Jarryl & Maddie Invite Me Inside Their Bando

This is a typical living scenario for many of the working women, drug addicted and homeless.

[@blastoise77]

Makes me appreciate the little I do have

[@margomazzeo1680]

Me too.

[@yayag.3694]

💜

[@blastoise77]

@@alohalivin556 amen to that

[@y2kallday665]

Same 👍 it makes me realize my life isn’t bad at all

[@violentJJ2112]

amen

[@nikkibarile2204]

God. I do not miss this. I used to live in bandos like this in Paterson NJ. I’m now almost 2 and a half years clean... #WEDORECOVER

[@ellioshiem7892]

well done....

[@alyssaxo1016]

Brings back horrific memories for me.... clean off meth now. Married with a kid. Glad I gave up that life.

[@CheekyBaby1984]

God bless you 🙏

[@kaylahmedina2452]

So happy for you god bless you ♥️

[@goldn909]

❤️

[@ivantheterriblepart3]

That’s awesome girl! God bless you and your family

[@justinharper5440]

Waa just saying the same thing but for me ita herion and crack

[@karentimek5905]

It took courage for them to open themselves up like this. They may just save one person from going down this road. I wouldn't last a day in there.

[@cd6243]

@@nickristene this video is as raw as it gets --they are very courageous to invite you in their living space-- this speaks volumes to you Tom 🙏 this interview hurts my heart 💔😩

[@cd6243]

They are Courageous for showing you their living space --God bless you Tom 🙏

[@andreaturnquist4855]

I agree! They are good people struggling with this disease called addiction.

[@andreaturnquist4855]

@Mark Lanton It is all over KZbin. I watch it to stay sober. That 10 dollars is helping me and many other people who struggle with addiction.

[@andreaturnquist4855]

@Mark Lanton I am an alcoholic. The struggle is real. We can agree to disagree. I was raised by 2 alcoholic parents and used to feel the same way as you. Unfortunately, I ended up just like them. I have lost everything because of alcohol. I hope 2020 treats you well 😁

[@2DeneaRashun]

Everyones concern is JUST Maddie. I pray for them both. They seem to really care for each other and seem like good people. I wish them the best of luck and and pray that you guys beat this! ❤❤❤

[@KaraLynnJack]

Amen!

[@caligirlNita94803]

@2denae you know how that goes & what people think right off hand. Its sad. I pray for them both and want the best for both of them. I would love to see them still together, sober and living well.

[@caligirlNita94803]

@@macneoh7418 Im a woman & agree with you. I see females get away with and end up raising F*ck boys for their girlfriend to raise.

[@2DeneaRashun]

@@macneoh7418I honestly dont know about that because I'm considered a beautiful woman and dont for a second think that men would bend over backwards for me. Jarryl needs that same push and comfort the same as Maddie and I've recently just watched their stories but want the best for them both. I know how hard it is, as a black woman in general, to make it. Just imagine a black man on the streets who wants to get out but everyone wants to help his girlfriend and just say f$@* him? I dont like it at all. I've never been there but know what death is like and dont want it see it from either of them. Fight the good fight Maddie & Jarryl. I'm with you. ❤

[@screeech1]

I'm concerned about them both.

[@hellziah9977]

Maybe you can blur the part where you show the view, not all people who watch are good. For their safety atleast.

[@hellziah9977]

@@anaiscatton4574 i have watched enough homeless people stories to understand that there are evil people who steal what they can, beat them up, burn them and might even kill. So for everyone to know where two of them live is just huge danger to them.

[@epipd5712]

@@hellziah9977 I really wished they had not shown anyone where they lived..Maybe they can pick up and find somewhere else, I sure hope so.I really like them both a lot.

[@vegancheetah]

He could care less

[@Sarahstarr1000]

Please go to your dads and be in your kids lives now. You deserve so much better.

[@charlottewaldrep2807]

She would have to detox first she can’t just stop

[@Sandyb121770]

Charlotte Waldrep ~ that will be a huge hurdle. And 2 hard drugs. My daughter was addicted to Herion. Stayed clean 4years. Looked great. Got everyone back in her life, would’ve gotten her degree in May 2019 but relapsed 12/1/2018. (Straight fentanyl ). The last 4 years were the best and we got so close and had so much love & respect for one another. That shit changes people forever. Yes they can & will do better but the addiction never goes away. For her it didn’t.

[@mimimc8685]

@@Sandyb121770 I.am so sorry. My ex. started drugs after an injury he had always drank to excess,then drugs . 38 year marriage his kids and grandchildren gone. He lost a very nice 4dr top of the line pickup that was paid for, title loan. He lives in a home I bought I moved to be closer to kids. I was angry for so long,now I am sad for him. He had everything, the greatest loss ,his reputation and good name. Your daughter ,my ex husband and so.many of us left in the wake of destruction. God Bless you and your family

[@charlottewaldrep2807]

Sandy Sweeney my best friend I watched turn from occasional pain pill to Iv heroin she has relapsed multiple times methdone clinic is so far been a lifesaver for her but ur right she’s not the same she still tells me she gets the urge to go buy a ton of heroin and kill herself far away from any possible Person that would try to revive her. It breaks My heart I love her like a sister but helpless to help her

[@bthechange1545]

Sandy I am so sorry. Never give up hope. I agree with what Donnie said below .

[@fluffyhead6377]

His drink is frozen, Jesus help us

[@cd6243]

💔

[@cd6243]

I saw his frozen drink too 😩

[@jaehi8930]

Its better then no drink there's always someone thats doing worse then them even on there worst best day

[@sierra734]

Fluffyhead obviously they didn’t get the heater 🤷‍♀️

[@fluffyhead6377]

Sierra Baby they probably don’t have the electricity, they should look for a parafin heater.

