as tngs r bau FYI. Thanks for coming to my Ted talk If you want a translation I'd be happy to provide lol

[@eleruces7722]

@@krimsonkatt you can't complain about one person using short form text and then you use an acronym lol. It's exactly the same

[@hellaSwankkyToo]

@@krimsonkatt 🤔 "b|c" isn't an acronym _nor_ is it new. in fact, i got it from my momms 15+ yrs ago. i tend to stick to shorthand that can be easily deciphered using context clues to keep things _accessible._ gonna say that's what happened here since at least 90+ others understood + this is the first time i've ever rec'd feedback about the use of "b|c." 💁🏾‍♀ which, i assume has to do w| how old + widely used it is, how common the formula "x/x" is for abbreviating. it's OK, even understandable, if _you_ didn't get it; your snarky response, trying to tell me how to type b|c you didn't is not. BTW, "iDK" _is_ an acronym + Internet slang _and as such,_ newer than the standard x/x English formula for shorthand.

[@shego1142]

Jamie have you ever looked into/considered making a video about Voidpunk?! It’s basically a community of people in different (or overlapping) minority groups embracing the “otherness” we are typically made to feel by being ourselves! Essentially it takes the whole “oh well if you’re different then you’re not human/a person/valid” and turns it on its head by saying “cool, I didn’t want to be any of that anyway” The subreddit does a better job of explaining it than I am but right now lol! But anyway, as someone who is autistic, chronically ill/disabled, and lgbtq+ it really provides a lot of comfort for me and I think it would make a great video, especially for those it may resonate with who haven’t heard of it before!

[@thedevicebook]

You have inspired me to look it up! Especially since steampunk was an interest for a long time...and yeah, my "otherness" list is a mile long! I also hate all the "us versus them" thinking that tears our groups apart. Not to get depressing but the fascist strategy of "divide and conquer" is literally based on this.

[@Resilient_Sage88]

Jammie talks about a pan cake. Me: How is he in my head?! Pan appreciation ftw! 💝💛💙

[@insanitycrafter8553]

"Not everyone can be attractive to a pansexual, but an attractive person can come from anywhere" -Anton Ego (lightly paraphrased)

[@AndrewD8Red]

I have a good few conversations regarding my pansexuality. People seem completely flummoxed by it. Which is kinda sad but also kinda hilarious. I'm married to a woman, so people basically think I'm straight forever now.

[@leeyubinsproperty]

w-what the heck is flummoxed 😟

[@AndrewD8Red]

@@leeyubinsproperty It's how British people say "perplexed" or "bewildered" and it is probably your new favourite word.

[@spicybeantofu]

This is the second time I've seen that used today and I wondering what social media people picked it up on.

[@AndrewD8Red]

@@spicybeantofu I don't do social media, so the other people probably stole it from me. Even if it was hours ago.

[@leeyubinsproperty]

@@AndrewD8Red thanks... b-but what the heck is perplexed 👁👄👁

[@Nani0715]

As a Mexican pansexual I always get really upset when my siblings make the same frying pan joke because bruh. WE'RE BILINGUAL. MAKE A PAN DULCE JOKE. PLEASE.

[@jiiamp]

“You can’t be friends with the gender you’re attracted to” Jokes on you cause I’m Ace B)

[@impoisonivy2130]

This lol

[@justanonion5126]

Ayy, a fellow ace B)

[@real3576]

jokes on you i'm aro ace and still have no friends

[@justanonion5126]

@@real3576 Same dude, same 😔

[@knees0cks_49]

sameeeee

[@tarrhazard104]

5:34 it's PANic...*small chuckle*

[@KogetaiKid]

(Inhales) *WELCOME TO THE 🩷💛🩵 PAN-IC ROOM 🩷💛🩵, WHERE ALL YOUR DARKEST FEARS ARE GONNA COME FOR YOU, COME FOR YOU…*

[@LittleLadyLina]

"Are you a pansexual frying pan joke lover or hater?" See, that's the thing: I'm both 👀💦

[@EclipsaEldrich]

Depends if it’s a pansexual who makes the joke

[@clam6254]

it’s really weird, cause when a pansexual/myself makes a jokes about “pans liking pans” it’s really funny, but as soon as anyone else does it it’s like 😐

[@AndrewD8Red]

Yes, the pancake one was Sabrina. The Spellman family have an addiction to pancakes. There's even a song about it.

