Catfish FAMILY Affair | Ramon & Paola

This episode has been requested a couple of times, and I quite honestly forgot just how iconic it is. It's one of the early episodes that, in my opinion, truly put catfish on the map. It also showed MTV, and viewers just how unique this series is. There are way too many messy episodes where families are involved, and this is yet another to add to that list. This is one of the very few episodes, where both the person being catfished, AND the catfish are equally to blame. Everything about this episode (Season 2 Episode 3) is so wild, and rewatching it made me realize that I had forgotten just how wild this episode is. Now, I have highly controversial opinions, so of course I'm excited to hear your thoughts, feelings and opinions down below in the comments. As per usual, if there are any other episodes you'd like to see me cover, please don't hesitate to let me know down in the comments!
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[@inbou4531]

it’s the way the contacts are just solid blue. like there’s no shading or mixture of colors 😭 it’s scary

[@RachelMishael]

😂😭😭

[@RachelMishael]

Horrendous!

[@Asha15770]

it's giving zendaya in dune 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Sketchnificent]

It’s giving PlayStation one graphics 😏💅🏾

[@michaylavr8241]

Some game of thrones white walker shit lol

[@ravenna_lorraine]

Why can’t I find a man whose love language is cold hard cash? 😭😭

[@thesuperioranonymiss]

no literally

[@pixelatedbaddie2242]

i found mine and havent let go of him since 😫😫🩷

[@ayangktmtu]

Those are called sugar daddies lol😅

[@taviikelly6408]

“But what about Ramon” girl we not even talking about him rn stay focus

[@jaydahope]

LMFAOOOO literally💀💀💀

[@keramiller823]

Catfish posted that clip on their KZbin like 3 days ago I was laughing at the noti

[@djanime317]

“BUT WHAT ABOUT RAMON?!” IDK why that always takes me out 😂😂😂😂😂

[@jaydahope]

It's just so funny for no reason, and to me it's one of the most iconic Catfish quotes of all time. It's up there with "you should've never called me a fat*ss kelly price" LMFAOOO

[@djanime317]

@@jaydahopeYES, one of many iconic Catfish quotes 😂❤️‍🔥

[@singergirllove101]

This is one of my favorite episodes because of “BUT WHAT ABOUT RAMON?!” like idk why its so funny to me but it really makes the episode

[@madi6alvan]

THE LITTLE SIDE EYE SHE DOES

[@TylaStark]

Daaaaang how do I get someone to give me their bank info?!?! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@jaydahope]

As soon as I find out I'll let you know friend🫡🤭

[@rockettcassia]

I did it lol the guy gave me all his banking info but i wasnt dirty with it i asked first or he just sent me money…

[@Menno0183]

“Big Loyda” You make her sound like a crime boss😂 idk why but I can’t stop laughing

[@jaydahope]

Please LMFAOOOO you're right, it does sound like that💀

[@isthisfake.]

LMFAOOOO

[@hiccup61]

The Kennie JD quote gets me EVERY TIME. I really hope she sees these

[@ComradeKitty]

UUUGGGHHHH, this one got me so heated, solely because of the mom's reaction. . .

[@jaydahope]

I totally understand the urge to protect your child, but she took it wayyyyyy to far

[@P34chy5c0n3]

@@jaydahopeat that point you’re not protecting your kid your protecting your own delusions and your image

[@Irenemimi]

yall dont judge me….but it seems like he called catfish just to get a free flight to see her. Like he knew it was her for sure for sure, but if he calls catfish, they handle the payment and everything for the flight and accommodation (DEF JUST A THEORY)

[@alyssabrown-carleton6173]

My theory is that that's most of the catfish, especially if it's the person

[@P34chy5c0n3]

My exact thought!!! I don’t have the money to see her so I’ll use them to see her maybe they both thought it through but still deff planned

[@ihcasos]

I feel like a lot of ppl do this😭😭

[@Irenemimi]

@@ihcasos honestly…shi i would too. FREE RIDE??

[@rockettcassia]

Yes but if he sending her money constantly he has the funds

[@astridmyst]

Early Catfish was so different even though so much of it stays the same. It's really interesting going back to these old episodes.