[@cynderella5627]

Wow, you guys have to get out of there. You have a little nest but you can get really sick down there. Get to your Dads Maddie and Jarryl go to your Grandpas house. Make 2020 the year of a better quality of life. At least try.

[@2DeneaRashun]

Well said.

[@nikfeijen]

They dont read this

[@cynderella5627]

@@nikfeijen Yes they do.

[@cynderella5627]

@Traon Ally From their phones. So give them words of encouragemnt.

[@cynderella5627]

@Traon Ally They talk about it in some of the videos. Tom knows a lot of them watch their videos.

[@ShelBeezy69]

They like that lifestyle... If they didnt theyd go to treatment... For the amount of money they CLAIM they spend on drugs, they cud get it together...ALL the people they know.. Friends/family... Nobody will take them in? Well theres a reason for that... I dont feel sorry for them one bit

[@ChosenWon]

No one asked you to. Get lost, loser. They could both be you.

[@Michael-fl1tm]

​@@ChosenWonor your mama, potbelly Tom

[@thefirebreathingduck7386]

What amazes me is they are always so cordial and inviting, despite the conditions they are enduring every day. Hope they can stay warm and get support during the holidays. They are good people and deserve better.

[@bruceflora8975]

They get a few bucks

[@andreaturnquist4855]

Compassion is lacking in my opinion. I am praying for them!

[@laurashook85]

Drugs=death. Plain and simple.

[@laurashook85]

Obviously they learned to be "open and honest", playing on people's pity. Nope. The buck has to end. They will only survive if they take individual responsibility and seek independence.

[@laurashook85]

@k gb your statement doesn't make sense

[@shawnyarborough5981]

Not gonna lie.... this makes u wanna put everything down. Weed, bogies, alcohol, bummy friends.

[@G59denise]

Shawn Yarborough fr

[@kass_G59]

Bogies?

[@peachlife5118]

I swear 😭😭😭I threw out my little weed vape that I kept for weekends after watching the movie "Basketball Diaries", drugs will fuck up your life for real. Even though weeds medicinal but still. I still need my morning and afternoon bogie (cigarette) though, its okay in moderation hehe

[@felixramos3078]

I am so glad, I joined the military pretty much right out of high school. I think, it probably saved me from a lot of troubles. I still remember when my Army Recruiter asked me, "if I have ever done any kind of drugs?" To which I answered, well I have smoked a joint here, and there. That's pretty much it. Then he replied back, "Well today you are quitting! Because, the first thing they are going to give you when you get to MEPS, and Basic Training, is a urinalysis." He was right. So, that was the last time I smoked anything. Believe me, I didn't joined the military, to get kicked out because of drugs. It happens all the time.

[@jacobblue1985]

@@kass_G59 cigarettes

[@deezcheney9730]

Can almost guarantee Maddie had an eating disorder before she started drugs. If true, she will never go to rehab because she knows she will gain weight.

[@1w598]

She used to be overweight, but why do you assume she had an eating disorder? Weight is the last thing on her mind. She couldn't care less about her appearance right now.

[@deezcheney9730]

@@1w598 Because I had an eating disorder which led to me continuing using things and it is common for women who destroy themselves alike she is to have childhood trauma that leads to eating disorders, anxiety and depression which then leads to alcohol or drugs abuse. Dual diagnosis is almost a guarantee with any addict since they began to get rid of that empty feeling and not to "party" as some put it. You think she doesn't see herself every now and then? Really? Even at my absolute worst I still saw how messed up I was but couldn't stop. Was terrified that I was going to die or worse (since there is worse even if death is the end- a lot of suffering before that will happen and you die anyway) It made me scared to gain weight in rehab as it did for almost every single girl there. It is COMMON and I can see it in someone's eyes after my own experience. Didn't claim it to be 100% since cannot know for sure but pretty positive. Most addicts do have eating disorders believe it or not.

[@jennysweet5793]

@@deezcheney9730 You're correct and no one believes me when I say women started out feeling fat could never loose weight and along comes vicodin/opiods guaranteed weight loss plus good feelings so why would you want to give that up? You won't.

[@deezcheney9730]

@@jennysweet5793 Yes, losing the weight was the first thing that caused me to start using any kind of drug. It had a lot to do with trauma from childhood, started drinking at 11yrs old and each time they show addicts on tv back then they were always skinny and I thought people wouldn't be as cruel to me if I was prettier. The anxiety and need to lose so much weight I'd disappear almost was the catalyst to all that I did to myself later. And that began because of abuse. It makes me want to be stable enough to help as many as possible get out of that mindset earlier than I did. Even stopping at a young age, was still disabled from the amount of damage and it's way harder to make a decent life when your youth is wasted that way. Takes years to feel fully in control again, and just comfortable within your own body.

[@gypseenomad3956]

Maddie call your daddy, go to rehab.

[@michelleramirez2443]

Maddie can only save Maddie, it's not Jarred's fault that Maddie can't get off drugs...Jarred is cool, ppl blame him for this, that, etc,. I wish them sooo much love and health. They HAVE TO WANT TO BE CLEAN. As much as I pushed my husband to be clean, nope didn't work. One day a counselor told me, "your husband has to make this call regarding sobriety, not you"...... He's clean now. Stay safe Maddie & Jarred. I think about you two a lot. Maddie, the beautiful soul she is, and Jarred the upbeat person he is. Take care.

[@andreaturnquist4855]

So very true!!

[@andreaturnquist4855]

@@jamiemarie4894 My children are being raised by their father's due to my alcoholism. I pray for all of the addicts who are still suffering.

[@maria199736]

I think jarryl beat the shit outta her..