[@jolan_tru]

Nerd.

[@calasia7896]

mmm, pancakes... :)

[@lauratroy13]

Having watched a kids show from the 90s is being a nerd now okay 😁

[@AndrewD8Red]

@@jolan_tru Says the person with the emblem of the Romulan Empire as their profile pic and the traditional Romulan greeting as their screen name. To paraphrase James T Kirk from Star Trek IV: "Well, double-nerd on you!"

[@AndrewD8Red]

OK, maybe I am a nerd.

[@theshamanite]

As a panromantic trans person, I can confirm that I love someone no matter where they are in their transition. I will respect them always :)

[@DennCrow]

Me a pansexual: God the damn frying pan joke is so dumb and over used can people stop please Also me: Man it sure is hot out here… I guess you could say I’m- My friends: Don’t a fucking say it. Me: - a frying pan 😎

[@RuneDrageon]

Clever, I like it

[@DennCrow]

@@RuneDrageon Thank you, I try

[@baileyyh72]

LMFAO

[@reiiyalwayswithpixy]

Love this 😭

[@Rachel-fi4sc]

Can I steal this joke? I'm stealing this joke. kthx ^-^

[@UnholyMinty]

As a panromantic ace, I almost cried and this made me so happy, thank you for this. I really appreciate it and felt very valid

[@lemmetalkaboutthis]

Spongebob is ace tho, creator confirmed it (and what a happy day that was for me) But I wouldn't be surprised if he's panromantic

[@elishaheetebrij3681]

Wait really? I'm ace and that makes my childhood and my day a little better :)

[@jackabug2475]

I've never seen or heard of waffle pancakes before this video, but I LOVE French-toast pancakes! You make them by tearing bread, ideally a sweet bread like panettone, babka, brioche etc. into small pieces, then soaking them in whatever beaten-egg mixture you usually use to make regular French toast, then pouring the combined bread-bits and mostly-absorbed egg mixture into a heated, buttered pan to a size you'll be able to flip readily, cooking both sides until browned as you like. All the best features of pancakes and French toast!

[@therewillbefire1833]

Panromanic asexual, I like pans because they are good for assisting in the making of garlic bread. Both jokes work just as well in the persuit of THE BEST FOOD IN ALL THE KNOWN UNIVERSE!

[@sofiaboo6739]

amen garlic bread supremacy

[@loztandfound2708]

All hail garlic bread!

[@peacefulleopard8016]

We will pray now to our Lord and Saviour, Garlic Bread.

[@tavrosnitram1529]

same yet opposite, im pansexual aromantic

[@SorrySod]

Colourful Jamie in bouncy chair. Good start.

[@cosplaymemories1487]

Don't sell yourself short and think you're out of someone's league. Short story time! There was this person at work that I thought was really, really cute. We talked a lot in passing. Said passing conversations turned into a few hours a night at work in conversation. I automatically thought he was out of my league cuz this person was amazing to me. They've got to be taken and their partner is extremely lucky to have them out of my league type. .... a couple years later I start a lot of overtime and end up talking to them way more. And noticed that I would talk to them for months now after their shift was over and I was going into my usual shift and we would talk for more than an hour or two. Then they asked me out.... I was dumbfounded and took the chance and said yes. It's been over a year and change now and we're still together. They are an amazing person. Also turns out they were purposely staying after work just to talk to me more. ❤ so never sell yourself short, if that can happen to me; it can happen to you. Best of luck out there. ❤

[@d.ssociation]

“You’re pansexual? You must have had so many parters since you have so many options!” Me, who doesn’t want to explain (yet again) that I’m non-binary and panromantic asexual, not a pansexual cis girl: Suure, we’ll go with that

[@idkanymore5921]

pls i'm demiromantic and nonbinary and i hate it when people say that lmao

[@lemmetalkaboutthis]

Ah yes the struggles of being panromantic asexual Frigging sUCKS

[@jay_art3032]

omg finally someone else that is panromantic and asexual we really do live in constant pain

[@SpringStarFangirl]

Panromantic arospec-ace fam!