[@P34chy5c0n3]

Max just filming the women crying like 🧍🏻‍♂️🤳 bro I couldn’t help but laugh

[@jaydahope]

💀😭

[@sp00kyg1rl]

@@jaydahopemax is such a petty king for that 😂

[@jadebirk5957]

It was the mom catfishing Ramon cuz she's more emotionally involved😂😅

[@MissShiniSato]

I could believe it

[@DreammyNightc0re]

That's what I was thinking, I thought it was odd the mol seemed to care way more than her daughter like why is she so invested in this???

[@papayanyia]

Max’s camera after Ramon confirmed everything she said was true + Nev looking stressed TF out are sending me 😭😭😭 thank you for reminding me this episode exists lmaooo

[@jaydahope]

Their reactions were so funny and so genuine💀🤣 they were equally sick of Ramon. Thank you for being here!!

[@idrk1014]

What kills is me she’s really not even ugly imo she’s acc pretty it’s crazy how much self hatred these catfishes have

[@casswashwash1070]

He probably just wanted a free flight. Otherwise you know how ppl are about bigger sized girls so if she was insecure its not crazy or out of left field.

[@idrk1014]

@@casswashwash1070 yes but im saying she don’t gotta feel that way she’s literally pretty like her post update she looks so much happier and glowy

[@Neicywoods]

Max was soooo annoyed w/ Ramon. Hilarious

[@junelotuslies7610]

The little Kenniejd clips always make me smile! Seeing two of my faves in one video feels amazing after a long day 😌

[@alientingz7733]

Right!

[@missebone]

Her mama was no better and couldn't accept the fact that her own daughter was scamming him

[@shutupnvibe]

Truth. She was enabling her for sure.

[@rexthepup]

Yes there are people who do that in Japan you can quite literally rent a family to pretend to be your family you can even rent a girlfriend/boyfriend

[@nataliepompi8567]

Anyone from japan who has witnessed this in the comments and has an opinion on it?? Im curious

[@DreammyNightc0re]

​@@nataliepompi8567the youtuber CdawgVA has a video about renting a boyfriend in japan I recommend that

[@veronicajaworski2558]

Why on earth would this boy sign himself up for this amount of embarrassment

[@jaydahope]

It's truly a mystery

[@Long_May_They_Raine]

“You’re about to be locked in the basement!” I screamed, let’s- not go the way of Ruby Franke 😭

[@jaydahope]

Oh lordddddd💀💀💀

[@cmdchic4life]

You gotta do the one where the guy gets his hair rip off…😂😂

[@ghostflxwer]

That was foul

[@kay5999]

Omg............pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee÷eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeAaaaaaase😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@marguerite_jaune]

@@ghostflxwerso foul..he yanked that hair piece off so aggressively he took the man’s thoughts and prayers along with it

[@jaydahope]

That one is on my list!! It's so messy and confusing😩

[@Smiley03416]

YASSSS

[@scoutmaccas]

The way I JUMP when you upload

[@caseymarie625]

Literally tho

[@Knight0fFire]

Kinda reminds me of that other catfish episode where the catfish was sending the guy a bunch of money. She came clean about being a catfish and he called her ugly or some sh!t so she said she was joking. But the guy never told Nev and Kamie that they video chatted and he just didn’t want to believe it, and she was just sooooo lonely so she kept it up. Super sad

[@irisiulia]

didn't that guy also have an irl gf??? that ep made me so sad :(

[@Knight0fFire]

@@irisiulia I dont remember if he had a rl gf or not, I’m gonna rewatch it now. It wouldn’t surprise me though because he was such a turd… well a bunch of the guys on this show are turds lol. The poor girl must have some sort of depression, my heart really goes out to her and I felt so bad watching it. I hope she’s doing well and found real love. It’s season 8 episode 6 William & Jamie on Hulu for anyone that’s interested

[@Knight0fFire]

@@irisiulia yes! He does have a real life girlfriend, she was the one that wrote into the show.

[@MissShiniSato]

I remember this! And I wanted to fight that man for the girl 😭

[@Knight0fFire]

@@MissShiniSato it’s such a great Kamie episode because you can tell she has soooo much empathy for the catfish and straight up says “f*ck this guy” and “you ain’t sh!t” to William. 😆

[@TheKimbino]

Ramon a lil slow for me girl LMFAOOOOOOOO

[@Cozylittleamber]

The mom is the type to believe that their child can do no wrong.