[@bazthespaz95]

@@andreaturnquist4855 I sincerely hope you get through this and turn everything around. I know you can and I know you want to be with those children, best of luck, Andrea 💕

[@andreaturnquist4855]

@@bazthespaz95 Thank you for your kind words! I am doing far better than I was.

[@ShelBeezy69]

Brushing ur teeth helps

[@ChosenWon]

Get lost.

[@jay-up6bk]

they told you to take this video down! take it down now! weirdo

[@earlkingpennypenny8173]

MAN I WALKED AWAY FROM CRACK 7 YEARS AGO AFTER 30 YEARS OF SUFFERING. BUT GOD SET ME FREE!

[@SunshineSarah74]

Maddie please quit making excuses and get to rehab now!!

[@SunshineSarah74]

I think he’s the reason why Maddie won’t go to rehab cause he has her working the streets for his drug problem also!

[@caligirlNita94803]

For the people who always put him down, you can see that he clearly loves her. He didn't judge her because she does a little more than him. I would love to see them together, drug free and strong.

[@aliyah8765]

Cali Girl 🗣💯❤️

[@alyssaxo1016]

Cali Girl if he loved her he wouldn’t let her go sell her body for drugs.

[@truthseeker8615]

no way that is not love ,thats dependancy

[@brookem4904]

It's called codependency. Many of us addicts are in codependent relationships. Just because you love someone doesn't mean they're good for you.

[@sierra734]

Cali Girl didn’t Maddi take the beating for him because he ripped off the dealer again , that’s what another lady said in interview.

[@lisabomhardt3057]

In another Video yall asked him to take this one down an it is still up an running

[@ChosenWon]

Mind your own business.

[@HRaeN]

This is so uncomfortable to watch.. Imagining myself in that situation makes my stomach turn. I'm sitting at home on Christmas night with my kids, my husband, and my dog feeling so lucky for what I have. I don't think I would want to live if I was in that situation away from my kids. Or if one of my kids were living that way... God I would never be able to sleep thinking of them on the streets like that. And the scary thing is that its become normal to them. I really hope they can get it together and Maddie can live a normal life with her children.

[@breannaguerra5866]

Happens all the time

[@anaa1113]

I also pray for Jerryl ♡♡♡ and Maddie ♡♡♡

[@cd6243]

@@anaa1113 me too 😩 I'm from Detroit and the winters are so cold I can't imagine sleeping out in the cold

[@coredadventure1]

It's not about luck it's about choice.... It's very sad

[@queenjadedrose6922]

Haley Nighbert the crazy thing is they’re comfortable talking about getting clean in front of eachother. I hope they survive this and can still be together. The struggle they endure together is much worse than anything a normal relationship endures

[@kushlitsupremeo3571]

Damn man. His drink is frozen from the cold weather smh

[@keiswrld]

KushLit Supreme O I don’t know if that was supposed to be funny but I’m weak

[@kushlitsupremeo3571]

@@keiswrld if it made you smile I'm cool with that. No disrespect to them

[@Vanlifemotivationmedia]

KushLit Supreme O That was so cool to say , your a good guy man .

[@kushlitsupremeo3571]

@@Vanlifemotivationmedia thanks brother.

[@adrianclemons6581]

This breaks my heart and angers me. I lived in that house with my son and my granddaughter, my cousin just so happen to be there and woke us up. We got out with our night clothes on, no shoes nothing. It caught fire because of squatters next door in burnt out house trying to stay warm 😢. I be so happy when they demolish it... They gotta want to help themselves.... They been living in abandoned houses for at least 5yrs as I know of....

[@ShadowsMasquerade]

It really is you! I was reading the news article on fox2detroit about the burning house next door.

[@litemuptee5192]

I'm sorry that happened to ur home. Thank God u all got out alive and safe! Material items mean nothing, everything in that house that mattered that night walked outta there. Again, thankful ur all still here

[@JessicaGail]

Adrian Clemons I’m so sorry this happened to your home, and I can’t imagine how surreal it feels for you to see your home in this state, with people using it as a drug den and apparently, a bathroom. As a former addict myself, I have empathy for them, but I also have empathy for you. I hope things are going well for you. I can’t imagine losing a home.

[@ivantheterriblepart3]

I’m so sorry this happened to your home. I pray for brighter days ahead.

[@TMNTLeague]

Do sorry about your home love but thank God you and your family got out alive. My thought and prayers are with you! Sending love and support!!!❤️❤️❤️

[@tdoggo7614]

That actually an interesting urban exploration Tom. Credit for building their trust and sharing their story. This really shows how powerful addiction is.

[@PumpkinSpice1960]

I understand the addiction and how incredibly hard it must be to get clean. What i dont understand how they can lower themselves to live in the filth . That alone would make me want to get clean. Im not trying to be mean but everybody just sugarcoats everything they do as if its ok. This is not ok, it is disgusting and the possible lowest anyone can get, they have other options but just choose to live this way because they like it. Its laziness and irresponsible and selfish. What about the kids? Thats who I feel bad for.

[@chrislewin2332]

I am 100% rooting for these two.

[@debinpa64]

Me too 🙏

[@andreaturnquist4855]

Me too!!

[@josegeraldo8534]

Me too. I am from tô Brazil.

[@noddinn7160]

Seems like they’re always “looking into rehab” or always “waiting on a couple phone calls from rehab”

[@missphoenix21]

I agree. They dont want to change... not yet at least. I know it's hard but at this point They just tell people what they want to hear.

[@inksmith3019]

Bout to say the same. They say whay this man wants to hear hes paying them for their answers drug addicts dont always have the real answers their heads are so clogged

[@cashtaylor9804]

Ikr! Why doesn't she go to her dad's? Or both go to her dad's OR his grandmother's? I hate to say it but, I don't think they want help... "yet". They are codependent for sure. I was thinking, why don't they clean up their little area in that house? I mean if it were all I had, I'd at least be clean!