[@RoxanneMarius]

As a demi(pan)romantic asexual. Yeeeeh, it's what's up.

[@lovehatenpassion]

I laughed so hard at this and I'm not ashamed. When I tell someone that I'm pansexual and they ask what it means, I jokingly warn to "keep me away from their cast iron" 😂🤣😂🤣

[@Misterdith]

my pansexual friend said they were making pancakes the colors of the pan flag and without missing a beat I said "oh, so pan- cakes" and their eyes lit up like that was the greatest thing they ever heard.

[@Unicorn-yu4pl]

As a pansexual myself I'm in the middle for the attracted to pan jokes I make them myself but if anyone I don't really like that much says it to me I low-key get really annoyed

[@HaganeKitsune]

As a bisexual, my favorite form of invalidation is when LGBT people learn I'm bi and try to make me feel guilty for not being pan instead, because I 'only' like men and women! \o/ Shoutout to all my awesome pan homies, I've never had someone who is actually pan do this lol

[@randomdreamer5429]

as a lesbian, i deeply apologies if any of my fellow lesbians has ever said that to you

[@Lincoln_Bio]

Weirdly I experienced just this sort of invalidation from a pan girl the other week, she couldn't wrap her head around bi meaning two *or more* it was infuriating

[@DogsandPennies]

Omg same! Except it’s people trying to tell me I’m actually bi. Just shush up and respect people when they tell you their sexuality!!

[@HaganeKitsune]

@@DogsandPennies YEAH. You'd think we wouldn't have to say that in our own community... 🙄

[@Lincoln_Bio]

@@HaganeKitsune ikr that's what really threw me, I think I'd naively assumed the straights had a monopoly on going round questioning people's identities haha

[@Guatemala224]

As a pansexual, never in my life have I felt more equally insulted and entertained

[@emeraldlily673]

I’m a “never had it said to me but I see it too much” Pan 😂 Although I do often refer to myself as a FryingPan or a Pancake lol

[@alphacote8690]

"You can't be friends with the gender you're attracted to" Me, an asexual: Hide your friends, for I am coming. I am the person your mother forgot to warn you about.

[@thatonepekokinnie]

As a pansexual/panromantic (questioning which one I am or maybe both) thanks for making this video!

[@jucom756]

8:00 i think that's the case with pretty much any identity and orientation. Haha, this ace stuff is so relateable, too bad i'm not tho.... i'm not tho? Have i ever even? Actually..? Well...

[@lonelypancake108]

I love the pan jokes sometimes I just wish people got more creative with them

[@RoseThePhoenix]

Deeply relatable. "So many options!" is the most irritating response I get to my sexuality. Like, yeah, except all the people with incompatible orientations, the people who don't want to date a pan person, the people who just aren't interested... (I'm very happy with my current adorable trans femme enby partner, but they're also literally like the fourth person I've ever been with.)

[@xx_ratfucker321_xx2]

If the pans don’t exist, THE LAWS DO NOT APPLY Technically, nothing would apply… FUCKING LEVITATION

[@enasimp8440]

rob a f*cking bank, since pans don't exist they can't arrest you!

[@xx_ratfucker321_xx2]

@@enasimp8440 YOU UNDERSTOOD THE ASSIGNMENT

[@loztandfound2708]

THE POSSIBILITIES ARE ENDLESS!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@xx_ratfucker321_xx2]

@@loztandfound2708 TECHNICALLY NOTHING AT ALL APPLIES! FUCKING LEVITATE

[@BenYork-UBY]

It's okay. We're used to the pan jokes by now. It's like our mascot

[@beckyginger3432]

I love Jamie's jumper! So colourful

[@akitoyaname7897]

Me, a panromantic that is single like a pringle since middleschool: well, i could have many partners, but i'm too shy and my face is a mooncrater

[@Angeliceskulls]

I'm a pansexual for the pan joke's as long as people understand the joke's are only joke's and not truths.