[@prefumegenius]

YES people pay for that type of thing! Its usually called “the girlfriend experience”. A lot of my SWer friends have done it.

[@s.keeton3795]

What is SWer?

[@lordtette]

​@@s.keeton3795 xes worker

[@baoziday5178]

​@@s.keeton3795 s3x worker

[@lastilnovista]

18:50 yes, paid companionship is a thing! it’s called sugaring 💕

[@tabithawaite3632]

Yes ma’am! Also the OF girlies call it GFE or girlfriend experience. It’s like they roleplay being someone’s partner basically for a day or so.

[@lastilnovista]

@@tabithawaite3632 the “OF girlies” didn’t invent GFE, lmaooooo. that’s esc0rting code language. it’s been a thing for decades.

[@robinking6342]

Ramon is crazy as hell

[@Taayooo]

I swear, every episode of Catfish just outdoes itself!

[@user-wf9wx9go8g]

I honestly believe the “Mom” was in on this COMPLETELY. Especially when she got so heated about Max and Nev stating that Paola was not being truthful and LITERALLY said (or yelled) “WELL-WHAT ABOUT RAMON”!! I adore Max’s trigger word being “WHATEVER”!! Yesterday at my local grocery store, an employee busted out with “WHATEVER” and all I could think was No!! Where’s Max when we need him?!?!

[@maddiesharpe7118]

This man really screams Rob Kardashian. Like why is that Rob Kardashian😭😭

[@imperfectblkgoddess99]

21:00 big jada and lil jada would eat so bad lol it would be too iconic 😩

[@jaydahope]

Okay!!! Bestie you see the vision

[@sistaonthemove]

Sis so good to see you last night and I am so very happy for you with the growth of your channel. ❤

[@jaydahope]

Ahhh thank you so much sis, you've been here since day 1 and I appreciate you❤️

[@teacupolous]

GIRL I just got home and now I have something to watch when I make dinner. You always got us! ❤

[@camerynr8344]

same 😂😂🙏🏾 the only reason i haven’t binge watched her videos is so i can have new ones to watch every night 😫🩷🩷

[@Whoknows688]

18:59 absolutely lol its called buying the GFE = girlfriend experience. Musty crusty guys buy that on spicy sites. There was a dude that murdered his whole family after sending a cam model 6 figures in usd for that experience because the family tried to separate him from the cam model. They are down bad.

[@anayawrites2221]

do you remember his name thats crazy 😮

[@Whoknows688]

@@anayawrites2221 Grant Amato. The true crime channels have all the details and buddy was/is a very sick puppy.

[@Noeladore]

Luv your little giggle at 26:23 😹😹

[@mystykal6485]

I absolutely love it 😂

[@sweettaterfries]

Her giggles always crack me up they’re so cute 😊

[@chloegardner6336]

The comment about the blue contacts 👀👀 😂 that part! It’s giving “I think I’m passing” 😂

[@cau1471]

The mother not giving a single eff about her daughter catfishing and scamming people is so... wild to me. Like im 25, and if i was scamming men out of money on the internet by lying and my mom found out, she would still beat my ass

[@suan333]

Oooh and hope she doesn't make you give it back double 😂

[@misstea2007]

Coming from somebody who lives in bullhead im not surprised you have never heard of it 🤣 I'm normally a silent viewer but I wanted to say I really love hearing your take on all the catfish episodes!

[@juliak4218]

These videos are so much fun. Also if you thought Ramon giving out his bank info was bad (which it is), check out season 8 episode 83 with Cody and Brittany.

[@naikahara]

At first I thought that giving him the real girl's Instagram was crazy, especially if she had a boyfriend that she could post with at any moment, but after learning about how deep in denial Ramon was I think it makes sense that Loyda would be a little sloppy in her catfishing. Like she was actively trying to reveal herself to him and Ramon just wouldn't let her, it wouldn't matter if she was being believable or not cause he would explain away everything she did anyway. Istg these people give me a headache...