[@inksmith3019]

@@cashtaylor9804 yeah I hear that!!!

[@kima3161]

Exactly it’s bullshit right? Been to rehab myself. Never waited over a year for a phone call . They need a intervention

[@ladrenajenkins1006]

Action speaks louder than words if a person really want to get off drugs they would do it I myself was addicted two drugs and alcohol I got tired of living on the streets I decided to change the way I live now today I'm nearly 15 years clean by the grace of God

[@christa7773]

Truth. As an addict you learn what sort of things people want to hear. You tell them "I'm trying to get into treatment" because you know they are tired of you living in the same hell day after day. You say it because you wish it were true. But when you're ready to be done you don't talk about it...you do it. They aren't ready to be done yet. I pray they find the desperation to change before one or both are dead. I am only alive and sober today by the grace of God; and that same grace is available to them as well if they choose it. Congratulations on your sobriety! They say it is beyond anything you had ever dreamed of during your active addiction...they weren't wrong. 💕💛

[@kaymathis7894]

Good for you!

[@alacollins5483]

La Drena Jenkins I totally agree bc I struggled w drugs not injecting them but still struggle w pills is all the same or maybe not to some anyway, I wanted different it literally just hit me one night after a hospital stay from overdose! I literally seen my self lying on my friends bed, I believe w all my soul I died that nite my soul left my body bc I was outside my body and I was like floating above my body in corner I could see everything in that room and I woke up next day! I remembered everything and decided I needed help! The lord helped m! I’m blessed I still struggle we all do w something but I have home a child a boyfriend of 10 yrs and my money goes to bills child groceries and just everyday life! I hope they decide that there worthy of better life and to pray bc the lord will answer of I truly believe or want a better way! The devil is as real as god ppl and the devil loves this! Anything to distract you from love anything good or god !

[@cindybowe3813]

I'm happy you were strong enough to get clean.

[@bellpruitt1286]

you can't even spell the right too ... not everyone has your lifestyle... a lot of people are driven by family members and bonds they want with others... some have nothing to be driven for

[@vulturez1750]

I don't know why I got this recommended to me but DON'T DO DRUGS KIDS!!

[@TB-xw3vo]

This is shocking! I didn’t realize they lived in this bad of conditions

[@melissarose2593]

Maggie Oakley maybe I’m naive too but honestly I was shocked. I didn’t expect allll that garbage

[@ctearlybird1676]

N J its not as bad as other places they have a nice set up

[@obscured9414]

What'd u think. Love to Kno. Lol.. wow.

[@cloudyns]

This is nothing compared to other places. Trust me in some places not only is it horrible but you can feel the the demons around and in the people.

[@NotLikeUs17]

You should come to downtown Los Angeles and really have your mind blown.

[@karlag8671]

i work at a hospital in michigan wish addicted individuals would seek some of our servces to become clean😔😖

[@KaraLynnJack]

@Alison Jason yes, please explain how you get help through a hospital emergency room for an addiction problem if you don't have insurance or even Medicaid ? I have a loved one that needs help

[@ms.e9393]

Hope your place of employment help as many as they can...this is really sad girl!

[@amputatedveteran9724]

No one is taking anyone in due to covid. We tried putting someone in a mental acute just to get him shelter

[@0._9_.0]

Jarryl gone kill her one day.

[@garritygal]

My addiction is food. I need to lose 100 pounds..But I sleep in a nice warm bed with lots of blankets. My grandkids come over on the weekend and we do arts and crafts. we camp all summer up north and swim in Lake Michigan. Sometimes we go to Florida for a month camping in our camper. MADDIE, there is so much more to life than getting high and living with garbage and rats. I am not judging you. I said I am addicted to food. Breaking free of any addiction is awful but not impossible. I don't even know you and several times a day I wonder about you and Jarryl. Are you safe, are you warm? I will continue to pray for you both. Ask God to help you. so many strangers care about you guys. What is your dream? Reach out for help!!!! Let's both work on our addictions!

[@RM-kx6qv]

❤️ I am a fitness instructor & meet so many people with food addictions. Your honesty touched my heart. With Gods help all things are possible, I am 12 years clean now (meth, alcohol) I give all the glory to God for any success I’ve been blessed with. I believe in you. One day at a time. ❤️

[@hannah-mariachisholm8082]

This is such a loving message. X

[@pianogeek1465]

With drugs you can remove yourself from the environment but you have to be around food. Even if you only buy healthy food to have in your home you still have to go into stores and be surrounded by all the bad habits. The smell coming from all the restaurants. Anyway I hope you lose the weight

[@garritygal]

Thank you. Shopping is a challenge. I struggle with wanting foods that are not healthy. I walk past candy or ice cream having an internal debate on whether or not to buy it. If I walk away without it, it is a victory. If I give in and buy it the pleasure only lasts for the moment then afterwards the hate , remorse and disgust for myself begins. Thanks everyone for your kind words. Virtual hugs to you all and especially to Maddie and Jarryl

[@garritygal]

💖💖💖

[@skinnybear5743]

Wow, her looks have deteriorated since the summer, big time

[@MrJhchrist]

/pulls bag out of his bed "These are some hamburgers they gave us next door" "No those are definitely doughnuts" "Oh, those are so nice people" Drugs are bad, addiction is sad, but that was just funny

[@karenperkins106]

She's Not Ready Bottom Line..She Keeps Talking About Checking Into Rehab, But Hasn't Done It!, She Have So Much Support Including Her Dad & Strangers!..IT'S NO EXCUSE NOW!!!..Why She Gotta TRY & Go To Dad?..smh😞😞😞

[@davidwile1277]

Some people cant be saved as sad as it is.....some people love drugs over anything

[@karenperkins106]

@@davidwile1277 I Don't Even Know Her, But I'm Willing To Pick Her Up, Take Her To Rehab Or Dad's!!

