3 Thoughts A Man Has When You STOP Showing Interest! 🙃🫣

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[@SherriMusick]

I need to do this TONIGHT! I’m done

[@DianeWilson-b5p]

Two wrong never make a right just saying

[@DianeWilson-b5p]

Sound Touching 🙏

[@normaespinoza1228]

A woman is done way before she ever leaves.

[@AxelLovesSomeone]

Truth

[@tiffany4951]

So true...Im in this situation right now

[@latyneyez1]

😚

[@glee105]

Exactly.

[@angelacarraway1811]

So true i was that woman and never looked back since the best decision I ever made I give the most high God thanks for that...

[@carlamitchell466]

My husband went cold on me bc he was messing with a jezebel from his pass, now that I have filed for divorce he doesn't want it but I'm done with his mind games and manipulation. I went to court today to get my default signature judge rewarded it

[@riasb]

Ou sis, God is about to bless you. Be ready 🌹

[@haitiqueen0119]

Cheers to you Carla, now shift your focus more on yourself. Implement self care as much possible. These people out here will never learn; sometimes the grass is only greener bc its fertilized with bullcrap! Totally his loss Carla✅

[@musicjunkieaddict6600]

Good for you. His loss. When you truely love someone you don’t risk loosing them. Best of luck!!!

[@sharonhorton31]

Yesss sister, stand your ground.

[@user-wu7oj2oj4b]

It’s always a blame game Take accountability in your part too

[@annsumrall2593]

He always said i deserve better. Come to find out I DO

[@macm2373]

🙌

[@sandrakasina4203]

Most insecure men say that....gal u deserve better

[@unrawcutunityincommunity]

Same here which I been knew it already..

[@allhailthequeen906]

Just PERIODT ‼️

[@MamaSherbear69]

Same! I told him you're right, I do!

[@TwilaB0721]

He's not thinking anything, he really didn't like me anyway since he pulled away so easily.

[@susanhampton9671]

HIs actions show everything. I told him I don't do casual relationships. I told him to move on. He said he needed to move on. We will see if he will contact me again...I doubt it.

[@ceecee811]

DERRICK THIS IS TRUE, BUT DON'T CARE WHAT HE'D THINK. I JUST KEEP IT MOVING ESPECIALLY WHEN I'VE GIVEN YOU A CHANCE & YOU BLOW IT. I'M JUST NOT FOR DRAMA & DON'T LET MY TIRED GET TIRED! "BY FELECIA".

[@prettypearls26]

⁠@@susanhampton9671….it’s not something your health will want to wait to see. If that’s guys response. Even if y’all get back it’s Gina be dead. The feeling you have right now won’t completely go away.

[@dmysterious61]

EXACTLY!!!...It's really that simple

[@Marian_Perry]

@@ceecee811”DON’T LET MY TIRED GET TIRED!” 👈🏽 That part!!! I hear that!!! 💯👏🏽

[@Truckhergirl]

Some men won’t respect any woman and it doesn’t matter what you do! He doesn’t define your worth because if you know you are a good woman then it’s his loss. Period

[@shaylanewlife]

EXACTLY 💯

[@elizabethsanchez145]

I kicked my ex to curb as soon as he started showing red flags. I only give 3 strikes and then ur out.

[@Kaylab5371]

Speak on that truth thanks it was my life

[@monir3275]

Men long for Respect...Women desires to be Acknowledged

[@LerdysGlam]

Reason I just walked away. My peace my energy is mines.

[@alitamodeste7256]

If they don't really care about you, its nothing to them if you've walked away

[@girlinthesouth850]

Yep! If he wanted to, he would!

[@janetroth782]

Very true then you didn't mean a lot for them and they didn't invest much emotions on you.

[@nicholeb2746]

It sucks. But it's better to know now than later...

[@user-iu6bv8vu8o]

If he went cold out the blue- he went back to his ex or got with the next- either way let the trash take itself out… 🗑️

[@TBirdBabe88]

Couldnt have said that any better myself.?? 😊

[@victoriousvirgo2898]

With the ex or the next I felt that well said thank you 👍 😊 👏

[@wanderingaudi4138]

Love yourself enough to be able to walk away, and walk away.

[@LovelyQueen_76]

And you forget. “stay away”

[@nicholeb2746]

I did.