[@bratalina]

he probably thought that they were gonna skype the girl in the pic with him so that he could shoot his shot at her

[@indiagarcia4143]

Catfish has always been a staple in our household! Me and my sister used to watch all the time and we will say some funny one liners to each other and at least once a month we say “ sorry to tell you Ramon!” 😭😂😭

[@briceidaperez5856]

Honestly you're my comfort youtube channel. if I have a bad day i'm watching your channel

[@trianenopenottrian9108]

Yes people pay for companions either friendship or pretend to be their girlfriend outside sex. I personally do it like they pay me and we chat or I pretend we are dating but don't touch. I even play video games with some of them and am their gamer GF. There's aps for it.

[@TylaStark]

Getting paid to game with them?!? Hell yeah! Get that bag!

[@sophiabalounsi7832]

what apps?

[@lordtette]

how do I sign up? I knew about paid companionship but coupling it with gaming is interesting. That's a vice doc waiting to be made. I'm Aromantic but shieeet for a good price i can be your gamer gf - till the timer runs out.

[@nightly._4779]

THE CLIP OF KENNIE J.D OMG I LOVE BOTH OF U

[@brennamurray296]

Your little microphone is such a slay you look like the baddie catfish reporter you are girl 🤩

[@DanielSantosAnalysis]

I agree with you about Ramon, dude was on some next level delusion and just didn't want to accept reality. Even though the catfisher did some wild stuff and was rightly criticized for it, I still felt more upset at Ramon by the end of it, the guy could've won the Olympics with all the mental gymnastics he did to justify his behavior.

[@Deedeex2.00]

the kempire clip took me out 😭😭

[@jaydahope]

I love him so much😭

[@kaileycocoa1]

21:06 “lil Jayda and lil lil Jayda…I like it!” took me out! that was such a Scorpio way to say it too I love it 😂

[@jaydahope]

LMFAOO now that you mention it, it was very scorpio of me🤭❤️

[@nakiyajourney]

PLS KEEP UPLOADING THESE I LIVE REWATCHING MY COMFORT SHOW THRU YOU! my comfort girly🥺

[@alencian8675]

I think you should definitely take a look at season 7 ep 33 Kaden and Adriana. They met IRL first and THEN started talking online.

[@yesseniaurbina5169]

The way she said “WHATEVER” the second time while widening her eyes sent me

[@tiffanylaverdad245]

They definitely deserve each other 😂

[@ashaltman]

thank u my fav underrated queen for the bedtime story

[@elonevora]

Most people in the U.S. have never heard of these obscure places/towns either lol

[@faneyt9894]

Hey Jayda can you do season 7 episode 34 Taylor & Christian... Girl Nev was pissed at Taylor and I loved every minute of it 😂🥰

[@Stylistmichaelangelo]

You did NOT hold back on this episode and I LOVE it 😂

[@sanaai6525]

Idk if you’ll see this but YES, Catfishing is definitely a fetish that online sex workers sometimes cater to. There are even people who pay sex workers for “roleplaying” anime characters (like animated pics and everything or just straight up AI). I definitely believe some of it is part of financial domination (aka findom) with some extra.. bits to it.

[@MSANTHR0P3]

I'm named after my mom, and one of my daughters is named after me❤

[@deeriggs3319]

Me too ❤

[@AmzyCastillo]

Actually, I believe that in some states getting money under false pretenses, like pretending to be someone else, is considered illegal and a scam so she could’ve done time if illegal in Florida or his state

[@jayleencruz5837]

The mom said she gonna stick up for her baby regardless if she was wrong or right

[@KatSheep]

To answer your question about fake relationships and paying for them, yes there is! I think there was even an anime made about it called Rent a Girlfriend!

[@jessilynthomas]

You crack me up! It’s like chatting with my girlies! Love your content!