[@davidwile1277]

@@karenperkins106 that's very nice of you and so would I...I've been to rehab and know the struggle...some people you can help over and over but the addiction can be to powerful some get through it and survive.....I've been clean for 2 years but I'll be an addict till the day I die

[@Flatleava]

They not gonna make it broke together like that damn

[@karenperkins106]

@@Flatleava Those Living Conditions Are Horrible, I Don't Even Wanna Think About The Smell!..That Alone Would Make Me Wanna Do Better. Damn

[@kasswilso1859]

Sometimes I wonder if they are just telling you what they think you wanna hear 🧐🧐

[@haleyantunez2419]

They do

[@almightysosa4894]

9 out of 10 times its all bullshit.

[@LA-yo9jk]

If we allow this to become the new norm .. God help us. Dont desensitize yourselves and think OH This isnt too bad.. YES!!! IT IS REALLY BAD!!! 😳😢 All humanity can and does deserves better.. ❤🎆🎇

[@ChosenWon]

You nailed it.

[@calvinmurry1096]

There are detroiters paying rent who live in homes just like this. All over inner city Detroit.

[@LA-yo9jk]

@@calvinmurry1096 Not good!!! 😠

[@bthechange1545]

100% agree!!!!

[@calvinmurry1096]

@@LA-yo9jk now just think. Those of us who live it every day, year after year. Those of us who must walk past this accumulating decadence on our way to school. Those of us who toss and turn in our sleep, anticipating a burning building so close you can smell the tar. Those of us who dread summer when the partially eaten cadavers begin to smell. We have not grown accustomed nor callous. We are simply gripped by the fatalistic thoughts of when, not if, we are next. Of course those in gated communities who ask their sheltered kids what they want to be when they grow up will never comprehend the inner city kid who say he just don't want to get shot. And the parents who can't explain how a city could shut off water for nearly 20, 000 detroiters. Certainly their situation is shocking and deplorable. But so too the elderly lady on a walker and starving because no elevator service for many of the hud senior building. We all know the smell of rot and death. They are quietly carted out of these senior buildings and buried. We are not calloused. But we also understand: Arbeit Macht Frei. We are screaming at the top of our lungs--asking for our fellow americans to put down the phones. And come to the inner cities across the nation and see what is really going on. The hepatitis. The aids. The skyrocketing death rate. The abuse by government officials elected on a promise to protect and serve. But noone is listening. Noone understand the Palantir system that is turning brother against brother. Sister against parent. These are no drive by. These are families falling apart and turning on each other. Of course we see this couple sprawled in debris. But we have been beat down. That's the real reason behind detroiters not voting. We have been beat down. And we are losing hope. Do like tom. Come talk and see. You don't need a camera. Or money. Just genuine concern.

[@dimechick]

Maddie has changed so much physically. Just watched her channel, she looks like a total different person who took a turn for the worse. Now in every video her face is constantly contorting, and there’s no talk of rehab. There’s still hope for them. Addicts do recover. Prayers to both her children, my sympathy is for them. Winter is around the corner & this is the life she chooses to live.

[@travissmith3170]

What's the name of her channel

[@dimechick]

@@travissmith3170 Maddie&Jarryl Owen’s is their channel name

[@deezcheney9730]

Always hope to stop but not to stop already permanent damage.

[@pontificaterebal677]

I already felt bad- now I feel worse.

[@cashtaylor9804]

I don't feel worse for them. They can at least be out of the weather... rain, snow! I didn't say it was warm but, dry.

[@orlandogarza7496]

If they ever want to quit drug's,they have to brake up the relationship and stay away from each other. being together is a trigger to each other, they'll never quit.

[@ChosenWon]

Thanks

[@doordash5832]

Truth be told, they are co-dependent and trauma bonding... They are only a thing because they are both addicts. If Maddie was to get clean, she would leave Jarryl!

[@karlag8671]

its sad i live in michigan and there so many homeless people n addicted people living in those vacant homes😔

[@sarahh367]

It is everywhere..

[@stephaniehall5095]

me too.. i live along the ohio/wv border.... the heart of this horrible epidemic. there are people living in my woods across the street... its sad and scary. people on the corners begging for money with signs.... our towns are broken....

[@__-gn3tp]

Why so many abandoned houses?? Why do they not knock them down? It’s not like anyone will go back living there. It’s dangerous to create a neighbourhood of abandoned houses. Why isn’t the government doing anything? I’m from the UK so not sure how these things work in the US

[@breannaguerra5866]

@@__-gn3tp that's funny find out I'm in the u.s rough

[@Googirl8]

@@stephaniehall5095 I was born in wheeling west Virginia but I moved to Michigan

[@ickisOblina]

A real man doesn't ho his woman out. That's not your man maddie...you're his cash cow.

[@ivantheterriblepart3]

I agree 💯

[@BossHossStudios]

exactly... he doesn't want her to get clean because she provides the drugs....

[@lilkalhed5584]

Fucking simp

[@ickisOblina]

ok guy named “kalhed” LMAO enough said.

[@lilkalhed5584]

Stefan Poulos she’s not gonna let you smash you SIMP!!

[@beepbeep9043]

Her boyfriend seems sweet. Honestly this is weird but as an addict it’s honestly kind of sweet that he goes out for her when she’s sick. I hope they get help and she gets on methadone. They both get into rehab and get warm again. They were so welcoming and open with him.

[@niamhgillvarry1569]

Same here good luck x

[@ShelBeezy69]

Ur crazeee... He also beats on her

[@mikewinkelman7015]

I really hope they get better lives so they don't have to live like that they deserve better no one should live like that

[@aimeesportfolio5149]

i was addicted to heroin and methadone qnd ive lost half my teeth. im in college now making straight As! im majoring in videogame design and animation.