[@terrigriffey4846]

It actually hurts like hell but you always see the true colors of someone sooner or later. 🙏🏼💛 you just have to pray 🤲 for them and always give it to the lord. I don’t know 🤷🏻‍♀️ about other woman but I’m tired of being treated like I’m nothing when I know what I’m really worth. ❤️💛✨✨🤲🙏🏼

[@BrendaBaBoom]

Right, you are worth it! That’s why using Emotional Intelligence (E.I.) is important in “seeing” the true colors of an individual before you invest in any relationship. Like another commenter stated on this thread “DON’T LET MY TIRED GET TIRED” …. avoid that possibility. 🙏🏽

[@Needahandle-d4v]

Unfortunately most of us don't know our worth

[@Needahandle-d4v]

@@BrendaBaBoom l love the fact you just mentioned E.I it's only something l have recently looked at and def gonna work on for the future!

[@Ame-vo4pc]

👍🙏✝️

[@marcelinaun3304]

You are complete in him

[@annatischner3500]

If hes interest is low, or non-existant, he will stop communication. Better that way so hes not wasting your time!

[@dr.judymurray1900]

A strong woman will understand how to create strong boundaries

[@JackofSpades175]

Set boundries, but dont bound yourself from true love

[@lindagiles9883]

Games equal “goodbye”

[@Blancamdiaz-rx4ei]

U KNO‼️💯❤️‍🔥⚖️

[@ladyk7317]

Exactly 💪🏾💋

[@judywheeler2549]

I'm not gonna invest my emotions into someone that's not emotionally available

[@lorenasilva5961]

I

[@ricquelricks5639]

I rather be alone then be someones after thought ....

[@shivangii102]

Nothing goes in a man's mind. They just don't care.

[@lashondalambrecht4566]

Ain't no fun when the Rabbit has the gun!

[@RoseBlack-eg4dv]

Cute

[@user-iu6bv8vu8o]

Yes!!!! Yes!!! Yes!!! 🙌

[@positivevibe7684]

I mentally detached because my feelings are being ignored. When i bring up something that is bothering me in the relationship, they make it about them in some way.😢 If nothing changes, I'm planning my exit.

[@lorettaknox154]

EXIT !!!

[@HaarelebaleDube]

That's emotional blackmail don't allow him to make you doubt your sanity

[@positivevibe7684]

@user-wl2so8wf5e Thank you...I won't. Not to make no excuses for him. However, in working on my inner self, I understand he is emotionally hurt by childhood and adult baggage. He's not emotionally available to help heal my hurt. Which some of it, he caused. Therefore, I'm choosing to heal myself through different channels. Counseling is one of them. I'm sure he may have hurt that I caused. How can I help heal the unknown. ❤️❤️

[@christine1962ful]

​@@positivevibe7684sounds like you are making excuses for him. You already answered your own query. You just need to take the steps in putting yourself 1st ! If you are in counselling, you should be on your own for a while and focus on yourself and get into a position that you are ready to take on a relationship.

[@empressniki11]

exit ...

[@cynthiathurman6991]

I am a woman and I’m asking you to please make more content like this!

[@christineribone9351]

He warned that he wouldnt be in it as much, so I went cold on him. Thanks everyone!!

[@BERNADETTEGARCIA-c7c]

NEVER GOING BACK!!!!!!!! TRUSTING IN GOD IAM WORKING ON SELF CARE AND PEACE 💗💗💗💗💗

[@TinaHarris-vh4uu]

I just let him leave. I stand my ground.

[@esmeraldayachting]

Unconditional love doesn't exist, men evolve throughout conditions👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@PdBrownhill]

A woman gets tired of not being chased

[@annetterobinson6439]

ABSOLUTELY TRUE. YOU FEEL LIKE YOUR NOT INTERESTED...

[@suem7500]

Not chased... Pursued.

[@nicholeb2746]

I just want to be a priority. If he aint prioritizing me, I'm done!

[@ebland64]

I’m doing that now. I’m the one falling back.

[@empressniki11]

CONGRATULATIONS 👑🌹🙏🏾...you deserve as good as you give...never settle!!!

[@JackofSpades175]

Yea sweetheart, and now your possibly lonely missing out on love. Dont listen to this crap

[@lindafuentes5152]

Yes , real love is unconditional but relationships aren’t unconditional they are all about reciprocity! You can love someone and not be in a relationship with them. Love and relationship are two separate entities!!!

[@carmosin]

I withdrew because cyclically stonewalled me, especially if I in any way was showing feelings outside of his control.

[@janelljenkins5190]

It’s important to know when it’s done.