[@blue30827]

"In love" aka they only like their appearance

[@mackenziechristman5949]

“Big Lloyda” has me CACKLING omfg

[@KrisC12]

Lolol I live in deltona I had no idea it took place here! Catfish episodes in 2 areas I lived in (NY and FL) so you can see the dating prospects aren’t great 😂

[@Ruler_of_all_the_rats]

The queen has posted 👑

[@xxpandahaloxx]

Perfect timing I just got off work 😝🫶🏽❣️

[@Meandsushiroll]

Lol the blue contacts I feel you

[@its-hannaH]

I love these videos so much ive literally just been checking all day to see if you’ve posted yet 😭

[@ariana4_4_4]

LMFAOOO THE CONTACTS THING, i remember this girl i grew up with both our families hispanic, she showed up to school with blue contacts and tried to tell me that her brown eyes she had her whole life had been the real contacts like bffr 💀

[@ageminisun]

girl youve been feeding us with so much content lately, thank u so much!! i love to watch ur stuff while doing house chores, it feels like hanging out with a friend lmao

[@lupedragon]

I LOVE your catfish commentary videos. I've seen all their episodes but when I get home from work your channel is basically my comfort show.

[@emfi16]

@ 19:09 in the vid… unfortunately yes. only difference is usually the parents set up their kid with another random kid who’s being paid (on the DL tho 💀) so cruel lmaooo

[@missbutterlie]

Ive watched these for so long and you just made me realize these are the same type of ppl who as a kod fell in love with fictional characters but like real crushes of the fox from robin hood style. Catfished ppl love "real" fake ppl but theyre not real cuz youve never met and you never will!

[@natyc19]

I hate that people send others money in this show before even meeting them

[@mgr9232]

Imagine living in the same dystopian world as these people bruh I could never

[@TrasshDay]

Girl the way I screamed when this video popped up

[@katelandsteensgard5820]

Oooh ok, I am hooked on your videos this morning, and I love your analysis of little Loyda at the end. So refreshing!

[@Myrathosghost]

Girl you need to look into Fin.Domming xD that would probably be as close to being paid to lie to someone as you could get....

[@phoenixrising4012]

One of my favorite episodes!

[@natyc19]

I immediately know what you meant by the blue contacts being self hatred especially as someone who has brown eyes

[@GetIntoTheBLACK]

That’s what some sugar babies do…they don’t always sleep with the sugar daddies

[@nyarlathotep3640]

I don’t know if people pay to be catfishes but I do know people pay others to just be their friends.

[@kylaren7410]

I’m always so excited when you post. I love your vibe and your content sm! Side eyeing along with you while I sip my coffee this morning. 🖤

[@perseflora]

in an alternate world, catfish is called platypus and the hosts are platyPI

[@moviestargf]

😂 hung up on my friend to watch this ahhh thanks for the new video

[@anaishdz.8724]

PLEASE! cover more episodes of Help! I’m in a secret relationship

[@shamiyab4th]

Does anybody remember the special Catfish episode where they talked about Lloyda's mom in this episode and kept replaying the "WHAT ABOUT RAMOAN😡😡" part😂😂?? Someone, please say they remember!!

[@nicooz6168]

I seriously never get tired of these videos. I would love to see you do the Sparkayla & Marintha episode!

[@aaliyahkorea6294]

I love how your channel and views are growing sis! Keep it up ❤

[@AestheticaWolf]

I hope this one hasn’t been done before on here but I remember there was an episode where the catfish was a lesbian trying to sleep with straight girls and thought the straight girl wouldn’t notice at any point of intimacy

[@jaydahope]

I've covered that one!! It's in my catfish playlist, look for the title that has Bow Wow in it :)

[@Flanclanman]

A Jayda upload is the perfect way to start the day

[@ohhCoOlStOrYbRoO]

“BUT WHAT ABOUT RAMON ?! “ 😒 😂😂😂😂😂 her mom was so dead ass

[@TylaStark]

Once again, your video arrives just in time to help me stay awake through the last of my shift..... I need to sleep better 😂

[@_dustbunny_]

18:52 yes they do, ive had someone give me $300 usd to be their fake gf and i need rent money so i said yes

[@TylaStark]

The Kennie JD clip! Lmfaooo

[@Bones1220]

Lil Lil Jayda you did it again! Great video

[@jaydahope]

I'm screaming💀😭thanks friend!!

[@klyounger1]

I remember watching this live. I think Ramon was trying to find the girl in the pic and hope he had a chance.

[@patscald4]

the way me and my sister still quote "No, not whatever" to this day 😂