[@toebeans]

When I still had tinder the amount of notifications I would get because they had to send one for each pronoun 😭 like they don't know they/them can be used as a single and plural pronoun

[@giantpinkcat]

Everyone making Pan jokes. But no one's making Omni jokes about Omni-man yet.

[@cameron3786]

Ok

[@strawberryvixen4269]

I've called myself an omnipotent, omniscient, omnisexual deity before but that's a little uncreative in itself / basic imo

[@solar.mp3]

i’m attracted to omni man 😩

[@Rynnbee]

There’s kinda a division within the pan community; people who like the frying pan jokes, and people who HATE IT (me)

[@Alex-jx1er]

I’m so proud to be a spud

[@neurotic_werewolf_83]

I love how whenever there's food mentioned, Jamie's so into it. Hard relate, am mostly motivated by food 😂

[@Bongthroat]

Once at a house party I fell asleep on a guy's lap and woke up to him explaining his pansexuality. He said that if he was into someone and they transitioned he would still be into them because the body doesn't matter. I kept my eyes closed and pretended to still be asleep the whole time but it was so sweet and heartwarming. I'm mid-way through my transition and hearing someone say that really, really helped me to be less scared about future relationships.

[@NotRanboo]

My thoughts on the pansexuals liking pans jokes, it’s more ok if a pan person makes the joke -you local pan-lover

[@12thLetterOfTheAlphabetA]

i 100% agree lol and i’m tooootttaaalllyyyy not responding to this because i found another pan, dsmp fan… definitely nooottttt😅😅😅

[@paranoiid_corpse]

hello fellow dmsp fans :D

[@12thLetterOfTheAlphabetA]

@@paranoiid_corpse helloooo :)

[@sridurkaamiksa2487]

my people have been found

[@12thLetterOfTheAlphabetA]

@@sridurkaamiksa2487 YES! THERE ARE MORE OF USSSSSSSSSSS

[@azurepowers2516]

I love frying Pan jokes as long as the person making them realizes that it’s not actually true

[@JamieMars11]

I’ve made a pan cake before!!! It was an actual cake with three layers in the colours of the pan flag!! :)

[@the_unholynjh3513]

Years ago my friend made a joke about how pansexual means you literally love everything and that our pan friend had a crush on a basketball. My 10ish dummy self believed every word and was just like, 'ok, I guess that's how love works.' I should've figured out I was aro sooner than I did.

[@alexturner774]

I'm a guy dating a girl and our relationship is the least straight straight relationship ever

[@jilliancrawford7577]

6:40 Yes! Thank you! I have had way too many schmucks insist that I couldn't claim to be pansexual if I didn't find them hot or didn't wanna make out with women in front of them for their entertainment! This has been the most annoying exchange I've experienced with someone about my orientation, but it's still headache-enducing!

[@grmpEqweer]

I'm pansexual, or an "equal opportunity employer."

[@fionafiona1146]

*Glucose guardian gifts*

[@Andromedaaa_]

I was a pansexual before becoming bisexual. Before I didn't have gender preferences and I wasn't so interested in searching things about my sexuality. Then, I slowly developed a female preference and I discovered more things about the LGBTQ+ community. I am still glad I was pansexual before because it helped me a lot to get that I like girls too 🏳‍🌈 I love other pansexual fellows btw 💗💜💙🤗💗💛💙

[@regularly_priced]

I love your videos Jamie! Ever since my AFAB best friend came out as a demiboy, I have started watching your channel as well as some other KZbin channels owned by trans people to try and gain a better understanding of my friend’s experience. So far your videos have been very helpful! I learned a lot of new terms and I understand gender dysphoria a lot better now. It’s so sad knowing that my best friend experiences it, but hopefully once he gets top surgery it will get better. Anyway, thank you so much for informing people on this topic-it’s very helpful.

[@kioku119]

For the pansexual culture one about transition: I'm guessing what felt so wrong is the person's gender never changed so loving them the entire time has NOTHING to do with being pan. If it said before and after they figure out their trans that may have worked.