[@sharonhorton31]

He has to be Consistent in all areas in my presence. If he's not responsible for his actions. Let him out free yourself, sisters.

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[@nicolemartin-pz1wl]

Amen Sharon 🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯❤️

[@brendadean9291]

I did gift my husband with my absence. I divorced him.

[@nic3715]

Very good bx it hurts

[@blesseddeshawna89]

😁WOAH🤐You SHOWED Him BETTER THAN YOU could TELL HIM...

[@jeanqmarykay]

He always detach and becomes cold and indifferent when he has a woman he’s distracted by. Then he comes back realizing what he’s leaving behind.

[@hopewilliams7081]

Don't be his safety net. Eventually, he'll find the one he wants, and you will be history and left broken. Don't take him back, let go, heal, and grow.

[@missy4915]

He comes back because he knows that even though he may cheat/entertain another woman you are not going anywhere. How many women does he have to be 'distracted' by before he realizes 'what he's leaving behind?' He sounds like a master manipulator...

[@Sandra.B]

He comes back because he hasnt been able to replace you yet...

[@cumanobles4166]

Yes too little too late

[@Virgolove]

He comes back because u allow it and he needs an ego boost. That's it.

[@gretchenguichard1623]

Facts!!! Thanks for being so real and raw.... You helping both sides. I have boundaries, I'm trusting GOD and not falling for the same old BS!!!!! I don't have time to throw away.

[@denisegassama6016]

Amen 🙏🏾

[@BERNADETTEGARCIA-c7c]

AMEN

[@BERNADETTEGARCIA-c7c]

Waiting on the Lord Jesus Christ not wasting my time no more

[@robertaford2127]

Some people are so broken, hurt & traumatized. Of past, or present brokenness Soul Ties Tumble weed spirits, strong holds. That have left them So gaurded stand offish. Yet wants the freedom to come in & out at his leasure. Kenship to a Narsasitic mindset. Only to pick you up When he / she Chooses. Very condiscending Manipulation... Only to pick you up at a later convenience. But this seamingly Narsasitic person... Needs to be in Control. Only because somewhere in his life He's become detatched, broken Insecure, underneath his drama that he presents a facad to you.

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Narcissistic mindset. Yes!

[@linetteluckett3795]

I'm done with relationships..after this 💯

[@saleenastone]

As an empath, my love doesn't hold anyone hostage to the expectation of love returned. I give love freely. My Creator fills my love tank. The only One who can dictate my value, which I find in my Creator. When you love someone so deeply, so truly, it is not that they have loved you back, it is that they have learned to love themselves more. Expectations and assumptions do not serve anyone. When you feel opposed, and you react in the negative in return, it merely speaks to where you are in your relationship with the I Am. So align yourself, remember who you are, where you came from and where you are going and that we do not get what we want, rather what we are. If we want love, we must become it. It is so lovely to hear another speak such words of wisdom. I am thankful this came into my algorithm. Appreciate your wisdom and time brother and may you be blessed overwhelmingly, abundant in all things, Amen 🙏 Ephesians 3:20-21, 2 Corinthians 9:8

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Ty❤

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Incredible response ❤❤❤

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Yes - Amen .. totally resonate with what you’re saying .. very ‘Course in Miracles’ … 🙏🏾🙏🏾💗💗

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[@shariharris6698]

I’m 62 years young and can relate entirely to this segment. It amazes me how age might or might not make a difference when it comes to dating and new relationships. Thanks for clearing things up . I really appreciate you Big Brother !

[@lindasims3877]

My brother… You are definitely spot on with this topic! Dealt with this, but the tables turned on him!!! Karma is dangerous!❤

[@TheGreyArea_LuLaKye]

I checked out. Anything blocking me mentally. Is a No Go. At some point ain't No more buttons left to push or conversion. Great messages

[@imspecial2286]

I'm an Old G, and everything he said is absolutely 💯 straight-up fa fa facts. It makes sense to me. Again, thank you, Internet Brother.

[@michelehernandez4217]

Players, Narcs, Hustlers, Gigalos, Grifters, etc...the men just go mean with you, to spend time with his other supplies, trying to use you for supporting the other women he prefers. SICK 🤢.