[@georgiaalderson3900]

@@cloudyns why?

[@psychedlicsouljam1995]

I could never take half of somebody's drugs and money and call them my girlfriend. Thats garbage behavior. Horrible treatment. I never took this from men. I have been in bad situations but I rather get arrested and sober up and stay in shelters than put up with that. I mean shelters don't help you stay clean its a whole lifestyle.. ill just say props to them for being able to put up with that cold and still be able to joke around.

[@amber22431]

Bando? Is that short for aBANDOned ? Wow. This is SO sad. Atleast Gerald isn't trying to keep her w him, he said he wants her to go. It is good to see Tom giving these people a voice.

[@defoperator7993]

It's a term that became popular in trap music cause drug dealers will sell drugs out places like this

[@kellyedavis7785]

🤦🏾‍♀️

[@daveyhafley]

God, please help your children. Thank you for helping me.

[@pla4825]

I have compassion for these people I hope they are able to get clean and be okay

[@sarahbearah00]

I had an negative opinion on jarryl the first video i watched, i am grateful to have some insight now because he is just a human with a sickness and i pray for them both to wake up one day and realize they are not gone yet that they both still have their souls and laughter and can get out of where they are at , thank you for your videos

[@TheEfeham325]

I wonder, if he were white would you have had such a “negative opinion”?

[@sarahbearah00]

@@TheEfeham325 yes it was the cat video lol no color involved, like where does this hateful bullshit come from, people like you are horrible you dont know me, humans are humans regardless of how they look

[@sarahbearah00]

@@TheEfeham325 if i wasnt white would you habe posted lmao fuck off whith your troll bullshit

[@cee_willy]

It’s not crazy for her to wonder what exactly made you distrustful of Jarryl before knowing anything about him..

[@dreamingtree6093]

Of course you did. At least you admitted to being a bigot. Work on it.

[@mimimc8685]

I have no words to describe what I saw. Heartbreaking that human beings live like that.

[@deannabanana9766]

I've been watching maddie's decline the last few years. Do you guys remember how beautiful she was? Her shine is gone. She is such a pretty girl but you can literally see her face twisted up, gums drawn in, this stuff really kills who you are. So sad. Beautiful girl get with your family to get cleaned up. Both of you can reunite clean. ❤

[@morningmist6739]

Jarred drink is frozen..That must be so cold in that bando.Guys get to rehab & save your lives.Your worth it!!

[@davidwile1277]

Some people dont want help

[@davidwile1277]

@@brittaolson6550 but its true

[@janejaneymack3386]

Maddie and Jarryl happy Christmas to you both from Ireland 🇮🇪🍀🍀🍀 I’m in recovery I know how hard it is. I honestly wish the best for you both. Maddie you are so pretty I hope ye both find the road to recovery and a better life. Stay safe and stay warm Lots of Irish love to you guys

[@darkobakula5190]

I think the problem with most addicts is they ve forgotten how to deal with stress and emotions and deal with it drugs. Without drugs, they just cannot handle it. It takes tremendous willpower and repeating to oneself not to do drugs anymore. Its best not to push someone to quit and stress them out. No passing judgement, critizing them, making them feel worse, just making conversation and letting them keep trying to quit on their own.

[@ChosenWon]

Great comment. Thank you.

[@jjchick95]

most ppl dont know how to deal wih stress and shit or dont WANT TO. plus, most of us addicts have mental health issues and either need medication and cant afford it, or just dont want to deal wih it. i have depression, and it is THE worst shit in the world. its not that they just dont wanna deal wih stress, its that they dont know how

[@hanzwusrt6755]

Thats Just Life how jt should be...not Stress on anything Like a House Bills and such...Just your addiction to live with...

[@djholliday4413]

Did anybody else catch his comment that they already have to split the money from her dates "2 WAYS"??? Just checkin.

[@omgvids321]

Noone seems to care about the black guy.

[@karenperkins106]

You know why?, Because He Goes To His Grandfather's House, Get A Meal & Probably A Shower Also, But DON'T Look Out For Her!!!

[@officetechtyping]

@@karenperkins106 she is a grown ass woman. If she likes it, love it.

[@screeech1]

I do....I care about both of them.

[@vickicarnes6860]

Not true

[@KittyKittyBangBang249]

I do as well

[@cracked29]

To Maddie’s Family: Please continue to visit her, and push her with kind words to seek treatment. Thank you for her phone. ❤️ Call her as much as you can; let her know her children LOVE her, and that she has VALUE she has lost out there. It may take time, yet the best news is hearing her say she is still in contact with you! I am a SW and have faith that Maddie can overcome this, only with her family backing her, and her leaving this area completely. She has many people praying for her, but I hear her plea. Don’t give up ~ all my love and best. Katie❤️

[@andreaturnquist4855]

Well said, Katie!!

[@rickythompson1402]

WELL SAID KATIE.WHATS SW?

[@misslo8374]

@@rickythompson1402 social worker

[@dniemi150]

The worst thing you can do to an addict is to abandon them

[@blooove19]

People can’t blame HIM for her problems. They both are deciding to do drugs and be there.

[@daisychainmilk]

Why is everyone only concerned for Maddie? This guy looks like he needs help just as much smh

[@geehvf3173]

In a previous interview they were recalling childhood memories, and jarryl describes, with a smile on his face how he stomped a kitten to death, and got another cat addicted to drugs. Im not positive, but i think thats why they arent fond of him.

[@daisychainmilk]

@@geehvf3173 Do you have the actual link to the interview? Also, he was a child...Children do not know better when it comes to animals. If you do not teach a child how to treat them things like that can occur.