[@lysanamcmillan7972]

There is an unfortunate belief in parts of the pan community that they are the only people who are attracted to trans people. There are so many people of all other orientations who have stuck by their partner through their transition and loved them the same. This includes bisexuals, who've been slandered for years as being transphobic and enbyphobic by that kind of pansexual. Honestly, I think Jammi blew a call by including that one. It's an insult to a lot of people.

[@kioku119]

@@lysanamcmillan7972 True. If someone lets attraction to trans men and women be the difference between bi and pan than they don't believe their gender is real, which I know I've heard of some pan people doing that. Treating before, during, and after transition as more than two genders is saying gender is determined by their appearance. Also when I said " If it said before and after they figure out their trans that may have worked" it's only really closer to working / only works if the gender was never a factor at all to you. It could be bi if their assigned gender and true gender happened to be the two you were attracted to. Then you got very lucky! : ) Alternatively you could be okay with a relationship based on love but with no physical attraction to the person especially if you were demi-ace or something. Maybe what it really could have said was: pan culture is your partner never having to fear that you might fall out of attraction with them as they continue to discover themself and their true gender identity.

[@Prickly_Cactus_1993]

No matter what you're going through, you made it this far already. I'm proud of you. Never forget how amazing you are. Remember that you deserve to be happy, to be yourself, to take a break when you're tired. Take it easy and never give up, you are not alone.

[@ihaveaname4109]

Thank you. You always put a smile on my face 🙂

[@mariaconnell610]

@@krimsonkatt Yep. And we appreciate them for it.

[@sanityidontknowher5057]

❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🖤

[@ukulily_]

0:22 I'm literally watching this on an airplane lol

[@justsomeaddict6380]

Nice 😎

[@mikaelasward674]

As someone who fairly recently discovered I'm pan, love the pan jokes! Or maybe I've just not been exposed to them for long enough yet.

[@sofiaboo6739]

they would be way funnier if people didn't stick to the same three jokes

[@lre863]

Me too lol

[@cristinaacosta8938]

In regards to your question, Jamie, I'm a personal enjoyer of pan (bread in Spanish) pansexual jokes, for the pure reason that they speak to me on a spiritual level.

[@nameless6512]

If you're pansexual, panromantic, or any other pan identity. The way you should come out if your family is by hiding in a cupboard with the rest of the pans and when they are near jump out with your pan flag and say "I am pan(insert identity)"

[@Shantari]

4:27 how about a pancake cake? (The main plot of a beloved Swedish children's book revolves around making one. Or rather the hassle to get the tools to repair the bicycle to get to the store to buy flour to make it. But the old man does pull through with making the pancake cake for his cat's birthday.)

[@kuhnuckles1]

There’s a company called Heckin Unicorn that has pancake enamel pins in pan colors! They have a ton of subtle LGBTQ+ stuff. I have their bisexual unicorn pin on my bag 💙💜💖

[@loztandfound2708]

Ohhhhhh I LOVE heckin unicorn! Their stuff is awesome 🖤

[@Ms_Davina]

I have their “frying pan” and “stack of pancakes” pin badges. They’re awesome!

[@-andystudio-4328]

The other day I was with my bstf, who is pan, I was cooking some eggs and said: “Careful, the pan its hot”. Xe said: “Yes ik, im gorgeous”. BEST LINE EVER, DONT EVEN TRY

[@wonieism]

haha! xir seem cool

[@-andystudio-4328]

@@wonieism Its Xir atually, ty for asking :)) Hehe and they are :))

[@orbracha25]

person: "who are you attracted to?" pan person: "yes"

[@DinosaurNick]

Relatable only for me it's: Person: Are you a boy or a girl? Me: No

[@icannotyoutubetoday2408]

I'm 2 months late but I can attest to liking someone before and during a transition. My girlfriend hasn't stopped getting more beautiful!

[@Darling.Cecilia]

bro like this amazing man inspires me to go on being a proud bisexual

[@GalactiCatzz]

I came out to my grandfather, and he said "oh god, now I have to lock the pans up!" I wanted to make so many jokes about being "banged" by a pan.