[@BERNADETTEGARCIA-c7c]

I got tired of the Disrespect

[@hawwasalahuddin9463]

Most men don’t understand that when a woman is emotionally invested, She doesn’t see you any lesser than you were when you did have the cash flow… if he remains ambitious

[@rjames9266]

He out here saving lives and teaching the masses! My God! Thank you for the free knowledge

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[@Blessed591]

When I left him I told him in no uncertain terms that I was NEVER EVER going back . He knew I meant it and has never tried to reconcile . . . I get messages from strange numbers which I block immediately. . . He knows. I am totally done . Totally !!

[@iamtaliba.divine.love1322]

I’m just done with all the nonsensical games…PERIOD!!!💯💯💯

[@angelarussell3948]

I withdrew because he kept hurting my feelings

[@kimm31]

Yeah then he says YOUR WAY TOO EMOTIONAL 😤

[@ZONDRAHARPER-i1q]

THAT HAPPENED TO ME IN MY LAST RELATIONSHIP. I NEVER ASKED HIM FOR ANYTHING OR TRIED TO USE HIM....I ALWAYS TOLD HIM TO BE HONEST WITH ME AND BE HIMSELF. I NEVER JUDGED HIM WHEN HE CHANGED AND COULDN'T KEEP UP THINGS HE DID IN THE RELATIONSHIP. I'M NOT TRIPPING!

[@DianeWilson-b5p]

Manipulation is really ugly

[@robbieharper1705]

The door was closed, because he wasn't invested in me.

[@Hardworkdedication777]

Yes one of my best friends use to always tell me let them miss you, don’t chase don’t jump to every lil thing.

[@temirarountree4553]

Why so many damn rules? It makes you not want to date/marry. The dating pool is full of games and manipulation.

[@esh2616]

He’s right tho

[@nomalangamkwananzi803]

Everything has rules, school, God, work, trying to find a job....are you gonna give up just because you have to pull your weight somehow. That's how the world works, nothing comes easy

[@karenbrooks3134]

O​@@esh2616

[@karenbrooks3134]

Just sick of the games .

[@missymckinnney]

It feels absolutely horrible. Hurts😊

[@heatheranndemar]

36 minutes of straight facts 🔥🙌

[@candyp.8220]

I found all of this out on my own through the experience and yes I am an empath. I am so happy to hear and see that there is a growing awareness of this dynamic.

[@sweetie932]

Healing is not a bad thing instead of bringing down the good people left in this world. # yes loss of safety.👍🏾

[@sonjacox4874]

Yup!!! Been there two many times brother! I was a "placeholder " until he thought he could do so much better!

[@angelamoore8161]

I was taking care of my mom and sister both transitioned …he said I did t have time for him… showed me he was selfish and had no compassion despite me being there for him for surgeries illnesses etc oh and I had asked him for flowers 🌺 and he said that was too much so I had checked out … he broke up with me on Christmas Eve… I did not and have not shed a tear 😢 since … 😅I know I dodged a bullet

[@kimcash2362]

I am going through this now. Have already done the cute off. Haven’t heard a peep.

[@Beautiful_Divine]

It’s called an emotional discard but not physically

[@ladybrandi1]

FACTS FACTS!!!!! Imma fall back I know my value

[@dr.hannah1155]

... falling back now! Actually I'm running 🏃🏽‍♀️! I found the exit portal!

[@janinenoreiga6749]

He went cold on me after I talked about to him about his lack of communication and so I did the same thing I stopped communicating

[@ceecee8924]

Ooop that's on him. There's no excuse to not communicate. My ex worked 10 hr shifts at Amazon and still texted me through the day

[@allapples]

Just happened to me recently. Bet it won’t happen again.

[@Wanda-f4w]

Constant disrespect equals "goodbye"

[@vettethomas5625]

Interest Holds Interest!!!!!

[@sandie4870]

You’re absolutely correct!

[@Shemmise]

This is really good. Straight FACTS 💯 Thankyou BIG BROTHER for always looking out for us.

[@kimsanders8262]

My friend and I kissed and then he called me and said I forced him and stopped speaking to me. He just wants to be a servant of the Lord, but we both kissed each other. When I think about it I just laugh.

[@trudy-annsmall9600]

He sounds like a christian player.....those are danger to a good woman heart

[@ariraquel4567]

😅 narcissistic smh

[@chanteynk7324]

If he can't take accountability now that you are not married, he will later blame you for marrying him, raping him to get pregnant and trap him with children. He will never take accountability until he repents of his sins.

[@rosemariecampbell7205]

Like Adam blamed mama Eve😢

[@dr.hannah1155]

He's afraid of what he felt from that kiss! Scared he's gonna lose his religion & backslide! 😅

[@BBsweetiepie]

When you try to push a good woman away, it will work because she will be gone and she will not be coming back. 💯🎯👍🏽 Meh!