[@geehvf3173]

@@daisychainmilk yeah here it is: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fneWpq2KgMSGe80 He mentions being abused in the interview aswell. That could explain it? Idk. What do you make of it?

[@daisychainmilk]

@@geehvf3173 I don't think the abuse of animals is forgivable, but he was a child and like I said alot of kids do things like that. They both need help.

[@erinnicole3170]

@@daisychainmilk omg what kind of kids are you around??! Stomping cats to death is NOT a normal thing for a child to do, nor getting them hooked on drugs.

[@jojobee42]

Yeah, this is heartbreaking, but what did people expect? Girls who work the streets, selling their body for $20 (sometimes even for less if they're dope-sick enough!) - if their addiction has gone *that far* they're doing that to get their next hit, then how do you expect them to live?? In some nice apartment somewhere with A/C and Netflix? These are women who've even abandoned their children because of their addiction - yeah they're that far gone, so I don't really understand how people expect them to live. And YES, I have compassion for these people! I know how drugs are and what they can make people do - addiction is a devil that takes over the soul and doesn't let go...

[@JP-md8fp]

Jojo Bee her poor kids especially at Christmas. They must know.

[@gerryivan5957]

@@DaveH-10 Ohhh you again Quit making comments on subjects you know Jack shit about...ie: addiction

[@piecesofapril2436]

Jojo Bee Facts!

[@gerryivan5957]

@@DaveH-10 I'm an addict myself (16 years) and it surprises me cause you come across as having no compassion

[@trishasparklesaustralia485]

Wouldn't put rat in there

[@ChosenWon]

Yeah you would. Look where you live.

[@jennysweet5793]

@@ChosenWon 😂

[@goldenchild3019]

Jarred can fix himself up HES not a ugly man

[@mikeycroker3480]

Not at all. He’s a very good looking man. Very

[@Timma-ss8rx]

So if he was ugly he couldn't fix himself up? Shallow asf

[@heidid5270]

Heartbreaking

[@darrylwalker237]

Heidi Boals it really is

[@gemmint77]

The human body sure can adapt to many different things and places. Merry Christmas to that couple.

[@facewilson7907]

Jesus I thought I was watching the Blair witch project when they went into that bando

[@Maxine-ep4nt]

BrownMumba panda I know that place looked so cold.

[@KaylaNicole01]

Heroin definitely can cause your teeth to break/ fall out. I was a heroin addict for 5 years and had 1 tooth break and fall out in that time just eating bacon bits in a salad 😳 I've spent so much money since getting sober to repair the damage to my teeth. My heart just breaks for this couple. Getting clean is the easy part, but to stay clean and deal with all the consequences your addiction has had on your physical health, mental health, your finances, your relationships with friends and family... is the hard part. I could never imagine trying to do it in their position. So I want to say a prayer for them, Dear lord I call on you today because I need you to help this couple as you've helped me lord, I pray for strength and healing for this couple, I pray you watch over and protect them as they are trying to fight the demon inside them, I ask you to surround them with your love and allow them to feel that same love for themselves, open their minds and their hearts to you, and help pull them out of this darkness so that they are able to live in the light, oh lord. Amen🙏

[@dreach4057]

i never liked kelly, not even her first videos she didn’t seem genuine, would never trust her

[@dreach4057]

Tasha Harris a good person is a good person regardless of the things you go through, yes her loss probably led her to fall into a deep hole, but she can still be a good person. most of the girls in tom videos you can tell are genuine good people although they are hurt too for the things they’ve been through and are still going through. Kelly is just rude and a manipulative liar

[@dreach4057]

Tasha Harris no one with a good heart would let their daughter fall into the dark hole with them, if she knew how much drugs f*ck up your life she would of kept her daughter far away from them or at least try her hardest to keep her away from them. she introduced them to her daughters, that is pure evil. I am a mother to a babygirl and i will always protect my daughter with all of me.

[@Linda-cq8yk]

pretty sure they asked you to take this video down

[@BlxckOutBoyzProd]

Heroin does indeed eat away at your teeth. Doesn’t matter if you shoot it or smoke it

[@samanthap.879]

This is heartbreaking. I keep up with Maddie’s story always in the hopes that she goes back to her dad and her kids. She’s ruining her life this is no way to live 😪

[@whendis.roberts6817]

Maddie..Maddie...Maddie...Your supporting him. Not good. Get help

[@JanelsJoint]

Heroin definitely affects your teeth...mine are all broken off at the gums ...my 6 months sober I'm getting them fixed ❤️

[@ChosenWon]

Congratulations.

[@rhondacollis3954]

She finally said she was sick & tired! It’s about time she is honest with herself. I hope she goes to rehab. She really needs it. I’m so blessed & grateful for everything I have. Praying for you all!

[@jordanalandry1866]

@Enlightenedone1111 you're truly enlightened lol I'm being serious though these people suck

[@MJP1472]

These videos are quite brilliant. It seems that most people choose to ignore that there are many people living this way.

[@sarahlussier1608]

The lifestyle is deteriorating their health. Lack of sleep, lack of water, poor hygiene and poor diet. Yes the crack isn't good for your teeth but that's not the main reason for their issues.

[@karlag8671]

sad i knew a young man who was down on his luck living in one of those i used to help him by letting him crash at my house😔

[@melissainaus7955]

How the hell can they live like that then get on there live chat or Sharon’s live chat and put shit on other people.

[@patricialynn6280]

That was 3 yrs ago, did she ever go home to her babies at all?

[@ChosenWon]

No. The babies are fine and doing better without her.

[@johnnoneya7149]

Looks like that money for the heaters went right to the dope man

[@andreaturnquist4855]

@@leeandreross5494 Well said!

[@andreaturnquist4855]

@@brittaolson6550 No it becomes needed just to survive.