[@theredturtle4471]

Me a Pansexual: Sees Pan Also Me: Cooks Noodles

[@girlwithtehface5880]

Saucepan.

[@somebody4942]

3:45 Neptunic: sexual attraction to Neptune

[@zer0rebel4]

Autosexual: sexual attraction to cars

[@Jadyn_Sage]

As a pansexual I approve this video 👍🏻 🤣 I don't mind the odd frying pan joke, but too many gets old. The "everyone is out of my league" meme is literally me 🥺😭

[@Jammidodger]

Frying pan jokes in moderation, got it!

[@Warren-rr3hv]

​@@Jammidodger 1:Keep up the good work, MAN. 2:I swear, this is the only comment I've seen you reply to.

[@ravengray3095]

7:06 me as an asexual demipanromantic who was dating my boyfriend before he transitioned and he’s currently transitioning and not quite out to everyone yet and I still find him just as romantically attractive as I ever have and probably even more so cause he’s just such an adorable cinnamon bun who deserves all the love in the world :3

[@sylvaticaquercus]

Hey Jamie! I was wondering if you could also include the omnis at some point cause were like pansexuals but notice gender and normally have a preference, thanks ❤

[@_Lvserr_]

Pretty much the only one I love is “I didn’t come out of the closet I came out the cupboard with the rest of the pans” apart from that I’m over it 💅🏻

[@LinTheSnek]

i recently came out to my friends as panromantic, asexual, and started going by she/they pronouns. I am so lucky that I have such supportive friends.

[@DinosaurNick]

Lucky. I'm bi(poly)sexual and queerplatonic and Agender and use they/per/it pronouns and my boyfriend still calls me she/her and deadnames me

[@timotheeistrash]

I literally love Jammi, he is so wholesome and just an amazing person in his videos! He has given me so much more confidence and hope

[@supervegito8340]

Personally I like to make the joke “pansexuals must love nature since they find Pan attractive”

[@sammiehopkins9408]

7:07 THIS WAS ME!! My boyfriend at the time came out as trans while we were dating and I just went "cool! I still love you!"

[@emilysunaz9727]

I think the joke about being attracted to someone before, during, and after they transition could have been written with the idea that people people go from one gender to non-binary to another gender. And obviously this isn’t the case with everyone, but I do know of people who came out as non-binary before coming out as trans. I also have a friend who came out as bi, then a lesbian, and then as a straight trans guy. But I also think that the during aspect could be in reference to when some people start integrating more things that are usually worn or used by a different gender into their appearance but still have aspects that are associated with the gender they were assigned at birth. Or if someone starts taking hormones and things change about them at different rates, which could mean they have features that are masculine and feminine and androgynous. I think I get why it bothered you though. Have no idea how to explain it or put it into words though, so I just decided to put what I think it could’ve meant.

[@roselover411]

The second part is what I personally think is the case. I do think it's a bit odd of a thing to say though, even though I think I get the spirit of what they mean. It sounds kind of like you're attracted to the trans person's gender(s) rather than the person they actually are. Most pansexuals I know will say that gender doesn't matter, they're attracted to people without needing to categorize them into different genders. So saying that you're attracted to the same person before, during, and after transition the way they do doesn't sound like they're saying they like the person as a person, but that they like the various genders they are along the way. I'm sure that's not how they meant it, but it just comes across a little weird.

[@dianaburn2474]

@@roselover411 A good point, I can see it. I interpreted it a little differently. I didn't see it as "being attracted to the gender," rather, I saw it as attraction to the person themself not being changed by the physical changes of transition. I saw it as saying "while a lot of people focus on physical attraction, it doesn't effect me in that same way." But, I can understand being uncomfortable with it, it was worded a bit strangely.

[@roselover411]

@@dianaburn2474 Yeah, I assume that's what they meant by it. The wording was just not ideal there 😂

[@user-ou9bu8op3o]

I want a pan frying pan tattooed now 😂 and I need that key chain

[@umangraghuvanshi7092]

new favorite comforting youtuber!!! i owe you my life king