[@April-dt8pp]

I already KNOW love is for other people but not for me...I DO love hard, but haven't been able to find anyone who loves me back the same. Thought I had finally found that at 51, but taking a closer look only reveals to me that he still has feelings for someone else, and even though he cares about me as a person, I'm not all that special to him....😢

[@anitammims9384]

Know that feeling well 😢😢

[@elizebethgoldman2156]

When we emotional pull away and no longer interested that is most definitely because we feel it's a waste of our time and our self-respect it's not getting anywhere and Turned off at this point

[@jenniferwisuri5724]

I

[@Goddess462]

Thank you so much for this seriously. I am so proud to say I am a healed woman. And I’ve never been in a relationship or had intercourse. These poor men are so hurt out here not willing to loose power and end up loosing great women like myself. I am ready to love but haven’t found any healed men yet.

[@godisamazingcandilove7270]

I Been through so much !!!! I closed my Emotions off and ghosted the ex and narcissistic mother !!!! Aways remember silent treatment!!!!!

[@babydii3487]

Pulling back is the best thing

[@marandaharville5206]

I'm feeling you!!! Keep talking

[@qianagray9399]

You were 1000 percent correct on this!! Thanks for sharing!❤

[@jessyon6274]

Yeah Narcs don’t discard. They Hoover! Fudge that!

[@kathywalker7778]

I love the "You're not nurturing the garden, you don't get the fruits". Truth! Don't test me! My fruit will be preserved and then go to a different "market".

[@Avirtuouswoman303]

Yes, you are correct. Especially a woman who knows her worth and who she is, she won't waste time.❤

[@deborahsmith-xg5ts]

10:35 pm. My ex husband actually became indignant, when he understood that I was dating again.

[@janicemohamed2754]

Why do some people think that you've pulled back because someone else is getting what they ain't getting, when in actuality they could be tired of the BS....

[@gloriacastro3939]

I wish I can say something but I can't but I appreciate you from the bottom of my heart God bless you I just wanted to say this person confusing me I just pray God to give me the discernment to do right decision, thank you so much.

[@ricquelricks5639]

It was made clear he has a lot going on and I am not a priority ... I respectful turn toward my other responsibilities and I no longer feel safe emotionally and neither does he. I understand it and I am ok. I am no longer interested in being on the roller coaster.... I have to much to get done..

[@kiarisby2471]

This is literally what happened in my last connection. His closed off energy made me feel like I should be guarded and closed off.

[@libralady1780]

This is Gospel.....Thank you for reminding me that we should recognize the 'behavior' ~ more than the words.

[@HaileysGiftShop]

Brother Derrick, I have seen one of your pieces of work previously and this one was just as good. I see that you consistently bring excellence to the stage. Keep up the good work!!!

[@jennydavy2027]

What I do not like is the constant shutting down so I don’t talk to him too

[@dinakindred]

I'm so glad Derrick is BACK BACK on here like this 🙌🏾 pull ah him on him 😂 I will

[@lindaclark3993]

OMG your every word I could cry... You know everything that is happening in my life. You can see in men and women's minds. Everything you say is so true x

[@DianeWilson-b5p]

Be true to yourself Amen☺️🙏

[@katricepittman8209]

Brother Derek I went through a lot with my kids father I went through so much that I love him and I was broken but I had to be strong for my children and I had got myself some help to make it through

[@MountainMama]

Wow! This is perfection. Your knowledge is deep! Thank you so much for the good work you do!

[@FoluFam]

Happening to me right now and I'm done. Life's too short to be flogging a dead horse

[@ACoolNewDay]

It’s all about building your addiction to them, bread crumbing you along and you never even see it happening

[@alaina8874]

You snapped with this message!!!

[@shelleymilford757]

Low self-worth people attracts other low self-worth people.

[@tahatisiapack9213]

Yes.... I'm in this exact position now.. I stopped showing interest. Just decided to put into myself with what was released

[@barbierozita]

You right! Speak on it!

[@user-red29]

I really needed to hear this. I feel like I found the one, but I don't feel like I am a priority.😢

[@ceecee8924]

Yea you need to leave. Id rather be alone than feel like I'm not priority

[@jitzadiaz2770]

SHe realize she knows her worth

[@Unfold818]

You nailed it. Thanks for revealing the nuances that many omit 🙏