[@michelleramirez2443]

Of course ... did u think it would go anywhere else??? These ppl want to send them $, it's on them. We all knw it's going straight to feed the habit. Sad. But, so true.

[@andreaturnquist4855]

@@nickristene So true!

[@claudiablair6619]

I would never send them money. I would send them things they need. But also I'd be scared they would try to sell it. So you're better off just sending really warm clothing. You know they will use it.

[@ambedo_bass]

I really hope these two hook up with a writer or author and make a book about all the crazy stuff they have went through in their lives - i feel it would be so interesting to read. Especially because they come across as such genuine normal people, just went a bit astray from the right path.

[@MERLINnecrofan]

Thr basement is the coldest place . Then again there is a ton of holes and shit up there so it's probably worse up there now that I actually see the upstairs

[@kaymathis7894]

Getting sick of the excuses . .especially when there is help available. Sometimes hard love is the best

[@amputatedveteran9724]

Sometimes help is hard. My wife and I tried to put 2 homeless people in ANY kind of facility. Rehab / homeless shelter and they are not taking anyone in due to the Covid. Not sure if you ever been that low in life. But when your weak, vulnerable and have giving up BECAUSE people view you as a POS straight judgement its really hard to do anything.

[@daynelagapesullivan4606]

There is usually a waiting list for rehab... anywhere from 30days to over 6 months

[@MM0SDK]

Exactly the same in the UK when you are homeless. Drug users with a home will let you stay but you better give half of all your drugs and sleep with one eye open. That was 2001 for me, i've been clean for 11 years now and settled in life finally.

[@carolgeorgeson9632]

Ive been there done that with the drugs ..i quit for me and my kids. If you have someone to help you out Take it !! They must love it there ..in the worst part of my addiction i still helped my children

[@daltonpetticord71]

Tom it's very nice of you to give these people voices in the matter by raising awareness to those not apart of it and those struggling. But be careful please, I don't know how you trust random people like this! Otherwise thank you for all you do to help these people

[@geminisabah]

I would clean up all that trash

[@fgonzalez78959]

Sad..I have a daughter and this would break my heart to see her like this..

[@mariamchami2769]

Maddie genuinely seems like the sweetest person EVER her personality is 10/10 Ive been watching them for a while now and I wish the best for em

[@avoniahestle261]

@Miriam Chami you should watch them now trust me you’ll have a change of heart the drugs have destroyed all moral compass

[@dammitmandy1166]

You should see them now. The comment above me was right. And that was 2 years ago She’s a big scammer. Lies lies and more lies. She was so sincere in this video. That’s why people liked them. Damn how times changed. She treats Jurryl like a child. I think the channel is Maddie’s journey to success. Stop in and say hi. But don’t tell her the truth you’ll get blocked. And she’s gonna beg for money. Constantly

[@judithveley2790]

It just boggles my mind how certain drugs can change someone’s mental status so much to accept conditions like that. I hope they can make it to get clean if that’s what they’re wanting to do. You have to want to clean so bad that the desire for it overcomes the need to use to get rid of the sickness. A hard and sad part of life. I pray for them to stay safe. Thanks for the interview Tom.

[@thebengalauto]

She made me yawn few times along with her

[@angelabrown7182]

I bet Maddie is so malnourished that doesn't get pregnant

[@charlotteruse158]

When drug users come down their body wants sugar and all you crave is sweet stuff. ALOT of it. They binge eat and go back to bed and eat and go back to bed. Not floss and brush and go back to bed, lol. All that sugar sits on your teeth and your teeth begin to rot. Yes, genetics lack of nutrition blah blah contributes to the problem. You have to be almost fanatical about brushing and flossing. Most aren't. Although, you would think after seeing many people with black rotting or missing teeth they would be.

[@joshlink2129]

No....

[@thomasriddle2397]

@@joshlink2129 thank you

[@joshlink2129]

@@thomasriddle2397 this chic is obviously misinformed... Lol

[@joshlink2129]

@@thomasriddle2397 there's fluoride in the water to h help with all that sugar I eat when I'm dopesick LMAO.

[@thomasriddle2397]

@@joshlink2129 I'm gonna say she has never been dope sick.... Non drug addicts that tell you what its like to be an addict are my favorite

[@niamhgillvarry1569]

I no it's an old video they still on the streets Wats up wit America in Ireland your put up get food money over there for homeless it's pure shit really it's fucking crazy

[@nattyjean7797]

Best wishes to them both. I hope they can leave this lifestyle together.

[@NRT1999]

This brings back SOOOO MANY BAD MEMORIES😢😢...ohhh I 🙏🏻THANK🙏🏻 YOU🙏🏻 GOD🙏🏻 EVERYDAY🙏🏻 for how my life changed🙏🏻💯😢😢😢🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@blessedforever1424]

Instead of giving them money for interviews can you pay for them cheap motel in the city for few days ?

[@misscarter8799]

And then what? They will be right back on the streets.

[@freethinkerdeb7547]

Miss Carter 😞 sad, but true. But, perhaps those couple of days could provide them with hot showers, and a couple nights of rest in a warm bed. I understand, it’s only a temporary fix. However, I can’t counter your reasoning. They have to really want to change. They say, you need to hit rock bottom...I can’t see how, this isn’t .

[@blessedforever1424]

Miss Carter Give them safe place to sleep at least .

[@blessedforever1424]

Deb S I definitely agree this is deplorable conditions smh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@blessedforever1424]

jonsmom1 If sleeping in filth , is better than having bed, water , heat , I can’t tell u .

[@hippocrate3036]

I was going to say, the cops wouldn't even bother going into a place like that.

[@jaggirl]

I thought she went home. Maddie please get out of there. Please go home..💚

[@sharkdiddy9241]

Just one more hit